Pretty Masehla ON checking in a Psychiatric ward because of her Marriage

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  • @amahKebonang
    @amahKebonang 2 місяці тому +30

    Guys this interview is not boring...She looks drained, plus she's still in her marriage,she can't jus dish out juicy ndabas for us,she's healing maan, healing is a journey...

  • @thetravelinghomemaker89
    @thetravelinghomemaker89 2 місяці тому +44

    I struggled to stay focused on this story,Promise did a great job with the questions, she saved this episode

    • @LifeWealthHarmony
      @LifeWealthHarmony 2 місяці тому +4

      Shuuu….. it was an interesting story but she didn’t tell it well.
      Promise did so well

    • @jayak8217
      @jayak8217 2 місяці тому

      You must not have ever had your heart broken. My heart broke all over again listening to this.

  • @sontomtolo473
    @sontomtolo473 2 місяці тому +15

    Let's be kind please, she's already going through a lot. Some of these comments are so insensitive, yhu ha.a!

  • @maggiebogadintsimako7100
    @maggiebogadintsimako7100 2 місяці тому +26

    Promise is an intelligence person, an expert,..she knows and understand her guest's different behaviors and capabilities..

  • @lebogangm234
    @lebogangm234 2 місяці тому +35

    I don’t usually comment on YT, but this was an important message for married women. Love yourself, regardless of the circumstances (good, bad or complicated). This will save a lot of women from mental health issues.

  • @nosisamohlakore5455
    @nosisamohlakore5455 2 місяці тому +15

    This lady is beautiful but she's emotionally, psychological and physical drained. She's so used to her toxic marriage and has accepted the situation. May God heal her. And i pray that it doesn't affect her children negatively.

    • @mashadimokgata871
      @mashadimokgata871 2 місяці тому

      She is accepting that the hubby is out of line and she will leave this marriage emotionally while present

  • @tebogomalumane4428
    @tebogomalumane4428 2 місяці тому +8

    Sister, o sejutlana se se botse. Nicely dressed. I wish you could see and understand that beauty is not defined by you weight or shape. You are beautiful sister😊

  • @jmp4660
    @jmp4660 2 місяці тому +17

    Your consistency to drop is amazing and commendable Promise. Much respect

  • @DikakanyoGoweditswe
    @DikakanyoGoweditswe 2 місяці тому +12

    Remember you are a good person. You can’t blame yourself for your husband’s inappropriate behavior. You look like a very good woman so please don’t let yourself down. Fight this thing even if it means getting out of the marriage. Your kids needs you and you can’t look after them when you are in and out of mental institution ❤❤❤

  • @leratomamabolo
    @leratomamabolo 2 місяці тому +7

    I loved this interview, thank you Promise. Your guest is so calm and she’s beautiful 😍.

  • @rakgadim.mohlala1324
    @rakgadim.mohlala1324 2 місяці тому +4

    Regardless of what happened, that wig is laid honey. Laid like a brick on good foundation. Also post natal depression and post natal psychosis is a real thing and can last for years if not identified and left untreated, most cases can be fatal. The fact that you were self aware of your mental and emotional shortcomings and took action, speaks volumes about your strength.

  • @MSTT691
    @MSTT691 2 місяці тому +9

    Stress impaired her speech 😭

  • @LuluthandoNongalo
    @LuluthandoNongalo 2 місяці тому +9

    Thank Goodness I didn’t skip the video because of you guys comments. I beg to differ. I think she does want to tell her story but this is not an easy topic and also maybe she’s not an outspoken person like the other guests hence she’s different. I loved the interview tho 20:20

  • @lufunok5968
    @lufunok5968 2 місяці тому +33

    she must come back when shes ready to talk

    • @user-Rerotlhe
      @user-Rerotlhe 2 місяці тому +3

      😂😂

    • @rudzanikharivhe6294
      @rudzanikharivhe6294 2 місяці тому +2

      I wasted my time, I was hoping to get the story but no I ddnt get anything

  • @sibongilenkwana8835
    @sibongilenkwana8835 2 місяці тому +8

    Such a beautiful woman my goodness❤

  • @ZolaNgemntu-v8t
    @ZolaNgemntu-v8t 2 місяці тому +2

    I love the angle of this conversation... Women must prioritise themselves while they are inside the Marriage, find yourselves, do Self Care, love yourselves👏👏👏

  • @leannelilly6611
    @leannelilly6611 2 місяці тому +7

    Im 20min in an im fustrated because we are not getting much context of her "story". She honestly CAME here to just make sure her husband knows how she feels without letting us in.

  • @ausi_dineo
    @ausi_dineo 2 місяці тому +4

    I loved the ending of the podcast. You ladies inspired me so much. “You can have it all, but it must include your sanity”🙂.
    All the best, both of you🤍.

  • @charliemohlala1572
    @charliemohlala1572 2 місяці тому +11

    Yooh sis promise your guest is not ready to talk.The whole interview was boring and big up to you sis for trying your best to keep it sailing.

    • @bellalekwadi9538
      @bellalekwadi9538 2 місяці тому +5

      She is going through a lot, she is still gathering information, identify solutions she is in the process of decision making let's give her time she will come to tell her story when it has came to an end😢

  • @dipuomanyike194
    @dipuomanyike194 2 місяці тому +6

    I was going to enjoy it with vernacular

  • @botse6088
    @botse6088 2 місяці тому +1

    Bathong ausi o opila hle. Otloba sharp. I am also learning, I agree with you ka taba ya banting, it's very healing shem, I find that I have less depression when I eat clean and I take better care of me. God is good

  • @moratouamolefe8677
    @moratouamolefe8677 2 місяці тому +8

    Self love ladies please❤❤

  • @zodwankutha
    @zodwankutha 2 місяці тому +22

    This is not an easy interview. The lady has been repeating herself and not stating exactly what happened

    • @philiswashereenmkhatshwa6833
      @philiswashereenmkhatshwa6833 2 місяці тому +10

      But Promise made sure she explains … She’s an amazing interviewer

    • @mphojanel
      @mphojanel 2 місяці тому +4

      Serious! Ga buwe sepe at all. 😂

    • @AyeshaBilal-wo1wr
      @AyeshaBilal-wo1wr 2 місяці тому +5

      ​@@MatshedisoThwabiso why contact the show if she's not gonna be forthcoming.

    • @MissCombs1511
      @MissCombs1511 2 місяці тому +14

      Normally when you have mental health issues (some), your mind replays the same things over and over so that's why she repeats herself. You would find that she speaks faster even when she is healthier. It might not be her fault.

  • @sazi7128
    @sazi7128 2 місяці тому +1

    Owam is was right when she said married woman should be advising each other about preventing diseases and taking PREP.....

  • @Queendollar83
    @Queendollar83 2 місяці тому +7

    This woman saddened me😔

  • @kwetsephetla3597
    @kwetsephetla3597 2 місяці тому +6

    This was crazy… the STI part shook me 💔.

  • @tsokho_tube
    @tsokho_tube 2 місяці тому +11

    Please interview madam speaker's ex and Latoya's ex I'm interested to hear their side!

  • @ModikweSentso-gr7nq
    @ModikweSentso-gr7nq 2 місяці тому +5

    Yeyi we will share that big piece of meat,my plate will not have meat😂😂😂.
    Even that bread we will share, I am not going hungry sana😂😂😂.

  • @Sasa77662
    @Sasa77662 2 місяці тому +1

    Waitsi keeng I’m glad ka this conversation

  • @sinegugumaphumulo4100
    @sinegugumaphumulo4100 2 місяці тому

    Yooo Promise esebenzile Sisi🙌🏽 you kept the conversation going ngoba the guest.....

  • @GLORIAMALOBA
    @GLORIAMALOBA 2 місяці тому +1

    The teacher Batho😂.Promise you tried.

  • @phuminkosi5283
    @phuminkosi5283 2 місяці тому +8

    I was sooo keen on hearing this lady's story; however it left me puzzled. I'm not sure if English is the problem here or what but the narration is all over; girl ga tlhalose pila, there's no build-up of events, Promise had to kind of force context out of her, okare ga batle go tlhalosa story so it makes it difficult for the viewer/listener to understand. I constantly had a question ya gori "so how did that come about". Maybe if she narrated in her home language it would've been better; nonetheless, thanks for the episode.

  • @EuniceNzuza
    @EuniceNzuza 2 місяці тому +4

    Yho its difficult to follow this story😢

  • @NoloM-de4zh
    @NoloM-de4zh 2 місяці тому

    So many adults are broken because of parents who chose to stay in toxic marriages….. kids see everything for years…. We as the new generation we really need to stop the cycle of “ im staying cz of our kids”
    Our kids deserve emotionally healthy parents

  • @Walla228
    @Walla228 2 місяці тому +4

    I like u Promise you listen and you stand your ground on your marriage.
    unlike this other Podcasters of which I don't know where they stand on marriage they celebrate divorce like an achievement

  • @katlegomashabela206
    @katlegomashabela206 2 місяці тому

    Loved this interview😃😃

  • @DiseboMtsweni
    @DiseboMtsweni 2 місяці тому +2

    I think this interview was going to be great if she was speaking Sepedi

  • @getrudemonga541
    @getrudemonga541 2 місяці тому

    As partners we must stop blaming, looing down on. Us,if spouses don't know what they want, they don't know period

  • @xolilemazibuko4390
    @xolilemazibuko4390 2 місяці тому

    "YOUR MARRIAGE IS THRIVING ON YOU SECRIFICING YOURSELF 💔

  • @ditopanchachi4876
    @ditopanchachi4876 2 місяці тому +2

    The confidence was not there from today's guest, which is contrary to what she was saying.

  • @CharmaineKgatla
    @CharmaineKgatla 2 місяці тому +1

    But Pretty 😍 shes Pretty 😍

  • @halacele8571
    @halacele8571 2 місяці тому +6

    Women would literally do anything for a man 😢😢😢😢I will never understand that part

    • @pheladitau6762
      @pheladitau6762 2 місяці тому

      It's a norm lala...men are lucky....they are always looked after

    • @SM-mh1kq
      @SM-mh1kq Місяць тому

      Growing up and having kids you see life differently..not hore you will do anything for a man...

  • @dikolizaskk5847
    @dikolizaskk5847 2 місяці тому

    Maar Banna batla re bolaya waitsi!! So true Promise

  • @letushilaalina
    @letushilaalina 2 місяці тому +4

    So after such an interview, one then goes back home and continue to think about the decision they might make "to stay or to live", so husbands do not watch these interviews oro?🤷😱

  • @bongythwala9840
    @bongythwala9840 2 місяці тому +2

    Shem bandla 😂 shadani bakithi ayy 😂😂am Married too ziyabuya lapha

  • @PemmyTshikovhele
    @PemmyTshikovhele 2 місяці тому +5

    Promise please offer guests drinks u get dry wen talking

  • @letushilaalina
    @letushilaalina 2 місяці тому +4

    Matric Certificate🤣🤣🤣

  • @lettitiasambumbu1266
    @lettitiasambumbu1266 2 місяці тому +1

    She never went to the mental hospital before she got married only after marriage, shooo.

  • @roseannbarrows5266
    @roseannbarrows5266 2 місяці тому +1

    I think this lady came on the podcast to show us her sash 😂

  • @mphomakgato9264
    @mphomakgato9264 2 місяці тому +2

    she is not getting straight to the point

  • @ThelifeofTuupsi
    @ThelifeofTuupsi 2 місяці тому

    Take care of yourself bby ,,, that marriage come last after You then your babies

  • @azukentapaneingazi1808
    @azukentapaneingazi1808 2 місяці тому +1

    Akakwazi kubalisa shame usisi uzifanela nam

  • @sazi7128
    @sazi7128 2 місяці тому +1

    Nothing learnt
    Nothing said
    Why did she come here?😏

    • @Boitumelo_Ngoako
      @Boitumelo_Ngoako 2 місяці тому +2

      She needed to talk and I think stress impaired her speech. Nna I get her, she'll be okay 💔

  • @mashadimokgata871
    @mashadimokgata871 2 місяці тому +3

    Girl one thing that I personally see and through you is that you will fall out of love while he is home, 😂🎉
    It's a good thing meaning it's a silent divorce.

  • @Unstoppablegoddess726
    @Unstoppablegoddess726 2 місяці тому +7

    What a boring interview..Promise is finishing sentences for this lady thats just smacking her lips I stopped listening😢

    • @moratouamolefe8677
      @moratouamolefe8677 2 місяці тому +5

      This person had a nervous breakdown , she's still not ok you can see

    • @PanaNorBobo
      @PanaNorBobo 2 місяці тому

      I lost my patience 5 minutes in 😢😢😢 bye

    • @SM-mh1kq
      @SM-mh1kq Місяць тому

      ​@PanaNorBobo I like because you picked invitation, by 5 minutes lelapa lea leboha

  • @patienceikombele9161
    @patienceikombele9161 2 місяці тому +9

    This interview is lacking something. The energy is low.

  • @lungiletsukulu2791
    @lungiletsukulu2791 2 місяці тому +6

    Yoh this interview was boring 😢😢 couldn’t even finish it

    • @mbalikambule6053
      @mbalikambule6053 2 місяці тому +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 how do adults.find stuff boring 😂😂😂

  • @jmp4660
    @jmp4660 2 місяці тому +4

    😂😂😂😂 lenyalo la Afrikaans- vat & sit.

    • @Lee_mo1
      @Lee_mo1 2 місяці тому

      😂😂😂😂

  • @QueenShaz-oc3qg
    @QueenShaz-oc3qg 2 місяці тому

    the fatigue in her voice, I feel like when she wrote to you she had a lot to say, mara now that she is here, goa pala, the things she is sharing are just the tip of the iceberg. healing comes from God mama

  • @duduzileseletela7519
    @duduzileseletela7519 2 місяці тому +1

    Iam sorry to be judgemental but English is not englishing TEACHER are the little ones going to pass... She is gorgeous though flawless ❤

  • @Miss_Sir2
    @Miss_Sir2 2 місяці тому +3

    Couldn’t finish the interview.. I tried but akuvumi

  • @xolilemazibuko4390
    @xolilemazibuko4390 2 місяці тому +1

    She sounds stressed and emotionally tired,I wonder how is she when she's teaching

  • @moratouamolefe8677
    @moratouamolefe8677 2 місяці тому +6

    This lady is still not ok you can see

  • @ngobeniboledimaggie
    @ngobeniboledimaggie 2 місяці тому +1

  • @NtswakiMpshe
    @NtswakiMpshe 2 місяці тому +5

    Why am I falling asleep🙃

  • @mercyjefutala5064
    @mercyjefutala5064 2 місяці тому +1

    Hey promise this interview was boring mma boring😭😭😭😭

  • @QuenitaNkopane
    @QuenitaNkopane 2 місяці тому +2

    Ur guest dont hve dat vavavum maaan haii

  • @Princess_Lehlohonolo
    @Princess_Lehlohonolo 2 місяці тому +1

    Yhooo this is probably the worst episode ever.

  • @pulengkoko497
    @pulengkoko497 Місяць тому

    Promise mara o pila...kore nje

  • @DorcasDeCelestino
    @DorcasDeCelestino 2 місяці тому

    This is dry

  • @italiatsotetsi8347
    @italiatsotetsi8347 2 місяці тому +2

    I know people who articulate themselves like the guest,let’s give her some grace 🫶🏻 she really wants to share her story however she is not a conversationalist,my sister is like her 😎it really takes patience when interacting with them
    Good job Promise 🥂🫶🏻🫶🏻