Things I've struggled with since reverting to Islam.

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  • @arkaazizul6673
    @arkaazizul6673 2 місяці тому +22

    Don’t go hard on yourself
    You are a new Muslim sister that’s Alhamdulillah
    Try to leave the bad things one by one
    Take your time
    I’m born Muslim still I haven’t got rid of all the harams
    You have to be steady
    Don’t pressure yourself
    You’re doing good Masha Allah
    May Allah bless you my sister ❤❤

  • @Foroctos
    @Foroctos 2 місяці тому +23

    One step at a time. We’re all trying to better ourselves.

  • @adamadam1470
    @adamadam1470 2 місяці тому +32

    Take it easy , focus on one thing when you get it under control move to the next step, Islam is a journey انشالله you’ll get there

    • @Ibn_Abdulaziz
      @Ibn_Abdulaziz Місяць тому

      Covering the 'Awrah for women step by step.
      1. Pray the 5 Daily prayers, because it is obligatory on every Muslim Mukallaf (who is sane and has reached puberty).
      2. Standing infront of Allah ﷻ while covering your 'Awrah properly will increase your Eemaan (light of belief) inside the heart while at the sane time feeling comfortable wearing the proper Hijaab.
      3. Put it on for a Jum'ah (Friday Prayer), or 'Eid Prayers, or some Taraweeh prayers with the intention for Allah ﷻ and not expecting things from people.
      4. Go to the Masjid and listen to a lecture with your sisters. Or have get togethers.
      5. Take it up a notch by buying groceries while wearing it. Then to the mall.
      6. Also engaging in increasing in knowledge about Islam.
      This step by step way will make you comfortable.

    • @Ibn_Abdulaziz
      @Ibn_Abdulaziz Місяць тому

      Also get married and help young brothers who are seeking knowledge to remain chaste. With such an intention, you'll become a Mujahidah.

    • @Ibn_Abdulaziz
      @Ibn_Abdulaziz Місяць тому +1

      And if you are a new Muslim, try to marry righteous brothers and sisters from your own landsman so that your tribe increases in number and you eventually become more than the polytheists of your own people. You will then become the forefathers of your Muslim tribe insha'Allah.

    • @Ibn_Abdulaziz1405
      @Ibn_Abdulaziz1405 Місяць тому

      Also go to 'Umrah (minor pilgrimage) during Ramadan. You'll only be surrounded by Muslims and your Eemaan will increase. Then when you return, you will protect the acquired Eemaan that have like a baby by not disobeying Allah ﷻ and His Messenger ﷺ.
      My first 'Umrah was in 2004. You will not see any sins in Makkah and Madinah, only increasing in Eemaan with 5 Daily Prayers, Fasting and Taraweeh. Not seeing sins for an entire month. Back then social media wasn't like it is today, it was new while today people are addicted to it. So buying a burner and detoxing lest you scroll and your eyes land on sins and effects your heart. Once we returned and came to Istanbul on our way back to Sweden, then in the airport we saw uncovered women. And I will never forget that feeling, it felt as if missiles were bombarded at my heart, and then a huge push. As if all the shayateen (jinn devils) roaming about in the airport saw fresh meat, competing to get to my heart first with their waswaas (evil whisperings and suggestions). But then when we arrived back, and went to work and saw uncovered women on a daily basis again, the heart grew accustomed to it. But that is not the default position. The default position is purity and Eemaan in the heart, then it is the sins around you that males such fair and justified to the heart due to number of people doing it until it appears as normal. So doing 'Umrah and not scrolling, but only focusing on 'Ibadah (worship) and righteous deeds, will show you what it is you're protrecting. And to get Eemaan inside the heart, you cannot do acts of disobedience and sins because Eemaan diminishes with it. When a Muslim drinks, commits zina, steals, or murders, he has no Eemaan, it is lifted up. Then if he repents to Allah ﷻ, it returns, and he has to build it up again. Building it up takes time, while diminishing it can happen with one major sin.

  • @BernieCornelia
    @BernieCornelia Місяць тому +5

    As an irish revert I found writing the easiest surahs in transliteration and putting it in front of me while praying. Eventually I wrote all juz amma and learned it by heart that way. It took time but don't worry .

    • @Noname-vu1om
      @Noname-vu1om Місяць тому

      I actually used to do that as a kid to help with memorisation because I was really bad at reading Arabic.

  • @mirzaibrahim1380
    @mirzaibrahim1380 2 місяці тому +12

    No problem at all sister... Just learn and practice Islam slowly and step by step. May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala make it easy for you

  • @kf_uthman237
    @kf_uthman237 2 місяці тому +4

    Ma sha Allah

  • @o.h.8337
    @o.h.8337 Місяць тому +1

    You are doing beautifully sister ❤ May Allah (swt)help you in your journey insha'allah. In regards to the arabic for the prayers,I have heard that there are specific prayer mats that say the arabic out loud when you pray when you move and do each action so I think that could be a useful tool for you to help you remember the words while you pray ❤

  • @ZorhaAmara-zg4op
    @ZorhaAmara-zg4op 2 місяці тому +5

    My dear Sister take it easy step by step
    In Islam the most important is your intention ma Sha ALLAH you revert to Islam that's already a Big step

  • @abushahamaahmad7644
    @abushahamaahmad7644 2 місяці тому +2

    Allaho akbar

  • @muzaffarshaheen1473
    @muzaffarshaheen1473 2 місяці тому +1

    Laa Iqraha fi deen.

  • @zakirmusa4132
    @zakirmusa4132 Місяць тому

    What an amazing grounded person. Allah make it easy for you and all those who turn to Allah. Ameen.

  • @Alexandria1070
    @Alexandria1070 2 місяці тому +2

    U doing great

  • @fatherdad3474
    @fatherdad3474 2 місяці тому +4

    Thanks for sharing

  • @lahoreaskari2651
    @lahoreaskari2651 2 місяці тому +1

    As you said, take it slow and easy. Consider it a journey and don't be stressed, inshaAllah.

  • @sd13134
    @sd13134 Місяць тому

    May Allah SWT smooth your journey, ease your struggles and accept your wonderful deeds Sister. First and foremost, welcome to Islam and may you Insha Allah be one of the rightly guided and of the people of Jannah 😊

  • @aslampathan-q3o
    @aslampathan-q3o 2 місяці тому +6

    Stay strong sister, May Allah s.w.t make is easy for you...Aameen!!

  • @leilas9628
    @leilas9628 2 місяці тому +5

    Wa alaikum Salam my dear Sister, don’t worry my dearest you will get there slowly but surely. The most important is to keep your connection with Allah And I know that your Lord listen to you, watch you and most importantly will be always with you Alhamdulilah. Much love and take care. I wish you all the best in your beautiful journey.
    Kind regards, your Sister in Islam 😊

  • @kasimselamat1248
    @kasimselamat1248 2 місяці тому +1

    One step at the time slowly you’ll learn it don’t worry

  • @AireForce-w3p
    @AireForce-w3p 2 місяці тому +1

    Alhamdulilah sis god bless you

  • @asadraja1166
    @asadraja1166 2 місяці тому +4

    Sister, as a born Muslim I struggle with a few things,key thing is to strive on, Allah will appreciate our struggles but never give up in shah Allah. Small baby steps

  • @tradertube
    @tradertube 2 місяці тому +4

    Bless you and stay strong! Allah will guide you further on your journey!

  • @Shahid-xy5el
    @Shahid-xy5el Місяць тому

    Walikum salam thanks 🌹🌷⚘️

  • @SAMEERSHAIKH-pb3fe
    @SAMEERSHAIKH-pb3fe 2 місяці тому +1

    Ameen

  • @HafizYazeedi
    @HafizYazeedi 2 місяці тому +1

    A Journey of a Thousand Miles,...Begins with the 1 step,...Then the Next.....1 step at a time.

  • @Pierre-vn5rh
    @Pierre-vn5rh 2 місяці тому +1

    La vie est une succession de défis. Il faut être patient et prendre chaque jour comme une joie à vivre, malgré les contraintes. ❤

  • @MdSiraj-ud8yc
    @MdSiraj-ud8yc Місяць тому

    Subhaan Allah
    What a beautiful message. Keep up with your messages and your piety and inspire others to see the truth and beauty of Islam.

  • @treelover848
    @treelover848 2 місяці тому +1

    You are a beautiful soul, may Allah (swt) bless and reward you ♥️

  • @user-qs5cd4gi3v
    @user-qs5cd4gi3v 2 місяці тому +4

    Assalamu aleykum muslim sister. Allah (S.W.T) solidified the faith of arabs reverted muslims from paganism in MAKKAH and surroundings *23 years.* There are so much lessons to learn from the prophet (S.A.W) companions in these 23 years of teachings with the prophet. Work on your *"Taqwah" (the remembrance of Allah and the love to please Allah (S.W.T) alone)* first and other things will follow without you noticing. May Allah (S.W.T) ease your journey in Islam and may Allah make US all steadfast in Islam.
    Amin!

  • @assalaami8000
    @assalaami8000 Місяць тому

    Love you sister for the sake of Allah ❤❤❤. May Allah swt shower his mercy on you and this beautiful Ummah❤❤❤❤

  • @amjadhussain5024
    @amjadhussain5024 2 місяці тому +1

    Chill sister.. take ur time😊

  • @nrgstudios612
    @nrgstudios612 Місяць тому

    Mashallah sister Allah yassir alaikee (may Allah make it easy for you) wa jazakillahu khair

  • @SAMEERSHAIKH-pb3fe
    @SAMEERSHAIKH-pb3fe 2 місяці тому +1

    One step at a time sister may Allah make it easy for you inshaallah

  • @malikftnd5569
    @malikftnd5569 2 місяці тому +1

    Alhamdulillah

  • @ibrahimdihum9127
    @ibrahimdihum9127 2 місяці тому +1

    Stay strong do as best as you can
    Sister Allah does not charge a one soul except a within its capacity

  • @AB-ie2dl
    @AB-ie2dl 2 місяці тому +1

    Well come, sister, you are going in the right direction. Just don't be shy with any problem or question. Ask any practising Muslim they would love to answer or help ,
    Love and respect ❤

  • @Eren-yt7hh
    @Eren-yt7hh 2 місяці тому +1

    Have patience sister I wish you the best may allah help and guide you inshallah

  • @fatherdad3474
    @fatherdad3474 2 місяці тому +1

    Alhamdulillah ❤❤❤

  • @SAMEERSHAIKH-pb3fe
    @SAMEERSHAIKH-pb3fe 2 місяці тому +1

    May Allah bless you and sunnah of prophet Muhammad peace be upon him warm our heart's ❤❤❤❤

  • @Zak-o7l
    @Zak-o7l 2 місяці тому +1

    Welcome back to Islam sister

  • @azizbourakkadi8027
    @azizbourakkadi8027 2 місяці тому +1

    May Allah help you to stay steadfast in your Iman. Your are a good thinking person, no doubt about it. All your brothers in Islam are with you in your journey. We are proud of you sister, you deserve all the encouragement without any reservation. Keep going dear Sister.

  • @javed1275
    @javed1275 Місяць тому

    May Allah make it easy for you my sister.

  • @creativedesignermd8340
    @creativedesignermd8340 2 місяці тому +1

    may Allah rewards you and all muslims the jannah❤

  • @egulsever
    @egulsever 2 місяці тому

    Thanks for sharing. Love your honesty!

  • @noreenarshad3672
    @noreenarshad3672 2 місяці тому +1

    Maa sha Allah!
    When you enter into this beautiful Deen you become a family. Know that Allah will & is always with you. He is closer to you than your Jugular vein. So whatever you ate feeling,thinking & doing He is all Aware. Don't focus on people's negative reactions,response. As long as you truly submit to the Will of Allah & please Him,you don't need to worry.
    May Allah (SWT) grant you success with your journey in this life & the akhirah - Ameen 🤲 ❤️

  • @Free_Falestine
    @Free_Falestine Місяць тому

    Masha Allah ❤❤❤

  • @ammarasiddique8
    @ammarasiddique8 Місяць тому

    Beautiful video, and honestly quite impressive how much concerned you are about all the important things. insha'Allah insha'Allah insha'Allah Allah will definitely help you and make your journey safe..... Just ask Allah and wait for the miracles ❤

  • @ideas5663
    @ideas5663 2 місяці тому +1

    May your journey be easy and you get rewarded my sister, ameen.

  • @poranhossain2774
    @poranhossain2774 2 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Asra-u3v
    @Asra-u3v 2 місяці тому

    Slowly slowly- thats the way inshaAllah my dear sister ❤

  • @zengara11
    @zengara11 Місяць тому

    You are already incredible far already, and you are indeed correct, those who are close to Allah is Muslim, not specific ethnicities. I wish you wonderful life, and you just gained a sub

  • @FEATHER-creative
    @FEATHER-creative 2 місяці тому +1

    You are my sister mashallah

  • @sadikulofficial595
    @sadikulofficial595 2 місяці тому +1

    O walaikum assalam sister

  • @SaeedAwan-z3n
    @SaeedAwan-z3n Місяць тому

    Mash Allah🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰 jazak Allah❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @AsSa-kt7ue
    @AsSa-kt7ue 2 місяці тому

    ما شاء الله والحمد لله والله اكبر أسأل الله لها الثبات والتوفيق والنجاح والسعادة

  • @syedAli-dp6cq
    @syedAli-dp6cq 2 місяці тому +1

    As long as your intentions are good and you are strong, Allah is watching and Allah will make this journey easy for you. Everything will be great just don't give up!!

  • @VeteranATM
    @VeteranATM 2 місяці тому +1

    You are not alone.

  • @alisajid3570
    @alisajid3570 2 місяці тому +1

    👍♥️🙋 from Japan

  • @tanvirrashid4391
    @tanvirrashid4391 2 місяці тому

    Very proud of you god bless you

  • @iopjkl248
    @iopjkl248 2 місяці тому +1

    Asvkmrvkh
    You doing great
    Mashallah

  • @Nono0311
    @Nono0311 2 місяці тому +1

    greetings from indonesia

  • @MrShah-l6d
    @MrShah-l6d 2 місяці тому +2

    Sister mashahallah ❣️🇵🇰

  • @HRoslan
    @HRoslan Місяць тому

    Mashaallah, you’re doing well. ❤

  • @bostan8761
    @bostan8761 Місяць тому

    Sister salaam and welcome. Thanks so much for your video. This just shows (to urself more than anyone else) that U are sincere and aware. Allaah is Most Merciful. Like u said it's a journey. For food come to Birmingham or Leicester 😋....plenty a lovely halal food. Erm lots of white and black Muslims ere man.
    Nice to of met u and yeah keep the contact and focus on ur spirit and make sure to keep it nourished. U seem on the right road and May Allaah forever bless U and accept Ur struggles and sacrifices. I can imagine.....U have family and have to deal with so so many things I and many like me take for granted. Stay strong Sis. Ws

  • @ben11551
    @ben11551 2 місяці тому +1

    👍👍

  • @SayedI313
    @SayedI313 Місяць тому +1

    Having to give up disco dancing was the most difficult for me

  • @FarooqKhan-gs7ny
    @FarooqKhan-gs7ny 2 місяці тому +2

    MashAllah ❤

  • @zahidhassan3242
    @zahidhassan3242 Місяць тому

    Love from California ❤❤❤

  • @tfortube
    @tfortube Місяць тому

    Born Muslim here and I struggle with Arabic. However those that struggle with Arabic while reading Quran are rewarded more than that do not struggle. 😊

  • @user-1001x
    @user-1001x Місяць тому

    Selamun Aleykum liebe Schwester. Ersteinmal Gratulation für deine Konvertierung zum Islam. Du hast die beste Entscheidung deines Lebens getroffen, die dein gesamtes Leben auf positive und schöne Weise verändern wird. Ich bin geborener Muslim, habe aber viele Fehler gemacht und leider nicht nach dem Islam gelebt. Erst mit 25 bereute ich und bat Allah um Vergebung für meine Fehler, woraufhin er mir die Rechtleitung gab. Das Erlernen der Suren und der Gebete, war plötzlich so einfach wie ich es vorher noch nie erlebt habe. Ich wollte es erlernen und Allah gab mir als Geschenk die innere Zufriedenheit. Das arabische lesen habe ich in nur vier Tagen durch Hilfe des Imams geschafft. Der Rest waren Feinheiten, die ich nach und nach erlernen musste. Es ist nicht so kompliziert wie man denkt. Heute bin ich 48 Jahre alt. Ich glaube, dass auch du es in vier Tagen schaffen kannst den heiligen Koran zu lesen. Ich wünsche dir viel Erfolg dabei. Möge Allah dich immer rechtleiten und auch deine Familie zum Islam führen. Selamun Aleykum ve rahmetullahi ve berekatu.

  • @aminrehmani3400
    @aminrehmani3400 2 місяці тому

    Walikumsallam sister you seem doing very good allhamdulallah so no worries

  • @zainubumar
    @zainubumar Місяць тому

    People born into Islam still struggle with this. If you intend to move towards goodness, you will find that Allah makes it easy for you and also that He makes your heart close up towards things that are to be avoided.
    Just pray and don't be anxious. Leave it to Him ❤

  • @MyIslam-w1w
    @MyIslam-w1w 2 місяці тому +1

    Asalaamu-aliakum sister remember that Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said this world is a prison for a believer and paradise for the non-believer!!
    Struggles are part and parcel of a believer!
    Try your best and leave the rest to the Almighty who is The Most Merciful, ameen.

  • @nadirbetrouni137
    @nadirbetrouni137 Місяць тому

    Allaikum asallam
    Your journey will not be easy but don't worry Allah will help you
    I hope you met a good Musliman to marry and help you with your life
    May Allah bless you

  • @أبوهشام-م2ر
    @أبوهشام-م2ر 2 місяці тому +2

    عن أبي مالك الأشجعي عن أبيه - رضي الله عنهما قال : كان الرجل إذا أسلم علمه النبي - صلى الله عليه وسلم - الصلاة ثم أمره أن يدعو بهؤلاء الكلمات : "اللهم اغفر لي وارحمني واهدني وعافني وارزقني" . رواه مسلم

  • @RidoyKhan-k8x
    @RidoyKhan-k8x 3 дні тому

    Allah, you are the azim of the world and the hereafter, and the rehan of the rehan of the wipe, the rehan of the rehan of the punishment ❤

  • @essa200911
    @essa200911 Місяць тому

    Subhanallah

  • @sekhrilarbi663
    @sekhrilarbi663 Місяць тому

    Welcome sister

  • @mohammadmalik4462
    @mohammadmalik4462 Місяць тому

    I listen to lots of revert vids the cost and the sacrifices they are going through are the same when islam was revealed on prophet pbuh I get that strong feeling that Allah chosen west over arabs and native Muslim countries is it because we did not keep our commitnet with Allah.....
    Love from pakistan......

  • @iqama1
    @iqama1 Місяць тому

    Lots of born Muslims can resonate with your struggles.

  • @joebaz4844
    @joebaz4844 2 місяці тому +1

    Salaam, recommended reading Being Muslim: A Practical Guide, By Dr. Asad Tarsin.

  • @mikaal-mohammed1
    @mikaal-mohammed1 2 місяці тому +2

    Alhamduallah 🌞🌚☠️

  • @macbook9084
    @macbook9084 2 місяці тому +1

    👍

  • @MoeedKhan1979
    @MoeedKhan1979 Місяць тому

    Just be easy sister. Islam prefer step by step

  • @MrTMrT007
    @MrTMrT007 Місяць тому

    It's a journey and you'll get there. But one step at a time. Don't do it all in a day. It's worth it.

  • @rankintaheer111
    @rankintaheer111 Місяць тому

    You are on track just go slow and patient😊

  • @AliKrys
    @AliKrys 2 місяці тому +1

    Salam. You’re a breath of fresh air sister. Thank you for sharing. I pray that Allah eases the struggles for you and all of us ♥️

    • @AliKrys
      @AliKrys 2 місяці тому

      @@RJ-dw4jw ya you are ✌️

  • @sarfaraz1025
    @sarfaraz1025 2 місяці тому +2

    Sister almost every thing looks difficult to learn in starting. I am born non Arabic Muslim.. when I started to read Quran I faced so difficulty but after some time now I can read Quran with fluency in Arabic. So please don't take tension. You will read Quran easily after some time inshaallah. 🎉🎉

    • @theahmed1523
      @theahmed1523 2 місяці тому +1

      Sister Islam is a way of life . Islam has nothing to do with food or clothes. If you are living in UK you can eat anything even meat because UK people is Ahl El kitab. People of the book.

    • @orapy3168
      @orapy3168 2 місяці тому

      @@theahmed1523only if it is halal

  • @henryharrogate3765
    @henryharrogate3765 Місяць тому

    There is a reward (Thawab) in struggle as well. Allah forgives sins and gives reward for every struggle, every pain, every worrisome thought, every sickness/disease, every sorrow that comes to you ... etc. So keep it SLOW and STEADY, you're bound to win this race. Our prayers for you, May Allah be with you all. In the U.K. there are reverts circles. You'll find people there who are/were in your shoes. Seek their advice.

  • @AudioStream7
    @AudioStream7 2 місяці тому +2

    Problem is the online dawah scene and their followers, is dominated by fundamentalist leaning groups and their literalist understanding of the faith, promoting their view as the “only Islam” converts should really explore the universality of the faith and not be expected to convert to full orthodoxy from the get-go, unless that’s their leaning as well.

  • @rankintaheer111
    @rankintaheer111 Місяць тому

    ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉

  • @sajjadshoabe.
    @sajjadshoabe. 2 місяці тому

    WS. Have a wonderful journey on this beautiful path.

  • @KAshraf-e4i
    @KAshraf-e4i Місяць тому

    I am a devoted Muslim but like to listen music. As I am getting older I don’t listen as before. Without mercy of Allah none will get salvation. Ask Allah for forgiveness if listening of music is not halal. Allah is Merciful.

  • @ahmedalshalchi
    @ahmedalshalchi 2 місяці тому

    May Allah bless her and fix her on the straight path if she is sincere and honest for life changing ...
    By the way , Arabic is not hard as you might think... You just go live streaming with Arabs and you will learn much faster than you think but there one thing bad in this , you will learn good and bad things from Arabs so try to filter what you are receiving correctly ...

  • @mohansubramaniam7487
    @mohansubramaniam7487 2 місяці тому

    Clothing just wear loose t-shirt n loose pants for a start. As long as your body is fully covered. Work your way up slowly
    Music is not Haram. Don't get to attach!
    Halah food is good for your health and wellbeing
    Learning is a gift

  • @samSan-h1g
    @samSan-h1g Місяць тому

    Salam sister, One thing for sure, If you listen Holly Quran, in the audio translation to English. You will love it slowly and then you will not leave it. You will forget everything; except d Holly Quran will you love to listen. It is my personal experience, I am born Muslim, Journey is little tough.
    One more thing our Prophet peace upon him, one his great companions called Salman al-Farsi. He came from Iran to join our beloved Prophet peace upon him. There are lot of examples. hazrat bilal habshi he came from Africa. So, we are all same, Allah knows our heart's that matter's everything. I will reply your other points later, bless your sister, Salam.

  • @ahmadruzaini4646
    @ahmadruzaini4646 Місяць тому

    if you are already accustomed to social media..the algorithms are consistently introduced to something that is similar and that's hard to flush it out.

  • @Ioane-vn6ti
    @Ioane-vn6ti Місяць тому

    Nothing the Maliki madhab can't fix they are a more relaxing environment, I'm Shafiyy but it's a tad stricter in certain areas don't stress you'll be ok God willing

  • @mohamedsh9435
    @mohamedsh9435 2 місяці тому

    Masha Allaah Sister, jasaaka Allaah khayr
    I ask Allaah to guide you and all of us to the straight path and make easy for you and all of us. Aamiin
    Sister, check Arabic online call (madina Arabic)

  • @asya9507
    @asya9507 Місяць тому

    Islam is flexible and food prepared/processed by people of the book is halal. You live in a Judeo-Christian country. These are people of the book. When you eat out, just say Bismillah and eat. Yes, finding modest clothing in the US has always been a struggle.

    • @BernieCornelia
      @BernieCornelia Місяць тому

      That's not correct...saying bismillah doesn't make it halal.

  • @recepnuhbasa8734
    @recepnuhbasa8734 2 місяці тому +1

    Relaxing music is no problem