just finished Byron Katie's book, loving what is, and she says the same thing. every time you have a negative thought or feeling, turn it around and you'll see its actually what you are saying to yourself. it took a minute for me to wrap my head around it bc it's so easy to feel justified in your thoughts but honestly it's true. It's helped me go through a lot of childhood hurt with my parents and let it go. And as for the fear of judgement part which is terrifying for me, Im learning that if you are confident about yourself, others thoughts cannot affect you. very liberating, although it takes a conscious effort to implement. xo
The Amazing Kyle. Timeless wisdom. This advice is perfect for a month that promises to be full of surprises, of letting go (perhaps of things, relationships and judgment among them). You offered the perfect words for me to share with someone who is feeling hurt from a very harsh judgement. Thank you
so much love for this video. There have been times when I've been stressed and I watched one of your videos (or one of Infinite Waters' videos) and both of your presences are so peaceful and calm that I felt peaceful and calm. thank you :).
Omg I have the almost everything pass and have watched hundreds of your vids This one is taking directly to me My favorite, I needed to hear this so much I do this and have been on the receiving end of this What you learn is the person projecting this is you can trust them because they are unsafe to love and to love you
love this video, thank you for being in your truth, in you self. had you not done that and uploaded these videos I don't know where I would be mentally.. I always want to fix things and when I can't i never really coped well till now. again thank you
Kyle, I love your content .... I have heard a lot of transformational speakers and I loved hearing the speak but I never made me change. But your content resonated with me so much I could see the difference in my awareness the very next day. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us ! :)
There is a major difference between an opinion or what people think of you and judgement. Judgement is a good thing making a rational decision based on evidence. My comments below are a combination of both my judgement from your posts and my opinion and I mean you no harm. Thank you.
There is a major difference between an opinion or what people think of you and judgement. Judgement is a good thing making a rational decision based on evidence.
huyked Hi. No idea didn't mean to presume. Just striking a conversation. It has unfortunately become common to replace the word "opinion" with "judgement." It is more people's opinions of us we fear rather than judgment. The more judgement we are open to absorb especially about ourselves the better we become. Love Kyle but he is a bit off on this one. Love and security rarely motivates. Good judgement from others highly motivational.
No... Judgement and criticism is one of the most valuable resources for us to change. Feeling safe and loved promotes no motivation for change. If you have trouble taking judgement you still need to grow up and stop yearning for security.
just finished Byron Katie's book, loving what is, and she says the same thing. every time you have a negative thought or feeling, turn it around and you'll see its actually what you are saying to yourself. it took a minute for me to wrap my head around it bc it's so easy to feel justified in your thoughts but honestly it's true. It's helped me go through a lot of childhood hurt with my parents and let it go. And as for the fear of judgement part which is terrifying for me, Im learning that if you are confident about yourself, others thoughts cannot affect you. very liberating, although it takes a conscious effort to implement. xo
thank you for being you, I am grateful you are willing to share :)
The Amazing Kyle. Timeless wisdom. This advice is perfect for a month that promises to be full of surprises, of letting go (perhaps of things, relationships and judgment among them). You offered the perfect words for me to share with someone who is feeling hurt from a very harsh judgement. Thank you
Oh God !!!!! your words are tinkling like bells in my ears!!!!!
I love love love your spirit !!!!!!
so much love for this video. There have been times when I've been stressed and I watched one of your videos (or one of Infinite Waters' videos) and both of your presences are so peaceful and calm that I felt peaceful and calm. thank you :).
Your timing is phenomenal.
Thank you, sir
Beautiful..."right" thinking!
Love is you
You and me
Love is knowing
we can be
So true !!!! Thank you for saying it out-loud!
Omg I have the almost everything pass and have watched hundreds of your vids
This one is taking directly to me
My favorite, I needed to hear this so much
I do this and have been on the receiving end of this
What you learn is the person projecting this is you can trust them because they are unsafe to love and to love you
So helpful to find your words
You are just such a beautiful human!
Thank you for daily inspiration!
Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.
Confucius Love your content Kyle, thank you.
Thank you for sharing that. We can't all evolve and the same rate and we are learning everyday :)
Thanks for sharing that. That has helped me; as have all your great videos. 💓💓
love this video,
thank you for being in your truth, in you self.
had you not done that and uploaded these videos I don't know where I would be mentally..
I always want to fix things and when I can't i never really coped well till now.
again thank you
Kyle, I love your content .... I have heard a lot of transformational speakers and I loved hearing the speak but I never made me change. But your content resonated with me so much I could see the difference in my awareness the very next day. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us ! :)
There is a major difference between an opinion or what people think of you and judgement. Judgement is a good thing making a rational decision based on evidence. My comments below are a combination of both my judgement from your posts and my opinion and I mean you no harm. Thank you.
Very interesting. I have just talked to an acquaintance about "Judging, is it wrong?" Interesting thoughts you've shared. Thank you.
There is a major difference between an opinion or what people think of
you and judgement. Judgement is a good thing making a rational decision
based on evidence.
Good point.
I wonder what you thought my "side" was on judgment. Please answer. :) I'm curious.
huyked Hi. No idea didn't mean to presume. Just striking a conversation. It has unfortunately become common to replace the word "opinion" with "judgement." It is more people's opinions of us we fear rather than judgment. The more judgement we are open to absorb especially about ourselves the better we become. Love Kyle but he is a bit off on this one. Love and security rarely motivates. Good judgement from others highly motivational.
Yes I'm not the judge and nor jury. Thankfully.. . 😎☮️🙏
what do you believe about the law of attraction?
No... Judgement and criticism is one of the most valuable resources for us to change. Feeling safe and loved promotes no motivation for change. If you have trouble taking judgement you still need to grow up and stop yearning for security.
What are your thoughts on anarchism?
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Idk about all this. Humanity has come a long way on the back of mutual criticism and judgment.