THIS 1 THING MIGHT BE SABOTAGING YOUR MARRIAGE

What if the secret to a healthy and fulfilling marriage lies not in grand gestures or constant compromise, but in the very core of how we perceive ourselves? Join us as our CEO and resident psychology expert, Kimberly Beam Holmes, unravels the connection between self-esteem and marriage. Kimberly helps us understand the difference between self-esteem and self-worth, taking us through the seven areas of self-worth identified by researcher Jennifer Crocker. She emphasizes that only three of these areas - family support, virtue, and God's love - are healthy foundations for self-worth.
Our deep-dive into self-esteem doesn't stop at theory. Kimberly demonstrates how self-esteem dynamics can play out in marriage, highlighting the potential harm when we rely on our spouses to fill our need for love and worth. This dependence may lead us into a cycle of altered behaviors and unfair expectations. Yet, there's hope. Kimberly shares insights from her dissertation research on how self-esteem levels can change through interventions. By pausing on our physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual parts of attraction, we can begin to nurture our self-esteem in a healthier manner. Tune in and discover how to strengthen the foundation of your marriage by redefining your self-esteem.
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Self-esteem and its impact on marriages.
3:32 - Self-worth and its impact on marriage.
5:58 - Self-esteem and its impact on relationships.
9:14 - Improving self-esteem for better marriages.
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[@nkrumabyrd]

Please interview couples you've helped that have healed their marriages.

[@ryanbates7259]

Have you seen this one? ua-cam.com/video/HG-LiyBpaL4/v-deo.html

[@kerrymillar1267]

I didn’t have high self esteem before infidelity but never felt so bad about myself as I do after it. It is having an impact on healing, thanks for this video.

[@jeannettedrown7687]

Dr. Beam and Kimberly, you are always encouraging to me and my marriage. Thank you for the work you do.

[@MarriageHelper]

Thank you so much for watching! ❤️

[@pharmclare]

Amazing information. Thank you

[@pharmclare]

Amazing, thank you

[@andrewhaynos4592]

I needed to hear this today. Listened to the podcast on the way into work after a rough couple of days. Thanks for what y'all do.

[@MarriageHelper]

Thank you for listening! We hope that today is better than the last couple of days ❤️

[@pegagonza3784]

I think my self esteem changed and I am in the recovery stage of it

[@jeannettedrown7687]

I also like when you talk about Christianity, like God's love that we don't earn.

[@saylerthompsons4903]

Were can I tell my story about my wife’s infidelity and how it’s affecting me emotionally and physically in hopes that other can possibly get through this process and pain

[@Tony_basketball]

How do you change your self esteem? I been going to church and therapy for about a year and nothing has changed 😢 don’t help hearing my wife throw bad comments

[@manat6059]

where is the "it starts with attraction"podcast link?

[@MarriageHelper]

Right here! www.youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes

[@rene4409]

amen

[@user-hn2xt7wi8o]

Bonjour à vous moi j' ai vraiment mes pires et franches décisions prises par moi même je vais pas être un joué de quique soit et moi je respecte beaucoup l'être humain ok merci encore je ne sabote pas et je sabote personnes respecté moi je vous la rendre fidèlement

[@MarriageHelper]

Merci d'avoir regardé! Nous espérons que votre situation s'améliore et si vous avez besoin de quoi que ce soit, n'hésitez pas à nous contacter sur www.marriagehelper.com ❤️