I'd like to thank everyone who has supported the channel! This is the first video on JasmineTTV to reach 100K views! There's been A LOT of positive feedback (Thank You! 🙌🏾 ), and some not-so-positive feedback (Y'all will be alright 💁🏾 ). I encourage everyone to check out my follow-up videos to see how I changed my mindset while living in Korea. I arrived thirsty lmao, but I learned some lessons. Either way, I wouldn't change any of it because I look back on this and laugh every time. May y'all have a blessed one, and we all are able to look back on ourselves & laugh from time to time. ❤️
Yooo! I love hearing this story! Wow! And where are you from by the way!? I don't see a lot of southerners that gave moved to Korea! I am from Alabama and will move there this August!
Jasmine T TV I was wondering actually how things would evolve because it seemed that you came with very American habits and it could only go wrong! 😆😆😆 Very happy to read your update comment, off to check your recent videos. Moving to another country successfully definitely means a change of mindset.
TheSwoleBroscientist as if you don’t judge women on weight and looks, it’s pretty obvious by your remarks that you do. (I’m a guy too, but pull your shit together.)
I don't understand why so many young women think men are different across the globe. Men are the same everywhere. There are simply a lot of trolls out there.
i used tinder in japan its very different from guys in america! they are very respectful in tokyo ^-^ you just need a good profile stating what you're looking for ;p
drmayesmt .... probably because people keep claiming (i.e. lying) *"their men are better"* (in their country) until you experience it first hand, obviously .....cuz we all know people don't lie, obviously... wtf lol Cuz clearly that never happens ... oh wait nearly every country claims that lie, shocker. *You know, like when people claim their country isn't racist* 😂😂😂 suuuuurrrreeee it isn't *OBVIOUSLY*
Nick-E Nicole Everywhere that was even remotely touched by colonialism has racist elements. As for the men, when we're young our romantic hearts want to find those great guys to settle down with and perhaps raise families. If the men of other countries were so great, there wouldn't be divorce rates or domestic abuse stats or abandoned children. Whether we accept it or not, many of us go around with " rose" colored glasses on. We become disillusioned with our men and seek love based on fairy tales from books or movies from other places. It's an understandable response to the vitriol heaped upon us by our own men and displayed for the world to see in media. The remedy is to not only be confident in ourselves , but to take off the glasses and see men for who and what they are. While still taking in cultural differences, test these foreign dudes as you test American dudes. There's no need to be angry. It is what it is and men are who they are. The world is still a great place filled with attractive men. Date them on your terms not their's. It's not cool to appear to be a "thirsty "chick anywhere. As long as you remember all men are the same you can have a great time. Dramas and romantic songs are figments of writers imagination and not real life. Have fun, keep it light and be safe.
Cant relate ! Dating on this kind of shitty apps specially Tinder and being shooked by their behavior it's like putting your hand in fire and get shooked cause it's hot ! 🙄
@Eva Eve P These men are wild! Like when did they think that what they were saying was a good pickup line? Now I know why they're on a dating website. No game to speak of, and they're freak nasties.
As a fellow Italian girl I can frankly say: 50% fuck boys 50% unhygienic disgusting weirdos Like, I can't make this shit up. I've never ever seen a decent Italian dude and I've been traveling through Italy since I'm 3.
Imo using a dating app to find a serious partner is like trying to find a ring after dropping it into the ocean. Most people sign up to dating sites for a bit of fun which is why I personally avoid dating sites at all costs
finally some common sense. There's nothing wrong with looking for relationship, in Korea or whatever country your feet set in, but NOT thru dating app.
green koko-yea but that's what u do in ur 60's, not in the PRIME of ur life, get out and meet people the ole school way, and forget the apps. Life is 2 short, you'll be old before you know it. And then u will have no choice, but to sit and watch Netflix in ur PJ's. Sipping on Warm Milk and cookies, all by ur damn self....smfh
That's so depressing is that really the majority of what natives of those countries do😦? Though I do know there is good just that the bad also stands out.😌
@@queenpin524 First of all he isn't white and second it's very ignorant of you make an assumption about a whole country you've never been to and have probably never met anyone from there. It's like me saying Black Americans are thieves, lazy, complain a lot and can never do anything for themselves based on the news I've heard from FOX. Is that fair? You for one are not only ignorant but arrogant because you generalized the whole West Africa which mind you is part of a continent not a fucking country. Speaking as if there are no female black American, white, any other race as a matter of fact, scammers. In every people there are good and bad people. Please learn before you speak, your ignorance says a lot about you. Oh and don't get me started about status and money. I'm sure you know Nigerian men and people in general are generous spenders. They have more people leaching on them than them leaching on. Again learn before you speak.
True. The pay gap is still going strong. Any man would have to work really hard at earning less than a woman - salary-wise. Always assume he is at least making 20% more than you. He can afford to travel to you. Question is: do you want him to know where you live...? 🤔 ps: hate the auto-correct on my phone.
_"I ain't never had nobody swerve into another language on me-"_ *And subbed...* I just choked on my tea laughing at that. That was a harsh L there but man does that make for a funny story. :)
Girl, I needed to hear this on Valentine’s Day because I’m sitting here alone thinking maybe I’m better off right now! I love your attitude! You’ll have to find a guy who doesn’t drink though...
I really think it's the type of app though. Even though you can get "played" in 1 way or another ANOTHER via all dating apps, I'd feel much better being "played" via a more reputable app, if I just had to use an app, (no disrespect) which I DON'T (too many horror stories)!! I understand that you were in a new (different) place where you didn't know many ppl in that capacity-trust me, I get it, but..... Those really would've been blood red flags for me though. Hopefully, since I'm so late to the party, you've learned (experienced) a little more, (& just as harmless) & also taken heed from those giving advice who love & care for you (experience is everyone's best teacher). God bless.
i love how you talk so real about your experiences ! most (not all) other youtubers living in korea talking about their experiences usually sugar coat them to make korea and their people still seem like saints lmao i definitely love your humor and im totally going to subscribe (-:
Girl!!!! I enjoyed every second of this!! It's good that you're sharing your experiences so people know what to expect!! I was cracking up when you were talking about the girl stroking your coat. I def think they were looking for a 3rd lmaoo!! Great video! :)
Girl do I have a similar military dude story. It was always my #1 rule not to date military and I was also warned by people in military. I have many reasons, but alas I got sucked in. He contacted me first and was stationed in Hawaii and I'm in the states. We talked for months and eventually planned on meeting up. I saved up money, bought a surprisingly cheap ticket to Hawaii and let him know. We had made plans and then come the week of my departure and he ghosts me. I was like, "I don't even have anywhere to stay, wtf?" So I cancelled my flight, used the ticket coupon for Japan instead. I blocked him and as angry as I was that I had wasted freaking money to go visit him and we were talking non stop until that point, at least I got a trip to Japan out of it. I wish you lots of luck in the future and hopefully we've both learned from our mistakes. Lol. I loved your video.
Well damn, I'm sorry this happened to you. Like you said, at least you went to Japan! And we've all done something stupid one way or the other, that's how we learn. I deleted these apps A LONG time ago. 😂
@@senpainoticeme4399 There was so drama on the first day I arrived with taking the wrong bus and arriving at the subway just as the last train left so I had to stay there overnight at the station, but other than that, it was really fun. It was honestly worth being stood up by that guy.
I'm sorry that happened to you. I don't know the entire situation, but his unit might've gone on a field problem, or on an emergency deployment readiness exercise. If either of those was the case, he wouldn't have access to his phone. We used to have surprise alerts, where without warning, we just had to grab our gear and go. It didn't matter if your wife was pregnant and due to deliver, or even if your were a single parent. Of course, this was before cellphones, and we just had one phone in the barracks that had to be shared by 130 guys.
@@bjmccann1 He warned me about those ahead of time and he had some. He was an instructor so I expected a lot of it especially when Hawaii was having the eruption and then that alarm went off the beginning of this year. But he just gradually stopped looking at my stuff and acted like nothing ever happened or even bothered to contact me afterwards.
Most always choose a Korean girl too...even if they say race does not concern them or their parents don't care....they still mostly end up with korean girls.
FoxQueen1385 you forgot something, we think you’re stupid too, still do....too many reasons to list y...absolutely NO ONE I know has had a good experience, it’s all about bad in the end .
yeah most Koreans in general are boring and stiff people...the only way they know how to have any fun is if they get alcohol into their system. Most Korean guys are just drunks.
@@jaylajordan1685 or not😂 some people stay the same for ever. And he sounds like that conceited type of guy who thinks women own him everthing just because he exist.
I LOVE your southern accent! You are so authentic. Enjoyed the video. Glad I watched, though I have NO interest or use for any of what you shared, it was very entertaining and real.
I've gone on dates here as a native here in America and after 30 minutes of walking around and talking. I'm a white petite chick who dates all sorts. This guy happened to be white and another happened to be Saudi. There's a pattern I've noticed. Dudes holds your my hand. Asks you how date is going. Are you having fun? I'm thinking okay, that's really nice but I still don't know this guy well. Dates up after 40 minutes-1hour and because I have a smile on my face they stick their tongues down my throat when they say goodbye. Dude...after an hour, I don't know you well enough...I don't know where your tongue has been. And he can't wait to make love to me. Yo bro...no. Fast forward to my time in Seoul recently...Korean dude and I talk. We go out for galbi. We walk around. Talk. I'm having a pleasant time. He says... "I want to sleep with you." Did I just hear that shit? Hahaha So, I asked him, "Should I take that as a compliment?" Of course. "I think I will have a more restful sleep if I sleep with you." What am I your blow up doll? Dudes all around the world...please. We aren't naive. And, we're not here to fuck you.
Delainey Johnson you should have asked him what he meant. Your interpretation could be off. Language problem? But yeah when they chase you for sex after an hour it’s 💩💩💩
I agree with elsa Grace, I understand that you might have gotten clarification and this might be moot, but in Korea people often sleep in the same place together and cuddle without having sex, so it might have been good to clarify if this was a language barrier/colloquialism difference
Speak for yourself...lol. I'm here to fuck men. But I'm 44, and way past idealism. To be clear, I do have other priorities in life...but let me meet the compatible man with an accompanying compatible penis...trust...we're fucking. Yes. Some may say I have issues, but lying ain't one of them. Cheerio.
Girl i just saw this video and laughed a lot , i dated one myself too ! They are horrible , i weight 150 pounds 6'0 and i dated a korean guy taller than me and kept telling me what to eat and what time to sleep and what time to workout . I didnt thought much of it until he told me i was very very fat . My doc kept telling me my weight was great for my height . They insult you especially the parents are rude . But i still like korean men but i dont usually date any korean men anymore . I broke up with him because he started to be so obssesive with my weight and he had the nerve to lock the fridge and told me what time i can have the fridge open . I just cant anymore . Currently in a relationship with my 3 year relationship with my latino boyfriend and he is the best !!!
May may lol u poor thing. I would've slapped his ass if I were u honestly. The only good thing I would get out of him wuz becoming skinnier because I'm 5'0 and weigh 115 and I rlly want to lose weight but my family be like u already skinny cuz I eat "a lot" so I'm trying to diet.
Trying to meet a nice guy through the dating app. It is a really funny. In Korea, Most good men and good women are introduced by people who know them around. Men or women who do not receive referrals around them are mainly using apps or trying to meet the opposite sex in the club.
i use skout in Taiwan and it's been cool for me. but then again I'm a guy. A lot of the ladies i have spoken to on skout have said and have messages on their profiles telling the weirdos to chill the eff out. But in relation to the "Ls" most western girls struggle out here. get on top of your korean it will help lots.
first of all, i love your hair and you're very pretty. second, i had the same exact experiences and now my friends ask me if i'm still using tinder and i'm like HELL NO
As soon as I heard "Daegu" I was like.."It's about to go down"-Kevin Heart 😂😂 Things I learned from being on yt for when I get a chance to visit SK, never go to Daegu or Gangnam, especially at night 😂
This was hilarious and had me making crude noises on the subway home because I can relate...relate, relate, relate! I'm starting to think there is just one set of guys that make their way all over South Korea on a rotation schedule! Haha Thanks for the laughs and keep searching ^^
Syreolli M Lmao at "crude noises"! It's crazy how many women out here can relate! I want to keep hope alive & keep searching but from what I'm seeing...i just need to go sit down in a corner somewhere & give up. 😂
in Korea dating apps like those are usually just for hooking up, maybe like 5% of people on there want to date but I was told it's mainly for hook ups >.
First off, girrrrrl, I know all about Skout. Nothing but trash on there. Literally. No jobs, or very low income jobs, got 6 kids, a criminal record....say no to the Skout. And that last guy was just trying to score a late night booty sesh. It was so obvious, in the way that he would take forever to respond, then all of a sudden he's free at 1 in the morning? Pfft, fuck THAT! And I also feel the same way about military men. If you're in the military, I zoom past you so damn fast. I have had waaaay too many negative interactions with them.
Oh my god girl this literally got me heated, dating is so hard 😭 I was seeing this guy in NYC and we met on tinder he seemed super nice but it turned out he was actually seeing someone else on the side that he kept telling me was his sister everytime I saw her on his snap. Turns out they weren't related and he was trying to get with me while being with her. I blocked him on everythingggg and he was just one of my many tinder nightmares, never again
Sweeting if they can swipe and treat people like a commodity what do you expect. Apps like tinder are made for people who want flings and one night stands. Meet a guy from a library or coffee shop, have a real conversation. 👌🏻
I dunno how I ended up watching this video, I've got other shit I'm trying to do.. but.. I can't stop watching.. you've got some serious storytelling skills.
Badoo is an okay app too! You should try it :D I remember the first L I took. This Korean guy invited me out for drinks on a week day night and told me he was going to bring his friend. So I am like I need to bring someone too. When we go to meet the guy it turns he had talked to the girl i brought with me before and he ended up dropping me like a hot potato for my pale counterpart and didn't talk to me once X). So I was stuck with his friend who was super dry and could not speak english so I mustred what korean I knew at that point out and home boy was so confused so i gave up. I ended up leaving and trying to get the girl to come with me but she ended up staying with both of the guys XDDDD. Ppl are crazy
CurlyKera Whoa 😲, that's pretty crazy lol. The girl actually stayed though?? I need to get off the apps, but I'm sure I'll end up checking out Badoo. 🤦🏽♀️
Yes girl She stayed! At our dorms we had a curfew so i was trying to home especially since it was 11:00 and a 20 minute walk back from the bar. So I told her I was leaving and this girl said she think she is going to stay and I am like are sure it's getting late I don't want you stay by yourself (me attempting be a good friend). And she said no I am having a lot of fun... and me being salty I said yeah too much fun XDD. So I left her there (she was not drunk at that moment) with them because it was obvious she just was not going to come with me and I did not have time to be locked out of the dorms stranded. I did check up on her throughout the night and in the morning and she ended up staying at the guys apartment O_O. LOL! some people are just bold. But I met my fair share of really sweet guys on badoo so I was not pressed for too long X)
CurlyKera oh gosh honestly i hate friends like that . drop them like a bad habit. theyll choose guys over long friendship everytime. that guy was obviously just looking for a foreign girl fix for the night.
You're so funny haha Anyway, I actually have a friend who met a military guy here in Korea and soon after (a couple months later) they got married. She struggled a lot with guys, too but now she's super happy and has a 1yr old baby. Hope you find someone who's worth it. Try meeting guys in person
raburipanda it's one thing finding love but you kind of lose the sense of getting a career there, other than a English teaching job. Unless you are fluent in Korean and more qualified than the people living there.
What if he was swerving into another language because he wanted your male friend and not you? Not meant to be an insult. It just seems a bit strange for him to ask if you were the girlfriend and then swerve you unless he wasn't asking because of you and instead because of your male friend.
I'd like to thank everyone who has supported the channel! This is the first video on JasmineTTV to reach 100K views! There's been A LOT of positive feedback (Thank You! 🙌🏾 ), and some not-so-positive feedback (Y'all will be alright 💁🏾 ). I encourage everyone to check out my follow-up videos to see how I changed my mindset while living in Korea. I arrived thirsty lmao, but I learned some lessons. Either way, I wouldn't change any of it because I look back on this and laugh every time. May y'all have a blessed one, and we all are able to look back on ourselves & laugh from time to time. ❤️
Good that you are not thirsty anymore. LOL!!!
Yooo! I love hearing this story! Wow! And where are you from by the way!? I don't see a lot of southerners that gave moved to Korea! I am from Alabama and will move there this August!
Jasmine T TV how did you ended up in korea
SHE WAS TEACHING
Jasmine T TV I was wondering actually how things would evolve because it seemed that you came with very American habits and it could only go wrong! 😆😆😆 Very happy to read your update comment, off to check your recent videos. Moving to another country successfully definitely means a change of mindset.
"But he's 6'5 and tatted though" Honestly story of my life
Fisayo Oh
WORD!!!!
PREACH!!!
HALLELUJAH!!!!!
AND A BIG AMEN!!!!!!
TheSwoleBroscientist Issa joke not a dick. Don’t take it so hard.
Big facts
TheSwoleBroscientist as if you don’t judge women on weight and looks, it’s pretty obvious by your remarks that you do. (I’m a guy too, but pull your shit together.)
omg me too LMFAOO
I don't understand why so many young women think men are different across the globe. Men are the same everywhere. There are simply a lot of trolls out there.
i used tinder in japan its very different from guys in america! they are very respectful in tokyo ^-^ you just need a good profile stating what you're looking for ;p
Minako bitch shut yo ass up
drmayesmt .... probably because people keep claiming (i.e. lying) *"their men are better"* (in their country) until you experience it first hand, obviously .....cuz we all know people don't lie, obviously... wtf lol
Cuz clearly that never happens ... oh wait nearly every country claims that lie, shocker.
*You know, like when people claim their country isn't racist* 😂😂😂 suuuuurrrreeee it isn't
*OBVIOUSLY*
Nick-E Nicole Everywhere that was even remotely touched by colonialism has racist elements. As for the men, when we're young our romantic hearts want to find those great guys to settle down with and perhaps raise families. If the men of other countries were so great, there wouldn't be divorce rates or domestic abuse stats or abandoned children. Whether we accept it or not, many of us go around with " rose" colored glasses on. We become disillusioned with our men and seek love based on fairy tales from books or movies from other places. It's an understandable response to the vitriol heaped upon us by our own men and displayed for the world to see in media. The remedy is to not only be confident in ourselves , but to take off the glasses and see men for who and what they are. While still taking in cultural differences, test these foreign dudes as you test American dudes. There's no need to be angry. It is what it is and men are who they are. The world is still a great place filled with attractive men. Date them on your terms not their's. It's not cool to appear to be a "thirsty "chick anywhere. As long as you remember all men are the same you can have a great time. Dramas and romantic songs are figments of writers imagination and not real life. Have fun, keep it light and be safe.
drmayesmt ..."men" are not an issue for me lol but I get your point
“Black girl. I like it. I want you.” BLOCKED! 😂😂😂
BLOCKED! Bye bitch.
I couldn't stop laughing X'D
ChimChim 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂but for real though. Im not about to satisfy your fetish
LOL😂😂😂
ChimChim 😂😂💀
That Korean boy was like: “I like you and I want you. Now we can do this the easy way or we can do this the hard way. The choice is yours”
Blocked
Black Bird lmao I’m sure that flew over plenty people heads
[Tom from the boondocks:] *"You cannot have my booty, the booty is mine!"*
See they calls you Chris hanson...bu-but see I calls you Chris *handsome*
😂😂😂
What the hell is, "the hard way?"😳
I feel like dating apps bring out the worst in every area and part of the world. LOL
Facts
Absolutely true. Avoid them and go out and meet people. If a man is attracted to you he will talk to you without an app
The whole social media scene is a wild joke on a screen
Cant relate ! Dating on this kind of shitty apps specially Tinder and being shooked by their behavior it's like putting your hand in fire and get shooked cause it's hot ! 🙄
I think meeting through friends like blind date kinda thing is better thing to do in korea for like dating things yk.
"Swerved into another language" IM DEAD 💀💀 girl you just got yourself another subscriber 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Hani 하니 Lol 😂! Special thanks to you and EVERYONE else who have subscribed!!! Much ❤️
Hani 하니 anyong haseyo chal ji nae sho sso yo
Jasmine T TV Please, do read "The Rules". Asap 😭
Lmao!
Lmao same.she funny af
Her personality is so adorable everytime she went "Blocked" i lost it she's so cute
You have officially been unblocked!!^-^
She's toxic PoS. Tables will turn soon on her
i love the way she laughs when she blocks them😂😂😂😂😂that laugh tho😂😂
I can't! 😂😂😂😂❤️
same i'm dying lmao
I can hear the Koreaboos typing aggressively...
The Weird Life Of Alex lol same
OMG this is so wrong me and my chingus never experienced this my oppa loves my pale skin it shouldn't be different for uhhhm uhhhhm bla....ck girls
@@HiHello-xg6hs HAHAHAHAHAHA
Hahaha 😂👏
Hi Hello I read this in a high pitched voice for some reason 😂
“My emotional rollercoaster done dropped me off at Anger.” I *_hollared_* laughing! Im so late to this video but you’re awesome!
“Swerved in another language” 😂😂
jium Pal lmao almost fell off the bed
me looking through comments sees a lot bts fans and thinks back to jin saying:
ARMYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
True
smh lol
😂😂😂
I snorted. I can't this is hilarious. You even used a blocked graphic.
B2stly1 I can't😂
@Eva Eve P These men are wild! Like when did they think that what they were saying was a good pickup line? Now I know why they're on a dating website. No game to speak of, and they're freak nasties.
B2stly1 😂😂😂😂 "freak nasties"
B2stly1 I spit my drink when the block graphics popped up
I wanna be friends with this girl.
CheerX9087 makes you and I both ! 😂😂😂😂
“I ain’t never have someone swerve into another language on me” IM DEAD ASF😭🤣
Guys are difficult in any country 😅 Dating in general is just such a struggle. 😭
I feel u hny😣😣😣
I struggle to fit to any standards i think
I agree, especially being a black girl that isn't conventionally attractive ;-;
Said it again lol . So true .
" can u be my master ?? BLOCKED" hahaha it happened to me as well when i was there 😂😂
Swerved into another language
I'm dead 😂 😂
MARIOPOWERUP lol me too
I do this when I feel stressed by human interaction .-.
I'm sorry 😬
Fuck bois worldwide!
I met my husband on skout. We’re happily married and he’s my other half and we couldn’t be more than the best match for each other. 😍
It's mainly "Meetme" now app. Same company but called Meetme. Brother to "Skout" app and same creators
Aw that’s so cute
Good luck
You're the one percent dating apps actually work on😅😅😅 Congrats though
I met my husband at a club:P sometimes things work out
Girl , come to Italy you’ll laugh harder and block more weirdos
Italy is filled with weirdos.
I heard the men LOVE/Fetishes Over Black Women And The Other Women Are Rude Towards Black Women
Yes Italy was real different lol
As an African Italian I can say it's true. Caucasian Italian men in their 40s are thirsty AF for black women, it's actually creepy
As a fellow Italian girl I can frankly say: 50% fuck boys
50% unhygienic disgusting weirdos
Like, I can't make this shit up. I've never ever seen a decent Italian dude and I've been traveling through Italy since I'm 3.
Imo using a dating app to find a serious partner is like trying to find a ring after dropping it into the ocean. Most people sign up to dating sites for a bit of fun which is why I personally avoid dating sites at all costs
finally some common sense. There's nothing wrong with looking for relationship, in Korea or whatever country your feet set in, but NOT thru dating app.
I know nothing about dating apps but shouldn't there be at least some for people looking for serious relationships?
I totally agree.
Dating sites are full of sluts and fuckboys. I would suggest meeting someone at church.
It's like buying quality jewelry at Claire's
But he 6’5 and tatted tho 😂😂💀💀😂💀😂💀 IF THIS AINT ME 😂💀😂💀
Malerie Maxine HAHAHAHAHAHA SHE KILLED MEEEEEH
I KNOW RIGHT!?!
"I like black" GURLLL IM DEAD AHA WTF XD
That's why I don't go to clubs or on tinder. I stay at home st watch Netflix in my pajamas.
green koko I was thinking the same there are Korean men who like black women. Tinder is the same everywhere it’s the hookup app.
I hate dating😩😩
green koko-yea but that's what u do in ur 60's, not in the PRIME of ur life, get out and meet people the ole school way, and forget the apps. Life is 2 short, you'll be old before you know it. And then u will have no choice, but to sit and watch Netflix in ur PJ's. Sipping on Warm Milk and cookies, all by ur damn self....smfh
Same WhatsApp group with me......I stay home all day watching kdrama telemundo or at school.......😂😂😂😂
green koko highkey
"But he's 6'5 and tatted though"
*ME*
No
When I read ME I immediately looked at your pfp and I just died T-T
Ashley1988 I love your profile picture
Ur pfp goes with dis lmao
The profile pic says it all 😂🤣😅
"Blocked, byee Bitch " lmao ... sup jasmine lol
jerome nicks 😂😂 Sup Jerome! Thanks for watching!
"But I've never been swerved in another language"😂😂😂 OMG best line ever!! Love your videos!
Leave them Korean men alone😭u too fine sis! most don't even take foreigners seriously and only want to sleep with them. "Run" is right!🏃🏃
That's so fucked up
Why do they do that though
@@kerenobara3434 the thrill and a story to tell
@@unicorncrossing6376 yep
Dasi run run run!!!!!!!
That's so depressing is that really the majority of what natives of those countries do😦? Though I do know there is good just that the bad also stands out.😌
I’m Korean and have dated several black women and had no problems. Everybody is their own individual.
I am a Black woman and I had a nice fun relationship with my Vietnamese friend.
Yep, “several” says it all...
Wow
Yes, I am a Korean guy dating Puerto Rican girl. Plz don't generalize. I bet she met bunch of fu**boys in clubs.
timmyg831 Lol if you had to date several then you definitely had problems...
People believe what they see on kpop and kdrama and go for korean men. Some people need reality check. Thats what a call a weeb
Weeb is for Japanese...
That's true
Koreaboo you mean?
Cassis Emway that is just their culture... lol it is normal for them to constantly text you to check up on you and etc
東京 yeah u go to japan and do the exact same thing ☺️
lol @ the guy in the club saying no english. Brutal AF
He thought she was Nigerian may be
@@queenpin524 why?
@@queenpin524 I hate the fact i understand what you meant
hahahhahahahaha lol
@@lovelylittlegirl3332 because most west African women are con artists. Just using white men for their money and status
@@queenpin524 First of all he isn't white and second it's very ignorant of you make an assumption about a whole country you've never been to and have probably never met anyone from there. It's like me saying Black Americans are thieves, lazy, complain a lot and can never do anything for themselves based on the news I've heard from FOX. Is that fair? You for one are not only ignorant but arrogant because you generalized the whole West Africa which mind you is part of a continent not a fucking country. Speaking as if there are no female black American, white, any other race as a matter of fact, scammers. In every people there are good and bad people. Please learn before you speak, your ignorance says a lot about you. Oh and don't get me started about status and money. I'm sure you know Nigerian men and people in general are generous spenders. They have more people leaching on them than them leaching on. Again learn before you speak.
0:32 omg the run meme I’m dead on the floor
Lesson...don't go out of your way to meet any man. Have them travel to you.
Exactly. That was my first thought.
Yep.
EDRPOS so true
AGREED.
True.
The pay gap is still going strong. Any man would have to work really hard at earning less than a woman - salary-wise. Always assume he is at least making 20% more than you. He can afford to travel to you. Question is: do you want him to know where you live...? 🤔
ps: hate the auto-correct on my phone.
_"I ain't never had nobody swerve into another language on me-"_ *And subbed...* I just choked on my tea laughing at that. That was a harsh L there but man does that make for a funny story. :)
Me too, 😂😂 and how he was saying 4, 5 syllables earlier in the night .... rotfl
Lol
Girl, I needed to hear this on Valentine’s Day because I’m sitting here alone thinking maybe I’m better off right now! I love your attitude! You’ll have to find a guy who doesn’t drink though...
I am hollering in aisle 5 in this damn grocery store girl. You need a podcast 😂
“I came out the plane swiping boy” hahahhaha i love yaaa
He's 6ft5 and tatted. whats a girl supposed to do?
had me going weak
lol
Eww
Instantly reminded me of the "What am I supposed to do? Say NO." meme
Deasia Brand I read this at that same time she said it lmao
every time she said BLOCKED I cried laughing, reason why I finished this 14 minutes video in one hour
"BUt he 6'5 and tatted doe" lmao say no more sis!
Dating apps suck. Lots of them have social issues.
It's not the apps, it's the people who get on these apps that are the weirdos!
Simi 615 yes but they attract a certain type of man
Thats y i dont use them loll
I really think it's the type of app though. Even though you can get "played" in 1 way or another ANOTHER via all dating apps, I'd feel much better being "played" via a more reputable app, if I just had to use an app, (no disrespect) which I DON'T (too many horror stories)!! I understand that you were in a new (different) place where you didn't know many ppl in that capacity-trust me, I get it, but..... Those really would've been blood red flags for me though. Hopefully, since I'm so late to the party, you've learned (experienced) a little more, (& just as harmless) & also taken heed from those giving advice who love & care for you (experience is everyone's best teacher). God bless.
i love how you talk so real about your experiences ! most (not all) other youtubers living in korea talking about their experiences usually sugar coat them to make korea and their people still seem like saints lmao i definitely love your humor and im totally going to subscribe (-:
Girl!!!! I enjoyed every second of this!! It's good that you're sharing your experiences so people know what to expect!! I was cracking up when you were talking about the girl stroking your coat. I def think they were looking for a 3rd lmaoo!! Great video! :)
The Ebony Traveler For real, I had to get up out of there with the quickness! 😳
@majima fukajima hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha yeah that's totally not weird
I love all of your accents, dialects, and your HILARIous honesty.
Girl do I have a similar military dude story. It was always my #1 rule not to date military and I was also warned by people in military. I have many reasons, but alas I got sucked in. He contacted me first and was stationed in Hawaii and I'm in the states. We talked for months and eventually planned on meeting up. I saved up money, bought a surprisingly cheap ticket to Hawaii and let him know. We had made plans and then come the week of my departure and he ghosts me. I was like, "I don't even have anywhere to stay, wtf?" So I cancelled my flight, used the ticket coupon for Japan instead. I blocked him and as angry as I was that I had wasted freaking money to go visit him and we were talking non stop until that point, at least I got a trip to Japan out of it.
I wish you lots of luck in the future and hopefully we've both learned from our mistakes. Lol. I loved your video.
Well damn, I'm sorry this happened to you. Like you said, at least you went to Japan! And we've all done something stupid one way or the other, that's how we learn. I deleted these apps A LONG time ago. 😂
how was Japan?
@@senpainoticeme4399 There was so drama on the first day I arrived with taking the wrong bus and arriving at the subway just as the last train left so I had to stay there overnight at the station, but other than that, it was really fun. It was honestly worth being stood up by that guy.
I'm sorry that happened to you. I don't know the entire situation, but his unit might've gone on a field problem, or on an emergency deployment readiness exercise. If either of those was the case, he wouldn't have access to his phone. We used to have surprise alerts, where without warning, we just had to grab our gear and go. It didn't matter if your wife was pregnant and due to deliver, or even if your were a single parent. Of course, this was before cellphones, and we just had one phone in the barracks that had to be shared by 130 guys.
@@bjmccann1 He warned me about those ahead of time and he had some. He was an instructor so I expected a lot of it especially when Hawaii was having the eruption and then that alarm went off the beginning of this year. But he just gradually stopped looking at my stuff and acted like nothing ever happened or even bothered to contact me afterwards.
I’m dating a korean guy and he is the sweetest guy ever. It really depends on the person, just like anywhere else in the world
@@gordontheengineswifedr.nirmal Daaaamn! Who hurt you?
Ilse I wish u two the best❤️❤️❤️
Did you meet on a dating app ?
Cause you are white
You are a basic white gurl that’s why lmfao
What a joke
31 seconds into the video and I already love this channel
Girl I currently live in Korea too & you spoke nothing but the truth about dating here. These MENS AINT SHIT 🤣🤣
Shaniece Kennedy same
lol
go home
Most always choose a Korean girl too...even if they say race does not concern them or their parents don't care....they still mostly end up with korean girls.
And that’s why you don’t use dating apps to find love😂. I remember back in the day if you used online dating you was considered to be desperate.
FoxQueen1385 you forgot something, we think you’re stupid too, still do....too many reasons to list y...absolutely NO ONE I know has had a good experience, it’s all about bad in the end .
"black girl"
me: more like "block girl" xD
SQUISHY SUGA lol I'm dying help me plz.
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 *BLOCKED*
ItzHana HMJ 💀😂
WHY?
YOU DON'T LIKE BLACK GIRL
*oml the guy who pretend not know english* 😂
Chiminie ChimChim lol me bro. Who's Cacao?😂😂😂
mmochiful 😂😂🤣🤣that had me dead
Ke ?
I'm sorry but her laugh after she says 'blocked' had me dyinggg
pwettycoco 1 same. I need my ASTHMA INHALER
Girl you have got yourself a new sub you are a breath of fresh air. hey from the uk!
Her: When it comes to dating in Korea, I got one word for y'all and that is... Run
*Boy run away from a skinny cheetah in slow motion😂😂👍*
Good one!
I love the way she said BLOCK!!
Hope Harris same
When there is no good men in the US, so you go to another country to find one. 😂😂😂
Crystals Kiss Then you get there only to find out they're all drunk outside too. Fuuuuuuuuk! lol
Crystals Kiss Lmao girl you are too funny 😂😂😂😂 but you speak the truth tho
No there are real good guys here in the USA
yeah most Koreans in general are boring and stiff people...the only way they know how to have any fun is if they get alcohol into their system. Most Korean guys are just drunks.
Crystals Kiss if u can't find man in US than
U CANT FIND MAN IN KOREA NEVER 😂😂😂
"So control me my master" ohhhh NOOO LMAOOOO 😂😂😂😂😂
How she explained the situation where he asked her if she wants some champagne has me dying 😂😂😂👏🏼
20th like
I've been taking L's, I've been taking L's left and right, and left again😂I'm sorry but I died on that part
I can't stop laughing~! x'D
xiaorishu I can’t believe you were here lol
Hhh
Roses are red
Violets are blue
U tryna seduce me?
Boi I'm blockin u
True
I met my husband in Korea 15 years married
"He 6'5 and tatted tho" lmaooo girl same
Arfi 😂😂😂 Exactly, what can you do?! 🤷🏽♀️
GoldChampion23 you big mad bro? I’m fuckin 5’4 but I understand some girls have preferences but also there’s 7 billion ppl, so stop being a lil bitch.
TheSwoleBroscientist Well when you decide not to be a piece of shit, women will probably find you attractive too.
@@Imnotallergictopeanuts 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@@jaylajordan1685 or not😂 some people stay the same for ever. And he sounds like that conceited type of guy who thinks women own him everthing just because he exist.
“But he’s 6’5 and tatted though.” - Me every. single. time. If my neck doesn’t hurt looking up at him I don’t know what to do 😩😂
So glad I came across this video MY ASS WAS DYINGG 😂
I'm sorry you had to go through all that though! Sending good vibes your way
LMAO @ "he's 6'5" and tatted, tho" ...yeah. stay away!! LMAO.
I LOVE your southern accent! You are so authentic. Enjoyed the video. Glad I watched, though I have NO interest or use for any of what you shared, it was very entertaining and real.
I've gone on dates here as a native here in America and after 30 minutes of walking around and talking. I'm a white petite chick who dates all sorts. This guy happened to be white and another happened to be Saudi. There's a pattern I've noticed. Dudes holds your my hand. Asks you how date is going. Are you having fun? I'm thinking okay, that's really nice but I still don't know this guy well. Dates up after 40 minutes-1hour and because I have a smile on my face they stick their tongues down my throat when they say goodbye. Dude...after an hour, I don't know you well enough...I don't know where your tongue has been. And he can't wait to make love to me. Yo bro...no.
Fast forward to my time in Seoul recently...Korean dude and I talk. We go out for galbi. We walk around. Talk. I'm having a pleasant time. He says... "I want to sleep with you." Did I just hear that shit? Hahaha So, I asked him, "Should I take that as a compliment?" Of course. "I think I will have a more restful sleep if I sleep with you." What am I your blow up doll? Dudes all around the world...please. We aren't naive. And, we're not here to fuck you.
Delainey Johnson you should have asked him what he meant. Your interpretation could be off. Language problem? But yeah when they chase you for sex after an hour it’s 💩💩💩
I agree with elsa Grace, I understand that you might have gotten clarification and this might be moot, but in Korea people often sleep in the same place together and cuddle without having sex, so it might have been good to clarify if this was a language barrier/colloquialism difference
Germ..lol you are so naive
Speak for yourself...lol. I'm here to fuck men. But I'm 44, and way past idealism. To be clear, I do have other priorities in life...but let me meet the compatible man with an accompanying compatible penis...trust...we're fucking. Yes. Some may say I have issues, but lying ain't one of them. Cheerio.
@@jacquelynn2051 you kept it real. That's what's up.
The idea that anyone would use an app to find a love interest is so strange to me.
Horrible idea!
Girl i just saw this video and laughed a lot , i dated one myself too ! They are horrible , i weight 150 pounds 6'0 and i dated a korean guy taller than me and kept telling me what to eat and what time to sleep and what time to workout . I didnt thought much of it until he told me i was very very fat . My doc kept telling me my weight was great for my height . They insult you especially the parents are rude . But i still like korean men but i dont usually date any korean men anymore . I broke up with him because he started to be so obssesive with my weight and he had the nerve to lock the fridge and told me what time i can have the fridge open . I just cant anymore . Currently in a relationship with my 3 year relationship with my latino boyfriend and he is the best !!!
May may lol u poor thing. I would've slapped his ass if I were u honestly. The only good thing I would get out of him wuz becoming skinnier because I'm 5'0 and weigh 115 and I rlly want to lose weight but my family be like u already skinny cuz I eat "a lot" so I'm trying to diet.
@@roci9391 but your in a good shape dear . But if it makes you happy to loose weight than go for it :)
May may aw thx so much ❤️❤️❤️
Shoutout to Latinos!!!!
Ur tall asf
Trying to meet a nice guy through the dating app. It is a really funny.
In Korea, Most good men and good women are introduced by people who know them around. Men or women who do not receive referrals around them are mainly using apps or trying to meet the opposite sex in the club.
Precisely my point!
Enlightening
i use skout in Taiwan and it's been cool for me. but then again I'm a guy. A lot of the ladies i have spoken to on skout have said and have messages on their profiles telling the weirdos to chill the eff out.
But in relation to the "Ls" most western girls struggle out here.
get on top of your korean it will help lots.
Lmao at swerved into another language! Love this video!
6'5 and tatted how can anyone pass that up LMAO. You're hilarious
first of all, i love your hair and you're very pretty. second, i had the same exact experiences and now my friends ask me if i'm still using tinder and i'm like HELL NO
As soon as I heard "Daegu" I was like.."It's about to go down"-Kevin Heart 😂😂 Things I learned from being on yt for when I get a chance to visit SK, never go to Daegu or Gangnam, especially at night 😂
Lol Why tho
why?
This was hilarious and had me making crude noises on the subway home because I can relate...relate, relate, relate! I'm starting to think there is just one set of guys that make their way all over South Korea on a rotation schedule! Haha Thanks for the laughs and keep searching ^^
Syreolli M Lmao at "crude noises"! It's crazy how many women out here can relate! I want to keep hope alive & keep searching but from what I'm seeing...i just need to go sit down in a corner somewhere & give up. 😂
I'm dying this is so funny. I move to Korea in August. I guess I won't be finding bea there hahah
Imani Christine remember, somebody else's life experiences is not yours.
Straight Up yes of course I'm just teasing:)
Imani Christine
you should check out the video La la, made about,, D-SIZE,,OMG,, I'M STILL NOT OVER IT, LOL
Jennzz 1of5 what is the name of that video?
Moved there from the US why?
As soon as you made the "run" joke, I subscribed! I love you, you're too funny 😂
Girl, you is crazy!!! The epigrams in your delivery are off the chain; thanks for keepin' it real.
Hahaha I live in Korea and what you're saying is the truth! Makes you never want to leave your flat in this place!
in Korea dating apps like those are usually just for hooking up, maybe like 5% of people on there want to date but I was told it's mainly for hook ups >.
anon007 i know but some places actually use it for dating purposes LOL
Natalie Fernandez I think all dating apps are for hook ups
Gurl I love your southern accent.
Omg I died at, "Some Bill Withers Lovely Day type stuff" 😂😂
I'm hella late to the game but I'm so weak watchin this LMAO
First off, girrrrrl, I know all about Skout. Nothing but trash on there. Literally. No jobs, or very low income jobs, got 6 kids, a criminal record....say no to the Skout. And that last guy was just trying to score a late night booty sesh. It was so obvious, in the way that he would take forever to respond, then all of a sudden he's free at 1 in the morning? Pfft, fuck THAT! And I also feel the same way about military men. If you're in the military, I zoom past you so damn fast. I have had waaaay too many negative interactions with them.
Hilarious...so damn true. Subbed 👌🏾
Raki Wright lol
Ayyy it's you with the jay park thing going on
Oh my god girl this literally got me heated, dating is so hard 😭 I was seeing this guy in NYC and we met on tinder he seemed super nice but it turned out he was actually seeing someone else on the side that he kept telling me was his sister everytime I saw her on his snap. Turns out they weren't related and he was trying to get with me while being with her. I blocked him on everythingggg and he was just one of my many tinder nightmares, never again
Sweeting Sheesh!😳 Sorry that happened!
Jasmine T TV lmao it's alright! I can look back on it now and laugh. Karma'll do it's job!
Sweeting if they can swipe and treat people like a commodity what do you expect. Apps like tinder are made for people who want flings and one night stands. Meet a guy from a library or coffee shop, have a real conversation. 👌🏻
Man I heard dating in NYC is tougghhh for women but it's the complete opposite for men.
If you thought I was going to subscribe to your channel, you are definitely right, Your story telling is 🔥🔥🔥👌👌👌
I dunno how I ended up watching this video, I've got other shit I'm trying to do.. but.. I can't stop watching.. you've got some serious storytelling skills.
Your laugh is life omg
MrsBonnieBrown I actually used to get picked on for my laugh 🙄, so this means a lot! Thanks for watching! ❤️
Badoo is an okay app too! You should try it :D I remember the first L I took. This Korean guy invited me out for drinks on a week day night and told me he was going to bring his friend. So I am like I need to bring someone too. When we go to meet the guy it turns he had talked to the girl i brought with me before and he ended up dropping me like a hot potato for my pale counterpart and didn't talk to me once X). So I was stuck with his friend who was super dry and could not speak english so I mustred what korean I knew at that point out and home boy was so confused so i gave up. I ended up leaving and trying to get the girl to come with me but she ended up staying with both of the guys XDDDD. Ppl are crazy
CurlyKera Whoa 😲, that's pretty crazy lol. The girl actually stayed though?? I need to get off the apps, but I'm sure I'll end up checking out Badoo. 🤦🏽♀️
Yes girl She stayed! At our dorms we had a curfew so i was trying to home especially since it was 11:00 and a 20 minute walk back from the bar. So I told her I was leaving and this girl said she think she is going to stay and I am like are sure it's getting late I don't want you stay by yourself (me attempting be a good friend). And she said no I am having a lot of fun... and me being salty I said yeah too much fun XDD. So I left her there (she was not drunk at that moment) with them because it was obvious she just was not going to come with me and I did not have time to be locked out of the dorms stranded. I did check up on her throughout the night and in the morning and she ended up staying at the guys apartment O_O. LOL! some people are just bold. But I met my fair share of really sweet guys on badoo so I was not pressed for too long X)
This true!
CurlyKera oh gosh honestly i hate friends like that . drop them like a bad habit. theyll choose guys over long friendship everytime. that guy was obviously just looking for a foreign girl fix for the night.
CurlyKera were you at sogang?
You're so funny haha Anyway, I actually have a friend who met a military guy here in Korea and soon after (a couple months later) they got married. She struggled a lot with guys, too but now she's super happy and has a 1yr old baby. Hope you find someone who's worth it. Try meeting guys in person
raburipanda it's one thing finding love but you kind of lose the sense of getting a career there, other than a English teaching job. Unless you are fluent in Korean and more qualified than the people living there.
You have THE BEST PERSONALITY & COMEDIC TIMING! I have subscribed!🤣🔥🔥
“In denial thoughts”
Your video had me *crying* , especially the music depicting your emotions.
"but he 6'5 and tatted tho" LMAAOO I SUBSCRIBED AND I LOVE YOU ♡
I like black☺ lol
What if he was swerving into another language because he wanted your male friend and not you? Not meant to be an insult. It just seems a bit strange for him to ask if you were the girlfriend and then swerve you unless he wasn't asking because of you and instead because of your male friend.
Hobi Lobi
Wow omg that’s so true, perhaps he was gay and was fishing 🎣 to eliminate her from his intended target, makes sense 🤔 well thought out.
That's what I thought as well
JUST *plays run by BTS* DASHIE RUN RUN
but her smile is soo pretty
I love your southern local accent. You are hilarious with your storytelling!!