Friends like this we don’t need. Don’t be best friends that you spend every weekend with, don’t trust anyone that is too close to you. Behind close doors they always have another purpose. I’m a loner and I prefer it this way. No friends but no drama. Just me and my little family.
This happened to me too sis now I do not care to have friends or care to hang out with friends and I'm all good and happy to be alone. Your worst enemy is the one closest to you. Even caught them at the hotel went to jail was it worth it? Of course not! Now he's so good to me and the kids but my heart is torn broken and won't ever be the same again. I live for my kids now. Don't care for gatherings or parties and definitely don't care if he goes out or comes home I've become stronger its been 14yrs now for me I hope you'll find peace too and become strong too sis he's not worth it.
Zoo li xwb niag txiv siab dub li txob nco nws uasiab xav tias nw tuag luwm xwb no ntog tej me nyob ua ibtug niam zoo muaj nloob tuag nws mam li quaj thiab mam li nyiav siab dub li musliwm los tseem zoo thiab mog
That is the reason I don’t have anymore female friend. My best friend and my first cousin and my ex cheated on me for 12 years. During this time I put up with his cheating. Hoping it will get better. I have so much heart aid depressed until I lose both of my kidneys. Sister you should thanks God he left you. If a man cheated on you with your best friend you should run very fast not even look back.
Ua tsaug zoo siab kj cov dab neeg os niam ntsuab teev tib co dab neeg qhov phem muaj g txhob kawm qhov zoo muaj mam kawm mloog tag muaj kev ras xeev nco ntsoov ua neeg zoo xwb os ! Cov txiv neej ua phooj ywg zoo 2 ces xuam coob yog xuam ua phooj ywg nrog es yuav nrog Lv siv Lv tus txiv Los yog yuav nrog Lv siv Lv tus poj niam xwb qhov no txhob nrog Leej twg ua phooj ywg ces yog 1 qho zoo tshaj rau yus Lub neej pem suab xwb os ua phooj ywg ntau ces kua txob thiab qhov muag yuav tawm Tuaj xwb yeeb ncuab yuav tshwm sim xwb yuav ua rog tog nruab nrab xwb nawb !
Nrog koj tu siab kawg os kuv los twb raug kiag koj txoj kev mob li koj thiab os vim yog yus lub siab zoo zoo es lawv thiaj li xav tau yus lub neej xwb es kuv nyob thaib teb kuv kuj yog hmoob vib nais thiab os
This is why my best friends are my kids, husband, sisters, brothers, nyabs and my mom only. When I first married I know a few of my friends who fancy my husband that's when I started to keep my distance from them.
Sister, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It’s good to have good friends but not friends so close/great to the point of you missing them when they moved or are away. You need to love yourself, take care of yourself, and move on. Your ex-husband is not worth you waiting for. He doesn’t love you anymore so let him go. Yog Hnub twg nws rov los ces tsuas yog nws kev tws lawm xwb and you don’t want to be his 2nd choice. It’s a good thing he left instead of hurting you and cheating on you. You are a good person and God will bless you with goodness. He and your best friend may be happy now but that will not last forever.
Why would you wait for a cheating bastard who doesn't want you anymore. Plus it's not all about friends betraying you it's your partner too. If he is a cheater he'll cheat regardless if you have friends or don't. It takes two. Move on sister you deserve better.
Cov poj niam nyob taus2 tsis complain li mas lawv uv ntau dhau tu siab dhau ces thiaj mus nrhiav kev kaj siab teb chaws meskas no tseem ntau vim tus txiv siab phem siab luv dhau tos tus niam ho Tham hluas nraug los nws phem npaum no nej tsis paub ntshe nws mag ntaus mag ncaws tas li nws thiaj ua tau yuam kev vim hnov lwm tus hais lus zoo2 ces thiaj hloov siab mas
Sounds like you value friendships over your own relationship. You opened yourself up to temptations. Don’t wait for your husband and go live your life, sister. There’s still more to life than waiting for him to come back.
I'm a loner and I don't have anyone that you might call "best friends" and it's okay. I get along fine with people who I often meet out on family gatherings and or events but I don't consider them my best friends or anything.
I feel for you, but keep your head up and forget him. Make sure you do not pay for is 120 xyoo nwb. Live for yourself and your children, and grandchildren. The best revenge is do nothing at all. Live life as though he never existed. You are hurting because you still love him and the betrayal is still too great for you to bare. This too will pass and you will rise above this. Just keep in mind, do not go do the same thing to another women
We don't have friends or need any friends 'cause we got families. Like the Chinese said, we want to live a quiet and simple life with each other and our kids.
I don't have bffs. I keep my circle of friends small only. My closed friends are my own family and sisters. I distance myself from toxic friends and others. Hopefully you'll learned your lessons for what you went thru.
Friends are good to have but not good to trust. We each have a story to tell when it comes to unfaithfulness whether it's a mistake or on purpose. But I will say hold your head high and move on with your life. There is a saying that goes, "forgive but never forget".
This is why I only have a very small circle of friends, I keep my distance from many people, even when certain people want to get to close to me I shut them out.
can feel ur pain & W/out friends, we don’t die .. tsis tim koj os ntawd yog koj tus txiv Kev tsis muaj stable & permanent place to settle his nomadic heart so let him go.. txia siab lawm rob los, los ntshe the scar always there never be healed (♥️)
Cov neeg yuav ua phem rau yus ces tsis tas yuav yog cov sab nraud xwb. Yus tsev neeg kiag los yeej ua tau phem rau yus. Qhov tseeb ces yus ceevfaj yus tus kheej xwb.
Txawm yog li ntawv kuv thiaj li tsis ua phooj ywg nrog leej twg li ntag. Thaum lawv tsis nyiam koj tus txiv ces yog koj phooj ywg tiam si yog nws nyiam koj tus txiv ces nws txawm yog tus xav kom koj xub tuag. Tsis need ua phooj ywg li os cov niam tsev aw.
Just so anyone understand. Friends are come and go. Only family will stay and be there when we needs them. Don’t trust everything an outsider tell you because most are not true.
Lady, what's giving you hopes and keeping you lingering around people who are not your family. The only person who ties them to you no longer wants you. Love yourself and move on for you and your children's sake. It's mentally and emotionally better for children to have parents who are divorced than to see their parents fight constantly.
Yog kawg li os kuv twb yog ib tug raug txoj kev no thiab os yus tus phooj ywg mas thiaj li paub tua yus mob tshaj xyuas hluav taws hlawv os cov phooj ywg yog leej twg raug txoj kev no mas thiaj li paub os lawv aw22.
So sorry for what happened to you..that’s right koj hais yog lawm os..tsis tas muaj phoojywg outsider than your children, we been there and saw that too
I don't have best friends... I have acquaintance only. If they invite me over, I go. But not friends that I go out with. My husband is my best friend. I am my husband's best friend. We don't trust friends like that.
Peb ua neej nyob yog nej nyiam phooj ywg ces tau kev mob siab vim koj ruam xwb koj muab nyiam phooj ywg dhau ces thaum kawg koj thiaj li tau kev mob ntag.
No BFFs here. All ladies I meet are acquaintances only. My husband and I don’t need to be best friends with any couples. We are happy with our own family.
You do it to yourself if you choose to save your face over all these, I don’t feel sad for you. I’m sorry to say this but everything in life has a choice. You get what you choose.
Kuv tsi muaj phooj ywg los kuv tsi tu siab li vim kuv tsi muaj sij hawm rau phooj ywg kuv lub sij hawm kuv muab rau kuv tus txiv thiab kuv cov me nyuam xwb. Phooj ywg tom work ces los tsev ces tas lawm xwb rov mus work mam tsov sib tham xwb .li no thiaj tsi mob hlwb li mej.
Friends like this we don’t need. Don’t be best friends that you spend every weekend with, don’t trust anyone that is too close to you. Behind close doors they always have another purpose.
I’m a loner and I prefer it this way. No friends but no drama. Just me and my little family.
Same here, my husband thinks that I was dumb that's why I don't have friend. But I think it's better with no friend.
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All my friends is Benjamin and Grant!!👏👏👏👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️
Muaj ob peb hom phooj ywg. Muaj ib hom yog phooj ywg noj phooj ywg haus hos muaj ib cov yog phooj ywg zoo sib hlub tshaj kwv tij. Cov phooj ywg noj phooj ywg haus yog cov coob. Thawm muaj noj muaj haus muaj nyiaj ces muaj phooj ywg coob tabsi thawm txom nyem ces phooj ywg khiav tas.
This happened to me too sis now I do not care to have friends or care to hang out with friends and I'm all good and happy to be alone. Your worst enemy is the one closest to you. Even caught them at the hotel went to jail was it worth it? Of course not! Now he's so good to me and the kids but my heart is torn broken and won't ever be the same again. I live for my kids now. Don't care for gatherings or parties and definitely don't care if he goes out or comes home I've become stronger its been 14yrs now for me I hope you'll find peace too and become strong too sis he's not worth it.
Yep. Same here😢. May not caught him with his girls but always know he has girls and that’s enough to torn your heart to pieces.
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One reason why I kept my circle of friends very small. My friends are my sisters, my nyabs, my muam and niam ntxawm only.
Same here
Exactly!
Same here
Me too!!!
Zoo li xwb niag txiv siab dub li txob nco nws uasiab xav tias nw tuag luwm xwb no ntog tej me nyob ua ibtug niam zoo muaj nloob tuag nws mam li quaj thiab mam li nyiav siab dub li musliwm los tseem zoo thiab mog
When you too desperate for friends become too risky.
Its scary to have friends that are too good to be true.
That is the reason I don’t have anymore female friend. My best friend and my first cousin and my ex cheated on me for 12 years. During this time I put up with his cheating. Hoping it will get better. I have so much heart aid depressed until I lose both of my kidneys. Sister you should thanks God he left you. If a man cheated on you with your best friend you should run very fast not even look back.
I feel sorry for you sister
Kuv ces nruam zoo li koj thiab os sister hawb xob muaj phoojywg zoo zoo. Tus phoojywg yog tus yuav tua yug ntiag os
Ua tsaug zoo siab kj cov dab neeg os niam ntsuab teev tib co dab neeg qhov phem muaj g txhob kawm qhov zoo muaj mam kawm mloog tag muaj kev ras xeev nco ntsoov ua neeg zoo xwb os !
Cov txiv neej ua phooj ywg zoo 2 ces xuam coob yog xuam ua phooj ywg nrog es yuav nrog Lv siv Lv tus txiv Los yog yuav nrog Lv siv Lv tus poj niam xwb qhov no txhob nrog Leej twg ua phooj ywg ces yog 1 qho zoo tshaj rau yus Lub neej pem suab xwb os ua phooj ywg ntau ces kua txob thiab qhov muag yuav tawm Tuaj xwb yeeb ncuab yuav tshwm sim xwb yuav ua rog tog nruab nrab xwb nawb !
It’s your fault for wanting friends so much! Now you’ll have to live alone while your friend got your husband.
Nrog koj tu siab kawg os kuv los twb raug kiag koj txoj kev mob li koj thiab os vim yog yus lub siab zoo zoo es lawv thiaj li xav tau yus lub neej xwb es kuv nyob thaib teb kuv kuj yog hmoob vib nais thiab os
I don’t believe in friends. I have co workers friend, but my relationship with them stays at work only.
This is why my best friends are my kids, husband, sisters, brothers, nyabs and my mom only. When I first married I know a few of my friends who fancy my husband that's when I started to keep my distance from them.
Don’t trust your own family too much. Anyone can bite you on your back any time any day.
@@lilo-dudu1116 right I know. Thanks for the heads up. My nyabs or my sisters i know but thats less chance and I'm not that gullible or ignorant.
@@bluewhisper5008 You need to watch out for your mom. I've heard some stories from Hmong daughters that their mom slept with their daughter's husband.
@@KingOfThePirates101 no. You should watch for your mom. Lol.
Same here
No best friend
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kv nyiam noog koj cov neej neeg heev koj puag kam hias kv zaj thiab og niam luag
Yog me viv ncaus aw.
I agreed that not having friends or a best friend is fine. My kids are my best friends and I can always count on them to be there for me.
Yog lawm.
I should tell my story.
Can’t wait to hear.
Some people are not people, they’re snakes. Gotta always protect what’s yours.
Our best friends r our children
..Best friends is not husband or wives
A cheater will always be a cheater
Mloog ua ke nawb
Cov poj niam thiab txiv neej zoo li ces lub neej yuav tsis zoo thiab lwm hnub ces tuag ciaj tuag ciaj
Sister, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It’s good to have good friends but not friends so close/great to the point of you missing them when they moved or are away.
You need to love yourself, take care of yourself, and move on. Your ex-husband is not worth you waiting for. He doesn’t love you anymore so let him go. Yog Hnub twg nws rov los ces tsuas yog nws kev tws lawm xwb and you don’t want to be his 2nd choice. It’s a good thing he left instead of hurting you and cheating on you. You are a good person and God will bless you with goodness. He and your best friend may be happy now but that will not last forever.
Why would you wait for a cheating bastard who doesn't want you anymore. Plus it's not all about friends betraying you it's your partner too. If he is a cheater he'll cheat regardless if you have friends or don't. It takes two. Move on sister you deserve better.
Cov poj niam nyob taus2 tsis complain li mas lawv uv ntau dhau tu siab dhau ces thiaj mus nrhiav kev kaj siab teb chaws meskas no tseem ntau vim tus txiv siab phem siab luv dhau tos tus niam ho Tham hluas nraug los nws phem npaum no nej tsis paub ntshe nws mag ntaus mag ncaws tas li nws thiaj ua tau yuam kev vim hnov lwm tus hais lus zoo2 ces thiaj hloov siab mas
Yog kawg mas poj niam tham hluas nraug vim lub neej twb lwj siab txaus lawm os
Sounds like you value friendships over your own relationship. You opened yourself up to temptations. Don’t wait for your husband and go live your life, sister. There’s still more to life than waiting for him to come back.
Kuv Niam ib txwm qhia rau uv hais tiias txhob coj phooj ywg los tsev ces kuv yeej tsis coj ib tug los tsev li .
I'm a loner and I don't have anyone that you might call "best friends" and it's okay. I get along fine with people who I often meet out on family gatherings and or events but I don't consider them my best friends or anything.
Same here
Me too sis
Same for me
Agree
Same here. I don’t have friend too.
Worst betrayal ever.😭💔
I feel for you, but keep your head up and forget him. Make sure you do not pay for is 120 xyoo nwb. Live for yourself and your children, and grandchildren. The best revenge is do nothing at all. Live life as though he never existed. You are hurting because you still love him and the betrayal is still too great for you to bare. This too will pass and you will rise above this. Just keep in mind, do not go do the same thing to another women
Zoo mloog heev
Koj tus phoojywg zoo tshaj tsis muaj hnub hloov siab ces yus koj cov me nyuam xwb mog
It’s better to keep your circle small. No need to ntshaw friends. No one is real in this world.
Day time friend and night time lover that’s why the live close to each other.
Ladies, learn to love yourself once your husband no longer loves you! Life is to short to stay in your own sorrows.
I don’t have much friends
Just 1 friends only
What a betrayal!
That's why my husband and I don't have any good friends.
Txiv neej tag lawm los koj na cas tseem yuav khwv xim niag ntsej muag lim hiam ntawm na me muam aws
We don't have friends or need any friends 'cause we got families. Like the Chinese said, we want to live a quiet and simple life with each other and our kids.
Nrog koj tu siab tshaj plaws li mi viv ncaus aw!!!! 😂😂😂
I don't have bffs. I keep my circle of friends small only. My closed friends are my own family and sisters. I distance myself from toxic friends and others. Hopefully you'll learned your lessons for what you went thru.
Friends are good to have but not good to trust. We each have a story to tell when it comes to unfaithfulness whether it's a mistake or on purpose. But I will say hold your head high and move on with your life. There is a saying that goes, "forgive but never forget".
Niam laus a kuv muaj ib txoj neej neeg tu siab tshaj plaws li xáv muab rau kj hais thiab os niam laus
G yg phooj ywg hlub phooj ywg ntxub xwb
Cov coj li no ces nkawm yeej tsis muaj lub zoo neej ua li os
This is why I only have a very small circle of friends, I keep my distance from many people, even when certain people want to get to close to me I shut them out.
Very good story ❤️
Best frient is a biggest enemy? Betray..behind you..liar
Exactly!! That is why we don’t have friends. We travel and do things alone.
Lawv ua phem es koj txob nco lawm os mog
Yog tsis muaj phooj ywg los tsis ua cas yus nyob yus zoo tshaj.
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Yog lawm os phooj ywg ces g muaj los zoo os muaj los tsuas yg phjywg quavdev xb
Leej muam thov pab kuv vim kev hlub puas tas lawm
What a ef'd up story. Your husband saw how your friends ended up all due to cheating and yet he decides to cheats on you too. Smh
Exactly my thoughts too
can feel ur pain & W/out friends, we don’t die .. tsis tim koj os ntawd yog koj tus txiv Kev tsis muaj stable & permanent place to settle his nomadic heart so let him go.. txia siab lawm rob los, los ntshe the scar always there never be healed (♥️)
Cov neeg yuav ua phem rau yus ces tsis tas yuav yog cov sab nraud xwb. Yus tsev neeg kiag los yeej ua tau phem rau yus. Qhov tseeb ces yus ceevfaj yus tus kheej xwb.
Txawm yog li ntawv kuv thiaj li tsis ua phooj ywg nrog leej twg li ntag. Thaum lawv tsis nyiam koj tus txiv ces yog koj phooj ywg tiam si yog nws nyiam koj tus txiv ces nws txawm yog tus xav kom koj xub tuag. Tsis need ua phooj ywg li os cov niam tsev aw.
Bad husband divorce, bad wife divorce Tsis kk
Koj nyob ces koj xwb nkawv lawm los mas kab tsij mus pib dua neej xeem Nws ntag hos
Nyob zoo Sunday os Niam ntsuab teev
Txawm yog li koj es kuv thiaj tsis kum muaj phooj ywg los mas
Li no kuv thiaj tsis ntshaw phoojywg pojniam li mas.. tsis muaj zoo dua.. your best friend are you children and husband or wife xwb!
Tiam 21 no leej twg ruam ces leej twg tuag xwb.
Sister pab koj tu siab kawg os mog yog yus lub neej lawm na…tab sis mam nrhiav dua os mog tej zaum tus hlub yus tseem Tsi tau los txog xwb os 😥
Just so anyone understand. Friends are come and go. Only family will stay and be there when we needs them. Don’t trust everything an outsider tell you because most are not true.
Viv ncaus aw txhob nyuaj siab os muab 10 xyoo rau nkawd xwb yeej yuav txawj lwj siab thiaj tas
They say that when they are drunk they tell the truth. Lol
Lady, what's giving you hopes and keeping you lingering around people who are not your family. The only person who ties them to you no longer wants you. Love yourself and move on for you and your children's sake. It's mentally and emotionally better for children to have parents who are divorced than to see their parents fight constantly.
ntuj yuav kawg teb yuav nchuav os uacas muaj ib txhia hmoob nplog thiab hmoob ameka ma Liam tiag tiag zoo nkaus cov dev sib tshov xwb tsis paub txaj muag li lawm.
You shouldn’t wait for your betrayal hubby. Leave to find a better man out there.
ZOO heev li
My children are my only friends.
Yup that why I don't have girls best friend no more after what happen to on my bday so no thanks
That’s why I don’t be good good friend with any of my husband’s best friends wives.
Yog kawg li os kuv twb yog ib tug raug txoj kev no thiab os yus tus phooj ywg mas thiaj li paub tua yus mob tshaj xyuas hluav taws hlawv os cov phooj ywg yog leej twg raug txoj kev no mas thiaj li paub os lawv aw22.
Tej zaum neb tsis tiam ntawv Los muaj phooj ywg. Tsis muaj phooj ywg zoo dua
My partner in life is my best friend that’s all
So sorry for what happened to you..that’s right koj hais yog lawm os..tsis tas muaj phoojywg outsider than your children, we been there and saw that too
I don't have best friends... I have acquaintance only. If they invite me over, I go. But not friends that I go out with. My husband is my best friend. I am my husband's best friend. We don't trust friends like that.
Peb ua neej nyob yog nej nyiam phooj ywg ces tau kev mob siab vim koj ruam xwb koj muab nyiam phooj ywg dhau ces thaum kawg koj thiaj li tau kev mob ntag.
Like I always say, Karma will come soon to them both
No BFFs here. All ladies I meet are acquaintances only. My husband and I don’t need to be best friends with any couples. We are happy with our own family.
You need no friends okay just your kids.
So sad. Your husband say "you women.." but hes the first to cheater. Smh. Well, glad you learned your lesson. Cant trust people too much.
Been here USA over 30 yrs... No bff. Just friends. You were too vulnerable. Now you know.
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Txawm li es wb ib niam txiv thiaj tsi tshua muaj PY os
You do it to yourself if you choose to save your face over all these, I don’t feel sad for you.
I’m sorry to say this but everything in life has a choice.
You get what you choose.
Koj tsis muaj los koj twb tsis yog ib tug zoo tiag. You let your friend get beat up by her husband, who then eventually kills her.
Good 😊 morning happy Sunday
Phooj ywg zoo npaum cas los tseeg tsis tau, yus tsuas paub tus tus kheej xwb. Nyob ib leeg zoo dua.
Sooo...sad for you💔, nkawd muaj zog kavtsij sib ua yeej tsis kav ntev. Tus neeg siab ntais ntuj yeej kawg puas tsuaj poob txomnyem tshaj plaws siav tsis tu.
Tus me niam tsev mob siab ua luaj li,Cas koj tsis mus yuav kiag tus kwv ntawv thiab,yuav rau qhov Kev khib siab xwb Nas
Kuv tsi muaj phooj ywg los kuv tsi tu siab li vim kuv tsi muaj sij hawm rau phooj ywg kuv lub sij hawm kuv muab rau kuv tus txiv thiab kuv cov me nyuam xwb. Phooj ywg tom work ces los tsev ces tas lawm xwb rov mus work mam tsov sib tham xwb .li no thiaj tsi mob hlwb li mej.
Takes two to tangle , don’t blame it all on the friends thing . If he does not cheat with your girlfriend it just be someone else ..
Wow!! You are that desperate for friends! Do you have to their besties all times??? I don't understand some people!!
Karma ALWAYS catches up with cheating losers like these in the story. I'd love to watch and see how karma will handle them.
Such bad luck on friendship. You are not meant to have good friends