It's a choice to carry both or either. Having kids is ok. Not wanting kids is also ok. Both working women and house wives should be respected. Everyone has there own challenges so it's not good to be judgemental.
Yes, but being a housewife is really pathetic. (No leave, no appreciation, no salary, no individual identity etc.) Nobody should become a housewife. Every woman must earn her own bread.
@@PMcseits very pathetic to think that all no matter what a housewife must earn her won bread. When a man works he comes home and take rest and when a woman works she have to manage her work and her famlily the house everything by herself. She works outside to make herself so called independent for the society and works at home for the family coz if she don't no one will. Its too much pressure for some woman who doesn't have a supportive family. So please don't call a housewife department when she can do everything by herself, call those men pathetic who are so much dependent on their wives for besic things.
Just had a question "if the lady with the child wasnt an officer didnt she deserve an applause for her efforts only as a mother and a homemaker?" Does a women need to work hard both outside and inside the house to deserve such a kind of respect while men would get all the respect just by working outside the house?
I have watched this video many times and every time I get encouraged and happy... Myself was a career orientated lady but ever since my child entered my world my life revolves around him and I m extremely happy with this phase of happy life and I have no regrets to leave career behind
Basically. A women shouldn't be made to feel inferior if she wants children. At the same time, women who are not into being a mother should not be forced either.
If a woman refuses motherhood then she doesn't deserve the traditional respect and privilege that has been attributed to all women just because they are considered mothers in our society.
@@RitwikRaghav means men are meant to be treated great..... Invincible! Just for their sperm donation to a woman? And not even cleaning thier child's potty? Caring for the child in the absence of the mother or when she is not feeling well, makes men less manly? Or causes the in laws to loose their fame or standard! What? What are family members other than women in the family meant for? Just to EXPECT from THE WOMAN of the family! That's it! Thier duty and responsibilities are done? Where is the sharing amongst members? N where is understanding and accepting of the woman here?! Only she has to accept others and live according to them! Where is she in her life? N where is HER LIFE? Means she is more FEMININE when she is useful in encouraging the manliness in her man and being totally useful, comfortable for him n his family, children, society, etc ? Where is she? U c only the BENEFITS that a woman can provide? U can't c a HUMAN directly in her? What is this? N it's always her choice coz it's her life n her body. THAT'S IT! Relations, traditions, society, badappan DONOT have RIGHT on her life once a girl is born or after she gets married! PEOPLE MUST MIND IT! How dare people who think like you DEFINE a woman's purpose of life, her being born! Everybody has right over her n her life EXCEPT HER? This is senseless!!!!!
It's a matter of choice. If you want to marry, than marry. If you want to take a job, then take it. If you want children, make it. If you don't want, then also okey but it's very important to respect each others' feelings. don't be judgemental.
I know a Lady, Who gave CA finals (both groups) During 2020 November. We all know how much efforts, sacrifice, pressure is in CA final. If you dont know, lemme tell you, it's one the top toughest exams in India with pass percentage less than 5. Moreover she was carrying TWINS. she came to exam centre for 8 freaking days, Hubby used to wait outside all 3 hours. After exam, Some inviglator staffs would take her back outside the campus and she leaves. I heard, she cleared The exams and became a CA, And a week before the results, she delivered to twins. What a woman, she is!
@@शुभमयादव-म9ङ I from what I could read, I guess yoire asking to appreciate her hubby, too. Right? Yes ofc, during pregnancy, Hubbys support is the most important. Agar vo saat hai kuch bhi karsakte ladkiyan. Uske pyaar aur support important hi hai. Kudos to him also!
@@शुभमयादव-म9ङ samaj nahi aata yaar agr kisi aurat k support ya favor mai kch bolde toh "KCH" mardo ko ky takliff hoti hai ki,..😒🤦🏻♂️they start whataboutism for no reason. "What about us ? Hume bhi toh appreciation milni chahiye."🤦🏻♂️
Bhai every person as an equal responsibility. Men can bore a child for mere 9 month he carries a baby in his mind throughout his life. No matter how we promote women on social ground . But 1 out of 100000 are exceptions not true. Hope u understand from a man's perspective
ये काम आसान नही है जिसके दिल मे अपने अपनो और देश के लिए कुछ करने का जस्बा हो वही इस काम को कर सकता हैं और मैडम ने सही कहा ये नजरिये की ही बात है कहना और जिम्मेदारियों के साथ कुछ करके दिखाना ये जिंदगी का एक अलग ही सकुन है
I hated being pregnant. Experienced a very hard and challenging pregnancy... But the minute I saw my child, I knew I would go through the pregnancy hundred more times just to experience motherhood again. It's a beautiful feeling and one world only understand when they have their own child
This was from a month ago, got suggested this now. I feel like in an attempt to motivate working mothers, we glorify the struggles of motherhood and make it look like it is a cakewalk. No, being the sole provider for a baby is not easy and any mother who left her job, who took a break in her career, who chose to stay at home with her baby is doing a LOT. A mother doesn’t have to be a successful professional to be appreciated. Every mother who loves her child and takes care of her child deserves appreciation irrespective of her professional achievements.
Finally a comment I am looking for. This is a mean strategy to overwork women - "praise them, praise them like shit" and work them like machines. On a day like Mother's Day/Women's Day, they give examples of women like in the video "Women can handle both - her career and her motherhood/other-household-responsibilities - hence she is great and she is the WOMAN". The next day, if the wife focuses on her career and asks her family to clean up after themselves, they say she has no qualities of a GOOD MOTHER/WIFE/DIL. If she stays at home after quitting her job for her family's sake, they say "SHE IS MOOCHING OFF HER HUSBAND, WHAT A WASTE OF HER EDUCATIONAL DEGREE". Either way, we should stop "GLORIFYING" overworking women and NOT make them the norm we measure other women with.
bt my question is why she wants to do everything and then complain abt it too. just select an option and follow tht only. nhi heroine bnna h prove krna h sb krmge thoda thoda jack of all bnege qki queen of none bnne ki aukat nhi h. system ko apna gyan nhi dungi to mature kese dikhungi bhale kch nhi ukhaado ho life me pr supreme court ke judge se kam intellectual thodi hu mai bhale hi 15 saal ki hu dimag s
I am so infuriated at this ad. It insinuates that the lives of housewives are easy, that they can easily manage their kids without altering their lifestyles at all, which is absolutely not true. A housewife has to put in just as much effort in maintaining the house and taking care of everybody as any other woman with any other job. It further accentuates that women should have kids just because they can have kids. These are the type of things that pressurise women into getting pregnant even when they feel like they cannot manage them. The model's concerns were legit and the pregnancy would have gotten into the way of her career, but it was just brushed off. Also, the ad never made a point to address the fact that the sweeper's job was undermined. She is happy doing what she does and is properly taking care of her children, that enough makes her very successful in life. Also, just because women can do both doesn't mean that they have to. It's their choice. Pregnancy and kids seriously affect a woman's life and it should not be played off as something minor that can be easily handled.
It's always easy to be at home and look after children . Well I'm a housewife,no work at all. Hardly 4 hours a day.(these days families are nuclear) Rest is leisure. But I have worked sometime. There's no comparison between a working woman and housewife. Hell and heaven.
Actually raising a child is not just the responsibility of a mother .... When mother takes leave for 6 months ...or so ..father have to take leave for another set of months.....Marriage is all about sharing .....Why these kinds of responsibilities are left to a women alone when both can do it together.... The concept of feminism has to be widely spread and should make the generation aware about equality .....
I don't like this ad. 1) every job is great (sweeping or police) 2) every woman have the right to choose and not to choose motherhood. Motherhood is a choice; not necessory 3) working woman doesn't need to do everything by themselves. Their partners should equally share the household jobs and baby caring 4) You are a great woman, even if you are not doing a paid work
Even i don't like this advertisement... Only this officer rank lady become inspiration for that model. What about that woman who is sweeping the floor. Such advertisement make clear cut demaracation, that... Big carrer choice
Always think positive Chris Lee....itsy only about a women who can handle all things .....ye ad bas itna bta rha h ki ek orat sab kam kar sakti h ..or pochha marne wali ki bezari to nhi ki h ..tarif zarur ki h...tum kya sochate ho us bina bachhe ki woman ki bezari ki h ? Not at all ..bas usko motivate Kiya h ..ha dono kam handle ho jaate h or life itani bekar nhi hoti jitani vo soch rahi h or bhi beautiful hoti h...or konsi esi orat hogi jise bachhe na pasand ho ...kuch h jo shadishuda nhi h jinke bachhe nhi h....ye sahi h ki har kisi ki choices h vo kya kre or kya nhi but sometimes ham unhe vo choice bta sakte h jo unko or khushiya de... negativity hataake positivity de sakte h ....bina ye dialogue mare it's her choice..kya koi insaan galar choice ,choose kare to ..aap uski help karenge ? yaa bolene it's her choice ..so ad ki positivity ko dekha jaaye or galtiya jo aap ko dikh rhi h aap ki real-life me sahi kyu nhi karte ..or ha badi post pr rehke bhi manage ho jata h...or jhadu marne wali ki bhi respect ki h yha so plzz har chiz me negativity nhi dekhe kuch jo positive h use dekha jaaye or jo negative h use ham improve kar sakte h ...i think aap jada judgemental ho.. positivity ko egnore karke negative aspects dekhna ... negative aspects bhi dekhe jaate h but pehle positive dekho fir uska negative ..world is not absolute it's has lots of flaws but. We have to accept and walk with smile ... without flaws world will be not interesting ..galti nikalne se achha h improvement kese ho is baar pr dyaan de....
@@manswini_ I can understand what you are trying to say. I also wish I could see any positivity in this ad. Unfortunately, I can't find any positive things in this ad.
I was going through the same phase when I conceived my first. I was preparing for the services and didn't know how to manage both. I was completely overwhelmed at the circumstance. I took advice from my own mother and mother in law, they said I can abort if I wish to they would have absolutely no problem and would support my decision as they thought it was almost impossible to be a new mother and pursue such an ambitious position. Later I decided not to because I didn't have the guts to kill another human that was growing inside me. My husband said one thing that changed my pov i.e. " Don't measure your own potentials on the opinions of others. Others might not balance both but you might can. " That hit me. And to be very honest I am happiest to have my little baby. I have taken the best decision of my life and received god's gift. I am so so so grateful. I still am continuing my studies. Being a mother really is worth more than anything. 💗 Hope it helps anyone who is going through the same phase as mine. Don't worry sister.
U know what, sometimes I feel exhausted. I feel like my dreams have shattered, body has become so weak. I feel like giving up! It's really difficult to manage study and family both. But watching the kid growing, whom you carried for whole 9 months is a wonderful feeling. Then it seems to be the best decision. I'm also preparing for the services. Good luck to you! It's my husband's account btw.
I am a singel girl but seeing this add my mind set changes for life struggle .I feel like I am a girl and girls are so strong so i cant give up on any struggling phase of my life.great ad
Girls are not as strong a smedia portrays. They do it so we women take up more work and do every stuff till we die. Don't fall for this crap. Askyour man to do his share of 50%
Me and my wife both doing PhD and research job. We have a lovely daughter, both taking care of her and she just complete us..the massage is very strong in this video. good job for the makers.🙂
Its not glorifying women struggles, its saluting them, paying them a homage, and an understanding of why they are the superior gender. Also its not vilifying women who choose not to have kids, its making a statement on people who make uninformed judgements about women who choose to embrace motherhood
@@avinashojha35 There is no 'superior' gender. If a woman does not want to have children, it's her choice and one shouldn't judge her for it, in the same way, one shouldn't judge a woman who is a stay-at home mother. I don't know what this ad wanted to convey, since the childfree woman here is clearly being shown as the villain, also through the actor who plays the 'model' here, they have tried to convey that a woman MUST have kids because she can handle both her career and the kids. This ad is a classic example of toxic positivity, spreading a message that women CAN and SHOULD handle both personal and professional responsibilities. It glorifies the growing pressure on working women. In fact, there's no shame in taking a break from your career to take care of your kids, and that won't make you less of a woman. Neither will not having kids.
@@s.shelly the one who wants to have kids but also dont want to sacrifice their career this ad is for them. It encourages women that even u want to become a mother or pregnant u dont really need to sacrifice ur career. thats it dont take it in negative way and people who dont want to have kids its their choice but what if a woman wants to have kid but also wants to fulfill her dreams there are many women like this ad is for them . Sis dont take this in negative way.
@@elsa2885 You know, if that's the case, they should promote it amongst Employers and not women. Employers are the ones who discriminate against mothers. There's no point in telling women they can have kids without having their career affected, while most organisations keep having unfriendly recruitment policies against pregnant women or women with gap years.
Why we always make the woman sacrifice everytime? Why will she have to carry both? Why can't her husband take care of the child too.. So that they both can easily balance the work life and parent hood... And taking a child is a choice... Not mandatory... Please don't make women supermoms... People who can't bear child... Who could never be moms... Who are unmarried... They are also humans living in this world... They also need respect
Exactly. I understand and respect women who can do both, since I myself am an woman. But my point is if somebody made a choice of not being a mother, what's wrong with it ? A man is hardly judged , even praised sometimes if he dosen't want to embrace parenthood and focus on something in particular. But a woman has to go through hurdles/judgment of the society, etc if she dosen't wants to be a mother.
The content is good but why do we always put up with the idea that woman alone has to manage both ? Why isn't the role of a father in handling both duties emphasized? I think career and family roles are to be done as a team. I know women eventually excel at both tasks but it does put them in a lot of pressure, compromise and sacrifices.
@@sanyairfan1745 no u r wrong woman is already a super woman nor she is housewife or not.Is tarah to usko double pressurised kiya ja raha ki wo dono cheeze akele manage kare ,isse pehle waqt me jab is tarah job system tha jaise ab hai to kya aurtein us waqt kamzor thi isi mentality ke chakkar me ab double duties ho gayi women par ,if they r homemaker then they r nothing useless means to do their families chores ,parenting all r nothing if you have no career .
Nope women can't. They are forced to because men don't step up and take half the responsibility at home. Why only women are their in such advertisements where they need to balance while men are left free
Whenever I watch this video l filled with tears...when she says.." Itna aasaan nahi tha is nanhe shaitan k sath pure district k law and order ko sambhalana..."
When we know that "itna aasan nahi tha"... Then why don't the society help the mothers? Why they still continue to burden the women with the child... When both parents are working, then why not both take care of the child in a sharing manner?
Because they still think that....." " Man for the field... women for the hearth... Man with sword...and for the needle she... Man to command...and women to obey... Man with head...and women with heart... All else confusion......"
@@poonamchhaya7744 No I don't agree with this . It's the biological difference between a male and female . As a pre school teacher the kids are seen as they are . N v can see the reality . Very very few boys vll wipe tears of their peers but vll play alone or football . While girls apart from showing the clips and dresses vll automatically wipe tears of the peers . They are not being taught but it's the instinct . Girls are far more superior than the boys . Instead of trying to understand that they go for foolish feminism . Remember the great women .
Its not the budget... Its not the star value Its not the drama Its not the sound effects or graphics Its content, screenplay, artists... Always drive a movue or short movie... Wonderful... Good job
I really like this add . Everytime I watch this i want to watch it even more . Truely the thing is about perspective. Women can balance both house and work . Hats off to women
When will you guys tell society that taking care of children is not a women stuff but should be done by both parents. Also women and couples should only have children when they genuinely want to and not when others tell them to
but iss video uss baby ki age ke bacchon ko naturally apni mom ki need hoti hai like breastfeeding etc. aur issi age mein bacche ko aur apni job dono ko manage krna difficult ho jaata hai isiliye usmein ye dikhaaya gaya ki women dono manage kr skti hai taaki women motivate ho ske
@@MsHummingbee Bro I didn't degrade any gender here, just understand I'm highlighting all the barriers from what women passes and still make it to the top of ladder. Still you didn't clear, chunk it 🦥
@@yourajdhavale6322 women are not born with their multitasking abilities.. Its their life that makes them do multiple roles.. Rather than praising their ability to do multitasking role men should ease their burden by doing an active role in parenthood and homemaking.
True... I am waiting for this too... At least, it will be helpful for some people with narrow minded perspective, who always burdens the women to carry the child, be a working mother or a house wife The society is yet to change
If she really was a housewife her reply should be "it's okay be a housewife it's my choice just like you've chosen to work. My choice to stay full time with my family and support my husband be his strength , raise my kid and. And its worng to say I don't get salary. I paid with love, care, kindness, Trust etc." (of course it's a +ve add so my reply is also +ve)
See nice message! But why is there such negativity for a character who chooses not to have a kid ! There are super women who does both kudos to them but if a lady decides not to be a super women nd refuses to balance both nd chooses one like her career she should be equally respected nd she is equally right nd this doesn’t make her any less of a women ! So if u choose not to have or to have a baby both ways u r a HERO !
Why should the other lady be equally respected 🤔? The main character kinds of girls deserves more dignity and respect.....although I don't disrespect the other lady , don't judge me.
voh glasses wali lady kis tarah se baat kr rhi thi toh obviously voh villain hui na and not having childing bahut badi choice hai aur aise baat agar hai toh lady ko shaadi ke pehle hi apne husband se iss baare mein baat kr leni chahiye par ladies pehle btati nhi hai aur phirr baad mein woman card play krti hai ki 'mera husband mujhe force kr rha hai baccha paida krne ke liye' jaroori toh nhi ki agar lady ko baccha paida nhi krna toh uske husband ko bhi father banne mein koi interest naa ho, may be usse father banna ho
@@ravishankarkumar1174 everyone is the main character of their life and they deserve respect what ever their choice is. being a parent doesnt make u better than anyone else.
@@bhaktikathayein4370 villain toh wo bhi hote hai jinke bacche ho aur jinke nahi wo bhai jyadatar bhale insaan hi hote hai. apke hisaab se yahi badi si choice shayar dono ki mutal ho pati patni ya gf bf ke beech , apko shayad na pata aur aapne anuman laga lia. kal ko apko bacche nhi chaye apki biwi zabardasti kare manlo phir karlena sahi hoga, aap khud uski parvarish sahi se nahi kar paoge, toh na insaano ki choices respect karna zaruri hai.
Jus got tears seeing t.. the way she walked proud wit her baby in hands.. jai ho.. being a working professional wit two children i know how proud it is.. thank you for the video
The very reason we are able to see world today is because our mothers have managed their life and treated us as a gift rather than a burden. Pretty happy to see such positivity spread through such videos
I appreciate a working mother, I appreciate women who show us an example that we can continue our careers along with motherhood. At the same time, this is a reminder for stay at home moms, If being a good mother is the only thing you manage to do, If you left your job for your child, If you took a break from your career, YOU ARE DOING ENOUGH. You deserve to be appreciated. Please don’t let these ads build more self doubt for you. Life is not a competition.
@@akankshabali9577 what is equal responsibility? Who will leave the job then? The husband? Or will the child be in daycare? Or leave them with grandparents all day? If you are okay with your husband dropping his job and staying at home then do it. But having a child is not a game to prove feminism. It is a responsibility. Nobody can deny that the baby needs the mother the most. So practical decision is for mother to take a break. As a mother myself, physically and mentally we mothers do need that break and mostly it is financial conditions that makes us crave ourselves to work leaving our baby back. It is best The father to be capable enough to support the entire family financially and mentally.
@@user-ic4od1ym3l I have many relatives which does not drop their career and there are many options of child care and what is problem in that day care and first what problem if grandparent take care a child for some hours.and I think mother should not force to drop her career in father can do the night shift and. Take care the child in day time.I think forcing a mother to drop her career is wrong and. 6. Months break is okay for child care.
@@user-ic4od1ym3l it is not practical session that u force some one to. Sacrifice their dreams and there are many depression cases among housewives so be a supportive family and leaving child with grand parents is not wrong or in day care is also not wrong . And badme mein bhut mushkil hote h job milna . So practical solution is that a father taking night shift and take care of child in day or leave a child with grand parents for some hours
Okay, but many a times this "carry both" attitude creates undue pressure on women. This "carrying both or even more" tendency often expects a woman to be perfect in almost every sphere of life. It's not good and is actually energy draining at times.
Well i feel a man can also be a good father + bread earner, But the fact is if a man works and would not able to give his time to his child, then people say that he is really a hard workimg man, if same situation happens with a women, then people critizes and see them as a selfish women. Yaar itna jyaada expectation rakhna is not fair
My mom is also a govt. service holder. Still,she managed to raise me and my brother to be capable persons,fighting against all odds. Love you mamoni🥺❤️
@@userjeos4516 that every individual should understand themselves. Ads won't show each and every aspect. Pressure is as much as you want to take. And it needs glorification what are you saying? Carrying a baby needs glorification. If you don't want a baby just because you can't handle it. Talk to your husband. Talk to share the load. Talk to your parents and in laws to share the load. There are girls who gave birth when they were 18. A kid literally. They managed college and babies because they had supportive parents and sometimes husbands. So everyone can manage to have children if that's not financial or career restrictive. If you WANT baby, you CAN manage the work-life balance with good people arround.
I was a stay at home mom and then went into internal medicine residency training and now working as a night doctor (works with my kid’s schedule). Both the jobs are incredibly hard. You think housewives have it easy, but it’s very very hard. The social isolation with constant baby work and sleepless nights and people dismissing your effort is brutal. At the end of the day, both jobs are hard. But regardless of what a woman chooses to do, it should be respected, not looked down and dismissed. Women as a gender are looked down as a weaker sex. What we need is women uplifting each other, not pulling us down.
@@User_nme245 They go to daycare and school. I’m usually awake by the time they need to be picked up. My husband takes care of them while I’m at work at night.
One of the most beautiful videos I've seen in a long time. Being a working mother takes courage and sacrifice. But it is a rewarding journey. In fact, the best women leaders I've seen are mothers. And they shine both in leadership and motherhood.
There was no reason to vilify the 'boss' lady, could have shown a better angle of it. There are so many trashy ads like this, which are thinly veiled messages of establishing male chauvinism and binary gender norms. Another example is the multi-armed illustrations of women that appear only around women's day, depicting the multi-tasking ability of women. That is so wrong at so many levels, again adding to the double triple burden of already existing pathetic situation of women. Women can manage office, household chores, child rearing and what not, men at the same time, just work and chill. How crass! Very evident from the comment section, the ad has done justice to what it was intended to do - so many messages glorifying the sacrifices of mother and a negative outlook on women who do not want to conceive. What about women who can't or who don't want to. The conceptualization is very shallow!
if you are in govt service you may get up to 2 years of maternity leave that too paid, but in private sector like IT companies you wont get much leave also no paid leaves and constant pressure from management and risk of losing the job. so it's better to do GOV job to lead stress-free life.
Why people feel being a house wife is something low ...if we exactly look women make women feel inferior ...and they start preaching feminism and equality .... Actual equality should be given for the thought of what woman wants to do she can do .. and she is no less than a man ...she can take her own decision. Somehow ,this feminism thought process has a completely wrong notion.
शानदार लाइन्स "आपके हिसाब से आगे रहना किसे कहते है पता नहीं पर मेरे बच्चो के हिसाब से में हमेशा आगे हू"।
👌👌बोहोत ही उम्दा एड।
Right
Lets not call moms as supermoms.....instead come forward and help them....they are human too...they r not super moms🤐
Right
It's a choice to carry both or either.
Having kids is ok.
Not wanting kids is also ok.
Both working women and house wives should be respected.
Everyone has there own challenges so it's not good to be judgemental.
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Well said.
Yes, but being a housewife is really pathetic. (No leave, no appreciation, no salary, no individual identity etc.) Nobody should become a housewife. Every woman must earn her own bread.
Can’t understand why that woman on laptop is portrayed as an arrogant bitch.Cuz she doesn’t fit in into a mould?
@@PMcseits very pathetic to think that all no matter what a housewife must earn her won bread. When a man works he comes home and take rest and when a woman works she have to manage her work and her famlily the house everything by herself. She works outside to make herself so called independent for the society and works at home for the family coz if she don't no one will. Its too much pressure for some woman who doesn't have a supportive family. So please don't call a housewife department when she can do everything by herself, call those men pathetic who are so much dependent on their wives for besic things.
Just had a question "if the lady with the child wasnt an officer didnt she deserve an applause for her efforts only as a mother and a homemaker?" Does a women need to work hard both outside and inside the house to deserve such a kind of respect while men would get all the respect just by working outside the house?
Yes, agreed, but men cannot deliver babies 😂, if there was an option may be u would have find ads of mens along with women’s.😂😂😂
Your point is actually considerate
Of course doing 3 jobs of officer,homemaker and mother needs more applause than doing 2
I have watched this video many times and every time I get encouraged and happy...
Myself was a career orientated lady but ever since my child entered my world my life revolves around him and I m extremely happy with this phase of happy life and I have no regrets to leave career behind
Wow! Salute to write, director and actors.
The policewoman is Sayantani Ghosh
Basically. A women shouldn't be made to feel inferior if she wants children. At the same time, women who are not into being a mother should not be forced either.
Absolutely right!
That's what I was thinking 😊
If a woman refuses motherhood then she doesn't deserve the traditional respect and privilege that has been attributed to all women just because they are considered mothers in our society.
@@RitwikRaghav means men are meant to be treated great..... Invincible! Just for their sperm donation to a woman? And not even cleaning thier child's potty? Caring for the child in the absence of the mother or when she is not feeling well, makes men less manly? Or causes the in laws to loose their fame or standard! What? What are family members other than women in the family meant for? Just to EXPECT from THE WOMAN of the family! That's it! Thier duty and responsibilities are done? Where is the sharing amongst members? N where is understanding and accepting of the woman here?! Only she has to accept others and live according to them! Where is she in her life? N where is HER LIFE? Means she is more FEMININE when she is useful in encouraging the manliness in her man and being totally useful, comfortable for him n his family, children, society, etc ? Where is she? U c only the BENEFITS that a woman can provide? U can't c a HUMAN directly in her? What is this? N it's always her choice coz it's her life n her body. THAT'S IT! Relations, traditions, society, badappan DONOT have RIGHT on her life once a girl is born or after she gets married! PEOPLE MUST MIND IT! How dare people who think like you DEFINE a woman's purpose of life, her being born! Everybody has right over her n her life EXCEPT HER? This is senseless!!!!!
@@EaglesEyes6354 no point arguing bestie... Just some fragile male on social media triggered
Being a kid of a working mother I can say my mother nailed both her duties.
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I agree with you. Being a kid of a working mother who had to rais her daughteras after her husbands death my mom also nailed both her duties 🙂🙂🙂
@Aman Jha
Now please say Sigma male because my working father raised me any my brother from a very early age when our mother died.
Real Sigma male*😅🤣
@@dr.himangimahajan8950 Certainly he is.... Kuddos to him ❤
It's a matter of choice. If you want to marry, than marry. If you want to take a job, then take it. If you want children, make it. If you don't want, then also okey but it's very important to respect each others' feelings. don't be judgemental.
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Chup nautanki...
@@sutapabiswas7493 nautanki toh aap logo ne bana rakhi hain society ka.
@@sukanyasaikia4068 Frustrated Pheminist
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Beautiful message, thanks crew for putting up such a effective word across to the evolving world
Proud to see such mothers in our country. Grand salute to motherhood and all the mothers world-wide for bringing us to this world and nourish us. 🙏🙏🙏
I know a Lady, Who gave CA finals (both groups) During 2020 November. We all know how much efforts, sacrifice, pressure is in CA final. If you dont know, lemme tell you, it's one the top toughest exams in India with pass percentage less than 5. Moreover she was carrying TWINS. she came to exam centre for 8 freaking days, Hubby used to wait outside all 3 hours. After exam, Some inviglator staffs would take her back outside the campus and she leaves. I heard, she cleared The exams and became a CA, And a week before the results, she delivered to twins.
What a woman, she is!
थोड़ा Husband की भी प्रशंसा कर दो! आखिर, उसने भी बहुत सहयोग दिया, तभी जाकर सब हो पाया।😒
@@शुभमयादव-म9ङ English mei likhiye. Hindi padna nhi aati Hume.
@@शुभमयादव-म9ङ I from what I could read, I guess yoire asking to appreciate her hubby, too. Right? Yes ofc, during pregnancy, Hubbys support is the most important. Agar vo saat hai kuch bhi karsakte ladkiyan. Uske pyaar aur support important hi hai. Kudos to him also!
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@@शुभमयादव-म9ङ samaj nahi aata yaar agr kisi aurat k support ya favor mai kch bolde toh "KCH" mardo ko ky takliff hoti hai ki,..😒🤦🏻♂️they start whataboutism for no reason.
"What about us ? Hume bhi toh appreciation milni chahiye."🤦🏻♂️
When Someone Said ' Duniya Mein Sabse Takatwar Maa Hoti Hain ' Its Universal Truth ❤ .
And us takatwar maa ka chanakya pita hota hain
K G F
True it's actually tougher to a mom than to handle work.
Bhai every person as an equal responsibility. Men can bore a child for mere 9 month he carries a baby in his mind throughout his life. No matter how we promote women on social ground . But 1 out of 100000 are exceptions not true. Hope u understand from a man's perspective
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Really, I have never seen such a great ad. Best ad i have ever seen. ❤️
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ये काम आसान नही है जिसके दिल मे अपने अपनो और देश के लिए कुछ करने का जस्बा हो वही इस काम को कर सकता हैं और मैडम ने सही कहा ये नजरिये की ही बात है कहना और जिम्मेदारियों के साथ कुछ करके दिखाना ये जिंदगी का एक अलग ही सकुन है
I hated being pregnant. Experienced a very hard and challenging pregnancy... But the minute I saw my child, I knew I would go through the pregnancy hundred more times just to experience motherhood again. It's a beautiful feeling and one world only understand when they have their own child
This was from a month ago, got suggested this now.
I feel like in an attempt to motivate working mothers, we glorify the struggles of motherhood and make it look like it is a cakewalk.
No, being the sole provider for a baby is not easy and any mother who left her job, who took a break in her career, who chose to stay at home with her baby is doing a LOT. A mother doesn’t have to be a successful professional to be appreciated. Every mother who loves her child and takes care of her child deserves appreciation irrespective of her professional achievements.
Finally a comment I am looking for. This is a mean strategy to overwork women - "praise them, praise them like shit" and work them like machines. On a day like Mother's Day/Women's Day, they give examples of women like in the video "Women can handle both - her career and her motherhood/other-household-responsibilities - hence she is great and she is the WOMAN". The next day, if the wife focuses on her career and asks her family to clean up after themselves, they say she has no qualities of a GOOD MOTHER/WIFE/DIL. If she stays at home after quitting her job for her family's sake, they say "SHE IS MOOCHING OFF HER HUSBAND, WHAT A WASTE OF HER EDUCATIONAL DEGREE". Either way, we should stop "GLORIFYING" overworking women and NOT make them the norm we measure other women with.
Absolutely correct. I despise this type of thinking where people generalize an idea where a lot of parameters are at stake.
exactly, and the message in the video is wrong, imo.
Very well articulated. Same opinion
Most people applauding and "saluting" this video are men. It seems like the women in the comments saw right through the bullshit. Lol.
While promoting how *she* can carry both we should also focus on how *he* can help support her carry both!
bt my question is why she wants to do everything and then complain abt it too. just select an option and follow tht only. nhi heroine bnna h prove krna h sb krmge thoda thoda jack of all bnege qki queen of none bnne ki aukat nhi h. system ko apna gyan nhi dungi to mature kese dikhungi bhale kch nhi ukhaado ho life me pr supreme court ke judge se kam intellectual thodi hu mai bhale hi 15 saal ki hu dimag s
Learn to appreciate a good video. There are many videos on that topic as well
Support?
No men have to do their equal share!
They are no supporting characters while raising kids.
I wish there was z love ❤ button
Ye bus najariye ki baat he , superb , grand salute to all indian mothers
I am so infuriated at this ad. It insinuates that the lives of housewives are easy, that they can easily manage their kids without altering their lifestyles at all, which is absolutely not true. A housewife has to put in just as much effort in maintaining the house and taking care of everybody as any other woman with any other job.
It further accentuates that women should have kids just because they can have kids. These are the type of things that pressurise women into getting pregnant even when they feel like they cannot manage them. The model's concerns were legit and the pregnancy would have gotten into the way of her career, but it was just brushed off.
Also, the ad never made a point to address the fact that the sweeper's job was undermined. She is happy doing what she does and is properly taking care of her children, that enough makes her very successful in life.
Also, just because women can do both doesn't mean that they have to. It's their choice. Pregnancy and kids seriously affect a woman's life and it should not be played off as something minor that can be easily handled.
Exactly!
THANKYOU!!!
Very true..you spoke my mind..
Sunny leone's job is not tough
It's always easy to be at home and look after children .
Well I'm a housewife,no work at all.
Hardly 4 hours a day.(these days families are nuclear)
Rest is leisure.
But I have worked sometime.
There's no comparison between a working woman and housewife.
Hell and heaven.
Ye video lakho var dekhne se vi Mera dil Nehi varta..... Kitna achha hai yee video 🥲🥲🥲
Actually raising a child is not just the responsibility of a mother .... When mother takes leave for 6 months ...or so ..father have to take leave for another set of months.....Marriage is all about sharing .....Why these kinds of responsibilities are left to a women alone when both can do it together....
The concept of feminism has to be widely spread and should make the generation aware about equality .....
Very true 👍
Naukri tumhare khala kar lenge 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@pubgever6211 🤣🤣🤣
bilkul.. mai bhi isi message ka support karti hu. aapka comment dekhkar bahut accha laga 👍
Lets not call moms as supermoms.....instead come forward and help them....they are human too...they r not super moms🤐
Wonderful ad about a real woman.
Hats off to ad company 👏👏👏
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I don't like this ad.
1) every job is great (sweeping or police)
2) every woman have the right to choose and not to choose motherhood. Motherhood is a choice; not necessory
3) working woman doesn't need to do everything by themselves. Their partners should equally share the household jobs and baby caring
4) You are a great woman, even if you are not doing a paid work
Matters....
Even i don't like this advertisement...
Only this officer rank lady become inspiration for that model. What about that woman who is sweeping the floor.
Such advertisement make clear cut demaracation, that... Big carrer choice
@@comrade4530 true
Always think positive Chris Lee....itsy only about a women who can handle all things .....ye ad bas itna bta rha h ki ek orat sab kam kar sakti h ..or pochha marne wali ki bezari to nhi ki h ..tarif zarur ki h...tum kya sochate ho us bina bachhe ki woman ki bezari ki h ? Not at all ..bas usko motivate Kiya h ..ha dono kam handle ho jaate h or life itani bekar nhi hoti jitani vo soch rahi h or bhi beautiful hoti h...or konsi esi orat hogi jise bachhe na pasand ho ...kuch h jo shadishuda nhi h jinke bachhe nhi h....ye sahi h ki har kisi ki choices h vo kya kre or kya nhi but sometimes ham unhe vo choice bta sakte h jo unko or khushiya de... negativity hataake positivity de sakte h ....bina ye dialogue mare it's her choice..kya koi insaan galar choice ,choose kare to ..aap uski help karenge ? yaa bolene it's her choice ..so ad ki positivity ko dekha jaaye or galtiya jo aap ko dikh rhi h aap ki real-life me sahi kyu nhi karte ..or ha badi post pr rehke bhi manage ho jata h...or jhadu marne wali ki bhi respect ki h yha so plzz har chiz me negativity nhi dekhe kuch jo positive h use dekha jaaye or jo negative h use ham improve kar sakte h ...i think aap jada judgemental ho.. positivity ko egnore karke negative aspects dekhna ... negative aspects bhi dekhe jaate h but pehle positive dekho fir uska negative ..world is not absolute it's has lots of flaws but. We have to accept and walk with smile ... without flaws world will be not interesting ..galti nikalne se achha h improvement kese ho is baar pr dyaan de....
@@manswini_ I can understand what you are trying to say. I also wish I could see any positivity in this ad. Unfortunately, I can't find any positive things in this ad.
Beautiful presentation and beautiful massage for everyone.....❤️ Only A women can handle her career responsibility and families responsibility ❤️
I am a civil servant and i really appreciate this message and prega news.
Good work👍👍
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Such a powerful message!♥️💯
Mother means life
Yeah I hope you will inspired from this story and will become SSP and get a child too😅😅👍…. By the way it was really a nice story❤️
I was going through the same phase when I conceived my first. I was preparing for the services and didn't know how to manage both. I was completely overwhelmed at the circumstance. I took advice from my own mother and mother in law, they said I can abort if I wish to they would have absolutely no problem and would support my decision as they thought it was almost impossible to be a new mother and pursue such an ambitious position. Later I decided not to because I didn't have the guts to kill another human that was growing inside me. My husband said one thing that changed my pov i.e. " Don't measure your own potentials on the opinions of others. Others might not balance both but you might can. " That hit me. And to be very honest I am happiest to have my little baby. I have taken the best decision of my life and received god's gift. I am so so so grateful. I still am continuing my studies. Being a mother really is worth more than anything. 💗 Hope it helps anyone who is going through the same phase as mine. Don't worry sister.
U know what, sometimes I feel exhausted. I feel like my dreams have shattered, body has become so weak. I feel like giving up! It's really difficult to manage study and family both. But watching the kid growing, whom you carried for whole 9 months is a wonderful feeling. Then it seems to be the best decision.
I'm also preparing for the services. Good luck to you!
It's my husband's account btw.
Well done di 💓💓❤️❤️🙇♀️
Best and wonderful decision sister 💕
Best of luck in your life
great ❤️❤️ u r the real role model 💯💯
I am a singel girl but seeing this add my mind set changes for life struggle .I feel like I am a girl and girls are so strong so i cant give up on any struggling phase of my life.great ad
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Lets not call moms as supermoms.....instead come forward and help them....they are human too...they r not super moms🤐
Girls are not as strong a smedia portrays.
They do it so we women take up more work and do every stuff till we die.
Don't fall for this crap. Askyour man to do his share of 50%
Me and my wife both doing PhD and research job. We have a lovely daughter, both taking care of her and she just complete us..the massage is very strong in this video. good job for the makers.🙂
More power to you guys
It’s really a good message, I don't know why but I'm feeling proud to be a woman 😊
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Way to go. Glorifying women struggles and vilifying women who choose not to have kids.
Its not glorifying women struggles, its saluting them, paying them a homage, and an understanding of why they are the superior gender. Also its not vilifying women who choose not to have kids, its making a statement on people who make uninformed judgements about women who choose to embrace motherhood
@@avinashojha35 There is no 'superior' gender. If a woman does not want to have children, it's her choice and one shouldn't judge her for it, in the same way, one shouldn't judge a woman who is a stay-at home mother. I don't know what this ad wanted to convey, since the childfree woman here is clearly being shown as the villain, also through the actor who plays the 'model' here, they have tried to convey that a woman MUST have kids because she can handle both her career and the kids. This ad is a classic example of toxic positivity, spreading a message that women CAN and SHOULD handle both personal and professional responsibilities. It glorifies the growing pressure on working women. In fact, there's no shame in taking a break from your career to take care of your kids, and that won't make you less of a woman. Neither will not having kids.
@@s.shelly pseudo Feminism sucks😂😂
@@s.shelly the one who wants to have kids but also dont want to sacrifice their career this ad is for them.
It encourages women that even u want to become a mother or pregnant u dont really need to sacrifice ur career.
thats it dont take it in negative way and people who dont want to have kids its their choice but what if a woman wants to have kid but also wants to fulfill her dreams there are many women like this ad is for them .
Sis dont take this in negative way.
@@elsa2885 You know, if that's the case, they should promote it amongst Employers and not women. Employers are the ones who discriminate against mothers. There's no point in telling women they can have kids without having their career affected, while most organisations keep having unfriendly recruitment policies against pregnant women or women with gap years.
Why we always make the woman sacrifice everytime? Why will she have to carry both? Why can't her husband take care of the child too.. So that they both can easily balance the work life and parent hood...
And taking a child is a choice... Not mandatory...
Please don't make women supermoms... People who can't bear child... Who could never be moms... Who are unmarried... They are also humans living in this world... They also need respect
you are right....iss add se ye dika rahe ki ek ladki ka kaam kya hai, jisse society usse pressurized kare aise jeene ke liye. 😔
Exactly. I understand and respect women who can do both, since I myself am an woman. But my point is if somebody made a choice of not being a mother, what's wrong with it ?
A man is hardly judged , even praised sometimes if he dosen't want to embrace parenthood and focus on something in particular. But a woman has to go through hurdles/judgment of the society, etc if she dosen't wants to be a mother.
Yes after returning from office men has only few works to do eat Drink sleep n sex ...
L ko I'm
@@anirudhdabral6759 you never know about all the men in the world so stop being a sexist
The content is good but why do we always put up with the idea that woman alone has to manage both ? Why isn't the role of a father in handling both duties emphasized? I think career and family roles are to be done as a team. I know women eventually excel at both tasks but it does put them in a lot of pressure, compromise and sacrifices.
Absolutely correct ! 👍
Veryyyyy true..it means woman is super woman b/c she can manage both n man cant...
@@sanyairfan1745 no u r wrong woman is already a super woman nor she is housewife or not.Is tarah to usko double pressurised kiya ja raha ki wo dono cheeze akele manage kare ,isse pehle waqt me jab is tarah job system tha jaise ab hai to kya aurtein us waqt kamzor thi isi mentality ke chakkar me ab double duties ho gayi women par ,if they r homemaker then they r nothing useless means to do their families chores ,parenting all r nothing if you have no career .
Very well said👍
Totally agree with you..most of the times society assumes that women should take care of the children.
*If you can dream it, you can do it.*
*_It doesn’t matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop._* ❣ 🤞❣️❣️❣️
This is awesome, women can carry both the responsibility equally. wow what a wonderful message
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Nope women can't. They are forced to because men don't step up and take half the responsibility at home.
Why only women are their in such advertisements where they need to balance while men are left free
@@spellcheck5393 chutiya paida hiahe ho ya koi tending liya
Whenever I watch this video l filled with tears...when she says.." Itna aasaan nahi tha is nanhe shaitan k sath pure district k law and order ko sambhalana..."
When we know that "itna aasan nahi tha"... Then why don't the society help the mothers? Why they still continue to burden the women with the child...
When both parents are working, then why not both take care of the child in a sharing manner?
Because they still think that....." "
Man for the field... women for the hearth...
Man with sword...and for the needle she...
Man to command...and women to obey...
Man with head...and women with heart...
All else confusion......"
@@poonamchhaya7744 correct
@@poonamchhaya7744 No I don't agree with this . It's the biological difference between a male and female . As a pre school teacher the kids are seen as they are . N v can see the reality . Very very few boys vll wipe tears of their peers but vll play alone or football . While girls apart from showing the clips and dresses vll automatically wipe tears of the peers . They are not being taught but it's the instinct . Girls are far more superior than the boys . Instead of trying to understand that they go for foolish feminism . Remember the great women .
Its not the budget...
Its not the star value
Its not the drama
Its not the sound effects or graphics
Its content, screenplay, artists... Always drive a movue or short movie...
Wonderful... Good job
I really like this add . Everytime I watch this i want to watch it even more . Truely the thing is about perspective. Women can balance both house and work . Hats off to women
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My son changed my life totally,i have lost everyone in my life,but being a mother is helping me cope up with all kind of pain and challenges
When will you guys tell society that taking care of children is not a women stuff but should be done by both parents. Also women and couples should only have children when they genuinely want to and not when others tell them to
Yes
Very well said. Thank god someone pointed this out
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Most people applauding and "saluting" this video are men. It seems like the women in the comments saw right through the bullshit. :)
but iss video uss baby ki age ke bacchon ko naturally apni mom ki need hoti hai like breastfeeding etc. aur issi age mein bacche ko aur apni job dono ko manage krna difficult ho jaata hai isiliye usmein ye dikhaaya gaya ki women dono manage kr skti hai taaki women motivate ho ske
After watching this video,, all my tensions gone. Such a meaningful message 👏👏 hats off
Wonderful....
I can't even imagine being a woman how can they be so multi-task.... It's really appreciable
Hat's off to such woman's 👏
Being a woman? They're women that's why they have all capabilities. You had a misconception about them as weak maybe.
@@MsHummingbee Bro I didn't degrade any gender here, just understand I'm highlighting all the barriers from what women passes and still make it to the top of ladder.
Still you didn't clear, chunk it 🦥
@@yourajdhavale6322 women are not born with their multitasking abilities.. Its their life that makes them do multiple roles.. Rather than praising their ability to do multitasking role men should ease their burden by doing an active role in parenthood and homemaking.
Beautiful message. Don't know how many times I watched
खूप छान व्हिडिओ बनवलेला आहे
भरपूर शिकण्यासारखा आहे
महिलावर्ग कुठेही कमी नाही❤❤❤❤
Strong msg to women when women gets depressed in pregnancy. This ads gives courage to girls.
Tell me you don't know anything about post partum depression without telling me you don't
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Salute this type of creations 🙏 Really inspiring for all new era women
what a message !!! proud to say that I once worked with such a brand
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Lets not call moms as supermoms.....instead come forward and help them....they are human too...they r not super moms🤐
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Advertisement like this is Better Than a Whole Movie 🍿 Love the Social Message ❤❤
After ignoring it many times
I clicked on this video!!
Worth it!!
Being a mom or Being childfree should be a choice and that 'choices' should also be encouraged !! Hope to see some ads in future for this too
finally something that makes sense
Exactly what I thought
Thanks for your kind words 🙏
are tmko baanjh rhna h toh rho na baki ladkiya ka brain wash q krhi ho.
True... I am waiting for this too... At least, it will be helpful for some people with narrow minded perspective, who always burdens the women to carry the child, be a working mother or a house wife
The society is yet to change
This is a really wonderful message for all women, she can carry both .
This is a really wonderful msg all mothers she can carry both😊
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Woke & Feminists crying in the corner after seeing this.
बहुत हीं सुंदर . दिल को छू गयी !!
Did i just got goosebumps by watching an ad... she can do it!
What a horrible way to manipulate women to do more-- she deserves a break
If she really was a housewife her reply should be "it's okay be a housewife it's my choice just like you've chosen to work. My choice to stay full time with my family and support my husband be his strength , raise my kid and. And its worng to say I don't get salary. I paid with love, care, kindness, Trust etc."
(of course it's a +ve add so my reply is also +ve)
See nice message! But why is there such negativity for a character who chooses not to have a kid ! There are super women who does both kudos to them but if a lady decides not to be a super women nd refuses to balance both nd chooses one like her career she should be equally respected nd she is equally right nd this doesn’t make her any less of a women ! So if u choose not to have or to have a baby both ways u r a HERO !
Thanks for your kind words 🙏
Why should the other lady be equally respected 🤔? The main character kinds of girls deserves more dignity and respect.....although I don't disrespect the other lady , don't judge me.
voh glasses wali lady kis tarah se baat kr rhi thi toh obviously voh villain hui na and not having childing bahut badi choice hai aur aise baat agar hai toh lady ko shaadi ke pehle hi apne husband se iss baare mein baat kr leni chahiye par ladies pehle btati nhi hai aur phirr baad mein woman card play krti hai ki 'mera husband mujhe force kr rha hai baccha paida krne ke liye' jaroori toh nhi ki agar lady ko baccha paida nhi krna toh uske husband ko bhi father banne mein koi interest naa ho, may be usse father banna ho
@@ravishankarkumar1174 everyone is the main character of their life and they deserve respect what ever their choice is. being a parent doesnt make u better than anyone else.
@@bhaktikathayein4370 villain toh wo bhi hote hai jinke bacche ho aur jinke nahi wo bhai jyadatar bhale insaan hi hote hai. apke hisaab se yahi badi si choice shayar dono ki mutal ho pati patni ya gf bf ke beech , apko shayad na pata aur aapne anuman laga lia. kal ko apko bacche nhi chaye apki biwi zabardasti kare manlo phir karlena sahi hoga, aap khud uski parvarish sahi se nahi kar paoge, toh na insaano ki choices respect karna zaruri hai.
Housewives are the not ordinary. They are the backbone in the family. No one should be allowed to insult the housewives.
Jus got tears seeing t.. the way she walked proud wit her baby in hands.. jai ho.. being a working professional wit two children i know how proud it is.. thank you for the video
This is a heart touching message for everyone ❤️
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I am in tears.
The very reason we are able to see world today is because our mothers have managed their life and treated us as a gift rather than a burden.
Pretty happy to see such positivity spread through such videos
Wow what a line.....gift not burden....very nice
All the best and hatss off to you
I am a government officer and a mother of a 6 year kid. I see this advertisement once in week and feel so happy.... I love this .
Wow , amazing adv with great moral message.❤️
Extremely great msg, we can do all things.
I appreciate a working mother, I appreciate women who show us an example that we can continue our careers along with motherhood.
At the same time, this is a reminder for stay at home moms,
If being a good mother is the only thing you manage to do,
If you left your job for your child,
If you took a break from your career,
YOU ARE DOING ENOUGH. You deserve to be appreciated.
Please don’t let these ads build more self doubt for you. Life is not a competition.
I appreciate your thoughts well said like no blindly feminism
Why she has to leave her dreams and drop her career why not sharing equal responsibilities
@@akankshabali9577 what is equal responsibility? Who will leave the job then? The husband? Or will the child be in daycare? Or leave them with grandparents all day?
If you are okay with your husband dropping his job and staying at home then do it. But having a child is not a game to prove feminism. It is a responsibility. Nobody can deny that the baby needs the mother the most. So practical decision is for mother to take a break. As a mother myself, physically and mentally we mothers do need that break and mostly it is financial conditions that makes us crave ourselves to work leaving our baby back. It is best The father to be capable enough to support the entire family financially and mentally.
@@user-ic4od1ym3l I have many relatives which does not drop their career and there are many options of child care and what is problem in that day care and first what problem if grandparent take care a child for some hours.and I think mother should not force to drop her career in father can do the night shift and. Take care the child in day time.I think forcing a mother to drop her career is wrong and. 6. Months break is okay for child care.
@@user-ic4od1ym3l it is not practical session that u force some one to. Sacrifice their dreams and there are many depression cases among housewives so be a supportive family and leaving child with grand parents is not wrong or in day care is also not wrong . And badme mein bhut mushkil hote h job milna . So practical solution is that a father taking night shift and take care of child in day or leave a child with grand parents for some hours
Okay, but many a times this "carry both" attitude creates undue pressure on women. This "carrying both or even more" tendency often expects a woman to be perfect in almost every sphere of life. It's not good and is actually energy draining at times.
True to the core
Chup nautanki
And as usual man is absent. He doesn't has any duties as father?
Thank you for this beautiful advertisement..
This is the perfect example.
I can relate this.
My girl and me, both are civil servant.
Wow , this is really heart touching , so sweet , being a mother is a most difficult profession in the world .
Well i feel a man can also be a good father + bread earner, But the fact is if a man works and would not able to give his time to his child, then people say that he is really a hard workimg man, if same situation happens with a women, then people critizes and see them as a selfish women.
Yaar itna jyaada expectation rakhna is not fair
My mom is also a govt. service holder. Still,she managed to raise me and my brother to be capable persons,fighting against all odds. Love you mamoni🥺❤️
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Same here..
This message actually brings pressure to women
Not really. It just shows if you want kids and not having kids just because you think you can't manage then this shows you can manage!
@@shreshthasinha285 but not everyone one can
Some can do
Some can't do it
Don't glorify it
@@userjeos4516 that every individual should understand themselves. Ads won't show each and every aspect. Pressure is as much as you want to take. And it needs glorification what are you saying? Carrying a baby needs glorification. If you don't want a baby just because you can't handle it. Talk to your husband. Talk to share the load. Talk to your parents and in laws to share the load. There are girls who gave birth when they were 18. A kid literally. They managed college and babies because they had supportive parents and sometimes husbands. So everyone can manage to have children if that's not financial or career restrictive. If you WANT baby, you CAN manage the work-life balance with good people arround.
@@shreshthasinha285 That's only I said those who can do it let them do
@@shreshthasinha285 motherhood doesnt make one woman better than the other. period.
😍 Fantastic 😊 motivation 💥am now in Police training...I think I can't gave time further study fr high post ...but now I think I can do it ...
मां बनाना आसान नही है। दुनिया की हर मां को सलाम❤
This is a wonderful message ThnQ parega news for this positivity
And for vilifying childless ladies
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I was a stay at home mom and then went into internal medicine residency training and now working as a night doctor (works with my kid’s schedule). Both the jobs are incredibly hard. You think housewives have it easy, but it’s very very hard. The social isolation with constant baby work and sleepless nights and people dismissing your effort is brutal. At the end of the day, both jobs are hard. But regardless of what a woman chooses to do, it should be respected, not looked down and dismissed. Women as a gender are looked down as a weaker sex. What we need is women uplifting each other, not pulling us down.
Oh great ..then whole day who cares your kids ?? And when u sleep if u care ur kids at day time ??
@@User_nme245 They go to daycare and school. I’m usually awake by the time they need to be picked up. My husband takes care of them while I’m at work at night.
@@chiravuris Okk ...at the day time u choose day care school for your kids ?
It is really motivational... hatsoff to preganews... an awsm concept
One of the most beautiful videos I've seen in a long time. Being a working mother takes courage and sacrifice. But it is a rewarding journey. In fact, the best women leaders I've seen are mothers. And they shine both in leadership and motherhood.
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Superb....
I watched it several times ... 🥰🥰🥰🥰🌹🌹🌹
There was no reason to vilify the 'boss' lady, could have shown a better angle of it. There are so many trashy ads like this, which are thinly veiled messages of establishing male chauvinism and binary gender norms. Another example is the multi-armed illustrations of women that appear only around women's day, depicting the multi-tasking ability of women. That is so wrong at so many levels, again adding to the double triple burden of already existing pathetic situation of women. Women can manage office, household chores, child rearing and what not, men at the same time, just work and chill. How crass! Very evident from the comment section, the ad has done justice to what it was intended to do - so many messages glorifying the sacrifices of mother and a negative outlook on women who do not want to conceive. What about women who can't or who don't want to. The conceptualization is very shallow!
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I am so glad someone else thinks like me.
Exactly!
Exact truth... Stop stereotyping
yeah right
We are so blessed to be parents of two adorable children
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Beautiful presentation and beautiful message to every women
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THIS SSP JHANSI IS A GREAT ACTRESS , VERY VERY GOOD
Bs tu hi kr sakti hai maa🙏
I am a railway employee and feel good when watch Bhartiya rail in background chair.😀
Really good message ❤️❤️❤️ Mom is always mom ❤️❤️❤️
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if you are in govt service you may get up to 2 years of maternity leave that too paid, but in private sector like IT companies you wont get much leave also no paid leaves and constant pressure from management and risk of losing the job. so it's better to do GOV job to lead stress-free life.
That is why it is said The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world is the woman thinks she can
Is se achaa Add ho hi nhi sakta pure yuotube par
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Such a beautiful add .respect women and help her as much as you can ...
Why people feel being a house wife is something low ...if we exactly look women make women feel inferior ...and they start preaching feminism and equality .... Actual equality should be given for the thought of what woman wants to do she can do .. and she is no less than a man ...she can take her own decision. Somehow ,this feminism thought process has a completely wrong notion.
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Maybe they ( the team behind this product and ad ) don't heard the word ' CHOICE ' 🤦♀️
One of the best motivational short story 🥰
This is a best ever video 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I have no words for this greatness.
Yes. She can carry both 🔥
2:56 the moment and music give goosebumps 🔥🔥
Wonderful message they are multi talented ♥🥺
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I just cried 😭 with happiness ... I love being a mother... Never felt anything as burden...
Inspirational! Loved it