Angry Twins Confront Their Father While Awaiting DNA Test Results | Iyanla: Fix My Life | OWN
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- Опубліковано 7 вер 2024
- Twins Cornelius III and Cornell try to reconcile their anger over having just been told their father Cornelius "Neil" Sewell Jr. (52) who abandoned them three decades earlier, might not even be the father they so longed to know. For more on #FIXMYLIFE, visit WatchOWN.tv/Iyanla
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Angry Twins Confront Their Father While Awaiting DNA Test Results | Iyanla: Fix My Life | OWN
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Y’all talk fast.... that’s how he talk. so you might not be my son! Just stop man, pathetic.. smh
Like?? Is he kidding with that reasoning???
😂 that's the evidence the way they talk
zizipho gcina he’s dead serious & that’s the sad part!
“He talks like that...he’s Jamaican!” 🤣🤣🤣 that was so foolish for him to say that...made no sense as to why he thought they weren’t his sons...cuz how they talk? Yeah, uh huh that’s funny! 😭
I think what he means is that he sees mannerisms in them that he saw in this other man. That's not an invalid observation. If the man has reasons to doubt paternity he's obviously going to latch onto other things as "possible" indicators until he finds out otherwise. The whole situation with everybody is ratchet from decades ago. For that reason I don't expect anybody in this situation to think clearly or objectively. I recently met my sibling that I never knew about til recent (I'm 50+). She and others in my father's (who I never met and is deceased now) family say that I have some of his mannerisms. I've never met him. So this guy has good reason to suspect based on what he knows (which we don't).
I actually understand where the twin is coming from. I feel like iyanla was dragging it out, and he wants to know the results. He's not trying to have a conversation/relationship with someone who was never around and who may not even be their dad.
BINGO!!!! AND IT MAKES A LOT OF SENSE TO ME!
BeautifulSamaria so true ...he could have came better than that.talking about it’s embarrassing ninja please 😒
She making them talk
Exactly
I don't think she's purposely dragging it out. She's giving everyone a chance to express themselves because it's a part of the healing process.
Dad is toxic and a manipulator. Conveniently the other man is dead. You talk fast... deflection at his finest . Daddy is a narcissist, nothing is ever his fault.
The brother in the middle is the silent killer, he look like he about to rush that daddy
They all look like they about to jump
Facts
Nah. middle one the quick rusher for sure
Yess he ready to attack one wrong move he ready to jump
You know what they say about silent ones, they can be deadly
He honestly has a right to want result before moving forward. His feelings are that he’s not there for any show, no props and empty conversation. He want RESULTS.
He’s right! If he is not his biological father than there’s no reason to sit at the same table with him.
PeriodT
Thank you! i knew i wasn't tripping lol
And that’s why the first son- said hurry up and show the results !
Just straight to the point lol .. He’s not messing with that Iyanla lol
Lol
You heard him, “damn the cup” lol
I died. Dam that cup
They want those results expeditiously
P Hardy I died
😂😂😂😂😂 mannnnn
Twin is mad as hell, but under all of that is hurt. His mother is gone and this man may not be his father. That’s a big whammy. Can you imagine how he will feel if the results come back that this man is not the father? I pray for him and his brothers.
Thanx love for the support 💯 we are moving on the best way we know how
@@PoetiikSoulja was he your dad
"you talk fast just like him, he was Jamaican." POS. As long as they don't talk slick and sloppy like this dude. I'ma pray for all three of them men.
Make sure ro watch saturday and any other dude would have trashed mouth their x. And my uncle never did that and he still kept it pg
Terry W So, he’s not the daddy ?
Where my Paternity Court Family at??? 👩🏾⚖️
I'm here 👋🏾
@@sonitaluvfamily Hayy 🤗💯
Lol they shouldve stopped by paternity court on the way to iyanla.
@@greeksun369 agree 😂😂😂😂😂
@@greeksun369 you saying tho 😂
He just told them, that their possible father is dead... just like that.. how must they feel?
Life Is Good that was cold
But she did tell them to ask their questions and that is a possibility that if he’s not their father, their real father would be dead. He wasn’t cold in his response because he didn’t even want to say it at first. It look like he was trying to avoid hurting their feelings with that part IMO
Iyanla: nobody’s talking about hugs and kisses we talking about how we can empty this cup
Twin: damn this cup I’m about the throw this b#t*h away
😱🤣🤣 best comeback
lmao!
We want the results cmon now
What were the results
He knows that he's the father. Running
Sorry but I’m with the brother...🤷🏿♀️
It’s ridiculous to suggest that a person can inherit a Jamaican accent. 🤦🏾♀️
Exactly
I feel the brother in the grey hoodie I felt his pain,hurt and anger
Iyanla got herself some real one! brother aint got time for no damn cup lol Im eager to see their growth and change and how she will break through with the older twin
Anonymous Unknown nah that’s real disrespectful
😂😂😂 You're right, He scary ,but Iyanla aint never scared..I feel him though, Now all of a sudden we not your Kids..Aint no sense in wasting your energy on a man who may not even be your Father.
Tomara Doss 💯
Tomara Doss 💯 we had to find out that bs in real time
@@derrellwashington5398 how is that disrespectful? The older brother is heated, was not going for anything Iyanla was saying. So yeah I'm eager to see how she is going to get through him. What exactly did I say that you deem disrespectful?
He has a major point, there is absolutely nothing to talk about without the DNA results.
ABSOLUTELY NOT!
"I'm throwing this b**** away dam the cup". Man had to rewind that again.
lmmfao!
Lady y I hollered! He got my WHOLE temperament💯
I understand he’s angry at his father or the man he’s known to be his father but I can can feel his violent temper through the video. He’s disrespectful towards the person trying to help them. But this is real life. The baby brother in the middle is sitting on go. The brother in the red is the mature one. I’m definitely praying for peace and understanding for this family. Peace and Blessings to all!
I understand exactly what he is saying. Why write Iyanla about your sons. Go on tv about your sons. Just to say hey they may not be my sons. They mom messed with a Jamaican. Like wtf?!?
Thank you! That was brand new information to me and it threw me off my vibration hard
Rather he is the father or not he still let them down. He still wasn't there for them.
What?
He said they talk Jamaican Lmfaoooo
Time Is illmatic 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣any excuse not to man up. 🤦🏾♀️
I'm throwing this bish away. Damn the cup ☕ ☕ ☕😂😂😂😂😂
☆Damn the cup!" He said he's tired!!☆
Twin is not here for me the TV shenanigans okurrr
Can't fault any of them for reacting as such.
The other two are observing like meerkats
Lol
Furred Vines I was just trying to make sure Twin wasn’t about to set it off then that day woulda went completely different... not to mention LEFT! 🔥
lol my bros stand with me always
🤣😂🤣... Buddy Hurt for real damn that Cup!!
#Anxiously Await'n Part 2 ....
Well she always want people to say how they feel. He said it very clearly.
Iyanla looks lost at how to deal with this. I would have the dad sit with each one individually. The one doing all the talking will probably be the first to forgive the dad once he calms down. The loudest one is usually the most sensitive and hurt, hence why they so emotional.
😂 lol he said dam these cup
J Clark 😂😂
I felt that tho....🤷🏽♀️
Felt it! Understood it! Agree with it!
Wow just telling them in this age that has the possibility that he is not the father👀👀👀👀 wow no words
This is ridiculous! Why did we wait a whole week for two minutes??? Are you kidding me? Is he the father or not?! GEESH!!!
WOW! HE SAID HE THROWING THE B**** AWAY! DAMN THE CUP😲POWERFUL!
These comments got me like WOW... can you, yourself even fathom the thought of the idea of the person who was told that is your father dropped a bomb like this on national television? I can, cuz I’m sitting there in the red ... Just wow 😮 Know that me and my brothers are moving forward the best way we know how 💯
Cornell C. Sewell i couldnt imagine, you and your brothers are so brave just know your story has touched many people out there and has helped many others in similar situations.
Preach Twin! We got this
I think the comments and people’s thoughts are in your favor! We feel for you guys....💔
NoXFilter Thanx love!! ❤️
Togetherwecanwmin That’s ultimately our hope is to help others with our story! Thanx for watching and supporting!
Oh, he mad mad 🤣
😂😂
Yea at that point I didn't care no more smh
@@redefine320 okaaayy😂. You reading comments ...Just know we felt you in that moment.
Revolve ☹️ I completely understand. As I watched you I thought, “Man, he’s mad”. And by the end of the video, I was like “oh he’s mad mad” (at his “dad”). You didn’t let up on him at all.
I’m sorry you and your brothers had to experience that. I hope that you all are properly healing.
I’m anxious to see the next episode. Thank you for being open and vulnerable. You DESERVE healing and a life full of love. ❤️
@@tomaradoss3420 yea they going in on me 😂🤣
That “father" is a con artist and will say or do anything to deflect from the fact that he was a DEADBEAT FATHER! Pray for healing for these young men. God bless you guys.
Oh he HURT HURT....i don't blame em😕
Phew- that guy has whoooole lot of anger. Kids need parents. Like they are SUPER important.
That man(their father)can't be that ignorant 🤦🏽♀️
The one personality trait I think that does not get talked about enough is that even after recovering from drugs, recovering addicts can still be very selfish, and self-absorbed. To watch these young men have to sit there and get swabs in the mouth (another violation) and that the father would allow that was heart breaking to watch. That is one thing they need to incorporate in 12 steps programs some stuff (his doubt) you need to take to the grave because after all you put them through when they thought he was their father, at least allow them that piece of integrity., These young men have already been through enough.
I'm with Twin! Damn the Cup! Before anything more let's see if we have any reason to even talk to him and resolve issues. The anger he has is all over him. Dad is just, they talk fast so that's why you doubt they are yours?
Off topic but they are FINE 😩... I hope they get their healing tho
Tee Deonia Thanx love ❤️
Thanks mami!
ok the hostility is not gonna serve to help anyone like......
I understand him saying before we proceed... can we find out for sure if this man is my father? He is ANGRY!!!
That part!!!!!
Not damn the cup 😭
Um, speaking fast is not necessarily something you are born with. It can be a learned behavior, for crying out loud.
He said he talk fast WTH that's his proof? He is a coward and a deadbeat those brothers are not missing out on nothing he was never there when they were young and he's not there now and it sounds like he don't want to be.
Cornell is a awesome and compassionate person.
He’s hurt. I don’t blame him for being hurt. I feel sorry for those boys. 😢
Why she act like she don’t get it, the young man want test results so he know if he wasting his time or not damn come on I don’t take a rocket science
Twin probably wanted to beat the hell out of pops with that cup!!🍵🍵🍵🍵🍵😠
RS lol
Wait wait wait...what were the results!?
It is embarrassing...to face
I don’t blame them at all you waited all of this time to say something
He right no sense moving on if he’s not his dad iyana want those ratings and money show man the results
EMBARRASSING!!!, forget that what’s real!!! Are you the father or naw? Dad is long overdue for some realness
I’m with the first brother. Let’s find out these results and then proceed with the questions. At best he’s a sperm donor. If that’s the case then maybe we can put in some work and establish a father/son relationship over time. But if he ain’t even a sperm donor...he can kick major rocks!!!!
Man i love Iyanla. She's so supportive and a great listener to her guests 💛💯
Right and so do I myself ❤
The pain is too palpable for healing to take place now.
I know he’s upset but damn cursing like that in fromt of an elder , that’s just riding, have some respect
That brotha hurt!
To be honest, that twin in the gray came in with an edge from the beginning. But he did state in the very beginning there was nothing his dad can do for him. He already made up his mind on how he was gonna deal with the situation. He was very rude to Iyanla as well. She a woman and even more, she’s old enough to be his mother. How would he feel if someone spoke to his wife like that?!?! Iyanla is only trying to help but there are sum ppl that just don’t wanna be helped!!
Real Recognize Real 👍👌
I'm not mad at his hurt and their anger. I feel slighted tho because regardless of the results he's grown. He been without a father and maneuvered. Results or not he obviously things it's going to make a difference otherwise he would not have shown up. To be mad because your not pleased with his answers is not his fault. But everyone is entitled to their view and perspective.
Kayla M. You hit it on the head! I completely agree!
Kayla M. You are 💯 correct Neil was not there for us but we still made it thru, to hear this news in real time was shocking.
No need to cuss and be so disrespectful!
The one with orange sweater , is so feisty lol hes like me ahhhaah
Adulthood is not about excuses after excuses after excuses. That’s all the old man knows. He’s the perpetual victim.
For once i agree with the guest that exercise was annoying damn the cup🙄👌🏾
The twin is not hurting the dad or Iyanla....
They His Kids .... They Look Too Much Like Him Especially By The Eyes
Boy JA we dat every way so cho 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😁😂🤣🤣😁😁😂
First of all Jamicans don't talk fast. This man is sorry just by looking at his posture is telling me a lot. Resposibility is not his strong suit. I feel bad for these young men.
I’m so sick of these men waiting till children are grown adults to begin a relationship or request a dna🙄 A DNA test is no more than $200. He coulda BEEN got that if he cared enough to know.
Hey all thats my uncle and his kids and continue to watch he kept the truth away abt alot of stuff out of respect and he did try to be in their lives but people made the decisions they made because he was an addict but he also had bad stuff happen to him
Terry W Trying isn’t good enough .. He choose Drugs over his children. It’s been almost 30 years and he’s still full of excuses .
Is he the father, you sound like a producer tryna get us to tune in.
@@brianichole smh he has seen them between that time and there were factors and walls put up also im not gonna speak on it. I never make excuses for him and i cant tell the whole story. U guys r just getting a piece thats it...hell my mom is an addict i make no excuses for either of them
@@j.riffney7939 lol no i swear i aint no producer thats my uncle
Terry W Ok. Thanks
So talking is a strong genetic feature now??? I have questions, because I sound nothing like my parents...🤣🤣🤣
I am from the South and it shocks people, because I speak very clearly, but fast ! Just natural...nobody else in my family does!
Just give him the results and quit dragging him through more crap!
He say damn the cup😂
Omg Prayers to you all! Continue to Stay Lifted in Healing & God! 🙏🙏
This was a great one. He is very real.. I shared my DNA story also felt great
I understand his anger, but the profanity...Smh... Where is the respect to Iyanla??
Exactly
Now tbhhhhhhhh they dont look like they dad
YES I SAID IT!! They showed a pic .. the twins don’t look like her either .
That don't mean a thing!
That Daddy needs to work on himself for a while before he tries to deal with them. Those twins baby pic looks just like him, it's the younger one that doesn't look like him. But that could just be he looks more like his mom.
First of all don't none of them have to look like him, to be his, sometimes kids kids just look like other relatives on either side of the family
He doesn’t see that all his pain and anger is keeping himself prisoner, it’s sad when people fight against Iyanla because really there only fighting against themselves!!!! What she is trying to teach him and show him is what will set him free, just a shame he can’t see that!!! X x
I understand they're angry, but have some respect for Mother Iyanla please!
Right
I’m with him. Damn the cup if you ain’t father!
Ready for the truth so I can cry for them 😢😢😢
This is up in the air. Them two twins are balding and the father is not . The twins do not look like the father. Yup I guess gotta wait for the results. I pray they are his kids and they can come to closure and peace.
Sr Azul I miss my hair 😭🤣
They have his eyes.
So is he the Daddy or Not
My man I'd BIG MAD right now!
I get that he's upset but he definitely needs to get that under control. I do wonder if that's how he talks to his wife and kid at home.
I feel the same because even before she told them about the possibility that he may not be the dad he seemed 100. And not to label people but he was in the military and I would assume he would have a little more respect towards her. His mouth is cray.
@@ursulaliving Right. Where is the respect? He could have expressed his urgency without the hostility.
But he hurt. He is mad hurt
He takes good care of his child and ensure he has his child in a good enviornment. The kids have been through alot thats why two of them are angry amd cornell is reserved he is hurt as well but he deals with it in a different way. Those young men had courage as well as my uncle to come on the show. There are some things that will come out in part 2 and there is some things that will be left out for respect. I can say that he tried to get clean ive been by his side for 16 years helping him thru the process. I am there but i keep it 100 too because my mom who is his sister is an addict and i too was raised by my grandmother and went thru things. But he has been there at different timea and then there were ppl trying to protect the boys from being around him. He isnt a violent guy he has his own inner issue and things that have taken place. He tried but it was just hard. He was ashamed. I remember the day he came to my grandmother and told her he tried herion. He has been to rehab numerous of times he was clean for 7years one time. But fell off again. He was clean again for almost 2 years before and he is clean now in therapy and really trying hard. All four men are hurting and yes he should of been there. I know those young men pain. A generation of pain. Just pray for them.
@@terryw5500 thank you for breaking it down. I understand. Healing is a process and probably not easy. Stay strong and hope everyone gets closer. Many blessings 🙏🙏💜❤
I don't think he is the father of any of the siblings.
Sorry as excuse for a father
Why name your child after a man if you’re not sure he’s the father??? And I hope they got this same beef with their mama.
This is what happened when ppl cheat it’s not just you it’s a generation u f up!! Come on ppl....!!!
I can't help but wonder if it was actually grace that kept them from the father in question...they may have had it worse had he been around...he just giving me that vibe, but I hope they all get what they need to be made whole.
They’re so angry 😔