My brother is dating a lovely young woman with two kids. She's divorced and her ex husband goes out of his way to make everything challenging to her. My brother called me one day and said , "Sis, I really never knew just how bitter MEN can be, this shxt is crazy" ...
These stories are the best birth control in life. Thank God for protecting me from these experiences. I don't even have a desire to date men no more. #Childfree4Life
The first guy gave reslly good advice, let him have the kids so they can see the neglect on their own..because they definitely love to run the story that the mom kept them away
First, borderline personality disorder and narcissisim are two COMPLETELY different conditions. Do not confuse the two or spread false medical information. The guy in the second clip is absolutely right on both spectrums of a narcissistic father. Mine was textbook to the T the second he described. I feel deeply for anyone who has to deal with a narcissist parent or two of them.
My sons dad had the whole daycare staff rolling their eyes at me when I would pick my son up. I mean straight rude to me. One day one of the ladies told me that she needed to share something with me because her spirit couldn’t rest. She said that my actions and temperament didn’t match what they’d been told. He would show up to the daycare and tell them all kinds of lies about me keeping my son from him, that he worked for the sherrif’s department, and the list goes on… She literally gathered the staff while I was there and told them that he’d been lying the whole time.
I feel like sometimes a bitter baby daddy is worse than a bitter baby mama. Sometimes when they talk about a "bitter" baby mama, half the time she has a valid reason to be angry at her baby daddy. A bitter baby daddy though......they a whole different breed.
I was told, “I’m keeping him from his kids”, when he never stopped by or called to get them. When he literally have to pass us for work and to go home. Kids and I called asking when they going to see him. He has all the excuses but be seeing everyone but his kids. If he does call to see them it’s their bedtime. If he wants to stop by to see them I told him the meet up spot only for him to try to argue for him to let him come over. He’s not allowed in my space because he’s an abusive narcissist and I’m done with dealing with the hell of embarrassment and trauma the kids and I had to go through. We’re happier far apart. At least me and the kids since they don’t have to get scared their father is going to attack me. Regardless if I have someone or not. Then he gets mad when I call him the opt-in/out parent.😅 1:25 Pretty much This whole video is facts.
Ohhhhhh I like opt-in/opt-out parent. I had been saying sub par at best parent, barely bare minimum parent, when it's convenient for him parent. Thank you for a new descriptor.
Sad that the men want to be called men and daddy and father when they pop back up in child life lol. No, you are your first name to my child you didn't want to be daddy you will never be called daddy by my kids.we are ok ✌️ dude.
When I had my youngest, I knew I wasn't in a position to have another baby. Yes, I know I should have been more careful, I accept full responsibility for that. When I found out I was pregnant I was gonna end the pregnancy. He begged me not to. When I was six months, I relaized that I was not gonna be with this man ever again, so I suggested an open adoption so that he could still have a relationship with his child. He literally said, "You just want to get rid of this baby to get rid of me." After he was born, he spent two years trying to get me back in his bed, while contributing nothing to raising him except for paying court ordered child support. Once he realized he was never going to make fetch happen, he cut off all contact. My son just turned 18, and hasn't seen or heard from him in 16 years, and we've never lived more than two miles apart the entire time.
Women let me say this it's OK for us to get tired and need a break we are human it's OK sis don't let nobody make you feel bad for it we are not robots and you are loved regardless of if that man tells you or not I don't know you personally but I love you sis and you are appreciated
It’s not worth the headache team 1 and done.. these men do not want to take care of they kids financially you have to go to court to deal with this headache .. total waste of time
I went to highschool with a girl that said her dad fought for custody of her younger sister just to spite her mother. He had more money and was with another woman, so he was able to make it look believable. She said her sister was miserable. Situations like that as well as things I've seen myself motivated me to make sure I didn't have kids with the wrong person and the dudes I dealt with were definitely the wrong people.
FR my weirdo narc BD has followed me to multiple states (unwanted) just to... not ever see his kids. Weird! Seriously tho, someone who doesn't love their own kids isn't just "bitter" they're a certified sociopath.
And to the single father you are loved too bro be strong and the blessings out of this is the kids and the lessons in life that helps us elevate and level up mentally spiritually and physically bless up
Ill keep saying it why wouldnt theu be attached the same disrespect they saw from their dad or from other influences is always projected on to the mum, they expect you to still have that level of tolerance that a mother would for them coz its thier son, no one has time for that! I dont how can you clqim to be a learder of.a family but yet cant leader the right way and have others respect and follow you. Men complain about child support but yet wants the mum to pick up the baggage after you made a conscious choice, even if she kept the child you didnt want it do your job, coz the same should have been said to your mother you should have chose better then you waste of space should not have been her. One thing we dont think about is we're all still leaning lessons especially some that dont need to be learnt. Of course women will be vex you painted a faken ass picture a Walt Disney dream. And its expected for women to stay and look after your child wanted it or not to be so cruel and insensitive to a situation you would not have wanted as a child is disgusting especially if you bring your crusty mouth on social media dissin BM knowing full well you cant handle reality and structure. Its too much for their basic brain, the first time younhear their real feeling and actual response is when you leave, youll be shocked about things his been holding in and finally shouts about, the only reason why he didnt probably say it before is coz your were occupied with his child or children and exhausted so he can easily galivant the street getting consold but other women the same women he doesn't want you around. Keep safe and peace
This sounds like both of my kids fathers because they slandered my name bad until the women reached out to me to get my side and see for themselves then me and Andre sparks girlfriend Melissa Anderson started going out together with the kids leaving him at home we would shop together go out to eat together and yes behind her back he would make slick remarks hitting on me letting me know without a boubt that he would be back if I let him Calvi haskett just said it out loud he wants his family back he wants us to get a place together hecwas young then he grown now but as soon as I turned it down he showed me why we not together anymore because he can't control his emotions nor tone and deliverance and I have worked too hard on myself and energy to get out of my character and pop him in the throat and not only does he want our son to move in he wants my other 2 kids to move in he do love them but my daughter is a no nonsense type girl and will snap behind her mom
Then they are surprised more women don't want to have kids.
My brother is dating a lovely young woman with two kids. She's divorced and her ex husband goes out of his way to make everything challenging to her. My brother called me one day and said , "Sis, I really never knew just how bitter MEN can be, this shxt is crazy" ...
Give These men they kids!
Let the child See who the problem Is.
These stories are the best birth control in life. Thank God for protecting me from these experiences. I don't even have a desire to date men no more. #Childfree4Life
The first guy gave reslly good advice, let him have the kids so they can see the neglect on their own..because they definitely love to run the story that the mom kept them away
First, borderline personality disorder and narcissisim are two COMPLETELY different conditions. Do not confuse the two or spread false medical information. The guy in the second clip is absolutely right on both spectrums of a narcissistic father. Mine was textbook to the T the second he described. I feel deeply for anyone who has to deal with a narcissist parent or two of them.
This just makes being childfree by choice so much easier!!!!
My sons dad had the whole daycare staff rolling their eyes at me when I would pick my son up. I mean straight rude to me. One day one of the ladies told me that she needed to share something with me because her spirit couldn’t rest. She said that my actions and temperament didn’t match what they’d been told. He would show up to the daycare and tell them all kinds of lies about me keeping my son from him, that he worked for the sherrif’s department, and the list goes on… She literally gathered the staff while I was there and told them that he’d been lying the whole time.
I feel like sometimes a bitter baby daddy is worse than a bitter baby mama. Sometimes when they talk about a "bitter" baby mama, half the time she has a valid reason to be angry at her baby daddy. A bitter baby daddy though......they a whole different breed.
I agree with you on this one right here
I was told, “I’m keeping him from his kids”, when he never stopped by or called to get them. When he literally have to pass us for work and to go home. Kids and I called asking when they going to see him. He has all the excuses but be seeing everyone but his kids. If he does call to see them it’s their bedtime. If he wants to stop by to see them I told him the meet up spot only for him to try to argue for him to let him come over. He’s not allowed in my space because he’s an abusive narcissist and I’m done with dealing with the hell of embarrassment and trauma the kids and I had to go through. We’re happier far apart. At least me and the kids since they don’t have to get scared their father is going to attack me. Regardless if I have someone or not. Then he gets mad when I call him the opt-in/out parent.😅
1:25 Pretty much
This whole video is facts.
Ohhhhhh I like opt-in/opt-out parent. I had been saying sub par at best parent, barely bare minimum parent, when it's convenient for him parent. Thank you for a new descriptor.
Sad that the men want to be called men and daddy and father when they pop back up in child life lol. No, you are your first name to my child you didn't want to be daddy you will never be called daddy by my kids.we are ok ✌️ dude.
Yes let the kids call him by his first name😂😂👌
..exactly sis
When I had my youngest, I knew I wasn't in a position to have another baby. Yes, I know I should have been more careful, I accept full responsibility for that. When I found out I was pregnant I was gonna end the pregnancy. He begged me not to. When I was six months, I relaized that I was not gonna be with this man ever again, so I suggested an open adoption so that he could still have a relationship with his child. He literally said, "You just want to get rid of this baby to get rid of me." After he was born, he spent two years trying to get me back in his bed, while contributing nothing to raising him except for paying court ordered child support. Once he realized he was never going to make fetch happen, he cut off all contact. My son just turned 18, and hasn't seen or heard from him in 16 years, and we've never lived more than two miles apart the entire time.
Women let me say this it's OK for us to get tired and need a break we are human it's OK sis don't let nobody make you feel bad for it we are not robots and you are loved regardless of if that man tells you or not I don't know you personally but I love you sis and you are appreciated
It’s not worth the headache team 1 and done.. these men do not want to take care of they kids financially you have to go to court to deal with this headache .. total waste of time
I went to highschool with a girl that said her dad fought for custody of her younger sister just to spite her mother. He had more money and was with another woman, so he was able to make it look believable. She said her sister was miserable. Situations like that as well as things I've seen myself motivated me to make sure I didn't have kids with the wrong person and the dudes I dealt with were definitely the wrong people.
FR my weirdo narc BD has followed me to multiple states (unwanted) just to... not ever see his kids. Weird! Seriously tho, someone who doesn't love their own kids isn't just "bitter" they're a certified sociopath.
And to the single father you are loved too bro be strong and the blessings out of this is the kids and the lessons in life that helps us elevate and level up mentally spiritually and physically bless up
These narc men suck!
#ChildFree4Lyfe
Ill keep saying it why wouldnt theu be attached the same disrespect they saw from their dad or from other influences is always projected on to the mum, they expect you to still have that level of tolerance that a mother would for them coz its thier son, no one has time for that! I dont how can you clqim to be a learder of.a family but yet cant leader the right way and have others respect and follow you. Men complain about child support but yet wants the mum to pick up the baggage after you made a conscious choice, even if she kept the child you didnt want it do your job, coz the same should have been said to your mother you should have chose better then you waste of space should not have been her. One thing we dont think about is we're all still leaning lessons especially some that dont need to be learnt. Of course women will be vex you painted a faken ass picture a Walt Disney dream. And its expected for women to stay and look after your child wanted it or not to be so cruel and insensitive to a situation you would not have wanted as a child is disgusting especially if you bring your crusty mouth on social media dissin BM knowing full well you cant handle reality and structure. Its too much for their basic brain, the first time younhear their real feeling and actual response is when you leave, youll be shocked about things his been holding in and finally shouts about, the only reason why he didnt probably say it before is coz your were occupied with his child or children and exhausted so he can easily galivant the street getting consold but other women the same women he doesn't want you around. Keep safe and peace
This sounds like both of my kids fathers because they slandered my name bad until the women reached out to me to get my side and see for themselves then me and Andre sparks girlfriend Melissa Anderson started going out together with the kids leaving him at home we would shop together go out to eat together and yes behind her back he would make slick remarks hitting on me letting me know without a boubt that he would be back if I let him Calvi haskett just said it out loud he wants his family back he wants us to get a place together hecwas young then he grown now but as soon as I turned it down he showed me why we not together anymore because he can't control his emotions nor tone and deliverance and I have worked too hard on myself and energy to get out of my character and pop him in the throat and not only does he want our son to move in he wants my other 2 kids to move in he do love them but my daughter is a no nonsense type girl and will snap behind her mom
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