@@sriyasodharmma4021 mehenga yes, but it's THE brand for indian weddings. Almost all celebrities wear him for their weddings. Thus, all indian women want to wear his designs.
And you try to find that one group of cousins you get along with among the sea of nosy aunties and drunk uncles. And the photographer decides to take your one photo when you’re ugly eating
@@Himachali_Protagonist no one cares they just appreciated the clothes you didn't have to go on a whole other tangent and talk about how other cultures aren't 'colourful'. This is why people from outside find Indians weird.
It's Hindu wedding . And no Hindu wedding so no culture , no tradition , no ritual . Ok . All secular guys will say I am communal but it's fact . India have other religion but your dharmik religion have this type of traditions . Like buddism and Jainism but I don't know much about there wedding style . I think there wedding not like this
Its a joke in india that we spend so much money in wedding to remind groom and bride of how much money they would need to marry again, so you better not divorce.
One striking difference I found between Indian and Western weddings was how in India it is usually not the couple who plan their wedding. Like depending on who they are they give their inputs on different levels but the main responsibility falls on their families
Yes thats true...mostly parents , siblings, nd close relatives take up different responsibilities like wedding hall arrangements, catering, music etc...although these days all these things are outsourced to wedding planners so that family members can fully enjoy the party nd ceremonies...but families with lower budgets still plan their son's or daughter's wedding along with the close relatives nd neighbours.
In indian house wedding is like big festival ..when two divine soul will merge together ...so we celebrate accordingly ..nothing as big in this .. Yes relatives are very important in our weddings and their suggestion matters allot.. Because, when you ignore your well wishes in most important moment of your life ..than there is no point of being good on other normal day ..
Omg how absolutely beautiful! Im obsessed with India. My husbands job sent him to Bangalore for a little over 7 years. Its was the most amazing time of our lives. My youngest daughter refused to hear she was NOT Indian. She actually spoke Kannada by the time we we came back to the U.S. We went to several weddings, mostly students of my husband. They were absolutely amazing. I miss India so much!
@Shreyaawashere what you talk about is not "marriage" but a "inter marriage problem in india because of caste" I can never imagine marrying a guy herself with just informing my parents. Western culture is very different and there are problems in every way there is two sides of every coin like in western culture marriage is kind of consider as a formality. Which can be broken it's just like boyfriend girlfriend with a legal formalities that's it. Whereas in india marriage is consider as one time thing. About honour killing and all things are changing people are changing acceptance is increasing caste and all are still prevalent in society but still now people take it lightly (and expecting caste and all to evaporate in few years is difficult bcz this things were continue from centuries and centuries) and about killing and all its a rarity now. Tbh if my parents deny the boy I like I won't go against them. My parents would always choose the best for me. I had seen enough people going against their parents for marriage later remain alone with a child and with lots of problems
@Shreyaawashere it's not prevalent in big cities anymore. Nobody really sees caste OR religion as a barrier . My neighbour is south Indian pure Hindu Brahmin and his wife is Muslim. Doesn't make a difference and they live a very happy life. It's the mentality of rural areas which has to change , and very soon will
@Shreyaawashere in some cases the "very best" is influenced by society caste and all and to be honest it's now mostly seen in rural areas. You can't judge everyone bcz you had heard about it people say many things make many stories but what's happening around you is what matters. I live in Maharashtra and too be honest and but I was born in Bihar and if my roots you see is in bihar and you know the image bihar has but too be honest every marriage I seen in my family ie. In bihar or Maharashtra they are all 90% times love marriage and they are happy with the blessings of their respective parents. People had made the image that yes that thing happen and I'm also not denying it it must be happening somewhere but painting everything in one light is very very wrong. Everything have two sides this too have. About caste problem see I mention it earlier also caste problem will be there for 10-20 years more as it been carried by centuries and it will take time and people are accepting it also. Tbh I got to know my caste and my friends caste during board exam bcz of reservation. (I hate this system 1st they wi make caste system to prevail in society strong 2nd it's wrong to give things on the basis of caste. Still it will be there bcz of political again of politicians and the people who are getting benefits will never accept to withdraw this power of their over us)
My husband is from Pakistan which has very similar culture to Indian. He also says that marriage is between the families. I learned that after living in Pakistan over the past year. Family is valued a lot higher than it is in the US
I'm from the philipines and my boyfriend is Indian. If I would choose how my wedding is gonna be, definitely Indian wedding because their weddings are so colorful and festive mixed with their tradition. Indians have the most beautiful brides with their traditional dress😍.
You have beautiful traditions too! I’m an american who married a Filipino. American weddings are beautiful but lacking in any significant culture. I loved the customs my husband brought to our wedding. The cord, veil, coin and candle sponsors along with the primary sponsors and their part in the ceremony was something my American family had never seen.
@@sooverthis6941 aww congratulations🤗❤and thank you for appreciating our filipino culture. I guess we are all amazed by each others culture. Stay safe😊
@@southernlights1890I dnt know abt other filipinas but their reason depends on their perspective. I tried to date filipino guys too but they are only looking for short term relationship and they lose interest so fast during the relationship. Mine is unexpected coz It was not included in my plans before to hv an Indian bf. He is introduced by a very good friend of mine. This is my only long term relationship. He is very consistent and we hv a good chemistry. Btw my grandfather is half Indian🙂 so its ok for my family. I hope there will be no more racism in the Philippines bec majority of us Filipinos are multiracial.
I would have liked a little more depth on the different ceremonies, but still, it did give an idea of the awesome (in the literal sense) experience. The video recommended right under it was 5 hotdogs from around the world. 😂 Excellent videography, btw.
I had a friend who married a Indian man and it was her 1st time in a sari and it wasn't put on properly and she tripped and it fell off her she pretty much flashed the entire wedding guests and all her new family her underwear during her entrance but thankfully her sister inlaws were next to her when it happened and did there best to hide her and then took her to the bathroom and put it on her properly. My poor friend was crying and had to have her make up redone and was so embarrassed but she laughs at it now and says she was being stubborn and should of accepted help from her in-laws to get dressed but being a white Aussie girl was to embarrassed to be dressed by someone so she watched a UA-cam video to put her sari on herself and the accident ended up making her feel more humble and let people help. There is even a video of it that she kept to remind her self to ask for help.
Ohh my god i was littrally finding for this comment...thinking that was i the only one who is thinking that she soo looks like that character in incredibles 😄😄
ohh now i understand when joe jonas said “ Yeah we attend all 100 wedding of nick “. It’s really a huge celebration. Indian culture is so rich and amazing. Huge respect as it’s really unique and creative.
As a South Indian I had no idea of most of these ceremonies, our weddings are very different. And on top of that different groups have different ceremonies too
@@trekkergal460 yes haha kannadiga weddings mostly start very early in the morning and are done by the afternoon or evening, followed by amazing food ofcourse lol ❤️
You know what we Indian first should understand how different and classy our India is. We have different culture and ceremonies in every state and every district. First Indian should fuck caste, colour, region and religion because these things preventing us Indians to achieve our full potential and those who are good they leave the country in search of good life. Anyways love to my all fellow Indians.
@@trekkergal460 Definitely faster... Depending on the auspicious time.. but usually starts in the morning and be done for lunch... Sometimes a get together for the previous night.. this is the bride's side.. grooms side rituals start after the wedding.. that includes a ritual of bringing the bride home and modern attachment of a reception at night...
I will marry my fiancé this summer, first we marry in Germany and few days later the Indian wedding is planned, I have no clue what will happen, but as you said, feeling comfortable in uncomfortable situations is something important to learn.. Thanks for your video :)
My husband and I also got married in India this year. Now we're living in Germany together. But since it was an Islamic wedding it was completely different from what I had seen in movies before 😅
@हर्षित harshit sharma sure, but the garments jewelry decoration is so different than in our culture. Independent of the religion this is own to indian culture. Everything is so vibrant and colorful and not just black and white like in Europe 😅
@@evaozlem2783 Islamic Marriage in India are mix of native and religion. Some people who are extreme Islamic (not hating) don't like to dance or sing because that's un-islamic a/c to Molvis (Muslim priests), they sometime get offended if you do so. Hope marriage don't like this and you have fun.
When I saw the thumbnail i immediately clicked not realizing that it was beryl's video. literally, I was so so surprised that I couldn't even distinguish her from being American. i literally thought she was a true Indian bride but this shows that she was destined to be a part of this!!!!
it reminds me of this couple on UA-cam, Tiff & Casey, she's from Mexico and he's Chinese, and she had a son from a previous relationship. and the kid kinda looks half-filipino/Chinese, half-Mexican, so people don't doubt his Chinese Step-dad is his dad. Its really one of those things that makes you wonder if some things are meant to be! haha :)
I got 'married' in a Balinese Hindu ceremony. We had no time to plan, as we literally found out the day of the ceremony it was an auspicious time. So we hastily organised a Pedande and had a very basic ceremony. Seven times around the burning coconut husks, some bungkus nasi campur and a simpke sarong with a sash at the waist.
"Learning to be comfortable with being uncomfortable." We are all going to need that advice for a while. It was fascinating to see brief glimpses into a wedding ceremony in India. Thanks for sharing, Beryl!
I'm from the mid-west in America and I went to an Indian prearranged wedding, It was Beautiful and I was totally blown away. They have now been married for 28 years and are very happy. I had a blast!
Yeah, Indian wedding will make you feel like a queen and so special, even if you are from a normal middle class family, that why we love our weddings, it's the best.
@@hemanshuchudasama3535 not true lmao maybe that's your experience but lot of the Mexican Americans or Latinos i know love Indian culture when introduced to it because of how similar it is with their cultures. Heck im Indian and my ex GF was a Mex American that absolutely loves India
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My husband is from Mumbai India, We meet in Florida, I live in Florida we been married almost 18yrs in Sept will be are Anniversary we been happy we have a good marriage, when you love each other we learn from each other, Sometimes we have struggles, our ups and downs every marriage does but we still stay string for each other throu thick and thin, My mom smokes so she had me run to get her Ciggs for her, and her normal place she likes was closed and I had to find a place to get her smokes, so I pulled to this gas station my guy happen to be other Indian guys there and Raj my guy happen to be working there, that's how our story began, we got married on the beach, never had a huge wedding, just a simple one, We both would like to renew our vows, Would love an Indian wedding, it's so colorful and beautiful. Anyways I am glad to see other interratical marriages like yours, there is also Namaste from USA and NamasteJuli both are married to Indian guys and have UA-cam channels nice to see this.
Thanks for the kind words, I'm glad you liked our indian culture and a guy from here. You're in our indian family now, anytime you come here you'll be welcomed by everyone!!
Oh my! This further develops my love for the Indian people and their culture ❤️ I work with 3 amazing Indian women, all from different regions of India, and I call them my “Auntys”. They share recipes, songs, mannerisms, language, & so much more with me. I love these ladies to pieces ❤️ I said all of that to say thank you for sharing your wedding experience with us. It’s so interesting to see how the weddings vary by regions throughout India. It’s heartwarming ❤️❤️❤️
@@yj9032 where on this entire thread did you see anyone else talking about racism? This is a feel good video. I shared my experience about the ladies that treated me like their daughter, welcomed me to their homes, shared a drink with me, exchanged meals with me, held me while I cried, laughed hard when we joked together, and make sure they never say goodbye without letting me know they love me. Stop with the racist shit and go bother someone else. This is why racism is so prominent still to this day because people of other races start to embrace each other and then someone like you feels the need to remind them that one group hates the other or vice versa. Please go away. Thanks.
The mysterious rajat has a face! Usually an arm, caught with spoon, but full edition now! Btw a challenge cooking show with both of you would be awesome!:)
As an Indian who's ancestors were indentured to Fiji in the early 1900s we have streamlined a lot of this down to three days for the groom and four days for the bride, but it's still a lot. A lot of the nomenclature has also changed from classical Indian terms to newer ones that we have used for a few decades. I guess our cultures changed when we had to integrate to a different society.
I had no idea there was such a large Indian community in Fiji. As a fellow diasporic Indian I'm shocked and honestly ashamed that in my 35 years of life I somehow never knew about this. Sending you much love and I am off now to learn more about Indo-Fijian traditions.
Thanks, Beryl - this was great! My and my wife's origin story: we went to India to attend our friends' wedding. We left the US as "just friends" but came back as a couple. This video brought back a lot of great memories!
Amazing! My sister's wedding was in India too and it was great. I'm so glad my brother in law is from India (more precisely Gujarat). I had my suit tailor made at Raymond's and my wife had her sari custom made as well. The wedding was a big success.
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I introduced two friends - he's from Kerala and she's an Italian-American - who got married back in India and I was one of the honored guests (his mother told me she saved a fortune in match maker fees thanks to me) and there is NOTHING that comes close to the intricate and deeply meaningful series of ceremonies. Later I was told that one of the most important parts is a very private ceremony where the groom tilts his new wife's face gently upwards so that they can see the moon together. Thanks for sharing this amazing part of your life with the Beryl Nation :)
It's really a pain in the a** to get a bride or groom. You have to match their horoscopes, personalities, families should be cool with each other and you should find someone who matches in all levels. It's so frustrating. You did a great job lol
In our tradition, the bride is shown the north star by the groom. The north star doesn't change its direction in the sky. Likewise the wife is supposed to be the guiding light of her husband.
Not the moon but the Arundhati Star. Known in modern astronomy as the double star Alcor and Mizar. These stars were the only known double stars in the ancient world that could be seen by the naked eye. The husband asks his bride that they be like the double star..Always together.
actually they look up at the sky to see a star in the sky called the Arundathi Nakshyatram, and it appears during an auspicious time only, so that's why the marriages are made during specific timings 😊
How beautiful everything was! I dated a man from India who was Hindu and such a sweetheart. His family followed the tradition of an arranged marriage and was threatening to disown him if he continued the relationship with me. He didn’t want to end our relationship but I made the decision to end it. There was no way I could accept the responsibility of him being disowned.
@@bloomeiblopa3446 his parents said they would disown and shun him if he stayed with me. He was very close with his family and I did not want to be responsible for causing an issue with the family.
@@bloomeiblopa3446 this was many years ago in the early 80’s. I am thankful that things have become more progressive. I ended up marrying an amazing man.
I'm so impressed that you made it through the Indian wedding as a bride. I'M Indian and the thought of being the centre of attention at all those ceremonies and outfits TERRIFY me. Personally, Indian weddings are more fun for the guests than the people getting married, but I'm really happy that you enjoyed yourself. (Also, did your sisters steal your husband's shoes?!?!?)
I think it is in most cultures the same as far as I have heard from people who got married ... it was always that attending one was much more fun than doing it themselves...
@@zamiaramirez1390 not sure if you need to be rich to employ a wedding planer (might depend on where you live) but there definitely is a lot of possibilities how a wedding day might become tiresome to the couple
Wow! I honestly didn't know how beautiful an Indian wedding can be. What a really wonderful culture! And Beryl, gosh....you looked amazing with those dresses. Thank you for sharing this.
When I traveled to India in 2018, I got invited to go to an wedding by a former student of mine. I was the only non-Indian there and I also was one of the few men not wearing an Armani suit (the only things I had to wear was some Indian clothes I had just bought.). Your description helped me to understand more of what was happening. It was so over the top and I was made to feel very welcomed, even though I was the friend of a friend of the grooms cousin.
Hahaha I think that’s where some of our wedding traditions in Southeast Asia come from too. The entire village comes to the wedding, doesn’t matter if you’re the friend of a friend of a 5th cousin twice removed, if you can come you’re invited.
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Bruh even Indian haters can't forget Indian roots they even hate by remembering the wholesome moments and he is born and brought in India how can he forget?
Stunning wedding, and I love how happy it clearly makes you to remember it. I have to say though, your mom kind of stole the show in some of those shots. I love love her glasses and hair!!
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North Indian weddings are definitely exhausting. There are so many functions one day after another there's no time to rest properly. Kudos to you for doing it all so well !!
I'm not Indian (to my knowledge at least, but who knows) but I worked in a store that sold a lot of Indian clothes and it always fascinated me so much. The couple who owned the place were both Indian and they treated me like a daughter. They taught me so much, and yet, there is still so much I don't know. As a lover of culture, I find these sorts of videos intriguing. Your wedding was beautiful!! I'm so glad you found someone who you love so much, and I'm glad you were able to embrace the culture too!
I am an Indian woman and I am about to get married. Before the pandemic, I didn't want a big wedding and I just wanted it to be simple with the people I care about. But now, whenever it is safe to do so, I really want to celebrate as much as I can because I have lost family and friends to this virus and I want to really cherish the time with the ones I do have left. I don't care how big it is, I want to invite every person I have ever met so that I can tell them that they have touched my life and that I am thankful that they are here. This video just affirmed my decision to do that because it truly looked so special.
I agree. There's sometimes this feeling in cross-cultural relationships of like "am i a good enough match for them, culturally? can i make the italian pasta or remember the Indian holidays, etc etc.?" And I think it speaks to your love of someone that you want to not only bring them into your world but share in theirs as well.
The thing you said in the end of the video "being comfortable in being uncomfortable" is exactly what an Indian wedding really is all about especially for a woman.. Me being an Indian woman can totally relate
Hey While you're partly right, this isn't exactly a "hindu wedding" because not all hindus get married Like this This is a typical North Indian (Punjabi) wedding Which is usually the most extravagant of all "hindu weddings" Depending on region, ALOT of these wedding traditions change including bridal dress colour, auspicious time, etc
@@ritikadatta6078 it is clearly a typical hindu wedding, all the rituals and all...and not all punjabi weddings are big too.. gujrati and marathi weddings are much more fancy
@@ritikadatta6078 lol nice joke there are detailed description of wedding customs in scriptures all hindu weddings takes place according to it and if they differ from those core practice they arent hindu weddings but as india is big countries some variations will arise like choice of meal, and some extra elements but core essence remains more or less same if it's a hindu wedding and btw she's talking about wedding in up not punjab. And dance music is very recent addition which is popular in up bihar punjab and some other states u need to learn more
This was a *North Indian wedding.* Weddings in India depends on the region/state/religion you are part of!! So this wedding is only 1% of Indian culture out of 100s more.😊 Even as Indians, we don’t even know about other Indian cultures or their traditions 🤣because we are way too diverse.
KZSID & Hemachandran -you both are wrong . There is no such thing as cock tail in Indian wedding. this is what they introduced for the western guests perhaps . No alcohol is served in INDIAN wedding . these are all aspects now used for the benefit of western influences . Anyway , this is certainly not part of wedding . Cant you use your own intelligent thinking? All INDIAN ( Hindu) marriages are essentially same , with little regional variation - which is exactly expected - with time everything changes a little .
I fell in love with catering when I was 19 and worked for an Indian restaurant doing blended wedding receptions. The food, the culture all started me on a journey of acceptance of others and a love of how food can unite us all.
It was truly amazing to see how beautiful the actual wedding was. I got tearful when I saw how happy you were and how you opened up yourself to a completely different culture. You two are the cutest bride and groom.
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2am is better than at 3pm in May having to sit outside in 35 degrees C heat, with the fire and smoke blowing in your face. My makeup had pretty much melted off my face and slid down my neck 🤦🏻♀️🙄. Actually it might have been hotter that 35 degrees, can’t really remember now, it’s been 16 yrs we’ve been married.
@@TheAnkitDalal 😂😂 you’re probably correct, it has been 15yrs since I got married and have never gone back to India. At the end of the day it’s the marriage that’s important not so much the wedding. Tc sir 🙏🏼
As a south indian from Kerala. I would really appreciate the northern indian wedding. In our culture (south india) it's only 2 or 3 days mostly and wear white saree on temple or maybe red saree on the the convention centre . I truly loved north indian wedding as there is too much dance and a lot of stuffs that south indian wedding didn't have. Happy wedding day , may god bless yall ! ❤️🔥🙏🏻 Edit : For those whose don't know why indians wedding aren't same , the reason is ........ ...... ........ .......... India is most unique with as most diverse country in this world in which u travel 100 miles , u can see different traditions , culture, foods , development etc . That's india for ya
Absolutely brothers.. I'm from Bengal and we've wedding rituals different from Northern and Southern parts of India.. And makes our India so beautiful that we've unity in so much diversity. Diversity is a blessing!
Except Sangeeth part....all other rituals are present in Southern marriage.... instead of Sangeeth PPL sing n early morning dance are done in traditional way nt for movie songs....u must see Allu Arjun's VARUDU movie r srinivasa kalyanam.......also there z another ritual after 3nights young PPL n later elders vl play vt water n colours known as vasantham almost like Holi ....it's abt thelugu hindu marriages....
Haha that's so weird coz I actually like south Indian wedding in it's look as a north west Indian, as a guy I always feel the brides look better coz less stuff in the way of the face and garment is not baggy, plus some of the temples are epic
I love that you said “learned how to be comfortable while being uncomfortable.” That is an invaluable lesson. It is the same lesson I learned while in a sweat lodge ceremony... I’m Cree. Anyway thank you for sharing.
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I was disappointed when Great Big Story closed but I’m so grateful to learn more about the voice behind all the videos. Now I’m learning more stories/experiences/ traveling the world with a beautiful down to earth human being. Thanks for sharing Beryl💕💕👰🏻♀️
Omg you’re here! You are everywhere man! Lol and this is the first time I’ve ever seen you comment without a reference to NK wow what a treat for Beryl 😂
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I Met my Indian Fiancé at a Truckwash, and He is going crazy for our wedding, I took him to his First Wedding on our side and he was like “That’s it??? Lol 😂
@@bhumirawat1368 His Aunt visit from another state, and he left for 1 week, no call no nothing, I say fine it’s family hna, I don’t interfere, but then 4 days later I call, And he is in So Beautiful Suit, he is at Indian Wedding , He don’t tell me, he don’t even show me pictures of his suit, NO INVITE ME, DIDNT tell me Absolutely nothing….. So I think 🤔….. He keep this Private to keep Option Open” I Am not Indian, So now I think… I am Practice lady, ohhh That’s why Aunti fly here for wedding …. I invite him Everywhere with me… So now my heart tell me… he don’t love me. So I pack all his shit, and when he come back, it’s outside.
@@bhumirawat1368 how You Are a Complete Stranger ask about this post so many Months Later, And The 1 day I am so Broken, You ask? Its not fake this thing, It’s not I think it’s God telling me we are no Good. I though it was soooo good Relationship, But I think wrong. So 💔…
My goodness those dresses were beautiful! I also don’t normally wear a lot of makeup or fancy clothes so I understand being out of your comfort zone but what an experience you had. So glad you got videos of everything. I regret not hiring a professional videographer.
I loved watching this. My husband is Albanian and they have beautiful hand embroidered dresses called dimija, which I will be wearing for part of my wedding ceremonies whenever it’s safe for us to have it. Not the same thing at all, but for the fact of diving deeper into his culture, I can’t wait. ☺️ I've already been to several Albanian weddings and they are a lot more fun than the American ones.
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I'm sure the hubs really appreciated that you participated in all the ceremonies... I think that meant a lot to him and his family, cause there is a lot of meaning behind all the wedding traditions and rituals
Indian wedding are so beautiful and so much fun. I had a friend from college who was married some years ago and it was fun to dress up and learn new things! Thanks for sharing
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It’s surprising that American women like her are appreciating Indian weddings and so many of us indian girls are slowly trying to veer away from dramatic weddings, preferring it to be a low-key affair. The grass is greener on the other side.
@Seekthetruth Findit I can relate to the Indian weddings, im Moroccan and we have many things in common. The Henna, the many clothes and many many guests 😂 and like you said, lots of food! Its beautiful, but many things are unnecessery. Just keep it simple. 😂 I also like them, i mean celebrating love
To me there's a lot of traditions associated with Indian weddings like Beryl's that are so lovely: the Sangeet sounds so much nicer than a typical American Bachelorette party, and the notion that the bride's parents start things off by welcoming the groom very officially sounds so very sweet. I think these are things that can be done low-key, but just the meaning behind them appeals so much more.
That's not the point lol Ppl are trying to veer away from dramatic wedding simply to avoid getting sucked in the wormhole that causes financial and mental stress. It burns a hole in many people's pockets. Trying to cut the unnecessary nonsense is, quite frankly, a good call. Those who have deep pockets may go ahead and do these dramatic ass weddings, but i'd rather a middle class family lets go of the bling part and marries in a way that keeps it simple and cute.
Beryl, I’m a new subscriber and had no idea you were married to an Indian man. I’m married to an Indian man too (been together 10 years now). Indian weddings are the best!
As a Westerner this video was a refreshing narrative illustrating a beautifully positive story about Indian marriage. Also, you don't have to limit yourself to cooking videos. Use the format that you do for cooking of including videos of people in their own words and you can explore other areas of culture such as art in its various forms.
So nice to see a lot of people enjoying our traditions! So glad it was one of your best days. It looked amazing! Thanks for sharing this Beryl! You’re legit my favorite content creator! The reason we do the 7 laps is because your walking a circle around the fire. A circle is 360 degrees, and 7 is the only number 1-9 that cannot divide 360 perfectly. Symbolizing your relationship will always stand and nothing will divide you.
When I was in high school, my mom’s old best friend (who is Indian) got married in Texas. My mom was a part of the wedding party but we couldn’t attend everything (my grandpa was having surgery) but we attended the last day and omg. It. Was. Amazing! One of the coolest weddings I’ve been to, your weddings looked amazing!
I am indian . And i love the way you described the ceremonies with you own views and not disrespecting anything. You r really very humble and strong headed
I just randomly stumbled upon this video. Wow! You looked amazing! I have always had a crazy love for India since I was a child. I think Indian weddings are the most amazing events in the world, and there is nothing more beautiful in the world than an Indian bride. The clothes, the jewelry... Egads so stunning. I'm obsessed! I am so jealous! You looked so gorgeous. I wish I could just dress up, just once, like that. *chef's kiss*
@@Rudi_Mentary723 I'd probably get screamed at for cultural appropriation, directly off of the internet, if I did. I personally don't see it as appropriation, but so many people do... so I'm too scared to try.
@@PaigeDWinter Well don't know about the others, but as an Indian, its adorable to watch foreigners try out our culture especially our food and clothes. And I hardly think we'd mind even if you do it incorrectly ! Majority of us would be more than happy to show you the right way.
@@PaigeDWinter most of us don't have a problem until you respect the culture enough and try to learn things about the attire you'll be wearing. Then you'll definitely be more sensitive about it and not disrespect it :)
What a beautiful story 😭 Indian weddings are so gorgeous, vibrant and lively. I hope to be a apart of one some day. I also love to see different cultural wedding dresses, a lot of countries will never dress their brides in white because they actually wear white to funerals! I'd be very interested to learn why we dress brides in white in America and why we wear black when mourning or in funerals.
in India/hindu and Sikh white represent as blandness/emptiness/no joy/sadness/mourn either you are a priest who leaves all colours of life and guides himself in spiritualness a clean image thats why most politicians wear white also funerals are cremations and temprature in india is already very hot so white helps *these may vary from person to person
From what I have read(may not be accurate so I apologize in advance), the white wedding dress tradition started with Queen Victoria wearing a white dress during her wedding ceremony.
Ipshita has it, it started with Queen Victoria wearing a white dress to make a statement of simplicity compared to royal brides before her, who wore cloth of silver or cloth of gold. Regular people of the time wore all kinds of colors to get married, red and blue were particularly popular. But Victoria was so popular it took over, and after a few decades of all white wedding dresses, it was just how things were.
White also represents peace, purity, innocence and sacredness. So it's used during funerals or worn by widows in some parts of India. I personally feel that it's a good idea to use white wedding dress as it shows sacredness of the new bond.
i think it's because white is a symbol of purity since it reflects everything, even negative energy. But as an Indian I sometimes wonder why westerners wear black for funerals because black absorbs everything.
I love your food videos and just happened onto your wedding. My daughter also married a great guy from India and would have had a huge wedding in India had Covid not intervened. Instead she had a shortened version here in the states, with henna and the colorful Indian wedding dress and jewelry and those ceremonies circling the fire, etc. It was exotic and beautiful. Absolutely loved seeing your wedding!!
So beautiful! Every time I see an Indian wedding in my city I'm mesmerized, they are so colorful (so unlike north American weddings) I love it! You're so respectful and open minded about all cultures, I'm really enjoying your channel.
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?
I loved how you embrace your husband's culture and wedding ceremony you look beautiful in both your American ceremony and your Indian one. it looks like the Indian one takes a lot of work and a lot of different ceremonies but very beautiful and very much so in making the wife feel special. Lots of love from fellow UA-camr Jenn in Kanata from Kanata Ontario Canada.
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?
How could anyone down-vote this video? This is one of the body inspiring things I've seen. She's embraced herself fully into her husband's culture and this is very hard to do for some people. THIS is love and respect. Thank you for sharing this with us Beryl. I will continue to be an avid fan of yours and support you and your channel.
When I traveled to India, i saw several weddings in different stages..not personal like this by any means. THis is such a special share Beryl, very enlightening and such a delight to see your first hand accounting of your special events. thank you so much!!!
Your husband is truly a lucky man! You are so accommodating and so welcoming to the traditions that are completely alien to you. It takes a really big hearted person to do that. You are awesome Beryl!
I was one of the cinematographer there and we all had super fun shooting her wedding. Beryl is super cheerful! 😁
Awww
That's so great!
Omg cool
She was cheerful nxt one week too.
@@user045-key77 u know her too? Just curious 😅
Nobody could ever tell that you're American on your wedding attire. You looked like a pure Indian bride!
she even looked like typical indian bride in thumbnail
North Indian bride
U r absolutely right...!!
her eyes and the makeup really made her look indian
Yeah I thought so too
Just the fact she is obsessed with sabyasachi automatically makes her the perfect Indian bride. And she looked drop dead gorgeous in all her outifits.
Finally Someone who loves Sirius Black ,hie mate!! I am also an ardent supporter of Sirius Black
sabyasachi lehenga mehenga hota hai kya?
@@aishwaryasuresh7199 hahah i wouldn't even call myself a sirius black fan, I am a sirius black fanatic.
@@sriyasodharmma4021 mehenga yes, but it's THE brand for indian weddings. Almost all celebrities wear him for their weddings. Thus, all indian women want to wear his designs.
Thank you!!!
Meanwhile me in the weddings: the food was fantastic, lets leave now
Underrated comment
Same
And you try to find that one group of cousins you get along with among the sea of nosy aunties and drunk uncles. And the photographer decides to take your one photo when you’re ugly eating
In my big bros wedding I ate food and went to sleep saying my stomach hurts lmao😂
@@Itsme-qj6wb ayye lmao xD
Indian clothes are gorgeous!!! Who doesn’t want to feel and look like a princess everyday!! Omg obsessed
@@Himachali_Protagonist no one cares they just appreciated the clothes you didn't have to go on a whole other tangent and talk about how other cultures aren't 'colourful'. This is why people from outside find Indians weird.
@Aman Jha
Oh really?
It would be nice if you want to send to me one 🤣
@Aman Jha
Oh really? 😃
@Aman Jha bas kar chhapri.
@amanjha0211🤗🤗🤗🤗
I'm not Indian but I know Indian Weddings are one of the best
Well the celebrations and different customs being followed are the Best.
It's Hindu wedding . And no Hindu wedding so no culture , no tradition , no ritual . Ok . All secular guys will say I am communal but it's fact . India have other religion but your dharmik religion have this type of traditions . Like buddism and Jainism but I don't know much about there wedding style . I think there wedding not like this
Same not an Indian but they are definitely one of my favorites wedding ceremonies in the world ❤️
lets get married , imma come on elephant to pick u up
Only North India. South India is pretty simple and short
Its a joke in india that we spend so much money in wedding to remind groom and bride of how much money they would need to marry again, so you better not divorce.
😂😂😂
I heard this first time 😂😂
Omg that’s classic
Soo true
Lol
One striking difference I found between Indian and Western weddings was how in India it is usually not the couple who plan their wedding. Like depending on who they are they give their inputs on different levels but the main responsibility falls on their families
Yes thats true...mostly parents , siblings, nd close relatives take up different responsibilities like wedding hall arrangements, catering, music etc...although these days all these things are outsourced to wedding planners so that family members can fully enjoy the party nd ceremonies...but families with lower budgets still plan their son's or daughter's wedding along with the close relatives nd neighbours.
Agreed
In India parents are heady, if u have grand parents then it's grand parents 😂 yes we respect our yelders a lot
In indian house wedding is like big festival ..when two divine soul will merge together ...so we celebrate accordingly ..nothing as big in this ..
Yes relatives are very important in our weddings and their suggestion matters allot..
Because, when you ignore your well wishes in most important moment of your life ..than there is no point of being good on other normal day ..
@@lll2282 Telugu person?
Omg how absolutely beautiful! Im obsessed with India. My husbands job sent him to Bangalore for a little over 7 years. Its was the most amazing time of our lives. My youngest daughter refused to hear she was NOT Indian. She actually spoke Kannada by the time we we came back to the U.S. We went to several weddings, mostly students of my husband. They were absolutely amazing. I miss India so much!
Wonderful and sweet story. Hope your Indian daughter is doing fine :)
Hehe..
Awwwww lots of blessings to your daughter.
Awww I grew up in Karnataka, I've lived in bangalore all my life, that's so nice to hear
Aww😩❤️❤️
It is said in india, marriage is not just between two people, marriage is between two families, two cultures, two souls..
Considering the fact that my mum is south indian and my dad north indian, yes, marriage between 2 cultures indeed :)
@Shreyaawashere what you talk about is not "marriage" but a "inter marriage problem in india because of caste" I can never imagine marrying a guy herself with just informing my parents. Western culture is very different and there are problems in every way there is two sides of every coin like in western culture marriage is kind of consider as a formality. Which can be broken it's just like boyfriend girlfriend with a legal formalities that's it. Whereas in india marriage is consider as one time thing. About honour killing and all things are changing people are changing acceptance is increasing caste and all are still prevalent in society but still now people take it lightly (and expecting caste and all to evaporate in few years is difficult bcz this things were continue from centuries and centuries) and about killing and all its a rarity now. Tbh if my parents deny the boy I like I won't go against them. My parents would always choose the best for me. I had seen enough people going against their parents for marriage later remain alone with a child and with lots of problems
@Shreyaawashere it's not prevalent in big cities anymore. Nobody really sees caste OR religion as a barrier . My neighbour is south Indian pure Hindu Brahmin and his wife is Muslim. Doesn't make a difference and they live a very happy life. It's the mentality of rural areas which has to change , and very soon will
@Shreyaawashere in some cases the "very best" is influenced by society caste and all and to be honest it's now mostly seen in rural areas. You can't judge everyone bcz you had heard about it people say many things make many stories but what's happening around you is what matters. I live in Maharashtra and too be honest and but I was born in Bihar and if my roots you see is in bihar and you know the image bihar has but too be honest every marriage I seen in my family ie. In bihar or Maharashtra they are all 90% times love marriage and they are happy with the blessings of their respective parents. People had made the image that yes that thing happen and I'm also not denying it it must be happening somewhere but painting everything in one light is very very wrong. Everything have two sides this too have. About caste problem see I mention it earlier also caste problem will be there for 10-20 years more as it been carried by centuries and it will take time and people are accepting it also. Tbh I got to know my caste and my friends caste during board exam bcz of reservation. (I hate this system 1st they wi make caste system to prevail in society strong 2nd it's wrong to give things on the basis of caste. Still it will be there bcz of political again of politicians and the people who are getting benefits will never accept to withdraw this power of their over us)
My husband is from Pakistan which has very similar culture to Indian. He also says that marriage is between the families. I learned that after living in Pakistan over the past year. Family is valued a lot higher than it is in the US
"Indian weddings are more than a festival"
~Facts 2020
You are japanese or korean?
@@ganeshduttsharma1578 I'm neither korean nor japanese but I'm learning korean that's it :)
@@crazywithdivine so from where u belong ?
@@ganeshduttsharma1578 India ❤️
Festivals are probably of ONE day !
Call it a season, festive season!
I’m Mexican and we know about parties but man I DREAM of an Indian wedding 😍 they are truly something else.
You can marry with a indian guy, then you will also get same vibes
@@vivekksingh482 me
@@MrUA-cam. what you??
@@vivekksingh482 yes
@@MrUA-cam. are you married with an indian guy??
I'm from the philipines and my boyfriend is Indian. If I would choose how my wedding is gonna be, definitely Indian wedding because their weddings are so colorful and festive mixed with their tradition. Indians have the most beautiful brides with their traditional dress😍.
Why are so many Filipinas having Indian boyfriends? I am seeing, knowing and hearing countless Filipinas dating Indian guys, what's the reason??
You have beautiful traditions too! I’m an american who married a Filipino. American weddings are beautiful but lacking in any significant culture. I loved the customs my husband brought to our wedding. The cord, veil, coin and candle sponsors along with the primary sponsors and their part in the ceremony was something my American family had never seen.
@@southernlights1890 Propably dating app cause not all Filipina like white guys.
@@sooverthis6941 aww congratulations🤗❤and thank you for appreciating our filipino culture. I guess we are all amazed by each others culture. Stay safe😊
@@southernlights1890I dnt know abt other filipinas but their reason depends on their perspective. I tried to date filipino guys too but they are only looking for short term relationship and they lose interest so fast during the relationship. Mine is unexpected coz It was not included in my plans before to hv an Indian bf. He is introduced by a very good friend of mine. This is my only long term relationship. He is very consistent and we hv a good chemistry. Btw my grandfather is half Indian🙂 so its ok for my family. I hope there will be no more racism in the Philippines bec majority of us Filipinos are multiracial.
An Indian wedding is a one of a kind experience. They really go all out
yoo its u again! i used to see u absolutely everywhere
I would have liked a little more depth on the different ceremonies, but still, it did give an idea of the awesome (in the literal sense) experience. The video recommended right under it was 5 hotdogs from around the world. 😂
Excellent videography, btw.
Yeah it's a costly affair...some ppl work hard their whole lives to save money for children's marriage
I had a friend who married a Indian man and it was her 1st time in a sari and it wasn't put on properly and she tripped and it fell off her she pretty much flashed the entire wedding guests and all her new family her underwear during her entrance but thankfully her sister inlaws were next to her when it happened and did there best to hide her and then took her to the bathroom and put it on her properly. My poor friend was crying and had to have her make up redone and was so embarrassed but she laughs at it now and says she was being stubborn and should of accepted help from her in-laws to get dressed but being a white Aussie girl was to embarrassed to be dressed by someone so she watched a UA-cam video to put her sari on herself and the accident ended up making her feel more humble and let people help.
There is even a video of it that she kept to remind her self to ask for help.
I have seen you everywhere no joke
Beryl's mom is like the uniform designer lady from the incredibles
Yeaaaaa
yes!
You mean edna?🤣🤣
ikrrr i screamed out ednaaa when i saw her lmao
Ohh my god i was littrally finding for this comment...thinking that was i the only one who is thinking that she soo looks like that character in incredibles 😄😄
ohh now i understand when joe jonas said “ Yeah we attend all 100 wedding of nick “. It’s really a huge celebration. Indian culture is so rich and amazing. Huge respect as it’s really unique and creative.
As a South Indian I had no idea of most of these ceremonies, our weddings are very different. And on top of that different groups have different ceremonies too
@@trekkergal460 actually, they also go on for 3 days, atleast in my family xD
@@trekkergal460 yes haha kannadiga weddings mostly start very early in the morning and are done by the afternoon or evening, followed by amazing food ofcourse lol ❤️
You know what we Indian first should understand how different and classy our India is. We have different culture and ceremonies in every state and every district. First Indian should fuck caste, colour, region and religion because these things preventing us Indians to achieve our full potential and those who are good they leave the country in search of good life. Anyways love to my all fellow Indians.
@@xyzsam8092 well said my friend
@@trekkergal460 Definitely faster... Depending on the auspicious time.. but usually starts in the morning and be done for lunch... Sometimes a get together for the previous night.. this is the bride's side.. grooms side rituals start after the wedding.. that includes a ritual of bringing the bride home and modern attachment of a reception at night...
Oh my god, your mom is Edna Moda!
She is
🤣🤣
The comment I was looking for
Lol
😂😂
I'm Indian and my fiance is European, and he's legit planning on arriving into the wedding on an elephant. The horse wasn't enough T_T
Lol
Lol love it.
@@daddychill6805 lol
Lol good luck n congrats. ❤️
Thats awful
I will marry my fiancé this summer, first we marry in Germany and few days later the Indian wedding is planned, I have no clue what will happen, but as you said, feeling comfortable in uncomfortable situations is something important to learn.. Thanks for your video :)
@@asthabahuendra3391 I thought the same
My husband and I also got married in India this year. Now we're living in Germany together. But since it was an Islamic wedding it was completely different from what I had seen in movies before 😅
@हर्षित harshit sharma sure, but the garments jewelry decoration is so different than in our culture. Independent of the religion this is own to indian culture. Everything is so vibrant and colorful and not just black and white like in Europe 😅
@@evaozlem2783 Islamic Marriage in India are mix of native and religion. Some people who are extreme Islamic (not hating) don't like to dance or sing because that's un-islamic a/c to Molvis (Muslim priests), they sometime get offended if you do so. Hope marriage don't like this and you have fun.
@@evaozlem2783 islam is anti indian culture
When I saw the thumbnail i immediately clicked not realizing that it was beryl's video. literally, I was so so surprised that I couldn't even distinguish her from being American. i literally thought she was a true Indian bride but this shows that she was destined to be a part of this!!!!
it reminds me of this couple on UA-cam, Tiff & Casey, she's from Mexico and he's Chinese, and she had a son from a previous relationship. and the kid kinda looks half-filipino/Chinese, half-Mexican, so people don't doubt his Chinese Step-dad is his dad. Its really one of those things that makes you wonder if some things are meant to be! haha :)
Yes I agree! I'm an indian woman and she looks like a true indian bride 100% she looks radiant. I'm so happy for them!!
Magic of make up
Hahaha same. I was pleasantly surprised. She was so beautiful in everything.
@@anandraja6011 there is no makeup that makes you look indian lol
Trying to be comfortable in an uncomfortable situation is what Indian wedding's teach you...
Exactly what I said at my wedding
Umm more like looking comfortable when u are uncomfortable
@humaira Ain't u familiar with that ? 😂😂
As an introvert I would’ve felt really awkward if I were in her place. But nice to see that she’s so enthusiastic 😁
Reads India in the Title.
Indians:-Let’s rule the comment section.
That's true , That's true
Lol
@MR RJ it's a phenomenon you don't understand yet.
😂
@MR RJ Welcome to UA-cam
You will learn as you become mature!
I got 'married' in a Balinese Hindu ceremony. We had no time to plan, as we literally found out the day of the ceremony it was an auspicious time. So we hastily organised a Pedande and had a very basic ceremony. Seven times around the burning coconut husks, some bungkus nasi campur and a simpke sarong with a sash at the waist.
Nahh it's different in Indonesia.
Balinese Hindu wedding is so beautiful 😍. My favourite right along with traditional Bengali Hindu wedding ceremonies
@Navdeep Singh Sangha 🇮🇳 😂 yeah.. Pandit h vo 😂😂😂
"Learning to be comfortable with being uncomfortable." We are all going to need that advice for a while. It was fascinating to see brief glimpses into a wedding ceremony in India. Thanks for sharing, Beryl!
I'm from India so I've been to a million of these weddings and let me tell you they are an absolute riot! (In a very good way)
I'm from the mid-west in America and I went to an Indian prearranged wedding, It was Beautiful and I was totally blown away. They have now been married for 28 years and are very happy. I had a blast!
😂 it's commen in India
Wow you remember a wedding from 28 years ago!! Must've been special.
@@sanjaycharan4682 Bro, Indian Girls won't leave you for the next 7 lives.
@@kunalpardeshi9693 don't be so negative ....just feel how much beautiful this is
@@sanjaycharan4682 I am happy for them. I was just cracking joke here nothing else bruh
India is my second home. भारतीय लोग भारतीय से प्यार करते हैं. Most fabulous people on earth :-)
Aww, how cute, 🥺🥰🥰love to you too 💕💕💕
Thank you so much sir
Thanks ☺️
Hehe, this is so adorable !! 😁
Are you Glenn McGrath🧐🤔
HOW IS NO ONE TALKING ABOUT HOW BEAUTIFUL THE HUSBAND’S SIDE OF THE FAMILY IS? MATTER OF FACT BOTH SIDES OF THE FAMILY IS STUNNING 😩❤️
Indian Weddings are so amazing!
It looks like that you were part of a royal family
It surely does
@Home Banger Yupp!!
Yeah, Indian wedding will make you feel like a queen and so special, even if you are from a normal middle class family, that why we love our weddings, it's the best.
ngl, ive seen some expensive weddings myself, but this is a whole nother level. they must be very rich to do smth like this.
@@az6604 tru
I'm Mexican American and my boyfriend is Indian and I can literally relate to how she feels throughout the entire video😅
76i9m
Mexican American are racist people i have ever met lmao specially girls
@Shubham Upadhyay 😂😂 off topic ho Gaya kya 😂
@@hemanshuchudasama3535 not true lmao maybe that's your experience but lot of the Mexican Americans or Latinos i know love Indian culture when introduced to it because of how similar it is with their cultures. Heck im Indian and my ex GF was a Mex American that absolutely loves India
@@hemanshuchudasama3535 not everyone is the same. I am also Indian so it’s not like I am against you.
That was the most beautiful wedding footage I've ever seen. I actually cried.
Just search indian wedding 😊
There are so many Videos of Indian wedding on you tube....just check out on youtube..🙏
It is so beautiful
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍
I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@@FranklinClarke0147 wishing you the same.
My husband is from Mumbai India, We meet in Florida, I live in Florida we been married almost 18yrs in Sept will be are Anniversary we been happy we have a good marriage, when you love each other we learn from each other, Sometimes we have struggles, our ups and downs every marriage does but we still stay string for each other throu thick and thin, My mom smokes so she had me run to get her Ciggs for her, and her normal place she likes was closed and I had to find a place to get her smokes, so I pulled to this gas station my guy happen to be other Indian guys there and Raj my guy happen to be working there, that's how our story began, we got married on the beach, never had a huge wedding, just a simple one, We both would like to renew our vows, Would love an Indian wedding, it's so colorful and beautiful. Anyways I am glad to see other interratical marriages like yours, there is also Namaste from USA and NamasteJuli both are married to Indian guys and have UA-cam channels nice to see this.
Thanks for the kind words, I'm glad you liked our indian culture and a guy from here. You're in our indian family now, anytime you come here you'll be welcomed by everyone!!
@@arijit1809 Yo yo what's up, we meet again!!!
Remember me from World Affairs?
We had a nice little debate over Gujarat vs. Maharashtra.
GIFT City.
You should definitely visit India.
Oh my! This further develops my love for the Indian people and their culture ❤️ I work with 3 amazing Indian women, all from different regions of India, and I call them my “Auntys”. They share recipes, songs, mannerisms, language, & so much more with me. I love these ladies to pieces ❤️
I said all of that to say thank you for sharing your wedding experience with us. It’s so interesting to see how the weddings vary by regions throughout India. It’s heartwarming ❤️❤️❤️
😊
Indian people are incredibly racist towards Africans.
@@yj9032 where on this entire thread did you see anyone else talking about racism? This is a feel good video. I shared my experience about the ladies that treated me like their daughter, welcomed me to their homes, shared a drink with me, exchanged meals with me, held me while I cried, laughed hard when we joked together, and make sure they never say goodbye without letting me know they love me. Stop with the racist shit and go bother someone else. This is why racism is so prominent still to this day because people of other races start to embrace each other and then someone like you feels the need to remind them that one group hates the other or vice versa. Please go away. Thanks.
@@yj9032 stop generalizing
@@yj9032 well, Americans are incredibly racist to everybody except people who look white
The mysterious rajat has a face! Usually an arm, caught with spoon, but full edition now! Btw a challenge cooking show with both of you would be awesome!:)
Right?! He’s cute I wish she would show him more lol he probably just doesn’t wanna be on camera
He is present on Beryl's instagram. They are so adorable together ☺️
Yes, omg!!! That would be so cute 😭😭😭😭
@@grayonthewater He is camera shy....haha I try!!!
@@BerylShereshewsky I was 100% sure he was a rather shy fella, but hey you make up for his shyness lol
I attended an Indian wedding here in the US. So fun! And the food was fabulous of course!
😂😂 yeah
I wanna go to one after watching this video 😭
I am an Indian and I wanted to go in one for food 😋
As an Indian who's ancestors were indentured to Fiji in the early 1900s we have streamlined a lot of this down to three days for the groom and four days for the bride, but it's still a lot. A lot of the nomenclature has also changed from classical Indian terms to newer ones that we have used for a few decades. I guess our cultures changed when we had to integrate to a different society.
change is good. Indian culture can survive anywhere as it can adopt. Try to keep some connection though.
I had no idea there was such a large Indian community in Fiji. As a fellow diasporic Indian I'm shocked and honestly ashamed that in my 35 years of life I somehow never knew about this. Sending you much love and I am off now to learn more about Indo-Fijian traditions.
Thanks, Beryl - this was great! My and my wife's origin story: we went to India to attend our friends' wedding. We left the US as "just friends" but came back as a couple. This video brought back a lot of great memories!
So you came back as Chandler and Monica.
Lol legend says when a wedding happens in India, there is a potential wedding that is going to happen to at least one of the guests !
@@kiranp5611 id say more than one! 😂
@@Mostly-Sane lol I agree
Okay Chandler. Say hi to Mon for me would ya ?!
Amazing! My sister's wedding was in India too and it was great. I'm so glad my brother in law is from India (more precisely Gujarat). I had my suit tailor made at Raymond's and my wife had her sari custom made as well. The wedding was a big success.
Your suit was tailor made at Raymond’s - you are more Indian than most of us here. 😁
Hmmm....
Were there any offended fufa or mosa?
If not, then sorry my friend, you missed a very parmanent part of Indian wedding. 😂
You should definitely arrange a wedding for you and your wife in India😂. It will be be so funny.
My foreigner friends say: Girl you guys' wedding ceremonies are bomb.😻
Meanwhile as an Indian I shamelessly attain weddings only to eat.☻
Don't we all?😂
Attain!😂
Meko khane me bhi tras aata he
Weddings are just for food!! 😂
😂😂😂
This was beautiful and I was brought to tears when you talked about the special bond that happened between families. Thanks very much 🥰
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I introduced two friends - he's from Kerala and she's an Italian-American - who got married back in India and I was one of the honored guests (his mother told me she saved a fortune in match maker fees thanks to me) and there is NOTHING that comes close to the intricate and deeply meaningful series of ceremonies. Later I was told that one of the most important parts is a very private ceremony where the groom tilts his new wife's face gently upwards so that they can see the moon together. Thanks for sharing this amazing part of your life with the Beryl Nation :)
It's really a pain in the a** to get a bride or groom. You have to match their horoscopes, personalities, families should be cool with each other and you should find someone who matches in all levels. It's so frustrating. You did a great job lol
In our tradition, the bride is shown the north star by the groom. The north star doesn't change its direction in the sky. Likewise the wife is supposed to be the guiding light of her husband.
Not the moon but the Arundhati Star. Known in modern astronomy as the double star Alcor and Mizar.
These stars were the only known double stars in the ancient world that could be seen by the naked eye. The husband asks his bride that they be like the double star..Always together.
actually they look up at the sky to see a star in the sky called the Arundathi Nakshyatram, and it appears during an auspicious time only, so that's why the marriages are made during specific timings 😊
@@ruplekhaganguly5065 Dhruva :.)
How beautiful everything was! I dated a man from India who was Hindu and such a sweetheart. His family followed the tradition of an arranged marriage and was threatening to disown him if he continued the relationship with me. He didn’t want to end our relationship but I made the decision to end it. There was no way I could accept the responsibility of him being disowned.
I'm so sorry😔 actually in india there are way more arranged marriage but love marriage too
Why would you do that? Love should have no boundaries.
@@bloomeiblopa3446 his parents said they would disown and shun him if he stayed with me. He was very close with his family and I did not want to be responsible for causing an issue with the family.
@@julieg-b8910 so sad and sorry this happened, love should have no boundaries in 2020.
@@bloomeiblopa3446 this was many years ago in the early 80’s. I am thankful that things have become more progressive. I ended up marrying an amazing man.
I'm so impressed that you made it through the Indian wedding as a bride. I'M Indian and the thought of being the centre of attention at all those ceremonies and outfits TERRIFY me. Personally, Indian weddings are more fun for the guests than the people getting married, but I'm really happy that you enjoyed yourself. (Also, did your sisters steal your husband's shoes?!?!?)
LOL. Good question, and if they did, how much did they clean up?
That’s the question we need an answer to.... waiting!!
I think it is in most cultures the same as far as I have heard from people who got married ... it was always that attending one was much more fun than doing it themselves...
@@susannekarnowka5889 yeah unless you’re rich enough to have a wedding planner its all really chaotic. Even with the planner something always happens
@@zamiaramirez1390 not sure if you need to be rich to employ a wedding planer (might depend on where you live) but there definitely is a lot of possibilities how a wedding day might become tiresome to the couple
Wow! I honestly didn't know how beautiful an Indian wedding can be. What a really wonderful culture! And Beryl, gosh....you looked amazing with those dresses. Thank you for sharing this.
Why is no one talking about the fact she had a sabyasachi dress!!!!!!!!
Ikr! That too four years before! Whoa
I was about to say this
can you explain the significance?
@@amaiaamaiaa Sabyasachi Mukherjee is the guy for Indian bridal wedding dresses. He designs for all kinds big movies and actresses.
@@amaiaamaiaa it’s a designer brand and it’s super expensive, usually only really rich people can get their hands on sabyasachi clothes
When I traveled to India in 2018, I got invited to go to an wedding by a former student of mine. I was the only non-Indian there and I also was one of the few men not wearing an Armani suit (the only things I had to wear was some Indian clothes I had just bought.). Your description helped me to understand more of what was happening. It was so over the top and I was made to feel very welcomed, even though I was the friend of a friend of the grooms cousin.
Bruh...we don't care how we are related nor what you are wearing...it's all about who you are and we love the world
Hahaha I think that’s where some of our wedding traditions in Southeast Asia come from too. The entire village comes to the wedding, doesn’t matter if you’re the friend of a friend of a 5th cousin twice removed, if you can come you’re invited.
haha no problem if some stranger comes in Indian wedding, because usually the whole village are invited anyway.
Do you mean sherwani suit?
@@whocares3132 barati aati hain bhai.😁😁😁
I think Indian weddings are the most enchanting I have seen thus far. This one was beautiful!
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Respect to your husband for not forgetting his roots
One can never forget Indian roots
Bruh even Indian haters can't forget Indian roots they even hate by remembering the wholesome moments and he is born and brought in India how can he forget?
Holy shit this is the most exciting and unexpected video on your channel. Especially amazing for me as an Indian, you looked so beautiful Beryl!
You both looked beautiful! I love that you “got comfortable in being uncomfortable”. You’re right, that’s a good lesson to learn.
Thank you! 🤗
Stunning wedding, and I love how happy it clearly makes you to remember it. I have to say though, your mom kind of stole the show in some of those shots. I love love her glasses and hair!!
Yes she was so striking. Was making up all kinds of fantasy theories up of what she does for a living.
@@MT-zm1yb she designs costumes for superheroes.
@@sophiakrishnan2053 ah! Now I know why she looked so familiar! “No capes!”🤣
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North Indian weddings are definitely exhausting. There are so many functions one day after another there's no time to rest properly. Kudos to you for doing it all so well !!
I'm not Indian (to my knowledge at least, but who knows) but I worked in a store that sold a lot of Indian clothes and it always fascinated me so much. The couple who owned the place were both Indian and they treated me like a daughter. They taught me so much, and yet, there is still so much I don't know. As a lover of culture, I find these sorts of videos intriguing. Your wedding was beautiful!! I'm so glad you found someone who you love so much, and I'm glad you were able to embrace the culture too!
Omg!! The pun you created in the beginning was amazing hahaha🤣🤣🤣🤣❤
I am an Indian woman and I am about to get married. Before the pandemic, I didn't want a big wedding and I just wanted it to be simple with the people I care about. But now, whenever it is safe to do so, I really want to celebrate as much as I can because I have lost family and friends to this virus and I want to really cherish the time with the ones I do have left. I don't care how big it is, I want to invite every person I have ever met so that I can tell them that they have touched my life and that I am thankful that they are here. This video just affirmed my decision to do that because it truly looked so special.
I agree. There's sometimes this feeling in cross-cultural relationships of like "am i a good enough match for them, culturally? can i make the italian pasta or remember the Indian holidays, etc etc.?" And I think it speaks to your love of someone that you want to not only bring them into your world but share in theirs as well.
My ex was Chinese, and I had to start following a whole new calendar to keep up with her birthday and holidays lol
@@カスカディア国人 lmaoo😂❤️❤️
@@カスカディア国人XD! btw your name kinda made it funnier
The thing you said in the end of the video "being comfortable in being uncomfortable" is exactly what an Indian wedding really is all about especially for a woman.. Me being an Indian woman can totally relate
Cool!! You had a hindu wedding!! I always find myself awestruck by the sari's and other bridal clothes, they're quite beautiful!
Hey
While you're partly right, this isn't exactly a "hindu wedding" because not all hindus get married Like this
This is a typical North Indian (Punjabi) wedding
Which is usually the most extravagant of all "hindu weddings"
Depending on region, ALOT of these wedding traditions change including bridal dress colour, auspicious time, etc
@Ryan Roshan yes the basic idea is same on every hindu wedding some things change here and there not too much
@@ritikadatta6078 Have you been to Gujrat and Tamil Nadu??
Not all punjabis have an extravagant marriage either.
@@ritikadatta6078 it is clearly a typical hindu wedding, all the rituals and all...and not all punjabi weddings are big too.. gujrati and marathi weddings are much more fancy
@@ritikadatta6078 lol nice joke there are detailed description of wedding customs in scriptures all hindu weddings takes place according to it and if they differ from those core practice they arent hindu weddings but as india is big countries some variations will arise like choice of meal, and some extra elements but core essence remains more or less same if it's a hindu wedding and btw she's talking about wedding in up not punjab. And dance music is very recent addition which is popular in up bihar punjab and some other states u need to learn more
This was a *North Indian wedding.* Weddings in India depends on the region/state/religion you are part of!! So this wedding is only 1% of Indian culture out of 100s more.😊 Even as Indians, we don’t even know about other Indian cultures or their traditions 🤣because we are way too diverse.
My thoughts Exactly. I was shocked when she said there is a cocktail. 😂
KZSID & Hemachandran -you both are wrong . There is no such thing as cock tail in Indian wedding. this is what they introduced for the western guests perhaps . No alcohol is served in INDIAN wedding . these are all aspects now used for the benefit of western influences . Anyway , this is certainly not part of wedding . Cant you use your own intelligent thinking? All INDIAN ( Hindu) marriages are essentially same , with little regional variation - which is exactly expected - with time everything changes a little .
@@rajch1196 okay
Raj ch.. Speak for yourself. In the northeast part of India, there are many tribes who drink traditional alcohol. India is a land of diverse cultures.
Raj ch. calm your tits man. Why do you have so much hate and anger? Chill bro
I fell in love with catering when I was 19 and worked for an Indian restaurant doing blended wedding receptions. The food, the culture all started me on a journey of acceptance of others and a love of how food can unite us all.
i love food
It was truly amazing to see how beautiful the actual wedding was. I got tearful when I saw how happy you were and how you opened up yourself to a completely different culture. You two are the cutest bride and groom.
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I've been to one Indian wedding and it was mind blowing. The parents are the cutest thing 😍
Yessssss they sooo aree
Beryl looked drop dead gorgeous in her Indian bride look no doubt but can we talk about Beryl's mom's style too? Stunning!
2am is better than at 3pm in May having to sit outside in 35 degrees C heat, with the fire and smoke blowing in your face. My makeup had pretty much melted off my face and slid down my neck 🤦🏻♀️🙄. Actually it might have been hotter that 35 degrees, can’t really remember now, it’s been 16 yrs we’ve been married.
Mine was around 2 am too in November... it was damn cold and I was half asleep so yeah... 😂
omg true!!!!
35 C ! We have about 40°/41° C sometimes 😂
In the North it's 45 C in May at 3pm, not 35 C lol
@@TheAnkitDalal 😂😂 you’re probably correct, it has been 15yrs since I got married and have never gone back to India. At the end of the day it’s the marriage that’s important not so much the wedding. Tc sir 🙏🏼
As a south indian from Kerala. I would really appreciate the northern indian wedding.
In our culture (south india) it's only 2 or 3 days mostly and wear white saree on temple or maybe red saree on the the convention centre .
I truly loved north indian wedding as there is too much dance and a lot of stuffs that south indian wedding didn't have. Happy wedding day , may god bless yall ! ❤️🔥🙏🏻
Edit : For those whose don't know why indians wedding aren't same , the reason is ........
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India is most unique with as most diverse country in this world in which u travel 100 miles , u can see different traditions , culture, foods , development etc . That's india for ya
Absolutely brothers.. I'm from Bengal and we've wedding rituals different from Northern and Southern parts of India.. And makes our India so beautiful that we've unity in so much diversity. Diversity is a blessing!
Diversity is what makes India worth living. I personally like both simple and elaborate style of wedding
Except Sangeeth part....all other rituals are present in Southern marriage.... instead of Sangeeth PPL sing n early morning dance are done in traditional way nt for movie songs....u must see Allu Arjun's VARUDU movie r srinivasa kalyanam.......also there z another ritual after 3nights young PPL n later elders vl play vt water n colours known as vasantham almost like Holi ....it's abt thelugu hindu marriages....
Haha that's so weird coz I actually like south Indian wedding in it's look as a north west Indian, as a guy I always feel the brides look better coz less stuff in the way of the face and garment is not baggy, plus some of the temples are epic
@@Killa_3 yes temple marriage are way cooler but sad part is that we can't celebrate in temple during marriage as other devotees needs to pray
I love that you said “learned how to be comfortable while being uncomfortable.” That is an invaluable lesson. It is the same lesson I learned while in a sweat lodge ceremony... I’m Cree. Anyway thank you for sharing.
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I was disappointed when Great Big Story closed but I’m so grateful to learn more about the voice behind all the videos. Now I’m learning more stories/experiences/ traveling the world with a beautiful down to earth human being. Thanks for sharing Beryl💕💕👰🏻♀️
Let's make her channel the next GBS
@@sarojnibalagupta9229 yes please ❤️👌
What? When did that happened? Why?
@@Ramiz422 it was around one or two months ago, when they announced it on here
@@RealAngelOfMusic One month ago
Wow India is so beautiful. And their culture is amazing
Thank you rocket man
Everywhere I go, I see your face!
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Omg you’re here! You are everywhere man! Lol and this is the first time I’ve ever seen you comment without a reference to NK wow what a treat for Beryl 😂
Well is. Great country except for those
How is the nuke development going kim
Omg im so glad this popped up on my recommendation 🥰🥰 This is AMAZING
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Indian weddings sound like a ton of fun! I’ve never seen one where people weren’t all smiling and laughing and happy. Happy anniversary!
Such a beautiful ceremony.
Also, your mom's style is Edna Mode in the best way
It’s adorable to see how happy she still gets talking about it 4yrs later. And the way she said Lehenga was so cute
I Met my Indian Fiancé at a Truckwash, and He is going crazy for our wedding, I took him to his First Wedding on our side and he was like “That’s it??? Lol 😂
Did your Indian Wedding happen yet?
@@nihaal4763 wow, we broke up today, how weird you send me this when my heart is in pieces
@@viviangonzalez2520 that broke up is really kinda of weird for me as indian as we dont prefer break ups so try talking if u think u love him
@@bhumirawat1368 His Aunt visit from another state, and he left for 1 week, no call no nothing, I say fine it’s family hna, I don’t interfere, but then 4 days later I call, And he is in So Beautiful Suit, he is at Indian Wedding , He don’t tell me, he don’t even show me pictures of his suit, NO INVITE ME, DIDNT tell me Absolutely nothing….. So I think 🤔….. He keep this Private to keep Option Open” I Am not Indian, So now I think… I am Practice lady, ohhh That’s why Aunti fly here for wedding …. I invite him Everywhere with me… So now my heart tell me… he don’t love me. So I pack all his shit, and when he come back, it’s outside.
@@bhumirawat1368 how You Are a Complete Stranger ask about this post so many Months Later, And The 1 day I am so Broken, You ask? Its not fake this thing, It’s not I think it’s God telling me we are no Good. I though it was soooo good Relationship, But I think wrong. So 💔…
My goodness those dresses were beautiful! I also don’t normally wear a lot of makeup or fancy clothes so I understand being out of your comfort zone but what an experience you had. So glad you got videos of everything. I regret not hiring a professional videographer.
Love this! Makes me want to go back to India. I was so lucky, I went in February of 2020 and returned just as everything shut down.
Hope you enjoyed
Me too!!
please return again...u will love it..
I loved watching this. My husband is Albanian and they have beautiful hand embroidered dresses called dimija, which I will be wearing for part of my wedding ceremonies whenever it’s safe for us to have it. Not the same thing at all, but for the fact of diving deeper into his culture, I can’t wait. ☺️ I've already been to several Albanian weddings and they are a lot more fun than the American ones.
Enjoy the weddings to the fullest mate
I just googled simian and the dresses are gorgeous. Happy wedding!
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It's been a dream of mine to have an Indian wedding! Yours was absolutely gorgeous! I'm glad you got to experience that.
I'm sure the hubs really appreciated that you participated in all the ceremonies... I think that meant a lot to him and his family, cause there is a lot of meaning behind all the wedding traditions and rituals
Indian wedding are so beautiful and so much fun. I had a friend from college who was married some years ago and it was fun to dress up and learn new things! Thanks for sharing
was this one of your "adventures" lilly?
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It’s surprising that American women like her are appreciating Indian weddings and so many of us indian girls are slowly trying to veer away from dramatic weddings, preferring it to be a low-key affair. The grass is greener on the other side.
I understand those Indian girls. Its stressful and a waste of money
@Seekthetruth Findit Exactly! The best way to start a marriage in my opinion. Are you Indian?
@Seekthetruth Findit I can relate to the Indian weddings, im Moroccan and we have many things in common. The Henna, the many clothes and many many guests 😂 and like you said, lots of food! Its beautiful, but many things are unnecessery. Just keep it simple. 😂 I also like them, i mean celebrating love
To me there's a lot of traditions associated with Indian weddings like Beryl's that are so lovely: the Sangeet sounds so much nicer than a typical American Bachelorette party, and the notion that the bride's parents start things off by welcoming the groom very officially sounds so very sweet. I think these are things that can be done low-key, but just the meaning behind them appeals so much more.
That's not the point lol
Ppl are trying to veer away from dramatic wedding simply to avoid getting sucked in the wormhole that causes financial and mental stress. It burns a hole in many people's pockets.
Trying to cut the unnecessary nonsense is, quite frankly, a good call.
Those who have deep pockets may go ahead and do these dramatic ass weddings, but i'd rather a middle class family lets go of the bling part and marries in a way that keeps it simple and cute.
Now I want to go to an Indian wedding. I just have to find a nice Indian couple who wants to get married and make them invite me! 😬
come to india anytime
dress properly
find a weeding venue
and just enter nobody cares who came
@@bhumirawat1368 not when you are explicitly looking like foreigner lol 😅
@@blobofconsciousness ya but if you behave like u know someone and while enterying act like u are searching someone i dont think they will suspect
@@blobofconsciousness believe me no one will care
Thats what i do at least once a year
You can also crash into an Indian wedding, there are so many people. #notmysuggestion
Beryl, I’m a new subscriber and had no idea you were married to an Indian man. I’m married to an Indian man too (been together 10 years now). Indian weddings are the best!
haha being a indian a getting to know foreigner likes our culture is proudfull
'I dont think i understand' Nobody does, the bride and groom just move with flow😂
This is so funny. You're living up to your username :))
😂😂😂😂
Exactly, go with the flow. 🤣🤣🤣
As a Westerner this video was a refreshing narrative illustrating a beautifully positive story about Indian marriage. Also, you don't have to limit yourself to cooking videos. Use the format that you do for cooking of including videos of people in their own words and you can explore other areas of culture such as art in its various forms.
Your Mom is a fashion icon. Her hair is everything. And now I want to marry an Indian guy, lol. 😂😂
Lol 😂
Shoot your shot and you might end up in that Lehenga very soon ;)
How about a Pakistani guy ? They are the real deal
@@apiklala😂😂 islamic regressiveness
@@apiklalahow would anyone choose manipulation when there is freedom available.
Holy shit your Lehenga is beautiful!! The dark blue is so so lovely!! I can see how emotional how you are. Im so happy for you.
So nice to see a lot of people enjoying our traditions! So glad it was one of your best days. It looked amazing! Thanks for sharing this Beryl! You’re legit my favorite content creator! The reason we do the 7 laps is because your walking a circle around the fire. A circle is 360 degrees, and 7 is the only number 1-9 that cannot divide 360 perfectly. Symbolizing your relationship will always stand and nothing will divide you.
When I was in high school, my mom’s old best friend (who is Indian) got married in Texas. My mom was a part of the wedding party but we couldn’t attend everything (my grandpa was having surgery) but we attended the last day and omg. It. Was. Amazing! One of the coolest weddings I’ve been to, your weddings looked amazing!
That's lovely to hear!!
Did you enjoy the wedding A Sharp
Don't worry I invite you in my marriage ceremony but first let's find a girl 😊
@@ravijat2649 🤣🤣😅
@@vemulavijaykumar1788 hehe 😜
4 things about India are unreal:
1. Food
2. Architecture
3. Wedding
4. Music & Dance
Well , you can sum up these things into just Amazing Culture.
Food is my favourite about India. It is delicious.
I love biriyani, roti, Matar panner, chaats , pav bhaji etc. so many delish foods
Literature 🤷🏿♀️
@@NiniUppuluri oh so cool...where r u from ???
@@nitishsharma7545 andheri west
@@mayankdevraj5237 🤣
Tumhara address ni pucha mne 😂😂
I am indian . And i love the way you described the ceremonies with you own views and not disrespecting anything. You r really very humble and strong headed
I just randomly stumbled upon this video. Wow! You looked amazing! I have always had a crazy love for India since I was a child. I think Indian weddings are the most amazing events in the world, and there is nothing more beautiful in the world than an Indian bride. The clothes, the jewelry... Egads so stunning. I'm obsessed! I am so jealous! You looked so gorgeous. I wish I could just dress up, just once, like that. *chef's kiss*
But why do you think you cant dress up like that ?!
@@Rudi_Mentary723 I'd probably get screamed at for cultural appropriation, directly off of the internet, if I did. I personally don't see it as appropriation, but so many people do... so I'm too scared to try.
@@PaigeDWinter Well don't know about the others, but as an Indian, its adorable to watch foreigners try out our culture especially our food and clothes. And I hardly think we'd mind even if you do it incorrectly ! Majority of us would be more than happy to show you the right way.
@@Rudi_Mentary723 Thank you! I appreciate the vote of confidence. I really wish I had more supportive people like you.
@@PaigeDWinter most of us don't have a problem until you respect the culture enough and try to learn things about the attire you'll be wearing. Then you'll definitely be more sensitive about it and not disrespect it :)
What a beautiful story 😭 Indian weddings are so gorgeous, vibrant and lively. I hope to be a apart of one some day. I also love to see different cultural wedding dresses, a lot of countries will never dress their brides in white because they actually wear white to funerals! I'd be very interested to learn why we dress brides in white in America and why we wear black when mourning or in funerals.
in India/hindu and Sikh white represent as blandness/emptiness/no joy/sadness/mourn
either you are a priest who leaves all colours of life and guides himself in spiritualness
a clean image thats why most politicians wear white
also funerals are cremations and temprature in india is already very hot so white helps
*these may vary from person to person
From what I have read(may not be accurate so I apologize in advance), the white wedding dress tradition started with Queen Victoria wearing a white dress during her wedding ceremony.
Ipshita has it, it started with Queen Victoria wearing a white dress to make a statement of simplicity compared to royal brides before her, who wore cloth of silver or cloth of gold. Regular people of the time wore all kinds of colors to get married, red and blue were particularly popular. But Victoria was so popular it took over, and after a few decades of all white wedding dresses, it was just how things were.
White also represents peace, purity, innocence and sacredness. So it's used during funerals or worn by widows in some parts of India. I personally feel that it's a good idea to use white wedding dress as it shows sacredness of the new bond.
i think it's because white is a symbol of purity since it reflects everything, even negative energy. But as an Indian I sometimes wonder why westerners wear black for funerals because black absorbs everything.
I love your food videos and just happened onto your wedding. My daughter also married a great guy from India and would have had a huge wedding in India had Covid not intervened. Instead she had a shortened version here in the states, with henna and the colorful Indian wedding dress and jewelry and those ceremonies circling the fire, etc. It was exotic and beautiful. Absolutely loved seeing your wedding!!
Oh so happy for her
Now everything is normal and your daughter should go to India🇮🇳 for her dream wedding👰💍🤵💒.
So beautiful! Every time I see an Indian wedding in my city I'm mesmerized, they are so colorful (so unlike north American weddings) I love it! You're so respectful and open minded about all cultures, I'm really enjoying your channel.
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Indian weddings seem like the most amazing thing ever :o
They're you should have one
@@redblazer29 mainly the food
I loved how you embrace your husband's culture and wedding ceremony you look beautiful in both your American ceremony and your Indian one. it looks like the Indian one takes a lot of work and a lot of different ceremonies but very beautiful and very much so in making the wife feel special. Lots of love from fellow UA-camr Jenn in Kanata from Kanata Ontario Canada.
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I am not from India but I love how their tradition is so beautiful
How could anyone down-vote this video? This is one of the body inspiring things I've seen. She's embraced herself fully into her husband's culture and this is very hard to do for some people. THIS is love and respect. Thank you for sharing this with us Beryl. I will continue to be an avid fan of yours and support you and your channel.
When I traveled to India, i saw several weddings in different stages..not personal like this by any means. THis is such a special share Beryl, very enlightening and such a delight to see your first hand accounting of your special events. thank you so much!!!
The wedding is different in every part of India... It's another world in India.
@@ritikachaudhuri6151 yes
I didnt know that Indian Wedding is so colorful
@हर्षित harshit sharma nah muslim weddings too
@@czechistan_zindabad Muslim wedding in South Asia influenced by Hindu culture..
you can see other Muslim country culture, it's different
@@rishavbarnwal7155 lindu wedding is crap
@@rasgulla431 cope.
@@rasgulla431 what about kati_lulli walo ki wedding??
Your husband is truly a lucky man! You are so accommodating and so welcoming to the traditions that are completely alien to you. It takes a really big hearted person to do that. You are awesome Beryl!
She is also lucky coz her husband also accomodated the wedding of her culture.