I love the honest truth! So many people only show the “glamorous” side to writing which doesn’t help anyone who is starting off. And I totally agree on the debt thing, which is why I enjoy writers who show the real costs of publishing. Great video!
Can definitely relate with your dreams evolving over time, evolving in a way you NEVER thought they would. It makes me so sad for the people who want to pursue their dreams and they're in mega credit card debt in order to make it all happen!
It’s such a journey and I love it 🥰!! And yeah the debt thing is rough, and I feel like it’s super pervasive in self publishing because the authors have to bear the cost! But like credit card debt is the worst and I definitely learnt that the hard way haha
Love a good dose of reality 🙌☺️ The last one is especially true. So often we look at others’ writing journeys and expect/pursue a similar path, but literally every one of us has (and will have) a different experience. Accepting that means we can focus on our own unique opportunities!
Agreed 100%!! It's so funny because, I feel like I logically knew this right from the get-go, but found out real quick that while logically I knew this to be true, emotionally was a whole different story! Took a long time to learn how to focus on my own journey (and I'm still learning)! Thanks so much for your comment
I agree with all of this! Especially how much stuff following your passions puts into perspective for you... I realized that I actually care SO little about my day job that it's kind of shocking to me lol! I do try to care, though. It does pay the bills, after all.
The putting things into perspective shift is crazy isn't it! Like one day you think you care about something and then the next you realize how insignificant it is!! Thank you so much for your comment :D
I also realised how little I care about my office job, too. I feel guilty saying it, but if I spend most of my time there dreaming about writing, there's an issue.
Definitely related to much of this! I haven't taken the full leap to turning my passions into a business, only small steps. The imposter syndrome is definitely strong, I think especially in creative fields!
I wonder why it is so pervasive in creative fields, because your so right! Perhaps because our field is so subjective? I don't know! But thanks so much for your comment Leila, really appreciate it and glad you enjoyed :D
@@KeylinVLOGS As a nonfiction writer, I turned down many book ideas I had out of Impostor Syndrome. I felt that without a degree, I would not be taken seriously compared to those who had studied the topic for years. It wasn't until I read an excellent article from Write Nonfiction Now that I changed my view: the writer said that in writing regularly, a nonfiction writer becomes a subject area expert on an issue. That has helped dilute my Impostor Syndrome.
I definitely agree with your time with friends and such will suffer, there's been plenty of times that I had to not hang with friends as much and such because I was because working on my side gigs and passions. But I definitely think its worth pursing it all in the end, and it makes the time hanging and relaxing after getting that work done all the more satisfying.
I have been trying to transition to a full time reporting position for a while but it's so difficult. I have a full time job as a communications manager but my dream is to pursue hard core journalism. I think the one thing i remind myself constantly is there is no substitute for patience and perseverance and that just because it is taking time doesn't mean it won't happen. It still gets difficult but I keep trying and pushing. Your video was v helpful!! 🌺🌺🌺
Most important video I have watched today-- and the last few weeks. Can't believe I missed this! My dream is being a full-time author of French-language books. What have I done to pursue this? This video made me realise how weak my effort has been, because I keep trying to keep ahold of other activities and ambitions which honestly do not fulfill me as much as they used to. I even sometimes question whether I have the right ambition. The advice in this video is excellent. Will be watching this (and sharing) multiple times, so that I can adapt my ideas a little at a time. Made loads of notes while watching already. Thanks, Keylin!
Right? It sounds so simple but I have the habit of waking up (around 6 or 7 AM) and scrolling for 5 minutes in bed first thing! I'm gradually trying to work my way up to 11AM no-phone (with the exception of turning off my alarm), but it will take time!
@@KeylinVLOGS I am going to copy that rule, because my bedtime scrolling habits are atrocious. Granted, I do watch useful videos and read useful articles, but constant scrolling interrupts my sleep.
My dreams turned goals are to publish books both in English and Spanish and to be a hybrid author. I’m slowly working towards those goals. Besides the writing and all the research I gotta do for both I’ve been looking at my lifestyle and see where I’m spending too much. Cutting those expenses and allocating that money for book related expenses is another way I’m working towards my goals.
Whoa that's super cool! Are you planning on writing different stories in each language or translating one book to both? Either way, that is so cool! I've also been looking and my life and cutting--recently loaned out my car (that I have rarely used in the past two years since I took public transit to work pre-COVID) to help lower the expenses. I recognize that I was in a super fortunate situation though, where I no longer needed it, and close family member just got the news their car was un-reparable due to mechanical issues. So we came to a mutually beneficial agreement. Honestly though, it was such a weight off because I'd been carrying that monthly expense for two years (I desperately needed it before though, which is why I had it). I completely recognize how lucky I am in this situation though, timing and good fortune was certainly on my side!
@@KeylinVLOGS I have stories that come to me in one language so that’s how I’m going to proceed with it. I thought about doing the translation too but at the same time I know great translators who could do it and I could free that translation time to write. My other biggest life style change is going back to live with my mom. Mainly she needs the help since she is elderly and it would cut down my expenses almost in half. I’m doing what I can to make it possible without getting into debt.
@@esthermarieandujar I completely understand what you say about the story coming to you in one language. I have the same thing with French. Personally, I am useless at translation (something which came as a shock to me, because I have tutored French for many years), so I would definitely hire a professional translator.
@@Musicienne-DAB1995 Im not bad at translation but I feels thats time I can use to write new stories. Plus if I can give work to friends that already have better knowledge and experience even better!
I’m currently trying to write a novel and trying to launch it on Amazon’s KDP. But I’ve had some issues and have tried to do things differently than I used to before. For example I’m now plotting and outlining a book when before I would just sit down and write. Also I have discovered Seth Godwin who speaks a lot about imposter syndrome and he says imposter syndrome is a good thing. You should do a research here eon UA-cam to see what he says. It’s interesting.
Congrats on your upcoming novel, that's awesome! And yeah, switching up a writing routine can be super useful for figuring out what works for you/what doesn't. I would also agree that imposter syndrome is good, or at least it serves its purpose! Thanks so much for your comment and watching :D
Hard truth: I had to film this video TWICE because the lighting sucked the first time around 😞
I love the honest truth! So many people only show the “glamorous” side to writing which doesn’t help anyone who is starting off. And I totally agree on the debt thing, which is why I enjoy writers who show the real costs of publishing. Great video!
Can definitely relate with your dreams evolving over time, evolving in a way you NEVER thought they would. It makes me so sad for the people who want to pursue their dreams and they're in mega credit card debt in order to make it all happen!
It’s such a journey and I love it 🥰!! And yeah the debt thing is rough, and I feel like it’s super pervasive in self publishing because the authors have to bear the cost! But like credit card debt is the worst and I definitely learnt that the hard way haha
"Your health will suffer." Yes.. THIS!
It’s brutal but it’s so true!
Love a good dose of reality 🙌☺️ The last one is especially true. So often we look at others’ writing journeys and expect/pursue a similar path, but literally every one of us has (and will have) a different experience. Accepting that means we can focus on our own unique opportunities!
Agreed 100%!! It's so funny because, I feel like I logically knew this right from the get-go, but found out real quick that while logically I knew this to be true, emotionally was a whole different story! Took a long time to learn how to focus on my own journey (and I'm still learning)! Thanks so much for your comment
I agree with all of this! Especially how much stuff following your passions puts into perspective for you... I realized that I actually care SO little about my day job that it's kind of shocking to me lol! I do try to care, though. It does pay the bills, after all.
The putting things into perspective shift is crazy isn't it! Like one day you think you care about something and then the next you realize how insignificant it is!! Thank you so much for your comment :D
I also realised how little I care about my office job, too. I feel guilty saying it, but if I spend most of my time there dreaming about writing, there's an issue.
Definitely related to much of this! I haven't taken the full leap to turning my passions into a business, only small steps. The imposter syndrome is definitely strong, I think especially in creative fields!
I wonder why it is so pervasive in creative fields, because your so right! Perhaps because our field is so subjective? I don't know!
But thanks so much for your comment Leila, really appreciate it and glad you enjoyed :D
@@KeylinVLOGS As a nonfiction writer, I turned down many book ideas I had out of Impostor Syndrome. I felt that without a degree, I would not be taken seriously compared to those who had studied the topic for years. It wasn't until I read an excellent article from Write Nonfiction Now that I changed my view: the writer said that in writing regularly, a nonfiction writer becomes a subject area expert on an issue. That has helped dilute my Impostor Syndrome.
I definitely agree with your time with friends and such will suffer, there's been plenty of times that I had to not hang with friends as much and such because I was because working on my side gigs and passions. But I definitely think its worth pursing it all in the end, and it makes the time hanging and relaxing after getting that work done all the more satisfying.
I must say those baked goods look delicious! Life can’t be that bad with such yummy food :))
Hahah thanks Cristian! Dinner was delicious!
I have been trying to transition to a full time reporting position for a while but it's so difficult. I have a full time job as a communications manager but my dream is to pursue hard core journalism. I think the one thing i remind myself constantly is there is no substitute for patience and perseverance and that just because it is taking time doesn't mean it won't happen. It still gets difficult but I keep trying and pushing. Your video was v helpful!! 🌺🌺🌺
Most important video I have watched today-- and the last few weeks. Can't believe I missed this! My dream is being a full-time author of French-language books. What have I done to pursue this? This video made me realise how weak my effort has been, because I keep trying to keep ahold of other activities and ambitions which honestly do not fulfill me as much as they used to. I even sometimes question whether I have the right ambition. The advice in this video is excellent. Will be watching this (and sharing) multiple times, so that I can adapt my ideas a little at a time. Made loads of notes while watching already. Thanks, Keylin!
Great stuff, lots of truth happening. Tip: build a team best choice I've made on the writing journey.
this video was exactly what I needed today.
So glad you found it helpful!
Hahah “no phone before 9am” sounds so easy..but no! It’s 7am, and yet here I am.
Right? It sounds so simple but I have the habit of waking up (around 6 or 7 AM) and scrolling for 5 minutes in bed first thing! I'm gradually trying to work my way up to 11AM no-phone (with the exception of turning off my alarm), but it will take time!
@@KeylinVLOGS I am going to copy that rule, because my bedtime scrolling habits are atrocious. Granted, I do watch useful videos and read useful articles, but constant scrolling interrupts my sleep.
My dreams turned goals are to publish books both in English and Spanish and to be a hybrid author. I’m slowly working towards those goals. Besides the writing and all the research I gotta do for both I’ve been looking at my lifestyle and see where I’m spending too much. Cutting those expenses and allocating that money for book related expenses is another way I’m working towards my goals.
Whoa that's super cool! Are you planning on writing different stories in each language or translating one book to both? Either way, that is so cool! I've also been looking and my life and cutting--recently loaned out my car (that I have rarely used in the past two years since I took public transit to work pre-COVID) to help lower the expenses. I recognize that I was in a super fortunate situation though, where I no longer needed it, and close family member just got the news their car was un-reparable due to mechanical issues. So we came to a mutually beneficial agreement. Honestly though, it was such a weight off because I'd been carrying that monthly expense for two years (I desperately needed it before though, which is why I had it). I completely recognize how lucky I am in this situation though, timing and good fortune was certainly on my side!
@@KeylinVLOGS I have stories that come to me in one language so that’s how I’m going to proceed with it. I thought about doing the translation too but at the same time I know great translators who could do it and I could free that translation time to write.
My other biggest life style change is going back to live with my mom. Mainly she needs the help since she is elderly and it would cut down my expenses almost in half.
I’m doing what I can to make it possible without getting into debt.
Yay! Another foreign language writer! I want to publish in English and French. Good luck to you!
@@esthermarieandujar I completely understand what you say about the story coming to you in one language. I have the same thing with French. Personally, I am useless at translation (something which came as a shock to me, because I have tutored French for many years), so I would definitely hire a professional translator.
@@Musicienne-DAB1995 Im not bad at translation but I feels thats time I can use to write new stories. Plus if I can give work to friends that already have better knowledge and experience even better!
I’m currently trying to write a novel and trying to launch it on Amazon’s KDP. But I’ve had some issues and have tried to do things differently than I used to before. For example I’m now plotting and outlining a book when before I would just sit down and write. Also I have discovered Seth Godwin who speaks a lot about imposter syndrome and he says imposter syndrome is a good thing. You should do a research here eon UA-cam to see what he says. It’s interesting.
Congrats on your upcoming novel, that's awesome! And yeah, switching up a writing routine can be super useful for figuring out what works for you/what doesn't. I would also agree that imposter syndrome is good, or at least it serves its purpose! Thanks so much for your comment and watching :D