Birth Control Pill Side Effect Doctors Don't Tell You (It Made Me Hate My Boyfriend)
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- Birth Control Pill Side Effect Doctors Don't Tell You (It Made Me Hate My Boyfriend)
Hi! This is something that really still bothers me because I wish I had known this happens. I knew all of the basic side effects like acne, weight gain and mood changes but I had NO clue it could change what you are attracted to. I would have gone off the pill much sooner. Hoping this video helps at least one person who might be struggling with similar issues.
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You are not alone with this experience. Men and women should learn about how hormones effect the brain, libido, attraction, personality, mood. "Please go off BC before you get married."- best advice ever!
I’ve been on birth control for a month now, and Ive completely flipped on my boyfriend emotionally. I’m always on edge and crying to him and I feel so bad bc it’s really been stressing him out. It’s gotten bad to the point where we’ve almost broken up. He’s very lovely and I’m absolutely horrified in how I’ve treated him :’c
Edit: I talked to my doctor, and stopped the pill! I have had an iud for almost a year now and it’s working wonders for me
Get off it now! Same thing happened to me and me and my bf were on the edge constantly! It takes a good 6 months for it to get out ur system. Now me and my bf are in the best relationship ever together
@@gaby.gleeson Tysm! I got off it right after posting this and now have an iud! It’s working a lot better for me! My partner and I have been better than ever I’m so grateful I got off of it! Hope you and your boyfriend are doing well! And thank you!
Hey! I'm going through this. A week and a half ago I could not have been more in love with my guy. One night after feeling just the same love as I always do, I got home and it's like a switch flipped. I started asking "what if we're not right for eachother?" I stopped feeling anything toward him and it's been going on since then. I am having terrible anxiety where I cant stop thinking about how we might be wrong or incompatible or something. I keep trying to explain this to him and it is ripping him apart. So my choice was to take a break. That felt like the only way to get away from the bad feelings. It didnt work. I still feel like shit and I cant stop thinking about our relationship and I feel so horrible. I'm so scared because I dont understand how I could suddenly not think this man is my future even though he was everything I wanted and legitimately perfect for me a week and a half ago. I stopped nexplanon today so I'm hoping that evens things out.
I’m in the same situation right now. Just had a reality check and made me realize I am unrecognizable. I was so happy before the pill and now I am miserable. Everyday I am either sad, mad, or in a mood. It has made me change my opinion on the pill.
@@cherubonapogostick7588 Good for you! I went through the exact same thing with nexplanon!! getting it taken out changed my life and relationship for the better. Im hoping it did the same for you!
I’m going through this now. My gf has to constantly change her pill. I have noticed her moods and unreasonable behaviour and couldn’t put my finger on it. Then I found this.
I was moody but not Bc of the pill. The pill made me calm… it’s insane how different women can react
Dont blame pills on why your gfs acting like a b*ch🤣🤣 u can be moody and emotional on pills but not exaggeratedly
I rmb getting constantly so angry that i just wanted to beat up the closest people i passed by and got aggressive from most little things(i've always had anger issues but after pill it was on whole different level). + 10kg weight gain in short amount of time and the weight just kept coming, depression, high blood pressure and cholesterols, acne...i'm never again willing to go on that shit. Tough as a birth control it was excellent, all my wants were competely gone and couldnt get interested in any guys lol.
@@jonnamajaneva5933 Those mood shifts you described sound insanely accurate to what happened to most of my female friends once they entered college.
dating a woman that's on birth control is a nightmare. sexless, hateful, excessive weight gain, frequent sickness, vaginal odor that never existed prior to using this. fertility awareness is not only very effective but doe's not destroy a women's life, and their relationship.
I’m have been on the pill for the first time in my life ( for fertility treatment) and I completely hate it . I don’t feel like myself , I hate everyone and I get super irritated by the smallest things . I’m grouchy and bitchy . The worst part is feeling the joy of life being sucked out of me . I never felt this way before .
Same the only thing that’s really been bothering me is the nausea it started a couple days ago. I am on day 2 of the 2nd week of taking birth control if that makes sense and I am soooo over it (I’m doing a form of ivf so I have to take birth control even though I have POF)
Hi dear I’m feeling the same way did u get better ?
Let me tell you you are NOT crazy about this! I have had such bad side effects and I also nearly broke up w my bf just being a month on a pill (met him when I was off birth control). I’ve also gained extreme amount of weight, joint pains daily, etc etc
I’m on the pill and I never feel hungry I don’t eat for days but I’m always bloated and fatigued and I have no attraction at all
@@anonymous-cx7ng how are you now
How long did it take you to start feeling better?
They make me so emotional... I woke up and flushed all of those pills down the drain. I'm tired of having headaches and feeling nauseous.
Thank you for your video, I felt the exact same way after I stopped taking bc. After 6 years of being on it and getting off it I have never felt happier and my anxiety is completely gone.
I never took it because of my phobias and the medication I was on the doctor said no you can’t which made me have an excuse to not take it
I hope he finds someone who appreciates him and doesn’t think there’s something wrong with him being a decent or productive person.
I’m off birth control to, it really fucked me up for a while. I stoped being attracted to men, I got super depressed, the best decision I ever made was getting my implant removed
what was the exact name of the pill you took ?
I started taking it 3days back and in the past two days I have been fighting him for no reason. 😢 today I got so emotional and started crying and told him to stay away from me and leave me alone, 5min later I started complaining that he is not giving me attention but we in the same room. He responded saying but you just told me leave you alone. And I was like no I changed my mind, him being nice he cuddle me but just right then I told him not to touch me. He told me take some time and let him rest, I took a walk and I felt calm, realizing that no man my emotions are messed up. Lady year we broke up just a month after I started taking the pill because I was always emotional, crying and blaming him and he eventually suggested we take some time apart. That time apart of course I stopped using the pill and 3 months later we were okay, our conversations were fine, I wasn't emotional or fighting him. But I went back on the pill now coz I wasn't really sure if it's the course and boom! We have been fighting. I AM STOPPING NOW
Yes, it did help. I feel normal, I have control over myself and my emotions.
@@prudencemsiza8586 thank you for sharing this. My girl took a few plan b’s since April and it has been a horrible experience. She took one 8 days ago and we are back to fighting and she’s confused and anxious all the time.
Thank you for sharing your experience. It’s about time more truth is circulated about these drugs prescribed to teen girls on the daily. I started going off the pill three days ago and I’m excited to see where it takes me. I went on it for a chronic medical condition 7 years ago, but I think my body is better off without it.
I think it effects much more than most people realise.
Hormones are so powerful and we will die without them, and when they malfunction it can be life-threatening. Modern medicine is only now catching up with this and realizing hormones are actually the main focus not just what they've been doing by paying attention to the symptoms of everything else. They play a role in absolutely everything. And need to be seen as such. That's why this isn't something to play with lightly and people really need to understand this. And doctors need to take very seriously the side effects it can change your whole outlook your feel your function on so many levels! thank you for sharing your story! With a med background and I myself also have hashimotos no one knew that because I wasn't full autoimmune when I was younger. So I know exactly what you're talking about and watched so many other people go through this. Thank you! for being an advocate and telling people this and how much hormones can affect every little bit of your life and to really fight to be heard and understood ♡
And if it can do that imagine all of the other ways birth control destroys your health
9:21 its me,I am that woman😅I started going on birth control at 16,pretty much because of the same reason as you,painful & heavy periods.When I met my ex husband 7 years later,everything was sunshine & rainbows.We got married like a year and a half later because of how excited and happy we were.Then like a month in,I decided to get off birth control,so we could have a child.Few days later,I started getting really moody,and my body physically couldn't take it.I started having acnee,being sleepy all the time,but that was just the beginning.Around 3 weeks later,I couldn't stand my husband anymore.I would see him near me,and reject him,eventhough my mind was like:What are you doing?.Its like,he was a stranger to me.I said it was because of how hormonal I was,that it will pass.So I went on,things got worse day by day though.I wouldn't want to accept it,so I kept going without telling him anything. 3 months in,it was unbearable.I couldn't hold it anymore.Just when i wanted to tell him,I found out I was pregnant.Just when I decided to tell him my true feelings,and possibly ending this,it happened.My biggest fear was being a single mom,I also didn't want to break up with my babys father & husband because of a "silly"(as I thought at the time) reason such as these.I had a lot of internal struggles,I was stressed out and confused.Few days later,I had a miscarriage,caused my stress apparently.Me and my husband decided to divorce about 2 weeks after my pregnancy loss,after we sat down and I finally gathered the courage to talk to him,and tell him how I really feel.Ladies,GET OFF BIRTH CONTROL BEFORE A RELATIONSHIP TO SEE THE REAL YOU,AND COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR PARTNER,DON'T HOLD IT IN SAYING IT WILL PASS OR THAT ITS SILLY,CUZ ITS NOT
Ugh this breaks my heart, thank you for sharing this! I really hope you are much happier now, it’s such a crazy feeling to wake up and feel like you have to get to know yourself all over again. As much pain as you went through, I can’t imagine feeling stuck in a relationship you don’t want to be in for the rest of your life
I got off birth control 5 months and since i stopped taking it, i can't stand my husband, everything he does , his behaviors, mannerisms, his way of fighting over dumb things is making so hard for me, i tell him all the time I'm going trough a hard time, because my hormones are imbalanced, i ask him to leave me quiet, he don't listen, so i get my bike and i go ride around the city, im avoiding him, he always wants to fight and to argue over silly things like the windows, or anything else, for seven years i managed to deal with his ways, but lately i just can't stand him, whenever he starts to speak loud or scream at me, i walk away , i can't wait to be able to leave him for good, i look at him now and i ask myself what was i thinking when I got myself in front of a judge to marry this human being? He smokes cigars and weed, and i can't stand him smoking around me in the house anymore, i can't stand his smell, because he smells like weed and nicotine, i don't smoke at all, but now i can't just deal with it
@THE ADAM FRIEDLAND SHOW that's just life I guess, people change. I look back at my previous self sometimes and say "what tf was wrong with you for you to like that person or date that person?" Or "what was I thinking when I decided to be with this or that person" Hormones or not people will change, the people who you were once able to tolerate may in the future become unbearable, the one's who you couldn't stand will end up being the same ones you becomes desensitized towards, of course your perception of certain things may not change but for other things it will change slowly with time as you mature, learn more about yourself, explore and gain more mind shaping experiences from the world
@@Mary-zo4rx being on the pill robbed you of your natural self, switched off your genetics, screwed up your attraction. That's the reality I believe, but I'm still exploring. The smell is interesting, naturally a woman could smell 7 sweaty shirts and from the smell satisfaction it connects with who she finds attractive physically.
This B destroyed a man's life and she is the one being consoled. Accountability is truly foreign to women.
This has happened to me twice. The first time I didn't recognize what was happening....but now that it is happening again (coming off birth control.) I notice that on birth control, I didn't care how "masculine" my partner is/was. Coming off of it, I think because I'm naturally a higher testosterone female, I now feel uninterested. It sucks because he's amazing in every way...just maybe not physically for me...
Instruct him to start getting jacked and eating bears
this happened to me, my girlfriend broke up with me, and she said she isn't sexually attracted to me anymore. It tore me apart. Been feeling so low
I’m about to take my birth control out. I feel like a whole different person. I’m now easily angered, always annoyed and extremely mean to my boyfriend…I’m so sick of it I’m always stressed
How long did it take to recover ? How do you feel now
@@armyinfantry11b I’ve been off for almost 2 weeks and I feel way better. I’m no longer angry but I’ve been spotting here and there. My doctor said it’ll take about a month for my period to get back to normal. But mentally I feel great
@@Bpdexplained good, consider myo inositol for your mood and hormones regulation. It’s all natural and helps a lot.
How do you feel now after stopping it?
The birth control pill also causes vitamin deficiencies.
I had more physical side effects than emotional. Generic Pill from ages 13-23.
I started forming fibroids with every period along with hormonal cysts in reproductive areas . After my 3rd cyst removal, i decided to make a change.
Still going through hormone rebalance and just taking each day at a time.
Some people recommend going back to a doctor, but I feel like my experience is better off on a natural path of its own at this point.
I figured it'll probably take ay least half a decade for my body to start normal production of hormones (if at all) .
Looking back at it, I don't see how anyone could think tricking your body into thinking it's already pregnant was a good idea... especially for YEARS ..
Reminder: if someone treat u horrible, regardless being with it or no, u have every right to leave. As someone who’s been bullied, staying with these people(especially woman who behave like as shown in the comments) will only make u worse(mentally, emotionally, etc
well, any female or male partner without a sex drive is a weirdo
I'm just really happy that you feel better and I'm glad you figured out the BC sitch before you married a dude you really didn't like. I'm currently not on birth control because I don't like birth control it basically makes me sick when I take so I asked my husband to get "fixed" and he did and now I can live BC free and not worry about babies.
OMG, I experienced exactly the same things when I started. It still does that to me but because I am aware of what it does, I keep saying to myself KEEP IT EASY!! RELAX!! and so on.
Anyone see improvement after taking the pill, if so how long?
I'm going through it right now,
My Ex told me my scent changed and couldn't find me attractive anymore but she knew she loved me. she said she's been feeling it since she started taking the pill. She was on it for 2 months before she told me because it was only getting worse to the point where she couldn't even touch me or be near me and she didn't know why.
She went cold turkey, not taking anything but a month later she felt hopeless and ended the relationship. I kept my cool and respected her wishes. I still have hope, I'm just giving her space because we were both able to tell she was a different person when she was on the pill, extremely emotional, easy to anger and very depressed.
She said she can't see me in her future anymore and just walked away after a healthy relationship. I just hope she reaches out.
What happened in the end, if I may ask? Did you ever hear from her again? I feel your pain, I have had this happen to 2 women I have dated.
Update? Very very similar situation is happening right now to me. Only 1 month in though.
I'm currently in the bridge of breaking up with my boyfriend or him leaving me, I'm so crazy
I was on birth control and it made me hate men and I had no attraction to them! now I got my period and I like men again and my attraction came back strong
is it when you're on your period you have more estrogen and that's why you like men? I'm tryna figure out if my chick is gonna find me attractive when she's off the implant.
She likes me more during her period
@@faulfeza5243 possibly
@@faulfeza5243 my gf just went ballistic today after she took a plan b about 4 days ago
I really want to get off the pill, but I'm scared of it ruining my relationship, I love my boyfriend so much
If you truly love him you’ll be with him. Just stop being an asshole towards him after getting off the pills and remember it’s a side effect. That simple.
@@HupCapNinjaExcept it isn't a side effect. That's the real her.
@@DontDrinkthatstuff if that’s the “real” her then she has issues and shouldn’t be around people.
Damn that sucks. I didn't even know this was a thing, but it reminds me a lot about what psychiatric medications like anti-depressants do. These drugs make everything ok. To put it bluntly, they pump your brain full of underserved serotonin. In this state, you can live an objectively miserable life and seem totally ok. That can screw you over. On my part, I made some long term academic decisions that I deeply regret now that I'm off the drugs. And since the sham serotonin is no longer propping me up, I have to live this misery day in day out for at least another 7 months. That's because the window to back out closed about 9 months ago, and I just paved right over it in my stupor.
It's like, it's like a different kind of regret. I'm not mad at me, per se, for making a poor decision. I'm mad at a drugged me for making a poor decision. But this isn't like a drunk driving incident where it was my f-up to drink and to drive. I had a group of professionals and important figures in my life urging me to do this and telling me this was the right thing to do. I shot myself in the foot with honorable people egging me on. I'm sure you had that same experience.
And there's this interesting moral dilemma we can talk about that's akin to the Matrix in a literal sense. You and I were both presented with the option of going back on the drugs and pretending everything was fine, but I think we made the right decision in breaking the illusion.
My girl is on it and she completely flipped I seen a side to her that I never seen she broke up w me for no reason I told her that it could be a problem but she thinks it’s not we broke up and Iam wondering will she come around again I need help on this
We were together 3 years and we were together 1 year and a half before she got on it
She might come back to you. But my advice is bro if you're reading this, keep moving forward. You deserved better.
Birth-control sterilize women partially or fully and cause all kinds of problems to a woman's body.
That's why a woman needs to be free to be able to be natural by being married to the man she is
being intimate with. Married in church so it is for real. You can pray for a natural wife and if you
think you should not get married then there should not be sex, because there is no safe way for
her to do it without causing damage to her body. We live in such hard but interesting times right now.
We need to pray a lot and try to get to know God.
Thank you for sharing this video with us! I’ve been on birth control pills since I was 18. I’m now 45 and still taking them. I am getting off them now and am strongly positively encouraged by you 🙌🏼. I’m excited to find more of the “true me” without the pills 💕🌟.
are you still a healty person after so many years under pills?
Dang! Thats a longgg time you body handled this poison! Hope your transition to removing it, goes smoothly... And doesnt have drastic effect for removing it after many years
@@micahsalas8963 i think same as you
Can you give us an update?
I was on the pill from 16 years old and got off at 27. I just started back at 39. just took the last pill, and I think I’m getting off. I don’t like the person I’ve become.😞 I’ve only been on 1 month.
Am also struggling with the same .I took a birth control pill once and i literally feel the effect of it 2 months down since I took it .I no longer get wet or excited to see my man any more.I love him so much and it feels terrible because I personally know that that’s not me.I know how my body reacts but it feels like it’s a foreign body ..feels weird.Anyone going through the same?? And besides stopping to take the birth control pills can anything be done to bring back the real you 😢
Try Royal honey or other natural remedies to stimulate your lubrication. Also hydrate a lot
I feel the exact same way as you. I keep thinking I'm crazy or maybe my bf isn't good but I know I really love him. I've been on the pill for 7 weeks and I just started seeing these effects :( i stopped it last night so hopefully I'll be better
@@nataliehannis1114 just don’t act on anything that you feel or think for at least 6 weeks. Don’t break up or start seeing anyone else.
@@armyinfantry11b good advice
Hello, Clara!
How are you feeling now?
If so how long did it take for you to start feeling better?
I'm going through it at the moment.
My Ex told me my scent changed and couldn't find me attractive anymore but she knew she loved me. she said she's been feeling it since she started taking the pill. She was on it for 2 months before she told me because it was only getting worse. she stopped taking it but a month later she felt hopeless and walked away. I still have hope I'm just giving her space.
It changed my mood emotions in the neutral state too. I am the same as u, I was prone to depression, anxiety and I have a thyroid condition. It's weird how similar experience I had from this too!
My (as of last night ex) girlfriend has PMDD and yaz killed our relationship. The first almost two months were great but she was dealing with PMDD and hadn’t gone to an OB in 3 years. I encouraged her to get checked out and supported her in the doctor’s treatment which was throwing her on Yaz for three months. The result was two months of me being abused by a crazy insane person who took over my gf’s body, ultimately resulting in her breaking up with me because I finally spoke up and asked her to stop taking the damn pill. Her warped mind saw that as “not respecting” and “not trusting her autonomy.”
Wow so crazy. I just stopped my birth control today. I’ve never put two and two together about it making me sick for last two years. I’m praying this is what was going on with me
I’ve been married to my wife for 20+years, and she started using the Nuba ring for the last few years. It’s been getting worse and worse. She’s to the point now where I can’t even touch her, everything I do is wrong. This video has helped me realize how much she is effected by the birth control. She is totally different than she was when she wasn’t on birth control. But it’s gone on for to long, she is completely into the birth control. I can’t tell her to watch this video and understand it. She will watch it and say something about how it helps her. What do I do?
You gotta get her off that shit I’m sorry bro
Birth-control sterilizes women partially or fully. As a husband I think you should voice your concern to her and
try to protect from these chemicals and definitely pray for her because only God can make her see what all the
things that she needs to see.
The only reason women don’t want children with a man is two main reasons 1. The men u’ve been with are f ing terrible to you & think it’s okay to treat women like trash & 2. Children are expensive and we do not get paid enough at all or often enough! And all you want and need is to become a terrific parent ! And we are worried if we have a bad partner our kids won’t have a reliable parent. Like sometimes partners try to take ur kids from u it’s terrible
nah. I want my freedom. forever. lol. fuck kids
Thank you for posting this. It was really informational. I have a girl in my life that I really care about and I didn’t understand why sometimes she would be really into me and sometimes just kinda whatever about me. Took me awhile to realize when she wasn’t taking the birth control she was really into me but when she was on it she didn’t care as much. I wish she would get off of it but she has no plans of doing so.. I will never date a girl on birth control again
Does anyone else experience daily morning nausea with their birth control pill??
Me!
@@sophieforrester8784 Same! And my doctor swears up and down that I should not be having problems any longer! I am so sick of it
I have often unexpected nausea but I suffer from endometriosis. I can't count how many tests I have done and they were negative 😂
I cannot TELL you how grateful I am that I never touched birth control until I got married a year and a half ago, at 23. I knew who my adult self was without it, and that's why I'm now finally getting off it, because the way it screwed with my body f-ed me up. And I am even more grateful that I dated and married my husband completely without HBC, because I know that the REAL, unaltered me loves him.
But DUDE, the BC ring made my libido gradually die _completely,_ gave me depression episodes for the first time in my life, and made me angry, irritable, and irrational almost all the time. I wasn't ANY of those things before. My husband and I are both finally totally done with it, because I'm not even hardly the same girl he married!
And now that I've learned about how effective the Fertility Awareness Method is when used properly, there's no way I'm staying on HBC anymore. It's fake synthetic drugs that f**k up your body.
Go off all the medications. They are probably doing more harm than good. There is a reason most school shooters are on ssri’s
I mean trying to organise you're life is a way of getting out of depression and it's helped many people including me. So he wasn't really trying to change you he's was trying to help you in my view
It’s crazy for real 😭😭😭 I had to go back on bc cuz I had a heavy period for over two weeks
Now I find myself hating and resenting my boyfriend’s touch 🥺🥺
We’ve been together for almost 3 years donno where the hate came from now I realize it’s cuz of bc 😭 I can’t wait to go off , less than a week now
Hey I have PCOS which means I also have huge bad periods (along with weight gain and other hormone based things) and I found that something that ACTUALLY helped (can't see doctors :( ) was eating less carbs (insulin resistance gets messed up for PCOS ppl). I hope that helps you decide what to do for you better and gives you a place to start that's not to difficult for someone to do and also gives you somewhere to start looking into it for your own research (which I imagine you do already like many others) :) good luck and I hope your periods get better someday just keep working on yourself and don't give up! You are important!
True. It changed my moods big time.
My girlfriend and I are currently going through this and yesterday she told me that she doesn’t feel attracted to me anymore. Is there any way of fixing this or helping her with it. Will she ever have feelings for me again?
Level up or cut your losses. Plenty of fish out there.
Be level up I just mean get in good shape.
I’m on prostrogone only pill and I have no attraction at all and I never feel hungry but I’m always bloated and fatigued
This is me currently
It sounded like he was already trying to change her and she wasn’t into it. Getting off birth control may have intensified it but she started she already felt he was trying to change her and didn’t like that. She didn’t sound too excited about him to begin with.
To all the boys out there if your girl starts taking the pill or she stops taking it she will no longer be the person you fell for.
I witnessed this 3 times now they start cutting the pill and slowly beginn to stop caring for you or they start taking it and now they are obsessed to the point of no return
My last girl was a super crybaby while she was taking the pill always seeking for attention doing the best she could to make me happy and then she cut it and after that she was like a single
If she changes her hormones you should change your girlfriend you will never love the person after this change like the person she was before
All this chemistry opened my eyes that there can’t be a soul in you you are the one who you are because of outside influences and chemical reactions in your body. Everything else is denial
I got on junel and it’s been a nightmare thank you for sharing your story it’s affected every aspect of my world and mind at the moment
thank you for resolving and sharing a huge life mystery.
I’m afraid to go off birth control and i may look into other options. I don’t feel like myself anymore :/
Get off it and stay off it for as long as possible. Eat as healthy as you can and do plenty of outside workouts while receiving sunlight. Don’t put my sunblock me go on long runs
Thank you for talking & posting this! It’s great that you shared your experience. Take care 💜
I can't believe how many people o find in the comments with the same experience as me
I’m 14 and starting birth control because I want to “stop my periods.” No I don’t. They don’t even cause me any gender dysphoria. THEY ARE JUST ANNOYING AND MY PARENTS ARE BEING TOO SUPPORTIVE AND IM SCARED AF
I've just started looking up BC side effects or problems. I dont know why but I realised i have instinctively been turned off by women who use birth control.
It's this visceral feeling off being put off by their "energy" and they don't seem as feminine and soft as those who dont use them. Hard to put it into words
My poor daughter has suffered trying to get them adjusted especially after C vaccine it really went crazy
Thank you so much. I really enjoyed the video and it helps me so much! I’m gonna get off of it cause I literally didn’t even start it for myself and I had noticed all those symptoms too (I’ve only been on it like 5 months or less). Recently I realized I’ve been having intense mood swings of depression and anxiety that didn’t feel like me. I’ve also become docile and I just feel like a different person. I’ve been struggling with having no motivation and the brain fog is definitely noticeable. Like I’m just not all there most of the time. I had been thinking about it for some time (to get off of it) and had seen research study results that said all the things you said in this video, so this video was just the last sign I needed. Thank you ❤❤❤
My girl and me broke up , she stopped taking pills. She having struggles with her mental health and mood swings etc. Idk if she should be on other birth control or not
It really needs a lot of courage to speak your heart out and that too in front of the entire world. It's amazing that you don't care what others would say about you. Follow your heart and stay gorgeous ❤🙌
I did not take any birth control my whole life, than at about 40 years old I was in my sexual prime and took a birthcontrol
shot that was supposed to be safe and last only three moths. These chemicals partially sterilized me and caused brain damage
and send me to ER with heart palpitations. I stoped feeling attracted to men and men seemed not to notice me anymore.
I regret getting the shot, did not go for another one or any other birth control. I did not feel like dating anymore either.
Oh my gosh so sorry to hear that!!
I just started the pill today this makes me not wanna take it no more cuz I’m not trying to flip on my bf
Same
same lol
Hey can I get an update please? I’m so scared to flip on my bf
@@LPSAANDLPSLVids honestly I’ve only took my pills for 3 days ever since then my periods been irregular
@@dreadheadlala7547 right the side effects slowly wane off and the body heals itself. Make sure to exercise and go on long runs, receive plenty of sunlight and eat healthy
i’m so confused… i’m researching about birth control & the effects. the thing about having higher testosterone means you would be attracted to more masculine guys just doesn’t make sense to me…?? i’m just gonna rely on medical professionals instead cuz i’m so confused now
Birth control makes you less attracted to masculinity
Birth control did the Same to my wife it made her moody and she could not stand me but whe has pcos what do I do
I’m actually really scared because I have pcos, and I recently got switched onto a new one. Ever since my depression has skyrocketed and I have had massive amounts of suicidal ideation. I hate this misogynistic society so much. I wish they could properly research this disorder instead of just throw birth control at it. They are literally killing women at this rate by refusing to chuck more energy into this. I don’t care if there’s already hundreds of studies, I want erectile disfunction level of research when it comes to something that affects 1/10 ppl with a uterus! If this was affecting men they would’ve found something out. Don’t even get me started on how useless I find gynecologists to be. Why pay 85 for a “specialist” if all they’re going to do is give me poison, aka birth control? Do they these ppl do literally anything else? Can’t my primary care doctor chuck birth control just as easily? We need a field of gynecology because of how complex our issues are, but with the way these ppl are so lazy and misogynistic, we might as well not have it and nothing will change. I have literally seen ppl go in for the most horrific of cases for years on end and the only treatment given is new birth control that once again fails to do it’s job. This is ridiculous.
The hardest part is if you haven’t had that switch completely flip like you mentioned. It’s hard for anyone to truly understand & empathize with you.💔
Congrats on figuring out what was causing a decline in your emotional state! That’s huge! There are plenty of women out there who will find hope in your video & use your knowledge to move forward.
A question for the women that dont want kids and pair up with men who also dont want to have kids, why not insist or ask the man to get the snip rather then going through the process of having to cycle through various forms of birth control or possibly facing abortion?
We do! Some men agree or even suggest it and some aren’t cool with it but I think those just need to be deal breakers if you don’t want kids. Pumping our bodies with unnecessary hormones has just become the norm and expected though which is kinda scary. Men aren’t used to being asked to do things to their bodies to make others lives more convenient ahah
Wow, tryna rationalize being a bad girlfriend is crazy.
Being organized, scheduling, and working jobs you don't like isnt him trying to change you, it's called being an adult
People are different and that’s okay. I’ll never be organized or on a schedule or work a job I don’t like anymore and it hasn’t taken away from my success or my happiness. I do what feeds my soul and he did what fed his. I’d never try to change someone to fit what I feel they should be, that’s how you lose your sense of self. Plenty of people out there that are compatible with either lifestyle
I went into early menopause because of birth control! Yes early menopause ! I just turned 42 and already in menopause official went to gynecologist and had blood work done!
Omg I can completely relate!!! Thanks for posting this 💕
I kind of felt that same way but the other way around, me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and a half and then I decided to go on bc (the shot) but after I did it just made me feel so horrible, I felt like I resented him and idk if it was just because of the mood swings or what but I couldn't handle it so I didn't get a 2nd shot. But it's like 6 months later now and I'm trying to look at different options but it seems like I have to either go with the shot or the implant, if anyone has any advice it'd be greeaatllyy appreciated
Cycle tracking. FAM. If you do it right and don't take short cuts it's really effectivr
@@SiliconeDrones that’s good advice if you want to get pregnant
@@Imsobendy no it’s not
All birth control sterilize partially or fully. It damages the brain and the genitals. It makes tumors grow.
idk man. I take it for 8 years now... not a single thing has changed for me 😅 I'm all good
wait so you’re telling me taking these pills makes you lose interest in someone? I literally just started to take the pills.. can someone explain?
Read this
it never happened to me. I never had side effects. i take it for 8 years and I started taking BC after a couple months in my relationship. not a single thing changed. BC is not for everyone but you will never know unless you try
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My gf acted like she hated me for years. Constant criticism, constant disdain, constant contempt. It would start almost the moment she saw me. She would break up and then later want to get back together. I wonder if it is related to BC.
If she takes.. ofc it is
Just a word of advice from man to man.
Never tolerate disrespect. The moment you realise your woman disrespects you often its over.
Also do not date women who are on birth control. It's like dating someone who has no original ideas of their own.
I don’t take bc for many reasons
One is it is bad w the medication I am on
Two always afraid of the horror stories
Theee I don’t care anyway nevee been into meds anyway
Wow thanks for being honest🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
I'm literally so scared to get on birth control bc of this. But my mom just don't understand n thinks imma make the same mistake she did. I get she wants me to b protected but birth control is scary.
I'm in the same boat. My mom won't let me see my partner until I get birth control but I'm so horrified this will happen.
@@TheAliceP bro literally. My mom won't let me hang out w him until I get on birth control. I mean we barely hangout bc of his parents but ye
@@TheAliceP don’t take the pills
@@armyinfantry11b exactly, don’t take them. My gf after taking them was irritable and less like herself. She stopped taking them now but we wait to see if she returns to normal. I hope she does
@@EarthwithAdam I suggest having her do intense leg workouts and try to get her into fitness. It helps boost testosterone which is necessary in females
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Hai im taking yasmine pill. Almost 2 months. I have so many side effects. Already got UTI 2 times. Feeling exhausted. Back pain .omg so many.. My gyne asked to take bc for irregular period . Im 41 years.. i have never taken bc before. I wamt to stop taking bc. Im so depressed. I have 2 small kids. Can someone give advice
I went on birth control because of my ovaries cyst and now my periods are 9 days late.... Should I be worried?
this sucks for women but this also really affects men when you think about it. This explains why its so hard for someone like me who i consider very masculine because most women are on the pill these days
Many women on the pill still choose more masculine men. Every woman reacts differently. Sone women are doing fine and others have severe side effects.
Im glad I got a little more gentle and submissive after taking the pill, my bf also noticed. So I guess it’s not the same for every woman. I hope your girl finds the right option! There are UIPs and others. No woman is forced to take the pill as the only option
Hmm that’s interesting. As someone who’s not on the pill I do find me and my sister would have completely different ideas of attractive and she was on birth control. She liked guys that basically looked like girls.
Hey, don't have that mindset, people will like you. Don't focus on how masculine or unmasculine you are so much. Also not every woman is on birth control. I've never been on it.
It also explains why so many man are starting to resent women and vice versa, It seems like every single girl out there is just crazy in the head and will eventuality cheat on your or fight you for no absolutely no reason and has no control over her emotions
Once i learned the side effects of birth control pill and started to treat that as a red flag i realized that was the problem all along
I’m so afraid i’m not gonna love my family any more this is so scary because i barely like them now. If all that i truly feel comes out they will haaaate me lol they already don’t like me now. They are already kinda terrible now. I’m so worried! Women need money to be safe from bad men.
Totally relatable! Thanks for sharing.
So, is there another option that you’re suggesting? I’ve been on off, don’t need it now, just curious as to what options there are. I still have granddaughters.
IUD but to be honest just abstain or meet a good man. Have values and make good moral and sober decisions concerning men. It is the best way to avoid putting things that cause side effects which are possibly still unknown
Good information! BTW your voice doesn't annoy me. I was going to watch your nail art videos again, but I don't see them anymore.🙄
Hi! Thank you, I get so many mean comments about my voice its a bit frustrating ahaha. The nail videos are still up! They were just unlisted while I was changing some info on them but they should all be there now. 💕
Thank you for sharing🙏
LFA’s reaction brought me here
It’s what u were truly feeling inside
No it’s not
Yeah...I left my fiancée, she was too much
It made me hate everybody 😏
The pills have given me a hard time for years. All throughout college, I always felt tired and couldn’t put my finger on what it was. Was always wanting to stay in and not go out that much. And I have figured out it was the birth control pills that I was taking! It increases my depression and it’s putting me in a bad mood right now. 🤣 It can give you muscle aches and can make you feel like you have the flu. But of course it’s different for everyone. I guess I’ll find another form to use.🤣
I got my first shot and shi and at first there wasn’t really a big difference, couples weeks ago I was js a lil more emotional etc, thought nun of it until a few days ago i js snapppped on my boyfriend, way more than I should’ve. Afterwards I felt horrible for acting that way. I feel like he might be thinking of breaking up… idk if I should get off it or not cs I don’t want to risk anything.
It helped me. Thank you so much for sharing your experience!!! Truly ….. I thought I was going crazy and this video really helped. 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for your video.
I want to ask you a question if birth control pills is harmful to kidney?
Keep ur hair short, lovely. It suits u
My wife was on birth control before we met. She went off the shot when we were dating and got married.
After 12 years, she went back on birth control, and now is a different person for it. She chased me out her place and wants a divorce.
I don't blame the shot, bc i know she knows it's her thoughts and feelings regardless of hormones acting up.
No it was the shot
Thank you
Awsome video
Thank God my mum stopped me
I'm blessed being a dude like bruh
Lmaoo
Your video was perfect truth.