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    My family has had a tough time lately. I'm sharing with you some unexpected news we received that has thrown our family's life into a bit of chaos the past few months. I'm also sharing with you my grocery haul and weekend meal plan, so there's that, too!
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  • @cascade19
    @cascade19 8 місяців тому +371

    I swear this video was made just for me to hear. My husband lost his job this past week. I’m holding on to God for strength through this storm.

    • @RevDanXP
      @RevDanXP 8 місяців тому +15

      The Lord bless you & keep you!

    • @CarolgTX
      @CarolgTX 8 місяців тому +8

      ❤❤❤ sending positive vibes your way!

    • @heleeneverson8256
      @heleeneverson8256 8 місяців тому +15

      @cascade. ❤ it's difficult. One day at a time. My husband has been without work for 3 years due to epilepsy and a nervous breakdown. Keep up you chin and pray and believe

    • @mfanning345
      @mfanning345 8 місяців тому +17

      Didn’t lose my job, but going through struggles. It was very encouraging and a timely word for many of us. God doesn’t leave or forsake his own.

    • @SeeMindyMom
      @SeeMindyMom  8 місяців тому +59

      When I start to feel overwhelmed, I just pray, "Lord, I trust you." Sometimes I have to speak it into fruition even if I don't feel it. The psalms have also been a huge comfort, and a great tool for praying my anxiety and anger over to God. Hang in there!

  • @karendemoure5024
    @karendemoure5024 8 місяців тому +7

    My son in law used to work at the same church. He's the one who told me about your channel. He was phased out last year. It was rough at first, but he's so much happier than he was. I believe God will do the same for your family. God bless you!!

  • @hannahg.8645
    @hannahg.8645 6 місяців тому +1

    My husband has been in ministry for 10 years and we recently came out of a very difficult season of ministry as well. We ended up relocating and found a new amazing church family. I was starting to wonder if one even existed! Praying you will lean on the Lord and trust him during this time! He is faithful!

  • @grantvanravensway1215
    @grantvanravensway1215 8 місяців тому +146

    “God does some of His best work in the wilderness, it’s going to be okay” ♥️♥️♥️♥️ OOOH. Sooo good Mindy! -Madison

    • @renoki4540
      @renoki4540 8 місяців тому +2

      amen!❤

    • @dianeshover1465
      @dianeshover1465 8 місяців тому +1

      👏👏👍👍 AWESOME way to turn a “YIKES” Into a “ We’ll be just FINE”!!😃😎

  • @laurapaschall106
    @laurapaschall106 8 місяців тому +74

    I am a preacher’s wife (and daughter too) and we’ve been in that exact position before. Thank you for being real. Prayers for you during this time. And I love diet soda.😊

  • @lisamachen3165
    @lisamachen3165 8 місяців тому +27

    As a fellow Pastor’s wife I totally understand how this impacts your WHOLE life!! I am praying for your family but especially for your kiddos to walk in the peace and favor of the Lord❤ May your latter days be even greater than the former.

  • @jenniferkennedy3400
    @jenniferkennedy3400 8 місяців тому +2

    My husband is a pastor and I just appreciate your faith in a faithful God. Praying all the best for you and your family. ❤

  • @reniedavisson8532
    @reniedavisson8532 8 місяців тому +8

    My mother's affairs were starting to cause me to take too many days off as a teacher. I decided to retire after 33 years, but 6 years short of my goals. I am so stressed out about the change. It has been a 4 month long ordeal but my mother is now in assisted living, we have sold her house, and I now have time to search for a less stressful job than teaching. Good luck to you. PRAYERS!

  • @marciemceachern
    @marciemceachern 8 місяців тому +23

    I feel you. My husband lost his mortgage industry job 10 months ago, and I can sincerely say this season has been one of the absolute sweetest, despite also carrying challenges. Praying for God's plan and purpose for you and your family!

  • @susieleiper
    @susieleiper 8 місяців тому +4

    New broom? Old kitchen broom retires to basement. Basement broom goes to garage. Garage broom goes to patio. Patio broom goes to scrap metal under hubbies lathe. Lathe broom goes onto the burn pile...unless it is winter and then is Frosty's accessory.

  • @user-sz8td3zm7k
    @user-sz8td3zm7k 8 місяців тому +1

    Please know that my wife and I are praying for you and your family. God is there with you each and every day! Bless you all! With love in Him, Dave and Terri

  • @earldouglas3631
    @earldouglas3631 8 місяців тому +114

    As someone who works in academic advising, and career planning/human resources, whether you get fired/lose your job or walk away on your own it is still a gut punch especially if it is something you were not planning. So be kind to yourself and take a deep breath. I am so glad you decided to share this because it shows other people that they are not alone and more importantly that it is not their fault if they get fired. Sometimes life chooses to send us in a direction we did not see coming. So I guess the big question is since you can work from anywhere, will you stay in OK or go to another state with the kids in school etc?

    • @kathyk9519
      @kathyk9519 8 місяців тому +3

      Remember He didn't get fired he chose to leave. Big difference! 😊

    • @missnewzealand6103
      @missnewzealand6103 8 місяців тому

      How is it not your fault if you get fired?

    • @SeeMindyMom
      @SeeMindyMom  8 місяців тому +30

      Thank you! We are hoping to stay in Tulsa, but we are open to where the Lord is leading us, even if it's to another place. :)

    • @earldouglas3631
      @earldouglas3631 8 місяців тому +10

      @@kathyk9519 Yes, I know that Daniel resigned, but I wanted to make sure that people understood whether they resign or are fired, they should be kind to themselves. It isn't their fault most of the time.

    • @earldouglas3631
      @earldouglas3631 8 місяців тому +7

      @@missnewzealand6103 Because many times when we get fired there are circumstances beyond our own control that we don't see coming. Sometimes we cause the problem make no mistake, but many times we don't see it coming.

  • @amandawegner5656
    @amandawegner5656 8 місяців тому +23

    Thank you for this! I was on staff at a church as part of the childrens ministry going on 7 years and I ended up leaving and my last day was 7/2/23 (it was not planned as I truly thought we would be there forever). It has rocked my world ( all 6 of us actually) and I am still grieving. But watching this video today was sooo encouraging. Thank you 🤍

    • @tinatacklesit1448
      @tinatacklesit1448 7 місяців тому

      I just left my job and accepted a position with my church as we structure to open our child care center. Because we're not open yet, I am not bringing in any income. This is a step in faith, and like others have said, I consider my church, my family. I understand your grieving...lifting you in prayer towards healing...

  • @jennifercristobalharris8284
    @jennifercristobalharris8284 6 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for sharing this. I was just laid off from my role in HR. I’m the sole income earner since my husbands recent traumatic brain injury, so it’s a scary time, but one where we are leaning on our gracious God.

  • @amyshort5625
    @amyshort5625 8 місяців тому +3

    My husband lost his job in January of this year and the income loss at first was a very hard hit. But having him home with the kids especially with a new one due to be here in just a few weeks, has actually been an unexpected blessing.

  • @joydage4605
    @joydage4605 8 місяців тому +34

    Hugs my dear!! I was a preacher's kid, so I do understand the ups and downs of ministry life. I affirm what you said, "God knows". He has plans for us that we cannot imagine. All the best.

    • @SeeMindyMom
      @SeeMindyMom  8 місяців тому +3

      So true! Thank you for the reminder. :)

  • @rachelhero3413
    @rachelhero3413 8 місяців тому +5

    I needed this message so much. Husband left his job 3 years ago. I have been the sole provider.. but this reminded me, GOD has been the one providing for us. He has opened the doors for me to make it easier on my family.

  • @maryokeefe2144
    @maryokeefe2144 8 місяців тому +13

    Mindy, I'm only 2 minutes into this and I want to send you encouragement, confidence in your family's future, sympathy, and strength. Whatever comes, your family is strong enough to get through it.❤

  • @LeMErin21
    @LeMErin21 8 місяців тому +16

    Thank you for saying, “We know that with the Lord there are no surprises.” I’ve had a not so good surprise at my job this week, so I can relate. But I am also incredibly peaceful because I know that there’s no point in worrying. God knew this was coming, and I can rest easy in that.

  • @rachelpeck9471
    @rachelpeck9471 8 місяців тому +8

    As a pastors kid I 1000% understand where you guys are in life. I have always appreciated how you focus on the family. I’m so proud of you guys for leaving instead of staying in a potentially toxic situation. I wish my parents would have done that.

  • @hardenmama1800
    @hardenmama1800 8 місяців тому +14

    When you talked about leaving 1/2 way through a vacation that you’d planned for a year, I thought “uh oh”. I admire your positive outlook, strength, and faith. I have been having a difficult time at work and I pray about it daily.
    Happy Birthday to sweet Ruthie!

    • @SeeMindyMom
      @SeeMindyMom  8 місяців тому +1

      I hope things come together for you at work! Thank you for the kind words! :)

    • @hardenmama1800
      @hardenmama1800 8 місяців тому

      @@SeeMindyMom thank you so much! With all that you have going on in your life, you took time to read my comment and respond…thank you!

  • @michellepowell9341
    @michellepowell9341 8 місяців тому +3

    Tears, hugs, love, and prayers! I once left my paid position in a mega church - I understand the weight of your decision! God's got you! And we'll pray you through!! Happy birthday, Ruthie!! I'm glad your folks are coming in town. You are SO loved!!! ❤

  • @iamchristyfierce
    @iamchristyfierce 8 місяців тому +1

    I do that with my brooms! You gotta have an outside broom AND an inside broom. It's a necessity.

  • @melissalorang3304
    @melissalorang3304 8 місяців тому +3

    The office space and Will Ferrell clips were perfect 😂

    • @SeeMindyMom
      @SeeMindyMom  8 місяців тому

      I thought so! I sometimes need a little laugh to lighten up difficult moments. :)

  • @elianakatchkey2246
    @elianakatchkey2246 8 місяців тому +36

    Thank you for sharing these parts of your life. As someone who has been in ministry for 15 plus years, you hit the nail on the head when you said it becomes and is your life.

    • @SeeMindyMom
      @SeeMindyMom  8 місяців тому +3

      Thank you for your work!

  • @ericarandall2692
    @ericarandall2692 8 місяців тому +42

    Your positive mindset, love for the Lord, and belief in His plan for your family, are so inspiring. Thank you for sharing with us, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

  • @bmhpb3
    @bmhpb3 8 місяців тому +1

    My husband resigned in 2020 from his pastoral position after serving for 9 years. His resignation was due to decisions being made as well by other leadership. We loved our church family so much! It is still a punch in the gut and he still has not gone back into full-time vocational ministry (which has been insanely hard for me), but he continues to serve in our new local church. He recently turned down another position because he still needs more time to heal. Ministry is awesome, often hard, but the rewards are eternal.
    Praying you all stay faithful to each other as a couple, faithful as a family, faithful in a new ministry and faithful to our great Savior.
    Love your channel. So neat to see how God has prepped you to be so frugal for your family long before you knew that this trial would come.

    • @SeeMindyMom
      @SeeMindyMom  8 місяців тому +1

      Oh wow, we have heard similar stories from friends of ours, you are not alone. Covid was hard on lots of people and professions, and it was a tough time to be in ministry!

    • @bmhpb3
      @bmhpb3 8 місяців тому

      @@SeeMindyMom it definitely was. Praying for you and your family.

  • @TracieL1234
    @TracieL1234 8 місяців тому +42

    I went to Aldi yesterday and my standard grocery haul was about $35 more than usual. It was painful

    • @SeeMindyMom
      @SeeMindyMom  8 місяців тому +3

      It's gone up for sure!

    • @denisejolley8598
      @denisejolley8598 8 місяців тому +2

      I just went today and noticed several items have gone up by more than just a few cents. I saw a friend while I was there and she said, “Have you noticed the prices have gone up?”😏

    • @mrs.garcia6978
      @mrs.garcia6978 8 місяців тому

      Please tell me you’re lying, I only shop 1x/month at Aldi for specific things and haven’t been in a month…😭

    • @daisy8297
      @daisy8297 8 місяців тому +2

      Prices in Aldi Australia have gone through the roof. Some by as much as $2-$3 for an block of cheese. It’s disproportionate to the increase in the cost of living and even though it’s still cheaper than other supermarkets, the margin of savings are dwindling. And for quite a lot of items, there is no difference in prices buying at Aldi any more. It is such a disappointment.

  • @SassyHippo
    @SassyHippo 8 місяців тому +14

    We’re facing a lot of uncertainty and on the edge of disaster. If we can just hang on a little longer there’s a great chance we completely flip the script in as little as a year. Seeing your faith is inspiring. Normally I’d be losing sleep and making drastic moves that prolong the goals we need to achieve. But this time I have more faith and am trusting the course God put us on. Thank you for sharing your personal life and being an example. Looking through the comments it seems many of us needed this message right now.

    • @SeeMindyMom
      @SeeMindyMom  8 місяців тому +1

      Stepping out in faith is scary, sometimes. I feel that in my bones right now! I totally understand.

  • @randijohnson3806
    @randijohnson3806 8 місяців тому +22

    That's always a hard move. Our church has gone through a lot of changes the last couple years and its been so difficult. I pray whatever comes next is God-led and God-willing, a good fit.

  • @loriw4765
    @loriw4765 8 місяців тому +23

    My husband is a pastor too and I know how difficult it is to leave a church you've poured yourself into - where your dearest friends are - and where your kids have grown. Your video really tugged on my heartstrings. You have such a positive attitude though, and I know the Lord is going to take good care of you and your family. I look forward to hearing about what God's doing in the days ahead!

    • @SeeMindyMom
      @SeeMindyMom  8 місяців тому +7

      Thank you! That's exactly it, and it's difficult to explain sometimes how multiple facets of your life are connected to a single place when you work in the ministry. Thank you for seeing us! :)

  • @MrsAlmaTrumble
    @MrsAlmaTrumble 8 місяців тому +25

    We just recently changed churches because we felt led to and love our new church family. We'll keep y'all in our prayers as y'all go through this change.

    • @robinholbrook8296
      @robinholbrook8296 8 місяців тому +1

      Heard Walmart was going up 6%. I shop mostly at Aldi

    • @SeeMindyMom
      @SeeMindyMom  8 місяців тому +3

      Thank you, Alma! We believe in prayer and we will take all that is offered. :)

    • @MrsAlmaTrumble
      @MrsAlmaTrumble 8 місяців тому

      @SeeMindyMom you're welcome, friend. Us too. My hubby is here because of prayer. He has died twice (tractor trailer rollover accident and sepsis) and battled Covid, but God's not done with him yet. He's on oxygen 24-7 due to Covid damaging his lungs.

  • @ireneroy8820
    @ireneroy8820 8 місяців тому +15

    Amen!! God has a plan, it’s better than we could ever imagine! Ephesians 3:20
    Your right! No TESTIMONY withOUT a TEST! Prayers for your family!

  • @juliawhitbeck4002
    @juliawhitbeck4002 8 місяців тому +7

    My husband and I are going through this exact thing right now. Thank you so much for posting this! God is so good!❤️

  • @debimorsette1685
    @debimorsette1685 8 місяців тому +1

    I made these cupcakes the day after watching this video. I used a yellow cake mix with vanilla pudding. I used fancy cupcake papers and they had a nice height to them. 18 cupcakes in all. I made a delicious chocolate frosting that I piped on. Shared with family and they all said hands down best cupcake ever. So moist. Now I’m spoiled. I’m going to line up my cake mixes from my pantry and made sure I have corresponding pudding mixes on hand to mix in. Great recipe. Thanks for sharing.

  • @vecherd
    @vecherd 8 місяців тому +1

    Amen! I find the fact that He is in control gives me peace and I know He will carry you all through this. Like you said He is never surprised

  • @nancycarney
    @nancycarney 8 місяців тому +14

    What a huge decision. Following God's lead through Faith is scary but comforting. We went through this at our Church 4 years ago. I, of course, was not a part of the changes but the whole church was kept in the loop as the changes were being made. Praying for your family. Love your videos.

  • @beckyw9000
    @beckyw9000 8 місяців тому +13

    I know what that punch in the gut feels like. I am so sorry your family had that interrupt your special trip, and that you are having to carry around the mixed bag of feelings…one foot in front of the other, sometimes it is the sacrifice that takes us to where we need to be next. ❤️

  • @carolyngriffith2776
    @carolyngriffith2776 8 місяців тому

    My husband just resigned his position as senior pastor this week due to some philosophical differences with leadership. It came quickly and was a surprise, but through Gods severe providence, he received a job offer before any of these issues popped up.

  • @JaniceBole-dj2li
    @JaniceBole-dj2li 8 місяців тому

    We grow in the valleys and He is faithful to you because you did not compromise your values.

  • @ellefson1
    @ellefson1 8 місяців тому +14

    I always enjoy your videos. Thank you for sharing the news about your husband's job - you do a huge service by modeling a sane and humane response to a scary life change. I hope Ruthie enjoyed her birthday. Your box mix cupcake recipe is legit delish! Thanks for keeping it real. Love to you and your family!!!

  • @AngiDas
    @AngiDas 7 місяців тому +4

    As someone who is a mom trying to get back into the workforce just for grocery money I feel this video deep in my bones.

  • @pjtfd3849
    @pjtfd3849 8 місяців тому +1

    God really does His best work in the wilderness. How well can you hear His voice at a party or a rock concert? It’s when we are at a stand still, and lost, that we are most receptive. All is well that starts and ends with Him

  • @timrobbins1876
    @timrobbins1876 8 місяців тому

    I am a pastor's wife and have also had those moments when the nest was flipped over. What a comfort to know that nothing happens without Gods permission and that He is in control of it all! I love your chanel and have beentelling everyone about it. Awesome, real content! Whats the site you order your glasses from?
    Blessings- Amy Robbins

    • @SeeMindyMom
      @SeeMindyMom  8 місяців тому

      Hi, Amy! Thank you for the kind words.
      My glasses are from Pair, there’s a link in the description. :)

  • @mycolorfulcottage
    @mycolorfulcottage 8 місяців тому +6

    About to lose my job more than likely but worse than that my boss has terminal cancer in like 5 locations. You’re exactly right we may be surprised but God is not. Holding fast for answers. Needed this video today and praying for your family. 😢

    • @SeeMindyMom
      @SeeMindyMom  8 місяців тому +1

      That's so tough on so many levels. I pray peace for you and yours at this time.

  • @sescanlon
    @sescanlon 8 місяців тому +19

    I’ve recently come to love the phrase “hard is not the same as bad”. Thank you for being so open and real on your channel. Praying for you and your family. Can’t wait to see what God has in store for you guys!

  • @FromHisBountifulBlessings
    @FromHisBountifulBlessings 7 місяців тому +1

    My husband stepped down at our church earlier this year. It’s so hard - but, completely understand! Praying The Lord comforts you guys in this transition season. ♥️

  • @kelliconlan8133
    @kelliconlan8133 8 місяців тому +1

    When my mom retired, she became a Wal-Mart greeter. She loved it and did it until her health did not allow her to work anymore. Everyone alway told me they loved seeing my Mom at the door. And she developed many friendships from that job.
    Old inside broom always becomes the outside or unfinished basement broom.
    Prayer for your family as you are in prayer as to where God leads your family next.

    • @michellefitz4287
      @michellefitz4287 8 місяців тому

      I know this video was heartbreaking but I was cracking up over Mindy’s Walmart greeter comment. She’d be a natural at it and so glad to hear it was a positive blessing to your Mom and everyone who passed by her.

  • @mariaTsounakis1521
    @mariaTsounakis1521 8 місяців тому +3

    I love your positive mindset. I have literally been on a health rollercoaster for the last 21 years. So many doctors have been amazed at what I have survived and I know its been my faith in God and all of the prayers I have received from others. 🙏🏻 that your new direction leads you to an even better life!!

  • @lilybee_
    @lilybee_ 8 місяців тому +3

    ❤ Prayers for ya'll. My husband lost his job just as our daughter left for college. It was devastating because of the loss of income but for him personally. He was let go because of time he had to take off for surgery. His job was physically demanding and in the end, losing that job was good for his health. Going through that storm is can be emotional and frightening. With three kids, we worried. God has you ❤ He will always have your best in His hands.

  • @nikitabudgets4201
    @nikitabudgets4201 6 місяців тому

    My husband got fired almost 2-3 months ago, having a little one and needing to work full time plus a few extra shifts on the weekends kill me. He still can’t work because he got injured on the job so we’re dealing with that too. Prayers for all of us because this season is insane.

    • @SeeMindyMom
      @SeeMindyMom  6 місяців тому

      I'm so sorry to hear that. The uncertainty is difficult. Prayers for your family.

  • @judymc4213
    @judymc4213 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for being real! I have a son with High functioning autism that was "laid off" from a job. So, I get it. Praying for you and your family. It's hard being in the "wilderness", but so many people are standing with you. That's what faith and Christianity is all about.

  • @jeaniestoltz1764
    @jeaniestoltz1764 8 місяців тому +8

    I feel for you Mindy. Between November of 2021 until April 2022, my husband went without income due to illness. It was a struggle...but we got through it!

  • @TheSchnoodlemom
    @TheSchnoodlemom 8 місяців тому +8

    Happy Birthday to Ruthie! Thank you for sharing what's going on. My best friend was married to a pastor. Sometimes life is a roller coaster ride! I'll keep you all in my prayers, and I know God will lead you to something better.

  • @MicheleLaughlin
    @MicheleLaughlin 8 місяців тому +1

    I left working in Ministry in 2013 after 17 years because it was time. Since I left, my blood pressure has gone back to normal, I have time to enjoy life, my spouse, my grandchildren and my hobbies (skiing and gardening). God always has a plan and we have to pay attention when we are called to move on. Thinking of you and your family, Michele

    • @SeeMindyMom
      @SeeMindyMom  8 місяців тому

      Funny you say that because one thing my husband has pointed out to me in the last few weeks is that his blood pressure is down and he's sleeping better. Ministry work has taken its toll on us physically as well as emotionally!

  • @michellemiller1027
    @michellemiller1027 8 місяців тому

    I know it is not always easy to resign and leave a church, especially with children. My husband is a pastor and we have done it several times over the years. We have now been blessed to pastor my husband home church for the last 15 years.
    God will bless you and your family.

  • @leatharay3565
    @leatharay3565 8 місяців тому +3

    The. Lord is guiding a lot of Christian’s in different ways. I am a caregiver for my husband cannot begin to tell you how The lord has provided for us. We are in our mid to late 70’s

  • @laurajohnson3750
    @laurajohnson3750 8 місяців тому +6

    Praying for you and your family!! May you find peace and strength. 😊

  • @mariayelruh
    @mariayelruh 8 місяців тому +1

    That is going to be a change for you.
    We buy soda on sale to take on picnics or when we are going out for the day. It means that we feel the meal/snack is a treat.

  • @Tonick34
    @Tonick34 8 місяців тому +1

    I’m a 56yr old PK. I watched some crazy things happen in churches growing up. Sometimes it was so frustrating to see what people would say and do ‘in the name of the Lord’ 🤦🏼‍♀️. One experience was so untenable, my family prayed for guidance and my parents ended up moving halfway across the country! It was hard on me as I was in my early 20s, living on my own and established. It was the best thing for them! When one door closes another one opens Will be praying for y’all 💙

  • @karlaa9307
    @karlaa9307 8 місяців тому +6

    This year has been a tough one for us as well. I have always been frugal so it has helped us through this. Earlier this year my husband was diagnosed with cancer and three months ago lost his job. We are holding on to God and He has been good. Thanks for sharing your experience!

    • @lisacooper5544
      @lisacooper5544 8 місяців тому +1

      Prayers for all of your family

  • @MrsSmithsMeatPies
    @MrsSmithsMeatPies 8 місяців тому +8

    Praying for you guys 🙏 My husband and I went through something similar (leadership shake ups and decisions which ultimately ended with my husband resigning) last summer and now he is in a new place that he loves and is thriving. I couldn't even imagine the stress and added loss of leaving a church family behind with all of that too. Good luck to your hubby and all your family in this new chapter!
    (Oh--and happy birthday to your daughter!! You definitely don't look the mom of a 14yo lol)

    • @SeeMindyMom
      @SeeMindyMom  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much for the encouragement! That is the hope we are clinging to, and we trust it. The Lord will lead us to the next thing, and it will probably be better than anything we could have imagined ourselves! :)

  • @maryer364
    @maryer364 7 місяців тому

    I've been praying about leaving my job. I work at a church. It will be painful to leave, but I want to follow if God is calling me. This was very helpful and encouraging.

  • @sandymcallister4123
    @sandymcallister4123 8 місяців тому

    Another Pastor’s wife here. My heart goes out to your family and will pray for your future. My husband retired at 75 a year and half ago and is starting an interim position next month.

  • @catherineblinsky674
    @catherineblinsky674 8 місяців тому +3

    Loved this visit with you! It will be okay going forward. Thanks for all the wonderful tips!

  • @ashleygrafton8115
    @ashleygrafton8115 8 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for sharing your experience with us and for such a beautiful testimony during a challenging time. It’s fills the cup.

  • @kristinhawkins5757
    @kristinhawkins5757 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for your testimony for how God is working! Please pray for me, because I am still in the wilderness since an unstable living situation that my former roommate put me through. Even the aftermath has contained too many bad things. Please pray that God shows me the good in all the bad so I don’t feel so afraid of an unknown future and a difficult present. Sorry to say so much.

  • @karenwittfoth5380
    @karenwittfoth5380 8 місяців тому

    Amen! Praying for your family. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @michelleplatt1695
    @michelleplatt1695 8 місяців тому +3

    Mindy…what a wonderful example of a faithful servant. Both of those scriptures at the end are perfect. Thank you for your openness about your faith in an age where Christians are frequently mocked and scoffed at. We went through this very thing and had to take a literal leap into God’s mighty and capable arms and trust HE had our future in His hands. It was the hardest thing we ever did but God blessed us beyond measure. It was scary but it taught me so much about letting go of the control and worry and believing Gods knows best. I am believing and agreeing with you that this will lead to bigger and better things! God bless you, your family and your ministry!

    • @SeeMindyMom
      @SeeMindyMom  8 місяців тому +2

      Thank you so much for the kind words and the encouragement. Hearing those types of testimonies from friends near and far is really helpful!

  • @hitchhikerfromanothergalaxy
    @hitchhikerfromanothergalaxy 8 місяців тому +10

    This past January my husband, at the age of 67 lost his good paying executive position that has been in his occupational wheelhouse for over 40 years. Then he took a part-time gig that brought a small amount of money, but as of September 1st he no longer has that. Times are getting tough for a lot of people and we are going to need those budget recipes you do on your channel! God bless you and your family. God has plans to prosper you 🙏.

    • @SeeMindyMom
      @SeeMindyMom  8 місяців тому

      Oh, wow, I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope that the best door opens for your husband and your family soon, and that it's the best, most unexpected blessing!

    • @hitchhikerfromanothergalaxy
      @hitchhikerfromanothergalaxy 8 місяців тому

      @@SeeMindyMom and with your family! Blessings! This might just be a blessing in disguise.

  • @FrugalFamilyFocus
    @FrugalFamilyFocus 7 місяців тому

    Saying a little prayer for your family that you land on your feet and the right opportunities for what’s next find you.

  • @RAM-eb2te
    @RAM-eb2te 8 місяців тому

    🙏 for your husband, you and your children. ❤🙏

  • @geninejames9473
    @geninejames9473 8 місяців тому +6

    Mindy your so right, God has got y’all. 🙏

  • @CarolgTX
    @CarolgTX 8 місяців тому +3

    I understand being in the wilderness. It is both scary and exciting, but you will be fine, better than fine, you will be great. Because of Daniel's professional background, he will have a lot of opportunities come his way. Your family is the core of of your existence; you will all, as one, embrace this next chapter and grow.❤❤❤

  • @heidihague9895
    @heidihague9895 8 місяців тому +1

    16 years later I still grieve leaving a congregation that I had been a youth group leader with, but knew it was time to move on. It honestly was very similar to a divorce. Leaving people you know and love, but knowing ultimately that God's plan for you is greater. Praying for comfort, continued peace, and discernment over the coming weeks and months.

  • @veggielovinaccountant
    @veggielovinaccountant 8 місяців тому +1

    As a preacher’s daughter, my heart is breaking because I truly understand what this will mean for your family. One thing about ministry is that the whole family is involved where as when a parent works in an office, for example, maybe only the parent is involved. I know that it will be good. And even if you have to move, your kids are at a good age to relocate. Trust me, I relocated a lot and it wasn’t the worst. I thought it was, but it actually wasn’t and it gave me a chance for a new start. My prayers are with y’all. 💗🙏🏻

  • @brittanylewis7408
    @brittanylewis7408 8 місяців тому +6

    You are such an awesome mother and wife to support your husband through everything. ❤ I can't wait to see what's next on your journey. Can you post the cake and cupcake recipe? I always try to write it down but miss it lol

    • @SeeMindyMom
      @SeeMindyMom  8 місяців тому +2

      I am putting it in the description box right now! :)

    • @brittanylewis7408
      @brittanylewis7408 8 місяців тому +1

      @@SeeMindyMom thank you so much! ❤️

  • @littlebug1026
    @littlebug1026 8 місяців тому +4

    I don't go to church anymore. I find there is a lot of drama at church to say the least. I am being very NICE. I had a preacher say something he should have NEVER said to anyone! And that's the last time I went to church which was Easter Sunday of the year 2000. I am not into choosing a particular "religion" either. I can praise God anywhere. I hope things work out for you and I am sorry your vacation was cut short. Thanks for all your videos I love them all!

    • @graciousgirl5161
      @graciousgirl5161 8 місяців тому +1

      The church helps us to encourage one another & grow closer to our Lord & Savior. The church is not perfect & will never have perfect people because only Jesus is perfect. I am sorry that the preacher said something to upset you. We have been hurt by our former pastor as well. We forgave him & we go to a different church now.
      Everyday we are growing close to Jesus Christ or farther away.
      Life can be challenging at times... my 46 year old husband has terminal cancer & I just lost my job 2 months ago but the Lord is faithful. His perfect peace is more than enough to help us with the hard times.
      Surrender all day /everyday, treasure every moment taking nothing for granted. No time to sweat the small stuff
      & sorry that I wasted precious time.
      Blessing always,
      RM from Florida

  • @chrystalbrown9600
    @chrystalbrown9600 8 місяців тому

    My father was a
    pastor. We started over many times.
    I pray that all involved will thrive through this change. God bless! He is worthy ! ❤🙏✝️

  • @rhoadestraveled
    @rhoadestraveled 7 місяців тому

    Haha I rotate brooms and sponges. 😂The kitchen sponge goes to the bathrooms after it’s kitchen life. I’m kind of funny about those things harboring germs so I don’t keep my sponges but a few weeks. They work great for scrubbing the tub and sink afterwards.

  • @katiem7850
    @katiem7850 8 місяців тому +2

    Sometimes it’s hard to see the silver lining when you’re surrounded by the storm….but as you said…God knows it’s there and revels it to us in His time. Sending prayers to you and your family for strength and comfort.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @SeeMindyMom
      @SeeMindyMom  8 місяців тому

      So true, thank you. Those are wise words and a good reminder.

  • @piggywings-hr3lv
    @piggywings-hr3lv 8 місяців тому

    Wishing yall the best 🙏🏻🙏🏻 for guidance and comfort

  • @carolsmith2969
    @carolsmith2969 8 місяців тому +2

    I got chicken thighs for 98 cents on sale. I stocked up for on fixed income. Love your videos

  • @allbizz1166
    @allbizz1166 8 місяців тому

    I am sorry to hear the news about your husband's job in the church. It's unfortunate that sometimes when a church decides to go in a different direction than what it had been doing, the church loses staff and members. I wish you all well.

  • @juliescheidler7763
    @juliescheidler7763 8 місяців тому

    Good luck to you and your family!❤❤

  • @aprillewis4563
    @aprillewis4563 8 місяців тому

    My husband is also a pastor and we have walked through a very similar situation. It was very difficult at the time, but looking back God took care of us during the transition and had a plan for our family. One of the hardest things we ever walked through turned out to be one of the biggest blessings

  • @lball9975
    @lball9975 8 місяців тому

    Keeping you and your family in my prayers!

  • @sherrireece2437
    @sherrireece2437 8 місяців тому +2

    Praying for comfort as you try to navigate the changes in your ministry going forward! Your work won’t change because of a position, so wishing you many blessings as you work in a different path!

  • @brittneybrewer333
    @brittneybrewer333 8 місяців тому +2

    17:40 Ah! I just got choked up when you said this. 🥹 I needed this reminder. This too shall pass…
    Thank you for being so rare and vulnerable with us. Praying for you and your family during this season. 🙏🏼❤️

  • @carolineochoaperez2382
    @carolineochoaperez2382 8 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤ everything will work out!!!!
    Our broom also goes outside or to the basement when we get a new one. ❤❤❤

  • @lindamarlow4663
    @lindamarlow4663 8 місяців тому

    Prayers coming your way. As you said all will work out the way it is meant to be. Thank you for sharing this news with all of us. Look forward to your next awesome video.

  • @anji5635
    @anji5635 8 місяців тому

    Going thru change is always unsettling... Bless you and your family.

  • @denisebiendarra5996
    @denisebiendarra5996 8 місяців тому

    We’ve been through this but came out from the other side even stronger. I wish the best for you and your family.

  • @EmeryShae
    @EmeryShae 8 місяців тому

    Praying for direction for your family ❤

  • @i.am_kyoti
    @i.am_kyoti 8 місяців тому

    Praying for you and your family! All will be wonderful! ❤

  • @lindahendricks1868
    @lindahendricks1868 8 місяців тому

    Happy birthday sweetie! And to Mindy, one day at a time. Sending prayers for your family from Indiana.

  • @stephaniemazzon8308
    @stephaniemazzon8308 8 місяців тому

    Hang in there!!❤

  • @Peridot500
    @Peridot500 8 місяців тому

    I’m so grateful for your testimony. Thank you for your ministry. God bless and keep you.

  • @TexasGirl1633
    @TexasGirl1633 8 місяців тому

    I will be praying for you and your family! I am so sorry y’all were faced with such a hard decision and had to end your trip early. Praying great things are right around the corner for y’all. Thanks for sharing!
    🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

  • @juliemariariley3212
    @juliemariariley3212 8 місяців тому

    I’m sending you love and prayers! 🙏🌻