For everyone weeping because they have a few points, try this: I got 11 points. Never had a relationship in my life. There's always someone who's got it worse than you. Remember that.
Brian Middleton This is unique - I encourage you to have a review with Lada and specifically with Lada because she has the true Vedic knowledge/understanding and will go to any extra efforts to gain a perspective of options to help one deal with this positively. Also because she can recognize any potential aspects that cancel the changes or yoga that offset them. You need - positive options, hope and generous good energies. I wish you these ! ⚛
great video! I'm glad you talk about cognitive therapy: people often think that astrology and psychology are incompatible; while they are both amazing tools to understand ourselves (sorry for my bad English :)
yr English is pretty good! Yes, Carl Jung-one of the most esteemed psychologists was using astrology extensively and based a lot of his psychological theories through astrology.
Wow, my husband has Saturn in the 7th house, and Venus with Ketu. Through dreams and experiences (and a reading by a world famous psychic) we learned he killed me in a past life by poisoning me with hemlock. It was the idea of two women that wanted to marry him (we were native Americans), but I wouldn't allow it. In this life, those women are his mother and sister. He will stop at nothing to avoid them in this lifetime. Whenever he would visit them I always felt they were scheming to kill me again, and didn't know where that feel was coming from. He is constantly put in situations where women try to tempt him and put my welfare in jeopardy. Like he has to pass a test.
Страхотно видео Лада. Не случайно винаги се вслушвам в жените когато стане въпрос за личностни отношения. Въпреки че отдавна се занимавам с астрология следя твоя канал с интерес. Тази година Раху навлиза в моя първи дом, а През лятото Юпитер в моя десети дом. Надявам се астрологията да се окаже права, ако е така ме очаква една вълнуваща година. Благодаря ти за страхотната работа която вършиш. Препоръчам те на всички които търсят отговори;) За някои хора които искат да се научат да живеят живота си правилно и да реализират потенциала си е направо безценна!
zdravei Georgi! mnogo mi stava priatno kogato niakoi intelugenten sanarodnik mi pishe! polaskana I trognata sam! Dano jupiter I rahu ti pomognat tazi godina! :)
Thank you very much Lada for this Video I thing after a engagement ho decided to be married with his ex girl friend before 47 years , after a married with a psychopathy and at the end with a Narcissus with pathetic aggressiveness I will never have any relation and stay with my son in peace .Love from Cyprus Island in Mediterranean Sea . Have a Happy New Year 💕💕💕
you learn me so much. thank u ur advice at the end meant so much to me.. am ready now to leave a harmful relationship thank u and heal my self.. I will play ur video over and over and over until it deep in to my head. I will start treat myself better.. .. thank u so much..
Thanks for this video, Lada. I wish you would create an e-course where you teach more of the advanced topics. I would pay to learn from you. I love these free lessons and while they are more basic I still learn a lot. This video was emotional for me and I appreciate you talking about difficult topics of vulnerability. I have learned so much from you so thank you.
Hi Lada! I have to say that you are absalutly a magnetic/beautiful person! I really enjoy your videos and it helped me a lot to understand myself. You are absolutly right, we need to change our "mind patterns" that are no longer working for us and to stop being victims! We need to take responsibility for our lives and change our reality, because everything is possible and the universe is infinite. And I wish you great success/abundance/happiness in your life. :) Im a scorpio asc, with sun in libra, ketu&sun in the 12 house..So I've been in hades..But I'm not giving up ;)
I have 7 points! Given how horrible I am with flirting/dating/relationships I am not surprised. Thanks for the advice, Lada, I definitely need it! Haha
Hi Lada, I absolutely love your videos. They have helped me understand quite a few things in my life. So keep up the good work! What I find interesting is that I don't have any one of those aspects, not a single one of them. However, I am on the opposite end of the spectrum, I just don't have relationships at all! I am turning 40 this year and have only had two serious relationships, one lasting 2 years and the other one, just 1 year, both with foreign men. So may be it would be interesting for you to do a video on us eternally single people!
Lada Duncheva Thank you so much for replying! It's funny you should mention that. When I use the Astrotheme calculator I have Ketu in the 7th house taurus, and venus in leo in my 10th house. But on your site I end up having Ketu in the 8th house in gemini.
Danisguela Hi Danisguela, This is strange, usually the signs position of planets should not change! Ketu changes its sign position once every 1.5 years. I am not sure what is giving a sign difference! It might be some miscalculation in the software...I hope not!
Lada Duncheva Hi Lada, I'm sorry, you are absolutely right! The sign does not change from one software to another, it is just the house. In Astrotheme, Ketu is in the 7th house in gemini and in your calculator it is in 8th house gemini. Thank you for taking the time to reply!
if I had one criticism lada and its not because I could not criticise you lada ,but I do have trouble with the diamond shape chart thing you use ,but for you lada I will persist! yes I will try to understand! thankyou lada!
9 Points and literally just went through this. Had a really fast, uncommunicative, klingy (me), experience, and it sucks! I broke it off because I couldn't take MYSELF anymore.
Read about astrology to know the week points in your personality or life so that you know how to overcome the obstacles that we all have to face. Please don't say "I am like this because of my chart" that is not an excuse, especially now that you know exactly what the problems are, you can approach them in a more mature manner. Astrology helped me when I was young and lost.
I feel so great I only have 1 point OMG I can actually believe it and the funny thing is I have already overcame it because I have already re-programmed myself with cognitive therapy and I really didn't need it. I guessed less points because I showed a better understanding of relationships in my youth and I don't fall for jerks either.
Venus and Saturn are both in Gemini (5 degree orb - not a tight conjunction,but still together) in the second house and Moon is in the 12th house (Pisces) of my birth chart. Even though its only 2 points, they seem like two big ones. I settle for soooo much less than I deserve, wait for years and years, and there is often secrecy and/or distance in my most important relationships (they seem to be more spiritual than in the tangible 3D world). I've been doing work (meditation, hypnosis, mantras, consultations with spiritual gurus, writing out my feelings) in an effort to have a more fair and FULFILLING love life. I am ready to have a love that is out of my dreams and in my car/bed/life! So, once again, thank you for the very informative video Lada.
My mom is a Virgo with a Virgo Saturn and a Virgo Venus. So her Saturn is with both her Sun and Venus. Yikes. Her Sun, Saturn, and Venus are also in her 8th house. She has a Scorpio moon too.
I got six points. Many made so much sense for me... buy the second she goes, "if Venus is in Virgo" I about fell off the couch, oh gracious of course I have that, as soon as she explained it. I really am going to look into all of this more cause it has explained so much for me in my life and helped me gain so much knowledge just of myself even...
I am a Virgo and I have both my Su and Mo with Ve at Virgo. From what you said in the video I assume that I my relationships are my weakest point. In my life I have difficulty attracting my soulmate. However the happy thing is that the relationships I had up until now were beautiful and healthy ones. But none of them ended up the way I wanted to. None of the me in my love life felt like the soulmate I am expecting. And, at some time during the relationship, I would found out that they were unavailable or to put it in other words, they were not ready for the next step. It was like they wanted something else from what I wanted, although at the beginning they said we wanted the same things. I am puzzled... Am I doing something wrong? And if so, what is it?
I only have 1 point, but my BF has 5. 😬😬😬 He is not the easiest at all to deal with. But I will say we do have many great things as well and feel the opportunity to grow as better people with each other than we have ever before. 3D relationship astrology- work on ME, they work on THEM, work on US. Both birth charts and the synastry needs to be looked at. Dont fret if you have many points, because your partner may be the illumination and transformation partner you have needed to become awakened and reborn!
Why in my birth chart the numbers of houses are "moved"? I have numbers 1-6 in upper left corner and 7-12 in down right corner. It seems that only 1 and 7 are in correct places...
I have got 3 points, Sun with Ketu, Moon with Rahu, Venus in Virgo. Lord of the 7th house Mars sits in 11 with sun, ketu. I used to attract abusive relationship and my partner was putting me down, criticizing and beating me, I had extremely low self confidence and self esteem. Thankfully, all nightmare is over, now I am alone. After learning my horoscope, things are getting a bit clear, I am paying my karmic debts.
I only had three points until you said that rahu with the sun should have three by itself. Now I have six points. Dang it, lol. Im 42 years old and have never been married and no current prospects, so there ya go.
Lada, would you say one might also have difficult relationships is Saturn's ruling signs (Capricorn, Aquarius) occupies one of the angular houses? Capricorn and Aquarius occupy my 7th house.
not necessarily, it just means that some maturation is needed in age before better relationships are allowed. Saturn's signs tend to delay things and make them a bit more hard work, but they do not hurt things as painfully as Saturn would
Oh and I have 6 points... Capricorn in my 7th house with Saturn in my 8th and Aquarius in my 8th house. Mars with Venus and Rahu in my 7th house and the sun in the 8th with Saturn.
Damn :'( Explains my life so far. I have a lot of those combinations in the houses you mentioned some in Birth chart and the rest in navamsa chart. Thing that broke my heart the most though was 9:13 ... Birth chart I have Scorpio SUN (with saturn) in the 8th house & Scorpio SUN in 6th house in navamsa chart... Whole life has been misfortune, complete hell, and loneliness and I'm just So ready to give up. Astrology helps a little, so thanks.
Hi Lada, Thank you for all of the wonderful videos! (I'm addicted to watching them and to learning from you!) I noticed that you use a book in this video that you've used in other videos as well. Is it a checklist type of book for astrology indicators? Could you please share the title if it is available? Thank you, Lora 😀
Well I scored 2pts with trauma and I hold on to memories which wasn't a surprised. My friend who is also an Aquarius like me on the other hand has a lot of issues; he went back to his ex (painful) his possible has self-esteem issues, detached, and starved.
If Saturn is with any planet no matter if it's friendly or not, saturn suppresses the energy of that planet And if Jupiter is with any planet no matter friendly or not it enhances other planets power If sun is with any planet no matter friendly or not it burns the power of other planet If Mars is with any planet no matter friendly or not it creates argument in the field where other planet is concerned
moon in 0 degree Scorpio with Venus, Uranus in 4th house.....sun sat Jupiter Pluto in 3Rd house of Libra. I guess I have 3pts. relation with siblings, groups and authority figures have been turbulent n stressful. learning to let go of my attachments to past thru forgiving/meditation.
Hi Lada, thank you for a wonderful video as always! I am just a bit confused as on your site it says my venus is in the 7th house however with 2 other astrology programmes it says 6th... one of which being astro.com which i trust very much. Which is correct or why the discrepancy? My ascendant and everything else seems the same so don't think I have entered my birth data wrong... thanks if you have a moment to explain! Felicity
Hi Felice, astro,com and many other astrology websites use the placidus house system which is a recent invention. I use the more ancient one-- whole sign house system, so if your 7th house cusp is in the same sign as Venus, Venus is considered to be affecting it, even if it is before the house cusp. How does Venus in 7th feel for you? There are more than 20 house systems, I have seen this one to work best
I am so grateful for your reply, thank you. Well I am really only a beginner in astrology so it is difficult for me to say. I would be so happy to have venus in 7th house but unfortunately I cannot say I have had a single happy relationship at age 39 so it is difficult for me to believe, and I have in fact spent most of my life single. This would also mean my moon is in 4th rather than the 5th and reading quickly about it, it unfortunately again doesn't apply as my relationship with my mother is extremely difficult, to the point that we have now not spoken in years. Of course, this could all be because of quite a lot of pluto in my chart as well as some difficult aspects like sun square moon and pluto, and moon square venus and conjunct pluto and venus quincunx mars and opposite ascendant. Yes, I think I need a proper astrology reading! In any case, imagining my venus in the 7th has made me feel very happy, after all, you only need one "the one" so perhaps he is coming :-) thank you again for your reply, and your videos, they have been more illuminating so far than countless hours of counselling and such! You are an inspiration xxx
Hi Lada.. i have been pretty impressed with your videos & knowledge on astrology .. i have a request.. why don't you make a video on Marriage & Divorces. Why do many people have 2-3 Marriages ?
hi this is a good idea! Divorce will be due to many of the same factors as in this video but multiple marriages - that is an intetesting topic! Rahu in 7th does this. Or venus in virgo, leo or cancer in d7 or d9 charts for men. or jupiter in taurus libra, virgo, gemini or capricorn in d9 or d7 for women. Also having a mutable sign on the cusp of 7th can give it. Or lord of 7th in 5th or lord of 5th in 7th (someone who falls too much in love)
Hi Lada! So... yay, I scored 7 points. I have Taurus rising, with Mars, Sun and Mercury in the 6th, Saturn-Venus conjuntion in the 8th and Moon in the 12th house. I'd like to know if having Jupiter in the 2th aspecting some of these houses might help in anyway, cause, as you can see, I need a looot of help. lol Thanks!
Yeah these are somewhat hard positions. It will make relationships harder, but this does not doom you in relationships. You can still have relationships, just you need some more work to learn to release the more negative experiences or patterns. Age improves Saturn and 6th house indications. Jupiter is helping your 7th house lord-Mars
I have got 4 points Venus in Virgo , Ketu with Venus, Sun in the same sign as a Moon, Sun is in Libra , didnt get a part Venus and Ketu? what does it mean? thank you Lada Looking great as always
Libra Sun, Scoprio Moon... Saturn in the 1st Sun with Rahu...Venus in Virgo... omg keep adding points here. This explains so much my relationships so far :D OMG! Ok now what? :D This has been so informative. Thank you so much, discovered your video yesterday and can't stop learning. Fascinating. I have nothing in the 7th house according to this chart. But what I am confused about is that houses 12, 11 are in the same triangle. Not separate and the 8th looks different on my chart, it's the triangle next to the triangle 8 showed here :) I am a bit confused.
I only got 3 points. Why do I have all the problems you describe? I suppose I'll wait till I'm older for things to resolve themselves. I'm 30 now, so in my 40's then?
have 3 as well: rahu in 7th. rahu with moon and 6th lord in 7th. have many of the problems too. But some combos r more severe than others. should have given them different points. Like rahu in an angle should be 3 points! sth else I forgot in the video: jupiter with rahu saturn mercury or venus for the horoscope of a woman, will also create problems
Thank you Lada, that makes a lot of sense. I was concerned something unnatural was happening. Knowing I can use conventional means to fix things helps a lot.
Lada Duncheva Hi Lada, what about jupiter with mercury or venus in the same house in a man's chart ? and what about lord of the 6th in the 8th or vice versa, does it count as points also ?
Lada Duncheva sorry forgot : since you're saying you should have given more points to some combinations, could you please do a short video to tell us the points we should give effectively or tell us here ? many thanks ! :)
yeah I forgot to mention that rahu or ketu in the 7th r a big indication for difficulties in relationships. this takes 3 points. venus rahu, or venus ketu or rahu gets 2
I'm confused! I'm an Aqua with a Libra asc...shouldn't my Saturn be in the 6th house and not the 7th??? The chart shows my planets one house forward from where I usually see it when I check my placements...o_O
Sun - Saturn Combust - same degree 10th Moon - Ketu 1st H Moon 1st cusp 2nd - may have escaped this one - it is opposite Libra/Scorp 7/8 Pisces Asc. .5 points lol My generation's Pluto in 6th. My son has Venus and Mars in 8th - Venus lower degree. Venus conjunct Saturn but in different signs/houses by a hair. My Ke/Ra are 1 - 7 that pretty much makes a statement. But only 3.5 points - but soother influences and aspects involve Narcissist Personality Disorder in family and others relationships. But have figured this out and moved forward.
please analyse my chart Asc 18:37 Cancer Sun 28:51 Cancer Moon 15:34 Leo Mars 23:07 Libra Mercur 24:55 Cancer Jupiter01:17 Scorpio Venus 01:34 Cancer Saturn 16:24 Libra Rahu 13:19 Cancer Ketu 13:19 Capricorn Uranus 00:43 Sagiarius Neptune24:47 Sagiarius Pluto 24:12 Libra Sun, Me, Ra Ve in 1st house - Cancer Sa, Ma and Pl in 4th house - Libra Ju - 5th house - Scorpio Ur, Ne - sg Ke - 7th house - Cp Please help to look at m marital life. I am having difficulties. What are the remedies?
Thank you this was excellent. When you say Venus with Rahu, does it need to be in the same sign or the same house? My Venus is in Sag. in the 4th, and my Rahu is in Capricorn in the 4th. My Saturn's in the 10th in Placidus. I've been in am unbalanced relationship for 12 years. I'm finally starting to wake up and realize I'm worth being respected! My Sun is in Libra in the 2nd house. I'm very attracted to older men, also. Maybe that's my Saturn ruling my 5th house.
Hi Lada, what happens if my lover boy has this type of placements and I don't have. will that affect me after the marriage? ofcourse we do have pblms now, but that gets solved then and then. what about after marriage?
hi, i have sun mercury in aries in 7th house, saturn venus in 8th house. my husband has sun venus rahu in 5th house in aquarius, saturn in aries in 7th house. we have been married for 17 years with lot of arguments drama and has addiction to alcohol. does it imply steadiness now or same continues.
Who wants to be young - everything gets better, especially with difficult planet positions, when you get older!
I have 2 points, but I am very picky with people, I tend to stay away from people that take my energy.
Omg same i got 2 and im damn picky
I stay away from ppl as much as possible
For everyone weeping because they have a few points, try this:
I got 11 points. Never had a relationship in my life.
There's always someone who's got it worse than you. Remember that.
omg
Brian Middleton
This is unique -
I encourage you to have a review with Lada and specifically with Lada because she has the true Vedic knowledge/understanding and will go to any extra efforts to gain a perspective of options to help one deal with this positively.
Also because she can recognize any potential aspects that cancel the changes or yoga that offset them.
You need - positive options, hope and generous good energies.
I wish you these ! ⚛
Maybe there is a reason why you are single? Astrology doesn't make things happen you know.
🤗🤗🤗
oh dear...and I thought I had it bad... had many short ones ahhaha
Your Aries bravery with yourself is so beneficial to All :) blessings Lada
xo
oh thank u so much! :)
great video! I'm glad you talk about cognitive therapy: people often think that astrology and psychology are incompatible; while they are both amazing tools to understand ourselves (sorry for my bad English :)
yr English is pretty good! Yes, Carl Jung-one of the most esteemed psychologists was using astrology extensively and based a lot of his psychological theories through astrology.
7 freaking points. wonderful! :D
Wow, my husband has Saturn in the 7th house, and Venus with Ketu. Through dreams and experiences (and a reading by a world famous psychic) we learned he killed me in a past life by poisoning me with hemlock. It was the idea of two women that wanted to marry him (we were native Americans), but I wouldn't allow it. In this life, those women are his mother and sister. He will stop at nothing to avoid them in this lifetime. Whenever he would visit them I always felt they were scheming to kill me again, and didn't know where that feel was coming from. He is constantly put in situations where women try to tempt him and put my welfare in jeopardy. Like he has to pass a test.
Can you give me the name of the world class psychic i would love to know why i am in my current relationship as well as my family karma .
Pauline Stapleton you can simply make past life regressions. By yourself or with coach. Its even more interesting then let someone make it
If your still alive leave.
Barouches1 wow what an amazing story! Thanks for sharing it helps me put some things into perspective
Don X thanks for sharing will do
Страхотно видео Лада. Не случайно винаги се вслушвам в жените когато стане въпрос за личностни отношения. Въпреки че отдавна се занимавам с астрология следя твоя канал с интерес. Тази година Раху навлиза в моя първи дом, а През лятото Юпитер в моя десети дом. Надявам се астрологията да се окаже права, ако е така ме очаква една вълнуваща година. Благодаря ти за страхотната работа която вършиш. Препоръчам те на всички които търсят отговори;) За някои хора които искат да се научат да живеят живота си правилно и да реализират потенциала си е направо безценна!
zdravei Georgi! mnogo mi stava priatno kogato niakoi intelugenten sanarodnik mi pishe! polaskana I trognata sam! Dano jupiter I rahu ti pomognat tazi godina! :)
my god ! lada! you look absolutely stunning ! I have said it before ,and will say it again! you are just sooooo beautiful and smart! .......amazing!
well now i know why all my relationships suck. 9 points
Thank you very much Lada for this Video I thing after a engagement ho decided to be married with his ex girl friend before 47 years , after a married with a psychopathy and at the end with a Narcissus with pathetic aggressiveness I will never have any relation and stay with my son in peace .Love from Cyprus Island in Mediterranean Sea . Have a Happy New Year 💕💕💕
you learn me so much. thank u ur advice at the end meant so much to me.. am ready now to leave a harmful relationship thank u and heal my self.. I will play ur video over and over and over until it deep in to my head. I will start treat myself better.. .. thank u so much..
Oh never mind, I had to do my chart on your sight! Now I got it! Thank you Lada!!!!
I love your videos. Please continue what you are doing. May your life be filled with joy and luck!
Thanks for this video, Lada. I wish you would create an e-course where you teach more of the advanced topics. I would pay to learn from you. I love these free lessons and while they are more basic I still learn a lot. This video was emotional for me and I appreciate you talking about difficult topics of vulnerability. I have learned so much from you so thank you.
Hi Lada! I have to say that you are absalutly a magnetic/beautiful person! I really enjoy your videos and it helped me a lot to understand myself. You are absolutly right, we need to change our "mind patterns" that are no longer working for us and to stop being victims! We need to take responsibility for our lives and change our reality, because everything is possible and the universe is infinite. And I wish you great success/abundance/happiness in your life. :)
Im a scorpio asc, with sun in libra, ketu&sun in the 12 house..So I've been in hades..But I'm not giving up ;)
Thank you Lily! Don't worry, there many like us!
im the same only rahu not ketu in 12th ive 5 points but my moon is in the 7th house in taurus so maybe that helps balance it out
Thank you Lada. You are such a mentor. ! I have learnt a lot from you and have much respect for you. Thank you again .
I just scored 1 and yet things have been so hard. This is informative tho
Same for me..
Same for me too! Maybe because it’s my Vargottama Scorpio Moon ☹️
Thank you Lada! This provides a lot of understanding!
I have 7 points! Given how horrible I am with flirting/dating/relationships I am not surprised. Thanks for the advice, Lada, I definitely need it! Haha
3pts. You've helped me tremendously. Thanks
I honestly thought I was doomed in love with Venus in the 12th but I made it out of this video alive with only 3 points. I can live with that.
Jovee1982 I have venus in 12th house but it’s in pieces so I’m good.
12th house is not bad for venus
wow, I didn't get any points at all.
Hi Lada, I absolutely love your videos. They have helped me understand quite a few things in my life. So keep up the good work!
What I find interesting is that I don't have any one of those aspects, not a single one of them. However, I am on the opposite end of the spectrum, I just don't have relationships at all! I am turning 40 this year and have only had two serious relationships, one lasting 2 years and the other one, just 1 year, both with foreign men. So may be it would be interesting for you to do a video on us eternally single people!
Rahu or Ketu in 7th house by any chance? usually the 7th house lord can be involved with some planet too
Lada Duncheva
Thank you so much for replying! It's funny you should mention that. When I use the Astrotheme calculator I have Ketu in the 7th house taurus, and venus in leo in my 10th house. But on your site I end up having Ketu in the 8th house in gemini.
Danisguela Hi Danisguela, This is strange, usually the signs position of planets should not change! Ketu changes its sign position once every 1.5 years. I am not sure what is giving a sign difference! It might be some miscalculation in the software...I hope not!
Lada Duncheva
Hi Lada, I'm sorry, you are absolutely right! The sign does not change from one software to another, it is just the house. In Astrotheme, Ketu is in the 7th house in gemini and in your calculator it is in 8th house gemini. Thank you for taking the time to reply!
Thanks a lot Lada for your very informative video (as usual, they all are) !!
I just love all of your videos!!!!!!👍👍👍💝💗💜💛💚💙
Thank you!! :)
Thank you so much for this.
if I had one criticism lada and its not because I could not criticise you lada ,but I do have trouble with the diamond shape chart thing you use ,but for you lada I will persist! yes I will try to understand! thankyou lada!
This is why I'm a loner and have difficult relationship with other people! 5 points!
9 Points and literally just went through this. Had a really fast, uncommunicative, klingy (me), experience, and it sucks! I broke it off because I couldn't take MYSELF anymore.
Read about astrology to know the week points in your personality or life so that you know how to overcome the obstacles that we all have to face. Please don't say "I am like this because of my chart" that is not an excuse, especially now that you know exactly what the problems are, you can approach them in a more mature manner. Astrology helped me when I was young and lost.
This was an amazing tutorial! I have learnt so much! I only have one difficulty and that is the Sun in my 12th house
I feel so great I only have 1 point OMG I can actually believe it and the funny thing is I have already overcame it because I have already re-programmed myself with cognitive therapy and I really didn't need it. I guessed less points because I showed a better understanding of relationships in my youth and I don't fall for jerks either.
Love life, life is good.
Venus and Saturn are both in Gemini (5 degree orb - not a tight conjunction,but still together) in the second house and Moon is in the 12th house (Pisces) of my birth chart. Even though its only 2 points, they seem like two big ones. I settle for soooo much less than I deserve, wait for years and years, and there is often secrecy and/or distance in my most important relationships (they seem to be more spiritual than in the tangible 3D world). I've been doing work (meditation, hypnosis, mantras, consultations with spiritual gurus, writing out my feelings) in an effort to have a more fair and FULFILLING love life. I am ready to have a love that is out of my dreams and in my car/bed/life! So, once again, thank you for the very informative video Lada.
My mom is a Virgo with a Virgo Saturn and a Virgo Venus. So her Saturn is with both her Sun and Venus. Yikes. Her Sun, Saturn, and Venus are also in her 8th house. She has a Scorpio moon too.
hope she’s good
I got six points. Many made so much sense for me... buy the second she goes, "if Venus is in Virgo" I about fell off the couch, oh gracious of course I have that, as soon as she explained it. I really am going to look into all of this more cause it has explained so much for me in my life and helped me gain so much knowledge just of myself even...
+Heather Holder but still you seem to be happy in love, if I see the picture :)
I only got 2 points :')
Excellent!!! I learned alot! wish I knew this when I was younger.
Superb video! Very informative! cheers
I am a Virgo and I have both my Su and Mo with Ve at Virgo. From what you said in the video I assume that I my relationships are my weakest point. In my life I have difficulty attracting my soulmate. However the happy thing is that the relationships I had up until now were beautiful and healthy ones. But none of them ended up the way I wanted to. None of the me in my love life felt like the soulmate I am expecting. And, at some time during the relationship, I would found out that they were unavailable or to put it in other words, they were not ready for the next step. It was like they wanted something else from what I wanted, although at the beginning they said we wanted the same things. I am puzzled... Am I doing something wrong? And if so, what is it?
Outstanding outstanding outstanding contribution performance maam.
I only have 1 point, but my BF has 5. 😬😬😬 He is not the easiest at all to deal with. But I will say we do have many great things as well and feel the opportunity to grow as better people with each other than we have ever before.
3D relationship astrology- work on ME, they work on THEM, work on US. Both birth charts and the synastry needs to be looked at. Dont fret if you have many points, because your partner may be the illumination and transformation partner you have needed to become awakened and reborn!
Lada, I have 9 points. 12 Oct 1977, Detroit, MI, 16:23 EDT.
+Brian M. you have my sympathies lol
Sun with rahu
Moon with Saturn
Sun in 12th house
Moon in 8th house
Venus with Rahu
Venus in Virgo
2 points: Sun- Libra, Sun & Ke
Why in my birth chart the numbers of houses are "moved"? I have numbers 1-6 in upper left corner and 7-12 in down right corner. It seems that only 1 and 7 are in correct places...
1stMoinx mine is too. Trying to understand all of this is difficult enuf - now I realize my chart is complete OFF ughhhh!
What is MeR? I have this with my Sun and I don't know what it is. Me is Mercury. But what is MeR?
MeR is Mercury retrograde, You have a retro Mercury, which is usually stronger--the mind and rational/analysing abilities of the mind are stronger
I have got 3 points, Sun with Ketu, Moon with Rahu, Venus in Virgo. Lord of the 7th house Mars sits in 11 with sun, ketu. I used to attract abusive relationship and my partner was putting me down, criticizing and beating me, I had extremely low self confidence and self esteem. Thankfully, all nightmare is over, now I am alone. After learning my horoscope, things are getting a bit clear, I am paying my karmic debts.
thank you, you work is a joy!
I only had three points until you said that rahu with the sun should have three by itself. Now I have six points. Dang it, lol. Im 42 years old and have never been married and no current prospects, so there ya go.
So many points lol at least this explains a lot! Thanks Lada!
My birthday is on Oct. 23 in 1994. Ive always identified as a Scorpio. Even though I am born on that day I feel more like a Scorpio.
Just have 1 point (Saturn in 10th house in Aquarius) from this video but still it has been tough ,probably coz of Rahu in the 7th house.
Lada, would you say one might also have difficult relationships is Saturn's ruling signs (Capricorn, Aquarius) occupies one of the angular houses? Capricorn and Aquarius occupy my 7th house.
not necessarily, it just means that some maturation is needed in age before better relationships are allowed. Saturn's signs tend to delay things and make them a bit more hard work, but they do not hurt things as painfully as Saturn would
Thank you so much. I feel doomed sometimes having this in my chart. You've given me hope!
Oh and I have 6 points... Capricorn in my 7th house with Saturn in my 8th and Aquarius in my 8th house. Mars with Venus and Rahu in my 7th house and the sun in the 8th with Saturn.
Lada, I'm not sure I understood you. Are you talking about houses or signs? Signs, alright. The system you chose here is Vedic or Western tropical?
Damn :'( Explains my life so far. I have a lot of those combinations in the houses you mentioned some in Birth chart and the rest in navamsa chart. Thing that broke my heart the most though was 9:13 ... Birth chart I have Scorpio SUN (with saturn) in the 8th house & Scorpio SUN in 6th house in navamsa chart... Whole life has been misfortune, complete hell, and loneliness and I'm just So ready to give up. Astrology helps a little, so thanks.
love you lada .....
you are gifted .... celebrate that ... thank you for sharing your insights .....
namaste 🙏🙏🙏
Hey Lada I am waiting for the June month's horoscope for cancer & leo. Hurry up !!
will try to do them within a week! :) Too much to do!
Got 2 points 🤪😳👍
Nd im so damn picky, i dont just trust ppl easily (maybe cz saturn in 1st house energy 😂 )
It's so informative but also so confusing.
Hi Lada, Thank you for all of the wonderful videos! (I'm addicted to watching them and to learning from you!) I noticed that you use a book in this video that you've used in other videos as well. Is it a checklist type of book for astrology indicators? Could you please share the title if it is available? Thank you, Lora 😀
Well I scored 2pts with trauma and I hold on to memories which wasn't a surprised. My friend who is also an Aquarius like me on the other hand has a lot of issues; he went back to his ex (painful) his possible has self-esteem issues, detached, and starved.
but aren't Venus and Saturn friends in vedic?
If Saturn is with any planet no matter if it's friendly or not, saturn suppresses the energy of that planet
And if Jupiter is with any planet no matter friendly or not it enhances other planets power
If sun is with any planet no matter friendly or not it burns the power of other planet
If Mars is with any planet no matter friendly or not it creates argument in the field where other planet is concerned
@@Chetanashukla108 yes except Venus and Saturn are friends in the Vedic system but not in Western
What about 7th house cusp scorpio with Pluto in the 7th + Mars in the 11th?
I’m confused on Raghu and Ketu what does that mean and how do I find out what mine is? Is it translation for moon and sun?
Thank you 😊
What about degrees of planets?
If Venus in 10th house at 12.6 degree and Saturn in 4rth house also at 12.6 degree both are in opposition?
Thank you, lada. :)
Are these techniques for Vedic only?
Do trines, sextiles and other softer aspects count?
moon in 0 degree Scorpio with Venus, Uranus in 4th house.....sun sat Jupiter Pluto in 3Rd house of Libra. I guess I have 3pts. relation with siblings, groups and authority figures have been turbulent n stressful. learning to let go of my attachments to past thru forgiving/meditation.
Hi Lada, thank you for a wonderful video as always! I am just a bit confused as on your site it says my venus is in the 7th house however with 2 other astrology programmes it says 6th... one of which being astro.com which i trust very much. Which is correct or why the discrepancy? My ascendant and everything else seems the same so don't think I have entered my birth data wrong... thanks if you have a moment to explain! Felicity
Hi Felice, astro,com and many other astrology websites use the placidus house system which is a recent invention. I use the more ancient one-- whole sign house system, so if your 7th house cusp is in the same sign as Venus, Venus is considered to be affecting it, even if it is before the house cusp. How does Venus in 7th feel for you? There are more than 20 house systems, I have seen this one to work best
I am so grateful for your reply, thank you. Well I am really only a beginner in astrology so it is difficult for me to say. I would be so happy to have venus in 7th house but unfortunately I cannot say I have had a single happy relationship at age 39 so it is difficult for me to believe, and I have in fact spent most of my life single. This would also mean my moon is in 4th rather than the 5th and reading quickly about it, it unfortunately again doesn't apply as my relationship with my mother is extremely difficult, to the point that we have now not spoken in years. Of course, this could all be because of quite a lot of pluto in my chart as well as some difficult aspects like sun square moon and pluto, and moon square venus and conjunct pluto and venus quincunx mars and opposite ascendant. Yes, I think I need a proper astrology reading! In any case, imagining my venus in the 7th has made me feel very happy, after all, you only need one "the one" so perhaps he is coming :-) thank you again for your reply, and your videos, they have been more illuminating so far than countless hours of counselling and such! You are an inspiration xxx
ps: perhaps this will be the birth of my venus :-)
Oh my moon is square rahu and saturn is near the 4 on your chart so I guess that would explain a lot too!
Hi Lada.. i have been pretty impressed with your videos & knowledge on astrology .. i have a request.. why don't you make a video on Marriage & Divorces. Why do many people have 2-3 Marriages ?
hi this is a good idea! Divorce will be due to many of the same factors as in this video but multiple marriages - that is an intetesting topic! Rahu in 7th does this. Or venus in virgo, leo or cancer in d7 or d9 charts for men. or jupiter in taurus libra, virgo, gemini or capricorn in d9 or d7 for women. Also having a mutable sign on the cusp of 7th can give it. Or lord of 7th in 5th or lord of 5th in 7th (someone who falls too much in love)
Venus with Ketu and sun with moon
I think Retrograde Venus Should also be included.
Very interesting.. thank you for the help! :)
I got 5 points.
Oh well...
Thank You, Lada ... You're great, I only have one point ;) LOL!
Hi Lada! So... yay, I scored 7 points. I have Taurus rising, with Mars, Sun and Mercury in the 6th, Saturn-Venus conjuntion in the 8th and Moon in the 12th house. I'd like to know if having Jupiter in the 2th aspecting some of these houses might help in anyway, cause, as you can see, I need a looot of help. lol Thanks!
Yeah these are somewhat hard positions. It will make relationships harder, but this does not doom you in relationships. You can still have relationships, just you need some more work to learn to release the more negative experiences or patterns. Age improves Saturn and 6th house indications. Jupiter is helping your 7th house lord-Mars
Lada Duncheva Thanks a lot!
Hi Lada, I can't seem to see the cusp chart on your website, the screen cuts that bit off... It may be because I'm on my iPhone...
I have 2 point...but I have Pluto, Saturn, and Ketu together...they are also in the 7th house. its been quite a life.
I have got 4 points Venus in Virgo , Ketu with Venus, Sun in the same sign as a Moon, Sun is in Libra , didnt get a part Venus and Ketu? what does it mean? thank you Lada Looking great as always
How z ur love life
Libra Sun, Scoprio Moon... Saturn in the 1st Sun with Rahu...Venus in Virgo... omg keep adding points here. This explains so much my relationships so far :D OMG! Ok now what? :D This has been so informative. Thank you so much, discovered your video yesterday and can't stop learning. Fascinating. I have nothing in the 7th house according to this chart. But what I am confused about is that houses 12, 11 are in the same triangle. Not separate and the 8th looks different on my chart, it's the triangle next to the triangle 8 showed here :) I am a bit confused.
I only got 3 points. Why do I have all the problems you describe? I suppose I'll wait till I'm older for things to resolve themselves. I'm 30 now, so in my 40's then?
have 3 as well: rahu in 7th. rahu with moon and 6th lord in 7th. have many of the problems too. But some combos r more severe than others. should have given them different points. Like rahu in an angle should be 3 points! sth else I forgot in the video: jupiter with rahu saturn mercury or venus for the horoscope of a woman, will also create problems
Thank you Lada, that makes a lot of sense. I was concerned something unnatural was happening. Knowing I can use conventional means to fix things helps a lot.
Lada Duncheva Hi Lada, what about jupiter with mercury or venus in the same house in a man's chart ?
and what about lord of the 6th in the 8th or vice versa, does it count as points also ?
Lada Duncheva sorry forgot : since you're saying you should have given more points to some combinations, could you please do a short video to tell us the points we should give effectively or tell us here ? many thanks ! :)
yeah I forgot to mention that rahu or ketu in the 7th r a big indication for difficulties in relationships. this takes 3 points. venus rahu, or venus ketu or rahu gets 2
Great video, Lada. Just watched it again Is there significance if both my husband and I have the lord of the twelth in the eigth?
It is not so connected to relationships...
Is this theory applicable to the divisional charts?
just for the house rulerships not the conjunctions and aspects
I have Saturn Virgo in my first house but close to the second cusp. Does it still count? Can that Saturn vibration still be felt by others?
Nobody can tell me what sign in horoscope its Dubai and UAE ? HOW TO KNOW ?🤷♀️
I'm confused! I'm an Aqua with a Libra asc...shouldn't my Saturn be in the 6th house and not the 7th??? The chart shows my planets one house forward from where I usually see it when I check my placements...o_O
Sun - Saturn Combust - same degree 10th
Moon - Ketu 1st H
Moon 1st cusp 2nd - may have escaped this one - it is opposite Libra/Scorp 7/8
Pisces Asc. .5 points lol
My generation's Pluto in 6th.
My son has Venus and Mars in 8th - Venus lower degree.
Venus conjunct Saturn but in different signs/houses by a hair.
My Ke/Ra are 1 - 7 that pretty much makes a statement.
But only 3.5 points - but soother influences and aspects involve Narcissist Personality Disorder in family and others relationships.
But have figured this out and moved forward.
please analyse my chart Asc 18:37 Cancer
Sun 28:51 Cancer
Moon 15:34 Leo
Mars 23:07 Libra
Mercur 24:55 Cancer
Jupiter01:17 Scorpio
Venus 01:34 Cancer
Saturn 16:24 Libra
Rahu 13:19 Cancer
Ketu 13:19 Capricorn
Uranus 00:43 Sagiarius
Neptune24:47 Sagiarius
Pluto 24:12 Libra
Sun, Me, Ra Ve in 1st house - Cancer
Sa, Ma and Pl in 4th house - Libra
Ju - 5th house - Scorpio
Ur, Ne - sg
Ke - 7th house - Cp
Please help to look at m marital life. I am having difficulties. What are the remedies?
Lots of thanks & love ... Thank you
I scored 1, moon in scorpio ,,, & its hell
what if the sun is in the moons house, an angular house.. with saturn. does it get a point for sun with being in moons house.
I have the sun ,Mars and rahu in the 6th house, Saturnand venus in the 4th house with pieces . What does that mean for my relationship?
Pls explain dear Lada, why 23 September on your website shows virgo sun sign instead of libra?
Thank you this was excellent. When you say Venus with Rahu, does it need to be in the same sign or the same house? My Venus is in Sag. in the 4th, and my Rahu is in Capricorn in the 4th. My Saturn's in the 10th in Placidus.
I've been in am unbalanced relationship for 12 years. I'm finally starting to wake up and realize I'm worth being respected! My Sun is in Libra in the 2nd house. I'm very attracted to older men, also. Maybe that's my Saturn ruling my 5th house.
Hi, just look at it if they are in the same sign or if they are in different signs they need to be within 6-7 degree orb from each other
Lada Duncheva
Ok, thanks.
NN. is 0 degrees and Venus is 10 degrees. I'm not much of an orb reader I guess.
Hi Lada,
what happens if my lover boy has this type of placements and I don't have. will that affect me after the marriage? ofcourse we do have pblms now, but that gets solved then and then. what about after marriage?
hi, i have sun mercury in aries in 7th house, saturn venus in 8th house. my husband has sun venus rahu in 5th house in aquarius, saturn in aries in 7th house. we have been married for 17 years with lot of arguments drama and has addiction to alcohol. does it imply steadiness now or same continues.