Wanda it shows her immaturity; that is why a woman and a man should go into marriage not boy or girl, this does not necessarily correlate to biological age though.
She cheated on him. He probably feels like she ruined his life. He's hurt and wants her to feel his pain. No way he should remarry her. He will never fully trust her again. I hope he moves on and finds happiness without her.
Exactly. It's better for both for them to move on. He will never fully trust her just because she put $50K out there and she will resent him for the financial hardship imposed on her.
@@ulikemykungfu3995 a prenup won't prevent the pain of being cheated on again or prevent all the costs involved in getting divorced. That's probably where the $50k figure comes from: the financial burden she caused the first time around.
This person calling in is a Child. How is this even a serious question? A person like this shouldn't be in a relationship at all. Zero critical thinking skills.
As a female, I hate how the Dave clan always side with the women (even if they’re the ones at fault) and blame the men. Different genders can be at fault for different things and in this case it’s the woman. Let’s not give her a soft pass just because she is a woman. Although she seems to have the intellect of a child, she can handle the truth and people need to be blunt with her. She’s not fragile. She’s laughing about the situation but infidelity isn’t even funny.
He and she are both messes. He's not terrible about how he feels but the 50,000 car won't make him happy because she would have to buy more 50,000 cars on top of that. They need to stay apart. And he still won't marry her nor forgive her even if she does. And how does that prove commitment when a whole marriage didn't? It also sounds like she broke up from another relationship and came back to him. They best stay apart.
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If he dumped her for being a cheating hoe, he should just leave it at that and cut all contact...trying to finesse a car out of her is kinda scumy though
Yeah he is trying to keep a relationship for money. Male or female that is lacking in character. Doesn't mean she did nothing wrong. It is just that two wrongs don't make a right. It is just two people each acting like trash.
No one cheats on someone out of the blue. I don't care if its a man or woman. No one cheats on someone without some cause. Might be a REALLY dumb childish cause(problem in and of itself), but a cause none the less.
He wants reimbursement for his moral loss. Even if she bought him the car, deep in the heart he will probably not forgive her and forever remember. Same when women expect a present when a husband cheats, reversed. I think the person who got cheated on will not feel the need to ever again be sincere in the relationship.
@@thecatnextdoor12 Yea, take the gift and RUN. I learnt that a little late in life. They didn't cheat; just lies lies lies.....he wanted to put money in my account and I said no...smh!!!!
I know someone who acts just like this, and is 38. She has two kids who she does not have custody of, and is going to get fired from her job soon for incompetence. You just can’t help these types of proplr
Notice how the co-host called the husband terrible while even after the caller revealed that she was unfaithful, she was still saying hoe terrible the guy was. Smh.
Yes, she made a mistake by being unfaithful, but he is despicable as well by manipulating her because of her guilt. And if he had any kind morals or ethics himself he would not be sleeping with her. She made a mistake, and he is using that to glean any kind of self benefits he can. Disgusting individual!
Well she cheated so I don't feel bad for her and I don't blame him. Not sure what he's REALLY trying to do but I can't blame him for having a crazy request.
He prolly said he needed a 50k car first because he knows she can't possibly get that and therefore he won't have to remarry her. If she had 50k, he would prolly ask for a 150k car
Most people these days have never seen a healthy relationship in their life, that's why they're so shocked at the idea of willingly being selfless for someone else you love.
I don’t necessarily thinks he is lacking in character. He obviously is having trust issues; who wouldn’t after being cheated on. I can’t believe he let her back in the first place.
Bobby Florencio he didn’t take her back. He’s just not wanting to go through the dating scene that’s out there. He knows she can’t buy him that car so he’s just getting a little bit of payback for what she did to him. If the situation were reversed people would be praising her saying “make him get you a car, a house, a purse, a diamond, and make him beg everyday for forgiveness.”
@RedLetterMadea Nope. Eve was tricked. Read Genesis 3 again... not until Adam, who had a direct command from God, ate the fruit did sin enter the world. The Bible is consistent on this from cover to cover: "In ADAM, all died. In CHRIST shall all be made alive." However, the second known sin in Genesis 3 was Adam trying to blame Eve instead of answering a direct question from the God he blatantly disobeyed... we see that Adam's sons continue follow this bad example toward their mother, and their sisters...
28 YEARS OLD?? Yikes!!!! What an embarrassment. She's toxic, and clueless at the same time. She's talking about BUYING BACK her ex-husband after cheating on him, and Dave tells them to go to counseling?!?? Um no, throw the whole relationship away!! They already WERE married and divorced - MOVE ON!
@@ceecee8757 true revenge cheating is not uncommon, I keep trying to convince beyonce that it's okay but she won't return my calls.... or give me her number
Agreed. Not forgiving someone is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. I hope they can reconcile, but if not, both need counseling before even considering getting into another relationship. Marital infidelity wrecks a person.
That's probably the huge part of the story that's being left out of the call. I can almost guarantee this guy spent $50k on the wedding and the divorce, and he wants financial justice before rolling the dice with her all over again.
She cheated on him, but he's the one lacking in character? I agree with Dave, that counseling is good, but I'm not sure he is the bad guy here. Also, in many cultures, a dowry is normal.
Admittedly, the caller waited until halfway through the call to explain why. Rachel Cruz (the co-host) was reacting to partial information. Not good on the caller's part; trying to curry sympathy before dropping bombs.
Anybody who demands that you buy them an expensive car is terrible. I don't care what the reason is. She cheated, which means that she is a terrible person who can't be trusted. Instead of trying to make her literally pay for it, he should have never taken her back. He hasn't forgiven her. He is either going to get that car from her and split, or continue to hold her wrongdoing over her head for the rest of their lives and make her buy him expensive gifts to make up for it. Anybody who does this is just as bad as the cheater.
@@misspriss2482 Nice double standards there, if the guy was caught cheating, he loses his home, custody of kids & substantial portion of his income for alimony & child support. But the woman can't even buy the dude a car to show she has some skin in the game after cheating on the guy & wanting to get back with him? What is she bringing to the table apart from her genitals? She sounds like an airhead devoid of any personal responsibility for her actions.
$50k is outrageous, no doubt, but we’re acting like having her make a large payment to show serious commitment is unbelievable when guys have to do that very thing with engagement rings. Oh but that’s a societal norm so it’s okay...don’t be a sheep
"Leave her with all the debt while he keeps the car". That would mean the loan is under her name. And the momment she stops making the payments the car would get repoed. I don't see how he would get to keep the car while she keeps the debt.
Leaks and Leaks It would be a big decision to stop repayments, but even when she does it will be a while before repo order. Even then how long before they find the car. He could have 2 years of driving a very nice car at 0 cost to him
Just shows how judgemental these girls are, whoever is the girl with Dave straight up said that the guy is terrible without knowing anything. the girl cheated and probably took his money in the first divorce. im with the guy
I don’t think he was serious when he said buy him an expensive car. Lol He’s basically saying they’ll probably not going to marry each other ever again.
Why does Dave feel sorry for her and sort of having a dig at the guy. She was the one that caused all the mess and he is obviously still struggling with trust. I don't think buying a car is the right way to go about fixing that though.
Dave bluntly told her that she is a mess while providing sound, proven strategies for how SHE can fix HER own life. It’s not his job (or even his place) to admonish her for the infidelity...he said as much with the “not a marriage counselor” disclaimer...but he did a remarkable job of leading her toward a direction of forgiveness and healing, within the limitations of the framework of this show.
Edge HODL - it sure was addicting to watch!! Several UA-cam channels feature aspects of the undercover operation such as transcripts of convos & post arrest interrogations... (maybe most fans of the show know that, but I just stumbled onto them, lol!)
Or the other way around. He'll cheat on HER this time out of spite AFTER she forks out the money for the car and then will leave her in the dust, in debt!
The fact that they seem to be siding with her in spite of her admission of infidelity is a bit ridiculous. No, she shouldn’t buy him a car but she’s no victim, and there is clearly sooooo much more to this story🙄.
At first I was like that’s insane but once she said she cheated it all makes sense. First of all he loves her but doesn’t trust her. He said we can live together but no way am trusting you because you cheated. When she said she wants to marry him. He is like how can I know she really means it and wants to try for real. If she doesn’t love him more than 50k than she doesn’t love him. I seen men cheat on their wife and buy more expensive things to say sorry he is not asking for that he is saying do this gesture so I know you really are in it. It sounds stupid but it kinda makes sense in a crazy kinda way
@@FuturePsychNurse Is it unreasonable to want her to make sacrifices, be less selfish and show her that he is worth an effort to her? We haven't heard his side, but he is the one that got hurt and betrayed. She is probably too shallow to even realize how much damage she had done. Otherwise she wouldn't talk about a car, but trying to make amends in every ways she can. After all, she says, she wants to be married to him again, so the fact that she calls a show instead of just doing what she can, doesn't speak for her. He made himself vulnerable to her and gave her his trust. She abused his trust and stabbed him in the back. She has to trust in him, become vulnerable in the same way. When he sees that, he can start to heal. The worst case for her could be, that he does the same to her that she did to him, that still wouldn't be an unfair outcome. If he would cheat on her, I doubt he would enjoy it, he would want to see if she reacts indifferently, acts hostile or feels the same pain that he felt. If she is not prepared to treat her man justly and accept suffering as well, instead of making him suffer or maybe not even caring whether he suffers, it means she doesn't view marriage as a partnership of husband and wife, where they stand together against everybody else and go through life together. Through her stupidity she has created a situation where they can either separate or, if she is sincere about having him trust her a second time, she has to prove that he is the love of her life and make amends. Movies and TV shows are not a good guide for how to behave. They also rarely show the consequences of the selfish and shallow characters' behaviour and even if they do, it's almost always onesided.
"He will only marry me if I buy him a $50,000 car." Girl, bye! You cheated on him. The relationship is over. You both need to walk away. A car isn't going to fix things. Both of you lack the character to have a relationship.
funny how he lacks character and she’s the little cackling cheater 🤔 He clearly doesn’t care about the care. It’s an excuse not to be stuck with a cheater legally and have to deal with the legal mess when she does it again
He doesn't care about the car, it's just a pretext to either a) recoup losses in the divorce ,or b) a veiled attempt to tell her that he's not interested. This call was a waste of time.
I don't feel bad for her. She was giving her husband Chad and Tyrones sloppy seconds without him knowing for a while. Hope he finds happiness without her.
I am sorry my friend they are everywhere in the area I live. Often the more money especially Rich people in general give their kids with zero emotional support.....What happens? The kids grow to be physically adults but are emotionally 10 year olds.
I know where he’s coming from. The actions of my ex wife caused me to have to sell my parents house that I inherited and was going to move into after our divorce. If I ever got back with her she would have to make that right, I’m sorry.
He hasn't forgiven her and he has no plans to marry her. He's pretending to be back with her to get his dream car, and then he's going to leave her again. She needs to run.
That's the point. If she had the money, the guy would've demanded a car that she can't afford. He's indirectly telling her that there's nothing she can do to trick him into marrying her after her infidelity.
He wants a car because her word is worthless. He can't trust her because she already cheated so in his mind if she truly wants to be a faithful wife she should put her money where her mouth is. Good for him.
Forgiveness for infidelity? If this was the other way around it would be a different tune. The guy shouldn't even take her back! HER cheating comes at a cost. He should just kick her out and cut ties. He's brilliant in putting the stipulation without saying outright "no". They are both free people. She now is punishing HERSELF. By CHOICE.
He doesn't actually want to remarry her; he's just saying this because he knows she can't afford it and he understandably doesn't want to remarry someone who is unfaithful.
She cheated on him. You have to pay for your sins. To bad you need to buy me car. I would no trust her again. That sin will always be in the back of his head. It's her fault.
I agree with Dave on this. He has said before he is not a marriage counselor, but often advises people to get it based on experience and observation (I'm paraphrasing). I have observed toxic people (or couples) and their drama filled lives many times, and many times they don't learn or change. I get the impression this may be one of those situations. Another impression I got was it seemed to be she wanted validation for her choices and 'permission' to continue this relationship. I have noticed this in many calls, Dave is kind and diplomatic about it, but he does NOT let the caller off the hook. He didnt in this case, and sadly she didnt seem to be hearing it.
No Dave and Rachel, the woman cheated and destroyed the Marriage. She is the terrible one, not the man. She should pay for her sins. She probably destroyed his finances in the divorce anyway.
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I think we both know it her voice that is the problem
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I cant believe she actually called in with this.
I can't believe they're justifying her actions lol
Wanda it shows her immaturity; that is why a woman and a man should go into marriage not boy or girl, this does not necessarily correlate to biological age though.
I wonder that too. She don't sound like the brightest bulb of the tree.
Something has to be mentally wrong with this girl.
I can just look how many people voted for Joe Biden for president
He wants her to literally pay for her sins. He’s obviously still angry and resentful. And she doesn’t seem to get it.
Or he just doesn’t trust her because she betrayed him and he wants her to have skin in the game
She doesn't seem too bright to begin with so i'm not surprised she doesnt get it.
Correct. She is clueless.
@Regulator Unlimited Do not repay evil for evil
She'll probably buy it if she hasn't already
She cheated on him. He probably feels like she ruined his life.
He's hurt and wants her to feel his pain. No way he should remarry her.
He will never fully trust her again.
I hope he moves on and finds happiness without her.
I totally agree.
I bet he said this sarcastically as a joke no way I’d mess up my life again for a $50k car.
Exactly. It's better for both for them to move on. He will never fully trust her just because she put $50K out there and she will resent him for the financial hardship imposed on her.
I would say don’t marry without a prenup.
@@ulikemykungfu3995 a prenup won't prevent the pain of being cheated on again or prevent all the costs involved in getting divorced.
That's probably where the $50k figure comes from: the financial burden she caused the first time around.
This person calling in is a Child. How is this even a serious question? A person like this shouldn't be in a relationship at all. Zero critical thinking skills.
Yup. I was expecting when Dave asked how old she was she was going to say 20 not 28.
This is most millennial women, source: I'm a millennial man....
Exactly why some guy finessed his way into her pants in the first place . Young lady just seems lost and gullible
She is being manipulated, and that can do a number on one's independent thinking and self-esteem.
@@cellogirl11rw55SHE? she cheated on him..
I would never get back with a girl who cheated on me.
Ever
I wouldn't say never, but the bar is VERY high for me.
You most likely have already been cheated on but just don't know it. You'd be very surprise how good some of these women are.🤙
@@ON34U If I'm reading this correctly, this sounds like something a Lance would say - pig. Find some happiness. You're disgusting.
ditto...Once a cheater always a cheater and never ever ever trusted again...Trust is the most important part of any relationship...
The second you buy him that car you'll never see him again lol
She can buy him a cyber truck it's good for the environment. 🤩
And she can track him
He just better hope its paid up front in cash and not payments lol
This is not a sign of love. Do not encourage abuse in any form.
Worth the price
He ol drive fast out of
her life.
I’ve come to expect that when a caller says “I have a unique situation,” I’m about to hear a story I’ve heard many times before. This one...wasn’t.
😂😂🤣🤣🤣
"He's terrible, why did you get divorced"? Oh, I cheated on him. Yea, he's terrible.
As a female, I hate how the Dave clan always side with the women (even if they’re the ones at fault) and blame the men. Different genders can be at fault for different things and in this case it’s the woman. Let’s not give her a soft pass just because she is a woman. Although she seems to have the intellect of a child, she can handle the truth and people need to be blunt with her. She’s not fragile. She’s laughing about the situation but infidelity isn’t even funny.
The question is what kind of car ? Lol
They always stick together
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He and she are both messes. He's not terrible about how he feels but the 50,000 car won't make him happy because she would have to buy more 50,000 cars on top of that. They need to stay apart. And he still won't marry her nor forgive her even if she does. And how does that prove commitment when a whole marriage didn't? It also sounds like she broke up from another relationship and came back to him. They best stay apart.
Rachel was quick to insult the husband, only to then find out the wife is who should be blamed!
Yeah, the Ramsey team missed the mark on this one completely. This is not a financial issue. There is a lot more going on here.
Rachel blamed the husband for the ultimatum to remarry, not the divorce. Right? That is horrible!
@@ralphholiman7401 but this is literally what they said in the video lol
John should've been on the panel he would've been fair towards both of them. Idk if during this call he was hired or not
He is terrible for trying to use her guilt against her.
She's a terrible person for breaking her vows.
No winners here.
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Riley Stull Great job!
Excellent!
Well done, listening to Dave!
Riley Stull what job do u have, awesome accomplishments:)
but you still spend too much on stuff with motors :o
He lacks character? SHE cheated on him and destroyed the marraige.
If he dumped her for being a cheating hoe, he should just leave it at that and cut all contact...trying to finesse a car out of her is kinda scumy though
Yeah he is trying to keep a relationship for money. Male or female that is lacking in character. Doesn't mean she did nothing wrong. It is just that two wrongs don't make a right. It is just two people each acting like trash.
@JR If he did, she would deserve it.
Simp Ramsey in a nutshell.
No one cheats on someone out of the blue. I don't care if its a man or woman. No one cheats on someone without some cause. Might be a REALLY dumb childish cause(problem in and of itself), but a cause none the less.
He's not awful. He doesn't actually need a 50k car lol. He said that because she can't. If she could, he'd say 150k.
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I just said the same thing!
Good point
He wants reimbursement for his moral loss. Even if she bought him the car, deep in the heart he will probably not forgive her and forever remember. Same when women expect a present when a husband cheats, reversed. I think the person who got cheated on will not feel the need to ever again be sincere in the relationship.
When a man cheats on a woman, the woman doesn't want him- that's the gift.
twin cherry True but take the gift! Otherwise got cheated on for nothing.
@@thecatnextdoor12 Yea, take the gift and RUN. I learnt that a little late in life. They didn't cheat; just lies lies lies.....he wanted to put money in my account and I said no...smh!!!!
I think she took his house and car in the divorce and he wants some of it back. I bet she took way more then £50k
@@grizzlybear2702 i second that ✊🏼
They are ex's for a reason . They are divorced for a reason. Stay that way!!!
She’s 28 and acting like a 19 year old SIGH 😔
My mind was blown when she said her age. Where did this girl grow up? Freakin LALA Land?? 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
I know someone who acts just like this, and is 38. She has two kids who she does not have custody of, and is going to get fired from her job soon for incompetence. You just can’t help these types of proplr
Not even.
She sounds more like a 16 yr old
Mona Walker - IKR. I'm sure I know some 10-year-olds who would not be okay with this scenario.
Notice how the co-host called the husband terrible while even after the caller revealed that she was unfaithful, she was still saying hoe terrible the guy was. Smh.
And Dave also called him a terrible guy that she needs to "run from" well after she revealed she was the cheater. Cuz he is, and shes terrible too.
Yes, she made a mistake by being unfaithful, but he is despicable as well by manipulating her because of her guilt. And if he had any kind morals or ethics himself he would not be sleeping with her. She made a mistake, and he is using that to glean any kind of self benefits he can. Disgusting individual!
@@tonifrancis6945 - I know, and I would question what led her to cheat. I suspect their marriage was not ideal to begin with.
Well she cheated so I don't feel bad for her and I don't blame him. Not sure what he's REALLY trying to do but I can't blame him for having a crazy request.
He prolly said he needed a 50k car first because he knows she can't possibly get that and therefore he won't have to remarry her. If she had 50k, he would prolly ask for a 150k car
He probably spent $50k on the wedding and the divorce, so he probably wants some sort of financial justice before rolling the dice with her again
Stay single, and stock up on rice and beans
And maybe the occasional canned sweet corn!
And die in your coffin by your self right? So sad
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@@CryptoDad83 you can't take someone with you when you die
Kamron Harris same here 🤙🏻
He doesn't want to marry you. Which I don't blame him.
@All Seeing EYE that's what I meant
Most people these days have never seen a healthy relationship in their life, that's why they're so shocked at the idea of willingly being selfless for someone else you love.
@Brandon Martin question is, do we even need it? I'm single guy, 37 with 500k networth, six fig job, I'm good where I'm at
I don’t necessarily thinks he is lacking in character. He obviously is having trust issues; who wouldn’t after being cheated on. I can’t believe he let her back in the first place.
I think you have a point, he prolly did it for the 😽🐈
@@JohannaL306 That's the point. He knows she won't buy him the car... You're clueless.
Bobby Florencio he didn’t take her back. He’s just not wanting to go through the dating scene that’s out there. He knows she can’t buy him that car so he’s just getting a little bit of payback for what she did to him. If the situation were reversed people would be praising her saying “make him get you a car, a house, a purse, a diamond, and make him beg everyday for forgiveness.”
Bobby Florencio If things were so simple, so black and white; there are usually a lot of unspoken issues or things that are not made conscious
@@acedeadeye2052 That's taking her back. They live together.
This is so stupid.. why would you even consider remarriage?
She's insecure because of her guilt. It's toxic. Get out now.
This woman should not even get married to ANYONE the fact that she laughs before telling Dave "I cheated on him" is the mindset of a child
Same question I asked
She isn’t considering anything. You need something between your ears to consider anything
And that’s how men feel when you demand we spend 3 months salary on a ring or you wont marry him. But at least the car is actually useful.
Exactly! I was thinking she was going to say that's what he spent on the ring or something and he wants her to show her commitment as much as he did
The point of that is proof of commitment. Women didn't come up with this idea btw. Look it up. It's men knowing the nature of men.
@@TheEMC99 yeah, diamond marketers came up with it!
@@GlitchCityPromo It precedes even diamonds.
@RedLetterMadea Nope. Eve was tricked. Read Genesis 3 again... not until Adam, who had a direct command from God, ate the fruit did sin enter the world. The Bible is consistent on this from cover to cover: "In ADAM, all died. In CHRIST shall all be made alive."
However, the second known sin in Genesis 3 was Adam trying to blame Eve instead of answering a direct question from the God he blatantly disobeyed... we see that Adam's sons continue follow this bad example toward their mother, and their sisters...
28 YEARS OLD?? Yikes!!!! What an embarrassment. She's toxic, and clueless at the same time. She's talking about BUYING BACK her ex-husband after cheating on him, and Dave tells them to go to counseling?!?? Um no, throw the whole relationship away!! They already WERE married and divorced - MOVE ON!
She cheated once, she will cheat again.
Prolly
I thought she said, he cheated 🤔
@@Je.rone_ or he will cheat on her out of spite, AFTER she's buys him the $50k car and will say, "See ya!"
@@ceecee8757 true revenge cheating is not uncommon, I keep trying to convince beyonce that it's okay but she won't return my calls.... or give me her number
@@ceecee8757 She already ruined the relationship and she's mad he doesn't want to do it again. You're a clown
Agree, he's still angry. He has not truly forgiven her for her infidelity.
Nor should he.
He doesn’t have to forgive her.
He should forgive her, but never ever get back together with her.
Nor should he .. get the car.. then DTB
Agreed. Not forgiving someone is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. I hope they can reconcile, but if not, both need counseling before even considering getting into another relationship. Marital infidelity wrecks a person.
She probably took the car during the divorce and hes still stewing over that
Girl probably burned the money she got from the divorce wants money and the guy made a stipulation she can't do.
Yep
Bingo
Could be!
That's probably the huge part of the story that's being left out of the call. I can almost guarantee this guy spent $50k on the wedding and the divorce, and he wants financial justice before rolling the dice with her all over again.
She cheated on him, but he's the one lacking in character? I agree with Dave, that counseling is good, but I'm not sure he is the bad guy here. Also, in many cultures, a dowry is normal.
Amazing how they just ignore the fact she cheated on him and caused the first divorce
How are they even justifying this women ? She cheated on him and that’s why they had gotten a divorce in the first place.
If the situation were reversed Dave would yell run
Women are held to a second, lower standard.
Sounds like he wants restitutions for the first marriage!
She cheated on him but this lady next to Ramsey quickly judged the guy and said “he’s terrible” 🤦🏻♂️
Why can't these aholes be honest? The gal cheated, the guy doesn't trust her & rightly so
The lady next to him is her daughter Rachel Cruz . Check her UA-cam channel
Admittedly, the caller waited until halfway through the call to explain why. Rachel Cruz (the co-host) was reacting to partial information. Not good on the caller's part; trying to curry sympathy before dropping bombs.
Anybody who demands that you buy them an expensive car is terrible. I don't care what the reason is. She cheated, which means that she is a terrible person who can't be trusted. Instead of trying to make her literally pay for it, he should have never taken her back. He hasn't forgiven her. He is either going to get that car from her and split, or continue to hold her wrongdoing over her head for the rest of their lives and make her buy him expensive gifts to make up for it. Anybody who does this is just as bad as the cheater.
@@misspriss2482 Nice double standards there, if the guy was caught cheating, he loses his home, custody of kids & substantial portion of his income for alimony & child support. But the woman can't even buy the dude a car to show she has some skin in the game after cheating on the guy & wanting to get back with him? What is she bringing to the table apart from her genitals? She sounds like an airhead devoid of any personal responsibility for her actions.
$50k is outrageous, no doubt, but we’re acting like having her make a large payment to show serious commitment is unbelievable when guys have to do that very thing with engagement rings. Oh but that’s a societal norm so it’s okay...don’t be a sheep
He would accept it as a gift, not marry her, break up and leave her with all that debt while he keeps car
"Leave her with all the debt while he keeps the car".
That would mean the loan is under her name. And the momment she stops making the payments the car would get repoed. I don't see how he would get to keep the car while she keeps the debt.
@@shakemiz He wouldn't care about the car getting repo'd because he'll enjoy knowing she's now in debt because of it.
Leaks and Leaks It would be a big decision to stop repayments, but even when she does it will be a while before repo order. Even then how long before they find the car. He could have 2 years of driving a very nice car at 0 cost to him
So, basically what women do to men all the time.
Just shows how judgemental these girls are, whoever is the girl with Dave straight up said that the guy is terrible without knowing anything. the girl cheated and probably took his money in the first divorce. im with the guy
Thats Daves daughter as far as i'm aware.
@@rory644 yup it's called nepotism
She’s right. They both lack character. If he had integrity he’d walk away knowing she can’t fix the cheating with gifts. It’s forgive or move on.
I don’t think he was serious when he said buy him an expensive car. Lol He’s basically saying they’ll probably not going to marry each other ever again.
Why does Dave feel sorry for her and sort of having a dig at the guy. She was the one that caused all the mess and he is obviously still struggling with trust. I don't think buying a car is the right way to go about fixing that though.
He probably doesn’t want to sound like the bad guy lol
He generally takes the woman's side I've noticed. Flaw
Dave bluntly told her that she is a mess while providing sound, proven strategies for how SHE can fix HER own life. It’s not his job (or even his place) to admonish her for the infidelity...he said as much with the “not a marriage counselor” disclaimer...but he did a remarkable job of leading her toward a direction of forgiveness and healing, within the limitations of the framework of this show.
@@JourneyJames76 Exactly
@Andrew Holcrft he berates the man.
She sounds like a decoy from ‘To Catch a Predator’... (During the first few seconds of the call anyway.)
Lolllll
Lol, that's was my fav show!
HAHA!!!!
“I made some cookies!”
Edge HODL - it sure was addicting to watch!! Several UA-cam channels feature aspects of the undercover operation such as transcripts of convos & post arrest interrogations... (maybe most fans of the show know that, but I just stumbled onto them, lol!)
28. She sounds like a lost teenager. There’s no love here at all.
I think that was him saying “no we aren’t getting married again” but being nice and saying he needs an expensive car
If they get remarried again she'll probably end up cheating on him once again.
Or the other way around. He'll cheat on HER this time out of spite AFTER she forks out the money for the car and then will leave her in the dust, in debt!
@@ceecee8757 right as well
And then buying him a second $50,000.00 car.
@@mymoonams right lol
"probably end up"? She sounded like she had her mouth full at the beginning of the call...
The fact that they seem to be siding with her in spite of her admission of infidelity is a bit ridiculous. No, she shouldn’t buy him a car but she’s no victim, and there is clearly sooooo much more to this story🙄.
Rachel's face throughout this whole thing was priceless 😂😂😂
At first I was like that’s insane but once she said she cheated it all makes sense.
First of all he loves her but doesn’t trust her. He said we can live together but no way am trusting you because you cheated.
When she said she wants to marry him. He is like how can I know she really means it and wants to try for real. If she doesn’t love him more than 50k than she doesn’t love him. I seen men cheat on their wife and buy more expensive things to say sorry he is not asking for that he is saying do this gesture so I know you really are in it. It sounds stupid but it kinda makes sense in a crazy kinda way
So what happens when she can’t pay the car note or stops paying the car note after he marries her? Both of them are beyond stupid!
@@FuturePsychNurse Is it unreasonable to want her to make sacrifices, be less selfish and show her that he is worth an effort to her? We haven't heard his side, but he is the one that got hurt and betrayed. She is probably too shallow to even realize how much damage she had done. Otherwise she wouldn't talk about a car, but trying to make amends in every ways she can. After all, she says, she wants to be married to him again, so the fact that she calls a show instead of just doing what she can, doesn't speak for her. He made himself vulnerable to her and gave her his trust. She abused his trust and stabbed him in the back. She has to trust in him, become vulnerable in the same way. When he sees that, he can start to heal. The worst case for her could be, that he does the same to her that she did to him, that still wouldn't be an unfair outcome. If he would cheat on her, I doubt he would enjoy it, he would want to see if she reacts indifferently, acts hostile or feels the same pain that he felt. If she is not prepared to treat her man justly and accept suffering as well, instead of making him suffer or maybe not even caring whether he suffers, it means she doesn't view marriage as a partnership of husband and wife, where they stand together against everybody else and go through life together. Through her stupidity she has created a situation where they can either separate or, if she is sincere about having him trust her a second time, she has to prove that he is the love of her life and make amends.
Movies and TV shows are not a good guide for how to behave. They also rarely show the consequences of the selfish and shallow characters' behaviour and even if they do, it's almost always onesided.
This relationship is not healthy at all. This is not a good foundation for trust or financial success AT ALL
Lol - the look on Rachel’s face when he said “shame based bootycall” almost spit my tea out.
I read this comment seconds before he said this, lol
"He will only marry me if I buy him a $50,000 car." Girl, bye! You cheated on him. The relationship is over. You both need to walk away. A car isn't going to fix things. Both of you lack the character to have a relationship.
funny how he lacks character and she’s the little cackling cheater 🤔 He clearly doesn’t care about the care. It’s an excuse not to be stuck with a cheater legally and have to deal with the legal mess when she does it again
@@kendalljohnson9172 He doesn't have character because he's playing games. Someone who's done is going to say he's done and move along.
He doesn't care about the car, it's just a pretext to either a) recoup losses in the divorce ,or b) a veiled attempt to tell her that he's not interested. This call was a waste of time.
She will always go back to Chad and Tyrone.
And when she does he's to blame 😂😂
Good point
😂😂😂
Once you go Tyrone...🍆
My grandfather told me "if a woman can cheat on you, she can also kill you."
I wouldn't be back with her if she bought me a million dollar house.
But cheating on someone and murdering someone are completely different things.
I'm a woman...you're grandfather was very wrong about that
Kay Jeffs no he wasn’t
Kay Jeffs so you’re admitting to cheating? Nice job!
@@kayjeffs3741 I want to talk to your manager.
He probably wants some of his losses back from the divorce.
Who wouldn't😂
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I don't feel bad for her. She was giving her husband Chad and Tyrones sloppy seconds without him knowing for a while.
Hope he finds happiness without her.
Just wondering, where is the "Chad and Tyrone" reference from?
@@ayo_k32 Red pill/Blue pill theory of dating. "Chad" is the nickname given to the White player archetype, "Tyrone" to the Black player archetype.
@@trachito Oh.. ok. Thx.
Get the car then DTB
Kirsten yea Tyrone is always the black guy lol.
She said her situation was unique, she’s right about that Lol. So much drama. I knew would put this call up
He's going to make her pay for hurting him. Now and later....Why do ppl divorce and remarry the same person?? Let it go move on... Lol
Once a cheater always a cheater! As a man, I don't think I could trust her, ever again.
The minute she buys him that car he’s going to drive off and never look back.
hopefully
This lady needs meds. Who divorces then lives with their ex husband and then want to get remarried? She's nuts!
It happens more than you think
She cheats on him but he's the one that lacks character. Cool got it. Thx Rachel
He doesn’t really want to marry her cause she can’t be trusted.
Rachel’s expressions are priceless 😆
You want me back it will cost you everything you cost me.
I refuse to believe there are people this misguided, illogical, and clueless
I am sorry my friend they are everywhere in the area I live. Often the more money especially Rich people in general give their kids with zero emotional support.....What happens? The kids grow to be physically adults but are emotionally 10 year olds.
.....or you can look around and see in this 21st century the world is full of them. (though we may wish it weren’t so)
28 years old with the emotional capacity of a 28 month old.
I’m happy that Dave told her straight up she is a mess, but I don’t think she fully realizes how much she has ruined her life.
He’s not taking you back even if you buy the car
He will. He's a Simp.
I know where he’s coming from. The actions of my ex wife caused me to have to sell my parents house that I inherited and was going to move into after our divorce. If I ever got back with her she would have to make that right, I’m sorry.
Sometimes it’s nice to listen to calls like this so we can all feel a little better about ourselves lol
Umm, don't marry him. Done.
Yeah! Don't even consider it 😂
She killed the relationship by cheating and it’s not worth fixing
Gotta love Dave's honesty for saying what needs to be said.
My cousin got remarried after a divorce. He said he doesn't recommend that.
He hasn't forgiven her and he has no plans to marry her. He's pretending to be back with her to get his dream car, and then he's going to leave her again. She needs to run.
That moment of silence tho. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭
Rachel's facial expressions are hilarious at the start of the call.
Me: **Sees title** Hmm this is gonna be *interesting*
Also me: *Dead inside*
He’s saying no without saying no
Bipolar crazy lady
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Never take a girl back that cheated on you she'll never respect you
yea i learned that the hard way
Something tells me she would buy him the car in a heartbeat if she had the money.
That's the point. If she had the money, the guy would've demanded a car that she can't afford. He's indirectly telling her that there's nothing she can do to trick him into marrying her after her infidelity.
I can’t believe she actually called about this. Surprised they were actually that nice to her even though she cheated on him
Rachel's expressions from 00:54 on. 😂 Mimics my thoughts exactly but I'm literally laughing out loud.
He wants a car because her word is worthless. He can't trust her because she already cheated so in his mind if she truly wants to be a faithful wife she should put her money where her mouth is. Good for him.
I just laughed at both of them! She most likely got that from the divorce settlement and he wants it back
Forgiveness for infidelity? If this was the other way around it would be a different tune. The guy shouldn't even take her back! HER cheating comes at a cost. He should just kick her out and cut ties. He's brilliant in putting the stipulation without saying outright "no". They are both free people. She now is punishing HERSELF. By CHOICE.
Wow, are you serious......sounds like a joke
Unfortunately it happens🤯
He doesn't actually want to remarry her; he's just saying this because he knows she can't afford it and he understandably doesn't want to remarry someone who is unfaithful.
I wonder if that is how Jay Leno got all his cars? LOL
I love Rachel so much! 😂 her faces and bluntness
Thank you again to Dave's Channel for giving people tons of reason to never get married in this day and age!
She cheated on him. You have to pay for your sins. To bad you need to buy me car. I would no trust her again. That sin will always be in the back of his head. It's her fault.
She considers themselves still married because they are “married under God”? No, boo, boo. You are shacking up, honey.
"I'm telling you the truth, you need to get out today!" Good advice Dave
I agree with Dave on this. He has said before he is not a marriage counselor, but often advises people to get it based on experience and observation (I'm paraphrasing). I have observed toxic people (or couples) and their drama filled lives many times, and many times they don't learn or change. I get the impression this may be one of those situations. Another impression I got was it seemed to be she wanted validation for her choices and 'permission' to continue this relationship. I have noticed this in many calls, Dave is kind and diplomatic about it, but he does NOT let the caller off the hook. He didnt in this case, and sadly she didnt seem to be hearing it.
Rachel's arm cross and facial expression at 0:58 😂
This situation is...wow.
No Dave and Rachel, the woman cheated and destroyed the Marriage. She is the terrible one, not the man. She should pay for her sins. She probably destroyed his finances in the divorce anyway.
Wow we are doomed.
lol Rachel's reactions are priceless.
This caller is so ditzy. She's 28 going on 15. This call is insane.
I thought this was a joke call when I saw the title
Same here. A lot of people would pay to make an ex stay away.
She cheated on him and wants to get remarried AND currently lives with him. Nonsense
*Father and daughter how cute* 😊
You right Jerone 👍🤣
I don’t think it’s about the car honey. He just want to see if you’re really committed because you cheated.
I think Rachel missed the part that she cheated on him.