weekly vlog 006 | days in my hectic wknd | super bowl, picnics in the city, vulnerable chats

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  • Опубліковано 13 лют 2023
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  • @viiiciii
    @viiiciii Рік тому +155

    a whole hour 😭🫶🏾

  • @JesusisKing325
    @JesusisKing325 Рік тому +153

    hey vennesse, I just wanted to say that you may not be the happiest with how you handled the situation but your self awareness and ability to hold yourself accountable will take you far, stay safe

    • @venscendent
      @venscendent  Рік тому +11

      thank you so so much🫶🏽🫶🏽

    • @chavezrolle1333
      @chavezrolle1333 Рік тому

      @@venscendent hey 😊👋 you, you know you don't boil noodles in frying pan 🍳 tho....I love & miss you guys dearly

  • @pelumiadelaja
    @pelumiadelaja Рік тому +70

    Honestly, I can TOTALLY relate to Venesse’s feelings with the whole Taco Bell episode. The girl recording her was so uncalled for, and I’m happy she was self aware about the whole p. But I really wish your feelings weren’t immediately reprimanded.
    Your reaction was very fair and valid. No matter how zen you are, someone intentionally messing up on a job that they are paid to do, on a day you’re hungry can really take a toll on you.
    Those guys need to pay for it someway tbh.

  • @CarmenSydney
    @CarmenSydney Рік тому +6

    Hi Veneese! I would just like to say I am proud of you for being bundled on camera. I’m just like you, I hate expressing my feelings to anyone except my therapist. Therapy has reached helped me. The thing I love most about my therapist is she is Christian based. I found her through safe harbor Christian counseling. I hope you seek the help you’re looking for. Remember to always keep God first. He looves you baby.

  • @ravencoley769
    @ravencoley769 Рік тому +14

    i feel you on the fact that i dont feel like i grew up with a lot of trauma but i do think i grew up with it around me.. i also hold up a lot of my feelings inside and keep to myself and maybe therapy would be good to let all that out without talking to family.. and i find it funny bc as you said in the video i was starting my period and i was soo emotional saturday i was just so overwhelmed and let it all out to my mom.. i felt this video fr its always good to be vulnerable from someone who keeps everything in thank you for reminding me of that 🫶🏾

    • @venscendent
      @venscendent  Рік тому +3

      yess i complete agree w you. im glad you could relate, thank you so much for watching

  • @KiyarahJ
    @KiyarahJ Рік тому +44

    44:08 the accountability the maturity I could never 😂 (but I’m working on it). It’s always good to have people who gives a different perspective on things because we (as humans) always think we’re right without evaluating what happened ,what lead you to do this/saying what you said or what the other party might of felt in the moment. It’s the only thing that help be accountable for my actions. Anyways I love your content you motivate me to be better thank you. Have great day 🫶

  • @za.cariaa
    @za.cariaa Рік тому +17

    I’ve always admired the cinematography and quality of her videos like 😩

  • @RozayKindaVibe
    @RozayKindaVibe 9 місяців тому

    I actually love that you were vulnerable with me and everyone else on your channel, that’s a huge step not even I normally do. If you’re still on the fence about therapy it’s definitely a green light for me. Focus on getting someone who shares your values and can relate to you and you can relate to them. Aim for basically a mentor with a therapy license, because I completely adore my therapists! Be open and vulnerable with the person you chose and if they’re not a great fit, you aren’t obligated to be loyal to them. Leave and find a better fit much like a shoe at a store. There are always better options someplace else. But I wish you so much luck on your healing and self help journey🫶🏽✨

  • @mimikutu
    @mimikutu Рік тому +12

    Regarding the Taco Bell situation girl ANYONE would’ve got heated over that. Idk how you didn’t kick down the door cause I would’ve and I’m a very calm person 😭❤️so cut yourself some slack my love. The fact that you can even sit back and acknowledge the situation and what you didn’t like about what happened and you want to do better speaks volumes for your character.

  • @shamonteaniya
    @shamonteaniya Рік тому +34

    you be making me want to eat healthy just because i'm watching you do it 😩

  • @Noname11196
    @Noname11196 Рік тому +9

    It’s okay to fuck up sometimes things have to happen gone wrong work and right, but it’s reflecting, being self aware, and accountability that you did perfect. Great job it will get better don’t be yourself up about it venese thank you for sharing with us your vulnerability 😢

  • @schaeannsalmon
    @schaeannsalmon Рік тому +15

    I LOVED this vlog. This was so different and I really enjoyed it. I love how you took accountability and realised where you failed but you accepted it and took the mature route of realising. Proud of you! Pleasse do more like this!

  • @TyonaRenee709
    @TyonaRenee709 Рік тому +35

    An hour vlog!!! 🥳🥳 thank you girl very appreciated 💗

  • @firstnamelastname8416
    @firstnamelastname8416 Рік тому +5

    i can totally relate with the taco bell thing. im definitely not firey person and i actually tend to be more shy, but sometimes people bring out the wrong side of meee fr. im tryna work on thinking before i speak and act 🥲

  • @Sabrina-be8zp
    @Sabrina-be8zp Рік тому +1

    you remind me of myself so much I'm not an angry person its very rare for people to see me angry and I don't like conflict at all I try to stay away from all those things, I hold in a lot of my feelings because I hate people seeing me vulnerable, I rather deal with my own emotions or just ignore them, but when I do get angry it's so bad because I lash all out and end up crying and regretting how mad I got, and letting people see me at my lowest it's like when I get angry I have a whole mental break down and shut down completely after for a couple of days.

  • @jdynnn
    @jdynnn 2 місяці тому

    1:02 rewatching this for like the SEVENTH time now but this shirt remixxxx it’s soooo satisfying, like the bass did it’s thingggg .. one of my fav vlogs from you as well ! props to you again 💞

  • @jelangarrett3279
    @jelangarrett3279 Рік тому +3

    Hey Vennesse! I love that you even brought up therapy as an option. I recently had my very first therapy session on Wednesday and my therapist has already made me think really hard about my actions and thoughts. I had always wanted to try therapy because just like you said, you can only do so much on your own and I was having the same spiral of unhealthy emotions that I was not comfortable with. Also, I think even acknowledging your behavior is the first step and I love that you are so self-aware! Love your personality and videos.. you really inspire me ❤❤

  • @abi.shinece
    @abi.shinece Рік тому +11

    I love whenever she posts longs videos they are always so GOODDDDDDD

  • @cottoncandyhairchannel
    @cottoncandyhairchannel Рік тому +6

    I relate to people taking you out of character and being guilty asf afterwards

  • @luhenmel
    @luhenmel Рік тому +16

    An hour!! Yessss venesse 🥺 keep em coming! & I hope you're doing well 🤍🥺

  • @precioushaith7187
    @precioushaith7187 Рік тому +2

    love you vee thank you sm 💕for this hour long video im enjoying it alot i get so happy when you post your literally the cure to my depression i been watching you for over an year and you just helped me alot and you just make me smile i really hope your doing ok!

  • @Randzu.A.S
    @Randzu.A.S Рік тому +3

    Girrrrrl!!!! Look at you!!!! Ouchere pushing yourself like nobody's business and allowing yourself to be vulnerable! I love that so much for you! #somotivational ... I pray the good Lord continues to show you the way and may he also remind you who you are, especially when people are really trying so hard to make you lose yourself! We love all sides of Vaneese cause she human too, but not jus any human, SHE THE BADDEST! (Especially cause she got the Almighty right beside her)❤️

    • @venscendent
      @venscendent  Рік тому +1

      thank you so so so much for your support bby 🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @ericamorgan214
    @ericamorgan214 Рік тому +1

    i completely understand where you’re coming from, and it does take time to control your emotions and think before acting. i’m still working on it myself, but you already acknowledging your actions and understanding that it wasn’t the best reaction is a great first step.

  • @mwansabesa3597
    @mwansabesa3597 Рік тому +4

    This has been an amazing hour 😭😭❤️❤️and I can totally relate to what you're going through, I'm turning 20 too and sometimes self realization and growth is so hard , big ups to you for acknowledging your actions and picking yourself back up🥺 I just love you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @pelumiadelaja
    @pelumiadelaja Рік тому +3

    Love love the openness and vulnerability in this vlog

  • @deniyarobinson2893
    @deniyarobinson2893 Рік тому +2

    I’m loving everything about this video.. I’m only halfway through ✨. Your calling is all here mamas, keep sharing!

  • @Growthwithpatience
    @Growthwithpatience Рік тому +2

    49:48 I can literally reality to the story of you being like kinda aggressive growing up I was also like that I have come a long way in changing myself but since I’m less expressive people tend to take advantage of that (thanks for sharing ♥️)

  • @_rayafterhours
    @_rayafterhours Рік тому +7

    She blessed us with an hour vlog yesss please💨🤍

  • @xoxosea
    @xoxosea Рік тому +2

    I love when you post, your vlogs are always so refreshing💞

  • @mmah
    @mmah Рік тому +5

    I finally got to sit and finish the rest of this video and I LOVEDDDD it! Veneese, you are truly for the people and I really hope you get the recognition that you deserve xoxo

    • @venscendent
      @venscendent  Рік тому +1

      thank you so much bby🥹🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @itz.princess8675
    @itz.princess8675 Рік тому +2

    Girl if you need anger management so do I 😂. I can relate to you so much with the temper thing, vulnerability...it gets better and I’m glad you were able to calm down.

  • @Kay_thespammer_
    @Kay_thespammer_ Рік тому

    I understand what you meant when you were venting about being upset, it’s normal to get mad and realize you shouldn’t let people take you out your element. 💛 I understood you 100 percent.

  • @marielyc
    @marielyc Рік тому +3

    you’re so inspiring love, enjoyed the hour long vid 💕

  • @sprayslysol
    @sprayslysol Рік тому +2

    for anyone turned off of a plant based diet, there are plant foods that have iron, you have to know what nutrients you need and eat them regardless if you eat animal products or not:)

    • @venscendent
      @venscendent  Рік тому

      absolutely! i just think it made my case worse cause low iron runs in my family unfortunately

  • @amayakierra6806
    @amayakierra6806 Рік тому +1

    I’m a new subscriber and can I just say I am IN LOVE! I absolutely love your content and your vibe and how relatable you are🫶🏾!

  • @bebe9573
    @bebe9573 Рік тому

    Hi Vanesse, I don’t ever comment on videos, but I just want to tell you that I’ve been watching for a while now, and I want to thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story. This was confirmation for me to start working on my calling and purpose that God has for me. I just want to say keep going because you’re on the right track and you’re right where you need to be.. I loveeee youuuu🤍!!

  • @itssregina
    @itssregina Рік тому +2

    this was sooo good I love the way you edit your videos it makes it feel like we’re watching your videos through multiple perspectives it’s like a short film soo cooll!

  • @1lovesimone
    @1lovesimone Рік тому

    definitely enjoyed this whole vlog! it was so relaxing, along with us getting to see you be alot more open with us than you usually are. cant wait for the next upload 🤍

  • @thereal.melaninbratz
    @thereal.melaninbratz Рік тому +2

    I loveeeeeee watching your videos your so real and just all your videos be so raw specially with your editing skills girl

  • @niachrisette
    @niachrisette Рік тому

    I loved this vlog sooo much you are literally my favv, if only you knew how much you're content helps/motivates me I love youuu Veneese never stop doing what you love :)

  • @KayliahLara
    @KayliahLara Рік тому +2

    Girl.. the fact that you mentioned how you weren’t really tripping about the car, but your camera.. you’d be torn up about? Both of those happened to me in the last month and it’s harddd. You’re a good distraction 💕 thank you

    • @venscendent
      @venscendent  Рік тому

      i’m so sorry😭 can’t imagine how you’re feelingg. sending my love🖤🖤

  • @serena_bee
    @serena_bee Рік тому +1

    It’s Veneese saying her 🩸”be trying to take them both out” for me….
    I know that’s the truth for most women. We strong beings 💯

  • @momspirit9471
    @momspirit9471 Рік тому +1

    I love this video so much. This is amazing. ❤️ so genuine. I felt almost every emotion.

  • @jadajohnson9462
    @jadajohnson9462 Рік тому +2

    I’m living for this hour vloggg. Thank you Veneese ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @alexiajones707
    @alexiajones707 Рік тому

    Your videos truly bring me peace❤️!

  • @beepoarch
    @beepoarch Рік тому +4

    She has blessed us with an hour long video 💕😄

  • @ummumami
    @ummumami Рік тому +1

    ahhhhh not an hour vlog?! you showing out and I love it. also I was mindblown seeing you use your phone for those amazing shots, we might need a videography tutorial 🤸🏾‍♀😂 I love and appreciate this video so much and watching you over this last year whew Im so proud of you! I know its only gonna go even more up for you, I hope you know it too!! 💕💕💕 everybody has a day thats "not the day", we all been there! You were accountable. thanks for letting us in more!

  • @kasyiatia
    @kasyiatia Рік тому +1

    It’s okay venesse , don’t nobody understand you get what you paid for.. and ain’t nothing wrong with wanting your food right . we know your not an angel but everyone not an angel . we love you❤️ . and we are appreciated that you are comfortable with telling us how you feel and showing your feelings . letting us in . but it’s okay . everyone gets upset . YOUR working on a positive mindset so . i get why you lost your cool . but we are your fans and we love you for who you are❤️

  • @ClassyQua78P
    @ClassyQua78P Рік тому +1

    Ooooooo the 1 minute vlog I'm here for this periodtt boo 💖💓😍 love when you post

  • @Keezybronjames
    @Keezybronjames Рік тому +2

    I definitely enjoyed this and I can tell your good vibes

  • @azianafeesa
    @azianafeesa Рік тому

    my new fav vee vlog literally

  • @jdynnn
    @jdynnn 3 місяці тому

    24:07 rewatching this vid for like the third time and i love this shot ! props to you 💘

  • @diaryoftemi
    @diaryoftemi Рік тому +1

    the visuals >>>

  • @sdela101
    @sdela101 Рік тому

    A whole hour. I just needed a break from studying. You have me a whole half time. Thank you vee🫶🏽

  • @charlitax
    @charlitax Рік тому +5

    your content definitely pushes me to keep going🫶🏾!

  • @beckii.2x
    @beckii.2x Рік тому +1

    video was so raw i love the material & your letting us in

  • @Iyonna_Lewis_
    @Iyonna_Lewis_ Рік тому

    Girl really appreciate the video ❤. I absolutely loved it!!! I’m definitely enjoying the vlog. I can definitely relate. I went to therapy years ago it definitely helped.

  • @landynkardia
    @landynkardia Рік тому +3

    V loves us y’all!!! & we love her period!! 🫶🏾🫶🏾❤️‍🔥

    • @venscendent
      @venscendent  Рік тому

      i’m glad y’all know 😭🖤🖤

  • @alexharris6606
    @alexharris6606 Рік тому +1

    Your editinggg… wow. 10/10

  • @222tommy
    @222tommy Рік тому +1

    SHE BLESSED ❤️❤️❤️

    • @222tommy
      @222tommy Рік тому

      This camera so damn clear 😭😭😮‍💨

  • @BreAunaAaliyah
    @BreAunaAaliyah Рік тому +1

    I loveeeeee your vlogs sm!!!!

  • @serena_bee
    @serena_bee Рік тому +2

    Yess, another upload❣️🌸
    Love decor in every direction, way to rub it in 😂❤
    #selflove

  • @jaylahope03
    @jaylahope03 Рік тому

    been waiting for 3pm🥰happy valentine’s day vee!🫶🏽

  • @mainllyjasmine
    @mainllyjasmine Рік тому +2

    I love this WOMEN💗💁🏽‍♀️

  • @viiiciii
    @viiiciii Рік тому +1

    i love your editing style 😍

  • @nyanya1849
    @nyanya1849 Рік тому

    And I’m going to watch every second 😭❤️. Love veneese soleeé

  • @Lisa_31252
    @Lisa_31252 Рік тому

    happy Valentine’s Day my love 🥰🫶🏾🌹

  • @moreofmellaa
    @moreofmellaa Рік тому

    I love everything about this video

  • @Lisa_31252
    @Lisa_31252 Рік тому +1

    im here for the 1 hour vlogs ❤️❤️❤️

  • @AjaJanai
    @AjaJanai Рік тому +1

    your videos are soo good! i love your content

  • @bryiannamorris
    @bryiannamorris Рік тому

    i love you and your vibe ❤️

  • @babykeledits
    @babykeledits Рік тому

    Not gone lie, I really enjoyed this video 🔥.. this is my first time back here watching you in a long time and I loved every second of this vlog 💗 keep it up girly ☆

  • @amourafiaaa
    @amourafiaaa Рік тому

    I can relate to you about the taco bell thing and I too end up crying after I act like that. I struggle with anger too and I'm in therapy again after a 6 month hiatus. Its good that you can even reflect on it. Btw, we love you and look forward to your videos. :)

  • @trinoelle
    @trinoelle Рік тому

    hey i started therapy a couple months back and i can definitely see why people think it doesn’t work. First off for the first 2-3 weeks or even a month, your therapist is trying to get to know you and properly understand you so a lot of those early sessions are just you venting, them asking generic questions and then giving generic advice. It can get pretty annoying but if you actively want to get better and want therapy to work for you then you will get through it. Once your therapist starts to understand your perspective, home life and patterns of behavior (basically a month or two in) therapy is literally life changing or at least it was for me. I recognize patterns of behavior and my relationships with friends, family, etc etc. I also think it’s important you “customize” your therapist. For example I made sure I requested a black woman who was older than me to give perspective but not too old to make me feel weird. I say give therapy a try if you really want to see mental growth

  • @lilprettygurl9167
    @lilprettygurl9167 Рік тому +1

    yes an hour vlog purr

  • @kontoayma9020
    @kontoayma9020 Рік тому +1

    YAYYY U POSTED

  • @Shaniaa
    @Shaniaa Рік тому +1

    Yaayyy!! Literally my favorite person ❤️

  • @lexy9675
    @lexy9675 Рік тому

    we love you boo ! 💞

  • @yoora530
    @yoora530 Рік тому

    An HOUR OH MY💖LOVE yaaa VENEESE 😙😙

  • @melaninduo03
    @melaninduo03 Рік тому

    i am so happyyyyy i found ur content

  • @justlovevee
    @justlovevee Рік тому

    I just LOVE your videos😍❤

  • @just4sh0_
    @just4sh0_ Рік тому +2

    Not only is it an hour but she got the viewssss of piedmont park for us 🥹

  • @baebiegurll
    @baebiegurll Рік тому

    An hour omg, I love you❤️❕

  • @nathael2439
    @nathael2439 Рік тому

    I love your videos so much 😫😫😫

  • @Lisa_31252
    @Lisa_31252 Рік тому

    Rihanna most definitely killedddd her performance for half timeee likeee periodtttt ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @donayah
    @donayah Рік тому

    Whew an hour is crazy!! I need to get like you but love this content yesssss!

  • @juliawieczorek3262
    @juliawieczorek3262 Рік тому

    OMFGG LOVE WHEN U POSTT

  • @shavonnerenee1170
    @shavonnerenee1170 Рік тому +4

    Yeah you're officially my virtual sister after the storytime 🤣🤣🤣

  • @estherobeng700
    @estherobeng700 Рік тому

    This video arrived at the perfect time

  • @vkxyla
    @vkxyla Рік тому

    new subscriber here !! i’m so picky with who i watch on youtube especially long videos, but I enjoyed your whole video, your vibe, and I love your voice. ❤

    • @venscendent
      @venscendent  Рік тому

      welcome bby, thank you for tuning in with me🖤🖤

  • @Cal.kenzie
    @Cal.kenzie Рік тому

    Yess a video upload 💓🥰

  • @graceunhaean
    @graceunhaean Рік тому +2

    Wait gurl you make everything look so good haha that pink hoodie is so dam cute on you 💗💗💗😝

  • @alicianicole1799
    @alicianicole1799 Рік тому

    i bought a brand new 2022 car and 5 months later was in a car accident as well. car was in the shop for 6 months and my life went from bad to worse during that time. keeping my faith during my time was the hardest but i finally got my car back and my life back together and now that time has gone by i realized i went through that period for a reason. you keeping your faith and keeping a positive attitude during this time will go a long way. ❤️

  • @Shaiversal
    @Shaiversal Рік тому +5

    Now an hour with venesse I can do! ❤

  • @anniyahmariee
    @anniyahmariee Рік тому

    time to sit back & enjoy the video ☺️

  • @Lisa_31252
    @Lisa_31252 Рік тому +1

    I totally understand and I can relate to you about anger management because i am also myself trying to heal from things that trigger me from getting upset and angry such as lashing out on people and there is nothing wrong with seeking for help if you need to go to therapy please do it 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @zamankosi8995
    @zamankosi8995 Рік тому

    Love the way u flim ur videos

  • @TyonaRenee709
    @TyonaRenee709 Рік тому +1

    Omg so I seen the new season of you and I’m so mad that the next season doesn’t come out till march!!! But joe finally joes not the bad person lol 😂

  • @toluwanielizabeth1178
    @toluwanielizabeth1178 Рік тому +7

    Hi vs. I just got done with watching this video and honestly, I’m kind of left speechless but hey, I’m still gonna let the words out anyway.
    While you were on a break few months ago, it got to a POINT that I just told God that when this girl gets back on YT, help me to learrrrn from her through her contents. Honestly, I’m already seeing God do what He does best! ❤️❤️
    I appreciate it, Venesse.. I appreciate your contents and your personality!
    Wanna talk about me relating to a lot of what you say and how you are? I do 100% 🫶🏾
    I really hope and pray that we become real better girls. I love and appreciate you a lot!

    • @venscendent
      @venscendent  Рік тому +3

      i’m doing well! this message is heartwarming man🥹 thank you for including me in your time with Him. I truly hope I can continue to aid in your journey in any way possible!

    • @toluwanielizabeth1178
      @toluwanielizabeth1178 Рік тому

      @@venscendent this text 🥺 I’d absolutely love love it, girl 🥹 thank you!! ❤️❤️

  • @WendyLiving
    @WendyLiving Рік тому

    Girl those drone shots are sooo good 🥹