Married at First Sight’s Nathaniel reveals why he left the show | EXCLUSIVE

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  • Опубліковано 24 вер 2023
  • Nathanial ­Valentino claims the hit reality show has no interest in couples finding true love, and that producers ignored his list of perfect traits in a partner
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  • @tebsm4783
    @tebsm4783 8 місяців тому +93

    I’m glad Nathaniel spoke up. You should never sacrifice yourself to try to help offer representation for your “community”. To pressure someone like that is unethical and dangerous to all involved.

    • @mohammadal-drees3106
      @mohammadal-drees3106 8 місяців тому +1

      Pressure? It’s not like they put a knife to his neck! He had a choice, and made it.

    • @jamesy3722
      @jamesy3722 8 місяців тому +1

      He was fake, he would erupt in anger and his body language was aggressive and vile

    • @NickyM_0
      @NickyM_0 8 місяців тому +5

      @@mohammadal-drees3106
      Exactly! Although they DID pressure and guilt trip him to help to be the vehicle to facilitate Ella's story. If he didn't do it, she wouldn't be able to tell her story. They were never matched for compatibility.
      See how fake these shows are. Ella was there as part of the trans agenda to tell 'a trans story', as opposed to being there as a person that happens to be trans who is looking for love.

    • @Kgfhff
      @Kgfhff 7 місяців тому

      @@jamesy3722most genuine guy on there, had his morals and left with dignity

    • @jamesy3722
      @jamesy3722 7 місяців тому

      @@Kgfhff no, he wanted to boost his Instagram account tiktok account like all these fame hungry contestants acting like they were under the values of marriage while being complete strangers and then being manipulated and psychologically played by the JUDGES with silly question games designed to create drama for the camera,
      The entire series was pathetic tbh , just a pantomime of emotions indisguise to prolong each payment for each episode.

  • @menabuchnersixdegreesofsimming
    @menabuchnersixdegreesofsimming 8 місяців тому +101

    That’s disgusting that they expected him to sacrifice himself and his happiness, so that Ella ‘could tell her story’? Really?

    • @JD365-ls5cw
      @JD365-ls5cw 7 місяців тому

      You mean HIS story. He is a man. It doesn’t matter what gender he is or what surgeries he might have had. He was born with a penis so he is a MAN

    • @Kgfhff
      @Kgfhff 7 місяців тому

      Absolute joke! Ella is a Silly attention seeker literally no one cares keep it moving. They did him dirty for sure!

    • @doxasophosmoros
      @doxasophosmoros 3 місяці тому +2

      N you have to sign a contract on all reality shows, which signs away your right to privacy and money and even death if you die as a result of the show. Even if you commit su1cude after the show as a result, they can't be sued. If you die on set or get hurt you can't sue. If your family members get hurt or killed as a result of thr show you can't sue. They cover all bases. I know because I nearly signed a contract for the aussie The Bachelor and after reading the contract I backed out. The stuff it said was crazy.. "We can create a fraudulent and create inaccurate portrayal of you and replay this throughout the universe in perpetuity on all currently known and future media devices currently not in existence, throughout the universe in perpetuity" it literally says that I'll never forget it.. they seriously cover ALLL BASES. Why do you think they never get sued. You literally can't, that's what the contracts are for. Anyone who signs one is doing it out of desperation.. that's the types who join these shows, they actually sign away their lives for fame. If you get disfigured on the show or just anything you can think of.. They aren't liable

    • @menabuchnersixdegreesofsimming
      @menabuchnersixdegreesofsimming 3 місяці тому

      @@doxasophosmoros wow…

  • @debbiecuthbert2094
    @debbiecuthbert2094 8 місяців тому +41

    Ella wasnt ready for marriage I don't think. I don't blame you Nathaniel for leaving and I'm sorry you had such a toxic experience. No one looking for love deserves that level of crap.

  • @scotlandthebrave334
    @scotlandthebrave334 9 місяців тому +100

    The relationship experts are sick. The longer the show goes on the more I am screaming out for someone to help you Nathaniel. Sickening what they've put you through. My opinion has gone full circle since seeing this.

    • @msherry5
      @msherry5 9 місяців тому +1

      Nathaniel & Ella both

    • @peterpiper3808
      @peterpiper3808 8 місяців тому +4

      He Knew bro all for the bag

    • @lisawentworth6831
      @lisawentworth6831 8 місяців тому

      I don't feel sorry for him, except that Ella is such high maintenance...he is pans sexual, and Ella acts like a gay man.

    • @sandyparkes4027
      @sandyparkes4027 8 місяців тому

      Totally agree ❤

    • @johnjacobs3925
      @johnjacobs3925 8 місяців тому +3

      he literally could of chose to pull out of doing the show, or choose to leave at the first commitment ceremony. He clearly is it for the fame/attention and he's got what he wanted. Don't feel sorry for him.

  • @notyouraveragemakeupartist1715
    @notyouraveragemakeupartist1715 8 місяців тому +57

    This is deeper than her beinf trans. She had multiple traits that he didnt want. He didnt want to be with a trans woman, but because he is more prone to fall in love w a person and not a gender he was willing to try. So he had to like her as a person and he didnt like her as a person . The producers wronged both of them, she deserved to have someone potentially fall in love with her and they set her up for failure .

    • @user-es7op3jc6x
      @user-es7op3jc6x 7 місяців тому

      It ain't a her is it he's a bloke weather they had there knob off or not

    • @starlightgirl8863
      @starlightgirl8863 7 місяців тому +3

      No he's a hypocrite. Ella literally asked him if he was attracted to her. He couldn't give a simple YES or NO. He could've told her that he wanted a guy or a woman with masculine energy. He led her on and gaslighted her into thinking her personality was the problem. For someone who preaches about transparency, he's quite the liar!!!

  • @ShujiGangsta
    @ShujiGangsta 8 місяців тому +20

    Nathaniel, I agree with Laura 100% - you were the most genuine person on there. The fact that both you and Bianca left today just tells me all I need to know about this show - not for the decent. And so I will not be watching any more of it!!
    You should hold your head up very high - you were extremely patient, kind, honest, genuine and sincere. You were so true to yourself and didn't get physical with that thing of a person If we can call that a person and I applaud you. 👏

  • @arakkaramoon586
    @arakkaramoon586 7 місяців тому +5

    I'm glad you tried Nathaniel, you done it for selfless reasons. I wish you much happiness going forward in your journey for love. Such a beautiful man with a genuinely honest and beautiful soul ❤

  • @cinnamongirl4896
    @cinnamongirl4896 7 місяців тому +10

    Ive watched these episodes and I really warmed to Nathaniel from the beginning he really came across as a good kind person (with amazing and on point dress sense!!). I could see as soon as the honeymoon was happening he was turned right off. I think Ella was very emotionally immature and all she ever spoke about was sex and looks, whos pretty, i am pretty, is his ex pretty when she was with JJ, I mean regardless of any trans journey why didnt they pick some people with more depth? She came across as super super shallow, and nobody is gonna warm to that personality unless they too are the same, selfish and shallow. It wouldnt of worked with Ella and any guy they paired her with, cus I think Ella has got major hang ups, hence her world seemed to be constantly revolved around dressing in a way to shock others, going out get very drunk and then talking about the way she looked? how could any normal person man or woman stand that for 5 mins!
    The show needs to change the format away from this age group, and go older, like 40 plus more depth please and less of the self obsessed bunch.

  • @mskyle4564
    @mskyle4564 8 місяців тому +10

    This entire show has become a joke !! The so call experts should be ashamed of themselves.. these are real people with real feelings for God sakes.

  • @user-oe3fo6od4h
    @user-oe3fo6od4h 9 місяців тому +41

    NO WAY!!!! IT’S FAKE???👀

  • @Themis33
    @Themis33 9 місяців тому +10

    They shouldn't have proper matches and entertainment matches. It's not fair.

  • @perry5509
    @perry5509 9 місяців тому +22

    Why’d they have to pair her with a gay guy…? How does that make any sense at all? There are thousands of guys who like trans girls out there, you’re telling me they couldn’t find one to go on the show? Not even a bisexual one?

    • @lisawentworth6831
      @lisawentworth6831 8 місяців тому +14

      there are thousands of straight men that want a trans girl that is also autistic and has issues...really? Under what rock? The having no babies, the stigma with family, or her mental health issues and constant need for validation...which of those make a straight man say 'sign me up for this full time'!

    • @jennifercully7615
      @jennifercully7615 4 місяці тому

      Yes, like the guy Ella cheated on Nathaniel with, says he used to date Victoria's secret models then he leaves his wife for a trans ell a?

  • @dweamy1
    @dweamy1 8 місяців тому +7

    So he knew before the show started that 'he/she' was trans, yet on the show he acts surprised? WTF!!!

    • @LoveToHearUSing
      @LoveToHearUSing 7 місяців тому +1

      Probably because he was asked to. Nothing is real in that show.

  • @jellisquared1702
    @jellisquared1702 5 місяців тому +2

    Grateful that Married at First Sight US is much more serious about finding the right couples to be married and the wise advice that is given to each couple by the excellent experts.

  • @glogloilla3539
    @glogloilla3539 8 місяців тому +31

    I wasn't very keen on Ella, coming into her womanhood she over sexualies herself in everyday. I felt she played to the cameras alot. I could tell nate was serious about what he came there for which was to actually fine a partner. I'm glad he represented himself in truth and dignity. Yes there were times when he got angry but I'm not surprised.
    Goodluck Nate ❤❤

    • @Kgfhff
      @Kgfhff 7 місяців тому +1

      Yes! Most genuine and nice guy on there

    • @NickyM_0
      @NickyM_0 7 місяців тому

      Of course he over-sexualises himself. Hr has a male's fantasy of what it is to be a feminine and desirable woman.

  • @teetee7400
    @teetee7400 6 місяців тому +4

    Aww this boy use to go to my school bless him his done brilliant for him self ❤

  • @paulinemakepeace4582
    @paulinemakepeace4582 8 місяців тому +21

    I know a disabled person who was asked to appear on the show The Undateables. The guy didn't want to do it and was only asked because he had been on T.V. and been seen by the production team. They wanted him on their show and asked him to fit in with what they wanted. He was also asked to appear on a Judge Rinder show also saying it didn't matter what was said just please be on our show. These shows need drama and the producers just churn out what fits their narrative. Some people can go through with it others can't seemingly Nathanial couldn't.

  • @truthhurtz19
    @truthhurtz19 8 місяців тому +12

    They had been trying to get her on for 3 years. It was so obvious she was been set up to be the star of the show

  • @emilythompson8070
    @emilythompson8070 7 місяців тому +5

    If this is completely true then why did he blow up so much over Ella liking JJ. Surely he would have been happy for her 😐

    • @sharonevans5186
      @sharonevans5186 7 місяців тому

      Exactly my thoughts. He wasnt at all nice to Ella. He should have been honest with Ella and wished her well with JJ

    • @mekareactsandreviews3026
      @mekareactsandreviews3026 7 місяців тому +1

      It's called editing darling....How long has reality TV been around..and the amount of past constants exposing how corrupt production are these shows for u guys to still act so naive..

    • @doxasophosmoros
      @doxasophosmoros 3 місяці тому +1

      I think jj was set up too. He never liked ella

    • @emilythompson8070
      @emilythompson8070 3 місяці тому

      @@mekareactsandreviews3026 they can't edit filming they don't have

  • @sharonevans5186
    @sharonevans5186 7 місяців тому +2

    Regardless of what's going on with Ella and their trans, Nathaniel should have been open & honest from the beginning. The big argument they had at the dinner party was disgusting and he treated Ella appallingly. He's a boring, misersble, condensending & ungenuine person. He said horrible things to Ella, the gaslighting was excrutiating. He didnt even want Ella! so what if she had a connection elsewhere. He could have been gracious about it and wished them both well, but instead made it his excuse to bail out and putting all the blame on Ella.
    If the producers had set this up, Nathaniel should realise that it was THEIR fault and not Ella's as at the end of the day, Ella was looking for love as well. There was no excuse for him to be bitter at the wrong people.

    • @starlightgirl8863
      @starlightgirl8863 7 місяців тому

      Exactly!! He's a hypocrite. Ella literally asked him if he was attracted to her. He couldn't give a simple YES or NO. He could've told her that he wanted a guy or a woman with masculine energy. He led her on and gaslighted her into thinking her personality was the problem. For someone who preaches about transparency, he's quite the liar!!!

    • @gomiemasekoa9879
      @gomiemasekoa9879 4 місяці тому

      Honestly couldn't agree more, he should have been honest with Ella from the jump, but instead he gaslit Ella and others throughout... she was oblivious to the whole thing because she kept asking him time and time again if his attracted to her...
      and I'm not disputing that his a genuine person or whatever but he was an accomplice ...same as the producers for many reasons. mainly because he let Ella take the fault for the whole thing and that messed up!!!

  • @Apostolic401
    @Apostolic401 8 місяців тому +49

    It was always trans publicity and never about Nathanial. I got that from the get-go.

  • @irisinthelightofthemoon9258
    @irisinthelightofthemoon9258 9 місяців тому +7

    Oh shit! It’s so sad. Poor guy!

  • @matthewprice2626
    @matthewprice2626 8 місяців тому +5

    These people who make it their mission to be Z list celebrities do themselves no favours signing up for any TV show going. He obviously went along with it to get on tv as he's been on other shows but left himself in an impossible situation of being with someone he couldn't pretend to find attractive or like...now where does his fame seeking journey go?! Another fame seeker Farida who'd also been in blankety blank etc went out of big brother first this week after mentioning her UA-cam channel every five minutes according to her fellow housemates who nominated.

  • @Night_yawn
    @Night_yawn 8 місяців тому +6

    Supposed to be scientific and they match two people one party animal and one homebody they set them up to fail .

  • @bigpauliep6992
    @bigpauliep6992 8 місяців тому +3

    Both him and the other bloke were hugely unlikable. They aren't happy with themselves; they aren't happy in themselves; they aren't happy in their own skins; they aren't happy seeing anyone else happy : and people were shocked when they attempted to scupper the "process" by instigating a spin the bottle game to ruin relationships and turn the show into an Ex On The Beach prequel..?
    Toxic creatures.

  • @s.b9118
    @s.b9118 7 місяців тому +1

    I was literally thinking that he would prefer a guy not a girl and watching the video he stating this exact thing! U could tell he wouldnt like a girl

  • @mickeymouse3933
    @mickeymouse3933 8 місяців тому +3

    Bro you did it for cash and you led Ella on for screen time so don’t play the victim Bianca was the only victim!

  • @KC-xf9wc
    @KC-xf9wc 8 місяців тому +1

    to make him marry a man when he said he isnt ok with it , shows that people should watch this show. Supporting these kind of careless approach speaks volumes of people who run this crap. This man is true to himself and under pressure he cracked. Needs to learn to put himself first and thats the lesson

  • @LucyAliceT
    @LucyAliceT 8 місяців тому +3

    He would have come across as the good guy (got the 'good edit' as he put it) if he had participated but said a couple of weeks in said, I'm open minded, I gave this a go, but I'm simply not attracted to you based on the fact that you smoke and your career history, I wish you well etc. Hanging in there and pretending it might get better was his choice, unless he was acting at gunpoint, and that's what made him seem fame hungry and like he was diminishing Ella's confidence. He gives himself away when he says 'I'd lost my contract, I'd lost work'. This was just a paid gig.

  • @ChanceColeman
    @ChanceColeman 8 місяців тому +14

    This was not just unfair to him but also Ella. There are many men out there who are attracted to trans women.

  • @doxasophosmoros
    @doxasophosmoros 3 місяці тому +1

    You have to sign a contract on all reality shows, which signs away your right to privacy and money and even death if you die as a result of the show. Even if you commit su1cude after the show as a result, they can't be sued. If you die on set or get hurt you can't sue. If your family members get hurt or killed as a result of thr show you can't sue. They cover all bases. I know because I nearly signed a contract for the aussie The Bachelor and after reading the contract I backed out. The stuff it said was crazy.. "We can create a fraudulent and create inaccurate portrayal of you and replay this throughout the universe in perpetuity on all currently known and future media devices currently not in existence, throughout the universe in perpetuity" it literally says that I'll never forget it.. they seriously cover ALLL BASES. Why do you think they never get sued. You literally can't, that's what the contracts are for. Anyone who signs one is doing it out of desperation.. that's the types who join these shows, they actually sign away their lives for fame. If you get disfigured on the show or just anything you can think of.. They aren't liable

  • @kyokusanagi616
    @kyokusanagi616 8 місяців тому +4

    Didn’t like him much on the show but I like him even less after this interview. I understood his motivation on the show long before his ‘speech’, but his fakeness knows no bounds. It’s put me off the show now.

    • @Kgfhff
      @Kgfhff 7 місяців тому

      How is fake though?

  • @emic9838
    @emic9838 8 місяців тому +1

    I knew there was more to it

  • @janeboyd3559
    @janeboyd3559 8 місяців тому +4

    Fair play to you❤

  • @ayahijazi9313
    @ayahijazi9313 9 місяців тому +65

    Why are people feeling sorry for this fame hungry narcissist? Nathaniel willingly married someone they knew wasn't their type for MONEY. That sounds like a classic money hungry narcissists to me. Don't worry maybe Nathaniel will find real love on his fourth reality show?

    • @bibble567
      @bibble567 9 місяців тому +9

      He’s not a narcissist because he was kind of forced to be on the show because the team told him he’s basically ruining someone’s future. They also told him he’s rude because he didn’t want to respect the LGBTQ+ community?
      Just think about that
      Sorry! Was supposed to reply to someone’s comment but apparently I clicked wrong 😂

    • @heisenberg9739
      @heisenberg9739 9 місяців тому +2

      ​@DaisyAesthetics123 that is absolutely BULL. Who comes on a show to get married at first sight? Money hungry M0r0ns

    • @cassieglasper6523
      @cassieglasper6523 9 місяців тому +4

      @@bibble567couldn’t agree more with you he was told if he doesn’t do it the girls story is ruined

    • @Muffinga
      @Muffinga 8 місяців тому +4

      @@cassieglasper6523 Exactly, he was definitely manipulated into staying on. The producers of this show are vile.

    • @peterpiper3808
      @peterpiper3808 8 місяців тому +1

      I am with you brother all for the bag this dude muppet

  • @Kufo-Oriji4632
    @Kufo-Oriji4632 9 місяців тому +29

    Speaking as someone who is pansexual myself, yes you aren’t attracted to gender. But you have preferences still. I have no problem dating transmen for example but I strongly prefer to date cis men, cis women or transwomen. Nathaniel’s preference is clearly men despite being attracted to all genders.

    • @dementrisignis6727
      @dementrisignis6727 8 місяців тому

      Can I ask how being pan is different to being bi then? Because I’ve always been told that bi means that you are attracted to two or more (all) genders but you have preferences, while when you’re pan you are “blind” to the gender and only really see the personality. I have been identifying as bi my whole life because of that but your comment makes me wonder if I’m actually pan then

    • @Kufo-Oriji4632
      @Kufo-Oriji4632 8 місяців тому +3

      @@dementrisignis6727 No problem! My understanding has always been bi means you are attracted to cis men and cis women. Whereas, pansexual is you see attracted to everyone so that includes cis men, cis women, transmen, transwomen, non- binary etc

    • @dementrisignis6727
      @dementrisignis6727 8 місяців тому +1

      @@Kufo-Oriji4632 thanks! It’s interesting to see how different people have different experiences with labels!

    • @aprilsummers6447
      @aprilsummers6447 8 місяців тому +3

      ​@@Kufo-Oriji4632 I'm attracted to trans people but I identify as bi.
      Honestly, I find pansexually to be pedantic but you do you.

    • @tebsm4783
      @tebsm4783 8 місяців тому +2

      Thank you! Nathaniel wanted someone stable and deep. Ella wasn’t that person.

  • @simona4080
    @simona4080 8 місяців тому

    It's better that you got out. Always listen to that gut feeling and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I won't watch the show anymore

  • @vincygal2
    @vincygal2 8 місяців тому +1

    Should have spoke up at the time and stood by your own convictions from the beginning - just say no thanks….

  • @sydmaker4115
    @sydmaker4115 7 місяців тому +1

    They knew what they were doing, this was a set up!

  • @deerheart87
    @deerheart87 8 місяців тому +1

    Dancing on the ceiling ❤😂

  • @gomiemasekoa9879
    @gomiemasekoa9879 4 місяці тому

    ... he should have been honest with Ella from the jump, but instead he gaslit Ella and others throughout... she was oblivious to the whole thing because she kept asking him time and time again if he was attracted to her...
    and I'm not disputing that his a genuine person or whatever but he was an accomplice ...same as the producers for many reasons. mainly because he let Ella take the fall for the whole thing and that is messed up!!!

  • @sharron-6540
    @sharron-6540 9 місяців тому +39

    I’m confused by his orientation tbh because he clearly stated on his “ stag night” when he meet the other guys that he didn’t mind being matched with a man or a woman and he stated that he was pan sexual and the person’s personality was more important then their gender. Then he now states that he wanted to be matched with a man but at a push a an “ exceptional woman” with very masculine vibes , clearly that isn’t very pansexual to even be choosing a gender of a person ? ( please correct me if I’m wrong here), he should be open to falling in love with absolutely anyone regardless of who they are?. I’m just very confused with this whole situation tbh. And if he was “ forced” to do the show (it doesn’t sound like it )why did he go on it?, Ella is a beautiful very feminine girly girl, very far from what he is saying he wanted!!.
    I wish him well but I wish that Ella had gotten a match with someone who had wanted to be there to find a wife.

    • @Kufo-Oriji4632
      @Kufo-Oriji4632 9 місяців тому +16

      Speaking as someone who is pansexual myself, yes you aren’t attracted to gender. But you have preferences still. I have no problem dating transmen for example but I strongly prefer to date cis men, cis women or transwomen. Nathaniel’s preference is clearly men despite being attracted to all genders.

    • @websiteloveglitter
      @websiteloveglitter 9 місяців тому +35

      I hate the word Cis!!! This world has gone cray cray!!!! I AM NOT CIS!! I am a women!. Do not insult me.
      The same way people have preferred names. SO do I. I am a women. Do not take my gender away!.

    • @msherry5
      @msherry5 9 місяців тому +12

      He knew he was matched with a trans woman when he first met the other guys. I'm guessing he was going along with what he knew the story would be.

    • @Tachouz
      @Tachouz 9 місяців тому

      There are no "Cis" women, there are women and trans women. If you hate the word 'Cis' so much, why do you allow it to have so much power over you? Screw what those people you think are delusional think about it. No one can take your gender away from you unless you buy into their nonsense. @@websiteloveglitter

    • @websiteloveglitter
      @websiteloveglitter 9 місяців тому +1

      I agree with you!!

  • @SarahSmith-nr2wj
    @SarahSmith-nr2wj 8 місяців тому

    I believe this represents more than this isolated case in terms of media representation of minorities, its forced to get ratings and good pr with absolutely no thought to individual experience.

  • @bigpauliep6992
    @bigpauliep6992 8 місяців тому

    Absolute state of it!
    Was it one bee which attacked, or the whole hive..?

  • @glogloilla3539
    @glogloilla3539 8 місяців тому +6

    I believe all that he's said. Cause I know how twisted these producers are.

  • @Tootsyline
    @Tootsyline 8 місяців тому +1

    Well done you!

  • @suzannekinlough743
    @suzannekinlough743 8 місяців тому +2

    You deserved better x

  • @mekareactsandreviews3026
    @mekareactsandreviews3026 7 місяців тому +1

    So first being the first black something was the token storyline....Then being gay was the token storyline...Now its being trans is the New token storyline...

  • @themessenger2455
    @themessenger2455 8 місяців тому +2

    Stevie Wonder could see that Nathaniel was not attractive with a Trans person. It's either or either.

  • @kornNpunk
    @kornNpunk 9 місяців тому +16

    He knew what he was going for 😂

  • @NK22222
    @NK22222 6 місяців тому

    But you looked so happy on the wedding day

  • @starsigngirl9789
    @starsigngirl9789 7 місяців тому

    Wow ❤

  • @User-hn1wg
    @User-hn1wg 7 місяців тому

    Like to know what he meant by the truth. Treating others and 'it was dark..'

  • @Ates-jq4is
    @Ates-jq4is 9 місяців тому +20

    My question is this, you acted like you didn't know Ella was trans and you were okay kissing her on your wedding day and saying you were happy you were matched with her? You also said you don't care if its a man/woman and now you are saying you wanted a guy and Ella is a guy even though she transitioned.

    • @charliefarlie2884
      @charliefarlie2884 9 місяців тому +20

      Whovever heard of a production company lying to people for ratings eh. He's just explained the contradictions.

    • @Ates-jq4is
      @Ates-jq4is 9 місяців тому +5

      @@charliefarlie2884 We all know that but what am saying is why did he said nice things about her and led her on and how it was a perfect match for him etc. If he knew who she was in advance. Why would he put himself through when he knew it wouldn't be good for his well-being especially mentally? Nowadays it's about 15 minutes fame regardless they hurt themselves or others.

    • @charliefarlie2884
      @charliefarlie2884 9 місяців тому +9

      @@Ates-jq4is depends what his contract said. I'd guess there's a minimum term

    • @Ates-jq4is
      @Ates-jq4is 9 місяців тому +2

      @@charliefarlie2884 That might be it. I hope they all find happiness. ✌️

    • @vah1761
      @vah1761 8 місяців тому +8

      As soon as I saw Ella it was blatantly obvious it was a dude!!!!!!! You can always tell!!!

  • @olivermclean7605
    @olivermclean7605 8 місяців тому

    Here for the drama i going on a show too fine love 😂😂😂😂you know you sign up for bro

  • @StephenWhiteLife
    @StephenWhiteLife 8 місяців тому

    Wow! Most toxic show I’ve ever seen. The experts are fake, the production is so fake, the premise, everything…why do we even have this crap on tv. It sets such a bad example. I will never watch again.

  • @Alexlamb442
    @Alexlamb442 8 місяців тому +4

    At points here he seems like he’s uncomfortable or not being honest. I don’t believe he went on the show to support the LQBTQ community because he also said he wanted to fall in love. Maybe it was the money, but that’s something he might not want to admit. He left the show because his pride was wounded over the JJ thing, that was clear from his blow up. Saying that, I do agree with him that the creators of the show are awful. You can clearly see how everyone is being manipulated for our entertainment. Funny that it’s under the ‘guilt free viewing’ category on C4

    • @mekareactsandreviews3026
      @mekareactsandreviews3026 7 місяців тому

      Open ir ears...he was already contracted...he had to show up...so he said we'll at least he could help represent the lgbtq...he just put a positive spin on awkward situation..

  • @nic4586
    @nic4586 7 місяців тому +1

    I disagree with so many of these comments 😂 Nathaniel was on this show for fame and to get his name and drama out there aswell. I do not believe this was all on Ella. Otherwise why was Nathaniel in so many different podcasts DM’s for him to go on and speak about himself etc before people had even seen all of the episodes? For example, he was in the Sh!tsNGigs podcasts DM’s not long after the episodes of the wedding ceremonies, with a link to a MSM article to try and tell his story before anyone else could.
    Don’t get me wrong, I agree these shows are for the drama and add things unnecessary for additional entertainment but I do not see Nathaniel as a victim what so ever. Plus he was quite happy to reveal Ella’s ‘secret’ about stripping on camera when they had clearly had a personal conversation about not discussing it for whatever reason. Disgusting behaviour. Also he continually says he wanted a guy, he seems a strong enough person to say no I cannot marry anyone other than a male. Surely that isn’t pansexual either? Do you have preferences when pansexual?

    • @Kgfhff
      @Kgfhff 7 місяців тому

      He didn’t want drama or fame hence him leaving early as they did him dirty! Ella was an attention seeker and not everyone likes that sort of personality. Glad he left in dignity

    • @starlightgirl8863
      @starlightgirl8863 7 місяців тому

      @@Kgfhff No he's a hypocrite. Ella literally asked him if he was attracted to her. He couldn't give a simple YES or NO. He could've told her that he wanted a guy or a woman with masculine energy. He led her on and gaslighted her into thinking her personality was the problem. For someone who preaches about transparency, he's quite the hypocrite!!!

    • @Kgfhff
      @Kgfhff 7 місяців тому

      @@starlightgirl8863 yeah he got put off by her attention seeking personality! Not surprised at all, gave her the benefit of the doubt however she didn’t change and of-course shes not a masculine man which is what he was after.

  • @urthboundmisfit
    @urthboundmisfit 7 місяців тому

    It's interesting to unpack this. I'm guessing that everyone else in that show was a heterosexual pairing? So basically, it looks like what the showrunners did was look at this situation and go, "oh hey, he's a gay man [or a bisexual man who prefers masculine and male people], here's this man pretending to be a woman over here, they're both LGBT, it's perfect!" I suspect the showrunners are now calling Nathaniel a liar not because he isn't telling the truth but because the truth is they saw Ella as a man all along. Correctly, but of course you can't say that in entertainment these days without losing your whole career. Awkward. Their attitude definitely has an "all you [minority group] look alike" vibe to it, too. So much for being "woke."

  • @resetbs1955
    @resetbs1955 8 місяців тому +8

    Ella was Thursty 😆 & Dk hungry! She still has a man temper inside...

  • @Satanna.avemaria
    @Satanna.avemaria 7 місяців тому

    It’s neither his or Ella’s fault but if they matched her with someone who isn’t gonna show any affection she’s gonna stray. If anything I think they made Ella look bad 🙄 they should have paired her with someone interested in trans women from the get go.

  • @karatekai6384
    @karatekai6384 7 місяців тому

    Nath acted like a jealous wrong done by husband fact is he didn’t fancy Ella as her personality evolved he liked her less Ella might find her right person in the transvestite world she is an emotional mess due to her childhood demeanour,I wish them both happiness good luck in finding their happy place 🙏⭐️🙏

  • @deloreswilliam
    @deloreswilliam 8 місяців тому +2

    if he said he couldn't do it, then why do it? FAME

    • @Kgfhff
      @Kgfhff 7 місяців тому

      Is that why he left? He gave her a chance however it flopped

  • @rovalq1
    @rovalq1 8 місяців тому

    Wow so he was acting when he heard from her she was trans?

  • @Bathingwookie
    @Bathingwookie 7 місяців тому +1

    You are gay, but you wanted the showtime. Don’t tick the boxes if you aren’t willing to go through with it. You absolute div of a guy.

  • @user-es5fb4vw4y
    @user-es5fb4vw4y 20 днів тому

    OMG now I Understand....Sorry for my question if you are straight...Sorry Bro...Deeply apologize

  • @user-cw3gw3ms3l
    @user-cw3gw3ms3l 6 місяців тому

    Who are these so called experts.😅

  • @mekareactsandreviews3026
    @mekareactsandreviews3026 7 місяців тому

    Really glade he didnt stay just to be politically correct..

  • @cybeledalmas-lewis2120
    @cybeledalmas-lewis2120 8 місяців тому +1

    You was set up. What a shame

  • @Sophie-cw7bf
    @Sophie-cw7bf 8 місяців тому

    👀👀 what a story kmt

  • @s.b9118
    @s.b9118 7 місяців тому

    The show is so fake, the producers dont even care about matchijg ppl for marriage purposes, its all about ebtertainment putposes. Didbt used 2 be like that when it 1st started. Nathanial did show fakeness when he saw ella 1st and said he liked her, i could tell he wouldnt like a girl. The producers should be held accountable. Knew they would never show ella in a bad light even though she cheated!!

  • @user-es5fb4vw4y
    @user-es5fb4vw4y 20 днів тому

    But deep down I knew ...Sorry Bro

  • @bigpauliep6992
    @bigpauliep6992 8 місяців тому +1

    Looks like Nat was right: they're trying to promote that Evan dude like he's the new cool thing.

  • @jasonthewatchmansson8873
    @jasonthewatchmansson8873 9 місяців тому +23

    Didn't the show describe "Ella" as a "beautiful bombshell"? Isn't it odd that a "beautiful bombshell" needs the producers to beg and plead for a guy to pretend to be infatuated and to proceed with being a match?

    • @perry5509
      @perry5509 9 місяців тому +6

      It’s cus he’s gay 😂 he doesn’t want a beautiful bombshell he wants a hunk, which is literally the opposite of Ella

  • @TheHillsAdventures
    @TheHillsAdventures 8 місяців тому +2

    All ok Nathaniel, but the fact you knew it since day one that Ella was Trans etc and you wanted to get married with a guy, I actually in the end don't feel sorry for you because you lied to us all on the show and you knew it, that dinner fight on episode 20 was pointless, Ella even said: Oscar Performance!!! You calling her a liar etc and playing the victim... wow, the Oscar goes to you. The more I watch the show, the less I dislike all of it....

  • @scotlandthebrave334
    @scotlandthebrave334 9 місяців тому +34

    He's done the right thing. This was channel 4 pushing identity politics with scant regard for his Nathaniel's mental health. He should be compensated for the loss of his income. That's actually really bad what they've done to him.

    • @doxasophosmoros
      @doxasophosmoros 3 місяці тому +1

      No, because you have to sign a contract on all reality shows, which signs away yo7r right to privacy and money and even death if you die as a result of the show. Even if you commit su1cude after the show as a result, they can't be sued. If you die on set or get hurt you can't sue. If your family members get hurt or killed as a result of thr show you can't sue. They cover all bases. I know because I nearly signed a contract for the aussie The Bachelor and after reading the contract I backed out. The stuff it said was crazy.. "We can create a fraudulent and offer dive innavyrate portrayal of you and replay this throughout the universe in perpetuity on all currently known and future media devices currently not in existence, throughout the universe in perpetuity" it literally says that I'll never forget it.. they seriously cover ALLL BASES. Why do you think they never get sued. You literally can't, that's what the contracts are for. Anyone who signs one is doing it out of desperation.. that's the types who join these shows, they actually sign away their lives for fame.

  • @hotmama811
    @hotmama811 8 місяців тому

    You’re perfect !!!!

  • @happygarden7111
    @happygarden7111 9 місяців тому +23

    I’m sorry they did you like that. You deserve to find love, Nathaniel and you will. We can all see how genuine you are and there is a special someone who will see it too one day. You did the right thing imo. Be true to yourself! Take care

  • @scotlandthebrave334
    @scotlandthebrave334 9 місяців тому +10

    Just watching tonight's episode. The producers are a disgrace. How dare they put him through that, listening to the panel analyse their relationship. Coercing them together. Sickening. Their subjects on the show have very little redeeming qualities about them. Outrageous.

  • @Farendeic3498mhg
    @Farendeic3498mhg 7 місяців тому

    Nathaniel has a
    awful dress sense.

  • @purplesunflower8242
    @purplesunflower8242 8 місяців тому

    Set you up with a Man..

  • @mariaq8087
    @mariaq8087 9 місяців тому +24

    The relationship 'experts' are a joke

  • @barbaramansfield3164
    @barbaramansfield3164 9 місяців тому +8

    I cannot put the blame on Him with out mentioning comments from what was his wife it would have been all about her no thoughts for his life it’s to me one sided.

  • @mignoncronje346
    @mignoncronje346 9 місяців тому +13

    So happy for him that he left.

  • @scotlandthebrave334
    @scotlandthebrave334 9 місяців тому +6

    I wish the transwoman well. Like all women who are lap dancers, it really is a horrible industry. I hope that possibly she can find love as well and better income steam.
    What channel 4 has done is actually quite abusive sadly. And to Nathaniel's credit he hugged her when she came out to the group as trans.

  • @kornNpunk
    @kornNpunk 9 місяців тому

    Lol...pansexual and his preferences 😂

  • @sarahlouiseriches4085
    @sarahlouiseriches4085 9 місяців тому +3

    Im sorry you went through that you should do what you want to do not what people tell you to do never feel forced into something never let anyone make you feel like that do whats right for you not whats right for other people its about you not them you should always put yourself 1st

  • @greenbrothersuk
    @greenbrothersuk 8 місяців тому +1

    Why didn’t he admit any of this on the show? I always said he was gay and wanted a man. It was obvious.

  • @mohammadal-drees3106
    @mohammadal-drees3106 9 місяців тому +11

    So let me get this straight, you signed up to the show knowing that you’re setup with a trans woman, and then you decided to leave. Got it! 👍🏼

    • @mikb5587
      @mikb5587 9 місяців тому +3

      That's the simple person's version yes.

  • @scotlandthebrave334
    @scotlandthebrave334 9 місяців тому +4

    So dissapointing to see this. He's right about the cut from the editors, he didn't look good at all on the Honeymoon. When he revealed that she was a lap dancer/stripper.
    Dissapointing from Channel 4. I was enjoying the show up until now.

  • @sy1150
    @sy1150 9 місяців тому +6

    The show exploited their queer identities.

    • @no_prisoners6474
      @no_prisoners6474 8 місяців тому +1

      That's because their community presents them as mindless attention seekers.

  • @lloydsworthralphy222
    @lloydsworthralphy222 9 місяців тому +1

    Oh you was so used by channel 4..just to launch her career I feel for channel 4.
    I'm not watching this show no more. Fake

  • @kazeenapproach2986
    @kazeenapproach2986 9 місяців тому

    He should get with Rylan Clark's. That's who will make him happy..

  • @user-es7op3jc6x
    @user-es7op3jc6x 7 місяців тому

    Exactly y i took the fuse out me telr