I totally get your burnout. I am 34 this year, and I have been working for 11 years. Most of my career has been driven by people’s validation, and my parent validation. I tried everything while I was in Uni, and I knew what brought me the most joy but I chose another path that I think will bring me more “success” and validation from people around me. It did for a while. High pay, travelling for work, published work etc, but because it’s not really what I want to do or what makes me happy, I got super burnout now. It wasn’t easy for me to change career easily bcs job market is quite tough especially after Covid, and my mom is super dependent on me financially, so I dont have the privilege to be choosy too. Another factor to the burnout. 😢 I had the worst breakdown the other day and I decided that’s it, i am going to change this and going to be more intentional with my what I choose to be my career. Sorry for the long luahan hati. But I relate so much to what you’re feeling now. Good that you figured it out quite early. ❤
Hello my dearest Trisyia, I don't know why I ended up crying after finishing watching your videos. You inspired me, and not just me, but others as well. Thank you for all the positive vibes. You are the reason I am still alive. If you still remember, I'm the one who met you at STF and took a photo with you in front of Baskin Robbins at City Square. Life has passed so cepat, now we are already 22 years old. I wish you all the best in your life. I love you so much. Thank you for existing
i could totally relate to your thoughts surrounding your parents’ approval. being the youngest daughter of strict parents, conforming to their mould of a “perfect daughter” is hard for me! everyday, but i acknowledge that they are trying their best and just want the best for me. sometimes when we follow what they say for too long, we forget how to think or decide for ourselves. and what’s worse is that there is no one else to blame except ourselves. finding our foot in this uncertainty is one hell of a struggle for us young adults, especially when many others started off on a better note knowing what they want. i wish you all the best trisyia, this is only the beginning and we got this!
i’ve been following you since 2020 i believe 😭 i’m not exaggerating when i say watching your videos and posts changed the whole trajectory of my life. i got straight A’s in spm 2021 because of you in some way and i survived foundation and now in engineering degree. i believe you’re part of the reason why i’m still surviving. i always look up to you trisyia ☹️❤️ sending lots of positive energy to you
I understand what you've been going thru. Same as mine. I learnt my lesson when i was 20. Sb i gaduh besar with my mom. She refused to talk to me few days. From that moment, i realised i need to make my own decision and never blamed other people for the path that i choose. Makes me who i am today. Its okay trisya.. u got this ❤❤
i understand what you feel. i understand that you feel entitled to do decisions on your own, to do what you want to do. insyaAllah your parent decision is actually the best for you. it not a bad decision plus you got their blessing too. they not trying to put you in trouble by sending you abroad. they believe you can do it. that’s also called as harapan ibu bapa. im sure if one day when you become a parent, you will put a hope on certain things to your child. sometime the best solution is.. berdamai dengan takdir. cheerish every moments of it. i also did not really want to do engineering but alhamdulillah i cuba ikhlaskan and now im living good. being born in b40 family, i dont really have a choice . as long as i made them happy by becoming what they want me to be. All the best trisya you can do this !
I never been in your situation but i feel you trisyia. Just do your very best in current study and get the scroll. Then, you can outline what’s your passion, career and life goals and just do it! Sometimes i make decision without thinking much and my parents didn’t really approve it. But, i just go for it and ended up it’s the best decision of my life. Mind you it’s still a rough journey but it is what i want 🤭
I totally get your burnout. I am 34 this year, and I have been working for 11 years. Most of my career has been driven by people’s validation, and my parent validation. I tried everything while I was in Uni, and I knew what brought me the most joy but I chose another path that I think will bring me more “success” and validation from people around me. It did for a while. High pay, travelling for work, published work etc, but because it’s not really what I want to do or what makes me happy, I got super burnout now. It wasn’t easy for me to change career easily bcs job market is quite tough especially after Covid, and my mom is super dependent on me financially, so I dont have the privilege to be choosy too. Another factor to the burnout. 😢 I had the worst breakdown the other day and I decided that’s it, i am going to change this and going to be more intentional with my what I choose to be my career. Sorry for the long luahan hati. But I relate so much to what you’re feeling now. Good that you figured it out quite early. ❤
Hello my dearest Trisyia,
I don't know why I ended up crying after finishing watching your videos. You inspired me, and not just me, but others as well. Thank you for all the positive vibes. You are the reason I am still alive. If you still remember, I'm the one who met you at STF and took a photo with you in front of Baskin Robbins at City Square. Life has passed so cepat, now we are already 22 years old. I wish you all the best in your life. I love you so much. Thank you for existing
i could totally relate to your thoughts surrounding your parents’ approval. being the youngest daughter of strict parents, conforming to their mould of a “perfect daughter” is hard for me! everyday, but i acknowledge that they are trying their best and just want the best for me. sometimes when we follow what they say for too long, we forget how to think or decide for ourselves. and what’s worse is that there is no one else to blame except ourselves. finding our foot in this uncertainty is one hell of a struggle for us young adults, especially when many others started off on a better note knowing what they want. i wish you all the best trisyia, this is only the beginning and we got this!
i’ve been following you since 2020 i believe 😭 i’m not exaggerating when i say watching your videos and posts changed the whole trajectory of my life. i got straight A’s in spm 2021 because of you in some way and i survived foundation and now in engineering degree. i believe you’re part of the reason why i’m still surviving. i always look up to you trisyia ☹️❤️
sending lots of positive energy to you
I understand what you've been going thru. Same as mine. I learnt my lesson when i was 20. Sb i gaduh besar with my mom. She refused to talk to me few days. From that moment, i realised i need to make my own decision and never blamed other people for the path that i choose. Makes me who i am today. Its okay trisya.. u got this ❤❤
i understand what you feel. i understand that you feel entitled to do decisions on your own, to do what you want to do. insyaAllah your parent decision is actually the best for you. it not a bad decision plus you got their blessing too. they not trying to put you in trouble by sending you abroad. they believe you can do it. that’s also called as harapan ibu bapa. im sure if one day when you become a parent, you will put a hope on certain things to your child. sometime the best solution is.. berdamai dengan takdir. cheerish every moments of it. i also did not really want to do engineering but alhamdulillah i cuba ikhlaskan and now im living good. being born in b40 family, i dont really have a choice . as long as i made them happy by becoming what they want me to be. All the best trisya you can do this !
All of ur raya outfits are so gorgeous! ❤
I never been in your situation but i feel you trisyia. Just do your very best in current study and get the scroll. Then, you can outline what’s your passion, career and life goals and just do it! Sometimes i make decision without thinking much and my parents didn’t really approve it. But, i just go for it and ended up it’s the best decision of my life. Mind you it’s still a rough journey but it is what i want 🤭
weeeeee love listening to raya playlist
trisyia’s best vlog yet 🤍🤍
i love ur vlogs!!
finally, been waiting for your raya vlog!
Hope you enjoyed it!🫶🏻🤍
I LOVE YOUUU TRIIISYIAAAAAA 💌
I love you tooo🥹🤍🎀🌸
hi trisyia, i have one genuine question to ask you. if it isn’t medicine, then what is something you really wanna do?
I love this question so much i wanna make a whole video essay about this🤍
Can you please talk about being confident with the hijab? I'm struggling :(
Omg i struggled with this idea love to talk about this 💗💗💗
Omg finally eid vlog ..😱
Miss your sibling so much espcieally kak ngah and danish.
Cantiknyaa baju pink bunga2 tu share plss🥹?
love you trisha ❤
we love u trisyia
macam mana to solat babe if buat manicure tu? dia wudhu friendly ke
thank you trisyia!!!!!!!!!!
Girl 🥹 thank you for watching 🫶🏻🎀
need to know where tina got her 1st day of raya outfit from 😫😫
Tina & sara both wore from ZORA designers🫶🏻
May i know, what lip product u pakai ? Cantikkkk 😭😭😭
Mostly barrenbliss🩷
what camera are you usingggggg its so cantik
Its just my iphone 13 with cinematic mode 🤍
Do you prelove your books too?
Omg i really should thanks for the suggestion 🤍
big SHOUTOUT to Krave Beauty
!!! We loveee krave beauty🥹🤍
Hai .. welcome back to malysia 😂
Mcmna solat terawih tapi pakai pewarna kuku ?
Btw buatla tutorial hijab cmtu comel pulak
do you mind sharing the facial place?
Sure! Its Herbaline Facial, I’ve been going there since i was 15 years old
@@trisyiafirds thank you so much for replying! will definitely check them out later :p
Where the pashmina from?? 😍
I got it in india but i am selling it over on my preloved account on ig @trisyiaswearmeagain
I got confused between u n sabrina the girl in korea. Are u guys related?
We are not related! Ahah 😂 she is GORGEOUS !!! but easy way to differentiate - she can speak korean and i cant
kan sama!
Mana abg u? Miss him 😢
Right 🥺 it was hard for me too because he wasnt around this raya :( but brother had other important things to do on raya :(
omgg hiii i’ve missed uuu 🤍🤍
Firsttttt
saraket are all grown up omg
Yup not so little anymore 🤍
First i guess lol
You certainly are thank you 🤍
Where you buy all your telekung really love it🥹🥹🥹