What Happened When The Nice Guys Got A Second Chance?
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Always weirdly ironic how all the 'nice guys' and 'nice girls' who excaim that 'you'll never find someone like them' never seem to realize that statement isn't the threat they think it is.
I'd tack this statement onto exes in general. There's a reason I'll never find another like you. Cause imma avoid mfers like you like the plague.
So true. One of my friends was married to a man that would constantly tell her that she'd never find anyone else if she left him. It took her a decade to leave him and just celebrated the 20th anniversary with her now husband who treats her with love and respect.
“What the … I inserted my niceness coins, but the machine didn’t give me any coochie! What the hell?”
This video hits hard. I’m the mutual friend of a nice guy and the girl. I love them both as people, but he was raised to be a traditional guy and has lower self esteem. She is extremely outgoing and a fun person. The breakup was nasty.
"it's ok to be alone"...totally true
Remember kids, if you put someone on a pedestal you've made it that much easier for them to kick you in the teeth. Accidentally, because they're an actual human person and expecting them to be a perfect unchanging icon is ridiculous.
Well said
Not to mention, the pedestal treatment isn’t necessarily appreciated. I remember when I was in high school my mom asked why I didn’t give a certain guy a chance who was moon-eyed after me. I said in frustration, “Well it would be nice if he let me off this pedestal and just frigging asked me out!” He never did. 🙄
@@kerriganm This so much. It's restrictive and uncomfortable, and those people never want to get to know their idol as a real person.
Your bit about "no nice guy says that they're nice" falls in line with my philosophy. As Tywin Lannister put it, "Any man who must say 'I am the king' is no true king ".
I remember being friends, yes FRIENDS, with a guy....who I also had very strong feelings for. I did eventually tell him, but I *also* told him I was cool with just being friends. He never spoke to me again, and the few times we were in one another's periphery, he was an absolute DOUCHE bag to me. Never did figure out why. After that, I never told another person I had a thing for them. Not ever. I figured, if they wanted me, THEY can take all the risks. Oh, and the kicker? HE was the "nice guy."
You can always tell, just make sure to notice the red flags.
What a potato
Omg they get this ridiculous
Some people legit turn into preschool levels of "I like you so I'm going to pull your hair" immaturity. Not saying that is what this is, just saying that it seems similar and it has happened to me a fair amount of times. Because yes I will definitely like you more after you have disrespected me in front of everybody... Yes please let's go on a date now 😒
He gave me a tarot reading. I don’t know the card, but he said it signified that the decisions I was making was hard, but ultimately the right one. (Obviously referring to accepting him back) More attempted manipulation ensued.
Maybe it meant you needed to make the harder but right decision, which was leaving and not spending time with him. 😂
Do you remember the design of the card, by any chance?
@@eggshelleggshell I actually just remembered. Had to stop and put a LOT of thought to pull this memory.
Sorrow- three swords. As the name suggests, it was three swords stabbing into a heart. If I can recall correctly, the big speech he gave me was something like:
“It represents the end of possibly the greatest pain you’ve experienced, building you anew from the flames. It’s my favorite card actually. It’s the end of your pain and the start of something new, signifying that the decisions you are making is hard, but is the right one all the same.”
There was a lot more, but my memory is bad and that was my very first reading/im not familiar with tarot. Sorry.
@@dancingqueen5428 if i'm pulling this right from the first thing on google, it actually means you are feeling deeply hurt and disappointed, rather than what he said
@@dancingqueen5428might want to look up the actual meaning for that particular tarot card. Guys like him lie every time they open their mouths.
I lost 6 years of my life with his emotional/psychological abuse and I’m on year 3 of therapy. Dating after marriage, it’s so surprising to hear guys say “I’m a people pleaser” and I’m like…you know that’s not a good quality right and I always say I want a good guy not a nice guy and that seem to make them glitch. One flag and I’m out.
Ok but it took you 6 years of putting up with bullshit to learn that. Don’t come for people on their own journey of learning that because they can just as easily come for you and your standards for those 6 years.
@@Averyr91 did you even use comprehension when you read that because the whole message was knowing it’s not a good quality from my own experience of being “nice”. Think before you reply maybe.
He begged me to give him a chance i did. Im mexican and hes white. Was racist many times around me regarding mexican people. Tried to make me lose my culture and just do quote on quote only anerican things cause are kids are gonna be american. Was slob with a huge ego. I should have left but everytime he would beg and cry and i felt trapped. 2 years later i met my and married my husband and he is asian and we both are respectful towards each others cultures and beliefs ofc we still do make fun of each other.
Imagine thinking you have a good friend, only to find out they secretly waited for you to have s*x with them because they put you in the f*ckzone from the start without telling you about their feelings for you. And somehow it's your fault in their eyes.
That interlude after story 8 really hits home. I was in love with the idea of love. I ended up hurting myself(emotionally) because I really thought I had found some ideal partner but I was just projecting onto them. Thankfully they snapped me out of it and got me to see the forest.
I went on a date with a guy that claimed he used to say he was a “nice guy” on his tinder profile but realized it caused him problems he deleted that bit and I swear my brain just went “oh no, he ripped the tag off the mattress” like he took off his warning label and now I was here with this nut case.
He was a nutcase. I got an essay( I didn’t read) at 1am after I made up an excuse to not go on the 2nd date after I got home at 9pm…oof
Some people need to learn the difference between a nice guy and a good guy
Thank you for the telling the truth. Yes, life isn't a dating GAME. There are so many idiots out there who fall in love with game characters and believe it works the same way in real life. No, you can't get the girl after running quests for her favorite things. Making a girl laugh isn't a confirmation that she's in love with you. This goes especially for older men at stores.
I'm grateful for this video. Too often we forget that people don't have to reciprocate feelings and that's absolutely ok. Mainly facts guy was right when he said we should be with someone who wants to be with you and talk with you.😊
which is why so many of us have learned to be happy alone.
I tried to be friends with the nice guy who tried to ask me out by blocking me in a hallway. He ended up being an asshole and calling girls who wear colorful clothes and makeup “fake hamer girls” (despite knowing me and Sarah, both of us who love makeup and fashion-and also play JRPG’s while the latter had the Silent Hill games for PS2)
my parents always told my that nice people rarely refer to themselves as such. said it when talking to my wife about my myself and literally cringed when she pointed out that it was the first time she heard me refer to myself as such.
You live and learned. Too bad some of these people never learn.
I always say “I like to think of myself as a nice/good person.” Which I feel is fair, most people do consider themselves to be. But it leaves people the ability to draw their own conclusions without challenging mine.
@@pelicanofpunishment6 i like that. it is definitely a better way to communicate that.
@@15DAnglo Exactly. It's fair to WANT to be a nice person and feel like you're succeeding at it by what you perceive yourself to have done for the reasons done. But it's also fair that people may see it differently from the outside or other side.
@@pelicanofpunishment6 Exactly! An actual nice person may say, “I hope I’m a nice person” or “I try to be a nice person.” Niceness is in the eye of the beholder, and we all have blind spots in our ego. If you are bitter, insulting or vindictive when you don’t get your way, guess what? You’re not a “nice guy”.
TLDR I gave him a chance and he basically called me a slut. Almost gave him a second chance but heck no.
A guy on a dating app said he had a rough past, was doing much better, and just wanted a chance. I figured why not, it's only chatting only an app. We chat off and on over a few days. Then I had some bad cell reception and couldn't see his messages, for some reason I could send messages though. Anyway everything starts working again and I ask him about a subject we had discussed previously (something I'm very passionate about and wanted to talk more on).
Him: what? how many guys are you talking to on here!?!? We already talked about this before!!!!!! How can you not remember????
Me: well, I was hoping you'd elaborate more on some of the specifics. I was definitely not done discussing this subject. If you feel that one single line that one time was enough then we are not a good match. Nice meeting you, bye!!
He then proceeded to write of all the things he knows about that subject. I was getting quite a few messages. I ALMOST gave him a second chance. But I didn't because (1) the first thing he did when confused was disrespect me, and (2) I didn't want to be on this subreddit lol 😅
That okcupid story reminded me of this guy I met on there. I had met my now husband on there, so when we became a couple I was going to shut down my profile. I wanted to be nice and tell this guy I was deleting my profile. He basically begged me to keep my profile up. He legit freaked out that I was leaving. We barely knew each other, didn't talk much and never met in person so the way he was acting was just very strange. Can't remember what specifically he said since it's been so long. Anyway, I deleted my profile despite his protests. Been married for ten years now!
"Nice guy" is codeword for covertly manipulative.
All those girls have one thing in common: they endure uncomfortable experiences because they're afraid to hurt his feelings and that he'll become aggressive.
How many serial killers have been described by their acquaintances and neighbors as a "nice guy, always helped, didn't hurt a fly"? IT'S A FRONT for luring prey, whether he's a psych0 or simply a bit too controlling.
Third story, $20 says that he rescued her from the abusive relationship JUST to woo her. No desire to actually help her, just wanted to be her savior because that always leads to romance in these people's heads.
Children: when you block someone because they are unhealthy for you to be around, never unblock them
They think you want contact when you unblock them
I really hate that they use the term nice guy to refer to complete pricks. Cause then how do you describe a genuinely nice man that you know?
The problem with friend zone is that while on the one hand no one is owed a romantic relationship neither is a friendship owed. In my opinion it's better to take a break from someone if you both have opposing wants and needs until whoever is expecting more gets over those feelings. The other problem is if you are looking for a romantic partner then that's what you want and you might not have time to maintain a friendship with every person who isn't interested in more than friendship. Just because I can make friends with almost anyone doesn't mean I have time to be friends with everyone.
The reason why people use that term is because that's what the "nice guy" uses to describe himself:
"Why don't you want to date/marry/give me a chance? I'm a NICE GUYYYY!"
Also, the term "nice guy" can be used to describe someone who isn't a great catch, but someone you should still give a chance to, "but he's a really nice guy!"
Obviously all this depends on context and culture. In my circles if someone is a really great catch then they'll say something like, "he's the whole package!"
Being “kind” and being “nice” are two different things. Niceness is basic politeness that you extend to strangers on the street. It can also come with ulterior motives or is used to get what you want. Be it in a professional setting or as you see with these men, manipulate, gaslight and control. It’s a mask you can put on. Kindness is a step above. It comes with no strings attached. You do something for someone because it’s the right thing, expecting nothing in return. If you find someone who is also kind, they extend that love, respect, grace and sacrifice to you. There is a balance. So strive to be more than just nice, it’s the bare minimum in social interactions. Be kind.
if you refer to them as nice guy, it's fine. But if they call themselves nice guy, that's a red flag
I've got a comment about one of these that's perhaps not as well known by people who don't live in the sketchy neighborhoods I have.
The assumption why the guy insists on walking closer to the curb than the gal he's walking with, is to indicate she's not working the block, and she is if she's closest to the curb.
It shouldn't be necessary because it's usually visually obvious who's actually working, but I assume hope springs eternal for the creeps who take advantage of those desperate people and pick them up, no surprise they're likely to express interest in the ones who don't look drugged up and living on the streets
I'm gonna disagree. Personally, i think there are GOOD guys out there and then there are "nice guys". I respect the difference. ❤
As a “nice guy” I can say we suck,
for example- this girl went out of her way to get my phone number and started messaging me, it was frankly obvious she had a crush on me and a week later she asked me to be her boyfriend.
Now here’s the part where I am a terrible person and deserve to be strangled.
I didn’t say a word to her in person, no I was not embarrassed to be with her (it was already quite public) I was to paranoid that she didn’t want to talk to me. Two days later she rightfully breaks up with me
As long as you changed to be a better person. No point in acknowledging it, if you don't fix it.
How old are you?
@@matteofazio7845 this happened back in freshman year of high school, im in college now
@33:41 Just casually boks like a chicken lmao love it!
I didn't give my ex a second chance, but, his *mom* begged me to, and I guess she told him that I agreed to it.
When I broke up with him I did it over text (we were long distance, thankfully) and then he called me, so, I figured I'd be an adult and answer, I expected a, somewhat emotional, but, adult conversation to ensue, what I got instead was a screaming, angry man-child who was throwing glasses and glass plates around his house along with some ither breakable objects, and threatening to hurt his mom and brother, while his ocd mom, bless her heart, was crying and trying desperately to calm him down and clean the mess he was making. The neighbors called the police and he was hauled off, she called me sometime later begging me to take him back, all while in you background, you could him shrieking and screaming that he was going to "fight the staff" and "kill everyone", he was apparently shoved off into a psychward in the hospital... I have never seen a worse tantrum in all my life, coming from a grown ass man in his mid to late 20s.
Also should note, he admitted that, in the trip we were planning so I could visit him, he planned to kidnap me. He never intended to let me return home when I went to visit for a week. I'm so glad I decided to call it off before going to see him, I hope he got help, because he clearly needed help of some kind, what exactly, I don't know... but he definitely needed help.
that b*(ch wanted YOU to be involved with someone like THAT??? She created that monster, she should marvel at her creation, she reaped what she sowed.
Sorry to say it, but the hat in the "nice guy" meme images aren't fadotas as far as I know, as i think they're actually called trillby hats, as real fadoras have wider, flatter brims, while a trillby will only have a brim that extends just past the wearer's ears.
Story #16... so glad you didn't put up with his craziness and left ..i knew men like that...ugh......ugh....
I actually knew a nice guy as a classmate. He had a female friend who he was a platonic pair with for years, always together and hanging out, when he tried to get with her towards the end of senior year, she rejected him. I don't know what happened or what he did but she was scared. When he tried to speak with her she shut down, blocked him on social media. Around others he was his normal self but when talking about her the frustration would come out he would flip flop between this delusional hope of him thinking she'll change her mind and anger. It was super bizarre. Nice guys are just as dangerous as bad boys honestly, some can be a bit delusional, and the sad thing is even if they have that bad side, they are not bad people. Just bad to that one person so you can not judge them in all entirety, it truly makes you wish you knew more about human psychology to help them.
I don't know if that count as dating, since I listen to guts and left in 2 weeks.
But I was dating online and meet a nice boy. I quickly find him odd, he was often talking about sad story. I find it odd since you usually try to make yourself desirable, not pitiful. He realizes he was a people pleaser, always trying to align to my taste. He wanted to talk every day too. I told him that I wasn't going to eat him and he can like the color red if I say I prefer blue. He thanks me, but continue anyway, I was feeling like talking to someone without knowing anything about him at the end of the day.
He proposes we meet after 2 weeks, and I agree at first. But while he understood that I wouldn't let him in my place in the first date, he proposes we take a hotel instead. One room with only one bed. I was really uncomfortable with that. He insist a lot, then drop it. After that he talk about the death of his grandmother and how sad he was. I was more and more creep out (he gives me a really details description of her corpse at the funeral for some reason). I didn't want to dump him before I meet him, at least I should give him a chance, right ?
I receive a text from a friend, asking me to hang out the day of my date with him, I was so relieved to have a reasonable excuse to turn him down. After that, I realize that if it's my feeling, that will not do for anyone. I dump him and got few messages from him. First shock, trying to change my mind, then anger, calling me name, I blocked him, he contacts me on the dating website, but I never answer.
I feel like people grow up saying "It's about getting the girl" or It's about getting the guy". My dad told me that it was about getting the girl after I told him about the guy I was asking to be friends with only, disregarded my boundaries, and called me cutie. I felt so disrespected by both of them. My dad hurt more because he is supposed to be a role model and someone to help guide me in tough times. :/ It's not about getting a girl or guy, NO ONE is an OBJECT. Honestly, I am surprised I didn't turn into a psychopath in that type of upbringing.
I relate, in a way. My dad did not listen to me the few times I opened up and eventually I just stopped opening up. But he pushed my boundaries more than anybody all the time and he still does. But frustratingly, he started asking me when I was about 11 why I "didn't have a boyfriend yet." I was always disgusted and I would tell him that I didn't want to, so he would argue with me on that, and a VERY large portion of me was put off from dating entirely BECAUSE I could not stand the idea of my dad finding out. I didn't date anyone until I was 24. Still with the same person, and we don't want to get married for a lot of reasons, but for all the same reasons listed above, a large, LARGE part of me can't even entertain the idea of getting married because I cannot fathom having my dad at my wedding. It's terrible, but luckily I hate weddings, so I don't feel like I'm missing anything.
@@islandboy4445I'm sorry your dad was/is disrespectful to you. If you ever want to be married for financial, healthcare, or any other legal reason, just go to a courthouse or to a quick wedding chapel. You don't even have to tell anyone, especially if you get a confidential marriage license instead of a standard marriage license. (This is not available everywhere, but it's worth checking out if privacy is a concern.) It's awesome you have someone to be happy with. Enjoy it, whether you get married or not. 💕
when niceguy dates a nicegirl: niceguy get's cheated on nice girl, forgives, talk about other girls he likes like it's nothing, get cheated on again, breaks up, nice girl says "imagine how I felt when you talked about other girls"....yhea...match made in hell.... thankfully, both have grown out of it, but god it is still cringe to both of us looking back.
That uvula/vulva part 😂😂😂
What people who complain about being "friendzoned" dont realise is that they have put the other person in the "fuckzone" and just got rejected. They never once considered that oher person as anything oher than someone to fuck.
If you dont "fuckzone" someone, then there would be no such thing as being "friendzoned"!!!
Think about it.
Sorry meant to be a normal comment not reply
Thanks for all these stories,.... ladies watch for the red flags and run from these losers!!!! Also... love yourself...so when you see and hear these creeps... you don't give them a chance!
This is exactly what a nice guy would say
To be fair with story 2, it took me a few months to learn my college roommate’s names but I extremely bad with names
Story nine- The reason for a guy walking on the street side of the sidewalk is not so outdated as you think. The reason for that is in the event a car should drive by and splash a water puddle up it will splash the man and not the lady. Its just gentlemanly!
As I heard the other day "being nice" is a basic, like showering... it does not entitle you to a relationship;-). Imagine a guy saying: "but I shower every other day, so I deserve to be with you, if you don't like me it's because you are too picky!" 🤣
I’m so thankful I have a REAL nice guy, been together 5 years and he’s amazing, never calls me any names, never has had a tantrum, doesn’t yell at me etc. I know this is the bare minimum, and he exceeds it but I’m just showcasing how there are actual nice guy out there, they’re just not self proclaimed nice guys.
There are nice guys, then there are Nice Guys
"Nice guys" aren't nice. Agreed, they're manipulative.
My understanding of the friend zone was, someone that strings you along with the prospect of entering a relationship but doesn't actually enter into one with you. Such as cuddling, flirting, going on dates, seeing explicit pictures, or having explicit encounters. But at the end of the day they just say your friends.
My experience of friendzone has always been literally being friends. If someone is cuddling or sending explicit images, then it's friends with benefits relationship (assuming it's consentual). If it's strung along, it's abusive and then that is destructive. That's the only way I can see it in the way that your describing
I really like that shirt you're wearing. It's nice and looks good on you.
Story 5
From what I heard, usually single parents introduce the kids to the new partner at least 6 months into dating.
When I was 15, on my 1st date, the goodnight kiss he gave me felt like he was trying to eat my face.
I gave a "nice guy" a chance. I'm still in therapy over that horrific relationship.
Remember folks, that “nice guy” might be a genuine nice guy in the making… but you aren’t obligated to stick around and wait that out. It ain’t healthy for you and it won’t do them any favours.
There's a deference between a "Nice guy" and a "Kind guy"
This might be considered an offset comment but I just wanted you (creator of the channel) to know that you have a great healing soul. Everytime I listen to you share these stories (true or not) it makes my day!
I like this vid a lot. I like your voice.
Praying for forgiveness doesn't mean anything if you don't change the habit your Praying for forgiveness for.
Ooooh….is there a Nice Girl Stories???? That’d be interesting lol.
*I would have treated you like a queen!"
You got queen money?
Realized i was too critical of women, lightened up on the judging.
Started watching "anti simp" content on youtube. Became much better at disernung quality form low quality people.
And this is me im talking about. I didn't think i was nice, but i did fancy myself atleast a good person (which us right sometimes but other times im a bit of a... phallace)
For some reason I seem to be a magnet for nice guys, my female childhood friend, a male highschool friend, a guy from said school who knew me for two weeks, a uni guy who knew me for less than a week, a voyeur that didn't even talk to me once, my stepdad, my dad...
And I'm what would be considered an introverted cold woman ever since childhood, some didn't consider me a woman for that alone and it's not a desirable trait around here. Wtf was my luck
I refuse to meet any kids until 18 months in or 2 years in.
31:07 This take on the friendzone is half right half wrong; yes its OK to be "friendzoned," but that doesn't mean you SHOULD be friends with them. I say this because you're more than likely to torture yourself by settling for a friendship with someone that you want more than friendship from. You are almost 100% certain to be a jealous mess when you find out that this new friend has feelings for someone else.. but if you don't feel strongly enough about them to be jealous though, then it's safe to go for it 👍
For the comment on people pleasing. There are women who like that. Dominant women who in turn try to do the same and feel appreciated due to the effort given.
I don't think it comes down to changing 100%. Sometimes it may be too much.
But what I think it comes down to is the ability to date someone and find out if it would be fulfilling for them nd how the two people fit together.
Friend Zone: All the yappin, none of the tappin. It is a one way street. Pass.
Listen you can be as nice as you want but if they ask you to take a step back take a god damn step back
I don't understand this whole "nice guy" thing. I like to think I am a nice guy. I know when to stand up for myself and when to accede. And I'm an Aspy! Talk about social issues. If a relationship ends, stalls or doesn't go anywhere, it is for a good reason. I don't think I have had one horrible break-up outside of my first marriage. She turned into a horrible person.
it's not about actual nice guys, it's about people who like to claim themselves as nice guys but actually aren't, so in short, it's actually about with terrible guys. should make sense now
Nice guys are anything but nice. The friend zone also happens to women too. Being nice to someone doesnt mean youre entitled to sex or a relationship or even friendship with someone. Being friends with someone doesn't mean they will change their feelings. Also, generalizing a gender due to rejection or the actions of a few bad eggs doesnt mean all women or all men are bad.
Next door neighbor in the dorms introduced me to “just the nicest guy ever”. (Sweet naive girl who thought everyone was nice.) I got roped into going out with the guy. After dinner and walking around campus, he walked me back to the dorm. Even though it was after hours, he insisted on going to my door…pinned me against the door and said “I’m going to get what I want and you’re not going to say no”. A week later he came back to my room and said he didn’t think we should see each other again. I just stared at him, then said “great!”
If you don't mind me asking... Did he... Yknow...?
@@islandboy4445 yes
@@kannlowery I'm sorry. 😔 I'm glad you got out of that shit. ☮️
@@islandboy4445 thank you. I have had a long time to heal, thankfully. And I now listen to my intuition...if something doesn't feel right, I know to walk away.
You end up marrying them and they make you very happy ❤
I know this video was from two days ago but last night I literally had a dream I was in school again and there were two nice guys 0_0
nice guys are actually scary, they're only nice because they want something, but when you don't really feel for them like that, it's like the wrath of a thousand tornadoes will come after you. There no different than the jerks, they're just calculating and conniving. Give them a chance, and let the psychological abuse begin for you curving them back when you were both in .. kindergarten. wtf.
true nice guys never say they're nice guys... their lives are a reflection of who they are morally.. same concept applies to alpha or whatever the crap people like to throw around..
Self proclaimed "nice guys" are the WORST. It's a mask they wear to cover up how shitty of a person they actually are. None of the genuinely kind men I've known, been friends with, or dated ever had to convince anyone of their kindness.
Oof Story 7 hits too close to my ex
My ex finance and NOT good..He had NO accountability.
I had a dude pull that "I'm gonna kill myself" crap. I told him not to make a mess and suggested he use a shotgun. He got all mad because his attempt at emotional manipulation failed. That was ten years ago. Now he's one of those permanently single dudes who rants about women on Facebook
I'm a permanently single dude who rants about women but at least i don't use Facebook and never used the "Im going to kms" card
Wooooaaaah shotguns are a pretty freaking messy way to go, but I think I'll steal that reply. I watched a friend go through that insanity in a marriage and it got to the point where he was threatening to jump off a building with cops all over while she was watching.
Horrible stuff.
Most important advice i can give(especially to men) is to learn to be comfortable being alone
To cmarify for our lovley narrorator the friendzones proper usage is when someone knows you like them romanticly and uses that to manipulate you to do things for them because you are friends.
"r/" what is this on reddit
I feel story 3 is just as much her situation. The guy there doesn't seem terrible, but a bit pushy and should have had the awareness that this wasn't the right time. But he was a teenager and likely a bit too eager and stuff. Like full of hormones
i gave a “nice guy” a second chance and he leaked nude photos he took of me without my permission
A lot of "nice guys" are just incredibly naive and have never actually been involved in any sort of relationship, so they have no idea how these things are actually supposed to go. This doesn't make them a bad person. It just means they need a serious reality check and to be educated. Of course a lot of them are simply pieces of shit too but that's their cross to bear.
I absolutely LOVE your narration!! The inane commentary detracts from the stories and kills the vibe.
Biggest mistake of my life.
These are not nice guys, girls do you not know what a nice guy is ???
It's sarcastic, or mocking I guess. These pricks usually call themselves nice guys in these stories, usually unaware or delusional to how bad they are. The title "NiceGuys" has just caught on on Reddit so that's why people call them that.
My mom had an ex who would go to church to pray for forgiveness after they had sex. He was a good person, he just wanted to have sex outside of marriage and be forgiven for it by his God. I don't see anything wrong with that. He wasn't ready to be married, wanted sex even though his religion did not allow that outside of a marriage and he held a belief that you can be forgiven so he did.
Nice guys/girls are so... . Just so we know: being nice isn't a special personality trait. Neing nice is the basic for interaction. Not ...ugn.
My friend dated not one but two "nice guys" in high school (broke up with one and went to the other in the last year of high school)
One was a ne0n4z1 that was only okay with me being trans because I'm white
The other was a textbook sociopathic narcissist who hated me because I saw through his BS and never liked him
Both were emotionally and mentally abusive, the second one was very controlling and tried to isolate her from all her friends (I was one of only two people who were stubborn enough to stay around)
These are mostly first chances….l
FYI these aren't nice guys. Don't fuck up the image for real nice guys
What makes a real nice guy? Because if all the self proclaimed nice guys women keep interacting with are actual jerks…then what’s the genuine difference? How are women supposed to tell them apart before deciding to date them?
I use to be a nice guy but then my ex smashed her co worker
Well she’s a bitch for that, but it definitely doesn’t represent all of us. In hindsight we learn to read the signs and signals of toxic people and run like a rockstar from rehab.
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If the nice guy didn't ruin the relationship and you want him back....HES DONE BEING THE NICE GUY FOR YOU. You had your chance.
If the nice guy ruined the relationship, well...hopefully he learned from his 'assumed' mistake. But you should leave him alone still.
i made a nice guy mistake B4 when i was a young guy i made the mistake of being nice 😏
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The friend zone is where someone basically puts you to the side where you're not allowed to date or date them you're basically an emotional punching bag for the person they may not want you but they want your gifts and to be treated special without having to get into a relationship with you. Yes people who mindlessly chase their crushes can end up in the friend zone cause you are trying so hard to get with someone that doesn't want you but they don't mind the extra attention or just want you for later
No I don't mean you (reader)
So it’s like dating woman
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