"If a woman isn't trying to follow your lead then let her go!" This is gospel! Years ago when I was a young man, I had an ex GF who I always clashed with over this. I'm ex military & she was a career retail manager who always tried to talk to everyone like they were her employees & we clashed frequently. We stayed into over this & she hated when I proved her wrong & got better results than her in anything. I ended up leaving her alone & years later I saw her again & she had become a lesbian. Dodged a huge bullet.
The Hyena analogy is spot on in most Modern Day black families, the Male basically has to submit to all the females in his family, this the result of being raised by a single Mother
Yep that's exactly why my black father left his home at 15 to go at it. And I left my white mothers home at 14 to do the same. My younger brothers weren't as fortunate to have their balls grow early 😂! I learned a lot about life women men and boys and girls during that transition, and today I operate in opposition to many stereotypes placed on me, including the ones my own blood threw on me! Its all good, despite the BS. There is no knowledge that is not power!
So true I feel the same way the American government put black men that have children and take care of them get treated like the male hyena and that's wrong.
I was raised by a single mother and I almost became that myself...I had to move out and tough it out on my own... I've went through days/ nights with no food, lights getting turned off at one point, nothing but an air mattress in a one bedroom apartment, etc.... but I wouldn't go backwards for nothing...it's shaping me into the man that I inspire to be in the future...
@@jboymontel1 I don’t get it. So you rather live a life of no electricity and hungry days just because you can’t be a man in your mom’s household. A man is something you are, no one can take that from you… you just have to know that yourself. If you are still in that situation, please go home( i coming from a point that she’s a good mom). God bless you!
I admire Kevin because despite some of the women who get angry at his content, he’s consistent in his approach, even with the men. I use to watch his earlier content speaking with men & he is actually more brutal with the men. I don’t think he has it out for women, I believe he is here to give direction to our generation.
I said the same thing to my friends who doesn't like him. Us,men, are able to accept the reality. Godfather is right. At early 20's, we are far from ready. We got so much to learn and get our best outcomes. Patience is really a virtue.
@@raziqilm how you take what she said as an opportunity to speak down on women? Kevin just a vessel for a message critical to the black community. We need more women that see the vision & here you are complaining about women to a woman that AGREED smh pick your fights better
As soon as KS started talking about "it's not your turn" it made complete sense right away, I'm about to be 43 and been at my job for going on 21yrs, I'm in the construction trades and know everything about my position, so basically I'm considered a journeyman, I have a lot of guys under me that I train (cubs), the guys that stick around take my advice to slow down and take notes to learn, I've had cubs in the past get cocky and try to jump the line, as soon as they get thrown in the lions den they freak out and realize they had false confidence (male hyena) and quit, basically saying with experience slow down fellas, keep stacking your money at your position and keep taking notes, learning from the older guys, KS is 10yrs older than me and I'm still learning new information that was outside my understanding for the longest time, I realized I was reading women, relationships and marketplace value all wrong, at my age none of this content was as readily available growing up, there's a saying "the day I know everything is the day I quit", good luck fellas, keep taking notes as there is always something new to learn
1- Hyena breakdown - VIRTUOSO!! 2- I think the reason why most men who call in on men's week aren't quite thoroughbreds in what they say/how they move is bc the men who are, we don't have to call. These are concepts we learned & are living currently. For my young guns on the path, take KS style & run towards it not away from it. I'm 37, but I still appreciate/grow from what KS is talking about with younger guys bc I see/live in the next stage KS will cover
That’s a fact I’m 21 and I wholeheartedly agree with your second point most these dudes that are calling in are operating on a feminine mindset they wanna be somewhere their not yet in life and I look at life like a food line every dude that calls in wants to be first in to eat( to obtain marriage, get a career, kids,the house etc) however dudes in my age group (18-29) gotta wait on that because cutting the line will have you getting an hyena pregnant(matriarchal female), having multiple kids like the other dude that called in, and messing in up your life in other ways too most dudes need to just slow down and humble themselves and realize their reality and the life their living now to keep them from being in a fantasy world
Couldn't agree more. The problem is the amount of callers that called aren't disciplined. The last caller was someone willing to listen and is on the right track given that he has no kids, has a career and now has to put in work to continue his legacy (pride). I'm 30 and willing to learn and grow from old heads with constructive criticism. Lots of these young dudes are nothing but 🤡 in the comment section who are willing to judge but not judge themselves to become better. At the end of the day, to each their own.
@@Justheremeout i respect the fact that you see where other guys are slipping & know to do something different. If you 🔑 in to KS now, you gonna be a beast when you get to my age young bro. Respect 💪
@@NunYaBiz1313 alot of guys who call in tend to come off as more introverted/almost incel types. I see why they struggle. Then some guys played sports like I did & was used to coaches cursing/yelling at me to get my game better. KS is essentially that but for real life. Even tho the guys aren't as thorough as they need to be, they have the courage to call & listen, not call & argue to be right. It's a step in the right direction
Kevin is spot on with the, "your not ready/it's not your time " when it comes to men. Time is an advantage when you have it so take time to learn young brothers ✊🏿
It's so hard to not be disappointed and judgmental of yourself as a young man when you see so many others who are further ahead of you. I'm 31 and I'm nowhere near where I'm supposed to be. I get what Kevin is saying, but at the same time, it sucks being so far away from being where you're supposed to be
@@torachan23 same i was supposed to be a sport prodigy but have a severe rib and hip injury and im 22 so im at the age im basically to far gone to learn something new that can elevate me, and my body feels like it should if im a retired 60 year old and have a couple mill in my savings account.
I never saw myself as a Tiger. I'm not a player (never saw myself as having "game"), I've been a loner introvert all my life, fascinated by "nerdy" pursuits- learning foriegn languages, traveling, comic books from foreign countries, foreign films, rugby and indoor-rockclimbing. In my 20s, women tended to leave me alone, then I hit my 30s and all this attention from not just Black women, but women who spoke the foriegn languages I learned (French, Turkish, Arabic). But they were "Lionesses", wanting to settle down, and well, I felt I wasn't ready. I broke a lot of hearts (and most of them still haunt me), but I had to be true to myself. I wasn't done learning from the world nor felt financially secure enough to settle yet. I have to face that, for whatever reasons I might need therapy for, I'm a tiger for life.
You want to be established or on the way before you start focusing on the women, by age 35 you should be ready to engage the next phase of life, that of a family man. IMHO
0:00 Opening Song, 🎵 Your good lies by Vividry 🎵 3:05 🎬 Show starts, Monologue, The Time You Blow The Competition Away, Fragrance of the evening , Candle of the evening Le Labo santal 26 9:30 The lion Path (Husband/legacy/network) and Tiger Path (Bachelor) 35:10 Why It Sucks to be a Male Hyena 45:02 1st Caller age 22, 2nd Caller, 3rd Caller age 45, 4th Caller age 25, 5th Caller age 27 1:02:22 6th Caller age 38, 7th Caller Mr. English age 27, 8th Caller Darius age 26, 9th Caller age 32 1:30:26 Closing words 1:32:42 Outro
If you’re under 29 especially PLEASE listen to this man. He’s telling you everything my father tried to tell me in my 20s, but I was too caught up in having fun and girlfriends. Now at 34 I’m seeing the payoff of taking both my fathers advice and Mr. Samuels advice as well. I actually called my Dad yesterday and told him damn you were right. Women ain’t going anywhere fellas get your money up , get on your fitness game, dress like the man you want to become not the man you are, and I promise you the females will come. Being financially stable in your mid 30s is a good deal because you have the maturity and plenty of youth and you can be with someone 23-25 and it’ll be no big deal. I know so many people who dated someone all throughout their 20s only to end up never married. Don’t do that dumb shit. As Mr. Samuels says dating is dumb!
@@yoghetty5636 who said anything about settling? When I’m in the position where I feel marriage is an option I’ll do it. It’s that simple. I know who’s for fun and who more than that.
Would you say that your looks have increased or stayed the same into your mid 30s, assuming you're taking care of yourself? Also what other areas would you say that you've become more attractive to women besides looks? I'm currently 27 and I can have fun with attractive women but most don't want to stick around because they're also dating these mid 30s higher earning higher status men.
I never saw myself as a Tiger. I'm not a player (never saw myself as having "game"), I've been a loner introvert all my life, fascinated by "nerdy" pursuits- learning foriegn languages, traveling, comic books from foreign countries, foreign films, rugby and indoor-rockclimbing. In my 20s, women tended to leave me alone, then I hit my 30s and all this attention from not just Black women, but women who spoke the foriegn languages I learned (French, Turkish, Arabic). But they were "Lionesses", wanting to settle down, and well, I felt I wasn't ready. I broke a lot of hearts (and most of them still haunt me), but I had to be true to myself. I wasn't done learning from the world nor felt financially secure enough to settle yet. I had to face that, for whatever reasons I might need therapy for, I'm a tiger for life.
Something KS has said on other videos is that life is about people and relationships. If you're going to be a tiger for life, then you should start planning to have a nurse to look out for you when you're too old to get up from bed and all the way to your death. Be a tiger in your 20s and early 30s. Become a feared lion after.
Peace & Love, Although I Have A Gift Of Gab And A Natural Ability Of Approaching, Being Around, Making Women Comfortable & Laugh (Most Would Assume That As Having "Game") I Feel The Same Way As Being A Tiger With "Nerdy Pursuits." Our Culture Needs To Reframe Being Highly Educated & Well Versed In Worldly Concepts, Alongside Being Aware Of Various Cultures, As Being Knowledgeable & Wise Instead Of "Nerdy Pursuits." Based On What You Listed, I Don't Think You Need Therapy For Those Reasons; It Sounds As If You Are Just Trying To Learn Who You Are And Find Your Place In Life. Knowledge Of Self/Self-Awareness Is How You Become A Well Complete Man. That Awareness Ultimately Leads To Wisely Eliminating & Dodging Energies, Actions And Experiences That Don't Align W/ Your Way Of Life = Equates To A Well Balanced, Free-Flowing, Prosperous Life/Lifestyle. Peace & Love!!!
Don't expect a woman to follow you if your directions are unclear. Yes you can marry young if you are in a position to protect, provide, and lead. If not...wait your season gents.
I've always wanted to be a wife and have my husbands children. i did that. i was submissive, catered to him, like my mom did for my father. she taught all us 3 girls to cook, make and bake from scratch, biscuits, breads, pies and cakes, clean, sort, wash , dry & iron laundry. we ironed sheets too? how to take care of ourselves from bathing to styling our long thick hair. sent us to the best schools, where we were taught social skills, proper etiquette, setting a formal table, to and manners. And the school still had all of the educational attributes typical of all the higher learning institutions, including sports. Now, add the 2 churches, and choir . so i got married months after graduating from high school. I was ready and mature.
God damn. Paradigm fuckin' shifter. This man is a beautiful genius. Handsome. I'll be damned. Love you, Kevin. Rest in peace, brother. You'll always be remembered and changed the world with your gravitas, gift of gab, wisdom and class. May your spirit guide this generation and future generations of strong lions and tigers.
I got chills when I heard what Kevin said at the 1:28 mark about what you are picking. "It may not look like what you expect it to look like. Lioness don't look like Tigers". That wisdom is GOLD! It will be the key to your happiness.
Yet Hyenas are actually doing perfectly fine in the wild they are one of the most successful predators on the planet. I believe they have a higher success rate then lions. i would say its an insult to the Hyenas lol
@@xMckingwill But they're still not as powerful as the lion....it takes 10 hyenas to take down a lion. Kind of like black women as "succcessful as they are as predators"...they can't defeat white America
@@TheSupremeDunk Correction it takes a dozen Hyenas to take out the LIONESS, male lions barely hunt and barely fight the female lions do 90% of the work to protect and provide for the pride. There are many cases of Hyenas chasing off lion prides. In fact lions look out for the hyenas after a hunt so they don't steal their kill. these animals AVOID conflict unless its a last resort. In addition Hyenas are a HIGHLY COOPERATIVE AND SOCIAL SPECIES JUST LIKE LIONS. The males and female WORK TOGETHER to hunt and survive. So again a terrible comparison. ( im a bit of an animal nerd) In addition it takes an entire pride to take down one water Buffalo should we use water buffalo's as out model for human behavior.
@@xMckingwill 🧢. While it's true that male lions usually don't hunt because they are busy patrolling their territory, they hunt when the big kill is needed. Not even 20 hyenas can take on 2 males. Honestly, their only saving grace is their bite force. In every animal species where the females are dominant, the males are the oppressed ones. Hyenas and almost every bug colony only use the males for mating. And then they are put on the bottom of the social ladder. Sure, hyenas are cohesive in hunting, but so are patriarchal animals such as African wild dogs, wolf packs, and finally lions. The difference is, the males don't OPPRESS the females.
@@YourLocalRussianNegro 1.Not entirely true. the females play a very large role in protecting and patrolling the territory. 2. Hyena do push away lion prides of of hunts 3. You cannot compare insects to mammals there is no such thing as "oppression" Insect colonies. They are simply behaving the way they do males just do their role. 5. Wrong again they are not just cohesive they have a HIGHER success rate then lions. And Hyeana have one of THE MOST cooperative social structure. 6. Males dont oppress the female really, its not like male lions commit inficide simply to reproduce with a female. Umm look at human history and how human males oppressed females so that arguments fails. 7. wolfs pack are mostly comprised of a male female and their cubs so that doesn't apply to them I never suggested other patriarchal species are not successful 8. Regardless of how you feel hyena are surviving just fine so whatever they do works
The hyena analogy reminds me of Crimson Cure's content. The matriarchy has really destroyed black people, men and women alike. This interview really drives home this point. Perfect analysis of the communitah! Brilliant content as usual.
This was power "given" to them in 1969 (No Fault Divorce instated by conservative all-star ronald reagan). It can easily be taken away from them by walking away.
@@shinyamada488 - Firstly no-fault divorce is a state by state issue not a nation wide one. Secondly in order to have legislation passed you need to have the majority of senate (both parties) in agreement. This was not something Ronald Regan waved a magic wand over the land & made law. (It’s not even within his authority to do so) Making “laws” from a position of military leader wasn’t even a thing until Obama/Biden administration. What you’re talking about is in 1969 when Ronald Reagan was the governor of California. Seeking to eliminate the strife & deception often associated with the legal regime of fault-based divorce, he signed the nation's first no-fault divorce bill. He later admitted that this was one the biggest mistakes of his career. Each individual state & representatives are at fault for enacting their own legislation. Many of which have never expressed regret for their actions.
@@SamanthaP48 Seventeen states in the US are considered “no-fault states” for divorce. These no-fault divorce states are Wisconsin, Oregon, Washington, Nevada, Nebraska, Montana, Missouri, Minnesota, Michigan, Kentucky, Kansas, Iowa, Indiana, Hawaii, Florida, Colorado, and California. How many black divorces are in these states,im sure there are many
You guys are so lucky to have him if you're in your teens or twenties or thirties. It's not too late for us 40 something's, but MAN!!! If I'd had this guidance from an uncle, older brother, etc., I see my life so differently. Take advantage!
I'm 30 found kevin a couple months ago and have binge watching his content since his death. I am shocked at the results I'm getting. I owe him so much already. rip 🐐
Kevin. I really needed to hear this break down. It helped a men like me figure some stuff out. Ive done alot of reflection and had confusion on the details of this conversation. I have traditional views that are the opposite of my nature. You broke it down and cleared that all up for me. I’ve been a tiger trying to fit a lion role and it has never worked out for me. It’s not my happy place. I feel stuck and suffocated forcing myself into that role. Appreciate it again sir. Salute
yeah I have had the same problem. I also feel like I should be a lion. But Tiger lifestyle has always fit me better. Glad you have had that realization as well. Cheers man.
@@Mike_M. I feel the same way with things and wonder is it just natural in my makeup to be a tiger cuz when I'm single I seem most happy...a relationship has never made me happier than being single and that means something...
Gawd damn, the man strikes again. All my years of animal planet have prepared me to absorb all these gems. The difference between tigresses and lionesses in the wild is a whole convo that will completely change how men understand dating in this era. Remember this, female tigers don’t overlap territory 🌚
Thanks Kevin i just turned 24 out here trying to do too much i have a small Business, Work full time and just started career college, but im learning to slow tf down and take a chill pill on becoming a Tiger i got to get through my pup faze first.
No you need to lead your life the way you want. Don’t get validation from a man on UA-cam if you are Cub, tiger or lion. Take the bull by the horns and be your self
This is gonna be one of those episodes that leads some mommas boys to be like “I used to rock with you til you said something that applies to me”. I can already tell.
all the mens should read the book ``No More Mr.Nice Guy`` specially those who were raised by their mothers you will understand why the father figure is so important in the life of a boy while growing up please help share this information about this book to other mens, mens we need to help each other
I'm a Lioness behaving like a Tigres because I was raised by a hyena. This show was very informative. I have to go to therapy to get rid of the hyena mindset.
I strongly recommend you to NOT GO therapy, Search the Lord with all your heart, forgive your mother and your father , don’t resent, don’t be angry, doubt every tough and do the Silent Prayer!
Another great show I hope you men realize that a problem we all have deep inside of us is that we try to handle jobs we’re not ready for society has taught us that you need to do everything but society has not told us is sometimes you’re not ready to do everything
Omg when Kevin talked about how male hyenas are treated all I could see in my minds eye was that picture of Will Smith with his arms out presenting Jada 😭
I think Kevin just figured out the game like all parents have done. They’ll tell their kids right from wrong but in their own life, it’s not about them anymore. They’re trying to give you all the game from their mess-ups and want you to do better than them. Of course Kevin doesn’t have the answers for any of us because all of this is Life!! His failures, were meant to be in a way. It has made him his career, teaching the world and hope, he lives a priceless life that no young woman can use her body, her vanity, her anything but give him priceless unconditional love. He will get old physically and he will need someone to love and care for him for the long haul.
Sometimes I wish I found Mr. Samuels Earlier in my life. Just turned 28. Married once and had a son. She fit every description of a modern woman. Divorced. Few years later met another woman and married. Had a son. Been married 7 months and halfway through I found Mr. Samuels and realized she’s modern as well. And he’ll she’s North African! I need a life coach. On the way to breaking the $100K mark trading on the Forex Market. Have many aspirations but my wife is holding me back i need to cut her as well but I hate not being with my son as they would move far away. Trying not to be the stereotype but she stresses me out and causes me attention to falter from my trading. Turning into more of an Alpha as the days go by to the point where she has said “I don’t like the man you’re becoming” lol. But Samuels is spot on. All I can do is persevere and make the right decisions.
Kevin this has been one of you’re realest videos, I’m 37 and just starting to be that multi 6 figure brother and it took me years and a lot of hard work and sacrifice to make it there. I’m the in real estate investment industry and I come across so many young cats that want that instant gratification and don’t wanna put in any work. It’s mind boggling to me thanks for this video I’m definitely going to share to the masses
He would never get nominated for that because what he said is not really true. Yes that is hyena heiarchy. But the way he talks about it would indicate that Female lions do not dominate male lions and that is absolutely false. Female lions will group up and attack even kill male lions when they threaten their cubs if they are able. They also will group up and attack male lions when they threaten the lioness group. Lions are just WAY bigger than female lions so they cannot challenge them one on one and the female lion will fall back but if she comes back with her girls make no mistake about it, they will attack a male lion. This is facts. The difference is lions only challenge the men when needed and even if it’s often it’s not their day to day structure like it is with Hyenas. However in life all that matters is survival and in that Hyenas are winning. They are nowhere near close to extinction.… lionesses do 90% of the hunting as well…research it. I think he would have been more accurate to point that out.
@@blasiankiki7831 Tbh, your point is irrelevant because the CONCEPTS that KS is relaying cannot be 100 percent 1:1 with reality. No analogy or metaphor is. The goal is to provide a conceptual framework for understanding a particular circumstance or dynamic. This is basic reason and logic. Your point about lionesses ganging up on male lions is logically irrelevant (and makes no logical sense as a criticism) because the lionesses are ganging up on OUTSIDE threats, not the male who LEADS the pride. In fact, your point supports the arguments made in the video. The female lions under the leadership of the male perform their duties to the pride based on their biological constitution. Female lions are not 1:1 with female humans. They are predatorial in a way that female humans are not, so it makes sense that the female lions in the pride hunt together while the male watches over the pride (that is their gender dynamic as felines). Ultimately, female lions DO NOT dominate male lions in the total ecosystem of lions. They gang up on outside threats. TLDR: your point isn’t really logically thorough, but I understand what you were trying to say.
@@Underratedcommentator no lionesses will kick pride males out and will attack them also if necessary even their mates when they get old a lioness will kill them. Lions are the only large cats that will dominate the males.. look it up. The analogy doesn’t have to be 100% parallel it should be accurate tho. Lionesses do not blindly follow.. it’s just not true.
@@Underratedcommentator but I see what he is trying to portray but I’m saying if you look at it from a survival point Hyenas are very effective at thriving and surviving. Hyenas are no where near extinct and according to nature that’s the main point. When all the big cats are gone there will still be an abundance of hyenas and they will be the top predator then. Just another perspective
@@blasiankiki7831 I already know this. But your logic is still not sound. Lionesses attack male lions in EXTREME circumstances. This is not the norm when it comes to their behavior. Typically, it is over limited food supply or the older lion is too weak to be useful to the pride. Why did you say “lionesses do not blindly follow?” Who said anything about females blindly following males? A smart woman/female will naturally follow a competent, strong, responsible man/male. That’s not being blind. That’s being wise. I could be wrong, but it sounds like you’re assuming that men want women to “blindly” follow them. Only man-babies want that because they are really only “qualified” to lead equally childish, ignorant, clueless women. Competent, strong, responsible men with a spiritual/moral compass are looking for an intelligent, wise woman to recognize his leadership and follow him of her own free will. There are levels to all of this. Lionesses, as you have described them, possess these traits. So again, the analogy is not 100% 1:1, but it’s certainly accurate enough and a great way of conceptualizing male-female human dynamics.
For the detractors who claim Kevin hates women and doesn’t keep the same energy for men, direct them to this video and the time stamp of 1:07:32 He was 100% honest with that man and kept the same energy, and called out the same BS that he does when he speaks with women
Man bust out laughing cuz I was thinking what ks was thinking. He def harder on us males. But we need tough love rather than pandering. No b*tch conversations or feelings just need straight truth.
The True Thaiger here Sir Kevin. Country Boy here that listens to you almost everyday. I’m originally from East Tennessee, but currently living 5 months per year in Thailand. Excellent Content Mr. Samuels !
Lions vs Tigers. Wish I woulda heard this decades ago. It would’ve saved me a lot of time and effort. Eye opening not just about who I am, but who I need to be looking for. KS - The Big Cat chaser!!!
1:17:37-1:21:00 🔥🔥🔥 KS *clap for him* This is some poignant shit. And what's crazy is we feel inferior or less than as men if we don't have a high body count or if our count is lower than others. Not one of the body's on my list has done anything for my manhood outside of sex. 🤷🏾♂️
As a young lion, it's great to know my lioness has got my back and i got hers. As long as i can lead and protect i aint got nothing else to worry about
If YOU BUILD IT THEY WILL COME! Stop looking and build! I turned my side hustle into my full time LLC and I’m 28. Pressure Washing and High End Detailing. We do every and anything dealing with gel coat and paint. Studying and eating shit since I was a kid with no father because I had a passion that I wanted to turn into money. Guys get on your purpose and leave these average bitches in the back. Get a woman who can run your empire not tear it down.
I'm going nominate Kevin Samuel for the Nobel peace prize. For his outstanding job in trying to correct this dysfunctional in women thinking and attitudes about men!👍🏾👍🏾
Good talk Kevin. I like how you reflect people with the behavioral characteristics of the animals. I am a lioness with experience myself. I hope this talk gets through to the young ones who are still trying to learn. Great points, good comparisons.
Naw you’re not KO, you hit the canvas but can get up, go to your corner, get the pep talk from your coaches and trainers, let them heal your cuts, and go back out there. Kevin is not Tyson, he’s more of a coach or trainer albeit honest and direct. Blessings to you fam 🙏🏾
I think every young man could appreciate todays monologue, the OG overdelivered and really put alot things into perspective. The Hyena part was funny but also very Deep …Brothers choose your path wisely (Tiger/Lion) but by all means don’t end up as a male Hyena getting jerked around out here !!
Something to keep in mind about Tigers and their potential role in the gender war/relationships, is just because tigers aren't providing a lineage or legacy (through children or their work/network)...doesn't mean they wanna see the whole of the community go to hell (keep in mind tigers likely still have family or friends that they wanna see prosper and thrive within said community). You don't need direct skin in the game, to wanna see the game improved/modified....everyone benefits when the community is in a better place.
Man I promise y’all I ain’t no 🍆 rider but he’s right again! We already know that it’s far too many women trying to be “this or that” early but it’s with far too many Men too. Life is a process and like Kevin said, a 4th Grader shouldn’t be thinking about College, we must go through things to get to things(dang I just made that up 😱 Praises to The Most High)! My favorite animal is an elephant but I love both Lions and Tigers but this is such a thought provoking conversation and live that I’m going to do some more research on it to get the answer. And I had to make a brief note on the hyena part, wow was it spot-on for the majority of OUR COMMUNITY SADLY 🤭😓😥😰😨😱.
This is why lions don't call in. Ever see a lion with his pride and territory? The lion doesn't care what other animals do until they cross the line. They are secure in their status.
@@aaronrowell2859 I see that as a good thing though and perhaps as men we need to have patience. This is how we learned. Some are slooooow learners. 🤣 But we also are not captain save a cat. I separated from my wife for a bit several years ago. Daughter lived with mom but I lived down the street and had her often. I don't look for a woman. I needed to get back to a certain place financially and socially. Yeah I smashed here and there, but not asking "where are the lionesses". Lol. Thankfully the wife and I reconciled and it's been a great 4 yrs.
I will Never forget when I was part of this Men’s club at my community college. One of the guys was talking about this gift for this girl, our leader straight up said why do y’all dudes go out to impress girls that are broker than yall. That stuck with me.
When he said there are numbers you can get too where you feel ashamed; I felt that in my soul..I felt that way some years ago and it's deep..salute to kevin for being honest to say that..that's a bar.
"If a woman isn't trying to follow your lead then let her go!" This is gospel! Years ago when I was a young man, I had an ex GF who I always clashed with over this. I'm ex military & she was a career retail manager who always tried to talk to everyone like they were her employees & we clashed frequently. We stayed into over this & she hated when I proved her wrong & got better results than her in anything. I ended up leaving her alone & years later I saw her again & she had become a lesbian. Dodged a huge bullet.
🤦♂️🤦♂️ Respects I know what you went through.💪
You have Dr. O Neal's picture as your avatar. I see you are a man of culture as well
Oh so she is happier sexually and emotionally considering your here.
@@HaloFan117_ Bwahahahahahahaha ~~I h8 you~~Hahahahahahaha
That's an example where a woman can't chat never be wrong . And I bet she picked a weak ass one
The Hyena analogy is spot on in most Modern Day black families, the Male basically has to submit to all the females in his family, this the result of being raised by a single Mother
Yep that's exactly why my black father left his home at 15 to go at it. And I left my white mothers home at 14 to do the same. My younger brothers weren't as fortunate to have their balls grow early 😂! I learned a lot about life women men and boys and girls during that transition, and today I operate in opposition to many stereotypes placed on me, including the ones my own blood threw on me! Its all good, despite the BS. There is no knowledge that is not power!
So true I feel the same way the American government put black men that have children and take care of them get treated like the male hyena and that's wrong.
Spot on
I was raised by a single mother and I almost became that myself...I had to move out and tough it out on my own... I've went through days/ nights with no food, lights getting turned off at one point, nothing but an air mattress in a one bedroom apartment, etc.... but I wouldn't go backwards for nothing...it's shaping me into the man that I inspire to be in the future...
@@jboymontel1 I don’t get it. So you rather live a life of no electricity and hungry days just because you can’t be a man in your mom’s household. A man is something you are, no one can take that from you… you just have to know that yourself. If you are still in that situation, please go home( i coming from a point that she’s a good mom). God bless you!
I admire Kevin because despite some of the women who get angry at his content, he’s consistent in his approach, even with the men. I use to watch his earlier content speaking with men & he is actually more brutal with the men. I don’t think he has it out for women, I believe he is here to give direction to our generation.
He don't play no shit with the men... 😂
That’s what long time KS watchers been screaming
Sister, you hit this. He's quite patient, just very direct with both men and women.
I said the same thing to my friends who doesn't like him. Us,men, are able to accept the reality. Godfather is right. At early 20's, we are far from ready. We got so much to learn and get our best outcomes. Patience is really a virtue.
@@raziqilm how you take what she said as an opportunity to speak down on women? Kevin just a vessel for a message critical to the black community. We need more women that see the vision & here you are complaining about women to a woman that AGREED smh pick your fights better
As soon as KS started talking about "it's not your turn" it made complete sense right away, I'm about to be 43 and been at my job for going on 21yrs, I'm in the construction trades and know everything about my position, so basically I'm considered a journeyman, I have a lot of guys under me that I train (cubs), the guys that stick around take my advice to slow down and take notes to learn, I've had cubs in the past get cocky and try to jump the line, as soon as they get thrown in the lions den they freak out and realize they had false confidence (male hyena) and quit, basically saying with experience slow down fellas, keep stacking your money at your position and keep taking notes, learning from the older guys, KS is 10yrs older than me and I'm still learning new information that was outside my understanding for the longest time, I realized I was reading women, relationships and marketplace value all wrong, at my age none of this content was as readily available growing up, there's a saying "the day I know everything is the day I quit", good luck fellas, keep taking notes as there is always something new to learn
Brilliant advice
I'd be honored to pick your brain.
@@toddcann2407 if I'm able to help I'm more than happy to where I can
@@mathewvonderaujr5694 That trade analogy was Deep you gave .🔥🔥🔥
What type are you in ?
1- Hyena breakdown - VIRTUOSO!!
2- I think the reason why most men who call in on men's week aren't quite thoroughbreds in what they say/how they move is bc the men who are, we don't have to call. These are concepts we learned & are living currently. For my young guns on the path, take KS style & run towards it not away from it. I'm 37, but I still appreciate/grow from what KS is talking about with younger guys bc I see/live in the next stage KS will cover
That’s a fact I’m 21 and I wholeheartedly agree with your second point most these dudes that are calling in are operating on a feminine mindset they wanna be somewhere their not yet in life and I look at life like a food line every dude that calls in wants to be first in to eat( to obtain marriage, get a career, kids,the house etc) however dudes in my age group (18-29) gotta wait on that because cutting the line will have you getting an hyena pregnant(matriarchal female), having multiple kids like the other dude that called in, and messing in up your life in other ways too most dudes need to just slow down and humble themselves and realize their reality and the life their living now to keep them from being in a fantasy world
Couldn't agree more. The problem is the amount of callers that called aren't disciplined. The last caller was someone willing to listen and is on the right track given that he has no kids, has a career and now has to put in work to continue his legacy (pride).
I'm 30 and willing to learn and grow from old heads with constructive criticism. Lots of these young dudes are nothing but 🤡 in the comment section who are willing to judge but not judge themselves to become better. At the end of the day, to each their own.
@@Justheremeout i respect the fact that you see where other guys are slipping & know to do something different. If you 🔑 in to KS now, you gonna be a beast when you get to my age young bro. Respect 💪
@@NunYaBiz1313 alot of guys who call in tend to come off as more introverted/almost incel types. I see why they struggle. Then some guys played sports like I did & was used to coaches cursing/yelling at me to get my game better. KS is essentially that but for real life. Even tho the guys aren't as thorough as they need to be, they have the courage to call & listen, not call & argue to be right. It's a step in the right direction
Thats a fact bro
This podcast on repeat in 2023. Its already 3x, and still rolling.
RIP the Godfather.
Greatly missed. Hoping Mr. Samuels resting in Jesus' glory.
Kevin is spot on with the, "your not ready/it's not your time " when it comes to men.
Time is an advantage when you have it so take time to learn young brothers ✊🏿
It's so hard to not be disappointed and judgmental of yourself as a young man when you see so many others who are further ahead of you.
I'm 31 and I'm nowhere near where I'm supposed to be. I get what Kevin is saying, but at the same time, it sucks being so far away from being where you're supposed to be
@@torachan23 same i was supposed to be a sport prodigy but have a severe rib and hip injury and im 22 so im at the age im basically to far gone to learn something new that can elevate me, and my body feels like it should if im a retired 60 year old and have a couple mill in my savings account.
I never saw myself as a Tiger. I'm not a player (never saw myself as having "game"), I've been a loner introvert all my life, fascinated by "nerdy" pursuits- learning foriegn languages, traveling, comic books from foreign countries, foreign films, rugby and indoor-rockclimbing. In my 20s, women tended to leave me alone, then I hit my 30s and all this attention from not just Black women, but women who spoke the foriegn languages I learned (French, Turkish, Arabic). But they were "Lionesses", wanting to settle down, and well, I felt I wasn't ready. I broke a lot of hearts (and most of them still haunt me), but I had to be true to myself. I wasn't done learning from the world nor felt financially secure enough to settle yet. I have to face that, for whatever reasons I might need therapy for, I'm a tiger for life.
@@T0YCHEST you still have more to offer. There are young men that can benefit from your insight and work ethic. Don't think you don't you do! ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿
You want to be established or on the way before you start focusing on the women, by age 35 you should be ready to engage the next phase of life, that of a family man. IMHO
“You don’t need anything dealing with women, you need to be a monk” -that fked me up 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 yo I felt a way when he was talking to that young man
😂🤣😅
On some y’all sure y’all wasn’t high before getting high?🤔
Ab-So-Lutely! 😂
"Unlike most mammals, male hyenas are subordinate to females... Sounds like anybody's community?" 😆
Female hyenas are bigger than males. Yea, that sounds familiar.
@@free_at_last8141 *big shirley tuba
If this comparison doesn't straighten folks out they are doomed
Mind Blowin’ 🤯
@@Mike_M. Yes, people to support that lovely sister.
Time stamps
0:00 Opening Song, 🎵 Your good lies by Vividry 🎵
3:05 🎬 Show starts, Monologue, The Time You Blow The Competition Away, Fragrance of the evening , Candle of the evening Le Labo santal 26
9:30 The lion Path (Husband/legacy/network) and Tiger Path (Bachelor)
35:10 Why It Sucks to be a Male Hyena
45:02 1st Caller age 22, 2nd Caller, 3rd Caller age 45, 4th Caller age 25, 5th Caller age 27
1:02:22 6th Caller age 38, 7th Caller Mr. English age 27, 8th Caller Darius age 26, 9th Caller age 32
1:30:26 Closing words
1:32:42 Outro
Thank You Brother
Thanks bro for the great work
Thank you as always Sir Deshawn. Most appreciated.💜🙏🏾
Thank you 🙏🏾☺️
Pin this Kevin
If you’re under 29 especially PLEASE listen to this man. He’s telling you everything my father tried to tell me in my 20s, but I was too caught up in having fun and girlfriends. Now at 34 I’m seeing the payoff of taking both my fathers advice and Mr. Samuels advice as well. I actually called my Dad yesterday and told him damn you were right. Women ain’t going anywhere fellas get your money up , get on your fitness game, dress like the man you want to become not the man you are, and I promise you the females will come. Being financially stable in your mid 30s is a good deal because you have the maturity and plenty of youth and you can be with someone 23-25 and it’ll be no big deal. I know so many people who dated someone all throughout their 20s only to end up never married. Don’t do that dumb shit. As Mr. Samuels says dating is dumb!
You lost cause me ,I'm not dying to settle or marry these chicks they for entertainment purposes only 🤣🤣,Prove me wrong
@@yoghetty5636 who said anything about settling? When I’m in the position where I feel marriage is an option I’ll do it. It’s that simple. I know who’s for fun and who more than that.
gems
Definitely on point. I’m currently 29, since past 2yrs ago my full focus is on myself to make up for my early 20,s played time.
Would you say that your looks have increased or stayed the same into your mid 30s, assuming you're taking care of yourself? Also what other areas would you say that you've become more attractive to women besides looks? I'm currently 27 and I can have fun with attractive women but most don't want to stick around because they're also dating these mid 30s higher earning higher status men.
"Kevin is rude to women!!!" Really? Kevin gives men zero tolerance! Appreciate it though!!
Telling someone the truth is NEVER rude
And the women won’t make a video saying he wrong for talking like this to men…
@@lennardharris9093 Never Ever
Exactly. No means no remember? You aren’t this tall to get on the ride🙋🏽♂️
I never saw myself as a Tiger. I'm not a player (never saw myself as having "game"), I've been a loner introvert all my life, fascinated by "nerdy" pursuits- learning foriegn languages, traveling, comic books from foreign countries, foreign films, rugby and indoor-rockclimbing. In my 20s, women tended to leave me alone, then I hit my 30s and all this attention from not just Black women, but women who spoke the foriegn languages I learned (French, Turkish, Arabic). But they were "Lionesses", wanting to settle down, and well, I felt I wasn't ready. I broke a lot of hearts (and most of them still haunt me), but I had to be true to myself. I wasn't done learning from the world nor felt financially secure enough to settle yet. I had to face that, for whatever reasons I might need therapy for, I'm a tiger for life.
Definitely a Tiger!
Something KS has said on other videos is that life is about people and relationships. If you're going to be a tiger for life, then you should start planning to have a nurse to look out for you when you're too old to get up from bed and all the way to your death.
Be a tiger in your 20s and early 30s. Become a feared lion after.
Broke a lot of hearts..... y'all say this so readily, be ready for your Karma.
Deep
Peace & Love,
Although I Have A Gift Of Gab And A Natural Ability Of Approaching, Being Around, Making Women Comfortable & Laugh (Most Would Assume That As Having "Game") I Feel The Same Way As Being A Tiger With "Nerdy Pursuits."
Our Culture Needs To Reframe Being Highly Educated & Well Versed In Worldly Concepts, Alongside Being Aware Of Various Cultures, As Being Knowledgeable & Wise Instead Of "Nerdy Pursuits."
Based On What You Listed, I Don't Think You Need Therapy For Those Reasons; It Sounds As If You Are Just Trying To Learn Who You Are And Find Your Place In Life. Knowledge Of Self/Self-Awareness Is How You Become A Well Complete Man. That Awareness Ultimately Leads To Wisely Eliminating & Dodging Energies, Actions And Experiences That Don't Align W/ Your Way Of Life = Equates To A Well Balanced, Free-Flowing, Prosperous Life/Lifestyle.
Peace & Love!!!
Rest in Power Kevin. I’m 27 now. Just now actually ingesting your content. How I wish I could be on your stream right now today. Rest well sir.
Don't expect a woman to follow you if your directions are unclear. Yes you can marry young if you are in a position to protect, provide, and lead. If not...wait your season gents.
Exactly! Many men think there good leaders! Until it’s time to lead and have zero direction and wonder why the women don’t follow!
@@reese85 facts...accountability starts with analyzing yourself honestly first.
Remember you have to learn to lead yourself before anyone.
@@mra.4466 Absolutely Agree!
I've always wanted to be a wife and have my husbands children. i did that. i was submissive, catered to him, like my mom did for my father. she taught all us 3 girls to cook, make and bake from scratch, biscuits, breads, pies and cakes, clean, sort, wash , dry & iron laundry. we ironed sheets too? how to take care of ourselves from bathing to styling our long thick hair. sent us to the best schools, where we were taught social skills, proper etiquette, setting a formal table, to and manners. And the school still had all of the educational attributes typical of all the higher learning institutions, including sports. Now, add the 2 churches, and choir . so i got married months after graduating from high school. I was ready and mature.
When I learned about hyenas I was awestruck. I then reflected on our community and couldn’t decide between laughter or tears
God damn. Paradigm fuckin' shifter. This man is a beautiful genius. Handsome. I'll be damned. Love you, Kevin. Rest in peace, brother. You'll always be remembered and changed the world with your gravitas, gift of gab, wisdom and class. May your spirit guide this generation and future generations of strong lions and tigers.
I got chills when I heard what Kevin said at the 1:28 mark about what you are picking. "It may not look like what you expect it to look like. Lioness don't look like Tigers". That wisdom is GOLD! It will be the key to your happiness.
Kevin started his career by talking to men. He’s only went viral when he started Talking to women. He’s also much more harsh with guys. Truth we need!
Brother...u went to the bottom of the ocean with the "hyena" comparison. That was deep and was VERY eye opening. Thank you KS!!!
I appreciate Kevin taking the time to help the young man with 3 kids.
Kevin is so funny. I could tell he put so much research and time. yall better book a session.......
Hey! Would you consider the president a High value man? Do you think if you in that position, you could smash any Instagram model?
That's what I'm going to be doing wjth Kevin
😂 at 42:30 it was so funny but true about these stankin nappy heaeded wildebeest
I'm ah Gen X
We heard if you wanna hide something put it I a Book.
People say to me ,you think you know everything..I saw Naw just obout thought!
@@knowledge_driven i mean yeah ..is the president considered a high value? 🤔 if so ,then of course he could smash any Instagram wanna be model
The correlation of the hyenas to our communities was so profound.
Yet Hyenas are actually doing perfectly fine in the wild they are one of the most successful predators on the planet. I believe they have a higher success rate then lions.
i would say its an insult to the Hyenas lol
@@xMckingwill But they're still not as powerful as the lion....it takes 10 hyenas to take down a lion. Kind of like black women as "succcessful as they are as predators"...they can't defeat white America
@@TheSupremeDunk Correction it takes a dozen Hyenas to take out the LIONESS, male lions barely hunt and barely fight the female lions do 90% of the work to protect and provide for the pride. There are many cases of Hyenas chasing off lion prides. In fact lions look out for the hyenas after a hunt so they don't steal their kill.
these animals AVOID conflict unless its a last resort.
In addition Hyenas are a HIGHLY COOPERATIVE AND SOCIAL SPECIES JUST LIKE LIONS. The males and female WORK TOGETHER to hunt and survive. So again a terrible comparison.
( im a bit of an animal nerd)
In addition it takes an entire pride to take down one water Buffalo should we use water buffalo's as out model for human behavior.
@@xMckingwill 🧢. While it's true that male lions usually don't hunt because they are busy patrolling their territory, they hunt when the big kill is needed. Not even 20 hyenas can take on 2 males. Honestly, their only saving grace is their bite force. In every animal species where the females are dominant, the males are the oppressed ones. Hyenas and almost every bug colony only use the males for mating. And then they are put on the bottom of the social ladder. Sure, hyenas are cohesive in hunting, but so are patriarchal animals such as African wild dogs, wolf packs, and finally lions. The difference is, the males don't OPPRESS the females.
@@YourLocalRussianNegro
1.Not entirely true. the females play a very large role in protecting and patrolling the territory.
2. Hyena do push away lion prides of of hunts
3. You cannot compare insects to mammals there is no such thing as "oppression" Insect colonies. They are simply behaving the way they do males just do their role.
5. Wrong again they are not just cohesive they have a HIGHER success rate then lions. And Hyeana have one of THE MOST cooperative social structure.
6. Males dont oppress the female really, its not like male lions commit inficide simply to reproduce with a female. Umm look at human history and how human males oppressed females so that arguments fails.
7. wolfs pack are mostly comprised of a male female and their cubs so that doesn't apply to them I never suggested other patriarchal species are not successful
8. Regardless of how you feel hyena are surviving just fine so whatever they do works
The hyena analogy reminds me of Crimson Cure's content. The matriarchy has really destroyed black people, men and women alike. This interview really drives home this point. Perfect analysis of the communitah! Brilliant content as usual.
It really was frfr 💯
This was power "given" to them in 1969 (No Fault Divorce instated by conservative all-star ronald reagan). It can easily be taken away from them by walking away.
I feel sorry for black men that desires to be with the average black woman today.
@@shinyamada488 - Firstly no-fault divorce is a state by state issue not a nation wide one. Secondly in order to have legislation passed you need to have the majority of senate (both parties) in agreement. This was not something Ronald Regan waved a magic wand over the land & made law. (It’s not even within his authority to do so) Making “laws” from a position of military leader wasn’t even a thing until Obama/Biden administration. What you’re talking about is in 1969 when Ronald Reagan was the governor of California. Seeking to eliminate the strife & deception often associated with the legal regime of fault-based divorce, he signed the nation's first no-fault divorce bill. He later admitted that this was one the biggest mistakes of his career. Each individual state & representatives are at fault for enacting their own legislation. Many of which have never expressed regret for their actions.
@@SamanthaP48 Seventeen states in the US are considered “no-fault states” for divorce. These no-fault divorce states are Wisconsin, Oregon, Washington, Nevada, Nebraska, Montana, Missouri, Minnesota, Michigan, Kentucky, Kansas, Iowa, Indiana, Hawaii, Florida, Colorado, and California. How many black divorces are in these states,im sure there are many
Kevin you outdid yourself. This was intellectually brilliant, creative, accurate, and entertaining... simultaneously 👏 👏 👏
You guys are so lucky to have him if you're in your teens or twenties or thirties. It's not too late for us 40 something's, but MAN!!! If I'd had this guidance from an uncle, older brother, etc., I see my life so differently. Take advantage!
I'm 30 found kevin a couple months ago and have binge watching his content since his death. I am shocked at the results I'm getting. I owe him so much already. rip 🐐
As a nerd for the animal kingdom stuff this is smart af and funny as hell. The monologue on last call was spot on. 🤣😂
Ok. read Mine above...
@@Gaigin22.32 ??
@@Gaigin22.32 Read what?
Kevin. I really needed to hear this break down. It helped a men like me figure some stuff out. Ive done alot of reflection and had confusion on the details of this conversation. I have traditional views that are the opposite of my nature. You broke it down and cleared that all up for me. I’ve been a tiger trying to fit a lion role and it has never worked out for me. It’s not my happy place. I feel stuck and suffocated forcing myself into that role. Appreciate it again sir. Salute
yeah I have had the same problem. I also feel like I should be a lion. But Tiger lifestyle has always fit me better. Glad you have had that realization as well. Cheers man.
@@Mike_M. I feel the same way with things and wonder is it just natural in my makeup to be a tiger cuz when I'm single I seem most happy...a relationship has never made me happier than being single and that means something...
Gawd damn, the man strikes again. All my years of animal planet have prepared me to absorb all these gems. The difference between tigresses and lionesses in the wild is a whole convo that will completely change how men understand dating in this era. Remember this, female tigers don’t overlap territory 🌚
Thanks Kevin i just turned 24 out here trying to do too much i have a small Business, Work full time and just started career college, but im learning to slow tf down and take a chill pill on becoming a Tiger i got to get through my pup faze first.
lol did you listen to the whole video?
No you need to lead your life the way you want. Don’t get validation from a man on UA-cam if you are Cub, tiger or lion. Take the bull by the horns and be your self
Bro I’m in the same situation. 25 I moved Back in my mom crib and all so I can organize everything and hit all my goals at a healthy pace
same bro! i had to be a man at 14 but im realizing its ok to slow up and enjoy my youth while its here
You forgot one thing Kevin, Hyenas are loud and make a lot of noise!!! 😄🤣
They laugh at the Pride....until The Lion shows up!
They also fight In groups and snatch hard working animals food.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
☝🏽
Are you threatened by the hyenas? You might be a male hyena, lol.
This show is probably one of the most excellent I have seen from Mr. Samuels.
Taken too soon from this world, thank you for the legacy of wisdom you left behind.
This is gonna be one of those episodes that leads some mommas boys to be like “I used to rock with you til you said something that applies to me”. I can already tell.
Them soy boys gon get the milk slapped from em whether it’s here or elsewhere
Lol I hope it's a call to action..
N*ggas don’t be knowing rules and sh*t. Like, vantage points and who’s name be on territorial rights and thangs🤣
"The Horrible Life Of A Male Hyena" - sounds like the life of your average modern man with the average modern woman!
Exactly!
More like any man with the modern baby momma
So many parallels smh
That hit home
Try that with a silverback though...
I always loved nature shows since childhood. The Hyena comparison to the hood mentality is just too accurate and scary.
all the mens should read the book ``No More Mr.Nice Guy`` specially those who were raised by their mothers
you will understand why the father figure is so important in the life of a boy while growing up
please help share this information about this book to other mens, mens we need to help each other
I'm a Lioness behaving like a Tigres because I was raised by a hyena. This show was very informative. I have to go to therapy to get rid of the hyena mindset.
Good on you for the honest introspection. I wish you all the best as you pursue healing and self improvement. May the force be with you 👊🏾
I strongly recommend you to NOT GO therapy,
Search the Lord with all your heart, forgive your mother and your father , don’t resent, don’t be angry, doubt every tough and do the Silent Prayer!
Kudos to you for being self aware 💪🏾💪🏾
Nah, Cougar?
@@GB2139 pure feel good nonsense
We need to understand, there Is a class separation amongst our black culture. High Society, vs Entertainers vs Street
Perfection is the only word I could use to describe this . This was a phenomenal show. There's no better way to describe our current situation.
I was raised in a family with my Father and mother. My DAD was the HEAD of the household which is exactly how it should be.
This video made perfect sense to me and really hit home...KS does a good job of framing social constructs and ideals, particularly for our community!
Thank you, Mr. Samuels for all that you have done for us. We respect you and miss you. RIP
Another great show I hope you men realize that a problem we all have deep inside of us is that we try to handle jobs we’re not ready for society has taught us that you need to do everything but society has not told us is sometimes you’re not ready to do everything
Omg when Kevin talked about how male hyenas are treated all I could see in my minds eye was that picture of Will Smith with his arms out presenting Jada 😭
Lmao it popped in my head. Cant unsee it
I think Kevin just figured out the game like all parents have done. They’ll tell their kids right from wrong but in their own life, it’s not about them anymore. They’re trying to give you all the game from their mess-ups and want you to do better than them. Of course Kevin doesn’t have the answers for any of us because all of this is Life!! His failures, were meant to be in a way. It has made him his career, teaching the world and hope, he lives a priceless life that no young woman can use her body, her vanity, her anything but give him priceless unconditional love. He will get old physically and he will need someone to love and care for him for the long haul.
Sometimes I wish I found Mr. Samuels Earlier in my life. Just turned 28. Married once and had a son. She fit every description of a modern woman. Divorced. Few years later met another woman and married. Had a son. Been married 7 months and halfway through I found Mr. Samuels and realized she’s modern as well. And he’ll she’s North African! I need a life coach. On the way to breaking the $100K mark trading on the Forex Market. Have many aspirations but my wife is holding me back i need to cut her as well but I hate not being with my son as they would move far away. Trying not to be the stereotype but she stresses me out and causes me attention to falter from my trading. Turning into more of an Alpha as the days go by to the point where she has said “I don’t like the man you’re becoming” lol. But Samuels is spot on. All I can do is persevere and make the right decisions.
Damn, if she is not following your path or lead... let her go. Amen Kevin. Get your education, stack your dollars and see the world.
Right. But that tends to be found jn the first world because of modern comforts and wealth I'm guessing.
“Gotta be willing to bring home the wildebeest, the gazelle...” LMAOOOOO
emphasis on see the world
the world is so big man
"You're 25, you're neither Lion nor Tiger, you're a pup. You don't have a dikk yet in this game. You're not special!" - Classic KS!! 54:01
how women don’t even notice how much more direct with men he is, and the men take it no fuss or hard feelings
Kevin this has been one of you’re realest videos, I’m 37 and just starting to be that multi 6 figure brother and it took me years and a lot of hard work and sacrifice to make it there. I’m the in real estate investment industry and I come across so many young cats that want that instant gratification and don’t wanna put in any work. It’s mind boggling to me thanks for this video I’m definitely going to share to the masses
This is a sermon! Preach, preachah!!!
That Hyena mindset, is what I see in the community.
1:13:00 Had me tears when he called him a woman and he said "Damn"
i miss this man. taught me a lot.
KS deserves a Nobel peace prize dealing with the male hyenas can be worse than the the F hyenas
He would never get nominated for that because what he said is not really true. Yes that is hyena heiarchy. But the way he talks about it would indicate that Female lions do not dominate male lions and that is absolutely false. Female lions will group up and attack even kill male lions when they threaten their cubs if they are able. They also will group up and attack male lions when they threaten the lioness group. Lions are just WAY bigger than female lions so they cannot challenge them one on one and the female lion will fall back but if she comes back with her girls make no mistake about it, they will attack a male lion. This is facts. The difference is lions only challenge the men when needed and even if it’s often it’s not their day to day structure like it is with Hyenas. However in life all that matters is survival and in that Hyenas are winning. They are nowhere near close to extinction.… lionesses do 90% of the hunting as well…research it. I think he would have been more accurate to point that out.
@@blasiankiki7831 Tbh, your point is irrelevant because the CONCEPTS that KS is relaying cannot be 100 percent 1:1 with reality. No analogy or metaphor is. The goal is to provide a conceptual framework for understanding a particular circumstance or dynamic. This is basic reason and logic.
Your point about lionesses ganging up on male lions is logically irrelevant (and makes no logical sense as a criticism) because the lionesses are ganging up on OUTSIDE threats, not the male who LEADS the pride. In fact, your point supports the arguments made in the video. The female lions under the leadership of the male perform their duties to the pride based on their biological constitution. Female lions are not 1:1 with female humans. They are predatorial in a way that female humans are not, so it makes sense that the female lions in the pride hunt together while the male watches over the pride (that is their gender dynamic as felines). Ultimately, female lions DO NOT dominate male lions in the total ecosystem of lions. They gang up on outside threats.
TLDR: your point isn’t really logically thorough, but I understand what you were trying to say.
@@Underratedcommentator no lionesses will kick pride males out and will attack them also if necessary even their mates when they get old a lioness will kill them. Lions are the only large cats that will dominate the males.. look it up. The analogy doesn’t have to be 100% parallel it should be accurate tho. Lionesses do not blindly follow.. it’s just not true.
@@Underratedcommentator but I see what he is trying to portray but I’m saying if you look at it from a survival point Hyenas are very effective at thriving and surviving. Hyenas are no where near extinct and according to nature that’s the main point. When all the big cats are gone there will still be an abundance of hyenas and they will be the top predator then. Just another perspective
@@blasiankiki7831 I already know this. But your logic is still not sound. Lionesses attack male lions in EXTREME circumstances. This is not the norm when it comes to their behavior. Typically, it is over limited food supply or the older lion is too weak to be useful to the pride. Why did you say “lionesses do not blindly follow?” Who said anything about females blindly following males? A smart woman/female will naturally follow a competent, strong, responsible man/male. That’s not being blind. That’s being wise.
I could be wrong, but it sounds like you’re assuming that men want women to “blindly” follow them. Only man-babies want that because they are really only “qualified” to lead equally childish, ignorant, clueless women.
Competent, strong, responsible men with a spiritual/moral compass are looking for an intelligent, wise woman to recognize his leadership and follow him of her own free will. There are levels to all of this. Lionesses, as you have described them, possess these traits.
So again, the analogy is not 100% 1:1, but it’s certainly accurate enough and a great way of conceptualizing male-female human dynamics.
For the detractors who claim Kevin hates women and doesn’t keep the same energy for men, direct them to this video and the time stamp of 1:07:32
He was 100% honest with that man and kept the same energy, and called out the same BS that he does when he speaks with women
Man bust out laughing cuz I was thinking what ks was thinking. He def harder on us males. But we need tough love rather than pandering. No b*tch conversations or feelings just need straight truth.
@@BLEW313 he actually is harder on men which makes sense. But when he was kicking mfs off I was surprised 🤣
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“That tiger ain’t go crazy, that tiger went tiger!” This quote from Chris Rock says it perfectly. Be who you are meant to be. Shouts out to KS!
The True Thaiger here Sir Kevin. Country Boy here that listens to you almost everyday. I’m originally from East Tennessee, but currently living 5 months per year in Thailand. Excellent Content Mr. Samuels !
These male conversations are sometimes worse than talking to the women... 😔
Need to be. We da leaders.
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Lions vs Tigers. Wish I woulda heard this decades ago. It would’ve saved me a lot of time and effort. Eye opening not just about who I am, but who I need to be looking for. KS - The Big Cat chaser!!!
Truth is, A lion does not have to call in. Facts
1:17:37-1:21:00 🔥🔥🔥 KS *clap for him* This is some poignant shit. And what's crazy is we feel inferior or less than as men if we don't have a high body count or if our count is lower than others. Not one of the body's on my list has done anything for my manhood outside of sex. 🤷🏾♂️
Yes! He definitely wanted ppl to know he had a rotation.
As a young lion, it's great to know my lioness has got my back and i got hers. As long as i can lead and protect i aint got nothing else to worry about
I miss the Godfather so much! He was the G.O.A.T.!
You blew my mind with this monologue, the hyena analogy 😧
If YOU BUILD IT THEY WILL COME! Stop looking and build! I turned my side hustle into my full time LLC and I’m 28. Pressure Washing and High End Detailing. We do every and anything dealing with gel coat and paint. Studying and eating shit since I was a kid with no father because I had a passion that I wanted to turn into money. Guys get on your purpose and leave these average bitches in the back. Get a woman who can run your empire not tear it down.
It's a DAMN SHAME that most of these guys that REALLY NEED IT will just pass right over this comment.
@@GoofyFlan very true
@@purplegirl8036 KS has some of the BIGGEST LOSERS all pumped up thinking they're hvm when in reality, KS isn't a hvm. He's a high-earning man.
@@GoofyFlan u sound goofy
OMG LMAO at “ if you are in the fourth grade you don’t start filling out college applications” 🤣🤣🤣facts
I'm going nominate Kevin Samuel for the Nobel peace prize. For his outstanding job in trying to correct this dysfunctional in women thinking and attitudes about men!👍🏾👍🏾
25 and income went up 20+ thousand since listening to you. Thanks 😊
Kevin told that boy he needs 2 b a monk!!!!🤣😂
Oh, word?👨🏿🦳
Kevin is keeping that same energy with men just like when he speaks to women. 💯💯
Best content is when KS addresses the men. Good work!
Good talk Kevin. I like how you reflect people with the behavioral characteristics of the animals. I am a lioness with experience myself. I hope this talk gets through to the young ones who are still trying to learn. Great points, good comparisons.
🙌🏾🙌🏾 to you godfather 🔥🔥, to all the young men out there, take heed to what being said and takes notes and be focus on YOURSELF, stop chasing women...
1:03:56 "You must customize your woman for you" this some rich man activity 😂
This man is a legend
Lmao this stream gave me a right hook from Mike Tyson
Naw you’re not KO, you hit the canvas but can get up, go to your corner, get the pep talk from your coaches and trainers, let them heal your cuts, and go back out there. Kevin is not Tyson, he’s more of a coach or trainer albeit honest and direct. Blessings to you fam 🙏🏾
As always. Preach brother Samuels, preach! God bless you sir!
“You going at this conversation like a b****” man he needed to hear that
I saw this live and said,,,”All this time I thought I was Lion, I’m a god damm Tiger”. Godfather taught some real shyt. Miss this Brother.
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I think every young man could appreciate todays monologue, the OG overdelivered and really put alot things into perspective.
The Hyena part was funny but also very Deep …Brothers choose your path wisely (Tiger/Lion) but by all means don’t end up as a male Hyena getting jerked around out here !!
yeap, if you have any similarities with the hyena example do your best to change asap
Something to keep in mind about Tigers and their potential role in the gender war/relationships, is just because tigers aren't providing a lineage or legacy (through children or their work/network)...doesn't mean they wanna see the whole of the community go to hell (keep in mind tigers likely still have family or friends that they wanna see prosper and thrive within said community). You don't need direct skin in the game, to wanna see the game improved/modified....everyone benefits when the community is in a better place.
Man I promise y’all I ain’t no 🍆 rider but he’s right again! We already know that it’s far too many women trying to be “this or that” early but it’s with far too many Men too. Life is a process and like Kevin said, a 4th Grader shouldn’t be thinking about College, we must go through things to get to things(dang I just made that up 😱 Praises to The Most High)! My favorite animal is an elephant but I love both Lions and Tigers but this is such a thought provoking conversation and live that I’m going to do some more research on it to get the answer. And I had to make a brief note on the hyena part, wow was it spot-on for the majority of OUR COMMUNITY SADLY 🤭😓😥😰😨😱.
That’s a helluva sayin my boi 💯 a 4th grader shouldn’t be thinking bout college ✊🏾💯💯💯
@@johnsonneeks90 Yeah that was 💯🥶
@@erictoomer5665 facts 💯
All praise to The Most High
@ Eric Toomer - What is it that you like about the elephant? Can you elaborate?
One of the best podcast ! Should have been longer ! AWESOMe work.
"Pick women that are in your life, with your eyes closed" 💯
The hyena comparison was very accurate. Wow. I learn something every time I watch his channel.
This is why lions don't call in.
Ever see a lion with his pride and territory? The lion doesn't care what other animals do until they cross the line. They are secure in their status.
Very true, these guys are almost as silly as the women that come on his show
@@aaronrowell2859 I see that as a good thing though and perhaps as men we need to have patience. This is how we learned. Some are slooooow learners. 🤣 But we also are not captain save a cat.
I separated from my wife for a bit several years ago. Daughter lived with mom but I lived down the street and had her often. I don't look for a woman. I needed to get back to a certain place financially and socially. Yeah I smashed here and there, but not asking "where are the lionesses". Lol. Thankfully the wife and I reconciled and it's been a great 4 yrs.
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KS! Excellent content, this is one of the best programs thus far! Thank you for being you!
I will Never forget when I was part of this Men’s club at my community college. One of the guys was talking about this gift for this girl, our leader straight up said why do y’all dudes go out to impress girls that are broker than yall. That stuck with me.
That doesn’t make sense. You want to be submissive to a hyena?
RIP, the world needs you more than ever uncle Kevin.
" This Is The Conversation Your Father Should Have Had With You " LISTEN TO YOUR GODFATHER !
“Fucking doesn’t make you a man.” Preach KS ✊🏾
Being a sleeping lion for so long. Time to wake up!
Yeah, tryna let us know it’s finna really get real for n*ggas caught slippin man👀
It always amazes me he seems to be able to do these hour+ long shows off the cuff without any notes.
How this doesn’t have a million views and this my fourth time watching it. Is besides me
It seems like the lions would'nt be calling in, and certainly not like, "uh..uh.. i'm a lion"
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Female Hyena, bigger than the males? 😯Big Shirleys? 🤔
You ever seen an overweight hyena though? 😆
When he said there are numbers you can get too where you feel ashamed; I felt that in my soul..I felt that way some years ago and it's deep..salute to kevin for being honest to say that..that's a bar.