My guy took space and I informed him right away that he might not get me back. It's his dice roll. And I haven't spoken to him for two weeks of government forced quarantine either.
When a guy asks for space it means he is fucking around and about to dump you. If he was to space, dump him and give all the space he needs. There is no grey area here Elliot Scott.
been officially together for almost a year and he suddenly has a lot of work and stress in his life, personal problems etc, i could sense he was off in the way he texted me and spoke to me and he has asked for space, i said to him that if he wants to break up then he needs to do it now so i know where we stand and he said he doesnt know and didnt break up with me but didnt say we were okay either, he has a history of depression and says he is in a weird place and somewhere hes not been mentally in a long time not just with the relationship but his life, i have told him i am here for him and will give him space but he has not spoken to me in 2 days and im worried he will never come back but i love him, this came on so suddenly and we had a good relationship before this
If a guy tells me he wants space then I'm gone asap. Then he can have all the SPACE he wants. While I'm seeking other men to date. I refuse to wait around.
It’s like people like you deserve a breakup and eternal isolation lol. It’s crazy how so many people here are desperate for attention 24/7 and acting like they never need a space in their lives. The reasonings are not even realistic. Omg. Wait around? You just live your life like you’ve always been. Stop blaming other people if you have nothing much going around your life but a relationship. 🤷♀️
Well guess what "Elliot Scott": I am on quarantine, not working and don't know what to do with myself. So, until something changes, I will sit around, watch your video, lower my standards and wait for you to post new one without any repercussion. I am that needy to be entertained !!! And again, good job and thumps up to this video. Thank you :-)
My ex tried this sh*t we were together almost 2 yrs then all of a sudden he wanted space. I gave him his space by ending it because I wasn't gonna put up with the mind games
Wow. Space isn’t a bad thing. You really left him because he needed time to himself to think? What if you needed some space and he left u because of that? Talk about insecure. Men are human. Women are human we all need space at some point in our lives. Relationships aren’t easy your gonna have ups and downs that includes space. Rip to your bf.
@@iwonderwhatmydognamedme4000 Relationships are already hard, it's not about being insecure. It's like running away from problems in the relationship. Either that or he's seeing someone else or has other priorities. My last ex and I, we weren't together long so I think the time together matters too. He asked for it two months in and since I didn't really know him that well, that scared me and I thought he was losing interest. If that didn't trigger my insecurity with the relatoinship and how he felt, that definately did it!
Well shit...I THINK I've found my soul mate but then I started watching your vids and I think I love you too now. Haha! Your videos are seriously amazing and make me laugh and teach me DATING GOLD!! TY!!!
Well I’m IN an official relationship. He promised to talk things out about it. But he took the easy way out and wouldn’t do it on the phone and only text. Text was super vague. A completely different version of who my bf has been our entire relationship. Acting like a coward and disrespecting me like i don’t deserve a proper conversation about it.
@@rosiewordsworth7348 now you tell him you need space and he has to respect you like you respect his, girl, he's playing to see how much you tolerate, now is when you show your standards.
I'm new to online dating and there's a profile that I like. I visited and liked but no message. Is it safe to say he's not interested? Would it be too forward if I send the first message?
It depends which dating website... at some the guys didn't see who liked them. So , why not? Write to him. I found my boyfriend on one, where the girl must make the first contact. And we are very happy in a relationship since a year and planning our future together. Elliots advices work. Now I'm just watching it for entertainment. Good luck!
Girl, gotta be confident. That’s the number one thing you need to keep in mind. And, since you’re so confident, hell yeah you’re gonna message him. Why not? You ain’t got shit to lose, but potentially a whole lot to gain. You got this ❤️
@@musedonna so I messaged and nothing yet. Idk if he's online but I might not be his type. I'm sad. Since I was new to online dating, I made a fake profile to see at first with a photo of my friend who is better looking than me and he visited within hours so I think it's safe to say he doesn't like me.
@@ireefree2024 I messaged him and I have no response yet D: I might not be his type; since I'm new to online dating at first I made a fake profile with my friends photo bc she looks better than me and he visited me within hours so I think it's safe to say he doesn't like me :/
What about if you’ve been on 6 dates then pulls away .. then tells you he has leukemia ? Has had it for a while .. told me after we had been intimate .. completely goes quiet .. he tells me he really likes me, but has a shit load of stuff going on .. asked if I can be patient ? 3 days I’ve heard nothing from him … do i hang around ? What do I do .. I really liked him . I told him his illness didn’t change the way I felt about him … I’m thinking of deleteing his number so I don’t do the how are you text .. how long do you wait for a guy ?
I just had this convo with my bf tonight….we’ve been together 3 months and now he says I’m smothering him because I text him a couple times a day and want to talk on the phone at night…what the eff is that?.? I don’t understand it..he said he’ll text and call when he’s ready…he doesn’t need to hear from me everyday…I totally disagree! Should I leave the relationship? I don’t know what to do because I truly care about him and love him but I haven’t said the L word yet and glad I haven’t .
Not good advice, It doesn't matter if its a girl or a guy that asks for space, if you're in a relationship their are lots of different reasons for this, normally it's when one partner is crossing their boundaries and communication on the subject no longer works. Then give that person the gift of missing you. But communicate why you're giving space and for how long and agree on if its OK to see other people or not. Relationships are all about communication. Not this guys advice, you have to grow the hell up, if you can't go a week with out fucking somone else then you have bigger issues
If he wants space, give him the whole galaxy!!! Deuces.
Lmaoo
Yesssss
I heard that!🎉 There you go, boy!
I did just that today
When they do that; put them on the back burner. Collect 3 more options.
My guy took space and I informed him right away that he might not get me back. It's his dice roll.
And I haven't spoken to him for two weeks of government forced quarantine either.
when a guy wants a space cut it off right away and forever!
Agree with him that you need space, too, so that you can talk to the other men who are interested.
When a guy asks for space it means he is fucking around and about to dump you. If he was to space, dump him and give all the space he needs. There is no grey area here Elliot Scott.
If he even pulls away for a second he should be dropped without hesitation.
been officially together for almost a year and he suddenly has a lot of work and stress in his life, personal problems etc, i could sense he was off in the way he texted me and spoke to me and he has asked for space, i said to him that if he wants to break up then he needs to do it now so i know where we stand and he said he doesnt know and didnt break up with me but didnt say we were okay either, he has a history of depression and says he is in a weird place and somewhere hes not been mentally in a long time not just with the relationship but his life, i have told him i am here for him and will give him space but he has not spoken to me in 2 days and im worried he will never come back but i love him, this came on so suddenly and we had a good relationship before this
Hey I'm sorry to hear that. How are things with him now?
If a guy tells me he wants space then I'm gone asap. Then he can have all the SPACE he wants. While I'm seeking other men to date. I refuse to wait around.
It’s like people like you deserve a breakup and eternal isolation lol. It’s crazy how so many people here are desperate for attention 24/7 and acting like they never need a space in their lives. The reasonings are not even realistic. Omg. Wait around? You just live your life like you’ve always been. Stop blaming other people if you have nothing much going around your life but a relationship. 🤷♀️
Well guess what "Elliot Scott": I am on quarantine, not working and don't know what to do with myself. So, until something changes, I will sit around, watch your video, lower my standards and wait for you to post new one without any repercussion. I am that needy to be entertained !!! And again, good job and thumps up to this video. Thank you :-)
My ex tried this sh*t we were together almost 2 yrs then all of a sudden he wanted space. I gave him his space by ending it because I wasn't gonna put up with the mind games
Wow. Space isn’t a bad thing. You really left him because he needed time to himself to think? What if you needed some space and he left u because of that? Talk about insecure. Men are human. Women are human we all need space at some point in our lives. Relationships aren’t easy your gonna have ups and downs that includes space. Rip to your bf.
@@iwonderwhatmydognamedme4000 I gave him a space and I think he's talking to another woman ,and hes not giving me time like before what should I do
Good job for being strong and sticking to your guns.
@@iwonderwhatmydognamedme4000👾👾👾👾👾👾 After two years!? Yes, it is!
@@iwonderwhatmydognamedme4000 Relationships are already hard, it's not about being insecure. It's like running away from problems in the relationship. Either that or he's seeing someone else or has other priorities. My last ex and I, we weren't together long so I think the time together matters too. He asked for it two months in and since I didn't really know him that well, that scared me and I thought he was losing interest. If that didn't trigger my insecurity with the relatoinship and how he felt, that definately did it!
I love that he's always concerned about his hair 😁🙌
He can get all the space he wants from me now, Coronavirus it’s real -CardiB
lol
Shut up about it.
😂😂
Ahhhhh yes music to the ears Eliot saying it how it is!!!!
He’s so funny love the energy great advice
Well shit...I THINK I've found my soul mate but then I started watching your vids and I think I love you too now. Haha! Your videos are seriously amazing and make me laugh and teach me DATING GOLD!! TY!!!
You just don’t if they like you they’re not gonna want space they’ll talk to you about what they need and it isn’t space trust me
Don't wait around
Amazing tip👌
Its amazing how on point you always are.
❤️Best dating coach around❤️
Right on time!!!👍😉
Elliot!!! I watched your videos years ago when I started dating my Husband! You helped me get hitched!! Thank you! 😂🤣❤️❤️
Well I’m IN an official relationship. He promised to talk things out about it. But he took the easy way out and wouldn’t do it on the phone and only text. Text was super vague. A completely different version of who my bf has been our entire relationship. Acting like a coward and disrespecting me like i don’t deserve a proper conversation about it.
Unfortunately, that’s usually the way of it.
What if he says that he needs space because he’s going through things and in a dark place. Is that the same thing ?
any update on this?
LOL long story short , we don’t talk anymore
@@Kay-si6ifdamn
Thank you!!
Why do all men come back
Ego boost, validation, boredom, laziness, horny
I said i bye i respect your decision.
Turn it around on him and turn the tables.
This advice wins.
My guy has asked for space which I have been giving, but hes keeps texting me I dont understand what he wants
@B C maybe but I'm not waiting to be honest we were only dating so im chatting to other guys
He wants space, no texting then, tell him that and don't text him.
@@Magnoliasdiary I did do and he then text me again today to see how I was
@@rosiewordsworth7348 now you tell him you need space and he has to respect you like you respect his, girl, he's playing to see how much you tolerate, now is when you show your standards.
Ok so now do I just not reply to him n be less available
If a man wants space it means he is not into you. It’s bull shit . If he is into you you will not be able to get rid of him .
I'm new to online dating and there's a profile that I like. I visited and liked but no message. Is it safe to say he's not interested? Would it be too forward if I send the first message?
It depends which dating website... at some the guys didn't see who liked them. So , why not? Write to him. I found my boyfriend on one, where the girl must make the first contact. And we are very happy in a relationship since a year and planning our future together. Elliots advices work. Now I'm just watching it for entertainment. Good luck!
NEVER contact them first. NEVER.
Girl, gotta be confident. That’s the number one thing you need to keep in mind. And, since you’re so confident, hell yeah you’re gonna message him. Why not? You ain’t got shit to lose, but potentially a whole lot to gain. You got this ❤️
@@musedonna so I messaged and nothing yet. Idk if he's online but I might not be his type. I'm sad. Since I was new to online dating, I made a fake profile to see at first with a photo of my friend who is better looking than me and he visited within hours so I think it's safe to say he doesn't like me.
@@ireefree2024 I messaged him and I have no response yet D: I might not be his type; since I'm new to online dating at first I made a fake profile with my friends photo bc she looks better than me and he visited me within hours so I think it's safe to say he doesn't like me :/
Hi!
LOL 😂 what’s up with ur intro
WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN HE LIKES YOUR COMMENT 7MONTHS LATER?!?!!!!! EARLY IN THE MORNING?!?!! Like it’s not night time..but like...MORNING?!?!!! 😱💗
What about if you’ve been on 6 dates then pulls away .. then tells you he has leukemia ? Has had it for a while .. told me after we had been intimate .. completely goes quiet .. he tells me he really likes me, but has a shit load of stuff going on .. asked if I can be patient ? 3 days I’ve heard nothing from him … do i hang around ? What do I do .. I really liked him . I told him his illness didn’t change the way I felt about him … I’m thinking of deleteing his number so I don’t do the how are you text .. how long do you wait for a guy ?
"Put those legs up into the air"- good advice. I actually heard that doing it twice/day prevents Corona! :)
What if it’s 8 years
How do I have a session with you
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I just had this convo with my bf tonight….we’ve been together 3 months and now he says I’m smothering him because I text him a couple times a day and want to talk on the phone at night…what the eff is that?.? I don’t understand it..he said he’ll text and call when he’s ready…he doesn’t need to hear from me everyday…I totally disagree! Should I leave the relationship? I don’t know what to do because I truly care about him and love him but I haven’t said the L word yet and glad I haven’t
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Leave. He doesn’t want the same things as you. Remaining would be a waste of your time.
Not good advice, It doesn't matter if its a girl or a guy that asks for space, if you're in a relationship their are lots of different reasons for this, normally it's when one partner is crossing their boundaries and communication on the subject no longer works. Then give that person the gift of missing you. But communicate why you're giving space and for how long and agree on if its OK to see other people or not. Relationships are all about communication. Not this guys advice, you have to grow the hell up, if you can't go a week with out fucking somone else then you have bigger issues
I messaged you on Instagram. Sorry,if I was being a little overdramatic.