Don’t Give Them a Second Chance - Dr. Myles Munroe’s Key Advice

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  • @ELLEPRISTINE123
    @ELLEPRISTINE123 2 місяці тому +46

    I opened up to someone today about cutting people off and they tried to convince me that I was wrong and unforgiving. I think it's wise to stay away from people who hate you and continually try their best to hurt you. It's draining being around people who do not build me up. I feel at peace when I am not around them.

    • @dorien2725
      @dorien2725 Місяць тому +2

      Me too.. they've gone away for a week & it's the first time I've had peace
      Bless you

    • @renethomas6575
      @renethomas6575 Місяць тому +2

      That's a positive sign!

    • @judonnecole7035
      @judonnecole7035 Місяць тому +3

      That's a topic where you have to be ready to explain that cutting people off does not equate to unforgiveness. Even if you explain it well like Dr. Monroe did, some people are spiritually blind and will always misinterpret scripture. You just can't throw pearls to pigs. That's another lesson in itself.

    • @confiance1492
      @confiance1492 Місяць тому

      The lord says if someone asks forgivness and repents and change his way you must forgive. But if someone doesnt, of course

    • @judonnecole7035
      @judonnecole7035 Місяць тому +2

      @confiance1492 No, that's not what the Lord said. You are required to forgive regardless of whether or not they repented. Whether they repented ( truly repented ) should determine whether you leave yourself vulnerable to another sin committed against you. Even this is situational. For instance, if the person is your spouse, I believe you have an obligation to practice a degree of patience for the sake of the covenant. However, being married DOES NOT mean you are to be someone's doormat or punching bag until death do you part!! Contrary to false religious doctrine, God WILL tell you when it's okay to leave a marriage. Some people stay in abusive ( whether physical or verbal ) relationships because they think God will get upset with them, but that couldn't be further from the truth.

  • @janicengaihte4198
    @janicengaihte4198 Місяць тому +16

    I wish i had the chance to listen to this powerful message years back

  • @hartwellalleyne2961
    @hartwellalleyne2961 27 днів тому +5

    We are told to forgive 70 ×7 which means not to keep count, but it never said that you must give them access to your life again. Forgive, not holding malice; but you move on. There are mistakes, and there are patterns....... you walk away from the patterns....... Discernment will expose which one it is.

    • @pappyslingluff9104
      @pappyslingluff9104 22 дні тому

      Um sorry but 70 times seven means to count, Daniel 9:27 seventy sevens are determined upon your (Gods) people

    • @hartwellalleyne2961
      @hartwellalleyne2961 22 дні тому

      @pappyslingluff9104 , the point of it was not to keep count or allow negative feelings or energy to fester inside of you. Science has proven this fact by pointing out that negative feelings, anger etc cause toxic chemicals to be released in the human body. It said forgive but it never said you have to continue to walk life's journey with them. That's where discernment comes in......

  • @henrikis
    @henrikis 2 місяці тому +21

    Praise GOD! Even though Dr. Munroe is gone his wisdom still speaks to my soul. Amen!

  • @JothiRaman-z2j
    @JothiRaman-z2j 2 місяці тому +39

    My dearest brother that's what happened to me now nobody can hurt me anymore cos I let go of that 2/ an half yrs ago now my whole life is for my almighty heavenly father's that's where I turned too I have more ☮️ than ever thank you for your help lord's blessing to you

  • @NicoleLevy-j5k
    @NicoleLevy-j5k Місяць тому +9

    I cant believe this is so powerful,i had to share this to everyone i know.

    • @Tinad6613
      @Tinad6613 Місяць тому

      Yea very powerful.

  • @jessicagousse85
    @jessicagousse85 2 місяці тому +34

    It was hard but when I decided to let it go, I got my power and my peace back

  • @piciulnostru575
    @piciulnostru575 26 днів тому +1

    This had such a healing effect..this man is gifted

  • @absolutetreasures6877
    @absolutetreasures6877 2 місяці тому +7

    I so needed this word. I’m amazed how God will lead you to the people that will speak to our hearts

  • @christianangwilson7417
    @christianangwilson7417 2 місяці тому +8

    WOW!!! I AM VERY GRATEFUL FOR THIS MESSAGE. MAY DR. MYLES MUNROE SOUL KEEP RESTING IN HEAVEN

    • @CoreyFieldz
      @CoreyFieldz 2 місяці тому

      SAD HIS WHOLE FAMILY RIP❤DANG

  • @shawnaw9750
    @shawnaw9750 2 місяці тому +8

    I can relate. This happened to me recently I walked away for good. No more Chances.

  • @victoriakonteh1870
    @victoriakonteh1870 Місяць тому +4

    Thank you sir for this wonderful message. All what you are saying is true I have been through that I thank the almighty father who saved me from that pain.❤❤❤❤❤.

  • @PatraPayne
    @PatraPayne Місяць тому +3

    This is a powerful message. You are truly missed!❤

  • @keziabrown7622
    @keziabrown7622 2 місяці тому +4

    Wow..I’m shook! Thank u God for Clarity! 🙏🏽

  • @EstherHolder-i2q
    @EstherHolder-i2q 2 місяці тому +5

    4.05 pm I am thankful for this message it's comformation

  • @MandisaMkhabela-x5b
    @MandisaMkhabela-x5b 2 місяці тому +3

    Huuu!!! My God the spirit in this man was bold and rigid! Boundaries!!!!!!❤ Lord help me to set up your boundaries in my life.

  • @Dchoszenone
    @Dchoszenone Місяць тому +1

    Much needed wise words.

  • @joycrumofficial1046
    @joycrumofficial1046 2 місяці тому +2

    This is an on time words of wisdom for such a time as this!

  • @mildredakpan2677
    @mildredakpan2677 Місяць тому +3

    You and still forgive someone. And don't bring them into your life. Forgiving some one don't mean you're going to break bread with them.

  • @oluchiuche5258
    @oluchiuche5258 2 місяці тому +8

    Now...I want peace...if u don't give me peace, I let u go

  • @ExpertViewsonADRvidpodcastshow
    @ExpertViewsonADRvidpodcastshow 28 днів тому +1

    Accountability is crucial for success; it fosters trust and encourages responsibility.

  • @victoriakonteh1870
    @victoriakonteh1870 Місяць тому

    Thank you sir for this wonderful message. All what you are saying is true I have been through that I thank the almighty father who saved me from that pain.❤❤❤❤❤. Rest in peace sir 😭😭😭😭

  • @ceciliagibson6692
    @ceciliagibson6692 2 місяці тому +6

    Guard our hearts! Amen! In Jesus' name; Amen!!! ❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @ariellawrence6955
    @ariellawrence6955 Місяць тому +2

    Yes, it’s me- I was foolish 😭

  • @allinalifetime
    @allinalifetime 2 місяці тому +3

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤ thank you Sir RIP ❤❤family be bessed

  • @cocodream_3785
    @cocodream_3785 2 місяці тому +1

    Amazing man of God I’ve been listening to him everyday. God is speaking through him concerning my life

  • @elizabethmulanga3437
    @elizabethmulanga3437 2 місяці тому +3

    Substance ❤

  • @gracenduta6610
    @gracenduta6610 2 місяці тому +1

    Great insiration man of God

  • @rejoicekaramata1053
    @rejoicekaramata1053 2 місяці тому

    Thank you man of God for your teaching I'm with you in this 🙏♥️

  • @judonnecole7035
    @judonnecole7035 Місяць тому +7

    This title is very misleading! Myles isn't saying not to give second chances!!! He's saying that one must use discernment in giving people a second chance. He's saying stupidity and forgiveness aren't synonymous

  • @Acidmix17
    @Acidmix17 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for this excellent message sir

  • @TracyO-m7d
    @TracyO-m7d 2 місяці тому

    You have spoken well
    More grace💪

  • @anneflynn5404
    @anneflynn5404 2 місяці тому +2

    Powerful ❤

  • @Mirage238
    @Mirage238 28 днів тому

    Thank you

  • @FranciscoQuinonez-tb7wv
    @FranciscoQuinonez-tb7wv Місяць тому

    Good advice.

  • @tara2434
    @tara2434 Місяць тому +1

    How timely 😊

  • @joyaclark6171
    @joyaclark6171 2 місяці тому

    Thank you!!! 🙏☀️✝️🩸☀️🤲💕

  • @elizabethantoine9652
    @elizabethantoine9652 28 днів тому

    Thank you Jesus !!! For the “seasons” in my life

  • @francismlimbika9708
    @francismlimbika9708 2 місяці тому +2

    This has come to me in good time she has been cheating on me and i forgive her and gave her 2 chance but still didn't change, am now letting her God 😢

    • @howeverhints7519
      @howeverhints7519 Місяць тому

      Sorry to hear your such a good man to forgive her 😢

  • @SharronSpann-gm1xw
    @SharronSpann-gm1xw Місяць тому

    I miss You Myles

  • @mariehumphrey5328
    @mariehumphrey5328 2 місяці тому

    This is true

  • @susanhand1966
    @susanhand1966 29 днів тому

    Family was the hardest, especially an adult child but we must remember those who leave everything and everyone behind to follow Jesus will receive 100 times as much and inherit eternal life..Matthew 19:29..thank you for this message today, much needed❤

  • @DoctorCarrieHall
    @DoctorCarrieHall Місяць тому

    Powerful

  • @Luchivlog
    @Luchivlog 2 місяці тому

    Hallelujah ❤

  • @tisandatyler4152
    @tisandatyler4152 29 днів тому +1

    God did say forgive, but how many chances do you give.people to constantly hurt and deceive you, Im sorry but when its time to move on thats just what it is, Now you be blessed 😊

    • @hartwellalleyne2961
      @hartwellalleyne2961 27 днів тому

      We are told to forgive 70 ×7 which means not to keep count, but it never said that you must give them access to your life again. Forgive, not holding malice; but you move on. There are mistakes, and there are patterns....... you walk away from the patterns....... Discernment will expose which one it is.

  • @AdeodataKT
    @AdeodataKT 2 місяці тому +1

    Amen and Amen, glory be unto you Lord of glory.

  • @AJohn-tr4yq
    @AJohn-tr4yq 2 місяці тому

    TRUE LOVE IS BALANCE
    God's Timing
    DISOBEY =Consequences
    Let go of GUILT ,FEAR
    Discernment WISDOM
    Emotions are Deceptive
    God show me Protect me Peace
    Thank you Father Son Holy Spirit
    Amen Amen🙏🙏

  • @blessingubajesus
    @blessingubajesus 2 місяці тому +1

    Second chance cost me the life of my beloved husband and many more heart aches.
    I depends on the LORD JESUS CHRIST for my healing now.

    • @judonnecole7035
      @judonnecole7035 Місяць тому

      Please understand that sometimes second chances are in order. The people that foolishly give second chances are the ones who lack discernment or allowed their emotions to negate their discernment. God WILL show you who to grant a second chance to. Even if you give the second chance, you MUST forgive. Be blessed!

  • @ecumufelix4017
    @ecumufelix4017 2 місяці тому

    True100%❤❤❤🎉🎉

  • @Anboybakoc
    @Anboybakoc 2 місяці тому +1

    Amen

  • @qudetteclarke8644
    @qudetteclarke8644 Місяць тому +1

    Lord I needed this confirmation 👍 🙏

  • @ecumufelix4017
    @ecumufelix4017 2 місяці тому

    Am free now

  • @bonniehafeman9757
    @bonniehafeman9757 27 днів тому

    Goat? Thanks anyway ❤

  • @MariaMoore-bt6vy
    @MariaMoore-bt6vy 2 місяці тому

    The Bible doesn't sa y to cut off ANY relationship when you recognize manipulation. Hebreww 13:16 says to communicate forget not for God is Pleased.....How can you honor marriage and Gid co.mand to honor if you cut off 😢people you have spiritual responsibilities to operate in your life. I Believe one should get the victory of being controlled and manipulated by others. I believe they put a hit on this minister and his wife, perhaps the wrong people were in his inner 🔵

    • @judonnecole7035
      @judonnecole7035 Місяць тому +2

      No, not any relationship. One must use discernment and not emotions to decide on who they will allow in their life. You can't force your will on anyone. Some people are under so much demonic influence and oppression ( bipolar people, for example ) that you can not reason with them. The only thing you can control is how much you put up with the person. I'm not talking about running at the first sign of trouble. I'm not talking about being intolerant of a person's character flaw. Forgiveness doesn't equate to being a person's doormat. I'm talking about using your wisdom and discernment. People have died behind choosing their weak emotions and/ or misinterpretation of scripture to justify their foolish decisions. Even if God gave them several signs to end the relationship. Also, sometimes it's only meant for a person to be in your life for a season ( not a permanent fixture). For example, God may have a message for you to give them ( like the gospel ), but you made them a friend and/or spouse even though you guys were clearly unequally yoked! Point is, being Godly does not mean that you don't use your God given wisdom and/or common since. Scripture will never justify stupidity.

    • @kellyannr4171
      @kellyannr4171 Місяць тому

      You clearly have missed the “meat” of the message. Watch again, without your preconceived notions, open your mind and listen for the real message.

    • @hartwellalleyne2961
      @hartwellalleyne2961 27 днів тому

      The circumstances point to deliberate tampering. It is the modus operandi of those who wish to eliminate perceived threats. Plane crash, heart attacks, car crashes, helicopter crashes, supposed over doses, etc. His teaching went in opposition to most ministers. It empowered and liberated , to live as God expects HIS people to live.

    • @hartwellalleyne2961
      @hartwellalleyne2961 27 днів тому +1

      A verbally or physically abusive relationship does not have God's stamp of approval. A spouse who repeatedly exposes their partner to potential sexually transmitted diseases is not approved by God. The Creator does NOT expect you to stay in this environment which hinders your walk with HIM.

  • @priscillayarngo2212
    @priscillayarngo2212 2 місяці тому

    Hallelujah 🙏🙏🙏

  • @user-GRACE895
    @user-GRACE895 2 місяці тому

    😅

  • @indupradeep5288
    @indupradeep5288 Місяць тому

    🙏👌💯👌👌👌👌💐👍

  • @thabor6360
    @thabor6360 2 місяці тому +3

    This can't be myles , this is not his kind of messaging, this is AI

    • @brightlife8432
      @brightlife8432 2 місяці тому +1

      I swear ever since he passed, I think that ALOT of technology has been involved with using his voice. It’s hard to trust the internet, if I don’t see his physical body on the old lesser quality videos I don’t trust it.

    • @judonnecole7035
      @judonnecole7035 Місяць тому

      It sounds exactly like Myles! You clearly have no revelation of the message.

    • @kellyannr4171
      @kellyannr4171 Місяць тому +1

      It’s exactly the kind of message Dr. Monroe would deliver. I admit they’ve been using AI to mimic his voice, but I don’t think this is one of those times. The cadence is totally off when it’s AI in my opinion.

  • @aftselite_speed1941
    @aftselite_speed1941 Місяць тому

    Miles you've used the pulpit to express God's word, according to your personal issues likely childhood trauma. Miles this is toxic , you are nit the first to use this position THE PULPIT to spell such evil.
    "GOD" doesn't not speak for you.

  • @keeshab
    @keeshab 26 днів тому

    These are AI generated, be aware

  • @Tonnix_Tonny
    @Tonnix_Tonny 2 місяці тому +1

    I don't believe in second chances

    • @ah3913
      @ah3913 2 місяці тому +2

      God does. But his grace & mercy are holy and he reigns Supreme

    • @judonnecole7035
      @judonnecole7035 Місяць тому

      That's not the message here. The message is discerning that forgiveness doesn't equate with stupidity. Some people deserve a second chance if they genuinely repented. It's about taking heed to the signs and not allowing yourself to be constantly victimized. God requires us to show mercy and forgiveness. Sometimes people make mistakes or bad decisions at your expense. It doesn't necessarily mean you should cut them off! It does mean that you should be on guard and if possible, not allow yourself to be vulnerable. Sometimes it does mean to cut them off! It's situational. Being quick to cut someone off often is a defense mechanism and cop out. It's easier than working towards a healthy relationship.

  • @blueshine3345
    @blueshine3345 2 місяці тому

    Simply evil preaching !!! Jesus has given you millions of second chances !!!!

    • @alanalambert8914
      @alanalambert8914 2 місяці тому +5

      How is this evil?
      Should someone stay in a relationship with someone who is unfaithful,violent, manipulative or worse ?
      There is forgiveness and there is stupidity.

    • @VeilCrossing
      @VeilCrossing Місяць тому

      I bet you're a lucky guy who’s never experienced a toxic relationship.

    • @judonnecole7035
      @judonnecole7035 Місяць тому

      You totally missed the message!

    • @elizabethholmes4933
      @elizabethholmes4933 Місяць тому +2

      God did not give Adam and Eve a second chance. Be careful what you call evil.

    • @judonnecole7035
      @judonnecole7035 Місяць тому

      @@elizabethholmes4933 Bad example. Adam and Eve's sin brought forth the destruction of mankind by giving Satan an inroad. Man's second chance came through Christ's finished work. Therefore Adam and Eve did get a second chance. They just didn't live to see it. There are consequences for sin. When we suffer consequences for our sin, it's not God that punishes us. The sin you committ gives Satan an inroad into our lives to do what he does.