I felt as if I was dying inside after I had my first daughter & I slipped into a depression - Dakore

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  • Опубліковано 27 сер 2024

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  • @chidifrancisca8075
    @chidifrancisca8075 Рік тому +180

    If you haven't passed through it or you are not passing through it. You won't understand what she is talking about. Most of us women are there or have been there. For people who can't pay for therapy, keep talking to yourself positively no matter how down you feel. Everything will be fine. 💪💪

    • @adaokonkwo1237
      @adaokonkwo1237 Рік тому +1

      ❤️

    • @amutuheirerahumat2019
      @amutuheirerahumat2019 Рік тому +2

      True me i realised after surviving oxygen and Tested Anemia ,u feel ur mind is not focusing for God's sake only mature people and God can understand that situation

    • @muibatoladapo-akinruli4722
      @muibatoladapo-akinruli4722 Рік тому

    • @idahosadiamond4268
      @idahosadiamond4268 Рік тому +11

      So me ryt now, just few days ago was telling myself I feel like I'm no longer me anymore a lot just change like am stock in one place because of motherhood, but I'm going to come out strong and better

    • @Chi976
      @Chi976 Рік тому +1

      @@idahosadiamond4268 Stay strong darling

  • @chitobiobaku7831
    @chitobiobaku7831 Рік тому +64

    Is it just me who think Dakore and Chimamanda have the same look? Thanks for sharing your story Sis, I'm glad people are speaking up on depression

  • @adeolaakinsanya
    @adeolaakinsanya Рік тому +103

    For women with dreams or career, once you give birth and are forced to stay at home, you begin to feel useless. You can't just be your real self... I couldn't wait to go back to work after giving birth because I felt I was stagnant. I wasn't doing what I loved.
    I fully understand all she's saying although I wasn't depressed
    I just had a longing that I wanted to satisfy

    • @ryanerhahon9257
      @ryanerhahon9257 Рік тому

      True, that's exactly how I feel right now. I can't wait to start working again. I feel like I have lost myself this past couple of years. I can totally relate with her

  • @fab_floo6737
    @fab_floo6737 Рік тому +9

    Postpartum depression is such a big deal but often overlooked in our community. From the heavy tears, to sleep apnea episodes and just feeling so miserable, I think it’s high time we draw more attention to this.

  • @kwaghdooatsehe
    @kwaghdooatsehe Рік тому +29

    Dakore is really in a class of her own, rushed here to watch her immediately I saw this preview. Love her

  • @tounajibade6409
    @tounajibade6409 Рік тому +33

    Dakore in a class of her own, you rock always!

  • @gloriaukay392
    @gloriaukay392 Рік тому +12

    This is the main reason for Omugwo in igboland,thats why we take it seriously, even your food is cooked differently, you dont just eat anyhow,you get the needed help while u heal postpartum, breastfeeding helps to release all the oxytocin to help your womb snap back.

  • @olami9
    @olami9 Рік тому +15

    My beautiful Dakore, my all time favorite Nollywood actress hope you’re feeling well and better 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @rosykimberly9091
    @rosykimberly9091 Рік тому +8

    She is sooo beautiful! See how she speaks!!

  • @PatriciaPatricia_
    @PatriciaPatricia_ Рік тому +27

    I thoroughly enjoy listening to older women speak their truths. Makes life make just a little bit more sense. Thank you for this interview!

  • @mbiinsomahfelicity5974
    @mbiinsomahfelicity5974 Рік тому +23

    My favorite person...I just love this woman!

  • @jayohwhy
    @jayohwhy Рік тому +18

    I have been there and gradually finding my way out. God bless you for sharing your story with us. There are some issues you just don't know how to explain to anyone who hasn't experienced it, and this is one of them.

  • @chidinmakalu1191
    @chidinmakalu1191 Рік тому +7

    Thank God people are talking about these things now. God bless you foe speaking out

  • @thetimo_
    @thetimo_ Рік тому +5

    Very profound lesson here!
    Loosing oneself can lead to depression. I suffered same when I couldn’t do the very thing I love to do for a space of 2yrs. Thank God for His healing 🙏

  • @deed3999
    @deed3999 Рік тому +23

    I've been there, thanks to Chude some issues can be addressed, and tks to her to be speaking up boldly about it

  • @warwleedoe2325
    @warwleedoe2325 Рік тому +9

    Postpartum depression is the real issue that needs serious attention

    • @mummykandsons
      @mummykandsons Рік тому +2

      Worst in the western world with little or no support and the few around don't even understand. God help us

  • @ewuosoblessing3149
    @ewuosoblessing3149 Рік тому +7

    Beautiful interview our own Dakore Akande.
    Thank God for bringing you out of depression and making you a lovely wife and mother.
    Your marriage is blessed forever our Amazon.
    Thumbs up Chude, thank you for this exclusive interview.
    Warm regards from
    Blessing Ewuoso
    Abeokuta,
    Ogun State.

  • @tolulopeodebiyi4894
    @tolulopeodebiyi4894 Рік тому +1

    I experienced this 2different times for my 2kids. I struggled and came out of it with little help. As much as I would want to still have 1more child the trauma of that experience is still in there and I don't want to do that again. I pray for any1 going through this at the moment that may God see you through it and pls speak out, help might be soo close than you think

  • @odudunelly9256
    @odudunelly9256 Рік тому +3

    It also happened to me,and my case is was so bad,getting married relocating to another state,trying to gain balanced stopped what i was doinh be4 marriage had a baby had twice lost one staying with one was very thankful to God for not leaving empty handed, inlaws pressure it was terrible, i lost my look confidence i almost want to run out of the marriage. Infact will tell the full story some day hopefully on this show. But then again am not a celebrity 😅

  • @nwabuezeamuta2801
    @nwabuezeamuta2801 Рік тому +3

    I can definitely relate to what Dakore went through. Going through that now.

  • @kingamar8780
    @kingamar8780 Рік тому +10

    Madam Dakore Very Classy & Lovely

  • @zobasworld4689
    @zobasworld4689 Рік тому +9

    Chude thanks for bringing this pretty Queen to share with us her experience.

  • @bgsonsthriving.
    @bgsonsthriving. Рік тому +7

    Love her forever beautiful Dakore ❤❤❤

  • @chineloceline3423
    @chineloceline3423 Рік тому +2

    Love Dakore any time any day. Nice interviews. Thanks Chude

  • @baronesslizzy8428
    @baronesslizzy8428 Рік тому +9

    Love this. DISCOVER YOUR PURPOSE. Thank you Dakore and Chude ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @fatymaamune2603
    @fatymaamune2603 Рік тому +2

    This is me right now. Oh lord help me through this phase.

  • @bedinabebe4521
    @bedinabebe4521 Рік тому +1

    God Bless You Beautiful Dakore because this will probably save many Mothers, also because YOU deserve all the blessings and well being.
    😘🤗Awareness of Vital Pivital moments💞

  • @lorettaokodua2695
    @lorettaokodua2695 Рік тому +23

    what women go through is a lot ! yet society expects a lot from us

  • @zayasnaturalhairhaven3451
    @zayasnaturalhairhaven3451 Рік тому +2

    I have never had children but I slipped into depression after I had a surgery for an appendix removal. I didn't know that I had to undergo counseling so I could understand what was happening to my body.

  • @florenceflourish6367
    @florenceflourish6367 Рік тому +3

    See my favorite actress oo.....Nice to see you Here Mrs Dakore Akande.

  • @titilopeoyelere4267
    @titilopeoyelere4267 Рік тому +2

    This is really enlightening, I wish you the best Dakore

  • @tk88mayowa6
    @tk88mayowa6 Рік тому +6

    Beautiful as always ❤️ 💖 💕

  • @lprince7663
    @lprince7663 Рік тому +7

    I am so glad you got help, and I pray you're feeling better and praying for you and your family.
    I looovvveee everything you act in. ❤❤🙏🙏

  • @reviews_withgina
    @reviews_withgina 8 місяців тому

    Lovely interview. Dakore nailed it 👍.

  • @ubongobot947
    @ubongobot947 Рік тому +2

    One of my best actresses……happy she is doing well

  • @oma7698
    @oma7698 Рік тому +5

    Good to have this conversation. African women may find themselves experiencing post partum depression but surrounded by family who are not aware of what the condition is. These traditionalists may try to ‘snap’ you out of it or they may lose patience and get upset with you. Knowledge is power. Speak to your healthcare provider or a trusted loved one about how you are feeling. You are not going crazy, PPD is a real medical condition. Don’t keep it to yourself. Even just acknowledging that your body has gone through some major changes to create another human and that you need care to recover can help as you will be giving yourself permission to drop your Superwoman cape and heal. Talking about it with experienced mothers or healthcare professionals can lighten the burden while your body and mind recover. It’s like having a broken leg. If you don’t let it heal and keep standing on it, it may not heal well. If you give it the rest it needs, you help the recovery process. This too shall pass and your joy shall be renewed

  • @lifelessonswithqueenbillion
    @lifelessonswithqueenbillion Рік тому +15

    Errrrrr because I have a purpose?!❤

  • @zeea6507
    @zeea6507 Рік тому +2

    So great that people are speaking up more nowadays. Never loss yourself but easier said than done.

  • @binshi.talmon
    @binshi.talmon Рік тому +6

    Ahh women it is well with us oo. Kudos to my Chude 🤗

  • @diamondemelda2884
    @diamondemelda2884 Рік тому +3

    Amazing personality.

  • @focusrelentlessly8829
    @focusrelentlessly8829 Рік тому +6

    oh i love this lady. cos of her i started keeping dreads

    • @khadhrikhan1549
      @khadhrikhan1549 Рік тому

      Please let's call it locks, there is nothing dreadful about our hair😊
      I actually started my sisterlocks 4 years ago and absolutely love the journey.

  • @ginahateka7589
    @ginahateka7589 Рік тому +6

    Hmmmm this is my story, just married, gave birth and as even am lost in the desert still trying to wake myself up 😢😅😅

    • @Suzyswizy
      @Suzyswizy Рік тому +2

      It's going to get better. Pace yourself. Sending you hugs 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

    • @florenceakintan4113
      @florenceakintan4113 Рік тому +1

      Hey Gina. It's a phase that won't last forever. Ensure you are talking to someone. Cheer up!

    • @bankysCorner
      @bankysCorner Рік тому

      It's a necessary phase, but will be okay as time passes by. Can be overwhelming really.

    • @worldcitizen7773
      @worldcitizen7773 Рік тому

      Please, see a therapist and pray!

  • @beea.9435
    @beea.9435 Рік тому +4

    Evergreen = Dakore ❤❤❤

  • @ayodeleadenugaonakoya4513
    @ayodeleadenugaonakoya4513 Рік тому

    I enjoyed this video. Dakore thank you so much for sharing.

  • @passiontv5251
    @passiontv5251 Рік тому

    What a good interview. Very educative from a career woman

  • @pheobejacques8449
    @pheobejacques8449 Рік тому

    One of my favourite nigerian actress 😊

  • @truthislife4387
    @truthislife4387 Рік тому

    GOD bless u Chude;i relax and watch u and i like yr simplicity,do u know Obiamaka Jideonwo pls;

  • @anekechizoba1515
    @anekechizoba1515 Рік тому

    The same thing happened to me and I would not like it to happen to me again.

  • @Debby142
    @Debby142 Рік тому

    Lord, so I will go through this one day 😔.

  • @flawlessstone7669
    @flawlessstone7669 Рік тому

    I still love this lady ❤ ❤

  • @laughoncomedy2923
    @laughoncomedy2923 Рік тому

    Great 👍 video I love ❤️ My Dankore Egbuson Akande ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @faithoyinkin8541
    @faithoyinkin8541 Рік тому +1

    Please part 2

  • @ObinnaIlochonwu-zg9jz
    @ObinnaIlochonwu-zg9jz Рік тому +1

    You're gonna run out of celebrities, interview the everyday average Nigerian, their stories need to be showcased too. Good work.

  • @247tonytipon
    @247tonytipon Рік тому +3

    I love her excessively 😍😍💯👌

  • @comfortugorji7568
    @comfortugorji7568 Рік тому +1

    Funny as it sounds I think Dakore and Chimamanda look so much alike

  • @ekeblessing2543
    @ekeblessing2543 Рік тому +1

    I can very much relate...

  • @thankfulforlife
    @thankfulforlife Рік тому +9

    Hmmn! Typical. Do women ever prepare for these things? Thanks to you two.

  • @ubaowhotu5460
    @ubaowhotu5460 Рік тому +2

    Lovely interview, motherhood can be overwhelming. D is one of the dying breed of decent women in the industry...glad you're back to what you love doing...nothing lost.

  • @amamintaah7064
    @amamintaah7064 Рік тому

    Woooow my favorite sweetest woman ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @gerried1218
    @gerried1218 Рік тому

    I have 3 kids. I always look forward to the birth of my babiesbut after birth I always experience this sudden sadness which last for.a.couple of weeks.or months. I know its postpartum depression

  • @katherineisaiah8767
    @katherineisaiah8767 Рік тому +1

    Going through this

  • @memshortie3847
    @memshortie3847 Рік тому

    Dakore is very classy.

  • @lilianonabu1903
    @lilianonabu1903 Рік тому +5

    I thought they said her husband family said she can’t be acting again after marriage?

    • @chichikekeocha5264
      @chichikekeocha5264 Рік тому +6

      I read something similar then but I think she fought back.

    • @nnenniaifepe5073
      @nnenniaifepe5073 Рік тому +2

      @lilian Onabu, bloggers will write anything to gain traffic.

  • @someonespecial581
    @someonespecial581 Рік тому

    There's Post Partum Psychosis as well.

  • @mariamquarshie3262
    @mariamquarshie3262 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤love you

  • @cygwanfogbe246
    @cygwanfogbe246 Рік тому +1

    Sometimes I am shy/afraid to admit! I currently face this challenge PPD.

    • @CoachSemaj
      @CoachSemaj Рік тому

      Sorry to hear it. If you need someone to talk to who won't judge you and will help you out of the state you are in, please reach out to a coach or therapist. Talking about it will help you navigate through your emotions.

    • @teemaximizing9594
      @teemaximizing9594 Рік тому

      How are you doing now? I hope you have spoken to someone else mature about it and you are getting help. Also do more praise and worship it helps. Blessings. Just thought to comment. Don't be afraid at all. Get help, confide in someone trusted. Talk to God to help you.

    • @omowumiowoeye7898
      @omowumiowoeye7898 Місяць тому

      Hope you're better now. Try to speak to someone about it and I pray you get help.

  • @chineduonyesoro3388
    @chineduonyesoro3388 Рік тому

    I almost thought it was chimamanda Adichie at my first view

  • @mimieno
    @mimieno Рік тому

    ❤️ her

  • @felicekiki5559
    @felicekiki5559 Рік тому

    This your UA-cam channel that you dont put the entire episode, no thanks

  • @jenjen4091
    @jenjen4091 Рік тому

    💕

  • @unique6449
    @unique6449 Рік тому

    ❤️🙌💯

  • @jessicarice5974
    @jessicarice5974 Рік тому +5

    Too much English is mental health

  • @AmakaN.
    @AmakaN. Рік тому +1

    4:17 is exactly how every person should keep feeling. Have a purpose. It’s true , everything with marriage n childbirth changes a woman , the return to ‘self’ is always challenging. I’ve been there
    🤍