My husband and I were not blessed with children. It has been a lifelong sadness for us both. But, we were teachers and had many wonderful students that we could love over the years. We both also come from big families and are blessed with many wonderful nieces and nephews who are so good to us. Even if you don’t have children, you can surround yourself with children and love them as your own! I almost died in 2020, I made sure to tell my nieces and nephews that I couldn’t love them more than if they were my own children! I try to carry their love with me every day!!
I am so sorry for the great sadness and pain that you have experienced. And in a universe of complexity, as the Wisdom books suggest, there is no answer to why or why not- at least in this age. But, I say loudly: “Sing, barren one, who has not given birth. burst into singing and shout, you who have not travailed. For more are the children of the desolate than the children of the married one,” says ADONAI. Fear not, for you will not be ashamed. Nor cringe, for you will not be disgraced. For you will forget the shame of your youth, and you will remember the reproach of your widowhood no more. For your Maker is your husband -ADONAI-Tzva’ot is His Name- the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer. He will be called God of all the earth.” [Isaiah 54:1,4-5 TLV] And sing loudly, because although in your momentary suffering, pain has ached your very bones, your King and God has and will forever take away your reproach, and give to you far beyond what you sought. For His most holy portion is what He gives, and that is the fact that: “Surely He has borne our griefs and carried our pains. Yet we esteemed Him stricken, struck by God, and afflicted. But He was pierced because of our transgressions, crushed because of our iniquities. The chastisement for our shalom was upon Him, and by His stripes we are healed. We all like sheep have gone astray. Each of us turned to his own way. So ADONAI has laid on Him the iniquity of us all. Yet it pleased ADONAI to bruise Him. He caused Him to suffer. If He makes His soul a guilt offering, He will see His offspring, He will prolong His days, and the will of ADONAI will succeed by His hand. As a result of the anguish of His soul He will see it and be satisfied by His knowledge. The Righteous One, My Servant will make many righteous and He will bear their iniquities.” [Isaiah 53:4-6,10-11 TLV]
I do not have any children. I have Multiple Sclerosis and have not been well enough. I hope that HaShem sees the achievements, and contributions that women who have not been able to have children have made also.
I just love your mom! She is a great teacher. I could listen to the beautiful way she teaches us about Judaism. I never knew how beautiful of a religion Judaism is before watching your channel. God has blessed you with two beautiful little boys. I hope he blesses you with as many lovely children as you want.
They gave their ability to have children to a childless couple but yes, you still have value even if you cannot have children but if you can it’s you’re privilege and duty to raise a family in the ways of the lord.
I would have loved to have had more children that I had. I have 2 boys and so when I was no longer able to have children because of a physical issue I've then became a teacher and all of the students in my class I consider them my children as well. I consider it a huge blessing from God to be allowed to be allowed to be in those children's lives and to be able to love them as much as I do. I absolutely love all your videos and as a Christian I love learning more About the Jewish faith and I think you guys are wonderful people be blessed
Respect to beloved Jews mother. As a Muslim, we have been given the same message: marry a fertile woman. This interpretation is to marry a righteous woman who will be happy to have children and is able to raise children the way Allah commands and the Prophet Muhammad taught us. Allah also said do not have kids if you can’t raise them righteous according to our Quran. Also, we should not have child/ren for the sake of friends and family wishes, or to fit whin the society or to prove one is able to have child/ren or imitate friends and etc. If you are a married couple who are unable to be a devoted parents and unable to give your child/ren the right upbringing, do not have child/ren and destroy their lives otherwise you will be accountable on the day of judgment. Allah says in the Quran marry a righteous man/woman both will be able to bring up their children the right ways by the wull and blessings of Allah. Prophet Muhammad pbuh, also taught the husband if your wife is unable to have child then be patient, have hope, pray to our creator who is able to make the impossible possible, don’t give up on your wife. The way you don’t want your sister, niece, daughter’s spouses to leave them just because they can’t have children. Allah tests those he loves, like our prophet Zakariya May Allah be please with him. Allah granted him and his beloved wife at an old age. I pray may we please Allah and strive to bring up our blessed children the right way. Ameen 🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻❤️❤️
This video was so sweet and important. May you guys make a video on childbirth and if c sections are frowned upon or avoided? As well as discuss maternal and prenatal tips to give birth naturally?
Their views on having kids 🥺 today's society views kids as a curse. It's so sad, even in my case, as a hispanic, when you get pregnant young(me at 21) your whole family gets mad at you and it's like your world is falling apart 💔 it's very sad, and I think we, as women feel that, and that makes us treat our kids certain way 😪 I pray to Hashem that he has mercy over us and give me the wisdom I need to raise 3 boys(Isaac, Abraham and Gadiel) in his Torah, and that they are fearing humans that bring kindness into this world 🌎
💯. I’d have had 10 kids if I could have! I always wanted a large family and didn’t mind working hard for that family. It’s a joy! I had my last child at 42. There were people that asked me why I’d start all over when my older kids were already teenagers. She’s here because she was meant to come to our family. And having the last child has been one of the greatest happiness in our lives. ♥️
The financial point that your mom made is the exact same belief we Muslims have as well Subhan Allah. I know little to nothing about Jews, and watching your videos has made me realize how similar we actually are. May Allah guide us all aameen (love how u pronounced it the same way as well).
To each their own. Some people don't want children. Some people can't have children. Some people shouldn't have children. Some people adopt the children of the ones who neglected them... Many people believe that God will provide - and they work a lot for it - but live an impoverished life, especially people of colour. Great accomplishments don't depend on your parental status. I'm glad your family turned out well and your mother is a happy woman.
The reason why g-d told Noah to be fruitful and multiply is because Noah was discouraged since the flood just wiped out most of humanity. Noah himself didn’t have anymore children after the flood
@@cformosa That idea has been disproven and we actually need more children to sustain ourselves as the world is aging and not enough children are being born. Personally I wouldn’t be able to go on without having children because I want to have someone of my own to cherish and love.
When you put your trust in God,ask Him to provide, He does... And you can also cut corners with clothing, cooking, expenses, etc .. do your utmost to live debt free
Oh really ???? Does God give us the money for a big house, medical bills and the dentist ???? Why do so many hasidic Jews live in poverty resp. from social welfare ????
@@bridgetintheukraine Is that an answer to my questions?!? 😳 I don't know where you live but in my country it is impossible to have more than 3 - 4 children unless you are either very rich or willing to live permanently from social welfare🙄 (.... and I live in one of the richest countries.....)
Iam muslim and my friend also muslim. She is stil 38 years old and her childrens 8 she said God forbidden to women to i dontt know in english like stop the pregnancy with medical. Thats bless and good when people with many kids but they also must have good financial for future.
and if a Chinese woman has more than "one" child... the second is officially aborted!! and if the world is allegedly "Over-Populated" why is nothing being done to encourage the decrease of Jewish families? However; when millions have allowed their lives to be totally controlled by ancient man-made texts and books... then what else can one expect? 🙂
We cannot have more than the two we have because then we would be in poverty and that wouldn't be fair on the children. It's alright if you have a good income to provide what they need but not realistic for some of us low income families.
Children raised in poverty yet rich in love do better than rich kids deprived of their parents love (which is often the case given that money doesn't grow on trees)
@@Amanda_in_wonderland If HE wanted you to have children, then, you would have them. If you love G-d and keep His Commandments, then, He will love you.
I have been barren all my life loads of hereditary issues, it has been a torture to watch normal families…..I feel like Sarah, Rachel , Hannah……all barren. Every month it is like I am standing at an open grave…..almost 38…….chronically sick since the womb…..only HASHEM , Blessed Be He, can know the brokenness of my heart and how utterly unfulfilled I am because of my circumstances…..helping others helps but that torture is there chronically……if ONLY MY FAMILY OBEYED G_D ONCE IN THEIR LIFE I COULD BE WELL YEARSS AGO……MY GREAT GRANDFATHER WAS JEWISH BUT UNFORTUNATELY FULLY ASSIMILATED AWAY FROM JUDAISM ✡️ AND I HAVE PAID THE BILL……MY LIFE IS AND HAS BEEN GEHINNOM ALMOST 40 years in a wilderness. 😢😢😢😢Feel like I am waiting for a Samuel or Isaac. Seen sooooooo many old friends go off and marry and have loads of kids…..mothers walking their children mothers in parks playing with their kids……only HASHEM is holding my heart together…..plus the grief of knowing where my family is going living a lie……Brothers are alcoholics, my cousin had a massive heart attack in 2015 could die any day of another one had a NDE ….NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCE…..father died when I was 19 now almost 38 brain tumour, my mother isn’t well her whole life. DYING TO CONVERT AND REBUILD MY PERSONAL JERUSALEM HAVING A KOSHER HOLY HOME……NOTHING LIKE WHAT I GREW UP IN UNFORTUNATELY. My brothers and I ARENT close…..my life is just one big heartache. I have a few precious friends online…..another friend has a very similar life her adult children aren’t close. Problems with her grandson. Very dark places we are. My friend and I would be dead without one another our families have no compassion for our chronic illnesses. My friend and I longggggg for GODLY LARGE FAMILIES…..HASHEM SETS THE SOLITARY INTO FAMILIES……MY FRIEND AND I FALL INTO THIS CATEGORY. Plus another friend he and his wife , he is like a replacement brother to me.
I’m so sad and sorry to hear of your Distress. Keep praying and Trust G*d Dear One. He Loves YOU and does not hold you responsible for your family’s actions. ASK Him what HE Wants for you. He certainly doesn’t want you to live in mental torture. ASK 🙏and TRUST and HE Will give you His Peace. Read Psalm 20 📖🙏 ❤️
What about Jewish women who can’t have children (or men who can’t “multiply”)? What about couples choosing not to have children? What about same-sex relationships? Your channel talks a lot about the union of a man and a woman, marriage, be fruitful but what is your stance towards Jewish people that are gay, don’t want to marry or have children etc? If you are saying that your way is the only right way and God’s way, what do you think will happen to gay, trans, childless (Jewish) people? Is God going to be less benevolent to these folks? If you answered with no then why would you want to follow all the strict rules to begin with. If you answered with yes then would it mean God wasn’t tolerant? Would love to see you respond to these questions.
If one’s unable to have children it’s not held against them as that’s G-Ds will, same sex relationships are not legal unions in Judaism. We don’t hate but we don’t support it. Personally I believe in live and let live but I believe marriage is a union between man and woman.
I know single girls and it hurts them that they are alone and they really want to get married but no one holds it against them and they are lovely people.
We do the most we can to help them have a child despite the odds, using the most advanced technology possible. All funded by kindhearted jewish "strangers". In the meantime and if it still doesn't work, it's a struggle. They are not looked down upon as less than but in a culture filled with growing families, it's super painful
Why can you say G-d, but won't spell it out? Are you allowed to read it? I was worried I would make you sin if I spelled it out. Lol trying to be respectful.
@@chaimlevin125 Thanks for answering me! So, why can they say the name without editing, but don't write it out in the captions? If one of those is in vain, aren't they both? Also, what constitutes it being in vain? Like, you're teaching me about it. That's kind of the opposite of vain, right? Like couldn't you spell it in this conversation? I mean no offense. I'm just curious. Edit: can you read it the name? If I had spelled it out initially would you have even responded? I'm sorry. I'd just like to be less ignorant..
He said to fill the earth. That has been accomplished. And YOU aren't Adam. He told Moses things that weren't for you and all the profits had commandments of god that wasn't spoke to you. Doesn't make sense. It's people taking the bible in vain. Like idolatry of money- they think it's God's commandment to worship the dollar.
Your mum is so lovely, I could just hug her. We didn't have children, I married late and we have medical complications, we don't have close nieces and nephews, which is sadness but we can help people and give in other ways. HaShem knows what He is doing and carries us through the darkest hours . The Jewish culture and way of life is so wonderful and properly family oriented, I often wish I was Jewish. I'm a gentile attached to HaShem, discovering how to carry out my souls purpose.
The lord still loves you even if you’re unable to bear children. Surround yourself with children and maybe try teaching because you can make a lasting impact on a child’s life and I bet you’d be amazing.
Interesting. The interpretation of that bit of scripture (explained to me) is to share the news of God. As in multiplying God’s believers, not creating more children. Not saying that having children is “bad” per se; rather to be sharing God’s love, promise, etc. and making His word fruitful amongst His people. ❤
Wrong passage. The ma'am was talking about the book of Genesis when God first created man and women. The so called "news of God" was not even a thing because they were only 2(adam and eve) and God would talk to them face to face....
How are marriages kept healthy? Having eight children is a recipe for disaster in the event of divorce. Even married, financial and general stressors can breakdown a marriage. Before even having so many children in the modern world, how do you ensure you are with someone who can be trusted with such responsibility?
Orthodox families seldom divorce as it is based on common goals, not " I was in love" or " This is the man/woman I always wanted". The kids and their education is the modus operandi, so they won't let minor disagreements become major disputes. It is like a business with two partners striving to make it successful, no matter what.
I have a legitimate question, if a woman has an abortion is she automatically damned for eternity? Would if she has a child after an abortion? Does God forgive a woman for having an abortion in the Orthodox Jewish religion? Your mom is so sweet BTW!
Overpopulation is a myth and in fact we aren’t having enough children to sustain ourselves as the world is aging. We have strong communal support and bonds with one another. Also, many happen to be successful and both my parents are college grads.
I asked the Jewish family why they had so many kids and they told me it is required for Jewish families to have as many children as they can afford to replenish the Earth for all the Jews who were killed during the holocaust. Not sure if this is true but I can understand the fight!
My husband and I were not blessed with children. It has been a lifelong sadness for us both. But, we were teachers and had many wonderful students that we could love over the years. We both also come from big families and are blessed with many wonderful nieces and nephews who are so good to us. Even if you don’t have children, you can surround yourself with children and love them as your own! I almost died in 2020, I made sure to tell my nieces and nephews that I couldn’t love them more than if they were my own children! I try to carry their love with me every day!!
I am so sorry for the great sadness and pain that you have experienced. And in a universe of complexity, as the Wisdom books suggest, there is no answer to why or why not- at least in this age. But, I say loudly:
“Sing, barren one, who has not given birth. burst into singing and shout, you who have not travailed. For more are the children of the desolate than the children of the married one,” says ADONAI. Fear not, for you will not be ashamed. Nor cringe, for you will not be disgraced. For you will forget the shame of your youth, and you will remember the reproach of your widowhood no more. For your Maker is your husband -ADONAI-Tzva’ot is His Name- the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer. He will be called God of all the earth.” [Isaiah 54:1,4-5 TLV]
And sing loudly, because although in your momentary suffering, pain has ached your very bones, your King and God has and will forever take away your reproach, and give to you far beyond what you sought. For His most holy portion is what He gives, and that is the fact that:
“Surely He has borne our griefs and carried our pains. Yet we esteemed Him stricken, struck by God, and afflicted. But He was pierced because of our transgressions, crushed because of our iniquities. The chastisement for our shalom was upon Him, and by His stripes we are healed. We all like sheep have gone astray. Each of us turned to his own way. So ADONAI has laid on Him the iniquity of us all. Yet it pleased ADONAI to bruise Him. He caused Him to suffer. If He makes His soul a guilt offering, He will see His offspring, He will prolong His days, and the will of ADONAI will succeed by His hand. As a result of the anguish of His soul He will see it and be satisfied by His knowledge. The Righteous One, My Servant will make many righteous and He will bear their iniquities.” [Isaiah 53:4-6,10-11 TLV]
I do not have any children. I have Multiple Sclerosis and have not been well enough.
I hope that HaShem sees the achievements, and contributions that women who have not been able to have children have made also.
Of course! Not everyone is even meant to have children and we're blessed with other attributes and skills that bring joy to the world.
U know, HaShem sees everything and knows all that us in our hearts. ❤️
So beautiful and people need to hear this in today's society!
Wow that was so heartwarming. Thanks for posting.
I just love your mom! She is a great teacher. I could listen to the beautiful way she teaches us about Judaism. I never knew how beautiful of a religion Judaism is before watching your channel. God has blessed you with two beautiful little boys. I hope he blesses you with as many lovely children as you want.
Very quietly said & beautiful. Thank you.
I like to think women who have a lot of kids are making up for people like me who can’t ☺️
That’s so sweet
The Lubavitcher Rebbe and his wife were never able to have children. It obviously didn’t hinder his or his wife’s influence in the community.
They gave their ability to have children to a childless couple but yes, you still have value even if you cannot have children but if you can it’s you’re privilege and duty to raise a family in the ways of the lord.
I would have loved to have had more children that I had. I have 2 boys and so when I was no longer able to have children because of a physical issue I've then became a teacher and all of the students in my class I consider them my children as well. I consider it a huge blessing from God to be allowed to be allowed to be in those children's lives and to be able to love them as much as I do. I absolutely love all your videos and as a Christian I love learning more About the Jewish faith and I think you guys are wonderful people be blessed
Respect to beloved Jews mother. As a Muslim, we have been given the same message: marry a fertile woman. This interpretation is to marry a righteous woman who will be happy to have children and is able to raise children the way Allah commands and the Prophet Muhammad taught us. Allah also said do not have kids if you can’t raise them righteous according to our Quran. Also, we should not have child/ren for the sake of friends and family wishes, or to fit whin the society or to prove one is able to have child/ren or imitate friends and etc.
If you are a married couple who are unable to be a devoted parents and unable to give your child/ren the right upbringing, do not have child/ren and destroy their lives otherwise you will be accountable on the day of judgment.
Allah says in the Quran marry a righteous man/woman both will be able to bring up their children the right ways by the wull and blessings of Allah.
Prophet Muhammad pbuh, also taught the husband if your wife is unable to have child then be patient, have hope, pray to our creator who is able to make the impossible possible, don’t give up on your wife. The way you don’t want your sister, niece, daughter’s spouses to leave them just because they can’t have children. Allah tests those he loves, like our prophet Zakariya May Allah be please with him. Allah granted him and his beloved wife at an old age. I pray may we please Allah and strive to bring up our blessed children the right way. Ameen 🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻❤️❤️
Your mum is amazing!! I wish I could meet her and have a talk to her.
That was beautiful! ❤️
Lovely mother and daughter, and lovely encouragement.
So beautiful!!
This video was so sweet and important. May you guys make a video on childbirth and if c sections are frowned upon or avoided? As well as discuss maternal and prenatal tips to give birth naturally?
So beautifully said
Their views on having kids 🥺 today's society views kids as a curse. It's so sad, even in my case, as a hispanic, when you get pregnant young(me at 21) your whole family gets mad at you and it's like your world is falling apart 💔 it's very sad, and I think we, as women feel that, and that makes us treat our kids certain way 😪 I pray to Hashem that he has mercy over us and give me the wisdom I need to raise 3 boys(Isaac, Abraham and Gadiel) in his Torah, and that they are fearing humans that bring kindness into this world 🌎
💯. I’d have had 10 kids if I could have! I always wanted a large family and didn’t mind working hard for that family. It’s a joy! I had my last child at 42. There were people that asked me why I’d start all over when my older kids were already teenagers. She’s here because she was meant to come to our family. And having the last child has been one of the greatest happiness in our lives. ♥️
Beautiful and lovely Ima you have. And very wise!! 😍
Just a beautiful explanation. I have 6 children. A lot of prayer and trust.
Wow what a lovely ,beautiful lady, blessings 🙌.
I love this video
The financial point that your mom made is the exact same belief we Muslims have as well Subhan Allah. I know little to nothing about Jews, and watching your videos has made me realize how similar we actually are. May Allah guide us all aameen (love how u pronounced it the same way as well).
You mom is so pretty and looks way too young to have grandchildren! Two deservedly proud mums.
To each their own. Some people don't want children. Some people can't have children. Some people shouldn't have children. Some people adopt the children of the ones who neglected them...
Many people believe that God will provide - and they work a lot for it - but live an impoverished life, especially people of colour.
Great accomplishments don't depend on your parental status.
I'm glad your family turned out well and your mother is a happy woman.
Blessings from HaShem!❤
I've also heard older women say they wished they'd had more. Even my mom who had 4, wishes shed had a 5th...
Beautiful
Can I know which version and can you tell more version on having more kids
God bless
The reason why g-d told Noah to be fruitful and multiply is because Noah was discouraged since the flood just wiped out most of humanity. Noah himself didn’t have anymore children after the flood
I am afraid this planet is getting too crowded to sustain a good life for any living creatures.
@@cformosa That idea has been disproven and we actually need more children to sustain ourselves as the world is aging and not enough children are being born. Personally I wouldn’t be able to go on without having children because I want to have someone of my own to cherish and love.
Very true I’m one of 9 and my dad was one of 13 children x
Good to hear from your mom. She had much to say “Which one of my 8 shouldn’t I have had” (OUCH!). “He who gives life gives sustenance…”
When you put your trust in God,ask Him to provide, He does... And you can also cut corners with clothing, cooking, expenses, etc .. do your utmost to live debt free
Oh really ????
Does God give us the money for a big house, medical bills and the dentist ????
Why do so many hasidic Jews live in poverty resp. from social welfare ????
@@rosedudesert4389 mindset and mismanagement... God is faithful
@@bridgetintheukraine Is that an answer to my questions?!? 😳
I don't know where you live but in my country it is impossible to have more than 3 - 4 children unless you are either very rich or willing to live permanently from social welfare🙄
(.... and I live in one of the richest countries.....)
Iam muslim and my friend also muslim. She is stil 38 years old and her childrens 8 she said God forbidden to women to i dontt know in english like stop the pregnancy with medical. Thats bless and good when people with many kids but they also must have good financial for future.
Your mum is fabulous. Praise our faithful Abba God Almighty and Jesus Christ Messiah and Holy Spirit of God Almighty Hallelujah Amen 🙏 ❤
and if a Chinese woman has more than "one" child... the second is officially aborted!!
and if the world is allegedly "Over-Populated" why is nothing being done to encourage the decrease of Jewish families? However; when millions have allowed their lives to be totally controlled by ancient man-made texts and books... then what else can one expect? 🙂
Do you guys vaccinate and give blood heel prick test ?
We cannot have more than the two we have because then we would be in poverty and that wouldn't be fair on the children. It's alright if you have a good income to provide what they need but not realistic for some of us low income families.
Children raised in poverty yet rich in love do better than rich kids deprived of their parents love (which is often the case given that money doesn't grow on trees)
What about Jewish Women who can‘t have children (for medical reasons for example)? How are they viewed in Judaism?
I second this question as a disabled woman who can’t give birth or care for a child where do we stand?
@@Amanda_in_wonderland If HE wanted you to have children, then, you would have them.
If you love G-d and keep His Commandments, then, He will love you.
@@onejohn2.26
Not a helpful comment but whatever.
@@onejohn2.26 I know that ☺️ I have made my peace with G-d’s plan. I was asking in the realm of Hasidic Judaism
@@sbug2705 Sorry, I thought it was very helpful.
I don't know what kind of answer you expect.
I have been barren all my life loads of hereditary issues, it has been a torture to watch normal families…..I feel like Sarah, Rachel , Hannah……all barren. Every month it is like I am standing at an open grave…..almost 38…….chronically sick since the womb…..only HASHEM , Blessed Be He, can know the brokenness of my heart and how utterly unfulfilled I am because of my circumstances…..helping others helps but that torture is there chronically……if ONLY MY FAMILY OBEYED G_D ONCE IN THEIR LIFE I COULD BE WELL YEARSS AGO……MY GREAT GRANDFATHER WAS JEWISH BUT UNFORTUNATELY FULLY ASSIMILATED AWAY FROM JUDAISM ✡️ AND I HAVE PAID THE BILL……MY LIFE IS AND HAS BEEN GEHINNOM ALMOST 40 years in a wilderness. 😢😢😢😢Feel like I am waiting for a Samuel or Isaac. Seen sooooooo many old friends go off and marry and have loads of kids…..mothers walking their children mothers in parks playing with their kids……only HASHEM is holding my heart together…..plus the grief of knowing where my family is going living a lie……Brothers are alcoholics, my cousin had a massive heart attack in 2015 could die any day of another one had a NDE ….NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCE…..father died when I was 19 now almost 38 brain tumour, my mother isn’t well her whole life.
DYING TO CONVERT AND REBUILD MY PERSONAL JERUSALEM HAVING A KOSHER HOLY HOME……NOTHING LIKE WHAT I GREW UP IN UNFORTUNATELY. My brothers and I ARENT close…..my life is just one big heartache. I have a few precious friends online…..another friend has a very similar life her adult children aren’t close. Problems with her grandson. Very dark places we are. My friend and I would be dead without one another our families have no compassion for our chronic illnesses. My friend and I longggggg for GODLY LARGE FAMILIES…..HASHEM SETS THE SOLITARY INTO FAMILIES……MY FRIEND AND I FALL INTO THIS CATEGORY. Plus another friend he and his wife , he is like a replacement brother to me.
I’m so sad and sorry to hear of your Distress.
Keep praying and Trust G*d Dear One.
He Loves YOU and does not hold you responsible for your family’s actions.
ASK Him what HE Wants for you. He certainly doesn’t want you to live in mental torture.
ASK 🙏and TRUST and HE Will give you His Peace.
Read Psalm 20 📖🙏
❤️
What about Jewish women who can’t have children (or men who can’t “multiply”)? What about couples choosing not to have children? What about same-sex relationships? Your channel talks a lot about the union of a man and a woman, marriage, be fruitful but what is your stance towards Jewish people that are gay, don’t want to marry or have children etc? If you are saying that your way is the only right way and God’s way, what do you think will happen to gay, trans, childless (Jewish) people? Is God going to be less benevolent to these folks? If you answered with no then why would you want to follow all the strict rules to begin with. If you answered with yes then would it mean God wasn’t tolerant? Would love to see you respond to these questions.
If one’s unable to have children it’s not held against them as that’s G-Ds will, same sex relationships are not legal unions in Judaism. We don’t hate but we don’t support it. Personally I believe in live and let live but I believe marriage is a union between man and woman.
Why so many children? The right answer is: 《 G.od commanded us to do so, so we do it. No questions asked.》
I always wished I’d had more.
❤
Would love to know view on singleness and single jewish female if you could
I know single girls and it hurts them that they are alone and they really want to get married but no one holds it against them and they are lovely people.
WHAT DO ORTHODOX JEWS Feel About couples that cannot birth their own children? AS a JEW, I struggle around THIS?
We do the most we can to help them have a child despite the odds, using the most advanced technology possible. All funded by kindhearted jewish "strangers". In the meantime and if it still doesn't work, it's a struggle. They are not looked down upon as less than but in a culture filled with growing families, it's super painful
Beautiful video❤
Why can you say G-d, but won't spell it out? Are you allowed to read it? I was worried I would make you sin if I spelled it out. Lol trying to be respectful.
They actually have a video about it but in short we aren’t allowed to say or write G-Ds name in vain even if it’s in another language like English.
@@chaimlevin125 Thanks for answering me! So, why can they say the name without editing, but don't write it out in the captions? If one of those is in vain, aren't they both? Also, what constitutes it being in vain? Like, you're teaching me about it. That's kind of the opposite of vain, right? Like couldn't you spell it in this conversation? I mean no offense. I'm just curious.
Edit: can you read it the name? If I had spelled it out initially would you have even responded? I'm sorry. I'd just like to be less ignorant..
We as jews are not allowed to write but you may do as you choose
Normal muslim men india having minimum 4 wives and 40+ kids
He said to fill the earth. That has been accomplished. And YOU aren't Adam. He told Moses things that weren't for you and all the profits had commandments of god that wasn't spoke to you. Doesn't make sense. It's people taking the bible in vain. Like idolatry of money- they think it's God's commandment to worship the dollar.
There is a family in the U.S. that has 19 children.
And one in the UK with 22
Your mum is so lovely, I could just hug her. We didn't have children, I married late and we have medical complications, we don't have close nieces and nephews, which is sadness but we can help people and give in other ways. HaShem knows what He is doing and carries us through the darkest hours . The Jewish culture and way of life is so wonderful and properly family oriented, I often wish I was Jewish. I'm a gentile attached to HaShem, discovering how to carry out my souls purpose.
Islam and Judaism is almost similar man
Said no Jew or Muslim ever... 😂😂😂
@@bridgetintheukrainethe Muslims in her comments say it often, though 😂😂😂. They are trying to convince themselves
I would have been so grateful to Hashem had he even gave me one child. Saddest part if my life
The lord still loves you even if you’re unable to bear children. Surround yourself with children and maybe try teaching because you can make a lasting impact on a child’s life and I bet you’d be amazing.
@@chaimlevin125 I have been a teacher for over 40 years. Yes it does help and I am grateful for that
@@pamreynolds6812 And I bet you’re a great one at that! I’m 18 now but I wish I had good teachers who cared about me in the long run.
Un besito.
Hello girl , very beautiful rich mom and daughter
Interesting. The interpretation of that bit of scripture (explained to me) is to share the news of God. As in multiplying God’s believers, not creating more children. Not saying that having children is “bad” per se; rather to be sharing God’s love, promise, etc. and making His word fruitful amongst His people. ❤
Wrong passage. The ma'am was talking about the book of Genesis when God first created man and women. The so called "news of God" was not even a thing because they were only 2(adam and eve) and God would talk to them face to face....
The commandment is to have children. Obviously they should be brought up in the ways of the Torah but having children is a mitzvah itself.
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To recover population after you-know-what.
Amein!
How are marriages kept healthy? Having eight children is a recipe for disaster in the event of divorce. Even married, financial and general stressors can breakdown a marriage. Before even having so many children in the modern world, how do you ensure you are with someone who can be trusted with such responsibility?
Please answer this question
My opinion is, that marriages are kept healthy by love, by mutual respect and by following the Torah, which is love.
Orthodox families seldom divorce as it is based on common goals, not " I was in love" or " This is the man/woman I always wanted". The kids and their education is the modus operandi, so they won't let minor disagreements become major disputes. It is like a business with two partners striving to make it successful, no matter what.
I have a legitimate question, if a woman has an abortion is she automatically damned for eternity? Would if she has a child after an abortion? Does God forgive a woman for having an abortion in the Orthodox Jewish religion? Your mom is so sweet BTW!
No one is ever damned for eternity. We have a gift called teshuvah, repentance. If followed properly, all sins can be forgiven
Amen 😁
What about overpopulation?!?
Where should all these people live (every generation multiplying by 8) ?!?
And where does the money come from?!?
Mother Nature is not happy with people…
Overpopulation is a myth and in fact we aren’t having enough children to sustain ourselves as the world is aging. We have strong communal support and bonds with one another. Also, many happen to be successful and both my parents are college grads.
Giv them condoms and birth pills
I asked the Jewish family why they had so many kids and they told me it is required for Jewish families to have as many children as they can afford to replenish the Earth for all the Jews who were killed during the holocaust. Not sure if this is true but I can understand the fight!
Definitely not required 😂😂😂. But many have this attitude by choice
My mother in law had 8 kids, her mother had 14 children mashallah and 4 miscarriages...
oh vey i donno why
The Lubavitcher Rebbe and his wife were never able to have children. It obviously didn’t hinder his or his wife’s influence in the community.
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