I Actually Have Many Thoughts on Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez
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- Rumors are circulating that Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez will be getting divorced. I'm surprised I'm as interested in this story as I am. Here's why I care about this story.
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The story is, marry because you want a marriage, not a wedding
Id amend it further, marry because you want a family and a home together. Romance flees fast..
ORomance doesn't have to end.it can be like Whitney says...burn hot enough to last
@@Carousel5883 Romance isnt built to last.. real love is meant to take its place, in an ideal world..
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@@l.sophia2803 you are right ma'am .
There is an old saying -
Lust binds, love liberates.
Love means agape kind of love. Compassion. Care, etc.
The electric momentary attraction falls under 'lust'.
Love must be tested and cultivated beyond body consciousness. At soul level.
Then only the relationship can survive.
My mother has been married and divorced three times. I told her no more bc you aren't good at it. If you are divorced that much, either you are an awful partner or you make terrible choices in partners. Either way, you are the problem.
That's some tough love right there.
Same for Taylor Swift
She seems to keep husbands until they're no longer exciting. She has zero ability to manage a relationship. Sad.
Same-my mom too
I agree
They can just live together w/o getting legally married
Nothing wrong with that
Does Matt Walsh know you're wearing one of his plaid shirts?
It doesn't look fleece-ey enough to be Matt's 😊
Twins 😅
@@Zumcho- *flannel
You mean flannel. Not plaid.
@@m.m4982is flannel a fabric and plaid a pattern?
Two narcissists get married. What could possibly go wrong?
I do not see Affleck as a narcissist.
@@lipher7570
He blamed his ex wife for his addiction. What does that tell you about him.
This word is so overused
I don't think Ben is a narcissist
He's actually very humble
The Bennifer situation is really very simple: 1) Don’t get back with an ex, and 2) Be VERY careful when getting involved with a divorced person, especially someone like Jennifer Lopez who’s been divorced THREE times. 😉
and a narcissist
She’s hot 🤷♂️ doesn’t matter what baggage you have when you look like her
is her butt part of the divorce?
And Benny is such a saint 🙄 This union had disaster written all over it. GOD was not in charge........
They had an itch and after a simple scratch it’s all over. 🌼😂🌼
Celebrities have been getting married, divorced, and then remarried ever since celebrities first became a thing. It’s so they can stay in the news.
I couldn’t agree with you more😮
Must be the narcissism
Jennifer Lopez screams high maintenance.
and there's the plastic surgery bill
Narcissist for sure.
And she's rarely without that unpleasant scowl on her face.
and low self-esteem
She is addicted to outside attention. She always parading herself to others. She needs the approval and I don’t think 💭 this is conducive to a good relationship.
My mom & dad divorced when I was 14. My dad was an alcoholic & a mean one at that. Mom remained single until I turned 24 & started my own family. That is when she reunited with her high school sweetheart after he went through a divorce with the women he left my mom for when they were 19. I'm now 43 & this past Saturday they celebrated their 18th wedding anniversary. Sometimes it's not about longing for youth & nostalgia, it's just what's supposed to be. He's a great man, a great husband & has became a great stepdad & grandpa to me & my kids. Likewise for my mom with his kids. Bennifer failed for other reasons... Vanity, publicity, oh & Ben is a drunk & Jen is a known narcissistic diva!
is your dad still around , if so how does that work , regardless bro wish you well .
@@lasthope3237 yup, he's still around. Been sober a little over a year. Been remarried three times after my mom. Love him because he's my dad, but some people just never seem to be able to figure life out...
The only problem with that is it's adultery. If your father is alive.
@snthonyrose. Exactly my thoughts!
Affleck & Lopez were happy to get back together and be again the “It” couple of the early 2000’s, the “Bennifer” myth. After they split up back then, the “It” couple was “Brangelina.” And later came other celebrity couples (Tom Brady & Gisele B., Clooney & Amal.)
I saw them when they reunited a few years ago, the gloating on their faces, back to the Bennifer aura. I too thought there was so much vanity, arrogance, showing off with their constant public kissing, etc. I didn’t think it would last, not that I wish anything bad, but I thought it was too much parading from both of them.
I just feel very sad for their children.
Regarding your personal story, although this is sad for your dad, I am very happy for you and your mother. It is a beautiful story. And I totally agree with you regarding getting back with a former boyfriend /girlfriend. It has to be genuine.
I wouldn’t say this is how it’s supposed to be because even what your parents have we shouldn’t encourage. Ideally your dad would’ve got it together and your parents would be together. Also the fact that the dude left your mom for the other chick just messy. I think people just should be aware of what they sign up for in marriage and not everyone should be jumping into marriage just because they love someone. It takes more than love.
She is unable to maintain a relationship.
I wonder why.. self-absorbed, maybe?
Self-absorbed in the most shallow of terms.
She can't stand being in her own company (in her own thoughts)...
@@Katy32344 She lives for attention. That can wear anyone out.
And Affleck is a jackass for getting involved with a single m0m
Because it is all about her!
There is only one requirement for peaceful relationships: forgiveness.
Brilliant
@robertdouglas8895 Nope, if someone is doing something that requires forgiveness, then forgiveness itself is just a band-aid on a much bigger problem.
@@dh12. I think you don't know what forgiveness is. It's not condoning what other people do saying it's OK with you. It's acknowledging that what they did is not what hurts you. You chose it and you are the master of your fate, not a victim.
@@robertdouglas8895 Actually, forgiveness is letting go of resentment and anger towards the person who harmed or hurt you. There wouldn't be a need for forgiveness if no hurt was committed. First thing is to acknowledge that you were hurt by another's actions/words/etc, but, you let go of your resentment and anger towards them. That's freedom.
@@Uilani-g4m Again, I am fully the master of my fate, never a victim. So I change my thoughts so I don't punish myself instead of waiting for others to change theirs.
My dad left my mom for his old highschool ex girlfriend and now he is miserable
only men who are cowards leave their wife for another woman.
Knew their split was coming when they got back together. No surprise here.
It can happen to all humanity ... very few that are passionate souls
"If you're doing better today than you were four years ago-you must be an illegal immigrant."
-Skelator
Truer words have never been spoken.
Oh my God I love it
I'm not surprised she usually gets engaged or married every couple of years!
so true.
I wonder who is next?
I can imagine it being exhausting to be married to JLO especially because she loves being a celebrity but has no apparent talent.
I’m an Independent Latino. Women are All high maintenance.
Sad how women bring other women down we look damage in the eyes of men and the world. Latin Queen 👑 ❤❤❤❤❤
I wouldn't say she has no talent. I would say exact opposite - she has many talents. And that's the reason we all clicked on such news or basically know who she is and what she does now and atleast last two last decades😉 Isn't she good at what she does??! Good for her.
Marriage is meant to be forever. Divorce was never supposed to be an option.
No one should stay and be someone's punching bag, verbal or physical.
In your crazy head
She’s been married like a million times, he’s a known cheater and alcoholic. What could go wrong?
True but she’s a non drinker
@@lindawilliamson4245 Ben Affleck was a gambler as well
😂😂😂
Someone once told me that "taking back an ex is like digging your old underwear out of the trash". I'm not a hundred percent I ever truly correlated the analogy.....but it's creepy enough to make one sit & think twice about getting back with an ex....and I guess that was the point really, lol.
I'd be out too if my wife made the movie, "This Is Me Now: A Love Story".
You broke up for a reason. That and that Lopez is nuts.
I feel bad for no one that gets married to someone that has been divorced multiple times. Major red flag. I don't care for celebrities to begin with. I definitely don't care about their love life, or pretend love life.
my husband & I have a rule that states we don't even hang out with divorced people. I certainly would not date one!
@@jayniekinser7029 We don't try to 'avoid' them like they have leprosy or something. But we don't make a habit of including them heavily in our social circle. I have watched divorce spread like a cancer among friend groups. We also experienced (in our younger years) people who were our couple friends split up & you can NOT remain friends with either. If you try to remain strongly social (I am talking having to dinner regularly, going on double dates, etc) with both, neither wants to be friends with you & if you try to keep one or the other in your life you end up listening to endless, pointless gossip, slander, & tirades about 'the ex'. And to watch what happens to their kids????? nope. gotten dragged into too much of that in our younger days. Our circle is 'narrow' for a reason. & I live very rural, aren't that many people to hang out with any who
Ask me if I care about the Elite? Go ahead, ask me. Not at all.
I just asked you......
What?
The 'elites' are Marxists, bound to fail.
They are the deletes
Ditto
Not a fan of Ben or J-ho. But Ben had better run. When Diddy goes down her skeletons will be on full display.
She was just a fantasy he held onto! That's it! Many people do this , only to have it end!
It was really her holding on to the fantasy...he's an alcoholic cheater, gambler and sex addict just going along for the ride.....but gets out because the relationship interfere with his bad habits !!!! She needs to let the fantasy go!!!!
There is a UA-camr that I follow that says nostalgia is a form of depression and I think it's pretty accurate.
Honestly-I feel it's true-when I watch stuff on UA-cam that showcase stuff from the past-like old commercials-old songs-old foods-it makes me feel bad-probably because things were so simple and easy back then (the 70's and 80's-was so simple) it makes me feel weird-and I end up not watching these videos all the way through-why?!?! I don't like nostalgia-I wish I did.
I’m into nostalgia because I had a messed up childhood that still causes me grief. I’m not sure there is a love of nostalgia without some current misery.
JLo never came across as a pleasant or grounded celeb; she's long been rumoured to be a high maintenance diva. Ben Affleck, on the other hand, seems more down to earth. Back in the day even South Park made fun of JLo, her possessiveness of Affleck and her narcissistic traits. That relationship was never going to work out.
She's passionate and ambitious self made millionaire that's what most celebrities are like so why are you surprised 😮😢😮
I’m not sure how two people with narcissistic personality disorder can possibly get along with each other.
In the case of one couple I know who have been married almost 50 years,
They're not the same kind of narc,
AND, the big key to their marriage:
They try to always have a shared perceived enemy they're angry with, and whom they just verbally tear down together, endlessly.
It gives them a kind of energy.... they feel mutually superior to the person, and they take all their rage and throw it in that bucket instead of at each other.
It's super duper toxic. It ruined a business they owned...and their grown kids getting married, yikes.
They behaved absolutely horribly through the run up on the weddings,
And really wanted to make the in-laws some of their "worthless villains" hoping their adult kids would agree.
Those marriages ended up either in divorce or with their adult child going full no contact and walking away.
Only works when they don’t have the same NPD. My parents are both narcissists but different types, so it kind of works.
@@nomadic_orthodox yes! The couple I was talking about are not the same. One is overt and leans toward histrionic, borderline qualities, the other is more covert and has some a.p.d. qualities, but he is calculating, not impulsive. That person doesn't think rules apply to them, but understands the fallout of being caught and avoids it.
actually two narcissists can actually couple well together and I think its better their pair rather than narcissists preying on kind and empathetic people who actually yearn for genuine love connection and intimacy. but with two narcissists one has to be top dog. there is a narcissistic pecking order, so they have to agree who is top dog while the other panders. ben is refusing to be the less important one so thats why its over.
@@DiamondBodyHealing Very good explanation. Thanks!
Ben Affleck is a party animal (sex, drugs and Rock N’ Roll). If Jennifer Garner could not hold him down why do people think JLo could do it, twice?😂
JLO is a love addict and jumps from one relationship to the next. Ben has been able to live life as a single man after ending a relationship. He's not perfect; however, he does struggle with addiction and that did cause a lot of the destruction in his marriage/previous relationships. Neither of these people are perfect nuclear family roll models.
@jayceecee8651 *role
😂😂
Only Jesus saves from hell. The Lord Jesus Christ died for our sins, was buried and rose again the third day (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJV). Jesus shed His blood for our sins (Ephesians 1:7 KJV). Water baptism DOESN'T save us (1 Corinthians 1:17 KJV). We are saved by grace through faith, not works (Ephesians 2:8-9 KJV).
Stop it with your make-believe, childish, fantasy, religious BS. Grow up!
Amen, thank you for sharing! “Then He said to them all, “If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me.”
Luke 9:23
@@Brittanysplittanyamen!
Amen 🙏🏾
@@crow1994-blK Brandon
Never look back. Take whatever lessons you can from your experiences, but never look back.
It's a complete insult to the sacredness of marriage. With the way they carry themselves, they're literally kicking it, pissing on it and laughing at it whilst going off chasing hedonistic pleasures elsewhere in the process once they've finished their round together - until the next round to "marry" again until finished and on and on it can go. The lustful nature of sin they possess is just horrifying. They need to distance themselves from influencing each other's sinful habits and work on self-reflection and repentance. If they can't, then perhaps they ought to keep away from each other for good.
JLo doesn’t listen, and she doesn’t compromise. Ben told her he didn’t want their relationship in the spotlight this time. Jenn then makes an album, movie, and docudrama about their love. Who wants to be in a marriage where you’re not heard or respected?
But he was very much involved, he was a part of the production team, so I doubt is that, something more personal.
JLO needs to stop jumping man 🧍♂️ to man 🧍♂️! This is not good example to her kids at all! JLO NEEDS TO FOCUS ON HER DAMN KIDS AND HERSELF!
Her last marriage ended more than 10 years ago. She dated with Arod for 4 years. She and Ben were engaged years ago, they wanted to get married, why shouldn't she marry Ben? He proposed, he promised.
Jane lo does not even know who she is she jumps from one man to the next isn't an endearing mother doesn't nurture her children only cares about her wannabe fame which by the way she has no talent I don't know why people think she's so great
I married when I was much too young, and divorced after 5 years. After 18 years I married a 2nd time, we divorced 7 years later. I realized, I am better off single than in search of my next ex! Life is too short to play games. JLo changes relationships like her wardrobes...its good for wearing a couple of times for a season. Then its time to start over.
Talking about nostalgia... Who has the stats for the number of affairs and divorces resulting from spouses reconnecting with people they knew from high school?
Jlo is trending all over tiktok because her shows are almost empty and she canceled her tour 😂
Often times people who live with a lot of regret desperately long to relive their past and rekindle old friendships and even old relationships in an effort to achieve self forgiveness and even to regain the happier more hopeful times of their youth. This was all am impulsive move on bend part to manifest atonement, to heal himself and heal what he broke. I have no doubt that this has been a life-changing, eye-opening experience for him, and a very COSTLY, painful one at that.
Rumor has it she _wasn't_ just Jenny from the block.
Around the.block maybe ...😂😂
He is unable to keep real relationship. Blame the woman JLo. Ben is destructive. He destroyed his own family. And relationships before and after. Have you thought she is an empath. The guys lovebomb act committed show action then they control. Marc anthony another chaotic high risk damaged man. A long line of baby mamas. Children he doesnt take care of. Jlo has worked hard. He came at her and promised to be the partner she needs. But hes entitled arrogant and hurtful. He moved out and created attention chaos. Because hes chaotic. A rational kind person can seperate kindly nicely discretely. Look at it what it is. Marriages don't work with one person cares only about their needs
Who the hell are you don't talk shit you don't know about Mark Anthony take care of all his kids ass hole
Exactly and look where he runs to live, same neighborhood where he moves from, he could have live in one of the wings of the 60 million home.
These two have major patterns of bad behavior:
The reason why they broke up 20 years ago was because Ben was caught cheating on J-lo with a stripper while he was filming in Canada (?) just before their first wedding. Then he cheated endlessly on his first wife Jenn with prostitues & strippers and was an alcoholic during that relationship.
As for J-lo she has been married 4 TIMES.
This marriage was NEVER going to work out because the two people in the marriage have major mental issues.
These both should never get married. Instead they need to work on their bad demons.
Yeah, they're a toxic couple. In fact, watching Jennifer's Amazon film This Is Me... Now: A Love Story as well as the documentary behind it feels like some sort of narcissistic piece about herself in what love means to her.
@@osmanyousif7849 yes, her narc mask slipped. I think Ben realized that she did not truely love him because his first wife Jen Gardener showed him unconditional love. And, because of this he knows love. He just did not appreciate Gardeners love at the time when married.
Glad Ben escaped this marraige. That's not easy at any age to walk away from a marraige but, when dealing with a Narc the sooner you escape the better.
just look at everyone's face in this "documentary" all the employees look like they can wait to get away from J-Lo.
Married x 4 BUT never without a man, quite a few of them in between the "marriages".
The movie flopped and so did their marriage
Ben always run away from problems instead of resolve it. He did same thing to Garner, Lindsay Shookus and Ana De Armas.
Ana broke up with him. He wouldn't commit to having any more kids, and she wanted to move to NYC.
My mom has been married 4 times, hoping for a 5th. The odds of success is like less than 1%.
I’ve been married happily for 27 YEARS. She acts like it’s not a accomplishment (of mine) so weird
4 times married is a proof she's a narcissist. Narcissist mothers are jealous with their own kids
That sucks.. divorce is never good
I actually really respect his ex wife, Jennifer Garner. She’s a good mom, runs a small farm with her dad now and is getting her kids out working with her in nature. Tons of videos of her working a tractor, sweaty, makeup free. Of course she’s not perfect, but she had the right idea.
This is so important, we need to engineer the society we want. Not let the progressives re-engineer our society and their image.
Ben just likes the Jennifers. Who's next, Jennifer Aniston?
*Jenny with the gIock whats up with you and Diddy in the club? Shine took the fall? You had the gIizzy?*
The line "Is it really me you miss or just your long lost youth?" was written by French poet and writer Marguerite Duras. It originally appeared in her 1984 book "La Douleur" (The War: A Memoir) in French. How did you all come up with Don Henley lol
Your analysis was deeper than their marriage.
Who cares about the has-beens? And also who cares about "celebrities" in general
Compromise and communication are pertinent in a good relationship. That is for all relationships in life. And if you wanna know someone, then see them when they are angry. That's who they really are.
So what you are saying is we should look at what could be, unburdened by what has been 😏
😂
😂
Oh my...😮😂
Bro, we're conservatives - You CANNOT be lecturing us about nostalgia 😅
Sadly, it’s so obvious that Jennifer Lopez has always been very self absorbed and selfish. The one thing I know about Ben Affleck is that he had an alcohol addiction in the past, and his ex wife Jennifer Garner actually helped him with that (took him to rehab even after they had already divorced). All I can say is that Ben ran from a narcissist (JLo), married an attractive but sensible woman (JG), but went back to the narcissist a second.time. What’s that saying: “Burn me once, blame on you, burn me twice, blame on me!”
Who would have thought that the singer who's competing w/Henry VIII for the most spouses wouldn't hold her marriage together?😂 And don't even play, Michael, you were giddy as a school girl when they married.
Didnt they just get married?
Eastern Christians believe in Christ our savior. Looking forward always to his return.
Will Jennifer Lopez EVER get tired of breaking up? Will she ever consider, "maybe it's ME".
No way! Can you believe it?!
😂😂😂😂
I’m guessing Jen needs and wants so much attention and affection from Ben that it’s realistically impossible cause for Jenn’s personality it’s never gonna be enough. A guy can do a million things right for a woman but he does one thing wrong or even perceived to be wrong and some women throw out and trash all the million other things he followed thru on. It’s a form of self sabotage along with immaturity and insecure behavior.
Oh no! Another Hollywood power couple bites the dust! Oh the humanity!
Be careful quoting Don Henley… he may sue you. Lol
These folk have no moral foundation.
they're not really married in the first place. both of them have made holy vows to others before.
'till death, eh?
Get back with your actual spouses!
Unholy I think.
Who
And why should I give a fuck?
Nostalgia leads me to buy toys and junk from my childhood on Ebay and HiBid. It is a drug. Toys cost a lot less than divorce. Marriage is an evolution. 21 years under my belt and you must adapt and change with it. You mourn the past, but you honor it by letting go. You must live in the present and look to the future. Most importantly, be grateful!!! To God!!!!!!!
J-LO NEEDS TO MOVE ON! BEN DOESN'T LOVE HER, and she is so hopelessly in love with him. Everyone is ragging on her but I see a woman so desperate in love that she would do anything to keep this person. Yes, she was divorced a lot and she should've just remained single. But still, you can't deny that Ben was the one stringing her along and then dropped her like a hot rock. J-Lo deserves love from a man who fits her and complements her or to stay single and focus on herself & her kids!
They are both narcissists, so their relationship would be miserable long-term!
WHO GIVES A SHIT
I'm kind of surprised you are this interested in a dime-a-dozen bad Hollywood marriage.
Hey,we all have our vices
Proudly I have NOT followed this .. 😅
Based on my one small personal experience with her, anyone who would marry her doesn't know her.
They are in an adulterous marriage. JLo has a living husband. I'm glad they are splitting.
👏👏👏
He has a living wife
She has four now.
Garner was married before Ben. Ben has truly never been married in God's eyes.@@LesadaughterofGOD
@flowerpower3618 only the first marriage matters
Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez are better off apart. They are both chemically imbalanced and extremely high maintenance. Their relationship has been nothing but a rollercoaster of ups and downs but mostly downs. Time to move on; I wonder who will be the next ex-spouse/partner for each of them? It's a shame, really, they are both very intelligent.
you are way off on this one, it is not nostalgia, they have no sense of reality, they are both nuts, but not the same kind of nuts, that's why
I knew it would happen, but it still sad.
The only thought is durrrr Michael. That woman has more rocks than Thanos and the misery on his face says it all.
Michael Knowles has such a pleasant voice. What he said about "nostalgia" so on point. We have knowledge now we wish we could apply to that past time. Its the longing for something that can never be, much like longjng for a lover one can never have.
I’m an Independent Latino. I’m an Independent Latino. Women are All high maintenance.
Sad how women bring other women down we look damage in the eyes of men and the world. Latin Queen 👑 ❤❤❤❤❤
If you see their spending, you can see why they didn't work out. So much extravagance. Their $60 million dollar home that they paid for with cash is a sinkhole. Why do 2 people need 24 bathrooms? Insanity.
Jen likes the idea of relationships. I think (of course just speculation) that she’s addicted to the honeymoon stage of a relationship where everything is rosy and fun. Once reality sets in she’s out the door. She’s also incredibly full of herself, so no one is going to be able to love JLO more than JLO loves herself.
WOW! Not a fan of you, Michael Knowles, but I ckicked in this video. BRAVO! Great use of the "poet" (perfect word) and lyrics by Don Henley. 😊
FYI - Christianity IS an eastern religion. It’s from the Middle East even though you want to believe it’s from America.🙄
You forgot about Affleck and the babysitter.
Coming soon, Don Henley sues Michael Knowles
Please don’t make me choose sides here. I love both of you guys! 😂
People who cant stand being alone with themselves to the point they seek constant reassurance and company of some variation of a partner, any partner will do, seem the most loneliest and saddest of all.
The smartest thing A-Rod ever did was splitting with J.Lo…
I don’t know - never say never - at times the second attempt works and sometimes it doesn’t - there is no hard fast rule
I don’t like Ben but he really loves JLo, she’s a narcissist.
Diddy dum diddy doo
I gave it 5 years. Guess I was wrong.
Until they both come out and say their marriage is over, these are all rumors. The more I read about them, the more I’m inclined to see them as just baseless gossip right now.
Affleck is a mess of a person.
Some people have gone back in time, found their old sweetheart and have had success.
Michael, curiously, didnt you also get back with an ex when you married your wife? I guess maybe the context was a bit different but that seemed to have worked out so I was actually expecting more your input from that POV than the rest you mentioned. Would've been interesting (altho understandable if you dont wanna get personal)
🥱 Same 💩 different day with these two…
This isn't news...
This is marriage number 4, along with a few engagements, too. Time to be single. It's okay.
I only had one thought on Ben & Jennifer they have absolutely nothing in common Ben doesn’t love Jennifer or want to be in a permanent relationship with her. Jennifer cared for Ben but Ben has never loved Jennifer Lopez Jennifer problem is she acts like the man in every relationship she’s been in that’s why she’s going to end up alone having no man all by herself.