Bride Freaks Out Over 'Hideous' Wedding Bouquet | Say Yes To The Dress: The Big Day
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- Опубліковано 12 жов 2019
- After requesting a change to her bouquet from her wedding florists, Persia's flowers arrive on her big day with the wrong tulle wrap.
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Everyone wants to say she’s rude but the florists completely changed her vision without even considering what she wanted? Didn’t even listen to her flower choice. Smh.
Yeah plus those extra flowers are just gonna bring up the price tag too. She shouldn't pay for stuff she doesn't want
Right true
Right. I also feel like if the florist couldn't get a specific type of flower that she wanted, they could have discussed it with her and THEN keep working. They were dismissive and rude here.
OMG, I don’t want to be rude, so I’ll just go with it so no one thinks I’m difficult- literally why women get walked over. Some of these brides cross the line to Crazy Town, but this one is reasonable, understanding, and forward enough to get what she needs. Good for her.
Totally! If they knew peony’s weren’t going to be available they should have told her in the first place before doing something she didn’t even ask for or even like. You don’t just throw in flowers. The bride knows what she wants and when she sees what she doesn’t she’s going to be upset and she had a the right to be upset.
She's honestly not even being unreasonable, y'all just find her voice annoying
And she is very pretty. Classic features.
at first i thought she wasn’t being unreasonable. but when you constantly go back on everything you’re saying is so rude! maybe it’s because i didn’t watch the whole episode.
Okay Oc Agreed. She has a whiney attitude.
Okay Oc I don’t think she went back on anything she said at all. It’s very obvious she has an exact vision in mind; I can’t see her not conveying that straight out and changing it.
Bingo. Whiny assed nails on a chalkboard...shut up, please.
Title: Lazy florists test a perfectly reasonable bride's patience over and over and over.
Oh, hell yes. Sad. After the showroom exhibits of the samples, she should have cancelled the contract for lack of performance. A word to all brides from a wedding planner with over 1000 weddings: TAKE INCREDIBLE NOTES AT EACH MEETING. Send those notes to the florist as a legal "record of memorandum" of what you took away from the meeting. You are beginning to create a contract. Be smart. Do as many back and forths as it takes to get everyone on the same page. Give them copies of the photos you have from your dream board. Specificy exactly what you want and do not want for all details. Have the florist give you a memo of understanding of their understanding of your desires. START EARLY so that specific details can be worked out. There are many unscrupulous florists out there who do very shoddy work and float on an imaginary reputation that mostly they have created and for that they think they can charge big prices. Start at least a year early. Understand what flowers are in season and when. If you absolutely must have peonies, then understand that at certain times of the years they are not available in mass quantities and you might have to pay a premium to get any at all. Be flexible with your flower choices once you learn the seasonality of those flowers. Ask where the flowers are coming from. Above all, be kind. Karma is always in play.
She's a whiney little spoiled princess. Feel sorry for the man she is marrying. I dont care how much the shit cost nothing they do is ever good enough.
@@joansickora5055 When you start paying good money for florists for a wedding or venue, you'll understand why she is so upset that they didn't listen to her numerous times. It wont be good enough because they didn't do anything she had specifically told them to do in the first place. I don't understand why you would expect it to be good enough anyway if it didn’t meet the requirements she listed for them.
They are TERRIBLE
The bride could have, done the research - and provided pictures for what she had envisioned. Instead of acted like an entitled, spoiled child
The title of this video is misleading. She didn't freak out, she expressed disappointment for getting what she didn't ask for. People she hired were incompetent and should have been fired.
You don’t need to fire someone for a mistake like thatQ. How else are they supposed to learn
@@stevenkalogroulis3992 i would’ve fired them you only get married once and they shouldn’t ruin it by doing what you said no to
@@rebeccaandzacharysepicchan4493 Exactly!! I agree! 👍 They messed up more than once! They had milky vases when Persia said she distinctly wanted clear vases. Then, Persia said Tool wrapped around her bouquet stems not a ribbon. On top of all that, on her wedding day they didn't even have flowers placed where she wanted them 😕 They obviously didn't listen to the client and respect her vision for her special day! I would have fired them too for all the miscommunication and mistakes that no bride wants to worry about while thier wedding day. That florist needs to go!
Be hard to “fire” them after they’ve brought all the flowers in and it’s the wedding day. The only thing the bride said was at the end - all the matters is that she marries him.
I worked with a lot of brides through my work at the church. I tell them all the same thing… There’s going to be at least one thing that doesn’t go according to your plan the only thing that matters is that at the end of it the minister says, “I now pronounce you husband and wife.”
She's the one who hired them!
The bride is not wrong and she's justified, but her voice is killing me.
Agreed!!!
So grating!
She sounds like wannabe Kardashian. Shes pretty tho
Ikr? What's up with the nasal uptalking and the vocal fry.... It's so obnoxious. I don't understand why some people talk with an eternal interrogation tone. Maybe I don't get it because English is not my first language. I must be missing something...
I was dying with her voice.
Yeah, English is my first language. It's obnoxious, I don't get it either.
They tried to make her seem like a Bridezilla, but nobody she hired listened to a thing she said. It really shows a lack of respect. I feel like people do this a lot with women who look younger and especially, if they have her type of voice.
Her attitude is like a bridezilla
@@maredgwenllian9698 Not really. If you pay for something you expect to recieve what you asked for. She never yelled at anyone. She wasnt wishy washy Bout anything. She was direct about it specifically for this reason. Rather have that than a bride who cant make up their mind.
Mared Gwenllian Dont know what world your living in but she paying and being assertive , that man was an idiot and I would of cussed his shit out
Yes! So true
I feel like both are at fault. The bride should have for example said that she wanted the stem specifically wrapped only and should have showed examples of things she wanted, but the florists also if she said she wanted clear you give your client clear.
She needs to be a wedding planner. She clearly has an eye for detail and great taste. She also seemed to hv done quite a bit for her day.
She could run her own wedding planner out of business.
AGREE like she knows what looks good and what's not, she clearly has a great vision and taste i would hire her to plan my wedding fr
@@devinreis5811nope she’d pay attention to what the bride wants unlike these incompetent people who didn’t listen to what she wanted
Milk glass is ugly so
New Title: THE WORST FLORIST & WEDDING PLANNER EVER RUIN a wedding royally.
This has nothing to do with the woman.
I know she looks like a Karen with that voice of hers. But stop making every girl a villain JUST BECAUSE she's a girl & ASKED FOR what she PAID FOR! 🤷🏻♀️
I agree this is the job if the wedding planner to make sure everything is according to the brides wishes.But even the wplanner seemed like she did what she likes and not what the bride wanted.
That florist completely disregarded her. "This is big in Paris". Ok, and it's also not what she asked for. So disrespectful, that's clearly not the right job for him.
That was the point she should have got ris of the florist and found another one
the worst part is they tried to make an idiot out of her, telling her "we talked about this" when neither her nor her mom recall that and specifically said they wouldn't've wanted that, ever, because it didn't go with the theme. so besides ignoring her requests, not telling her beforehand that some things were not available (how is it possible she is just NOW being told peonies are not in season!?!?!?), they also lied to her about what was agreed upon to try not to look so awful. god. I sincerely respect her for biting her tongue, saying she's been told she can be mean so she's trying to change. I would've gone OFF on them.
@@fetuccinily Honestly, same. Imagine paying someone to ruin your wedding by neglectfully running it the way _they_ want. I hope they lost clientele afterwards.
@@fetuccinily Truth. If a florist put any dried lotus pod at any part of my wedding, I would be so angry. I have trypophobia and those flowers/plants give me anxiety and make my skin crawl.
I get the feeling that she wasn't very clear on what she wanted either. And you shouldn't really go about a contract based on "I swear that's what I said". Everything clearly in writing. Preferably with pictures way before the event. Not that the florists were any better.
I would fire that florist.. just because something is “IN” doesn’t mean everyone wants it
Those "milky" vases looked cheap; something my mom would've had in our apartment in the 90's.
@@rustinstardust2094 Good quality milk glass does not look cheap. Just because something is white glass does not make it milk glass. Good quality milk glass has a translucence. I grew up with mild glass in the home and it wasn't cheap. The florist sucks as a businessman. Lesson to be learned here is, make sure that everything is spelled out and very specifically ....... EVERYTHING! Dude needs to add a sketch artist to his staff and have that person, without him in the room, work with the customer and design what the customer envisions, down to the last bit of lint on the table cloth and napkins if that's what it takes .......
@@tinydancer7426 I wasn't talking about "milk glass" in general. I was referring specifically to *the glass shown in the video* . Such a weird thing to get triggered about.
@@rustinstardust2094 Not triggered, just expressing an opinion. And not meant as arguing with you either. And I agree, the crap they had on the table with a single or two blossoms trimmed of all foliage and summarily stuck in the top of the skinny necked white "things" just reeked of someone not knowing what the hell they were doing here or in Paris.
I would fire the bride...😂
As a perfectionist and a straight forward person, i can feel her, she knows exactly what she wants, and the florist keeps playing with her nerves on her WEDDING DAY which u only get once in ur life (the feeling on ur first wedding u know).
I own wedding decoration business, and i always gave sketches to my client about how the decoration will look like, the color of the backdrop and the color of the flower. On top of that i always give a contract that specify all the items the client will get on their wedding day. i can assure you this is NOT how it should be
You bring up a good point on contracts. The show didn't let us see the contract, if any. It's hard to tell what was agreed upon, aside from word of mouth.
I was wondering why she didnt pull a copy of the contract out of her purse
Voice aside, she's actually very reasonable. It's her wedding day and she's not paying cheap for their services. She has all the right to call the shots.
Someone who’s being reasonable! Finally!
I agree.
Exactly!
She's probably not paying a cent for anything, tbh. The parents are usually the ones to fork over the money, unless arranged otherwise. White you're correct in that the bride's wishes should be fulfilled within reason, a paper/email trail should have been kept as evidence of what was signed and agreed upon. Always triple check what the wedding planers plan on doing, make needed adjustments, then both parties need to sign it/agree to the TOS to finalize everything. If something goes wrong, you have proof of what was discussed, especially if the issue will be taken to court.
I wish the show had shown some of the agreed upon paperwork.
@Midnight Sonnet
Plenty of people pay themselves and it really doesn’t matter at all of the parent pay or not regarding the florist. She is the bride and the client and she should have received what she paid for. And she probably does have emails and texts and other things evidence and can get refund later, but it’s not about the money. She wanted the flowers there for her wedding and no stress and she can’t go back in time to fix this.
If anyone was rude it was the florist. He was acting like she was an idiot because she wanted what she wanted not what he wanted.
I think he goes against some bride's to make his thing like to take picture for there business
trueee...i can see it since they push her and her family to agree with the vase
I agree. It irked me when they tried to say she asked for milky glass, and when she said no that was not what they discussed, that she wanted clear glass, he tried to back track and say well this is what is in in France. They ignored her specific directions on her own bouquet, forgot the flowers on the columns and again he tried to flip it on her and got rude. I would have been beyond upset. No one expected him to be God, she expected him to do what he was paid to do from the start. not make her wedding his own private floral project. Likely done so he could use it as a photo op for his business.
The worst is, you could tell she wasn't on a budget, but he was with his flower vendors.
I like watching these makes me glad I decided to go-my-own-way years ago.
And I’ll bet that florist charged her a fortune. She actually handled things well and kept the thought of what the day really is about. Good for her.
I just love how everyone is on the side of the bride.
It's the job of the florist to give her what she asked for.
I'm surprised (let's just say she didn't ask for it) the florist himself didn't recommend flowers for the pillars. It's obvious that it didn't look right without the flowers.
“I DONT CARE IF THEYRE BIG IN PARIS WE LIVE IN CALIFORNIA”
LMFAOOOOOOOO IM GONE
That sent me when I heard that
I think you mean france but idk i might be wrong🤗
Mila MOo no Paris.
Sameee i was deadd
So right
She should change the florist. They were super inconsiderate and didn’t pay no mind to her request that she’s PAYING FOR.
Fr tho
She should sue.
The hell she a stuck up bitch tf
@@mykalyamartinez4423 no she isn't.
@@mykalyamartinez4423 she's paying for this and told them in advance what she wanted. So many people would be upset about that
If I was planning a wedding the florist had the nerve to tell me that something was in season when I didn't say I wanted that, I would go to a different person. You will not try and get me to go with something else if I didn't want that.
We did exactly that for my wedding. The florist adjusted the price (raised it) for flowers (it was a Summer wedding) when she found out my dad was a doctor...Dad moved on!!!!!
It seemed like they didn't tell her until the last minute.
My daughter is a florist. You will pay for what is not in season, because they have to pay for it and allow for loss of flowers in weather that is unseasonal for them. They recommend something else for a reason, it is their profession. They deal with flowers every day. Travel to the market, select, bring them back, pay for cooling and storage. The clean, strip, wrap, baby each stem. They take time to arrange them in vases, oasis foam, wrap, ribbon bows. Write cards, deliver. Then people put them in front of a sunny window or near a heater or don’t change the water and wonder why they die. Goodness. Then they come home and tell the stories.
@@laZOETje then they should’ve said that and given her options, instead of doing what HE wanted. He was talking about what was in, and not considering what she was asking. At the end of the day, SHE’S the one paying for it
WOW!!! I LOVVEEE her energy!!! The bride was calm and handle everything like a trooper. Florist had one job!!! Mygod! Why didn't they confirm the final design with the bride?!?!
You all are calling her spoilt brat.. But in full make up and dress she is giving direction to everyone. And if she has spend money and she is not getting what she wanted she has right to complain
Let me state this clearly. I do not dislike the bride. But I also do not dislike the florist.
When you have a specfic vision, you need to describe it specifically so that everyone understands. She said she wanted the flowers wrapped in toil and that she dosent like satin. From my understanding, they were giving her what she said she wants. But she didnt want what she says, she only wanted the ribbon of the bouquet to be toil. But since she said she didnt like satin, I think the florist was trying to play it safe by not using satin again.
Her communication, at least shown in this video; was horrible. We did not get to see the emails she sent so we have no way to know if she specified or not.
That being said, yes she can complain. But not with that tone in her voice. The tone in her voice sounded like "I'm so annoyed at you rn omg wtf" kind of tone. If she had a more calm demeanor and tone of voice, I'm pretty sure no one would be annoyed at her too. Calm mind, calm life.
I don't agree. She is very annoying
@@suzii6690 she is not one small clip from video you can't tell her nature... Wedding does make bride frustrated and she is acting normal
@@angeliki5135 the clip was made to look like this, apparently in the episode she gave a list of things she did like and also what she didn't, they chose to ignore her orders and act how they saw fit. Now with the bouquet when she stated she didn't want satin she received a photo of what it would look like and she msg them back to wrap it around like they were going to but with tulle instead... The florist disregard what she said and went on to send what she didn't want, the florist is unprofessional and she should have paid them half the total cost since they could not follow instructions.
totally agree. She has high expectations but seems to be consistent about what she wants.
*I hate how they tried to frame the bride as annoying.*
*While the florist couldn't be trusted with anything.*
audrey1053 lol right
Tbh I'm getting married in 3 weeks and I had to "fire" my venues reccomended florist and hire someone else because the first lady was so incompetent. When you are spending that kind of money on flowers it shouldn't be that difficult. They know what they have and they know what they have in season. I would be annoyed too. Plus the bride knew her priorities. She just wants to get married. Plus the florist was so rude to her, a paying client, and said I cant bring you flowers from God and move mountains for you for some white flowers.
The bride is annoying, no one framed her she just is
I agree with her being upset - it's just her voice that's annoying
@@hillanne100 I don't think she is, it's her wedding, she pays a lot and have the right to want what she asked and paid for. The florist isn't good and doesn't respect what she wants, HE's annoying, not her.
"We came back from a show in France." No he didn't go to a show!!
Whooooo picked out her florist?
They're all Persian so I'm guessing they're part of the same local community and the florist was a family friend's friend who got recommended or something.
These wedding planners aren't listening to the bride!! I would have fired them
Her voice sounds like she should be a kardashian
Rose_waterlily_13 ik she sounds like old Kim
She sounds like kourtney
Karishma Singh kinda I think old Kim more tho
But she doesn't act like her last name should be a race from Star Trek. Other than that, I agree.
So annoying and cringey?
Those florist were trash.
"it's popular in Paris"
Are we in Paris right now?
seriously! you can suggest it but don’t change it completely...
It's so easy to say it's popular in Paris, I doubt they ever been in Paris, lol!
honestly! like it’s HER wedding day, not a french persons wedding day. get with it already.
I'm form Paris and it's not on trend here! Those were Ikea vases (my mom used to have them)...
@@axellegonzalez7014 lol i was gonna say the same thing
The florist should not be paid. Because they don't do their job properly
She's a beautiful bride , who just wanted her dream wedding to be her reality.
And it's sad that she had to give advice to the Floris on her wedding day .
I mean... If she's paying money, then she better be getting what she wants
True
There should have been a contract specifing exactly what she asked for (columns, bouquet...) if she didn´t review the contract it's her bad, if it's specified there well, sorry florist. However the bored/annoyed/pampered tone of the bride really gets on my every nerve.
She doesn’t have to be rude tho
When you use respect, you will get everything you want
True, and it’s not like they messed up one little thing, like they stuffed up every single thing. It’s a once in a lifetime day and it should be what she wants.
I’m on the brides side. When she told the florists that the vases and flowers were wrong on the table, they kept trying to argue with her and mom. “Oh but this is how we saw it in a show in Paris. It’s very IN right now.” She had been specific in her original instructions, but they decided to make changes based on the show in Paris.
When she saw they weren’t following her instructions and tried arguing with her, that’s when she decided to micromanage and get pictures of everything so she could give specific instructions. She was also very clear about the bouquet; wrap it with tulle like you would ribbon, and don’t have the big fluffy part. They did it like the picture, even though she told them specifically what she wanted after seeing the picture.
As far as the columns, after them giving her such a hard time about the place settings and bouquet, I automatically believe they didn’t follow instructions about that either.
While some people may think she’s petty or high maintenance, she is a customer paying a lot of money who gave specific instructions. She wasn’t vague or abusive. I’m on her side. I hope they haggle a huge discount off the florist bill for all the hassle.
100% agreed
Yes!!! Finally someone who saw it like it was
There is undoubtedly a detailed written contract that describes each piece that the florist was to make...if that contract doesn't specify flowers for the gazebo, thw florist would not be responsible for producing them. Either way, he's correct that he can't just pull more white flowers out of the sky for her when the wedding is about to start- those displays take time to create
I agree, especially with how much I'm sure they are paying, that they should give her what she wants. If they want to set up something on the side (right from get-go) to say - hey we were in Paris and this is what is big there. Give her options, so that she doesn't come back and say - hey my friends were in Europe and apparently this is big there- but dont shove it down her throat and insist on something she doesn't want
Am on the Bride side too..
"You guys are the basstttt" I love her 😂
Kudos to this bride for keeping it together, I would have torn the florists a new one MULTIPLE times. NEVER say “you didn’t say that” or “you agreed to this thing you absolutely hate”. Clearly they either weren’t listening to her or they were thinking about a completely different wedding. 🤦♀️
homeboy had one job. he legit messed up EVERY order she had asked for. poor bride
Periodt
And then he denied screwing up! Awful.
The 'Valley Girl' accent just makes everyone sound conceited, insincere and whiney, even when they aren't!
You know that is something you can't help right?
Glitter Mafia I absolutely do. ♥️ I’m from CA. I worked really hard to get rid of it. It’s just a bummer that it sounds that way.
I used to have thar accent, because I grew up listening to white girls 😅 and when I moved out of cali it went away! I casually came across old videos and guess what? I cringe so hard, I talk nowhere as near as I did before (maybe just a hint) that's why I don't judge her I knew she wasn't being whiney.
Moon 🌝 So you get what I mean. 😅. I probably should have phrased it differently... my initial statement sounds super judgey... it’s just that I used to have it too, and we all mean so WELL, it just comes out strange 😂.
BTW, I love that you nabbed the user name ‘Moon’! There is an important lunar eclipse on Friday! ✨🌟✨
Ive been living in CA for the last few years and I would DIE if I got the accent😂😂 I absolutely DONT want it
She's not making crazy demands at all! That being said though... why is this giving me sweet 16 vibes!? I swear it's her voice 😅
This florists can't do their job??? she literally told them everything she wanted and didn't want very clearly but they didn't even listen to her
The florist’s attitude is unacceptable....”there is nothing I can do” I will not pay then in this case
Right!! She shouldn't have to pay. Or at least get a pretty discount.
“I can’t bring flowers from the earth and from God” I would have thrown my bouquet at his face if he said that to me in my wedding day
(Not literally)
What do you want the florist do? Go to other countries just to get flowers?! Think first dumb
Isaac Lib you must be the forist and dumb ass
@@isabellee9274 If it is not possible to bring the flowers, why did they offer this flowers to her in first place.... they knew the season of the weding it is not an excuse. She is asking for the product she order
Who is that florist? Wow he’s terrible. He didn’t listen to a thing she said. He’s totally disrespectful. It’s not his wedding. Now he’s embarrassed on nationally television hahaha
The florist was horrible. He wasn’t listening and bad pr on tv. He surely had some greens and could have run to Costco or whole foods and found white flowers. As for the tulle wrap. I agree it wasn’t his fault time to wrap the stems only is a bit odd and should have been specified. Because tulle is see through it would need to be wrapped many times. It would have been easy though and knew it after she said she hated the photo. A simple strand of rhinestones around the wrap would have been beautiful. I watched this again. I shouldn’t be so harsh. Her voice is her voice the fact it sounds whiny isn’t her fault.
If you’re going to spend this much money it should be how you want it
The florist is ripping her off.
I bet he’s not embarrassed one bit, he seems the type to blame the bride (since he’s proved that multiple times during this episode) and smile with pride at his creations because HE likes them.
The florist obviously pretty famous and consider as a high end rage of florist. By Alex Amidi from Square Root Design ...
Yes and the price is obviously expensive ...
I can tell the bride is not a bridezilla melting down type of bride she's trying to be collected and work on the best solutions despite of her unsatisfied work result by the florist and wedding planner.
Paid high bills never guarantee you get a professionalism.
The florists were disrespectful to that girl. Poor girl.
Bro this florist failed. Yes she has a voice that drives me crazy but you can tell the florist did not listen.
“I don’t care if there big in Paris we live in California” I love it
@Daniella Lopez why? shes paying to get what she wants.
Gina Rey lmao true tho
Ya, i dont get ppl tryna sell things cause they're "in" .. like ppl want what they want
@fairytop1 exactly! 👏👏
Daniella Lopez she ordered a specific thing the florist should follow what she says and be professional considering she is paying him
I thought she handled herself really well. She didn't cry, throw things or yell at anyone.
tombo tombo she yelled at this woman even though she wasn’t in charge of what happened
I mean she was SUPER whiny tho
EAT YOUR CEREAL she was acting like a two year old
EAT YOUR CEREAL like she’s a grown ass adult
Emmy Marlene what would you do if your florist that you actually paid to do his job keeps on disregarding your choices for your own wedding and fucks up your wedding floral arrangements. Wouldn’t you get mad at that? She handled herself well and that’s HER wedding. The florist is so rude.
“You did say you wanted tulle, though”. Really? When the bride said she wanted tulle wrapped stems and expressly told them she didn’t want what was in the picture and yet they did exactly what was in the picture. The florists seem more concerned with their own interpretation instead of what the bride wants.
This is the second SYTTD episode I see of Persia and I FINALLY remember who she reminds me of and why I love her so much! AUBERY PLAZA!!!😂😂😂 Always smiling, her mind has a billion thoughts going on at once, tries to be nice (and is nice tbh) but sometimes savage without meaning to😂😂 I love that girl😂
I get that she's irritating but imagine how much they paid for all this
Yep. She's annoying but she's not wrong for wanting people to do their jobs properly.
Celine Leblanc she paid nothing
@@deborahabbenante3483 which is why I said, they. Not her
Yeah it's understandable that she wants these people to do what she asked for
Celine Leblanc
She pays for it. They get it and she pays
"Take that look off your face." No it's her wedding day, she has the right to be upset when you make an excuse for something you forgot about for her wedding day
She has the right to be upset, but at the same time she shouldn't be in the first place.
He's supposed to be there to help, but the more he tries to do his job things just get worse.
@@rebeccamichael626 thank u theres no pleasing this girl she so sopiled
@@clarissaburtness9150 No she did not get what they had paid thousands of dollars for. You pay someone to do a job and they are supposed to do what you told them, not try to gaslight you into saying you agreed to something you never did. I don't think the family was too happy with his services either and I would expect a refund for the missing flowers that he never arranged.
@@southernhippie9058 if the flowers are out of season there not growing and can't be pulled out of Thin air on one could do want she was asking and the flowers she did get were imported from france she got what she paid for it just wasn't as maney as she expected
I hate how her family or whatever was getting mad at her for being unhappy with that AWFUL terrrrible florist and wedding planner. They did a treacherous job and she was so nice about it. She handled everything in stride!! I certainly would not have
The florist is really acting like its his wedding, huh?
I would be seriously pissed off if someone said “I’m sorry I can’t bring flowers down from god. It can’t happen.”
Omg
And then someone telling her
“Take that look off your face” wtf
They made the mistake and she’s being reasonable but they still try to paint her as a bridezilla
In the lead up to my wedding the woman at the venue asked for all info like seating plan, room layout, timeline for music and lighting etc. She kept saying how she will do anything i ask and is there for me etc etc. On the day everything is set up wrong and when we complained she said we never gave her anything and that she's "not our wedding planner". Total bitch! Needless to say she also avoided me all day! Beautiful venue but i wouldn't recommend because of her incompetent.
If somebody had said the "flowers from God" thing to me I would have snapped my fingers and been like, "Okay. FIRED."
Bel Barcelos cause she’s pretty
Me too! That was very uncalled for. I would have said “you’re fired get outta here”
The thing is, she’s being clear. She knows what she likes and doesn’t like and they think they know best and are giving her what they like. To give her the exact same bouquet we all know she said she didn’t like and wanted changed is how you know the florist are the ones ignoring her.
I completely agree. Of course shes upset, she asked for things to be a certain way and they went with "what's in" and the hot styles in france. She has every right to be upset
we don't know that!! thats what she says
I am sure her parents paid a small fortune for to be happy and the florist didn’t listen after all it is her day
@@violeta8626 apparently this clip doesn't show that in the actual episode she made a complete list of things she did and didn't want, they chose to ignore her wants because they saw something in tend and tried to change her vision for her wedding. Also the bouquet was not done to her liking after they spoke in mgs so they are not professional in regards to following instructions.
I agree! The florist didn't deliver what they promised. I'd have been upset, too.
When you are willing to pay such an exorbitant amount to the wedding evenr organizers and they don't give you stuff you wanted, then you are liable to get angry.
No one expected him to be God. Just expected him to be what he is - a florist!
And do the ONE JOB he had, CORRECTLY!
To throw that tantrum like that - I am not God - he shouldn't have been paid at all.
Everyone should highlight the name. So, people know who he was.
The bride isn’t the person who is rude or annoying she knows what she likes so the florists and planners should be trusted but their doing nothing she wants
But...she’s being reasonable? It’s her wedding, her voice should be heard
But her voice is the most annoying part
Oh we hear her voice. I have it engraved. They are listening to her but definitely to her voice
Oh believe me, that voice is being heard.....if she keeps this whining up there won't be a wedding.
As a person who working in a wedding industry for years...
I can understand the florist want to show his creations that's on trend and will be good for his new portfolio and it's still the mock up that can be readjust to fit what the bride want.
However the attention to details and plan management were very lacked. The wedding planner should be able to make sure everything is delivered well and able to manage communication between the client and all vendors and I'm sure there should be a final technical meeting to go through A to Z and reconfirm its again ..so yeah there is no excuse for it.
@@magicbali5434 I don’t know about florist....but no way anyone who deal with customer say things that this florist say....when the customer did say they want something...you don’t go say “ I can’t make bla bla...” yeah just blame the customer that he can’t magically have it...when he f***ing ignore her request....
That florist should be fired. I would not trust them to do my event.
No integrity, not listening, then trying to push their own mistake, disregarding the bride's wishes.
If she didn't specify, they should be professional,
and clear in their planning, or accommodating.
"They're not season" -- yet they could get them for her bouquet??!?
She’s still married and she has three beautiful babies
I actually really liked the bride, especially what she said at the end of the clip. Having said that, i think that the florist assumed they could do whatever the wanted and steamroll the bride. The bride was assertive andcknew what she wanted, the florist sucks.
Agreed!!
Agree she's paying alot of money. She def should of checked the contract saying exactly what she wanted. I feel sorry that she's having to spend her big day organising her venue
I know! I feel like if they stand up for themselves and their vision, they are bossy and a “bridezilla” but if they don’t, then they don’t have a handle on the wedding and they need to take control. It’s like your dammed if you do and dammed if you don’t. 😞
This girl has good taste! No matter how much they try and portray her as a bridezilla, she really is not! Everything she asked for was legit and made sense.
Also, something being big in France doesn’t mean anything when you have a customer who has asked and paid for custom settings according to her personal taste.
Annndddd.... who pronounces it Pewyooneess? That decorator lady really needs to learn her flowers.
That was such bs you know he was pulling that out of his ass because he thought that would convince her.
She asked for a service, said specifically what she wanted, and if there was going to be any problem with anything they shoulda communicated that to her, and she made this plan for this whole venue and when she got there she still didn't get what she paid for and had to fix shit, She spent this money and they fucked it up multiple times, I understand her frustrations, I hope she demanded her money back after the wedding and everything because that was complete bullshit
I agree, i felt they were trying to manipulate her into taking what they thought would do, that company should not be recommend, she really does have good taste and to be honest in Paris they wouldnt have such a hideous milk glass, that looked worse than ikea, it was so cheap
Julie Sprik In what world? Are you delusional? Unless you are too dumb to understand, she literally put all the options together and asked the bridesmaids to figure it out themselves. She actually refrained from micromanaging and let the girls do it themselves because she knew she already had too much on her plate. That’s not rude, that’s practical! If you can’t be honest with your friends then they are not your friends, honey 🤷🏻♂️
I agree with you!!
Sounds like he’s trying to talk them into what he’s got. She’s not unreasonable.
“It’s not a big deal” like excuse me SHE is paying for all of this, not YOU. So clearly YOU don’t care because it’s not YOUR money spent. How dismissive.
The florist just didn’t care about what she wanted
Sisima13 He likely spent so much on the vases, He liked, He couldn’t afford the flowers. Poor planning from the beginning. How much time did he actually spend working on her wedding?
It also seemed like they were so lazy to just wrap a piece of tool around a bouquet with the stems showing and also not covering the pillars.
I know right
I don’t care what you say, I love this woman! She knows what she wants and made what she wanted very clear. But the florist, he is so unprofessional and honestly very disrespectful, so wrong.
The mansplaining made me want to slice my ears off.
@@DogHairRules Ya, that florist is full of bad attitude. Who needs stress from an idiot like that on their wedding?
@@DogHairRules 100% They wouldn't have treated her like that if she were 50-year-old white man.
Truth 👍🏻
I think she’s actually really nice. Reasonable
The thing is the family probably paid a lot of money to get it they way they wanted. The florist didn't deliver despite being told. They disrespected her wishes. No matter how she says it or what to think of her, the florist didn't do their job. She had every right to be upset about it. Doesn't make her spoiled in that case.
Those florists are absolutely incompetent, and she has every right to be angry at them. They weren't listening to her at all, and come the day of the wedding, they give her attitude when she says something isn't right. I feel bad for her.
TaizsiaG I thought she was being a bridezilla until the ending. I would be so upset too!! Paying tens of thousands of dollars just to have your order be ignored and forgotten. Can you believe the florist had the audacity to say “I don’t remember... there’s nothing I can do”?!?! I would’ve refused to pay them their full amount because how idiotic they handled everything.
Peachy Babe
and the tulle in the bouquet! They ignored so many of her requests I’m annoyed for her lol. The way the florist said “I can’t bring flowers from God and earth...” that was so rude and uncalled for.
Liz martinez definitely worst florists ever. Imagine collecting your paycheque for tens of thousands of dollars for not doing your job properly. Shame on them.
It's like the caterers got her wedding mixed up with another ones cuz nothing was the way she asked for it. Those caterers should be been fired! Seriously.
@@claindastuart6790 Poor Bride. Idiotic Florists and bad caterers. I agree I am paying Bugaloo bucks I should not have to micromanage you while you do your work. But Obviously I have to!
"don't you remember" is a consultants way of saying "I went with it how I wanted and I'm trying to convince you we had a conversation about this just so you go with our mistake of a design"
TRUE TRUE TRUEEEEEE
Yes - my hair stood up when I heard him say that.
Well, it could equaly be her not having explained it or even mentioned it at all and now claiming that she has. I BET their contract or agreenment mentions the number of colums or even the location, so it' s not their fault. No matter what was said and if it was explained or not, did she pay for 6 and she is getting 6? Then it is not their fault, it's hers.
As to wedding jewelry sales, we always have to allow the customers to change their mind. If they change their mind last minute, they will pay extra for it; if we mess it up, we will make it right. No need to discuss "I told you so" or "remember?", We just need to be as flexible as possible.
Not the planner/florist gaslighting the bride.
I am planning my wedding right now and honestly these florists sound like such a nightmare! Not only did they not give her what sh wanted when she was clear and specific and definitely paid heavily for all this, but they consistently were condescending and gaslighting her into believing she asked for something else.
I just feel so bad for this bride. That's the worst florist ever.
She is paying money, she should get what she wants
Not right at the last 2nd. If the contract and the payment sais as many as she got, then it is not the florist's fault. She payed as much as the florist asked for what she got, meaning the final number of columns. We actually do not know what she has asked, signed a contract for and payed for. We just know that in the end, she wanted more.
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@@Wriwnas1 no the florist clearly didn’t listen to a word she said
Exactly
Paid a small fortune for flowers for my daughter’s wedding. Looked at this and reminded me who needed to be where and at the last minute one of the bridesmaids backed out. Like night before the wedding. Still have nightmares
I thought she'd be walking down the isle when she arrived at the venue. But she was having to sort things out on her wedding day.🤦 That's really bad.
And she was so calm.
I had to help with my best friend's wedding the day of and for my brother, my dad and i took over dealing with issues cause the person who was supposed to up and left
her bouqet looked like Cauliflower…. I would have cried on the floor
Its her wedding. Give bride what she wants!!! She f*cking paid for it. Even though her tone was irritaing, I am on bride's side on this one.
Right. I wonder if she ended up getting some of her money back, cuz that was just ridiculous, to ignore so much of what she said.
Factz
This stuff was all so boring and basic
Vocal fry is so grating to hear.
That said, she's not freaking out over nothing. She did try to not be rude...lol
Who the hell is this florist?? He’s beyond unprofessional!!
I feel like I’m watching kim kardashian talking “ u guys are the BeSt “ 💀
She was perfectly fine, voice included, and I'm so glad she held firm because it should be what she wanted.
Can we please stop portraying women who know what they want and are reasonably requesting to be listened to as "freaking out".
frrrrr
She is annoying especial the way she talks
If only she could talk like a real woman! She sounds like a snotty, pretentious spoiled brat!! Who could be her friend?
Exactly. Where was the "freak out?" Also, she's paying for a service. They should be providing her with what she asked for, not "what's popular in Paris."
She's honestly a sweetheart, they did her so dirty.
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For what people pay for wedding flowers, the bare minimum is the florist to listen to what the customer wants and not give them an attitude about it.
Something to be grateful for: I don't know this woman. And I never have to listen to her voice again.
As an Event Florist, I am on the Bride's side. This is no way to treat a client. I feel very sad for her. Seriously, when you are at the Pelican, there are always flowers on the structure.
The flowers look disgusting I can see why she was upset. They didn’t follow her instructions at all. They just did what the wanted
Right? I'd be pissed too if I'd paid a bunch of money then they did exactly what I told them not to do.
Those flowers were beautiful!
Virginia Scheider they didn’t compliment each other , they lacked fluidity.
I loved her bridal bouquet its a lot of work that went into it but the tulle was awful. I wonder if it was to hide working which is a no no!!
@@Annabelleannabel mixing tropicals with dedicate flowers didnt work along with all the different shades of white. Its always personal preference but as a florist of 10 years I have to agree with you. The actual arrangement didnt flow or take the eye from top to bottom.
That voice, that voice.
her dad looked annoyed. and not to the florist but because his daughter was annoyed. like seriously? he doesn’t under stand how stressed she was. she asked for something she wanted and it’s not there for the 3rd time. it’s like the flowers. and the vases at first. like she should be upset because they messed this up too.
I saw her disappointment and unhappiness that things weren't as she wanted. But I didn't see her "freak out" over it. She wasn't screaming at least.
She was very calm and had a very clear mindset of what she wanted and what she was doing.
I can't imagine paying someone money for something very simple and yet they fail every single time in delivering what I wanted. So unprofessional.
"Persia, take that look off your face"
Dude. It's her wedding day.
You have to stop telling her to not have an attitude.
Shes not 6.
Then WHY is she acting like she's six??
@@toniecat1028 shes not, it's just her voice the florist are NOT listening and that cost a good amount of money
Omg the way she talks remind me of early KUWTK KimK
She didn't freak out. She took the time to think before she spoke. The florists failed her so many times, she would have been well within her rights to fire them.
I don’t care what anyone says, I am LIVING for this girl! She knows exactly what she wants and when she wants it! Honestly, she’s even super polite, it just seems like everyone around her is not listening to her.
That florist never once accepted he didnt do what she asked when she was direct and clear.
I don’t get why the florists and staff are being snappy and rude and telling her it’s her fault when she told them specifically what she wanted, they failed her. It’s their job to listen to what the bride wants
I don't get why people choose to stress out over every single detail like that. Is this really what you want to remember from your wedding?
She's not FREAKING OUT! She asked for something and paid good money for it, they should get her what she wants. Just because she sounds dumb and is very 'Kardashiany' doesn't mean you get away with not listening to your client.
Chitra Adkar She is freaking out, but with good reason.
@@MzVagabond idk. I thought she was complaining in a reasonable way. And after watching the full 45 min episode I'm kinda surprised, if I were in her place I'd have a full on melt down. Imo that is
100% this wedding is costing them a fortune and she isn’t being unreasonable. I would have ripped someone apart for not giving me what I paid for. If you cannot follow through then better not be in the wedding business. She is right for getting upset and she didn’t even throw a fit, good for her.
I don't think the bride was wrong in wanting what she wants. The florist did not listen to her wishes at all.
The fact she said "I don't care if they're big in France. We live in California." shows this woman was being 100% racional and 0% vain here. It looked they were doing it on purpose tbh...
I'm actually on the bride's side for this. You put in a lot of money with the hope that you're getting what you specifically wanted and asked for. I also have to say that she handled it pretty well.
I was waiting for the "freak out" and it never happened. She's annoyed because they are not listening to her.
I felt soooo mad about them not having had flowers where they were getting married. I wonder if he charged her for that because I’m sure he did or he overcharged somewhere else since price would’ve been communicated about every piece beforehand
Dude you can tell that florist was just pushing what he wanted versus what the bride paid for.
"Not in Season"
Sir, did she say she wants everything that's "In Season"? 💀