How to Deal With Losing A Loved One

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  • @philcofer55
    @philcofer55  Рік тому +509

    God I pray you continue to comfort and strengthen each and everybody. I pray you show them the peace that passes our understanding. In Jesus name. Amen.

    • @NiaaVods
      @NiaaVods Рік тому +7

      Amen 🙏🏽 Yahweh the most high is the way!!!

    • @aalezaibi113
      @aalezaibi113 Рік тому +2

      In Jesus name 🙏 🙌

    • @assertive415
      @assertive415 Рік тому

      Keep motivating me gang luh yah ❤️❤️💯

    • @StelarW02
      @StelarW02 Рік тому +2

      Amen 🙏🏾 stay blessed. God is Good all the time

    • @jasminefoster9506
      @jasminefoster9506 Рік тому +2

      I lost my aunt few days after my 21st birthday in March I feel sane way but the only thing kept me stronger is God himself thank u so much for doing this video. God bless you 🖤🤎🙏🏽

  • @davidrectorthesinger
    @davidrectorthesinger Рік тому +44

    My mother passed in March and it was the most wonderful experience. She was 99 3/4. She was tired. Working with my mother as she transitioned was a once in a lifetime experience. I loved sitting with her every day. She'd hold my hand and I was so blessed to have such a great Mom. I didn't and don't have any regrets. I never lost my Mom, I embraced the greatness of God when God says this body and mind have to move on. The spirit was telling my Mom, "You're body and mind are tired. Trust me and let me take over from here." No regrets. I didn't lose my Mom. I found an angel.

    • @Jordansadie8
      @Jordansadie8 11 місяців тому +1

      🥲♥️🥰🙏🏽

  • @ms.sharon.7581
    @ms.sharon.7581 Рік тому +27

    Lost my dad three weeks ago, buried him a week later. We are six adult siblings, came to Canada from the Caribbean hard working poor ppl. My dad had kidney disease, my mother has Alzheimer’s. Our father was the patriarch of our family, a strong proud man that was brought down due to his kidneys not functioning. I went to see him everyday in the hospital, feeding, cleaning and talking to him. I was on my way up to his room on July 17th. when my bro called to say he passed. We buried him the week after. I miss him everyday. Don’t take your parents for granted death will come to your door one day. I hate that word “ condolences” hate hearing it. We all miss him every day. He’s no longer suffering. I’m having a hard time enjoying things, do I have the right to be happy again? One day at a time. We miss you Da.

  • @Alexisc29
    @Alexisc29 Рік тому +49

    When my heart is overwhelmed lead me to the rock that is higher than I. -Psalm 61:2 💚❤️‍🩹

  • @jamesfountainjr.6661
    @jamesfountainjr.6661 Рік тому +53

    You always say this UA-cam is bigger than the numbers, the followers, because this is your ministry bruh. Keep encouraging and telling people about God. This generation needs it.❤

    • @saraissza
      @saraissza Рік тому

      This! 👏🏼😩

    • @yoyo2182
      @yoyo2182 11 місяців тому

      Amen 🙏 period 💯

  • @thenaddtax
    @thenaddtax Рік тому +23

    We buried my mother yesterday now both my parents are gone so to see this today helped.

  • @ellebeauty8737
    @ellebeauty8737 Рік тому +39

    I lost my only brother in March, he was 24. I feel you, the pain is unmatched. Praying for all of us.

    • @tanyacain8147
      @tanyacain8147 Рік тому +2

      🙏

    • @eaadams3862
      @eaadams3862 Рік тому +2

      🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @SharlaANTONIA
      @SharlaANTONIA Рік тому +2

      😔 my deepest condolences 😢I will definitely keep you and us all in prayers. Love you ❤

    • @eaadams3862
      @eaadams3862 Рік тому +1

      Thank you. May
      God continues to bless us all and keep us strong and strengthened, us ALL in the areas in our lives where we may be weak and unaware. We may continue on this journey with GOD seeking more knowledge and understanding and wisdom and more love in truth and spirit. Shalom🙏🏾❤️
      God bless you,@@SharlaANTONIA

  • @arose1111
    @arose1111 Рік тому +42

    RIP to the person that lost his uncle! 💖🙏. RIP to your uncle too and parents you had lost as well! And your grandparents Phil!🙏💕💖✝️. I lost my mother 14yrs ago. I definitely know she is with God. God is always Good! What you are saying is so true. I feel like we all go through things because we are not perfect by no means. I am always learning and growing. 🙏✝️💕

  • @christdid1
    @christdid1 Рік тому +18

    I lost my brother 1 year ago and i tried ignoring my emotions and keep telling myself that it's all my fault. People stood by myside only when he passed but God was with me all the way through. 💯

  • @overpowered_gain9303
    @overpowered_gain9303 Рік тому +28

    Phil you are a man from god you are a gift I can’t even explain .

  • @lolm6264
    @lolm6264 Рік тому +7

    I lost my mom to Covid and i still haven't come to Grip with her being gone .I really miss her so much.

    • @ebonywinn50
      @ebonywinn50 10 місяців тому +1

      Sorry for your loss 🙏🏾

  • @Billyjrusaf
    @Billyjrusaf Рік тому +6

    I lost my Mom a 10 months ago and today is her birthday. I believe this video came to me for a reason. Thanks for sharing I’ve been a subscriber for a while.

  • @lovegodschild1430
    @lovegodschild1430 Рік тому +2

    I wish I could hug you 🥺 sorry you lost so many people you love from your content they raised a great man🙏🏿

  • @lwallace3842
    @lwallace3842 Рік тому +3

    I felt the same. I lost 6 people within 5 years.
    First my mom, next 2 Aunts, an Uncle, my honey he was a good man (will be 3 years on the 9/21st of this month), and my son (was 44 years old) passed on 7/25.
    I am now raising his youngest son. He was 8 years old when his dad passed he turned 9 years on August 24. It was his first birthday without his dad.
    Yes! It is being alone by
    yourself that is most difficult…..his dad/my son would be having a birthday on 9/12. 😭😭😭😭
    It hurts to have lost a child I miss him ver much.
    I did ask so many questions I an still waiting to hear from the coroner’s office as to what caused my son’s death besides the fact his Uncle never called 911 (as far as I am concerned he killed my son).😭😭 he left town thank God because there is no telling what I might have done.
    Please keep my grandson in prayers. I can use some prayers too but my grandson need more.❤

  • @lisaartistry289
    @lisaartistry289 Рік тому +9

    Grief is definately a life long journey. I learned from grief is greater amounts of self love, as we mourn others gone too soon. I truly believe that. Being widowed, watching my mother become a widow recently and other huge unfortunate passings( it’s not about me) but, the oil of joy for mourning and the garment of praise for the spirit of dispair. I pray for all of us watching our loved leave too soon. I’m glad you found your nowhere Phil Cofer.. thank you . Visiting AZ I took some amazing photos, your nowhere place reminds me of them.
    Shalom 🫶🏽🦉🦋🙏

    • @hassan-ph5hk
      @hassan-ph5hk Рік тому +2

      we for sure don’t move on from grief, we move forward with it! it can be tough but i hope God gives you and your family peace for all the losses. 🙏

    • @lisaartistry289
      @lisaartistry289 Рік тому

      @@hassan-ph5hk thank you

  • @lneal2800
    @lneal2800 Рік тому +22

    Phil you are special is so many ways! This touched my heart i lost both of parents my mother to cancer 2014 and my dad a lil before. I appreciate this and thanks for sharing❤🙏🏽

  • @ScottBurnhard
    @ScottBurnhard Рік тому +9

    Damn bro this video was heart-felt and hit right at home definitely no greater feeling of hurt loosing a love one.....

  • @ericalreeves
    @ericalreeves Рік тому +10

    This was right on time. I lost my brother August 2nd due to an accidental drowning and he was only 23. I miss him so much, but I know he would want me to remain strong and keep pushing 💗

    • @emmakate2376
      @emmakate2376 Рік тому

      losing someone is a tragic way is so painful. I am sending you much love and strength during this time for you 🫶🏼

    • @ebonywinn50
      @ebonywinn50 10 місяців тому

      Sorry for your family’s loss 🙏🏾

  • @agnieszkasadalska2727
    @agnieszkasadalska2727 Рік тому +2

    It is inevitable that we will lose someone at some point in our lives. We have to go thru hard time for better one to come. Tears r very healing and pain is part of process of healing. We should appreciate every moment in our lives with our loved ones. Yesterday has gone, tomorrow may will never come . The most important moment of our life is today. Lets not take things for granted and show love and appreciation to those we love. As we dont know whats round the corner. Those r gone r in better place now. We should b greatful believing God and his existance as we know there is life after life and we will meet with them one day.Those we love never truly leave us. There are things death can not touch

  • @christineholt2358
    @christineholt2358 Рік тому +8

    This is so helpful…lost my dad Sunday 💔🙏🏽

    • @tanyacain8147
      @tanyacain8147 Рік тому +1

      May our Father give comfort and peace to you and your family🙏

    • @erikabright
      @erikabright Рік тому +1

      May our Heavenly Father comfort you. Lost my uncle and aunt in the month of April 2023, it hurts but God's peace is all that count

  • @SGemini24
    @SGemini24 Рік тому +1

    Recently loss my Grand father the day before I finished trucking school. My family didn’t tell me until the day after I passed my state test. Which was Aug 23. I just starting grieving today. I’m still in denial, I still can’t believe he’s gone. The worst part about it was I couldn’t even make it to his funeral. Something clicked in my head to come to your channel and look for something to watch that’ll make me feel better and here I am on this video. Thank you Phil 🙏

  • @sexyeyez2000
    @sexyeyez2000 Рік тому +6

    My grandfather lived to be 103 years old and he owned his own farm, and he raised his food, and had his own garden, and he was a hard worker. ❤❤❤❤

    • @hassan-ph5hk
      @hassan-ph5hk Рік тому

      he definitely lived the life. may he rest in peace!

  • @Jasmineplustwo
    @Jasmineplustwo Рік тому +11

    Thank you for being transparent and sharing your story. I’m so sorry for your loss. You are so strong. Sending you love and light. This really inspired me to share my story. Keep inspiring and motivating

  • @Jfroosevelt
    @Jfroosevelt Рік тому +8

    I feel you family I lost a very special person last year my Dad . Still dealing with it. God with you and with your followers always 🙏

  • @bRIOn909
    @bRIOn909 Рік тому +5

    I’m absolutely loving the mic and the scenery. Keep up the great content.

  • @crissydionne8328
    @crissydionne8328 Рік тому +3

    Thanks for this message Phil ♥️ I’m going to have my 16yr old son watch it. He lost his granny last July and his PawPaw in December, and they were two of the best gifts from God to all of us. We just never wanted to imagine doing life without them. They were a very important part of our village. He’s changed a lot bc of it. We miss them so much…it’s like we miss them more as time goes on. They left such a huge mark on our hearts! I pray continuous, consistent healing over us all. God is the ultimate healer 🙏🏽💙💙
    John 16:22
    So also you have sorrow now, but I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy from you.

  • @jordanforthewin1111
    @jordanforthewin1111 Рік тому +4

    🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 sorry for your lost Phil…your strength is unmatched and unmeasurable. You’re a man after Gods heart and that commendable. I hope you get all your hearts desire professionally, spiritually, mentally, emotionally and personably.

  • @Marctavious
    @Marctavious Рік тому +1

    I lost my granddad May 1st, 2021. 23 days before my birthday. Changed my life forever. I’m still learning how to go on and remember the good days with him. It’s definitely hard at times bro, I’m glad you spoke on this. He was the only father figure I had in my life, someone I could call on and he would tell me how it is. Whether it was wrong or right, I miss him like crazy but I keep going. I stay strong and I definitely thank God for allowing me to see the next day, cause it’s not promised. I just know he’s looking down on me, proud of the man I’m becoming. I honestly wish he was here to witness it all

  • @gabrielaherrera3665
    @gabrielaherrera3665 Рік тому +5

    ❤ it's so hard to regain faith when so much is happening. Thank you.

  • @Mark23Martin
    @Mark23Martin Рік тому +2

    Brotha Phil this hits different to that person that lost their love one my prayers goes out to them i myself lost my father in 2017 and i lost my mother in 2018 2 months later it still feels like yesterday but to all it will be better days my god bless all🙏🙏

  • @bellapetalart
    @bellapetalart Рік тому +2

    Phil, you are a true gift from God. I lost my daddy way too young, and my mom in 2020. I’ve spent a lot of time not taking care of myself because of grief. You are one person I seek here as I am getting back to caring and loving myself. This talk helped. Thank you.

  • @LoveCelestXO
    @LoveCelestXO Рік тому +2

    So sorry for your loss. I lost my dad in March of this year and lately he’s been coming to me in my dreams and that has helped me know that he’s still near.

  • @mattdmv
    @mattdmv Рік тому +2

    I just visited funeral today for my uncle, this was comforting praying for my family. God Bless

  • @bizbritt
    @bizbritt Рік тому +1

    It’s been a year since my dad died, definitely feel lost and relate to a lot of things. Prayers to everyone dealing with a loss.

  • @mykelhosto1731
    @mykelhosto1731 Рік тому +3

    I don't usually comment on videos but I really need to hear this I just lost my lil brother we were really close an now I'm just trying to find away to go through life with out him 😔 I thank you for this video 🙏

  • @AniseDaniel
    @AniseDaniel Рік тому +2

    I see a whole new side to you fr. I saw that comment as well, and wanted to take the moment to encourage that person, but read your response and felt it was perfect enough. It hit me too because I remember what that day felt like when I lost my Mom in June. Most of the reason why I worked super hard was to give back to my Mom, losing her after she held it down for so long since losing my Dad all these years, made me feel afraid. I know I have ppl who have my back, but I've never known a world w/o my parents. I don't know what this new season entails, and clearly God saw fit to take my last remaining parent, maybe he knows I'm ready to embark on a new life alone idk (or maybe it's time for my own family). One things for sure though, I trust him no matter what....You have such a beautiful spirit, Phil. I really appreciate you. 🤍

  • @ShakimaOlivea
    @ShakimaOlivea Рік тому +1

    Wow. You’re stronger than you know. So real and truly chosen. Videos like this really help people who suffer in silence or feel alone. God bless you man keep going! 🙏🏾

  • @constance171
    @constance171 Рік тому +1

    Phil, you are LOVE in its purest form! And I thank ThHE DIVINE! THE MOST HIGH! For allowing you to grace us, teach us, with your earnest and beautiful spirit. Keep shining 💫 King!!🫅🏽

  • @LifeOfSan
    @LifeOfSan 8 місяців тому

    Just lost my mother today Phil I’ve been a fan for years now and now I can actually hear you and listen this pain hurt hurt dog but I’m glad i found you before this tragedy so I know what to do now somewhat. Thank you Phil truthfully

  • @natepollard8645
    @natepollard8645 Рік тому +6

    I lost my father in December, and after seeing this video. This made me feel a lot better.
    We are human…. It’s ok to grieve, And God will never leave us💯

    • @ryley7123
      @ryley7123 Рік тому

      Sorry for your loss Nate. Keep your head up high, you are so strong and God sees your strength through all of this. ❤️‍🩹

  • @samantha_nicole1484
    @samantha_nicole1484 Рік тому +2

    this video was thorough. it really touched my heart man, what a blessing u are

  • @erikabright
    @erikabright Рік тому +1

    Lost my uncle and aunt same month(April). Uncle was Mama's elder brother and aunt was Papa's eldest sister.
    It hit different and the mourning phase is different base on the individual.
    God is the only healer, I cried each time Mama is down because that's her only sibling.

  • @AGreen-nx7tg
    @AGreen-nx7tg Рік тому +1

    This was such a beautiful message, I lost my mom to cancer almost 7 years ago and I still find myself in turmoil thinking about how she made me feel, or feeling guilty if I forgot something about her. Definitely relate with anger and lack of discipline, I’m just now trying to find my way back to God. I realize I can’t do it based on my own understanding.

  • @FosteringW_love
    @FosteringW_love Рік тому

    Shalom! I just stumbled across your channel, it’s been healing in a way. Our stories are similar. I lost both my parents last year. My mother on my birthday 8/20 the result of Breast cancer and four months later my father 12/20
    Both, in my home, in my arms.
    It was the hardest yet most honorable moment ever.
    I told them I would keep them here as long as I could and I did.
    I truly haven’t even grieved yet and don’t even really know how but watching your video has been therapeutic. So keep sharing. And we know God will use ALL THINGS for good for those who love Him…even the hard stuff! Blessings

  • @ShayShayyyy
    @ShayShayyyy 8 місяців тому

    I'm grateful you made this video. My grandmother aka my best friend, the one I was actually close to and lived with for majority of my years, passed away on 12/28 last year. I'm just grateful for the amazing memories we forever share.. and we've always had a spiritual connection even when she moved to a different part of the state before living in a nursing home, I always had dreams about her and still do. It's like it's all the same in spirit. I love her so much. It was definitely hard for the rest of my family, but we've made it through and have a sense of peace and closure.
    "For though I be absent in the flesh, yet am I with you in the spirit, joying and beholding your order, and the stedfastness of your faith in Christ.“
    ‭‭Colossians‬ ‭2‬:‭5‬ ‭KJV‬‬

  • @Kemecia13
    @Kemecia13 11 місяців тому

    Definitely enjoyed this topic. Lost alot of people in the past, but sometimes losing certain people hurt more.

  • @johnfrazier8230
    @johnfrazier8230 Рік тому +1

    Awesome words and testimony my brother! The loss of a loved one is something that you never get over , but live with! I have lost both my parents as well and not a day goes by that I don’t think about them and reminisce on past times with them. I just remember that they are always with me looking down from heaven and wanting me to continue to live my life to the fullest! God bless you my brother! 👊🏽👊🏽❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @chelseychante
    @chelseychante Рік тому +1

    Lost my uncle, both grandmothers, and then my dad this past November. One behind the other the over the past 5 years. The only thing that keeps me going is my mom and God. They’re all I got left. It definitely does not get easier you just learn to carry it better. I think about them everyday. Sending love, hugs, and prayers to everyone missing someone ❤️

  • @DHolla-cg6wb
    @DHolla-cg6wb 8 місяців тому

    I lost my nephew to a mass shooting in April and then lost my aunt in October to a car accident, but I feel everything that you are saying here🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @naybihity6860
    @naybihity6860 Рік тому

    this message hit differently. I cried at the end when you talked about how much god is here for us, my mom and loved ones that I grieve right now aren't dead, but our relationship or whatever our relationship used to be is. I'm angry and I've been angry since i was a little kid and i can feel it killing me all the time. Thank you for giving me a new perspective on how to mend a relationship before it's too late.

  • @ericgrey98
    @ericgrey98 5 місяців тому

    I needed to watch this video ❤️
    I just lost my mother last year in November it’s so hard but I know my bestfriend still here with me

  • @octavia5265
    @octavia5265 Рік тому +1

    Yes it’s hard to take the loss and try your best to keep pushing and be here on earth…. Mentally it takes time to get back to reality…. Prayer has helped me so much ❤🙏🏾

  • @Iheartdreka
    @Iheartdreka Рік тому +1

    I lost my dad May 2022…We didn’t have a close relationship but that pain, and hurt and to know that he’s no longer here… it hurts 😢

  • @NOBLEPAIGEPATRICK
    @NOBLEPAIGEPATRICK 11 місяців тому

    I know how it feels to lose a loved one, I lost my mom in 07...u gotta live for them and make them proud..

  • @alexandr_9hotography
    @alexandr_9hotography Рік тому

    I lost my puppy & my best friend 4 months apart. I was so broken & lost. A year later it still hurts but I'm learning to understand & cope ❤️ Peace & love to those who lost a loved one. I pray you find peace 🙏

  • @iand8418
    @iand8418 Рік тому

    Much respect to you giving your testimony. Just last yr I lost my mother to breast cancer. The time spent alone really helped me to cope with the loss overtime. I know everybody doesn’t heal or mourn in the same manner cus trust me I see old photos & break out into tears off rip. However I believe that doing the things you love, meditation, being around the right energy will help you get through it overtime. Stay active & stay positive 💯

  • @laThirst
    @laThirst Рік тому

    Bless u bro this was beautiful..your love for the Lord & the tranquility in your spirit from God’s peace radiates. That vulnerable place u exposed at the expense of ur own emotions gave glory back to God & He’s going to reward you. Keep letting Him use you! This blessed me

  • @CSwolf11
    @CSwolf11 Рік тому

    Just lost an uncle August 12th 2023, this video popping up on my feed is a clear message from God and my uncle that he’s somewhere I can only imagine ❤
    You also spoke about food in this video, and disease which is an eye opener because his health declined over the course of some years due to having multiple strokes.
    I appreciate your honesty and strength brother. Thank you for your content which is a gift. 🙏🏼
    I sent it out to other family members so they can God willing gain some comfort and peace.

  • @fauzianalwoga
    @fauzianalwoga 2 місяці тому

    Thanks for this 😢. I lost my mom last year and she was only 44😢. As an only child it's very hard being without your parent. I know am now 24 but she was my best friend and companion in everything 😢

  • @sharonmckay9936
    @sharonmckay9936 Рік тому +1

    Thank you. Phil for being compassionate and loving I appreciate you. God bless ❤

  • @tavimurd3794
    @tavimurd3794 Рік тому

    been watching you since before my pops passed recently due to cancer so watching you really be helping me keep my head on straight so i thank you for being such a positive influence u inspire me as I’m growin into a young adult thank you dawg

  • @Carol0110
    @Carol0110 Рік тому

    I lost my both parents when I was 6years old ,and I don't have Aunties or Uncles on both sides lost all of them , sometimes I sit alone and ask myself where did we go wrong ,I was left alone with my 3brothers that's my only family that I have.we have suffereeeeeeed alooooot but I thank God for giving Grace ,we are still standing .life has taught me alot at a young age

  • @KimberlynCrawford
    @KimberlynCrawford Рік тому

    Your ministry is so real - not fake. I am glad you speak to all of us the way you do. Thank you for all that you are showing us in your life to influence us and move us in the way of righteousness.

  • @__maddy100
    @__maddy100 Рік тому

    I just wanna cry watching this cause I do take life for granted and never be looking at how blessed I really am every day.

  • @flomugabe
    @flomugabe Рік тому +1

    AMEN, May God continue to use you mightily. 🙏🏽

  • @brittanysmith4891
    @brittanysmith4891 Рік тому

    Thank you for posting this, I lost my grandma on Aug 12th almost exactly 5 years after losing my grandpa. They raised me I lived with them everyday. I feel so angry at the people how they could be so happy when the sweetest angel could be gone. My ex sent this video, thank you so much for showing me someone actually does understand me.

  • @ricabassinger9599
    @ricabassinger9599 Рік тому

    I've watched so many of your videos. But this one made me cry. I'm sorry for your loss and pain. It's so humble and relatable.

  • @cheyennetorres3787
    @cheyennetorres3787 Рік тому

    This has helped me thank you, I just lost my mom June 3rd I’m an only child and I completely understand this an am going through this pain but everyday it gets better I just keep god number 1 ❤😊 thank you

  • @lyfepoetic
    @lyfepoetic Рік тому

    Man, those losses hurt. Lost my mama in 2019. Then I lost my uncle and cousin within months of each other. Last month, it was my aunt. Thanks for these videos Phil. I hope you know how much you help us out here. God bless you

  • @chop_god9088
    @chop_god9088 Рік тому

    U made me got closer with my mom and forgave her for all she done to me I don’t want to loose my mom or grandma I don’t have a dad in my life my dad is my mom and I can’t take her for granted ❤thank u god bless y’all

  • @user-ir7yy1vh4d
    @user-ir7yy1vh4d Рік тому

    truly very sorry for what has happened we thank GOD for all the comfort and strength .. whatever the tribulations we might face we are of more value than many many sparrows.. when we feel down.. discouraged..depressed we can trust GOD to lift us up Amen

  • @gemdavidson
    @gemdavidson 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for your guidance. I lost my dad yesterday. ♥️

  • @hunteralexis
    @hunteralexis Рік тому

    Gosh I needed this! Recently lost my maternal Grandmother in may and the grieving process is definitely not easy! So thank you for sharing your shared feelings and emotions those good and bad. Can too admit loss of a loved one you have to allow God to sit with you and be the one to remind you of his plans and to receive the peace that only he can supply! 🤍 Psalms 147:3

  • @lawrencethompson2552
    @lawrencethompson2552 Рік тому

    Stay in that word brother it will comfort you" keep God first always young brother....

  • @user-uu6di3td5l
    @user-uu6di3td5l Рік тому +1

    This video just came in the right time 😢

  • @cicigold
    @cicigold Рік тому

    This vid hit diff for me, bc I too, among so many ppl, am no stranger to losing fam members. I had also thought about how my grandfather had lived into his 90s amidst the lifestyle he lived. He was super unhealthy in my eyes-loved pork something horribly and was a factory worker for so many years. Couldn’t see how he ate the way he did, but I know that his faith in God was his strong suit and God kept him from a lot of ailments that ppl usually get w/ that kind of diet. I get how diet plays a major role in many ailments. Prayer, balance, and education wards off so many unfavourable outcomes. Again, you have blessed us with a good word👍🏽❤

  • @tbwentmia
    @tbwentmia Рік тому

    I lost my cousin a couple months ago, she was like my sister. The pain hits deep man.

  • @igobyjazz
    @igobyjazz Рік тому

    “it stings” is the word for sure. wow, you are in my prayers baby boy. i mean that frfr.

  • @arkysiawhitehead
    @arkysiawhitehead Рік тому

    Gratitude for this I lost my mother this year in March and she was basically my only parent due to the lack of knowing my father. Losing her has lead me to taking care of my 13 year brother and making sure my twins siblings are good from a distance. Everyday is a work in progress, but I’ve been trying to turn my pain into purpose💕honestly felt everything you said in this video thank you for sharing your story !!!

  • @jessicaacrawfordd
    @jessicaacrawfordd Рік тому

    phil, i'm so sorry to hear about the passing of those important to you. please know you're never alone and that you are so loved

  • @melvinwilliams3224
    @melvinwilliams3224 Рік тому +1

    I really needed too hear this thank you so very much for sharing. I lost my mother May of this year. But we do know God is able to heal our hearts.

  • @jabulilemalise202
    @jabulilemalise202 Рік тому

    I lost my parents same year (2014) and being the eldest of two, life has been a crazy ride

  • @t_beezy
    @t_beezy Рік тому

    You a good person fr, I remember when I loss my grandma at 9 it hurts I feel your pain

  • @beautyoflifewithtalya5322
    @beautyoflifewithtalya5322 Рік тому

    I love your intro music, it’s so calming. Please always keep it 🥰🥰

  • @akii824
    @akii824 Рік тому

    It's weird how this came up on my feed today when I'm most grieving. I lost my Dad some weeks ago, and this has to be the hardest thing I've ever dealt with. I was with him by his bedside when he passed, I assisted him during his final weeks, and I stayed by his side 24/7. I even had a chance to tell him what he meant to me before he passed. However, none of it makes this process easier. I loved my Dad with a deep love, and I honestly struggle now with life and how it has lost its color. It's no longer in high-def to me, and nothing really matters anymore. I feel like no one gets it or even sees that I'm struggling. Every day is such a battle, so please pray that God will lift the weight I feel that's on me.

  • @MikeCheck492
    @MikeCheck492 Рік тому

    Good video brother. That gratitude, the peace that you feel has allowed you to be in the presence of God, Psalms 100:4. Keeping that will keep you in Him and Him in you

  • @Adck79
    @Adck79 Рік тому

    This vid popped up so unexpectedly but felt like it and at the right time. I just lost my great grandma today not far apart from loosing my aunt 2 months ago. I was never really that close to them like I was to my grandpa on my moms side but it still hit deeply, my condolences to you bro🙏🏿

  • @qwertyqwert2772
    @qwertyqwert2772 Рік тому

    thank you. peace be upon you phil and your family

  • @ileneabraham6801
    @ileneabraham6801 Рік тому

    Man this video got me in tears 😭just thinking of the love one's I've lost 😢 man that hurt hits deep and the music just to perfect in this video you really know what you doing with this channel frfr appreciate the time you put in for us 🙏

  • @wesmn914
    @wesmn914 Рік тому

    Thank god you found peace. I loss my dad 09/2003 and I still think about him everyday. I know that he’s helping me though because of the signs I consistently get. Lost my grandmother in 2019 at 97 and I just dreamt about her today. I totally understand. I say gratitude when I wake up everyday - I’m sure your love ones would want you to be happy.

  • @JessicaTellian
    @JessicaTellian Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing. I just lost my great aunt on my brothers birthday. Very sad.

  • @yoyo2182
    @yoyo2182 11 місяців тому

    I like that… gotta face the problems… like the prayer closet 💯… spending time with God… dealing with yourself 💯… all real talk 👐🏾…

  • @takeshadockery2023
    @takeshadockery2023 Рік тому

    THANK YOU FOR SHARING! THIS WAS RIGHT ON TIME! I JUST LOST MY FAVORITE COUSIN SHE WAS ONE DAY APART FROM ME AND THE SAME AGE AS ME. THIS HIT ME HARD AND IM DOING EXACTLY THAT, TAKING THINGS ONE DAY AT A TIME AND FOCUSING AS MUCH AS I CAN ON GOD🙏🏾

  • @ruthwright6247
    @ruthwright6247 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing your heart with us.
    I appreciate this video.
    I lost my parents as well. My Mom passed in 2018 to Cancer. My Dad passed from the Rona in 2021. I know they are with the Lord which gives me comfort. I lean on the God of All Comfort. It's hard though ....
    God knows how much I miss them.
    Thanks again

  • @Restyoursoul287
    @Restyoursoul287 Рік тому

    Your videos are refreshing, keep doing your thing. Death has been on my mind, especially seeing my parents get older. This dialogue really unified us in something we can all relate to. Awesome contributions. 🙏🏽✨

  • @twnskndept
    @twnskndept Рік тому +1

    Please do a vid about training your mind to live in gratitude!!!

  • @lilliemcbridewilliams3221
    @lilliemcbridewilliams3221 Рік тому

    May God bless you and keep you young man 😢

  • @CaliMamiAdventures
    @CaliMamiAdventures Рік тому

    That was beautiful!!! I literally start crying!! God is really using you. Thank you for being so transparent and sharing your journey with us! We all need a little encouragement especially when it comes to loosing a loved one because It is one of the hardest things we have to endure! Love your channel you’re doing great! ❤❤❤

  • @taylynn2
    @taylynn2 Рік тому

    2 years My Granny August 23rd
    2 years My Dad September 23rd
    1 month apart .. GOD has reached me in a way .. that I refuse before that… but there are days when grief is just tough ..
    Thanks for this message .. I was a Daddy’s girl and it’s the toughest loss I’ve endured …

  • @coachfields21
    @coachfields21 Рік тому

    I can relate a 1000 percent. Keep doing his work 🙏🏾