Why Does the Narcissist's New Supply Get Everything I Wanted | Thriver TV

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  • Narcissists come out of the same cookie-cutter!! (It's incredible how they MOSTLY do the same behavior!)
    Join me for an important LIVE about one of the most PAINFUL aspects of narcissistic abuse - and ONE of the most COMMON!
    Worse than discard, and even replacement …
    THIS …showering the NEW supply with what you wanted!
    Maybe this happened to you years ago, and it STILL hurts like hell … or you are going through this emotional torture now.
    Or, perhaps you are terrified of someone in the future getting the DREAM life you believed you could have with this person.
    If you relate to or know someone who is suffering from this, this is a must-watch Thriver TV episode!
    I trust you will gain great clarity, perspective, and relief!
    Love Mel ❤
    Experience trauma energy clearing to not just survive but Thrive after narcissistic abuse with my Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program™ melanietoniaevans.com/narp

КОМЕНТАРІ • 56

  • @Boyhowdy875
    @Boyhowdy875 2 місяці тому +11

    The most important thing that I ever learned about narcissists is that they will never change. The take away is… Save yourself!

    • @ladyvirgo9514
      @ladyvirgo9514 2 місяці тому

      I agree, same for me

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  2 місяці тому +1

      So true. Nobody changes behaviour unless they change beliefs. Ns don't believe they need to do inner reflection or change! ❤

  • @taghazoutmoon5031
    @taghazoutmoon5031 2 місяці тому +16

    I was the new supply. Found out he destroyed his ex. He didn't treat me any better.

    • @RC-eb5hq
      @RC-eb5hq 2 місяці тому +1

      Mine had an "angry ex-girlfriend"..always a bad sign...but was "good friends" with ex-wife, which threw me. She was on other side of the country tho, so... discovered later that he'd been stringing her along for 20 years, implying they might get back together.

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  2 місяці тому +3

      Correct ... the same pattern over and over 😮

  • @lindaallotey6257
    @lindaallotey6257 2 місяці тому +6

    Melanie thank you.. you are one of the people that opened my eyes to the narcissist and narcissm , you deserve a million followers and likes, keep the good work up, love ❤️ you

    • @redredrubyred9
      @redredrubyred9 2 місяці тому

      Same here Linda, this program changed my life with awareness why I was attracting narcissists from my own place of over caring and neediness.

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you Linda I'm really happy my work has helped you. Much Love and many Blessings to you ❤

  • @amyoverthetop
    @amyoverthetop 2 місяці тому +4

    Yes... It's happening right now.

  • @lesliejohnson9893
    @lesliejohnson9893 28 днів тому +1

    I needed to know this many years ago. I have been dealing with this for over 50 yrs. Here is how it will leave you. 78 yrs old in Sept, 6 months ago had a quadruple bypass and my aorta is at a 4.6cm in size. When the size gets to 5.0cm, it is opening up my chest again. I refuse that as a choice, so if I can keep the stress down will determine how long that I will live. I still get around, much better than most 60 year olds that I know. Still active, installed 2 air condition units a couple months ago.
    I could write a book on this subject.

  • @RC-eb5hq
    @RC-eb5hq 2 місяці тому +4

    TIME FRAME
    Year 1: Love Bombing and promise of marriage.
    Years 2-7: Hoovering and promises to change every time I left
    Year 7: I left for umpteenth time, but this time moved across country
    7 MONTHS after I left: Married to another person he met on-line. Not dating, not engaged, not living together. MARRIED. With "the big, beautiful diamond ring" that I never received...even after helping him through his career changes, his mother's cancer, her death, cleaning out her house...Basically "playing role of wife". Amazing how the hoovering suddenly ended once I was "geographically undesireable". What a great guy. 🙄

    • @Charleen-nb9yu
      @Charleen-nb9yu 2 місяці тому

      I feel for ya. Similar situation here, but we can always do better and we did, right?

    • @shebasan13
      @shebasan13 Місяць тому

      Count your blessings you got far away!!! You are strong and claiming your own power…that is awesome!
      They are truly parasites that cannot live or even truly care about anyone…. We were all just accessories to them ..nothing more

  • @amyoverthetop
    @amyoverthetop 2 місяці тому +5

    THRIVE ON.

  • @nancyadams4358
    @nancyadams4358 2 місяці тому +2

    It’s a dance we were taught to go along to get along….. I now focus on my heart and what’s healing with in me. Love you dear Woman Mel for helping me on my way🫶

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  2 місяці тому +1

      You so have! Healed, survived, and then Thrived! Love you, Dear Nancy! 😘😘

  • @tamaramcnabb1256
    @tamaramcnabb1256 10 днів тому

    Thrive on!

  • @redredrubyred9
    @redredrubyred9 2 місяці тому +1

    The NARP program really helped me learn so much about myself and it has been over 5 years. I could not care less about that narcissist or who he is or isnt with! such a relief. These videos are great " touch ups" ... BTW: cute cheerful outfit Melanie.

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  2 місяці тому +1

      I'm so thrilled NARP www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp has helped you so much! Glad you are enjoying TTV coming back. Grateful too for your lovely comment ❤

  • @minzasjourney2367
    @minzasjourney2367 20 днів тому

    THRIVE ON❤

  • @Charleen-nb9yu
    @Charleen-nb9yu 2 місяці тому +2

    My ex of 11 yrs is now engaged to the new supply after he cheated but convinced himself he didn't. After a lot of pain and work, I'm back to myself!!!!!!

  • @pattirowe
    @pattirowe Місяць тому

    My ex narc's new supply is more controllable than I was ...neither of them looked happy despite the act

  • @irenapetrov9482
    @irenapetrov9482 12 днів тому

    I am so glad I learn about narcissism through Sam Vaknin . He is right about all coaches and specialists about narcissism.

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me Місяць тому

    Yes...literally chased him down the drive

  • @user-fx3sj1vf5q
    @user-fx3sj1vf5q 14 днів тому

    My ex narc husband abandoned me leaving me with a child, now adult child with a disability. Almost 20 years and he’s still with the same supply, and doesn’t help financially with our son

  • @ladyvirgo9514
    @ladyvirgo9514 2 місяці тому +2

    Spot on Wisdom you shared here. Heal On Survivors & Thrivers

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me Місяць тому

    Thrive on

  • @sagadut6371
    @sagadut6371 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for this. ❤

  • @paulinefourie1103
    @paulinefourie1103 2 місяці тому

    Thrive on🤩

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me Місяць тому

    Yes

  • @sallyjane9111
    @sallyjane9111 20 днів тому

    Thrive

  • @Charleen-nb9yu
    @Charleen-nb9yu 2 місяці тому +1

    Ty so much for this episode!!!

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me Місяць тому

    Me. Hands up

  • @Naturehealingperspectives33
    @Naturehealingperspectives33 2 місяці тому

    I'd love the Intel on the narc I was dating when it ended he ran into a love relationship with his therapist and they are making their relationship very public! So sick. I wonder who is manipulating who!

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  2 місяці тому

      Many therapists have fallen for n's. They believe the "it was ny ex who had all the issues" narrative and are love bombed and charmed. I've also had therapists this has happened too who have been n-abused come firward to start NARP healing. It's all the same pattern. Many therapists are wounded healers. Relief from this and healing from abusers requires self inner healing. ❤

  • @amyoverthetop
    @amyoverthetop 2 місяці тому

    And yes - they did it with me. I did not understand while it was happening.

  • @nicolagrace3667
    @nicolagrace3667 2 місяці тому

    Thrive on!! ❤

  • @RC-eb5hq
    @RC-eb5hq 2 місяці тому

    THRIVE ON!!!

  • @natasharichard3900
    @natasharichard3900 Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Confessions089
    @Confessions089 2 місяці тому

    Why do you even care?

    • @ladyvirgo9514
      @ladyvirgo9514 2 місяці тому +1

      The information helps people heal, especially from long term exposure to these toxic people. Ultimately, indifference comes with healing

  • @jaslyn5501
    @jaslyn5501 2 місяці тому +1

    Thrive on

  • @Charleen-nb9yu
    @Charleen-nb9yu 2 місяці тому

    Yes

  • @annbouchard6564
    @annbouchard6564 2 місяці тому

    Thrive on