@@malemaline please believe me when I say that MOST parents DON'T deserve it. Being able to show grace to those who have denied it to YOU, isn't for those parents...it means those grown up children are healing. I have forgiven my mother without ever hearing "I'm sorry"
Grace is never "deserved" that's why it's grace. We extend grace because they deserve the opposite. If we had to "deserve" God's grace, heaven would stay empty.
@@KKRRAAKKHHEEAADD He consistently displays a growth mentality. It's obvious in his conversations. (What he does & does not say); it's in his music, his power moves, how he handles adversity, his family. All aspects of his life. He's extremely positive. I see a solid, growing man on display.
this is extremely powerful......no one no school nobody teaches emotional intelligence unless you become curious about it. emotional language skills reduces inflammation and stress. this is why you have gangs, fights, rage, and depression. In the absence of language or words you perform what you feel.
Thank you for your comment. I believe that when you put words on where or why it hurts you release inflammation and tension. Having a relationship with the selves is so important and needed.
Usually it’s why we study literature at schools. It’s one of the jobs of humanity sciences to develop emotional intelligence and compensation for others. 😇
He nailed it. Emotional intelligence…I read a book in college for communication class Emotional intelligence by Daniel Goleman. I still have it and from time to time I read a few chapters .
Emotional intelligence almost always leads to forgiveness and understanding. So happy to see the message reaching the masses because we need to hear it. The peace that comes from this is priceless. It makes us have awesome relationships with the people who we love. It leads to a harmonious life. Don't know him but love Jay like a brother.
Do wise guys have monsters as their best friend? Can somebody please give me an updated definition for the word “wise”? I think I still have the old version
I'm feeling ya folks.. this was the CEO of futuristic englishlightskinned mcs.. they probably infiltrated this whole scene.. this jaey z copies pop up sometimes..
Great conversation. Key moment that stood out " not having the language or the tools to say we love you, we need you' and then how that message lands in the absence of that understanding behind the words. This is so real.
This makes me feel even more honored, blessed and fortunate to have my father in every step of my life. He never missed anything, not 1 single birthday with the exception of my last birthday when he passed away on October 12th 2022. Thank you father for all that you’ve done for me….
Being rich does lower the feeling of urgency, panic, or anxiety, and it gives you space to be more introspective. Some people are able to deal with what they find and overcome their fears or perceived deficiencies; others wither, falter, break, or run right back to the stressors in a misguided attempt to just forget, numb their senses, or avoid confronting the imperfections that shaped their identities.
Money I feel makes people focus less on the negative… because you no longer have financial worries… certain things don’t bother you anymore because you just don’t care… you have a lot of money
I didn't know Jay Z spoke in a very self-expressive, mind healing way. Obviously, he's really an intelligent person especially the way he explains it. Great interview.
That was POWERFUL! “We are not taught Emotional Intelligence , we are taught to SURVIVE! Love you Brothers! Thank you for your contribution and not forgetting your beginnings. Continue to TEACH US! 🤴🏾’s!
Two grown men, celebrities, sitting down and talking like this is a huge deal. This is what a man looks like. Introspection, emotion and expression are part of all that.
Thank you! I hope everyone that has parent issues looks at it like that. I went through the same thing about my mom. The sad part was she never forgave herself. Even after I told her I completely understood why it happened the way it did. My chip was off my shoulder but she kept the whole bag on hers.
I always look at things from other people's perspectives. The majority of the time, it hurt me in the long run. I learned to see it from their perspectives but not allow it to make me excuses for their behavior and ignore the pain it caused me.
This is probably the most vulnerable I’ve seen Kevin & Jay Z. These conversations needs to be documented about these kind of topics so the rest of us are able to see and witness , learn and grow and share 🪬
"Things don't happen *to* you, they happen *for* you" Mannnnnnnnn.. you could expect Jay-Z to say something like this 🤣🤣🤣 Just such a naturally smart person 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
Deep… been lookin’ at my relationship with my Pops the same way, just ran outta time. Reconcile those relationships people, once they’re gone, they’re gone…
"... don't have the language or the tools...." Perfectly said... I love interviews w/ Jay Z, I'm always pleasantly surprised at his POV and articulation.
I love how much he has developed. I truly hope he isn’t mixed up in a bad situation. I understand being young and foolish, but I can’t see him having this level of growth and still being reckless. I love seeing our people growing, healing and expanding even with the ids stacked against us the way they’ve always been in this country
My Husband Has No Emotional Intelligence; I Have To Teach Him, How To Reveal His Feelings, I Feel That He’s Scared Of Revealing Himself Because, Of Him Not Having His Daddy Around, And Also Not Actually Knowing Himself. Since I Cane From A Loving Relationship With My Father, I Know What Real Love Is, My Mother Also Was Very Attentive. So Getting Married. Taught Me & Showed Me How To Teach Dream How To Love. I Also Think My Love Scares Him But, I Try To Take It Easy On Him Because He’s Been Locked Down For So Many Years. When I Show Him My Loving Ways, He Seems To Get Nervous About Everything The Affectionate, But My Goal Is To Himself Emotionally Intelligence.
This was a few minutes of pure wisdom. The heart informs the mind and vice-versa in a balanced biological sentient being. I loved this discussion between these two men. Trauma trains you to either also inflict trauma or to transmute it.
I still think we made so many excuses for absent fathers. It doesn't matter what personal issues are going on or what the relationship is like with your mum if a man wants to see his child he will do whatever it takes to see that it happens.
@Clara Belle, exactly!! I went through so much, but I never left my children. There is absolutely no way, I would put a crumb of bread in my mouth and don’t know if my children are eating.
Word oh , we need to go out and teach this emotional intelligence in school , it has to be a subject ! I’m proud of you jay zee, choosing peace means choosing yourself , forgiveness is freedom , I love it !
It’s amazing what the power of attraction can do , since I wrote this comment I’ve had two different cousins come back into my life to teach them the power of forgiveness and some EI to heal the relationship with their parents , one of them I sent this video, and it’s got him to open his mind to the possibility! Truly grateful for the video!
Exactly we resent our parents until we really know how they felt and their situation at the time and this thoughts you can only achieve with maturity or emotional intelligence and empathy
They cut the segment where Kevin talks about “the room with the door behind the door” and jay z looked at him with that “stfu “ look, and this is the 2nd time Kevin hart has said something like this on an interview and they cut it out
Wow. This is a beautiful revelation. It truly blessed me. I hope many many more get to hear this. Talk about the healing that will begin to take place for so many. Wow 💛
This shows that, not having a father in your life spells total disaster, but it means you have a choice to make and can control your choices in life. It also shows that widowed and single mother can also choose how they relate to their sons to influence a positive outcome. Teach your sons in truth and it will set them free.
Very true man. My cousin always says we grew up a certain way, but we don’t have to be that. Even when you break the mold, still something within you to be indifferent to family and friends. And maybe just talking to the shrink helps, I’ve been thinking that.
Learning emotional intelligence is the hardest thing to do or better yet learn when you come from the background we come from I'm 40 years old I'm barely learning that, it's a critical key to life
Jay-Z’s full interview on Hart to Heart is streaming now on Peacock: pck.tv/3AdrWFY
Beautiful conversation ❤️
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@@boogiedownbronx73 😆
What is Kevin Hart talking about honestLy.
Party.
It's next level healing when we are able to show grace to our parents.
Beautiful insight, easier said than done. Love and Light
Not all parents deserve grace
@@malemaline please believe me when I say that MOST parents DON'T deserve it. Being able to show grace to those who have denied it to YOU, isn't for those parents...it means those grown up children are healing.
I have forgiven my mother without ever hearing "I'm sorry"
Grace is never "deserved" that's why it's grace. We extend grace because they deserve the opposite.
If we had to "deserve" God's grace, heaven would stay empty.
Or just except like has ups and downs
Love Jay-Z's disposition. This man has done/is doing the work on himself. It's obvious, He's committed to being the BEST version of himself.
Or is just for the audience like you and them
The guy not even cursing
Whats the best version of himself from your Point of view?
@@KKRRAAKKHHEEAADD He consistently displays a growth mentality. It's obvious in his conversations. (What he does & does not say); it's in his music, his power moves, how he handles adversity, his family. All aspects of his life. He's extremely positive. I see a solid, growing man on display.
@@KKRRAAKKHHEEAADD ll
this is extremely powerful......no one no school nobody teaches emotional intelligence unless you become curious about it. emotional language skills reduces inflammation and stress. this is why you have gangs, fights, rage, and depression. In the absence of language or words you perform what you feel.
Or grow up
Thank you for your comment. I believe that when you put words on where or why it hurts you release inflammation and tension. Having a relationship with the selves is so important and needed.
@@francoissuissae6217 Or gain a more open mindedness about life instead of thinking Simple minded like yourself.
🛎💯
Also doesn't help to tell males they're not supposed to have emotions.
"We've been taught everything but emotional intelligence"- Jay Z
Usually it’s why we study literature at schools. It’s one of the jobs of humanity sciences to develop emotional intelligence and compensation for others. 😇
It’s not taught actually because it’s a learned behavior
What is emotional intelligence
He nailed it. Emotional intelligence…I read a book in college for communication class Emotional intelligence by Daniel Goleman. I still have it and from time to time I read a few chapters .
@@SoNewOrleans1 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾
Emotional intelligence almost always leads to forgiveness and understanding. So happy to see the message reaching the masses because we need to hear it. The peace that comes from this is priceless. It makes us have awesome relationships with the people who we love. It leads to a harmonious life. Don't know him but love Jay like a brother.
Facts! 🔑🔑
Or going bizzirk and destroying
Oh this comment is so profound. Wow.
Yep
Agreed
It goes without saying Jay-Z is one of the best musicians ever...but his wisdom and perspective are next level. Spread love folks.
But won’t give a family member of his 4800, talking about unity
@@subox9323go get a better job
Do wise guys have monsters as their best friend? Can somebody please give me an updated definition for the word “wise”? I think I still have the old version
I LOVE this conversation between men!
It's deep when men meet...
Between two rich men😂
@@Eristhenesyou can't buy emotional intelligence. the amount of money they have has nothing to do with what they're talking about
@@queenbaudelaire3021 then, why is it so rarely seen among the lower income strata. They ain’t talking’ like this in the barbershop😋
@@Eristhenes but they should be 😐
Jay-z would make an exceptional talk show host the way he listens and drops those Gems tho. It's like he is REALLY hearing what you are saying.
I'm feeling ya folks.. this was the CEO of futuristic englishlightskinned mcs.. they probably infiltrated this whole scene.. this jaey z copies pop up sometimes..
We need more healing like this & knowledge of emotional intelligence in our communities.
Great conversation. Key moment that stood out " not having the language or the tools to say we love you, we need you' and then how that message lands in the absence of that understanding behind the words. This is so real.
Whoa!!!!
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That deep
For real throw in money 2 some lowlifes.. only build up hate feelings for some junkies.. that wanna take them with them..
I disagree and what language do you really need, who can't say i love you
@@edwardponton4848 you’ve clearly grown up in a functional home. They are speaking about dysfunctional families, which you are not from.
Great introspection.
This makes me feel even more honored, blessed and fortunate to have my father in every step of my life. He never missed anything, not 1 single birthday with the exception of my last birthday when he passed away on October 12th 2022.
Thank you father for all that you’ve done for me….
My condolences.
I'm so sorry for your loss! Stay Blessed Always
I can see why Beyoncé loves him. His intelligence is otherworldly!!! Makes you feel
Appreciate our dad's and what they go through. Help em, stand by them, be with them. Don't hurt them.
I love Kevin Hart's energy and perspective. He always finds the positive in the negative.
Being a millionaire doesn't hurt 🤭
Being rich does lower the feeling of urgency, panic, or anxiety, and it gives you space to be more introspective. Some people are able to deal with what they find and overcome their fears or perceived deficiencies; others wither, falter, break, or run right back to the stressors in a misguided attempt to just forget, numb their senses, or avoid confronting the imperfections that shaped their identities.
@@AlayeDaaji
Excellent
Money isn’t everything
It’s what made him a millionaire, so adopt his mindset and you’ll get there too
Money I feel makes people focus less on the negative… because you no longer have financial worries… certain things don’t bother you anymore because you just don’t care… you have a lot of money
I didn't know Jay Z spoke in a very self-expressive, mind healing way. Obviously, he's really an intelligent person especially the way he explains it. Great interview.
If you listen to his music you'd know he is all this. A lot of deep meanings in the things he says in his music
You’ve definitely never paid attention. His interviews, few, are always enlightening.
This is what helped me love my dad - looking at things from his perspective.
When men goes heart to heart with each other
And they're emotionally bare, that's just heartwarming.
That was POWERFUL! “We are not taught Emotional Intelligence , we are taught to SURVIVE! Love you Brothers! Thank you for your contribution and not forgetting your beginnings. Continue to TEACH US! 🤴🏾’s!
Two grown men, celebrities, sitting down and talking like this is a huge deal. This is what a man looks like. Introspection, emotion and expression are part of all that.
jay z is so humble. he's rich out of his mind. and literally is still so grounded.
@@NicoTerp77 I think when you have that much money it doesnt even matter anymore. He's a boy from c block he knows what he's doing.
You must do the work people...GET TO THE ROOT OF THE TREE!!!! This was beautiful.
If we could all take time to see things in other people's perspective we could understand things a lot better
Thank you! I hope everyone that has parent issues looks at it like that. I went through the same thing about my mom. The sad part was she never forgave herself. Even after I told her I completely understood why it happened the way it did. My chip was off my shoulder but she kept the whole bag on hers.
Their exchange shows everyone the value living long enough we learn wisdom...
I always look at things from other people's perspectives. The majority of the time, it hurt me in the long run. I learned to see it from their perspectives but not allow it to make me excuses for their behavior and ignore the pain it caused me.
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Thank you for getting these Kings to admit they needed therapy and emotional intelligence and just thank you
when Kevin Hart is serious you can learn a lot 💯 JayZ always been an inspiration amongst many generations
This is probably the most vulnerable I’ve seen Kevin & Jay Z. These conversations needs to be documented about these kind of topics so the rest of us are able to see and witness , learn and grow and share 🪬
Im not going to lie, but. I feel like this all the time. It’s slowly but surely making me a better father. 👍
I've been encouraging people to learn their parents stories and their grandparents stories. It matters.
Its really powerful how he went from dissing his Dad on wax to now having a level of understanding by looking from his father prospective is powerful
It’s amazing how fathers wanna be around when they’re children become rich and famous or just successful
That’s not just fathers, that’s people. “Everybody loves a winner” however I totally understand exactly what you are saying. ✨
@@regerniquerasco7428 your right too sweetie 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This!!!
Exactly my thoughts…
Right
Jay is so intelligent! That’s correct, hurt people hurt😢
"Things don't happen *to* you, they happen *for* you" Mannnnnnnnn.. you could expect Jay-Z to say something like this 🤣🤣🤣 Just such a naturally smart person 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
Deep… been lookin’ at my relationship with my Pops the same way, just ran outta time. Reconcile those relationships people, once they’re gone, they’re gone…
The intelligence and rawness of this conversation is amazing! Something we didn’t even know we needed!
this is a very mature conversation
Jay is so wise
This is an excellent conversation. Living with the same emotions. Mindset and perspective 💯
Real truth Jay is speaking, exactly what everyone needs to hear, learn & apply! Thank you
Wow.. next level healing.. 2 of the smartest guys in the Game.. Peace an Love..
"... don't have the language or the tools...." Perfectly said... I love interviews w/ Jay Z, I'm always pleasantly surprised at his POV and articulation.
So glad therapy and emotional intelligence are being mentioned
Salute to two GOATS; Kevin Hart and Jay Z. Brilliant minds
"things don't happen to you, they happen for you"
This.
'we were taught everything but emotional intelligence...' #whew
I don't think Kevin Hart would've imagined he would be talking to Jay-Z about daddy issues while he was still working at the comedy club
Jay Z is about to have the entire world go to therapy! I’m with it and on my way… #EmotionalIntelligence💯
No he’s not 😂 but nice try
I have so much respect for Kevin Hart. Thank you for sharing your journey. You're not alone.
This conversation was absolutely amazing. Definitely took nuggets from it. I could listen to jay z talk forever.
I love how much he has developed. I truly hope he isn’t mixed up in a bad situation. I understand being young and foolish, but I can’t see him having this level of growth and still being reckless. I love seeing our people growing, healing and expanding even with the ids stacked against us the way they’ve always been in this country
My Husband Has No Emotional Intelligence; I Have To Teach Him, How To Reveal His Feelings, I Feel That He’s Scared Of Revealing Himself Because, Of Him Not Having His Daddy Around, And Also Not Actually Knowing Himself.
Since I Cane From A Loving Relationship With My Father, I Know What Real Love Is, My Mother Also Was Very Attentive. So Getting Married. Taught Me & Showed Me How To Teach Dream How To Love. I Also Think My Love Scares Him But, I Try To Take It Easy On Him Because He’s Been Locked Down For So Many Years.
When I Show Him My Loving Ways, He Seems To Get Nervous About Everything The Affectionate, But My Goal Is To Himself Emotionally Intelligence.
This was a few minutes of pure wisdom. The heart informs the mind and vice-versa in a balanced biological sentient being.
I loved this discussion between these two men. Trauma trains you to either also inflict trauma or to transmute it.
Wow. This is a deep conversation. I'm glad this popped up on my feed
I have nothing but the upmost respect for Jay Z!
I still think we made so many excuses for absent fathers. It doesn't matter what personal issues are going on or what the relationship is like with your mum if a man wants to see his child he will do whatever it takes to see that it happens.
@Clara Belle, exactly!! I went through so much, but I never left my children. There is absolutely no way, I would put a crumb of bread in my mouth and don’t know if my children are eating.
Exactly
Yep
It's always the woman's fault when they have to be there for their kids
I agree.
JAY Z gives great advice and is very knowledgeable about it in his music and rhymes!!! ❤😊❤
JAY-Z you are a MASTERpiece and so is Kevin HART. Thanks for the awesome content/interview.
Jay Z looking like SONIC THE HEDGEHOG 🤣 love you Jay❤️
Word oh , we need to go out and teach this emotional intelligence in school , it has to be a subject ! I’m proud of you jay zee, choosing peace means choosing yourself , forgiveness is freedom , I love it !
It’s amazing what the power of attraction can do , since I wrote this comment I’ve had two different cousins come back into my life to teach them the power of forgiveness and some EI to heal the relationship with their parents , one of them I sent this video, and it’s got him to open his mind to the possibility! Truly grateful for the video!
I can listen to jay z everyday 🔥 🔥 🔥
Jay Z voice lowkey super soft .. like i immediately thought of Michael Jackson . His voice so comforting and he speaking rs.
Just the way he talks 🤷🏾♂️
This just healed my some of my father wound ❤🇿🇦
Exactly we resent our parents until we really know how they felt and their situation at the time and this thoughts you can only achieve with maturity or emotional intelligence and empathy
You could hear Jay Z's voice quiver at 3:03
This is a great contribution to have a powerful and respected male figure speak on emotional intelligence.
The ability to see all perspectives. Brilliant
They cut the segment where Kevin talks about “the room with the door behind the door” and jay z looked at him with that “stfu “ look, and this is the 2nd time Kevin hart has said something like this on an interview and they cut it out
Discernment, discernment, discernment. That's all I'm going to say about this conversation.
I think I'll take dinner with JAY-Z 😂😂😂 HE IS Amazing
deep and refreshing. interesting to hear about therapy & i love the looking at things from other's perspective
Therapy comes in many forms. The best versions dont charge you by the hour though..
Wow. This is a beautiful revelation. It truly blessed me. I hope many many more get to hear this. Talk about the healing that will begin to take place for so many. Wow 💛
I just appreciate JayZ having a public transformation it’s so inspirational
Love that "happens for you."
Powerful stuff. A father figure is indeed important in every child's life.
"We've been taught everything but emotional intelligence" Jay the🐐 fr
Emotional Intelligence is what I’m really teaching myself to exercise more. 🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Wish Jay would do more sit down interviews, would love to see him on Rogan!
This shows that, not having a father in your life spells total disaster, but it means you have a choice to make and can control your choices in life.
It also shows that widowed and single mother can also choose how they relate to their sons to influence a positive outcome. Teach your sons in truth and it will set them free.
This is a real conversation I can appreciate watching this
I love listening to Jay speak
The thumbnail looks like Kevin's gonna say DAYUMMM!😂
We need more talks like this!💯
You taught to survive, WOW thank you Mom and Dad
"Things don't happen to you they happen for you." That's a cold line.
Very true man. My cousin always says we grew up a certain way, but we don’t have to be that. Even when you break the mold, still something within you to be indifferent to family and friends. And maybe just talking to the shrink helps, I’ve been thinking that.
Self awareness… love Jay
He said a word just now. I really hope people watch this.
Jay and nas gotta do a album together
Not giving the other person excuses. But, that makes perfect sense Jay.👏🏾
I respect a Man with emotional intelligence...wheeew thats not easy to come by for Man ..Yaaas love Jay Word Up! Kev too smart brother
Wow…this was short, deep, and thought provoking 👍🏾
Men having these conversations is so important.
Jay-z is the best Dad Ever!!!!!!!
Learning emotional intelligence is the hardest thing to do or better yet learn when you come from the background we come from I'm 40 years old I'm barely learning that, it's a critical key to life
you want me to to choose between u and my baby brother that i was supposed to protect. that was deep line
This is so refreshing to watch - fountain of wisdom from both ends
I understand what he is saying but if his mother’s sister got shot , I doubt she would have left her kids …..
You don’t know that……..
Exactly…