YASSS!!! I love the digital vision board! I'm trying to prioritize going to the gym, reading more, hanging out intentionally with my friends. My quotes for the year are from Andre Shields: Surround yourself with people whose eyes light up when they see you coming | slowly is the fastest way to get to where you want to be | the top of one mountain is the bottom of the next so keep climbing
Yes! Let’s start over for 2023 ✨ My goals for this year are: 1. Building upon my brand on Instagram. I have to work on a new logo and website 2. Attract clients on Instagram. My goal is to work with 1-2 clients a month. I hope to be ready by next month. Find a mentor to help with all the design and tech stuff 😊 3. Spend quality time with loved ones. I want to start travelling each year and make as many memories. Breathe within the moment 😌 Overall, 2023 is gonna be positive, less stressful, and risk taking year 🎉😊
I could literally sit all day and listen to you and how you process things and how you endure life. I’m literally in love with the aspect of growing and just living + loving life. You’re KILLING the game, I love you
Tara, who would have thought a person in there 20’s could make a person in their 60’s (just turned) feel so young! Thank you Tara! Watching your videos honestly brings back my youth! Your parents should be proud and happy to have such a beautiful, strong and independent daughter! THAT’S how I view you in my eyes! P.S. I think your mom is beautiful also!
I’m almost 40 and I’m still learning about myself. I’m definitely not the person I was a year ago let alone when I was in my 20s. If you don’t have everything figured out, it’s okay.
I’m 42 and still figuring shit out! Lol. In your 30’s you start not giving a fuck and in your 40’s you really dont give a fuck, lol. I watch you because I think you are a genuinely sweet, funny, smart, talented, young woman, you’re freaking amazing! You’re one of those people who everyone wants as a friend. 😊 ❤️ 😘
I’m 69 and feel like I know more of myself and what I like than before but certainly not where I want to be. I learned a lot last year, some of it either not pleasant or the way I would want things to be. Trying to accept that and that realistic is ok, move on, try not to dwell on what isn’t.
Negative self talk has always been a challenge for me because of childhood trauma, but what I’ve been finding helpful when I default to that thinking is to remember myself as a child. I imagine my adult self protecting that little girl-- I think of what words/thoughts I would allow to be said to her and how I would comfort to reassure her. I hope this is helpful to whomever reads this. We owe it to ourselves to be our best and most loving protector. ❤
There is nothing better. Then when you have had a rubbish day at work, coming home and watching a Tara Marathon starting with a new video. Thank you for making my day better and being a friend with out even knowing ❤
I love Journaling first thing in the morning! Instead of consuming, I am producing something, and formulate ideas, excitement or gratitude. Helps a lot to set a good mood for the day!
Same! I just got a 5 year journal for Christmas and I love it! It’s like just a few lines each day, which is so much less intimidating if journaling is a new practice. And then you can compare each day over the next 5 years and literally see personal growth!
Things to do before 9am: Drink a ton of water, clean up anything you left the night before, work out or in your case walk on the treadmill and read, plan/prep your food for the day, meditate, journal, make your to do list for the day and/or do a morning skin care routine ❤️
something that I love to do before checking my phone each morning is say out loud 5-6 things that I am grateful for! It puts you in such a positive mood and allows you to start the day happy :)
I just want you to know that I have never ever been someone who wants to read in my spare time BUT watching you over the last year talk about the books you’re reading has truly influenced me to start reading and I’m very appreciative💕 it wasn’t even on my resolutions for the year. I just went to target one day and saw a book and was like “I’m going to start reading”😂
I can’t tell you how much I feel the same feelings about negative talk about myself and just negativity in general. I’m with you Tara this year is the all about ME year ❤️😍👏🏻👏🏻🥂
im pretty sure i have shared with you once that i was thrown away and abused by my parents. i have no relationship with them and grew up in foster care and honestly that was more of the same. i like watching you cuz you are inspiring ppl and i love seeing your family. you love each other, lift each other up and support and help each other. my best friend died years ago. ill never get over it and cry even years later. she was everything to me like a sister. i see her in you at times. sorry this is long or kinda rambling on. just wanted to tell you youre appreciated, you and your family have been a joy in my life. i can tell you all cherish one another, ill never experience that but its been nice seeing others have that. love and best wishes to you all. 💜
I was having such a negative self-talk day. Tears, prayers and all. I believe God was hearing me, He knew I needed to hear your words to reassure me to have confidence in myself and speak more positively to myself. Thank you so much, Tara. You truly inspire me! ❤️✌️
I have a hard time getting out of bed in the mornings and it’s helped me to move to the living room right away when my alarm goes off. If you don’t want to use your phone in the morning, maybe move to a different location in your house while you chill but grow the habit of not using your phone in that location in the morning.
Truly hit different hearing you say how people opinions of you are not all that you are. ❤️ people always see me as me thinking I’m better they are… but I am in NO WAY ANY BETTER than anyone else I. Just always trying to improve myself better than who I was the day before. Thank you for always being true to who you are❤️
First thing in my morning...feed the cats, clean the litterbox, take my medicine, load and/or unload the dishwasher, fold a load of clothes then start a load, take a shower and start work at 7:15 am! Yes, I get up at 5:30 am and that's early, but I've become such a morning person now!
Last year, when you did the vision board, I did one too. Let me tell you, that ish WORKS. I got my friends to start those too! Sending good vibes from North Dakota
Tara listen, I could be your mom chronologically speaking, BUT, life is constantly a life learning lesson but never allow others change you.. my spirit is youthful, and I see myself in you.. you are amazing & upbeat as well as beautiful & successful! I’ve never watched a video of yours that left any type of negativity in my mind. Keep rocking it out. You r an inspiration to all women
Tara, I’m currently in a class where we are learning about negative self-talk. Most experiences we view as “bad” can be changed simply by reframing the way we think. I love that you set this goal. Something I’m working on as well
I saw a tiktok that said to create a morning routine playlist and each song is a different thing in your morning routine (wake up, make your bed, brush your teeth, do your skincare routine, etc). I’ve found that starting my day with it has been excellent for helping me avoid my phone first thing!
I feel like you’re coming into your own because you seem much more at peace & happier overall, even with what little bit of your life you share with us. Your vibe has evolved so to speak haha idk if that makes sense ❤
It’s a long book but an easy read. I love your book recommendations/reviews because I think we read similar things. 2022 I also got back into reading and find it has helped me mentally so much. Less phone and social media, more reading and imagination. Best wishes for you in 2023!
you always motivate me! Thx Tara. I will not go on my phone until after I'm ready for the day. I usually get up make my bed, shower, breakfast, switch the laundry throw on the dishwasher. I usually put on you tube while doing my make up. So basically get ready for the day then go on. Hope that helps!
Tara, i started watching your channel during the pandemic when my marriage started failing. You have helped inspire me to leave my ex and live my best life. Your the only youtuber i watch and i look forward to your uploads! Lots of love from the UK 🇬🇧 if you come to london for an extended period would you consider a meet and greet? i want to thankyou personally for your inspiration 😊
I loved the things we never got over. So good! Thank you for the tidbits on being less hard on yourself. I often fall into comparing myself to others when I should be grateful for what I have.
An idea for something to do in the morning: I started to write in a journal with a few prompts. I personally do (1) How am I feeling today? (2) What’s my intention for the day? (3) What am I excited for today? (4) What am I grateful for? (5) What needs to get done today? (6) Affirmations. I also have some blank space to write anything else that’s on my mind! Have been doing this for a while and it completely changed my mornings 😊
I’ve gotten away from the before 9 after 9 rule, but when I’m not grabbing my phone first thing, I start with journaling and gratitude, meditation, maybe gentle yoga and reading and coffee on the couch. I feel so good when I start my days like that!!
I'm around your age so I watch mainly because you're relatable (btw also fellow Torontonian) but also just cool to see how another person lives?? I'm not in the same tax bracket as you and don't get to travel as much (I got diagnosed with a chronic illness about a year ago and JUST NOW am starting to get back to regular life) but it's cool to get to see new places through your lens and hear different perspectives about things :). Basically like chatting with a friend every week! But above all you're inspired me to elevate my life! embrace the boujee on a budget :).
This for me was hands down my most favorite video you have ever posted. I didn't know you believe in manifestation! I'm definitely going to be writing that letter to myself, I love that idea.
same on the skincare thing for me! sunscreen is my number one priority for my skincare routine this year! gotta do it no matter how much of a hassle it feels like
For the 9-9 phone use: find a spot outside your bedroom to put your phone over night. Buy an old school alarm clock and put your phone in it´s spot before going to bed. That way you won´t be on your phone forever in the evening and you can´t/won´t grap it first thing in the morning. I´d suggest to put your phone next to your bathroom sink, so when you get up to get it you can start your skincare routine right away and combine these to goals! I´ve been doing this for years now and it´s so helpful.
Thank you for like being my life coach 😅 you are so awesome. Some ideas for the morning that I try to do, I like to read in the morning, drink my coffee and journal. It helps me take a step back and be in the moment for the mornings. I hope this helps ❤️ thank you for being you!
I'm another mid 50s fan:) Started watching back with the neighbour issue and stayed watching because I learned you were Canadian. I must admit I do perk up when I see you have put out another video, such positive vibes in a negative world. Even when things don't go well for you, watching you and your family turn it around, showing love and support ends up being positive. I get a kick out of seeing what your generation get up to, love your travel vlogs and enjoy watching you cook, decorate or create in your home. I used to wake up with my coffee and morning news, I do NOT recommend. lol
I can’t really do the 9-9 rule in the am because I work at 8:30 and in childcare, so often I get texts about the kids moods or sickness. But I don’t allow myself to scroll insta, TikTok or Facebook until I’m seated down for a little break during the day. You could always try that. I’m sure answering emails and such may need to be done before 9 some days? I get a headache if I lay in my bed for too long in the mornings on weekends so I get up and make coffee and then do the things!
I’ve started reading while doing a Lizzo Treadmill Strut workout and it is the ONLY way I can get cardio. I love lifting weights but cardio is the devil (other than hiking). Reading helps me focus on something else so I’m not constantly thinking about how long I’ve been on the treadmill. I hope you love it!
Personally I watch you because I find you so relatable, there's so many points in the things you chose to share that I think are similar to my life or what I aspire to. Been watching for 5/6 years now and no complains here hahaha
I always pray & journal in the morning before I reach for my phone. ❤ I also aims to spend sometime in silence because usually it’s hard to find silence as you go about your day.
If the weather allows it also honestly any room in your house wold work but outside is amazing especially fresh hair in the morning you could sit outside with your coffee and maybe read or color and or journal.I love your videos!!🌷
Just like your bedroom (kind of) you could always add white fairy lights to your olive tree in the living room - fairy lights because they are smaller - you really don't notice them when they're off, but there when you want that little, warm glow😊✨
The first thing I like to do in the morning, is stretch….& I honestly learned this from my dog! He stretches as soon as he jumps out of bed & it just feels right😄
for your 9-9 problem: i wake up 8-8:30 am and only glance at my phone screen to make sure there's nothing pressing. if there's not (there's usually not) i just roll over and rest until im alert. i then get up and start addressing my physical needs-- get coffee, put on skin care, grab socks, put yesterday's dishes in the sink. once all that is done i'll sit down with my computer and coffee on the couch. By then it's usually 9 and I'll open up my social media if i want to, but usually i'm enjoying the calm and delay with a video until my coffee is done. It's hard to explain but social media forces you to engage and it changes the energy of the morning. I don't like to do it until I'm fully alert. Hope that helps put a media-less morning into context for you. It takes a while to break free of the "media itch", but I didn't like being driven by it. It's just your brain wanting those dopamine hits which really aren't good for you in this form. I enjoy the small things a lot more now, and am a lot more content by myself now that the "itching" has calmed. Hope that helps!
Nothing better than capping off a great 2 day birthday celebration like a tara vlog! Got to spend my birthday (the 16th) with my family and watched my Dallas Cowboys win against Tom Brady and his Bucs. Some of my goals for this year is to move away from the horror that is retail and into something with a better work/life ratio and to buy myself a newer more reliable vehicle for myself.
Tara, something that you might find useful that I think about all the time is this: “you shouldn’t waste your time trying to get people who are committed to misunderstanding you to see you” Love your content!!
I enjoyed this and feel so inspired to write down my goals and goals that I have and want for my family ❤ happy belated birthday and I can’t wait to see what 2023 brings you.
I've set a couple of goals for myself. I want to get back into walking, I want to learn to read tarot cards and I want to get my passport. I've never does the vision board, but I do have a manifestation journal. I use it to sort out my feelings on issues and find clarity in what I want to bring into my life.
In the morning I mediate on headspace for 10 mins and I downloaded the Morning! app which prompts you with three things that will make your day great and an affirmation. I also use it at night to track three things I’m grateful for and what I could of done to improve my day. I love to journal but sometimes I don’t have a ton of time so the app makes it easy to reflect quickly. 🥰
i love the added book content lately on here and on instagram bc i've been trying to fall in love with reading again this year and it's very inspiring!!
I'm focusing on my self too this year. Small steps to making my lifestyle healthier with more healthier snacks, starting a short workout once a week and getting out more, taking better care of my skin and a more positive mindset as I can be very pessimistic (my mum tells me off for it). I love watching your videos, you inspire me to be a better person and love your advice you give out. Also in the morning you can sit with your coffee and read your book, be a lovely relaxing way to start the day! ❤
I made a vision board for the first time this year! I was inspired by your video last year to start doing it. I used the same picture of the plane window/sky when I made mine. Love that for us!
Could you do videos on the topics of manifestation and self-love? ☺ Would love to hear about your journey and get some tips!! Would also love a tutorial on how you use your Dyson since you always manage to make your hair look good with it! These talks can be incorporated into your vlogs ofc 🥰
2023 is going to be a good year. It is exciting when we set realistic goals and so satisfying when we achieve them. I like the idea of writing a letter to yourself so you can reflect back at the end of the year. Awesome vlog Tara. Wishing you success and happiness in 2023🛍🇦🇺🥂cheers from down under
I started watching during the next door neighbor thing, and I’ve stayed for the you that you keep becoming. I hope that makes sense! Thanks for being you! If you haven’t, I’d recommend checking out Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown. :) it can be listened to as an audiobook in 8 ish hours! Sending love your way! ❤
For the 9 to 9 goal. I might be helpful to put your phone out of reach so that it’s not the first thing you do in the morning. Instead make other things more convenient (like a gratitude journal ) that way you’ll be more inclined to engage in that activity versus scrolling through your phone
so something i do every day (you can do morning or night) is think of things you're grateful for. I think of at least 5 that relate to the day i had. it can help with getting a more positive mindset. :)
I really liked your message at the beginning Tara. I’m 23 and absolutely have no idea what the crap I’m doing and it scares me because I feel like at this point I SHOULD be doing certain things but I’m not and it’s stressful….so I liked how you explained your thoughts. Thanks for that 🥰
LET'S TRY 2023 OVER AGAIN AHAHAH what are some of YOUR goals for this year!!!??
YASSS!!! I love the digital vision board! I'm trying to prioritize going to the gym, reading more, hanging out intentionally with my friends. My quotes for the year are from Andre Shields: Surround yourself with people whose eyes light up when they see you coming | slowly is the fastest way to get to where you want to be | the top of one mountain is the bottom of the next so keep climbing
Yes! Let’s start over for 2023 ✨
My goals for this year are:
1. Building upon my brand on Instagram. I have to work on a new logo and website
2. Attract clients on Instagram. My goal is to work with 1-2 clients a month. I hope to be ready by next month. Find a mentor to help with all the design and tech stuff 😊
3. Spend quality time with loved ones. I want to start travelling each year and make as many memories. Breathe within the moment 😌
Overall, 2023 is gonna be positive, less stressful, and risk taking year 🎉😊
I am having a year of improving my over all health and fitness. 2022 was about organising my home now 2023 is about organising me lol😅
More travel & me time
Hit 20k on UA-cam. Create a healthy boundary/ hours for work time vs. motherhood time
Big sister Tara coming in with the wise words we all need and I am HERE FOR IT.
I could literally sit all day and listen to you and how you process things and how you endure life. I’m literally in love with the aspect of growing and just living + loving life. You’re KILLING the game, I love you
Tara, who would have thought a person in there 20’s could make a person in their 60’s (just turned) feel so young! Thank you Tara! Watching your videos honestly brings back my youth! Your parents should be proud and happy to have such a beautiful, strong and independent daughter! THAT’S how I view you in my eyes! P.S. I think your mom is beautiful also!
I’m almost 40 and I’m still learning about myself. I’m definitely not the person I was a year ago let alone when I was in my 20s. If you don’t have everything figured out, it’s okay.
I don't think it's possible to ever have everything 100% figured out!!!! but im still constantly trying to evolve and better myself 🥰
I’m 42 and still figuring shit out! Lol. In your 30’s you start not giving a fuck and in your 40’s you really dont give a fuck, lol. I watch you because I think you are a genuinely sweet, funny, smart, talented, young woman, you’re freaking amazing! You’re one of those people who everyone wants as a friend. 😊 ❤️ 😘
I am 54 and same.
Evolving means you’re living. It’s over once you stop.
I’m 69 and feel like I know more of myself and what I like than before but certainly not where I want to be. I learned a lot last year, some of it either not pleasant or the way I would want things to be. Trying to accept that and that realistic is ok, move on, try not to dwell on what isn’t.
I am 60 y/o and I watch you because I am amused by your life-in a great way!! You're so adorbs and cheerful! Keep on-keeping on!
I’m just 3 years younger than you CJ and feel the same!
Negative self talk has always been a challenge for me because of childhood trauma, but what I’ve been finding helpful when I default to that thinking is to remember myself as a child. I imagine my adult self protecting that little girl-- I think of what words/thoughts I would allow to be said to her and how I would comfort to reassure her. I hope this is helpful to whomever reads this. We owe it to ourselves to be our best and most loving protector. ❤
There is nothing better. Then when you have had a rubbish day at work, coming home and watching a Tara Marathon starting with a new video. Thank you for making my day better and being a friend with out even knowing ❤
My day just gets better when Tara uploads 🥰
I love Journaling first thing in the morning! Instead of consuming, I am producing something, and formulate ideas, excitement or gratitude. Helps a lot to set a good mood for the day!
love this!!!
Same! I just got a 5 year journal for Christmas and I love it! It’s like just a few lines each day, which is so much less intimidating if journaling is a new practice. And then you can compare each day over the next 5 years and literally see personal growth!
Things to do before 9am: Drink a ton of water, clean up anything you left the night before, work out or in your case walk on the treadmill and read, plan/prep your food for the day, meditate, journal, make your to do list for the day and/or do a morning skin care routine ❤️
something that I love to do before checking my phone each morning is say out loud 5-6 things that I am grateful for! It puts you in such a positive mood and allows you to start the day happy :)
I just want you to know that I have never ever been someone who wants to read in my spare time BUT watching you over the last year talk about the books you’re reading has truly influenced me to start reading and I’m very appreciative💕 it wasn’t even on my resolutions for the year. I just went to target one day and saw a book and was like “I’m going to start reading”😂
I can’t tell you how much I feel the same feelings about negative talk about myself and just negativity in general. I’m with you Tara this year is the all about ME year ❤️😍👏🏻👏🏻🥂
im pretty sure i have shared with you once that i was thrown away and abused by my parents. i have no relationship with them and grew up in foster care and honestly that was more of the same. i like watching you cuz you are inspiring ppl and i love seeing your family. you love each other, lift each other up and support and help each other. my best friend died years ago. ill never get over it and cry even years later. she was everything to me like a sister. i see her in you at times. sorry this is long or kinda rambling on. just wanted to tell you youre appreciated, you and your family have been a joy in my life. i can tell you all cherish one another, ill never experience that but its been nice seeing others have that. love and best wishes to you all. 💜
I was having such a negative self-talk day. Tears, prayers and all. I believe God was hearing me, He knew I needed to hear your words to reassure me to have confidence in myself and speak more positively to myself. Thank you so much, Tara. You truly inspire me! ❤️✌️
"You can't change the minds of people choosing to not understand you." LOVE! THIS!
I have a hard time getting out of bed in the mornings and it’s helped me to move to the living room right away when my alarm goes off. If you don’t want to use your phone in the morning, maybe move to a different location in your house while you chill but grow the habit of not using your phone in that location in the morning.
Truly hit different hearing you say how people opinions of you are not all that you are. ❤️ people always see me as me thinking I’m better they are… but I am in NO WAY ANY BETTER than anyone else I. Just always trying to improve myself better than who I was the day before. Thank you for always being true to who you are❤️
First thing in my morning...feed the cats, clean the litterbox, take my medicine, load and/or unload the dishwasher, fold a load of clothes then start a load, take a shower and start work at 7:15 am! Yes, I get up at 5:30 am and that's early, but I've become such a morning person now!
Last year, when you did the vision board, I did one too. Let me tell you, that ish WORKS. I got my friends to start those too! Sending good vibes from North Dakota
I’m all about 2023 being a ‘me’ year. Even if it scares me. Good on you Tara!
Tara listen, I could be your mom chronologically speaking, BUT, life is constantly a life learning lesson but never allow others change you.. my spirit is youthful, and I see myself in you.. you are amazing & upbeat as well as beautiful & successful! I’ve never watched a video of yours that left any type of negativity in my mind. Keep rocking it out. You r an inspiration to all women
Your pep talk in the beginning is literally how I’ve been thinking and feeling lately! Loved it ❤
Tara, I’m currently in a class where we are learning about negative self-talk. Most experiences we view as “bad” can be changed simply by reframing the way we think. I love that you set this goal. Something I’m working on as well
Congratulations on
10 years Tara. You are
definitely inspirational,
entertaining, candid, funny,
and smart. I enjoyed the
good ☕ chat.
I saw a tiktok that said to create a morning routine playlist and each song is a different thing in your morning routine (wake up, make your bed, brush your teeth, do your skincare routine, etc). I’ve found that starting my day with it has been excellent for helping me avoid my phone first thing!
I feel like you’re coming into your own because you seem much more at peace & happier overall, even with what little bit of your life you share with us. Your vibe has evolved so to speak haha idk if that makes sense ❤
Needed this kind of video today. Thank you Tara! ❤
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Girl I read “funny you should ask” because I saw your Instagram story it is now one of my favorite books too 😍
It’s a long book but an easy read. I love your book recommendations/reviews because I think we read similar things. 2022 I also got back into reading and find it has helped me mentally so much. Less phone and social media, more reading and imagination. Best wishes for you in 2023!
you always motivate me! Thx Tara. I will not go on my phone until after I'm ready for the day. I usually get up make my bed, shower, breakfast, switch the laundry throw on the dishwasher. I usually put on you tube while doing my make up. So basically get ready for the day then go on. Hope that helps!
I watch because you are my friend!! I love to know what you’re up too!!! ❤ INSPIRING, kind!!!
Hi Tara, love your vlog, it’s all the good things…positive, motivating, funny, entertaining and give a feeling of friendship. You are adored by all❤
Loved the vibe and energy of this video and your 2023 era! Makes me wanna change my life lol Can’t wait to see what this year holds for you!
Thanks for sharing your goals! It’s a big step when you begin to acknowledge the changes that you should make! Tough but thanks for inspiring!
Tara, i started watching your channel during the pandemic when my marriage started failing. You have helped inspire me to leave my ex and live my best life. Your the only youtuber i watch and i look forward to your uploads! Lots of love from the UK 🇬🇧 if you come to london for an extended period would you consider a meet and greet? i want to thankyou personally for your inspiration 😊
Using my treadmill 30 minutes a day (while watching UA-cam) has helped me lose my first 7 lbs (10 to go!) - Happy New Year
I loved the things we never got over. So good! Thank you for the tidbits on being less hard on yourself. I often fall into comparing myself to others when I should be grateful for what I have.
everything you said in your intro i've been preaching for years!
Tara, you are adorable in glasses but I’m telling you - Lasik is SOOO worth it!!!
A good stretch is an excellent way to start the day; though I usually just go straight for the coffee, tbh.
An idea for something to do in the morning: I started to write in a journal with a few prompts. I personally do (1) How am I feeling today? (2) What’s my intention for the day? (3) What am I excited for today? (4) What am I grateful for? (5) What needs to get done today? (6) Affirmations. I also have some blank space to write anything else that’s on my mind! Have been doing this for a while and it completely changed my mornings 😊
I’ve gotten away from the before 9 after 9 rule, but when I’m not grabbing my phone first thing, I start with journaling and gratitude, meditation, maybe gentle yoga and reading and coffee on the couch. I feel so good when I start my days like that!!
You can put clear lights on your olive tree to brighten up the corner like the Christmas tree did. My neighbor does it, the tree looks pretty.
Yes!! Read things we never got over!! Such an interesting book! It’s spicy but in a good way!
I'm around your age so I watch mainly because you're relatable (btw also fellow Torontonian) but also just cool to see how another person lives?? I'm not in the same tax bracket as you and don't get to travel as much (I got diagnosed with a chronic illness about a year ago and JUST NOW am starting to get back to regular life) but it's cool to get to see new places through your lens and hear different perspectives about things :). Basically like chatting with a friend every week! But above all you're inspired me to elevate my life! embrace the boujee on a budget :).
This for me was hands down my most favorite video you have ever posted. I didn't know you believe in manifestation! I'm definitely going to be writing that letter to myself, I love that idea.
"this is my year, whether the year knows it or not." this line is going on the front page of my 2023 planner!
thanks tara!
same on the skincare thing for me! sunscreen is my number one priority for my skincare routine this year! gotta do it no matter how much of a hassle it feels like
For the 9-9 phone use: find a spot outside your bedroom to put your phone over night. Buy an old school alarm clock and put your phone in it´s spot before going to bed. That way you won´t be on your phone forever in the evening and you can´t/won´t grap it first thing in the morning. I´d suggest to put your phone next to your bathroom sink, so when you get up to get it you can start your skincare routine right away and combine these to goals! I´ve been doing this for years now and it´s so helpful.
I have made that soup recipe twice now and it’s ABSOLUTELY AMAZING! ❤
You can try and use the string lights like you did in the bedroom on the living room tree to continue the cozy vibes!! 😊
I had to tell you I made that soup! it's soooo good. I even added some of the curry sauce to chili... seriously good.
I LOVED PRET when I was in London! so good!
Yes girl! Things we never got over was my first read of the year! It’s so good!
Thank you for like being my life coach 😅 you are so awesome.
Some ideas for the morning that I try to do, I like to read in the morning, drink my coffee and journal. It helps me take a step back and be in the moment for the mornings. I hope this helps ❤️ thank you for being you!
I vote for fairy lights for your olive tree 🥰 it’ll make the lack of a Christmas a little easier to take (just like your bedroom one!)
I'm another mid 50s fan:) Started watching back with the neighbour issue and stayed watching because I learned you were Canadian. I must admit I do perk up when I see you have put out another video, such positive vibes in a negative world. Even when things don't go well for you, watching you and your family turn it around, showing love and support ends up being positive. I get a kick out of seeing what your generation get up to, love your travel vlogs and enjoy watching you cook, decorate or create in your home. I used to wake up with my coffee and morning news, I do NOT recommend. lol
I can’t really do the 9-9 rule in the am because I work at 8:30 and in childcare, so often I get texts about the kids moods or sickness. But I don’t allow myself to scroll insta, TikTok or Facebook until I’m seated down for a little break during the day. You could always try that. I’m sure answering emails and such may need to be done before 9 some days? I get a headache if I lay in my bed for too long in the mornings on weekends so I get up and make coffee and then do the things!
Yay for vision boards, here's to great things ahead for everyone! :)
I’ve started reading while doing a Lizzo Treadmill Strut workout and it is the ONLY way I can get cardio. I love lifting weights but cardio is the devil (other than hiking). Reading helps me focus on something else so I’m not constantly thinking about how long I’ve been on the treadmill. I hope you love it!
Personally I watch you because I find you so relatable, there's so many points in the things you chose to share that I think are similar to my life or what I aspire to. Been watching for 5/6 years now and no complains here hahaha
I always pray & journal in the morning before I reach for my phone. ❤ I also aims to spend sometime in silence because usually it’s hard to find silence as you go about your day.
If the weather allows it also honestly any room in your house wold work but outside is amazing especially fresh hair in the morning you could sit outside with your coffee and maybe read or color and or journal.I love your videos!!🌷
Just like your bedroom (kind of) you could always add white fairy lights to your olive tree in the living room - fairy lights because they are smaller - you really don't notice them when they're off, but there when you want that little, warm glow😊✨
The first thing I like to do in the morning, is stretch….& I honestly learned this from my dog! He stretches as soon as he jumps out of bed & it just feels right😄
Things We Never Got Over is excellent! Go for it! I loved it.
I journal, gratitude and meditate before phone
Reading a book in the morning is a nice way to start the day!
I would love more "main" channel video like an in depth skin routine and travel guide!! You find so many cool spot everywhere you go!!❤❤
for your 9-9 problem: i wake up 8-8:30 am and only glance at my phone screen to make sure there's nothing pressing. if there's not (there's usually not) i just roll over and rest until im alert. i then get up and start addressing my physical needs-- get coffee, put on skin care, grab socks, put yesterday's dishes in the sink. once all that is done i'll sit down with my computer and coffee on the couch. By then it's usually 9 and I'll open up my social media if i want to, but usually i'm enjoying the calm and delay with a video until my coffee is done. It's hard to explain but social media forces you to engage and it changes the energy of the morning. I don't like to do it until I'm fully alert. Hope that helps put a media-less morning into context for you. It takes a while to break free of the "media itch", but I didn't like being driven by it. It's just your brain wanting those dopamine hits which really aren't good for you in this form.
I enjoy the small things a lot more now, and am a lot more content by myself now that the "itching" has calmed. Hope that helps!
Yay you!!! It’s going to be a great year! ❤
Nothing better than capping off a great 2 day birthday celebration like a tara vlog! Got to spend my birthday (the 16th) with my family and watched my Dallas Cowboys win against Tom Brady and his Bucs. Some of my goals for this year is to move away from the horror that is retail and into something with a better work/life ratio and to buy myself a newer more reliable vehicle for myself.
Tara, something that you might find useful that I think about all the time is this: “you shouldn’t waste your time trying to get people who are committed to misunderstanding you to see you” Love your content!!
First thing in the morning, I like to get my coffee made and sit down and read at least a chapter of my book!
I enjoyed this and feel so inspired to write down my goals and goals that I have and want for my family ❤ happy belated birthday and I can’t wait to see what 2023 brings you.
Things we never got over is so good!!!
I've set a couple of goals for myself. I want to get back into walking, I want to learn to read tarot cards and I want to get my passport. I've never does the vision board, but I do have a manifestation journal. I use it to sort out my feelings on issues and find clarity in what I want to bring into my life.
Tara can you share your mood boards, love the phone one :)
I definitely enjoyed watching this from you Tara and I totally agree with having better habits this year
In the morning I mediate on headspace for 10 mins and I downloaded the Morning! app which prompts you with three things that will make your day great and an affirmation. I also use it at night to track three things I’m grateful for and what I could of done to improve my day. I love to journal but sometimes I don’t have a ton of time so the app makes it easy to reflect quickly. 🥰
Happy New Year & welcome back Tara. You are amazing & you inspire me. 💗👍
i love the added book content lately on here and on instagram bc i've been trying to fall in love with reading again this year and it's very inspiring!!
Absolutely agree on manifestation ! Always have ! If u think it , it finds you … that and gratitude brings everything good to us ❤
love these small editing style updates! :)
I’d love to see your skin care routine! This is something I hope to do this year too.
Perfect timing starting things we never got over the second book comes out February 12th I believe! Super good book!
I'm focusing on my self too this year. Small steps to making my lifestyle healthier with more healthier snacks, starting a short workout once a week and getting out more, taking better care of my skin and a more positive mindset as I can be very pessimistic (my mum tells me off for it).
I love watching your videos, you inspire me to be a better person and love your advice you give out. Also in the morning you can sit with your coffee and read your book, be a lovely relaxing way to start the day!
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I made a vision board for the first time this year! I was inspired by your video last year to start doing it. I used the same picture of the plane window/sky when I made mine. Love that for us!
I love the 9 to 9 rule!!! That is such a good idea and something I think I need to include in my routine!
Ahhh I look forward to ur videos Tara have a great week!!!
Could you do videos on the topics of manifestation and self-love? ☺ Would love to hear about your journey and get some tips!! Would also love a tutorial on how you use your Dyson since you always manage to make your hair look good with it! These talks can be incorporated into your vlogs ofc 🥰
2023 is going to be a good year. It is exciting when we set realistic goals and so satisfying when we achieve them. I like the idea of writing a letter to yourself so you can reflect back at the end of the year. Awesome vlog Tara. Wishing you success and happiness in 2023🛍🇦🇺🥂cheers from down under
I started watching during the next door neighbor thing, and I’ve stayed for the you that you keep becoming. I hope that makes sense! Thanks for being you! If you haven’t, I’d recommend checking out Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown. :) it can be listened to as an audiobook in 8 ish hours! Sending love your way! ❤
For the 9 to 9 goal. I might be helpful to put your phone out of reach so that it’s not the first thing you do in the morning.
Instead make other things more convenient (like a gratitude journal ) that way you’ll be more inclined to engage in that activity versus scrolling through your phone
When you wake up write down your thoughts or goals for the day in a journal, do some morning stetching, read something that motivates you
so something i do every day (you can do morning or night) is think of things you're grateful for. I think of at least 5 that relate to the day i had. it can help with getting a more positive mindset. :)
I watch for the motivation and inspiration. Your content is great. Keep going ❤️
I really liked your message at the beginning Tara. I’m 23 and absolutely have no idea what the crap I’m doing and it scares me because I feel like at this point I SHOULD be doing certain things but I’m not and it’s stressful….so I liked how you explained your thoughts. Thanks for that 🥰