I was sent away the day my husband was buried .with only my son .nothing else .but I now ok one day .God will give me a good husband to enjoy my life .I was too young to be treated like that .but glory to God
Huyu mzee ako na too much inferiority complex 😔mixed with pride 😢ati a man serving a woman is humiliating 😮a husband cleaning his wife’s undies ! a man doing house work 🤔ati a person walking can not greet a driving relative 🤔….. jipende na upende kazi unayoifaya . Don’t expect your siblings to take your responsibilities just because you are relatives 😮
@@doreenshii563 yes ❣️hustling like the majority of kenyans , exaggerating how he was enslaved more than the Israelites in Egypt ( he said himself not me ) 😳, working as house boy in his sisters house ( nothing even one thing he could say of his sister except lamentations) he couldn’t stand the fact that he is a male serving a female 😫but if it was a position of being a waiter in big hotels ,he could be probably okey with male serving female 😟, him not greeting his brother who drives cos to him the one driving should be the one to approach the one that’s on foot 😨his brother should look for him to inquire of his well-being 😫( entitlements of high level ) and many others . An adult should not feel entitled to be supported by his /her siblings , that’s a sickness that has destroyed many . The in-laws who were better to him than his immediate family to start with ended being the monsters 🤨
Hau ha sister inlaw gukorwo ni manager company iria arutaga wira niho ndeto írí, ucio niwe wamenyaga benefits ciothe in estate na akihuthira nyina itinarigiririe nawe. Keri, ruthuro ruu mari naruo hari we noruo rwatumire makuhate kindu giothe kia mwari. Mari na ruo tondu nduri na indo na mutiri mwana, kwoguo makiona tamekurirwo. No, ni mehia meigiriire. Ukira na uriganirwo, thii na mbere nauriganirwo nio. Ngai arogutongoria.
Yaani unaona red flags, from 1st step but stll you continue ,continue,continue why coz iyo miaka 6 mlikaa pamoja lazima pia iwe uliona au suspect but stll ignored , wee jiite kamkutano tu n pray God
Sammy I know this guy akiuza mwavuli na kupima weight am soo sorry I didn't know he goes through this thanks 4 your channel it's educative God have mercy upon us the world is wicked lesson learned
I feel your pain. I have also gone through a lot of pain in my marriage without knowing why. No matter how much I tried things were not working out. But I told God I wouldn’t leave until He came to help me. And sure enough, after 5 years of pain, God has revealed the cause of my pain…it is my name Njoki. Apparently Njoki niwagucoka/gucokio. There was an evil altar speaking in my life saying I should go back to my parents. Lakini Mungu naye ni mkuu. He has exposed the enemy. And now I am speaking victory in my life. I will never go back to my parents . I am not that Njoki who goes back.Since I started proclaiming that, things are getting better.
Njoki is the one who comes back not going back.. There is a difference Njoki comes to replace the one who went back. Am Njoki and I say I came back to take over
Painful story bt you wish you knew it.vile ulimove in kwa nyumba ya msichana hapo ndiyo family ilikua itakuja kukumalizia hapo.my advice to any man watching this story.never move in in a woman house.ofcz itaonekana Kama nikuwekwa umewekwa na huyo mwanamke.ata Kama ni plot yake afadhari mukubaliane kurentisha hiyo nyumba then hiyo pesa munalipa rent nayo penye mutarentisha mukiwa pamoja
Mm naweza mwabia aachane nazo na aederee na maisha yake,Mungu atamuonekea na njia nyingi,bt kwaza odokea hio mambo ya mali ya bibi,ukiachana nayo utaheal haraka,ulijaribu kwenye uliweza
Symo pls I need your help I broke my thigh and have been operated twice and now I am going for the third time and I don't have enough money pls help me.
I think your wife couldn't put her husband's as next of kin. Her sister was a manager where she worked and was not going to let that happen. Your in-laws are something... Samuel, just try and move away to another location and start over.
Symo...it is very clear that when you declare your nxt of keen...the employer follows as the wishes of the employee...Not unless...there are vulnerable children who have been left behind by the deceased...then the employer can decide to put a trustee to manage the dues until they are 18 or even 25 and they have completed college...in this case of Samuel...he has no case against the mother in law...his wife decided the mother to be nxt of keen...that was her wish...and there is no case.....😊😮
They should return the dowry and value it in todays value which a shilling has .Again was your wife genuine did she trusted you fully ,eight years she could have done something, please move .
Mr forget the wife, mali yake watu wao coz huyo bibi if she really loved kwanza ange kuwa open to what she own na some of properties ange geuza ukuwe next of keen…..it’s painful but Just move on & God will open doors soon
Pole. But hapo pa kuosha nguo za ndani za bibi yako, ah, mila hii ni mbaya. Si bwana unalala na bibi yako. Mbona unaona huezi muoshea chupi zake... Yet, bibi hukuoshea underwear zako, always ukiwa mzima or mgonjwa. Tabia mbaya Sana. I feel, hata Mungu haezi furahishwa na jambo hilo.
This is a lesson to all men know your place , once you sign up to be a play boy know it’s short timed , I have heard the same story to someone close to me,
That guy is not alone.My inlaws just gave me a Gikuyu pot and a kiondo and just like him,some of my inlaws didn't attend the wedding. He's not alone.Jipe nguvu my brother.
I understand you so much i know men are not good in keeping records hence the story sounds somehow confusing but God shall give you peace that you deserve
True kwanxa hapo kwa bibi aliumwa na kichwa aaaiii iknow this guy before aoe alikuwa na gal friend who rented house near us may she rest in peace weee reke ciume na ene
My son is single working in a big company and I'm the the next of kin .May be the lady did the same when she was hired because she was single but she didn't change after getting married.
Wuuuiii NGAI Ndukanareke Njike Mundu Madharau,Makiria Mundutiri wira ndikanamuime irio.Wui NGAI Ndukanareke ma,
Indo cia thii niciagurithira....wee hee hinya brother ❤
Brother there is God in heaven trust in him
There's is God in heaven trust in him
I hate poverty 😢that’s why I work day and night because I was brought up in poverty 😢
Riiight? Me and you both, uweeeh🥵
You are not alone 😢
Oh Jesus have your way and do what only you can do to this wonderful brother you gave unto us us.Amen 1:31:03 1:31:07
I was sent away the day my husband was buried .with only my son .nothing else .but I now ok one day .God will give me a good husband to enjoy my life .I was too young to be treated like that .but glory to God
This story is somehow an eye opener
V true symo no need ya kukimbizana na vitu hazikuwa zake
He needs deliverance ....God is still in his throne
Hiyo pesa ulitumia kupata confirmation of grant ungetumia kuanzia biashara..
Huyu mzee ako na too much inferiority complex 😔mixed with pride 😢ati a man serving a woman is humiliating 😮a husband cleaning his wife’s undies ! a man doing house work 🤔ati a person walking can not greet a driving relative 🤔….. jipende na upende kazi unayoifaya . Don’t expect your siblings to take your responsibilities just because you are relatives 😮
It's good to understand someone or rather the story b4 any cmment
@@gladysgichohi2566 yes even rewinding a hundred times to understand that the narrator and the narration is the same . Inferiority complex 💯
My dear umesikiza hii story kweli😢
@@doreenshii563 yes ❣️hustling like the majority of kenyans , exaggerating how he was enslaved more than the Israelites in Egypt ( he said himself not me ) 😳, working as house boy in his sisters house ( nothing even one thing he could say of his sister except lamentations) he couldn’t stand the fact that he is a male serving a female 😫but if it was a position of being a waiter in big hotels ,he could be probably okey with male serving female 😟, him not greeting his brother who drives cos to him the one driving should be the one to approach the one that’s on foot 😨his brother should look for him to inquire of his well-being 😫( entitlements of high level ) and many others . An adult should not feel entitled to be supported by his /her siblings , that’s a sickness that has destroyed many . The in-laws who were better to him than his immediate family to start with ended being the monsters 🤨
Sammy was Avery hardworking guy those days when he was kijana ad alikuwa na gal friend name nyambura who also left us may her soul rest in peace.weeee
Hau ha sister inlaw gukorwo ni manager company iria arutaga wira niho ndeto írí, ucio niwe wamenyaga benefits ciothe in estate na akihuthira nyina itinarigiririe nawe. Keri, ruthuro ruu mari naruo hari we noruo rwatumire makuhate kindu giothe kia mwari. Mari na ruo tondu nduri na indo na mutiri mwana, kwoguo makiona tamekurirwo. No, ni mehia meigiriire. Ukira na uriganirwo, thii na mbere nauriganirwo nio. Ngai arogutongoria.
He’s presenting some signs of mild depression
Yes,he need help.
Yaani unaona red flags, from 1st step but stll you continue ,continue,continue why coz iyo miaka 6 mlikaa pamoja lazima pia iwe uliona au suspect but stll ignored , wee jiite kamkutano tu n pray God
Kuna watu wanapitia rejection kubwa sana...may God intervene
Wueh.Mimi hapo huwa sisemi.only when people want to use you do they remember wewe ni wao.mimi nimeface hiyo kitu nikashangaa.
Mr Sammy i hear your story it's painful 😢😢😢but please don't dwell in past please forget and move on and trust in God
Ngai arokuririkana akuhe kiambiriria kieru na kiria wahutia gituike giagutherema. Nitondu niegukuhe mutumia ungi na ciana na ugie na gikeno.
God is in control.
If you love jesus.
You will start all over again..
I started all over 8 yrs ago and the lord is faithful
Waah,,pole aki
Pole Sana Samuel, continue with life and seek for deliverance, Life must continue.
Hi symo K I wish i can talk to that man.give him my contacts.
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Symo help this guy to have conselling ad get compensation
Simo.you are a good adviser
huyu a move on unless kuna kitu they invested together but kama bibi ndiye ali invest he should move on ajitafutie life
Poverty and illiteracy is a demonic spirit,from the story even the simplest things he's not able to understand. Take heart my brother
I thought ni mimi tu life is hard.
You summarized the story.
Symo your advice is very sober and encouraging even to many others out here,,may God bless you
wah pole may God bless u
The day she was buried in her family's home the case was closed.
What this man needs is psychological support to heal and move on with his life
Achana na hiyo family kabisa utafute life yako na usonge kama injili
Pole sana bro mungu mbele ❤❤❤❤
“Ndígeruga” Symo witu rí!
Thanks symo k for your advice to samuel .May God go before him to show him the way and help him forget the past to enable him focus on his future.
May God see u thru
Ngai. nyina wa mundu akua maa niwathira
Good work Symo❤
Sammy I know this guy akiuza mwavuli na kupima weight am soo sorry I didn't know he goes through this thanks 4 your channel it's educative God have mercy upon us the world is wicked lesson learned
Uyu Mundu arenda Mutatani. Akipata steady job he can HEAL.
I feel your pain. I have also gone through a lot of pain in my marriage without knowing why. No matter how much I tried things were not working out. But I told God I wouldn’t leave until He came to help me. And sure enough, after 5 years of pain, God has revealed the cause of my pain…it is my name Njoki.
Apparently Njoki niwagucoka/gucokio. There was an evil altar speaking in my life saying I should go back to my parents.
Lakini Mungu naye ni mkuu. He has exposed the enemy. And now I am speaking victory in my life. I will never go back to my parents . I am not that Njoki who goes back.Since I started proclaiming that, things are getting better.
Njoki is the one who comes back not going back.. There is a difference Njoki comes to replace the one who went back. Am Njoki and I say I came back to take over
I pray that God delivers n gives you a family.God is never late He will restore you.He will enlarge your territory.
May God grant you peace of mind and blessings,have more years be rich so that one day you may eat with your enemies
Sammy God loves you more,,be strong keep on pushing,, mungu Ako na ww❤❤❤
Aiiiiiiiiiii hii ni noma
Sawa na uendeleee mungu yuko nawe.
Mungu akusandie u move on dunia haina huruma but mungu anaona haya yote atakubariki kwa wakati wake
1990 ndarokagia ngima riko ya aruti wira a mami na gitoero kiari blueband mum was a generous woman continue resting in peace mum.
I this man very well, mwaura ,s wife gathanje
Waaah painful story my friend "watúkufia"as i call you...God will take you far i believe n pray
God Will pay you double portion..just trust and wait what Hod wil do.
Pole sana brother. God is still on the throne.
Painful story bt you wish you knew it.vile ulimove in kwa nyumba ya msichana hapo ndiyo family ilikua itakuja kukumalizia hapo.my advice to any man watching this story.never move in in a woman house.ofcz itaonekana Kama nikuwekwa umewekwa na huyo mwanamke.ata Kama ni plot yake afadhari mukubaliane kurentisha hiyo nyumba then hiyo pesa munalipa rent nayo penye mutarentisha mukiwa pamoja
Ukweli ni kwamba mwanaume kama Ako chini kifedha kuliko mwanamke....he has no say....
Symo,eti ndugiruga😅😅😅😅
The way Symo was concerned akisikia wakurinuuu.... Pole sana bro what you have been going through
I am working in a big company,,,I have learned it good to write a will,
Halloz from norway. Geithikai Njamba cia ruriri
You should work hard and marry awife of your class start from scratch andgo up together
Very true
What class??? God does not care about class. Esther was a queen from nowhere. What you are saying is not right.
May GOD grant you the desire of your heart....NGAI uria utuganaga arokuririkana
Ngai uria uheyana thayu arukuhe na kuongerere wira uthukume wirugamirire na witeithie muturire ini uyu
Mm naweza mwabia aachane nazo na aederee na maisha yake,Mungu atamuonekea na njia nyingi,bt kwaza odokea hio mambo ya mali ya bibi,ukiachana nayo utaheal haraka,ulijaribu kwenye uliweza
Trust I God .I was done the same .when my husband was buried .I cried but today I'm stronger .
Ni kaa tuko wengi juu weeeeuh
@@cecilianjeri9407 sure
Pole brother,may God grant u peace
Symo pls I need your help I broke my thigh and have been operated twice and now I am going for the third time and I don't have enough money pls help me.
I think your wife couldn't put her husband's as next of kin. Her sister was a manager where she worked and was not going to let that happen. Your in-laws are something...
Samuel, just try and move away to another location and start over.
Oie pole sana ihi maisha yako malipo ni hapa duniani bado umuchanga kesho yako yajamungu you hai kaa kiume kama moyo.
Pole,sana, brother 😢😢😢
Matua mangi matituagwo ni kweda kana kwagana
Woi unbelievable how mean people are. Even giving food to your employees sually....??
My exact thoughts. How do you pay someone 2k a month and expect him to eat? People are very selfish.
Rejection imekufuata all through.
Another thing, kuna pride imejificha, though "mwana wa kahii ni kwiyumia"
Kikuyu atii niakuriga thii
Aya nii athuri ngai akurathime muno brather
Symo...it is very clear that when you declare your nxt of keen...the employer follows as the wishes of the employee...Not unless...there are vulnerable children who have been left behind by the deceased...then the employer can decide to put a trustee to manage the dues until they are 18 or even 25 and they have completed college...in this case of Samuel...he has no case against the mother in law...his wife decided the mother to be nxt of keen...that was her wish...and there is no case.....😊😮
His destiny glory was captured ....
Ngai ndukareke mundu o wothe njui agerere ruo ta ruru
Good We rarely heat Men talk. Couldnyou encourage more Men to tell us their side of the story. Good for you gentleman to talk.
Heat men? Why would we need to do that?😢
@@luciakabui3151I think ni typing error, *hear*instead ya heat
He is a good story teller
Kwani watu wanakuanga aji
So he has no friends no cousin no neighbour that likes him
😊 giza
Wapi?
They should return the dowry and value it in todays value which a shilling has .Again was your wife genuine did she trusted you fully ,eight years she could have done something, please move .
For eight years what was he doing with his life?
sasa pesa ya pombe imekujia wapi,sometimes we are reckless na our tongue
Mûthuri hinya warûme ûragîra kûingî ningî wîna moko meerî wî mûtongu notamerithîtie ndatigaga kûhanda,sahau yaliyopita zonga mbele
God is still on the throne 🙏
Huyu alikosa tu mutu wa kumpee advice.
Huyu msichana alikuwa na menegaitis😢pole brother
😂😂😂😂aki symo ati muiritu akura endaga mundu ukumumagaria ndagacomoreree rwaraa hau😂😂😂😂
Woi so sad
Mr forget the wife, mali yake watu wao coz huyo bibi if she really loved kwanza ange kuwa open to what she own na some of properties ange geuza ukuwe next of keen…..it’s painful but Just move on & God will open doors soon
Symy 😂😂😂 ndirenda uhe rugano nie 😅
Huyu mzee aki aliniencourage kwa biashara aki🙏
It's very painful 😅 nimangiagaire muthuri wake nuthu ya indo icio na no igathira ucio ni inlaw muru biu
Pia mm Niko single
Hi symo iri muthuri ucio atigane Na maungu macio ehoke ngai.
Ehoke NGAi not ngai
Dont worry brother. The world is soo wide, make it work.
Twihamwe muno
Pole. But hapo pa kuosha nguo za ndani za bibi yako, ah, mila hii ni mbaya.
Si bwana unalala na bibi yako. Mbona unaona huezi muoshea chupi zake...
Yet, bibi hukuoshea underwear zako, always ukiwa mzima or mgonjwa.
Tabia mbaya Sana. I feel, hata Mungu haezi furahishwa na jambo hilo.
Bt hakukataa kuziosha
This is a lesson to all men know your place , once you sign up to be a play boy know it’s short timed , I have heard the same story to someone close to me,
Move on and work hard.
That guy is not alone.My inlaws just gave me a Gikuyu pot and a kiondo and just like him,some of my inlaws didn't attend the wedding.
He's not alone.Jipe nguvu my brother.
I understand you so much i know men are not good in keeping records hence the story sounds somehow confusing but God shall give you peace that you deserve
True kwanxa hapo kwa bibi aliumwa na kichwa aaaiii iknow this guy before aoe alikuwa na gal friend who rented house near us may she rest in peace weee reke ciume na ene
@@rositanjuguna7561the girlfriend died also??
Watu wanangangania maiti ya nn😢😢😢ungewapea wazike binti yao😊
Huyu ako n depression
Eeeeish!!! Kwani kuna watu mean aje?
Huyu aliolewa😢
Move on, forget the past
But why didn't the wife change her next of kin.?
My son is single working in a big company and I'm the the next of kin .May be the lady did the same when she was hired because she was single but she didn't change after getting married.