The Sad Truth on Biniyam's Divorce | 90 Day Fiance
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- Опубліковано 18 жов 2024
- The Sad Truth on Biniyam's Divorce from 90 Day Fiance. We all know and love (well some of us) Biniyam from 90 Day Fiance.
But the TRUTH on his first marriage, divorce, and oldest son is absolutely heartbreaking...
Do you think Biniyam will ever see his son again? Comment below!
Keeping a child away from their real father just because your mad at him is one of the most evil things you could do. That child will grow up to resent her and her husband when he realizes what she’s done.
As long as he didn't do anything to the child it's not right, when he gets older he may want to find his real dad.
My Mum was in this situation. Her Mum was done with her Dad, she divorced him and married this drunk and the drunk stepdad adopted my mum. My mum has all these pictures of her and her real dad with the picture cut in half so that her dad basically isn't in her life. She reconnected with him when she was 28 and we had to make sure we didn't tell my Granny. But she found out after we had moved to a new town. Granny came to visit and saw a birthday card that my Grandpa had sent my brother. Granny packed up and left and never visited again. I just thought it was horrible. My baby daddy and I split up and I made no rules about them seeing or calling each other. Just because he and I couldn't work it out, how is that her fault? And why punish them because of our relationship? I think Bini should be able to see his son and the kid shouldn't grow up thinking this white dude is his dad. It's wrong, just wrong.
I agree. Then she’ll claim that Black dads abandon their kids which is BS. Though after seeing his sisters, it clearly takes a strong person to deal with his family.
@@peonyflowers23 Lawyers can help for visiting rights but not that right 🤷
I bet you that lady just wanted a "mixed" baby. She found a reason to leave.
I always say this just because the person broke your heart doesn't mean you have to break the childrens heart . let them have a relationship . and yes ! Iam a parent!
I am a parent and i totally agree. After i had my child his father decided to leave. Although I was FURIOUS that he left and didn't help me at all with support I never kept his father from him. I always said the money has nothing to do with them. It has everything to do with the parents. It's a Shame I would beg my kids father to come see him eventually I GAVE up. I felt terrible for my son. Fathers need to be INVOLVED! NO MATTER WHAT IS GOING ON WITH THE PARENTS.
@@carolmontgomery9575 yes!!! Same my daughter father was like that the first couple years of her life after I got fed up and didn't call him for shit and I met my now husband he came back around thank God because she was only 3 yr old when he started coming around again and she's 13 now and I alwa told her If she didn't want nothing to do with him that would be HER DECISION not mines I never wanted her to hate me or think I had something to do with her not having a relationship with her dad. But she now says she has 2 dads and that's makes me happy for her to hear that
You dont know what REALLY happened?
@@lolaispure4296 your right. But most of the time it does happen when a man does something like cheat on the mom she would retaliate in not letting him see his children . I'm just saying that shouldn't happen
Great saying!!!
Even psychology books say that even if they grow up with a step dad for majority of their life, they are still effected by not having their biological dad.
I hope he can see his son.
He won't
I appreciate how much A’s family support her even if she doesn’t make the best choices. Lord knows I’ve put my dad through hell and for some reason, he never gives up on me. God bless my dear father.
I wish Daddy Warbucks adopted me too 😭
That is a such a blessing when you can honour your parent(s)
Question- how was his first wife’s new husband allowed to adopt Simon without Biniyam giving his consent?
Perhaps Binyam is not on the birth certificate. Then he’d have to get a court ordered dna test first.
I didnt know this! This IS really sad and deceptive of Simons' mother. Why?? If I remember, Biniym was not in the US when child was born, so how could he sign the birth certificate. Can you spell DNA test?? Max, you always come through!! Please follow up on this story, please. Take care, Max and be well❤
This was not done correctly. Binion needs to report this to court!
If she said he lives in a different country and she doesn't know how to get ahold of him the courts would go ahead with the adoption. After all this time and him not even trying to get ahold of her or find her to try and see or talk to his son it is going to be hard for him to get custody. I honestly don't think he really wants to see his kid (out of sight out of mind) because he's been in America how long now and he hasn't even tried to find them. It's not to hard to do and if they supposedly don't have enough money for an attorney (wink wink) then he can always contact legal aid in their state to help. Flat out I think it's just a sob story he likes to tell to get people to say " oh you poor thing that's horrible " I don't think he really wants anything to do with him after all these yrs and he now has another son to take his place.
Others I think answered it, she had the baby here he wasn’t here so he isn’t on the birth certificate so he would have no say so. She could have put his name on it without him being here but I imagine she had people telling her not to because of reasons just like this. Plus without his name on the bc he would have no say so in anything legally.
I'm sure we don't know it all, but it would be disgusting if she keeps Simon's father away from him. Some day that little cutie will be 18 and he can do what he wants and will find out the truth
And that’s the thing, we always do! The children always find out the truth and the truth will come out, the children will eventually make their own decisions like I did with my own father!
@@Helloari13 wow thanks for sharing your story you re assure me I’m doing the right thing as a daddy’s girl I want my daughter to have that relationship with her father. God willing 🙏
My ex sister in law did this with my two nephews to our whole family. The boys are now 18 and 21 and they have not even tried to get in contact with us. Maybe one day they will try to find out the truth.
Amy Sara Smith, please don't wait for them to look for your family. Keep trying to get into their lives anyway you can! This goes to anyone in this kinda situation. My father had a wife and son, before he met and married my mother. Then had me and my brother. My father, his mother, and two of his sister's try to stay in touch with the first wife and my half brother,but all the cards, gifts and even money were returned. After years and years of trying,they finally gave up. They knew he was eighteen by then and they thought maybe he wanted nothing to do with my dad's side of the family. Fast forward to me growing up and marrying, now with two children of my own. I still could not stop wondering what my other brother was like and why he didn't want to be in my father,my younger brother and my lives! So I set out to find him. It took a couple of years but finally we got lucky and located him. My younger brother and I made arrangements to meet up with him. It was bitter sweet, he told us that he had never heard anything about us, that in fact he had always been told my father died in the service and he didn't know why my family never tried to found or contact him. We told him everyone had! When we parted ways,he wasn't ready to meet our dad. One year later he invited my brother and I to his wedding, he ask me to bring our dad too! It was too late,our Father had passed away and they neither one got to meet each other again. So this is the point of my long story! Don't wait, Dad's look for your children,and children look for your Dad, no matter what you have been told. Don't wait to late!! Best wishes to everyone 🙏
@@dontknowdontcare4218 we have tried to get in contact with them. We even know where they live. We received an email from the older nephew and he said he wanted nothing to do with us. This was around 2 years ago. We have sent letters as well and they have been sent back. But we will not stop trying to contact them for sure :)
Even if he did cheat it’s not a reason to keep the baby from him that doesn’t make any sense. I can’t believe his ex wife is still keeping that child away from him. He needs to take her to court if he ever wants to see him again. 😢
She sounds very insecure
I don’t blame his first wife at all. If he disrespected their union/vows why should she reward him. It’s one thing to contest her son’s relationship with his father if he gets to the US on his own but she shouldn’t be guilted into helping him in any way.
@@cyndie-anjellvernet4114
I agree
He cheated, part of the consequence involves not being a father to the son born to the woman on whom he cheated!
Too damn bad...bini.
She must not be hiding from him on social media if he found out about this new marriage and a pic of Simon. Only he knows the truth. I wonder how a divorce works when they live in different countries. He would have had to approve the divorce. We shall stay tuned
@@saraburns7340 even if he cheated ,that's something personal to the woman. Ever heard the phrase "it takes two to tango" yeah, that's their son, she had his sperm in her so you do the math. Like it or not it's his son as well and if he was a good father he deserves to be in the son's life regardless if he cheated on the woman or not.
I think he's a great father and would do anything for his children ❤
I think its more deeper then we all know, but not for nothing the mother of his first son needs to stop this and let their son be apart of his fathers life
Yep! I hate when women keep the father away from their kid for no reason and unfortunately i think it is just easier because he is from a different country. Even if he did cheat, that still doesnt mean he shouldnt have a relationship with his child. It seems like so many peoole forget that the child is first. Not the anger the parents may have toward each other.
Not only that but allow sweet little Avi to know his big brother.
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Wait. Don’t blame the woman. Like u said- it goes deeper. Maybe she doesn’t let him see her son bc he didn’t step up and broke promises and a child cannot take that heartbreak.
I wouldn’t let my child see his father if his father kept letting him down. If he really loved his son, why not do everything to see him vs getting another woman preggo.
There’s probably a reason that’s not everyone else’s business.
This is pure evil. Just because he was supposedly texting other women it doesn’t mean it’s right to keep his own son away. He obviously wanted a family and is a great father. I hope he can have a chance to be with his son again.
Thank u!
Some.women are treacherous
He's spending time with his son now that he is in America.
Maybe she got full custody. It's possible.
She’s not evil at all. If he disrespected their union/vows why should she reward him. It’s one thing to contest her son’s relationship with his father if he gets to the US on his own but she shouldn’t be guilted into helping him in any way. He was the one who wronged her.
Simon looks so much like his real dad . This breaks my heart. Every child, especially a part black child, needs his dad when growing up in America. Too many broken black families and her son will know that the new dad isn’t his “real dad”whenever he looks in the mirror
His real dad will be the man that adopts him and raised him. What you just said was insulting to adoptive parents.
@@sweetcheeks5775 exactly
@@sweetcheeks5775 the man who is fine with child abduction from his real father and hasn’t reported it? this is not a father, this is low life.
@@sweetcheeks5775 u still want to know your real dad when older. Blood is blood.
✋ why you gotta say especially a part black child ? smh ... that was really lame because you just had to put in there the race card ffs !!! bunch of BS!!
I think it’s important to allow the mother to say her side of the story before making judgement. I’m not a mom or an ex wife but like they say - there are 3 sides to every story…
True... His, hers and the truth!
Exactly
Still ...how do you justify that?
Facts Beautiful! I am a wife of 31 years, neither my spouse or me are American he is from the Africa Continent and I'm from Asia Continent/ SEA SubContinent and please allow me to say married to an African is on a whole level and the scene with his sister's just mild to the 💩 my husband sister's came with...notice I said * his sister's* people not all are good with being a parent, just because you are the natural parents does not automatically grant you a reward that you are the best. As, a Forensic Neuropsychiatrist there are parents that have caused/created so much pain and distraught in their children now adult lives that they make shit smell good.
@@Dr.Mahadrasjethwani_MD and none of what you said is the case here. Nor do the personal experiences you elude to apply. Every wife or ex of an African isn't innocent. The children in these situations suffer. Everyone should know who they truly are. Everyone should have access to their biological parents/children unless that person is physically or emotionally abusive. You know Bini is neither or it would be in these UA-cam streets already.
Marry your own kind. Stay away from African men. The women that bore them and raise them are not the problem. Sometimes it's your slick mouths and lack of respect that get you into trouble.
It's very sad when women use children against their father's. It only hurts the child. Sad!
ABSOLUTELY! That is one of the things that makes me so angry! You have to put your anger toward each other aside foe the childs well being. I also hate when people talk bad about the other parent in front of the child. It is still their parent.
Deaven did the same with Jihoon. I dont think hes seen his kid in years
@@hayleybarbara1589 she did! Hers pisses me off the most!
Where's the proof that she kept him from Bini? Where's the proof that he even tried then or now that he's in the US that he has tried to see his son. He just wants a pity party he doesn't care about that kid
@@familyof1052 me too. Especially with how she tried to say that he abused drascilla and ripped her hair out when you can see the same bald spot in their segments months before the "assault" took place. Shes really disgusting. Jihoons parents were SO excited to be grandparents too :(
If he was so traumatized from the experience, how did he end up doing the same thing again with another woman so quickly?
Exactly. He in America but still can’t see the baby so let’s blame the mom 🙄
Exactly, and out of all the women in his country he chooses another America, suspect
Yes! Exactly. He's a user ! Shut up about the poor Father. He's never paid a dime in child support . He makes no effort to even talk to the child. Do your homework
cause he's an opportunist
@@ingridgustavsson3012 How do you know all this 🤔
I love "somehow Bini is still with Ari". Couldn't have said it better! 😂
Remember when Bini called Ari "selfish" for not wanting her newborn in the middle of that crazy festival?! He's a boy not a man, and this video is BS because we don't know his ex's side of the story.
@@divinecommerce3912 I agree with you, his the cheater selfish man.
@@Yellowrosebeauty879 I agree, he didn’t even learn his lesson from being disloyal to his first wife… He only found an alternative way to repeat the same mistake.
@@cyndie-anjellvernet4114 and then he will act the victim 🙄 his Son is fatherless because of his selfishness.
@@divinecommerce3912
I agree
I really love this couple! And I hope they can work this out so he can see his son. It's never too late to try
Here’s some advice. Don’t cheat
what if she is being paranoid?
Here some better advice don’t use a child as a weapon, he does not have anything to do with it. But I get it most people are selfish.
Really enjoying your new format. Not stressful rant. Just down to the brass tacks! Your voice sounds a lot more soothing and calmer....
Buddy Love Momma Lucy 💖
If he did cheat that has nothing to do with his son.
It's a shame that so many women or men withold the child because she or he is mad at the ex.
To hurt that person by witholding the kid or kids is immature and plain out evil.
If Simon was adopted by stepdad, Beni had to sign away his parental rights or abandon the child. With the marriage and living abroad because he has to I'm not sure how that would play out.
My second husband adopted my 1st child with Down’s Syndrome, trust me in the courts you have to have EVERYTHING SIGNED, SEALED, DOTTED, CROSSED you get my drift.
@@cat-animalwomangroves5429 not sure what state you are in but here in Georgia if you don’t show up to the court for the adoption hearing they take that as you will not appeal the adoption so that could possibly be the case depending on which state she was in as each state is different
I'm not too sure abt that. I remember watching a tik tok of a girl who's mom was yt and dad Vietnamese I think and after her parents split her mom just took her straight to the US remarried in less than a year and had her husband adopt her so that she can make sure to cut him out of her life. Her dad never signed anything. I don't think every country is as strict with guardianship legalities like in the states.
@Sky Mile birth certificate has nothing to do with adoption in Georgia if the “father” doesn’t show up to the adoption counts they take that as a result he will not appeal the adoption as he was notified of the court date and the child is adopted that day if the dad doesn’t show each state is different though not sure where his ex lived
Biniym talks about his son too much to have abandoned him. 😔
Even Ari's family do mention how hurt he is and can understand his reaction to Ari leaving him to fly home.
One day the child will ask questions. Secrets and lies won't hide the truth.
I disagree that Ari's parents will pay and get involved with the paternity of Simon. Yes, they seem to be funding their life...however they are much smarter than getting involved.in that considering their daughters relationship with Bini isn't solid. They are nice..but not fools.
I SURE HOPE THE TWO BROTHERS CAN HAVE A RELATIONSHIP. GOD BLESS
It's such a sad story to think that his son was adopted by her husband without him knowing that's terrible love your recap you're such an awesome person love your channel keep up the good work why aren't you in the camera anymore
Why he can't see his son?....come on his 1st wife got tired of his cheating ways. He wants to dance with almost naked women, now he wants to do MMA dude just get a job. He doesn't want to work.
Binyamin gave up his rights to that child voluntarily so he wouldn't have to pay child support.
Yes this is very sad. I hope he can build a relationship with his son.
Someone in the family commented to me saying that he gave away his rights and allowed step dad to adopt to get out of child support.
The person said he is a POS who gave up his son over money and has no rights.
He shouldn't even talk about the child after giving up his rights. He has no rights to out the adoptive dad.
Child support? The man is in Ethiopia, there was no child support to have. He didn't want to have any issues with possibly never being able to be in US, so he signed whatever she said, because of fear. She did what many women do, when the relationship sours
He probably wasn't on child support. That is more of a U.S. thing. The U.S. has no way to enforce child support in another country. It also depends on who the mother put his name on the birth certificate; if she was upset, she may not have, so he technically doesn't have any rights to terminate.
@@shahnjaylaconnors1476 all the details of child support and custody are usually included in the divorce papers. Dad's do have rights to children born within a marriage unless they are given up or taken away.
I'm only repeating what I was told. I can't add to it or take away from the statement.
I am glad he's able to be in America and raise his second son. But I still can't see how he and Ari are together. Bini isn't perfect but Ari can be pretty dramatic/selfish/spoiled.
And then ari has a solomission to ethiopia some non profit thing she did alone. Weird woman.
Why hasn't he got a job by now?
@@agenaw2877 this season is back wgen he arrived in USA..year or more ago. I know you know they cantvwork for several months by law. In 2022 i dont know what hes doing, this is old footage.
@@joywebster2678 but if he's been here for at least a year he should be able to work by now.
@@agenaw2877 my friend is going thru the same thing and bc of this covid crap everything is backed up with courts and imigration BS so that's probably why he may not have a job still.these men and women who get married in bring their spouses to the US have to realize it takes time for them to get a work permit to help with their responsibilities and they have to pull the weight for awhile it don't happen over night or even within a few months.
That is really really sad!! There are so many Men that just don't care if they see their children or not.... But Benny is not one of them!! He absolutely adores his children! The relationship he has with his son Avi is beautiful! I love to watch the videos of them together!!! Simon is really missing out on a great father!
Then, marry an Ethiopian woman. American women will probably never be happy in Poor squalor.
@@annconforti9294 Bitter Alert lol
@@annconforti9294 There's MANY Americans living in Squalor more than in other countries..so Shut up. You can't tell anyone who they should love. That's not your call, everyone has free will. Who are you??? steupse😖
Binyam needs a good lawyer.
Must return in ethiopia,before more children born by him....Trust me
It's cost alot money
The mom should not keep the son away from the dad.
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That’s so sad and I wish that he could take her to court or something. Period
There's too sides to every story keep an open mind. I know from being a single parent I never kept my daughter's father from her. He kept himself from her even when the judge tried to give him visitation he refused. And keep this in mind she may not have told him that binion's father she might have thought he was too young for all this drama that may be another reason why she's not wanting him to come see him because that will open a door that she may not be prepared to open and fill in the blanks because once he does no binions here and the minions his father and minion wants to see him he's going to want a relationship with his dad every child does.
The bio mom is doing a disservice to her child if she is denying the opportunity for him to know his bio father who is alive and well…and looking for him. It is childish and it would not affect the child’s relationship with his stepfather.
Now that he's in the US he should apply for a visiting order. It should be easier now for Bini to see Simon who is the spit of him and Ari's parents will help. Very sad for Bini, you can tell he loves his boys.
I think Bini should get a lawyer to help him get custody of his first son. His rights have not been terminated so he should fight for his son. He should not let the ex keep him, and his son apart.
Who's going to pay for the lawyer? Should Ari get a job because it doesn't look like he wants to work.
That's actually just not true I'm in a Facebook group and I directly spoke with binis ex-wife and she explained how she has given him every chance to see his son and he has not and does not go out of his way to call or contact his son AT ALL and in fact has not even visited his son since he's been in the US so you never know there's definitely two sides of the story maybe it's somewhere in between
Bini’s behavior is completely inappropriate. His music career, his dancing, his MMA…it’s all a bunch of bullshit. He doesn’t make any money doing these things. He’s around other woman all the time. It’s neglect to his children and to the childrens’ mothers. No wonder the first wife got tired of it all. Grow up!
Bri has a right to protect her child. This is only one side of the story. Her child is first and foremost in her life obviously.
1st wife didn’t have the $$ or clout like Ari’s parents!
He should be able to see his son, his son has a right to know who his birth father is..
That will not change the love the little boy has for his step dad.
In a way the little boy will have two dad's who truly love and care for him and not only that he has a little brother too..Wish them all the best and hope they put their feelings aside and do what is right for the children 💙 ❤
You’re doing a great job!
I hope this is resolved . Tragic.
I do d Divorces for a living. Because he lives outside of the united states then she probably got a divorce by publication which in fact would have given her total and complete custody of the child and that’s why the adoption happened without his consent.
how long should his ex wait? he already showed he didn't want his "family" when he choose to cheat? even wihtout how many years has it been, so what if the new guys calls him dad? hes the one who hass been in the kids life. Just because someone is biooligically related does not make them "dad"
He can get in touch with some people I know that have to do with international child custody stuff. He has absolute rights to his son so easily now that he’s here.
Biniyam ain't gon never learn his lesson LMAO!!!!!
I pray B and his son reunite one fine day sooner than later!! She is dead wrong she has no right to do that!!! Simon is B's seed and I want to start a petition that he gets his rightful place in the Childs life!!!
My half brother was born with his stomach outside before ultrasounds were a thing.
He was christened and expected to pass..
Hes alive and well today but its great now surgery can be ready on delivery for babies like Simon these days.
We don't know the all story. I have a child with a person who has staged me for years for not allowing him to meet the child. But it couldn't be further from the truth; I wanted him to spend time with the child, but no interest. Living in same town, couple blocks away, no interest. But then to make himself look better and to gain favor in court, stated I didn't allow him to meet the child ! Judge wanting to fine me for this kind of behaviour that is totally staged ! Many times child has asked me where is his father and would want to meet him, but father is not interested, though I've transmitted child's requests to him. Instead he's interested in uplifting his status in people's eyes and making them think I'm the cause of he's not in his child's life, at all. Trying to make all friends and authorities buy into this story. If people would know the truth, they might little bit dislike him, for fleeing all child dutys and even visitations so better to stage me as the bad guy. And destroying my reputation. There are plenty of irresponsible and careless fathers in this world and some of these low leveled creatures even try to put the blame on women. The women who take their responsibilities of the child. So I don't know about Biniyam, how his situation is for real, but there's lot of bs going around this types of issues. Of course men don't want themselves viewed as the bad guy, so need to lie. And of course, once again, the women are to blame. Don't believe everything, even when a caring father telling the story with a tear in his eye, it still can be a hoax to safe his own ass and to get people sidetracked from the real TRUTH !
Not at all it's sad he needs to take her to court! ASAP!🤬
I'm so happy his 1st son is doing well and was well taken care of after he was Born. God Bless his little heart.
I'm so glad she was in the right place when she had her baby. Could have been a tragic ending had she been in Ethiopia. If he cheated, if he was flirting, it shouldn't effect his relationship w his dad. His baby's mom is totally wrong!! Do you know how many moms wish they had their kids dads in their life?!?!! And here's a man who wants to be in his sons life & to not allow it, is so messed up. Idk if his ex could have her new husband adopt the son without Biniam's permission. Totally wrong!! He may have his faults, but lack of love for his son is definitely NOT one of those. Obviously he has tremendous love for Avi & his older son. Praying they can connect Avi w his brother. If his ex is married & happy, she shouldn't hold anything against Biniam anymore. He deserves to be in his sons life & Avi deserves to know his big brother
As a 42 yr old woman who's parents got divorced yeah it initially hurts the kid in the beginning and we tend to blame ourselves for the split but as we get older we learn that both parties are better off & that is how I'm hoping this situation ends up.
Simon didn’t have the pleasure of knowing his father. That will definitely play a huge factor down the line. Also think about the fact that she and her new husband may have a child of their own and Simon will feel and see himself as the “odd man out”.
He won't give up on his other son.I'm sure his son will want to see his real dad sooner or later
Parents that do this to their children are doing such an injustice,so sad for the children
Let’s be clear he definitely did cheat on his first wife and he’s probably doing it now as well. 😩
That has nothing to do with him having a relationship with his son.
Are you the person he cheated with?? That's the only way you can say such a thing.
@@denyss3476 exactly!!!
If the courts allowed another man to adopt Simon, without Bini’s approval, He has the right to file a lawsuit against the courts, county and the state as well as the Mother for possibly falsifying documents
The children are the victims in cases like this. I hope Bini gets to have a relationship with Simon, especially now he’s in The States.
Yeah, I am confident that Binyam is a cheater. There was too much evidence of him lying when he spoke with Ari's mom on the show. I don't believe him for a second. He has had way too many incidents like this in his current relationship. Odds are he did it in the last one too.
It sucks for him to not get to see his son, but that's what happens when you marry someone from a different country and cheat on them. I am betting he never got put on his birth certificate, which is why the other guy was able to adopt. Binyam would have to go to court and prove that he had cause to seek a DNA test, I would imagine. It will be an uphill battle. I say just leave the kid alone. He is probably happy in his life and doesn't need the disruption.
In the video he said Bria pulled strings to get a visa for Bini to be here in the states for his son's birth, so shouldn't he have signed the birth certificate or paperwork for the bc depending on how it's done in the hospital they went to?
@@angi7717 possibly. I filled out paperwork for both of my kids while still in the hospital. The baby had to have surgery right away, so maybe it got overlooked at the time. I considered the possibility that there could have been some sort of agreement in the divorce that wasn't divulged. Another option could be that she went to court and argued that he had abandoned his son by not making an effort to see him. In my state it takes at least a year of no contact from the other parent to show that they have abandoned the child. With him so far away, that scenario seems pretty likely.
Unless he was abusive or did something haneous, how dare her deny that child his father. Being unfaithful has nothing to do with a child's right to know both parents. People would think differently if Binyam kept the child in his country, away from his mother, even if she cheated. It's sick to do this to a child. It is emotional abuse. Can't wait until this child comes of age and says how he feels about it.
What are you talking about to leave his son alone? That’s insane
@@EpitomeofALady22 if Binyam kept the son in his country with him people would be on the dad's side.
I think for Bini to get to see Simon, depending how if his name is on the birth certificate or not, he would have to get a judge to order a dna test. It would have to go through the courts which depending on where and what judge is not an easy thing to do. He could have been adopted without the father's consent by her proving that Bini was not a part of the child's for x amount of time.The thing is, it doesn't matter that Bini is from another country, women withhold children from their fathers all the time in the US even when the father is present and does want that relationship with his child. It is a national problem that isn't being addressed. I hope Bini does get to see his kid and form that bond he desperately seems to want. He may have to settle for watching the child grow up without him and contacting him when he's 18 too.
He needs to take some of that money that he's been using for trips and get a lawyer so he can see his son
Bini should go to court and ask for visitation and pay child support.
Otherwise, no.
VIDEOS ARE OUT HIS SON PASSED AWAY...SAD TO SAY...SO HE WILL NEVER HOLD HIM AGAIN SAD TO SAY...HE HAS HIS SECOND SON TO LOVE NOW.
There's got to be way more to the story...most women don't cut ties between child and father unless he's done something awful or said something like "I don't care if you leave with our child, I didn't want him anyway." -that's a quote from my horrible ex who hasn't seen my son in 10 years but pretends to everyone that he loves him so much and I'm the evil bitch that keeps him away. I'm only now actively blocking him from seeing my child on FB and Instagram bc he started cursing at me and showing me he hadn't changed an iota in 10 damn years, bc I told him what my son responded to me when I asked if he wanted to speak to his biological father. I told him he's old enough to decide that for himself and I would never take that choice away from him, and I have never spoken negatively about his father to him or around him, he has no idea about the abuse I've endured while with him. My sons answer was a quick and simple "No...I don't wanna talk to him, I don't know the guy.". My son understands that actions speak louder than words, and the guy never bothered to try and contact me or his other kids that are my son's siblings and he has relationships with them so they could get the message to him that their father said Happy birthday or he wants to talk on the phone. But that never happened bc he truly doesn't care. Biniyam reminds me of my ex a lot...both want to make it big in the music industry, have no problem living off of their family/in-laws while they pursue their dreams instead of committing to being family men, and they both love to drink and party with friends and other women. I'm certain Bria isn't fully at fault for him not seeing his son all these years, we just haven't heard her side yet.
I'm glad you can escape that situation. It takes a lot to make that decision and every time that I see someone take the child away is because abuse is happening and the children are unsafe. I see the signs in this guy, he never defend Ariela, he throws her under the bus with his family all the time/don't take responsibility for the shit he does, the minute that Ariela is gone he's partying and then stop answering the phone when his son has health complications, he cry for his lost child but never mention doing nothing to having parental rights, he seems more preoccupied with his "music career" and what HE feels more than anything else.
Sadly I've seen quite a few women who are motivated by anger and revenge to keep their children away. I made the mistake once of joining a betrayed spouse group, for women whose husbands had cheated. Ohhhhh myyyyyy, those were some angry, bitter, vicious women out for blood. Almost all of them felt like they were 100% the victim. They were "nearly perfect wives" and their evil pervert husbands ruined their lives and they were ANGRY that they had to miss any moment of their child's life because of his indiscretions.
(Don't get me wrong - I'm a feminist and I defend women all the time. I also know that in the US, every state begins custody cases with the presumption that both parents should be involved in the child's life, unless shown otherwise. I know that it's extremely difficult to get full custody and even harder to have parental rights terminated, so I do know that men say "that b*tch took my kids from me," he's almost always full of crap. I know he's full of crap, though, because the courts don't allow it, not because I think scorned women wouldn't do it.)
Some women are just vindictive and cruel, so no she doesn't even.have to have a valid reason.
@@valeriedenaro-cully8884 everybody has a reason for cutting ties
Yes they do especially if they are from another country.
TLC is making mockery of marriage. They got married after a few months, even days then divorced .
Hopefully they’ll hire a lawyer. It won’t be hard to find her. The lawyer will and serve her with visitations papers for the dad. Go to court. Fight it! We’ll see how much he really wants this. 🤷🏻♀️Plus the child will absolutely see this n come find him later. Trust me! All kids eventually do. I really like him n hope it works out for him. 🙏🙏
Don't feel bad for Binyamin. If he didn't want his son adopted it wouldn't have happened. My father did the same thing to me, just forgot about me and let another man adopt me. It's a process and Binyamin had to agree to it.
Wait a minute before you start feeling sorry for Biniyam I think he has a lot of growing up to do. He probably never reached out to his child. I’m mean come on . Let’s not start putting down his ex-wife for moving on, when Biniyam and his Family come across on the show like they are victims, please. I don’t know how this new wife (Ari) puts up with his antics. He needs to get a JOB maybe pay child support!! Please!! They both need to grow up !!
Arie is breaking Bini's heart everyday. How can she and her parents think that including her ex in family is okay? My family rips my heart out with their inclusion of my ex when there is no blood tie.
Binion was breaking Ari heart when he was fooling around when she was back in USA. How about that? How soon we forget when it's not happening to us!! Leandro didn't break Ari heart. He isn't a cheater like Bini I'm sure her family takes that into consideration. That whatever happened between Ari and Leandro it was possibly immaturity and not cheating.
Literally the same thing happened. All the way down to the babys’ surgeries 😶
If she did not add him to the birth certificate, he has no legal rights. I’m sure he could go to court and ask for court ordered DNA testing and then proceed in the family court system. I think he needs to be a USA citizen first. If the boy has been adopted that will add another layer of difficulty for the biological dad. Normally If the bio dad is on the birth certificate he has rights and they need his consent to give up his parental rights to have another person adopt him. He should hire a lawyer and proceed in the courts but he may also feel like his son has a good life and family and might not want to intrude, like how closed adoptions work. I’m sure that kiddo has a lot of questions and should at least get the option to understand his biological family as he gets older.
1st of all, how much if any child support has Biniyan been sending to his ex-wife to support his son? I'll bet nothing. How often has Biniyan been calling his son on his birthday, Christmas, Easter or just on a regular basis to keep in touch with his son from Ethiopia? Again I bet never! So these 2 issues should be cause for a case of total parenteral abandonment in the courts when it comes to his child being adopted without Biniyan's approval or input. So no I have no sympathy for Biniyan in the case of his 1st child. A parent is a person who is there on a permanent and regular basis in raising a child. Let's face it, this kid doesn't even know who Biniyan is, let alone feel any sort of love a child should feel for one of it's parents!
Biniyan needs to move on just as he has done the past 4 years or so this child has been alive on earth! Let this little boy, growup & love the man who is raising him financially and emotionally as his own son.
How much money can he send from Ethiopia? She took his son away and blocked access to Binyiam, so no he can't call. He post about his son and has let the world know he wants to see his son. This isn't the 1st American woman that intentionally kept the kid away, remember the Korean couple. She left the country and he's tried everything to see his son and she has another man playing dad. They get mad and never let the kids see their dad. He tried to even send gifts and she threatened him.
She knew when she married him, he was poor, she made sure he would never see his son because he cheated on her and hurt her feelings. He always wanted to be a part of his son's life. Denying a parent access to their child for revenge is low. That child will resent the mother for robbing them of their culture and father. Nobody will say thanks for keeping my dad away, even though he is a good man and loves me. Hurting your child because your feelings got hurt is not a good mom.
If his son was adopted then he has no rights because the boy would no longer be his.
The twist ending would be binyam being raked over the coals for childsupport
Hey Byinim I’m so happy for you first fight congratulations.
Imagine someone taking your kid away because you were dumb enough to send flirtatious txt messages to some random … She planned on leaving this man way before she actually did. She found an out and took it
Biniyam is in one of my video Khan M.A where he funded our beach parkour Park. He spent a month with us even travelled together to Nairobi. He was basically a celebrity yet never acted like one, he was always just silent smiling and nodding and all laughs. He is truly a real one.
There’s always two sides to the story
He should be allowed to see his son it's not fair to him or his son. I totally agree with you
I don't think he loves Ariel like that I think he has a fear of losing his son again so he is sticking it out with her.
but Ari is so trash that she brings her ex husbands over for god knows what.
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He didn't change his behavior after losing his family because of cheating. He risked his family again. So I would not want his influence on my son either. Not until he can learn to be a positive role model.
That is so sad, especially since he's in the same country now. I hope he can take her to court.
Please he needs to get a JOB and support his CHILDREN!! Gez!
@@cat-animalwomangroves5429 agreed he can't even support himself, his wife or this kid, but someone else on her said that he allowed the step dad to adopt him and sign all rights away so that he wouldn't have to pay child support.
His name is not on the birth certificate .if he wanted to see his son and he lives in u.s he could. All he needs to do is go to court and demand a dna test then he will have rights but he will have to pay child support which he prob doesnt wanna do.
He was less than supportive when this son had to undergo surgery in the US. It was a time to party and pull the 'poor me' theme. I can tell you now that if my man did the same when my child had a serious medical condition (i.e. he doesn't care at all), I'd have zero qualms about keeping my child where he's loved and nurtured.
I don't disagree that was totally wrong but he's still his father. I'm sure she's not perfect...obviously... she's deprived her son of his father. Her actions are very harmful to her son. He has as much right to be in his life as she does.
So youd be petty and deny your child the expireance of knowing their father? Sorry but if a parent isnt abusive and is willing to be in their kids lives you let them be. Even if its just video chatting or phone calls. Its NOT about you NOT about the other parent its ALL about the kid. Kids end up resenting their parent when they discover they were intentionally kept away from the other.
@@vianjelos I think you're misunderstanding. When your baby is having life and death surgery you're waiting at the phone. If you deem this as so trite that you're out there partying, I would be terrified of leaving my child with you for half an hour as you're neither responsible, nor care. It's not about him cheating, it's about his being there for his baby.
@@ajscarla Her job as a mother is to protect her child, emotionally and physically.
How is denying a child his father taking care of his emotional needs? She doesn't have to give him the child for the summer but he deserves to know his father. Maybe he didn't show the best judgement but what parent has never made a mistake? Biniyam has never hurt that child there is no reason for him to be left out of his life. She's wrong.
This is so not right when kids been kept from their father! When they grow up they'll know the truth!
Oh God I can't stand Ari🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮
It would be nice to hear both sides.
I'm traumatized by my brain cells dieing as I listen to this 😔
it's spelled dying. easy.
This stuff happens all the time, even when the parents aren’t across countries… very sad.
Biniyam should quit cheating on the mothers of his children or he stands to lose more. I’m not saying it’s right to keep a child from a parent however she may have her reasons. Ari has been very fair and what he did was really shitty 🤷🏻♀️
People seem to not realize that trying to keep a relationship between a distant man that the mother can’t stand with a little child that didn’t have a chance to bond with him would just cause more harm and confusion to the child. That happened to my nephew. Every visitation would make him feel very uncomfortable and he began to have anxiety attacks when the dad would call or before visitation. It wasn’t even worth it so the dad stepped out. They can try to have a relationship when he’s older if he wants.
@@sweetcheeks5775 your nephew is NOT simon
Great dad he looks to be. Geez hope he gets to see him.
Have you noticed Bini gives you the puppy dog look and drop a few tears when he's lying or doesn't want to answer questions to gain sympathy
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If u love your child with all your heart as a mom especially in circumstances whereby there is a will from the father and desire to have a relationship with their child, you have the duty to ensure that he has the access to his child. It is selfish how she did him dirty with their son. Bini breaks from having his baby snatched from him.
Do 23 and me. See if bini has any more kids out there. My guess is they may have been born with similar abdominal issues.
Seems bini has some weird genetics.
I knew someone this happened to They passed away and their son will never know the great man who had the right to be their father in every way
This is a sad story. I was under the impression he had to give his permission for someone to adopt Simon. Ari would probably do the same. She’s so controlling and he could do better
He cheated on his 1st wife he cheated on Ari when she was here in the states he was having the time of his life living single. He will cheat again. He's so worried about Leandro wants him gone. Why because when he cheats on Ari he doesn't want Leandro to be there for Ari.
I'm sure if he were to get an attorney he would be allowed to see his child. Let's pray for the reunion. One day the child will learn the truth and will decide if he wants a relationship with his Dad.
Ari is the worst. She is so nasty and spoiled. I don't blame Brea at all for protecting her son from him.
That’s weird and gross. Protecting from what? You act as if he’s a murderer or rapist tf
She's been keeping his son away from him since before Ari. What are you talking about?
This breaks my heart. Regardless of your issues you never keep a child from their father. He will grow up and probably resent his mother later. 😢