Amazing work, I hope that they are successful in their endeavor. May Allah barakah in their work and all the marriages they facilitate. Jazakum Allah khair
Bruh if you expanded internationally, this would be a big hit in Indonesia. Just saying (InsyaAllah) 🙏🙏 And you modelling it after doctors residencies (or whatever) is probably your sign this was meant for you EDIT: regrading the fake profiles/lies maybe add a taaruf function/option where people who know the person can vouch for them (like a reference) so you know they are who they claim they are, if they have socials verify
Very interesting conversation brothers. Marriage is for those who truly know themselves. What I am witnessing (Allah Knows the Best) most of us do not know ourselves and what we want. We are full of expectations. We don’t know how to care without some sort of motives. Of course there are boundaries, you don’t give it all. But, pure intentions and empathy is not there anymore. My dear father passed away two years ago. He told me that my daughter, today people lack sincerity and honest friendship. I think of that often. Can we just start being sincere? Can we know ourselves? Allah will then facilitate it for us. Ultimately Allah is the One in control. May Allah Guide us in seeking the partner with whom we can live “jannatain.” If we don’t, then no biggie… there is always eternity. My dua for all of us. Ameen
I am a practicing Muslim that is not an immigrant and the idea of InPairs sounded good to me, but when I went to the website in the description it said, "simplifying your quest for love as a practicing Muslim and *first-gen immigrant*." I may be misunderstanding, but wording made me feel that this was not for all Muslims but for certain ethnicities.
My dad tried to price out my now-husband with the mahr request. These high mahrs are so damaging for young Muslims. Aside from discouraging men from marriage, they create an inflated ego in women, which doesn’t carry over well in a union that is as ever-evolving and sacrificial as marriage. Women are already objectified enough. Now we objectify ourselves??
As salam alaikum I hope the brother from inpairs understands that Any islamic matchmaking efforts without parents perspectives is surely cause problems during or after the process. If the focus is dating that is a different story. None of the young, practicing, decent Muslim girls feel comfortable talking to a man by themselves without a guardian. Same goes for young men.
The problem with this guy is, he hasn't studied islamic fiqh on marriage, the Sunnah of marriage, or even divorce. Quite dangerous that he doesn't know basics of Mahr
I don’t think he’s advertising himself to be an expert in marriage, he’s simply come up with a system of bringing people together. I’m sure he has religious advisors
@@skiiiuup yeah but naturally they will turn to him for guidance and we all sometimes forget and give it. Also knowing the underlying sharia will help guide their mission and objectives. It's a neat idea, but knowing basic fiqh goes a long way.
Amazing work, I hope that they are successful in their endeavor. May Allah barakah in their work and all the marriages they facilitate. Jazakum Allah khair
Ameen
Bruh if you expanded internationally, this would be a big hit in Indonesia. Just saying (InsyaAllah) 🙏🙏
And you modelling it after doctors residencies (or whatever) is probably your sign this was meant for you
EDIT: regrading the fake profiles/lies maybe add a taaruf function/option where people who know the person can vouch for them (like a reference) so you know they are who they claim they are, if they have socials verify
That's hillarious, all the ppl with American citizenship would be married
Very interesting conversation brothers. Marriage is for those who truly know themselves. What I am witnessing (Allah Knows the Best) most of us do not know ourselves and what we want. We are full of expectations. We don’t know how to care without some sort of motives. Of course there are boundaries, you don’t give it all. But, pure intentions and empathy is not there anymore. My dear father passed away two years ago. He told me that my daughter, today people lack sincerity and honest friendship. I think of that often. Can we just start being sincere? Can we know ourselves? Allah will then facilitate it for us. Ultimately Allah is the One in control. May Allah Guide us in seeking the partner with whom we can live “jannatain.” If we don’t, then no biggie… there is always eternity. My dua for all of us. Ameen
Jazakallahu khairan for NBF love the content.
MashaAllah good initiative akhi. Keep going
1:19:20
Pizza 🍕 from Sam's? Like, Sam's Club?
That had me rolling laughing! 😂
Btw Jazakumullahu khairan for your efforts
Alhamdililah I'm married, it was almost impossible in this society.
I am a practicing Muslim that is not an immigrant and the idea of InPairs sounded good to me, but when I went to the website in the description it said, "simplifying your quest for love as a practicing Muslim and *first-gen immigrant*."
I may be misunderstanding, but wording made me feel that this was not for all Muslims but for certain ethnicities.
My dad tried to price out my now-husband with the mahr request. These high mahrs are so damaging for young Muslims. Aside from discouraging men from marriage, they create an inflated ego in women, which doesn’t carry over well in a union that is as ever-evolving and sacrificial as marriage. Women are already objectified enough. Now we objectify ourselves??
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Can someone please tell me the name of the intro and outro music?
@SafinaSociety
All I know it is Turkish and beautiful
Engagement doesn't entail the nikkah in my culture. Here it seems they are both being intermixed.
As salam alaikum
I hope the brother from inpairs understands that Any islamic matchmaking efforts without parents perspectives is surely cause problems during or after the process.
If the focus is dating that is a different story.
None of the young, practicing, decent Muslim girls feel comfortable talking to a man by themselves without a guardian. Same goes for young men.
What about اختلاط ?
You need 700 mins for all 25 men to speak to all 25 minutes in groups of three three
41:52 this part was so funny 😅😂
"It's an organization for the he hearing impaired" was really funny! 🤣
Can i just ask is mahr not something the woman has to give back in case of a divorce? So she doesnt keep the money anyway? I dont get it
If she initiates the divorce, then she gives it back. But the husband is encouraged to let her keep it.
The problem with this guy is, he hasn't studied islamic fiqh on marriage, the Sunnah of marriage, or even divorce. Quite dangerous that he doesn't know basics of Mahr
I don’t think he’s advertising himself to be an expert in marriage, he’s simply come up with a system of bringing people together. I’m sure he has religious advisors
@@skiiiuup yeah but naturally they will turn to him for guidance and we all sometimes forget and give it. Also knowing the underlying sharia will help guide their mission and objectives. It's a neat idea, but knowing basic fiqh goes a long way.
17:54 😂
Sh Shadee, somebody should tell you about Love is Blind Habibi - no.1 Netflix show in most Muslim countries !