For the Creative INFPs | Motivational Video

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  • Опубліковано 27 жов 2024

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  • @jenniferfinley8173
    @jenniferfinley8173 3 роки тому +20

    This was shared at a perfect time. Beautiful remedy for some seasonal blues.

    • @INFPHD
      @INFPHD  3 роки тому +4

      Glad it helped Jennifer which obviously that was my hope. I tend to fill my head up with motivational type videos on UA-cam just to help me help myself pull myself (what did I just say there 🤪) out of the dull trenches...
      Sean

    • @LisaSmith-yb2uz
      @LisaSmith-yb2uz 3 роки тому +3

      Agree! 💖

  • @MsDoryLinda
    @MsDoryLinda 3 роки тому +22

    Will Smith is so on point here. We've got to believe in what we're doing cos the journey can feel lonely and tough for us creatives.
    I love this curated inspiration Sean. Really nicely put together 🔥⭐

    • @INFPHD
      @INFPHD  3 роки тому +3

      Thanks Dory - as well, thank you for taking the time to pre-screen it for me to help make the music better (one of my weaker areas)👍
      Sean

  • @Nyxeline
    @Nyxeline 3 роки тому +4

    I cried. Beautiful motivational video Sean. Thank you 💕🤗 I really needed to hear those words.

  • @abigailh.6089
    @abigailh.6089 3 роки тому +15

    Such a touching inspirational video to tug at the creative heart strings regardless of what four letter letters you claim as your type.

    • @INFPHD
      @INFPHD  3 роки тому +6

      Thanks Abigail and yes I completely agree - creativity lives in all of us it just sometimes needs a little encouragement to come out and play with all the other stuff we have going on that seem to take priority...
      Sean

  • @WindowOfFantasy
    @WindowOfFantasy 3 роки тому +2

    4:30 this is make me tear
    thank you this is amazing collection

  • @samirahtss
    @samirahtss 3 роки тому +3

    I got goosebumps. I just wish I wouldn't be so self critique of myself and I would just persue my dream of becoming a writer but it's so hard because I feel like I'll never be good enough. At the same time I feel like this dream of mine is one of the only reasons that I feel it's worth living for, if I persue my dream and become a writer I won't have a valid reason to keep living a life worth to be called one, so I prefer being nostalgic of a future that only exists in my imagination, like the old man in Paulo Coelho's book the Alchemist who sells vases and has been dreaming of going on a pilgrimage but refuses to do so because otherwise he wouldn't have a reason to live anymore.

    • @INFPHD
      @INFPHD  3 роки тому +1

      Yeah Samira I totally get what you are saying here. For me I have always struggled to produce things out in the real world because the images of what I want to create in my head are so great. Plus fear of people judging my work or being careless with my passionate things I take personal is a hard one to swallow for us so in turn we "don't create anything". However, for me now about to turn 40 I have had a large part of my life where I strayed away from sharing my inside with the world and I know the level of emptiness / happiness I can attain do that way. Sure it's more safe etc. but it just always leaves an empty feeling that we need to be doing something. And another things is that I'm personally not worried about running out of things to pursue because we are naturally exploring types. Sure writing is your passion now, but that could turn into something else that isn't even on your radar yet. Writing may lead to other paths kinda thing....
      Don't stay away from writing as you will always feel like you are missing something....
      Sean

    • @feelx2073
      @feelx2073 3 роки тому +1

      I have goosebumps considering I just finished the alchemist yersterday :0 By now I'm telling myself non stop that maybe I should continue dreaming about being a singer. It seems that all my life i felt like the only thing I was able to too was to dream about being good. I'm in the exact same situation as you because I feel like its the only thing that makes me feel alive and motivated. But I fell bad, not good enough, I sing only by myself and get discouraged so fast.I think I'm like the vase seller because Im affraid to realise that my dreams are even more impossible than what I thought. But I still have hope haha We can't stop our passions!!!! let's keep going!!? the important is not the treasure right? Its the path leading to it.

  • @sakura5sango6
    @sakura5sango6 3 роки тому +2

    I've decided rn I need to see this video every day to stay strong during my college life.
    This was my first time and I loved every one of the quotes and the teachings and people, but I don't know why this one line that says tha "I'm ready and able" made me cry 5:05 (and the last part, as being people feeling emotive or crying for personal/empathetic reasons ALWAYS get me).
    Thanks so much, this is just the kind of motivational video I need to support me when I feel so alone, with the music and all

  • @RebeccaPebble
    @RebeccaPebble 3 роки тому +4

    This is perfect and lovely!🌟I definitely needed this today.
    Thank you, Sean, for all you do! We appreciate you and your creativity!🤗

    • @INFPHD
      @INFPHD  3 роки тому +1

      Glad you enjoyed Pebble, and hopefully you keep pressing on and on with your books etc.
      Sean

  • @farswrites5633
    @farswrites5633 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you for this. I often doubt myself

  • @reveriedreamshade5669
    @reveriedreamshade5669 3 роки тому

    Thanks for making this. I know it's really important for me to remember to DO. It's so easy to get trapped in my head in the daydreaming of new ideas and never bring those into the world, but they need to come into existence because they could help someone, they could get me somewhere, they could make an impact on the world.

  • @Beatriz-Ana-11
    @Beatriz-Ana-11 3 роки тому +5

    Hi Sean!!! How have you and your daughter been?
    Very beautiful video, so true, even at 51, and with all the skills I know and schooling I’ve had, I still struggle with finding my purpose in life, I feel as if I haven’t yet found my true purpose and as if time is just passing me by, even with all my accomplishments, I fail to acknowledge them...
    It’s constant struggle to find a true passion for me...
    I haven’t been commenting lately because I’ve been mentally drained, pondering of what’s my purpose in life, I may have it right in front of me and it’s still hard for me to see it... who knows...

    • @INFPHD
      @INFPHD  3 роки тому +5

      Hey there Miss Ana! Daughter and myself are doing well. Yeah no worries on the commenting as me targeting an INFP type audience I can understand the need to socially distance as I do the same thing even as a creator.
      I personally feel that life provides us opportunities throughout which we typically dismiss due to a rush of fearful thoughts that come in. Our brains main purpose is to keep us "safe and comfortable" so for an INFP type if we are faced with something we maybe good at etc. but the next step is "putting it out into the world", then we can talk ourselves out of it and move back to the comfortable day to day life that we structured for ourselves. I have ignored plenty of things over my lifetime, but things keep coming back and quietly whispering in my ear especially when I'm in low stressed out moods. It's like the creative side of my brain is trying very hard to fight through the safe and logical side.
      Facing our fears is honestly very simple - you either do it, or you don't. However, our minds like to complicate it for us which the brain then WINS with it's safe and comfortable mission. I hid in the shadows for most of my life and kept things inside...I know what that feels like - so nowadays I am trying the other side of it all and taking more of the challenging / difficult avenues, which yes...it's not easy and scary, BUT my happiness is growing more and more.
      The more and more you brave the uncomfortable stuff you (well I do) start to get addicted to doing those things. Your self confidence grows and you just feel much more alive than if you don't push yourself. You get that knowledge that you can do something cool, to which even if you don't succeed right away you get information how to do it better and better which if you keep to it will snowball. For types like us putting our stuff out there is super scary so we typically don't as we are working extremely hard to keep our personal inside stuff safe from ALL negativity etc.
      I'm just at a point where I look at my life as I don't want to have a ton of regrets when I'm 70. Even if I try stuff and fail horribly at least I won't have to sit at that older age and say "what if?" which I think is MUCH MORE disappointing than making mistakes and fighting for personal happiness at earlier stages in life. I gave up many years myself to being scared...I'm just trying the other stuff which again - I like better.
      Sean

    • @Beatriz-Ana-11
      @Beatriz-Ana-11 3 роки тому +1

      @@INFPHD
      Sean, You hit a chord there that really describes it all, putting yourself out there to be finally seen, and getting your hopes up and finally getting out there, to be faced with a closed door is not an easy process, but the lesson of it all and the outcome, is actually the need to forcefully look within oneself, this in itself starts the process of it all, finally acknowledging and understanding the entire experience to be “the life lesson” and that snowballing into a realization of where you’re at, and where you want to be is facing the truth of it all. That has been inside lurking deep inside waiting for it to be revealed...
      Not sure if you understand me but it’s exactly what I feel...
      Glad you and your daughter are doing well, keep at your wonderful work and inspiring others to be all they can be!!
      Thanks for your response Sean, you always have the perfect words of encouragement and help and I greatly appreciate you!!

    • @loisrabies8713
      @loisrabies8713 3 роки тому +2

      Same

    • @INFPHD
      @INFPHD  3 роки тому +2

      Yeah I am a believer in that I feel we "do know" what we "should do" many times throughout life. It's just the more we can creatively minimize that "should be doing" the better we feel about ourselves for not doing that scary/ hard thing. It's those things that keep coming back year after year from being dismissed that we should be giving more time and thought too. Instead we generally will put the things that aren't very good for us in front because they are the known comforts. Just no way to live a fulfilling life in my opinion...

    • @loisrabies8713
      @loisrabies8713 3 роки тому

      @@INFPHD well said! I’ve been struggling with this so much.

  • @cierahayes
    @cierahayes 3 роки тому +2

    Beautiful. This one made me tear up a little bit.

    • @INFPHD
      @INFPHD  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks Ciera - hope all is doing ok for ya...
      Sean

    • @cierahayes
      @cierahayes 3 роки тому

      @@INFPHD Thank you, Sean - Yes, things are going really well for me... This year some events occurred in my personal life that gave me a HUGE wake up call as to how I want to live my life going forward & who I want to be as a person. I am currently living back home with my dad while I heal & build my new life. My dad & extended family members are very happy to have me back in their lives again. I love my family very much & am happy to be with them again as well - sorry for the time that was lost, but hopeful for the future we can share together. I think of & miss the friends I made during my travels this year, but I know I am where I need to be right now.
      I am learning how/ remembering how to take good care of myself physically, mentally, & emotionally. I bought a pair of size 6 pants the other day - I struggled with being overweight/ obese since I was eight years old - I don't know if I've ever owned a size 6 anything, so that accomplishment is a pretty big deal for me. Growing up I also struggled with being physically weak - being overweight, socially awkward, & afraid of getting hurt etc. held me back from putting much effort into exercise... A few years ago, a doctor told me that I had more muscle mass than the average woman & I was shocked because at the time it was a challenge for me to simply climb the stairs. This year a friend helped me realize that much of my "weakness" was a "psychological issue" - too many negatives had contributed to the downward spiral I continually found myself stuck in. However, the snowball effect can go both ways & is now going in the positive, healthy direction... My legs are getting stronger, my abs are getting rock solid (*I'm a little obsessed with strengthening my abs! 😊), and my biceps & shoulders are coming along nicely as well! I figure if I naturally have more muscle mass than average - there is no excuse for me to not try to be as ripped as I want to be... 🎶 "Girls run the world!" 🎶😜 Also, after struggling with painful acne & skin problems for many years, my face is finally clear & smooth as a baby's butt.
      Every day I try to do things that will improve myself & my situation and challenge me to become a healthier, well rounded, independent individual.
      Since I'm staying with my dad for the time being, I've transformed my childhood bedroom (which had become a very messy "storage room" in the years I had been away from home) into a very cute & cozy "studio apartment" - I am very happy with my "extreme room makeover" & proud of the work I did to achieve it. I've also been assisting my dad with bettering his house & personal situation. We've been decorating for Christmas - fairy/ Christmas lights are all over - inside & out - It's beautiful & makes me happy.
      Yesterday I recorded a song with my Uncle's rock band "3Fixx"... It was a dream come true - I've wanted to be a musician for as long as I can remember & yesterday was my first recording session... It went really well! *I played the ukulele & provided backing vocals on the record - the song will be released onto UA-cam & elsewhere in a few weeks. 🤗💖
      I hope you & Baylie are doing well! 😎🦊💙💙 Thank you, Sean, for ALL of the information, inspiration, & encouragement you provide, and also for being a good dude & a special UA-cam friend. ❤

  • @shadeshift1268
    @shadeshift1268 3 роки тому +3

    A blank space can represent myriads of possibilities
    Intefering to that space with a thought inside your head, or even simply a feeling can change that blank space into something different
    Keeping that space blank would not change anything
    So despite that thought inside you is not the best one, just keep on filling that space with more, and eventually, you might find the perfect vision you are trying to convey
    So keep on trying, and do not let that dreamworld inside of you stay there
    -Just a normal INFP (me)

    • @INFPHD
      @INFPHD  3 роки тому +1

      Yes yes! Just have to keep "doing those things" that come into our minds over and over which we tend to dismiss. When people say "I don't know what to do" they generally do already know many times over the mind just has a sneaky way of having us bury those things that make creatives happy leaving that space empty and unfulfilled....
      Sean

    • @shadeshift1268
      @shadeshift1268 3 роки тому +1

      @@INFPHD yup, I fully agree with you, we usually do that 'cause it's either we do not know how to fleshed that idea out, or just afraid of how will others react to that idea once we put it into the space
      So that best thing to probably do is do whatever what comes inside your head (write, paint, anything in particular), and see the results!
      Sorry for the late reply btw :)

  • @farrahfrench8135
    @farrahfrench8135 3 роки тому +1

    Growing up,the fear of disappointing my parents was worse than disobedience. So I did neither. I made myself invisible by having two jobs while still going to high school. I did great in school, not typical I suppose for us INFP's. I loved history, science and English. Math was absolute torture. I didn't and still don't understand the reason for math beyond algebra. Unless for a degree. Same with money, what the heck is the point?. It's made up!
    Long story short...... Now my greatest fear is disappointing myself. Gave up with the parents approval, a few years back. Nothing is ever good enough for them. They are moving clear across the states to Tennesse where Golden Child is. So, now at 34, anxiety rushes through me. Death is always on the fore front of my mind. Afraid I'll never have enough time. (To accomplish) In truth, we never do.🥺
    All my 💕

  • @Brynja24
    @Brynja24 3 роки тому

    Thank you! Just....thank you!

  • @Yummyone
    @Yummyone 3 роки тому

    "just do it what u want, coz what u want is on the other side of fear," tht so deep! u make my motivation about music back again, thanks sean! ❤️ from INA 🇮🇩

    • @INFPHD
      @INFPHD  3 роки тому +1

      Hey 🤗! Yeah I’ve always liked that quote and believe it fully! The more you challenge those fears, and see that it wasn’t as bad as our minds made it out to be then you can get a snowball effect going where it gets empowering to keep pushing yourself....
      Happy New Years!
      Sean

  • @beaudupre3248
    @beaudupre3248 3 роки тому +4

    Wow, so good 👏

    • @INFPHD
      @INFPHD  3 роки тому +1

      You’re early Beau! Usually you come around a couple weeks after a post 🤣. Perhaps there is still some spunk left in that old self of yours...!! 🤣😉
      Sean

    • @beaudupre3248
      @beaudupre3248 3 роки тому

      @@INFPHD Oh yeah, I'm a spunky old fart. I know I'm usually late to the party. My watch later list is gigantic. Just happened to be on when you dropped that motivational morsel😉Got me so inspired I think I'll dust off the guitar 🤘 Have a good one Sean O.
      Beau

    • @INFPHD
      @INFPHD  3 роки тому +1

      What is it Beau - last week it was dusting off the Xbox, and now a guitar!?!?!?...ohhhh being a dabbling all over the place INFP is fun isn't it lol

    • @beaudupre3248
      @beaudupre3248 3 роки тому

      @@INFPHD Funny, we do tend to bounce all over the place. It's never dull. 😆

  • @mikeloOdium
    @mikeloOdium 3 роки тому

    Thank You!

    • @INFPHD
      @INFPHD  3 роки тому

      Happy New Years Miwe!
      Sean

  • @Deanna_Marie_
    @Deanna_Marie_ 3 роки тому

    This video has helped to pull the Fi out of me. I’m lead Fe. So that’s huge.

    • @INFPHD
      @INFPHD  3 роки тому

      Awesome glad to hear Deanna and nice to meet you! ENFJ I presume??
      Happy New Years to ya!
      Sean

    • @Deanna_Marie_
      @Deanna_Marie_ 3 роки тому

      @@INFPHD thank you! I came over here because I was watching the INFP panel on Joyce’s (really really good). I’m typed by Objective Personalty System as FF-Fe/Ne-PC/S(B) which means I’m an “NF” ESFJ. Dave said, in MBTI I’d be considered an ENFJ, because I’m also an NJ. But since I’m using the Fe, Ne, Si, Ti (in that order, it’s an ESFJ function stack). I really love learning how to type in their system and working on a typing team and typing clients. Do you think your daughter is Fi?

    • @INFPHD
      @INFPHD  3 роки тому +1

      ...been soooo slacking on comments this week - my bad Deanna!!! 🙃 Yeah it can surely get confusing with all the types we can be labeled from all the systems out there lol! ENFJs are definitely said to be a good match for INFPs to where the two are very different cognitively speaking, but both tend to understand where the other is coming from kinda thing. I’m leaning that my daughter is an ENTJ which in just standard MBTI it has her Fi in her 4th slot.

  • @olavonogueira8944
    @olavonogueira8944 3 роки тому

    Great video!

    • @INFPHD
      @INFPHD  3 роки тому

      Thanks Olavo - glad you enjoyed 🤙🏻
      Sean

  • @AS-jq4lb
    @AS-jq4lb 3 роки тому

    i burst into tears watching this. i guess i really need to jump.

    • @INFPHD
      @INFPHD  3 роки тому +1

      Yeah it's a scary thing, but I feel there is a lot of truth to it. Also why many never become truly happy because they chose the safer route. It's not easy by any means, but the more you baby step towards the things you want to do eventually you will come to a point where you do need to jump at it. *don't wait too long though
      Sean

  • @aneeholy
    @aneeholy 2 роки тому

    That last one was not info friendly