driving alone for the first time

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  • Опубліковано 5 чер 2024
  • Basically another daily life vlog, I just recently got my license at 17 1/2 years old and this is me spending my first day alone driving
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  • @desssstiny
    @desssstiny 11 місяців тому +132

    you have no idea how badly I needed to see this video!!! i’m 25 and severely anxious myself, convincing myself to go into a car and drive is so so hard but the feeling of accomplishment after doing so is amazing!!! seeing your reaction to driving alone somewhere you wanted to go and actually doing it made me about cry, i’m so proud of you and i’m proud of all the other anxious girlies out there in the world trying to learn how to progress in life

    • @avagriergossett
      @avagriergossett  11 місяців тому +10

      thank you so much 🥹 it definitely took a lot of courage- but finally taking the step is exactly what I needed. I wish you the very best with life and all the anxiety inducing things that come with it ❤️❤️

    • @tameka39
      @tameka39 5 місяців тому +2

      Trust me I feel the same, I have such anxiety with driving. I got my permit when I was 29 and my license at 34 and just started officially driving Nov. at 36.

  • @alm6029
    @alm6029 Рік тому +127

    you seem so sweet. I just got my license the other day at 21 years old. The anxiety of feeling like you're not the right age to do things or putting off things that make you scared is so real. congrats on a successful first drive alone!!

    • @avagriergossett
      @avagriergossett  Рік тому +11

      💗💗💗 thank you and congratulations on ur license too :))

    • @alm6029
      @alm6029 Рік тому +3

      @@avagriergossett thank you! :)

  • @_rashiekaaa2530
    @_rashiekaaa2530 Рік тому +38

    you literally explained what im going through! Im 20 years old and i got my permit last week 🙈 its time

    • @avagriergossett
      @avagriergossett  Рік тому +5

      congrats on getting ur permit!! if I can take my drivers test, anyone can lol 🫶 i believe in you :))

  • @41yearoldnewdriver
    @41yearoldnewdriver Рік тому +44

    I congratualte you young lady. I got my license almost eleven months ago. I enjoy driving! Drive safely. Your license is your key to adulthood. You did it! Now I need to buy a used car for myself.

  • @vndtta2684
    @vndtta2684 Рік тому +34

    Seeing how you react to driving by yourself. And the anxiety you had towards it makes me feel so much better about how I feel towards it. 16 about to be 17 and I can take the practical test anyday but driving feels so scary. It seemed as if my friends have already gotten so good and used to it. It terrifying me. I will be working to getting my license and driving small distances this summer.

    • @avagriergossett
      @avagriergossett  Рік тому +6

      im so happy that I could make you feel better, you don’t deserve to feel bad about anything, there is absolutely nothing wrong with not getting ur license once ur of age!! I was an absolute NERVOUS WRECK when it came to driving but since finally just taking the drivers test and getting out on the road by myself, it becomes second nature. I promise promise promise that it will become easier and you’ll become so much more comfortable behind the wheel. Don’t let your friend’s progress discourage you, everyone feels comfortable at their own pace, there is no race :)) 💗💗💗

  • @micaelagutierrez373
    @micaelagutierrez373 Рік тому +22

    I'm so glad this video got put in my recommended, i feel the same way about growing up and im almost 19 and haven't got my license or a job yet, my parents drive me to my college classes 15 minutes from our house

    • @avagriergossett
      @avagriergossett  Рік тому +4

      everyone has their own time line, when the time comes the time comes

  • @odeleya1768
    @odeleya1768 Рік тому +13

    Im also 17 and just passed my test today and I’m dying to drive by myself to prove myself that I can do it but it might be a while before my parents let me take their car and I won’t be able to afford my own for a while. But wherever it does happen I can’t wait.

    • @avagriergossett
      @avagriergossett  Рік тому

      I’m excited for you for when that day comes!! 💗💗

  • @StephaniePierret-lj6fv
    @StephaniePierret-lj6fv 6 місяців тому +3

    This is exactly what I needed to see today! Today is my first time driving alone since getting my license 3 months ago and my anxiety is on a million but this video was extremely motivational for me! Thank you! ❤️

  • @quinntayy
    @quinntayy Рік тому +12

    this is the first video i’ve seen of yours. and now i’m going to binge watch the rest ahaha. i love the calm energy and you’re kinda like me (personality wise) so love that.

  • @FangsWhiskers
    @FangsWhiskers 4 місяці тому +1

    Omg. I totally get anxiety. You go for psyching yourself up for something like that. To others that would be easy as hell. To some it’s so difficult and I get that. You rock!!

  • @daniblablax
    @daniblablax 11 місяців тому +3

    Proud of you babe!❤️ I got my license a year ago and haven’t had any luck with finding a good car😕 BUT MONDAY IS THE DAY I’LL HAVE ONE🎊😭 I’m so frigging anxious, scared, on the verge of crying but I’ll try to drive🙈 Hopefully I’ll be as successful as you in driving❤️🥰

  • @jadenjoestar3927
    @jadenjoestar3927 11 місяців тому +6

    Your driving anxiety about driving alone is exactly how I feel too! I do totally fine when I have someone with me, but if I'm alone or it's quiet i'll make dumb and dangerous mistakes. But this video gives me the courage to drive alone tomorrow 😣

    • @avagriergossett
      @avagriergossett  11 місяців тому

      I believe in you!! Being safe is the most important thing- don’t let driving alone take away from your confidence 🤍

  • @renukarana4165
    @renukarana4165 Рік тому +5

    God you are so cute and down to earth. I have seen so many videos but you were different. Congratulations you did a great job 👍
    I know it’s so hard to drive for a person having anxiety issue. During covid I also developed anxiety issue that even having an idea of driving gave me goosebumps and red face. But now I am doing fine. I hope you are also doing good.

  • @sebastianariza8074
    @sebastianariza8074 5 місяців тому +1

    Cool video, I love your room decor :)

  • @jgolden10
    @jgolden10 9 місяців тому +2

    Whaaatt?!?! Gurrrrrrrlllll im 24 and I had my learners permit since I was 19. I was scared asf to drive but I got over it and I have my driving test in a couple days. 17 def is good age and honestly when I wished I did it.

    • @jgolden10
      @jgolden10 8 місяців тому

      Update: just got them!!!

  • @chloerockelle
    @chloerockelle Рік тому +8

    you seem like such a sweet soul not even a minute in the video! i def feel your anxiety and i just wanna encourage you

  • @katelync8485
    @katelync8485 Рік тому +5

    I feel the same way with anxiety is getting my liscence in a few weeks but i’m so nervous and doubt myself

    • @avagriergossett
      @avagriergossett  Рік тому +1

      I know it’s really anxiety inducing but trust me, you’ll do fine!! And it’s so so freeing once you have it. Self doubt is totally normal

  • @claire4215
    @claire4215 6 місяців тому +1

    I need to work up the confidence to drive by myself. I'm so nervous and anxious to.

  • @isabellaglover6062
    @isabellaglover6062 Рік тому +3

    u have such a pretty vibe and seem so sweet

  • @Ahmhaamd
    @Ahmhaamd Рік тому

    I’m in love with your videos!!❤❤❤

  • @abbeyy.
    @abbeyy. Рік тому

    i just found your channel from your first car video because i’m counting down the days until i get my license and my first car (i turn 16 this year) but i love your vibe

  • @daisy._.9115
    @daisy._.9115 11 місяців тому

    I’m just glad I’m not the only one that feels this way 😭

  • @miauqt
    @miauqt 8 місяців тому +3

    im so proud of you for driving alone also you're literally gorgeous !! i got my license yesterday & i lowkey wanna go out today but idk where to go, i just wanna practice since i'm able to drive myself to school now ! ALSOOO, WHERE DID YOU GET YOUR PURSE FROM? IT'S SO CUTE

  • @jibutae
    @jibutae 9 місяців тому

    i’m about to turn 18 in a couple of months and still get so anxious driving 😭 It’s a bit discouraging when you feel like everyone else just gets it so fast especially when they’re younger than you but ahhh i’m just hoping to get my license before my permit expires on my bday !!

  • @evesspeedpaints8275
    @evesspeedpaints8275 8 місяців тому +1

    This video helps me so much. I'm already 27 and I don't have a license. I've been so nervous to start driving. My dream car is literally a volkswagen beetle. But fortunately in two weeks, I'm taking a written test for my permit! It's time to get over my fear

    • @lavonnealexander6936
      @lavonnealexander6936 3 місяці тому

      I started driving at 22 and now 28. Still haven’t passed my test after 3 times but you should definitely get in car and try.

  • @dannyguzmanc
    @dannyguzmanc 4 місяці тому +2

    anxious girlies rise up

  • @hll5132
    @hll5132 Рік тому

    I think you should try just know that it will be a very big adjustment since you’re used to homeschool but it’s not impossible. I relate to that I was home school most of my junior year until I graduated early and decided to go to college in person. I go there everyday and feel like I don’t belong and feel alone even though I’m around a lot of people.

  • @elisaiahellsworth4864
    @elisaiahellsworth4864 11 місяців тому +1

    1. congratulations
    2. you are beautiful
    3. thank you
    4. be safe

  • @wmweeza
    @wmweeza 8 місяців тому

    Your video has helped me...thank you! Tomorrow is my first day driving alone...and it'll bee to Starbucks!

  • @DeeCaramelBeauty
    @DeeCaramelBeauty 11 місяців тому

    Omg this is so me I have real bad anxiety ugh 😣 but I told myself when I get my car soon I’m going to drive by myself I’ll make sure to watch this video to calm myself down

  • @nyali_18
    @nyali_18 10 місяців тому

    I've never found someone on UA-cam that I related to sm❤
    Definitely subscribed to u and I'm trying to start UA-cam myself, I'm really nervous and feel like people might not like me but u made me realize that it doesn't matter what anyone thinks so thank u and keep making videos

    • @avagriergossett
      @avagriergossett  10 місяців тому

      AWHH YAY 🥹 and yes yes yes definitely start UA-cam if it’s something you think you’d enjoy, literally no one’s opinion matters as long as ur doing what YOU want to do :)) 🫶

  • @katiegaglio
    @katiegaglio 7 місяців тому +1

    i’m learning to drive and it’s been so much fun so far, i’m getting my license in a few months :)

  • @ShadierThanSlim
    @ShadierThanSlim 9 місяців тому

    my dad is gonna start teaching me to drive on the weekend and these types of video are making me excited instead of anxious

  • @hekataya7828
    @hekataya7828 8 місяців тому +1

    Hello Im 23 and still dont own a driving License due to being too anxious! (Anxiety sucks) but next year when Im turning 24 My goal is try to over come this fears and anxiety!!! If you could do this and every fellow anxious person can then I can!!! Anxiety cant stop me from driving even if its Fecking scary!!!!

  • @izz1796
    @izz1796 Рік тому +18

    I’ve been feeling like I sleep a lot during home school ._. i watched your other videos and i’m the exact same way i have such a hard time being productive i basically stay in bed all day:c im new to home school this year and i’m debating about going back to regular school or to straighten out my life.. what do u do when you feel this way? i get like 15 hours of sleep during the day ~_~ i have no friends and i feel very alone while at home alone all the time.. i had friends my freshman year no drama i just wanted to try home school.. but i just feel very depressed in bed all the time buttttt!!!! freshman year in person school i got sick 7 times well that was bc i was stubborn and didn’t wear a mask but this year home schooled i got sick once! do you think i should go back to in person for my junior year? or should i stay how i am and spend more self time for myself to heal my aloneness

    • @avagriergossett
      @avagriergossett  Рік тому +5

      Obviously it is totally up to you but from what you’ve said I think you’d have a much better time going back to in person school!! Online school isn’t for everybody and that’s ok! I transferred because in person school made me very depressed, but from what you’ve said, it sounds like you’re the opposite. I’ve never thought about going back to to in person, I honestly hated it, but I think since you’re questioning it, you should go back. Online school has made me much happier even though I do struggle sometimes. For you, it doesn’t sound like online school has made your life easier or happier, and I believe that people need to do what makes them the happiness even if there are some downsides. You may get sick a few times while you’re transferring back into the in-person atmosphere, but I think you having friends and leaving your house is very important, and worth it. Again, it’s totally up to you, but from what you’ve said, I think, transferring back is the right choice for you

    • @kaejaewhy
      @kaejaewhy Рік тому

      ​@@avagriergossett how did u do online school? Like I want to go back to that so bad. But like do I just find one online and that's it? Btw I loved the video !

    • @avagriergossett
      @avagriergossett  Рік тому +1

      yeah so basically you just find your states online school (there’s normally a few) just by looking online! I recommend finding one with the best rating, A being the best. Then you just enroll into that online school when enrollment starts and talk with your current school about transferring credits :) it’s pretty simple, and thank you

  • @JMB-xb2xh
    @JMB-xb2xh 9 місяців тому

    This is helping me so much I also got my permit and license late and only recently obtained my license im terrified

    • @avagriergossett
      @avagriergossett  9 місяців тому

      I believe in you!! Driving becomes so easy and such second nature once you start regularly doing it :))

  • @elizabethpeterson1644
    @elizabethpeterson1644 9 місяців тому

    I was in my late 20’s when I got my license to drive. When I first got my license that I drove towards my father’s job as a park ranger to get a park sticker for the following year. Even getting my 1st cell phone in a couple days later. This was in mid December 1999 when I got my driver’s license and cell phone.

  • @bluefluffballl
    @bluefluffballl 7 місяців тому

    Once my dad took me to the BMV to take my test to the moment I got my drivers license the same day I dropped him off at home and drove to school immediately. I was ready and determined to not be nervous the whole drive. It felt good. and people have been riding my butt to, but hey, if they hit me that's on them I always have my dashcam ready.

  • @lucyroffey05
    @lucyroffey05 3 місяці тому

    ahh loved this video. i’m gonna try go driving tomorrow but i drive a manual bc im from europe and always get worried about stalling. it’ll be fine tho i wont go too far so i should be alright :)

    • @avagriergossett
      @avagriergossett  3 місяці тому

      im proud of you :) how’d you go?

    • @lucyroffey05
      @lucyroffey05 3 місяці тому

      @@avagriergossettit was great! just went into town and bought a brownie as a treat. hope you’re alright, i’ve been binging all your videos :)

  • @hamaatariq
    @hamaatariq 11 місяців тому

    I’m turning 18 in 4 days and will be getting my license soon, wish me luck!
    You did a great job btw

    • @avagriergossett
      @avagriergossett  10 місяців тому

      HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY!!! did u get ur license? :)))

  • @mikecoldman2837
    @mikecoldman2837 Рік тому +1

    you have the seat belt in the lower position, raise it up, the closer the neck it sits the safer it is, if
    you have it too low then the risk is that it slides off your shoulder during an accident, and then it
    can hurt you instead

  • @j0rdycm
    @j0rdycm Рік тому

    Just subscribed l love your vibe ❤

  • @Aly.68
    @Aly.68 10 місяців тому +1

    Gahhh I know I’ll be okay driving by myself but I’m kinda nervous when it comes to driving around other people 😭 I’m taking my test august 26th hoping I pass as I need to take myself to college..

    • @avagriergossett
      @avagriergossett  10 місяців тому

      It’s totally totally valid to be nervous, especially around other cars!! Just remember that EVERYONE drives, old and young, everyone just has places to get to. Once you get that hang of it, it becomes sooooo easy, I promise 🫶

  • @basetsanatsheko4987
    @basetsanatsheko4987 Рік тому

    Nice editing 👌

  • @michellecannon1554
    @michellecannon1554 8 місяців тому

    Got my license a week ago going to pick up my first car ever tomorrow 😳😳I’m watching these videos bc I’m so nervous

  • @zechariahgravette3343
    @zechariahgravette3343 7 місяців тому +1

    Like your content

  • @ggzii
    @ggzii 2 місяці тому

    I'm 30 and shitting it! You did amazingly!

  • @Yeaaaaa924
    @Yeaaaaa924 Рік тому

    This girl reminds me so much of my sister and she looks like my sister but with a gen z style

  • @ariannajohnson07
    @ariannajohnson07 10 місяців тому

    why did “head lamp” make me laugh so hard😭 10:50

  • @idek6914
    @idek6914 Рік тому

    HEYY this is amazing I have a question is learning to drive hard? 😭 I’m so scared to start

    • @avagriergossett
      @avagriergossett  Рік тому +3

      I’m gonna be honest, starting to drive is quite nerve wracking but it definitely gets easier. I never believed anyone when they told me that, I thought I’d always be an anxious driver but once I started to drive by myself, I finally became comfortable!! I wouldn’t say it’s hard though, the hardest part is overcoming the fear of driving itself. I know it’s cliche, but you really just have to put the car in drive and just go and you’ll become more comfortable with more practice

    • @idek6914
      @idek6914 Рік тому +1

      @@avagriergossett 💗 I’m glad it became easier for you im proud of you!!!THANK YOU so much this has really helped me a lot!

  • @caramelitoj5169
    @caramelitoj5169 Рік тому

  • @briannaoxford3938
    @briannaoxford3938 Рік тому

    I’m really want a beetle for my first car. How do you like it?

    • @avagriergossett
      @avagriergossett  Рік тому

      It’s honestly a great first car, it’s very easy to drive and it has a lot of visibility :)

  • @kaileeannk
    @kaileeannk 11 місяців тому

    how is the stering wheel on the other side i thought it was the other one (idk how to spell stering ik)

    • @sailur
      @sailur 9 місяців тому

      It’s not on the other side, the video is flipped bc she’s recording on her front camera on her phone

  • @animekawaii5991
    @animekawaii5991 11 місяців тому

    just drove by myself for the first time a couple days ago and got into a scary car accident , im struggling to want to drive again

    • @jadenjoestar3927
      @jadenjoestar3927 11 місяців тому +1

      oh my goodness. Are you okay? What happened? 💗

    • @avagriergossett
      @avagriergossett  11 місяців тому +1

      I’m am so so sorry that happened to you, I hope you’re recovering physically and mentally- take your time, you can get back on the road whenever you feel comfortable again 🤍🤍

    • @animekawaii5991
      @animekawaii5991 11 місяців тому +1

      @@avagriergossett thank you so much I appreciate your kind words 🫶🏻❤️

    • @animekawaii5991
      @animekawaii5991 11 місяців тому +1

      @@jadenjoestar3927 I’m okay some girl decided to drive on the middle of the main road onto traffic and she totaled my car so scary

    • @jadenjoestar3927
      @jadenjoestar3927 11 місяців тому

      @@animekawaii5991 im sorry that happened to you! Just as I finished reading your comment the same thing almost happened to me! Taxi driver wasnt looking where he was going and nearly hit me full speed. I was so scared so I cant even imagine how you must have felt. Take your time getting back on the road again, friend. Sending you lots of good wishes 💗

  • @xmplaysims0
    @xmplaysims0 Рік тому

    Congratulations working on getting my license but bought my first car for practice

  • @maveywinter3332
    @maveywinter3332 10 місяців тому

    Girl im 21 with a job and I have a lisceene and I still don't drive tragedies

  • @malikalhyani607
    @malikalhyani607 7 місяців тому

    Where are you have a mont

  • @itsyogurlsummer
    @itsyogurlsummer Рік тому

    I got my license so I won’t have an excuse on why I haven’t been going out and I still don’t leave the house. I got my license in December!!

  • @benmarley3086
    @benmarley3086 10 місяців тому

    Have you crashed yet