🤦🏽‍♀️MY BIG CHOP WAS A MISTAKE !!! Big chop + regret applying relaxers to my hair, Natural hair Q&A

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 22 жов 2024

КОМЕНТАРІ • 13

  • @sofiatshobaloju885
    @sofiatshobaloju885 5 місяців тому +5

    That aspect of making peace with cutting my hair.😢
    How do I stop my self from regretting cutting my hair? I like having long hair and my relaxed hair was healthy too, not like it was damaged. Just like you, I just wanted to feel my natural hair, to know how it is. Ps: I don't intend going back to relaxed.
    What I'm just trying to say is that, it seems as if it would take years before it grow back and I miss having long hair already. I keep regretting and thinking that it would have been better off if I left the hair unrelaxed and let the natural hair grow out, without cutting the relaxed end. You know, 😅 at least, I'd still have my long hair.
    I'm just tired of this phase, I want to stop regretting and just make peace with the fact that it'd take a while.

    • @OluwayomiAkinfenwa
      @OluwayomiAkinfenwa 5 місяців тому +1

      I felt the same way but I’m learning to enjoy the process of my new hair journey. A friend even screamed and told me I look horrible with natural hair and that got me down for weeks, checking pictures of amazing things I used to do with my long relaxed hair.
      As I speak, I’m over that feeling and I just want to say pray about this journey. I don’t mean to sound spiritual but ask for the strength and grace to love yourself the way you are for now. I’ve grown 6 inches, I checked yesterday and I screamed at how far I’ve gone in 1yr.
      Help yourself, forgive yourself and *love you for you* ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️

    • @msnonny
      @msnonny  5 місяців тому +1

      Honestly I understand you but if you think about it too much, you won’t get to enjoy this short phase. Trust me it’s going to pass quickly and you won’t even realize you did a big chop.
      Just have patience and enjoy it as much as you can.

    • @msnonny
      @msnonny  5 місяців тому

      Thisssss📌📌📌

    • @sofiatshobaloju885
      @sofiatshobaloju885 5 місяців тому

      Thank you.❤️❤️

  • @candi1904
    @candi1904 5 місяців тому

    I was Natural for 8 years, mid back length, and Ive always missed and longed to to experience my relaxed hair just for a moment again. I got heat damage and relaxed my hair. It was beautiful, and looked liked bundles.
    I Relaxed From Feb to Aug 2022. Im back at it again, Im Glad I relaxed my hair, because it made me realize how much I LOVE my natural hair. Yes there are moment I regret it, because I dont like short hair, and have to wait for growth.
    But, Love is better the second time around,🥰, im going to do my first Wash and Go this weekend🤞 Good Luck Ladies!

    • @msnonny
      @msnonny  5 місяців тому

      👍👍👍💕

  • @0tismadaline
    @0tismadaline 5 місяців тому +3

    I might some day go natural to see how my natural hair looks like, but for now am enjoying my journey 😊great sharing ❤

    • @msnonny
      @msnonny  5 місяців тому

      Your hair has grown so much dear. I love it💕💕

  • @kumbukanibanda9559
    @kumbukanibanda9559 5 місяців тому +4

    Wow well answered and informative, it's really interesting that I am feeling the same way u felt about your natural hair, I mis my natural hair , I can't remember when I saw my natural hair, but one thing I see is that during stretching my relaxer I notice a very thick, strong natural hair, as I write have past 6 months of relaxing, I just love my natural not relaxed I hope I won't chop it too

    • @msnonny
      @msnonny  5 місяців тому +1

      Exactly how I felt 💕💕💕💕 Thanks for watching too.

  • @ARTAMISTHERAPPERYEAH
    @ARTAMISTHERAPPERYEAH 5 місяців тому +2

    The hair❤❤❤😻

    • @msnonny
      @msnonny  5 місяців тому

      🥰🥰❤️