VLOG: Stepping out of my Comfort Zone, Selling my Wedding Ring, My Family Soup Recipe
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- Опубліковано 20 тра 2024
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2:02 Meat Haul (hahahaha)
5:11 How I've Made Friends as an Adult
6:57 A Whole Foods Moment
7:52 HOW TO MAKE OUR FAMILY SOUP!
12:30 Why I am Selling my Wedding Ring
15:54 A Winter OOTD
16:32 GRWM - Some Life Updates
18:17 A Nature Walk w Max
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---OPA’S SOUP RECIPE (with Michel’s twist)--
INGREDIENTS
-1lb pork sausage
-1 1/2 cup onion
-2 cloves garlic
-3 cans chicken broth
-2 cans diced tomatoes
-1 can butter beans
-2 cups spinach
-1 teaspoon oregano
-1 teaspoon basil
-salt + pepper to taste
-(optional), box of biscuit mix
-(optional), Parmesan to top
STEPS
-brown sausage in oil
-add in onion and garlic, sauté
-add in broth, tomatoes, beans and spices. bring to a boil
-mix and roll dumplings while you wait for the soup to come to a boil (about 1 TBSP of dough per dumpling)
-reduce to a simmer for 15 minutes
-add in spinach until wilted
-serve and top with Parmesan cheese
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I sold my wedding ring after my divorce too. It was such a big deal when I was young, to get the perfect ring. When I got remarried in my late-30s, the ring didn't matter to me. Having a supportive, loving, family-oriented partner was more important than anything!
Exactly what I think now. I cared so much about the ring.. was cute and special because I was going to wear it "forever" ha! I don't care about even having a wedding anymore but to have a truly good partner that is similar to me...
This made me tear up reading it. Beautiful🥺
I love this 🖤
Agree…my husband and I have been married almost 12 years (March coming up) and these passed years we haven’t wearing our rings party because I’ve been dealing with weight gain and lose (no point having many size rings) and my husband is a welder. We are actually happy with our lives and rings do not matter.
@@JYYB My husband and i started not wearing our wedding rings about 10 years ago. Also because of his job - being an upholsterer- and me gaining weight because of pregnancy. We're not "ring people". He's a man an i can't stand anything on my fingers. We sold them, used the money for something that we really needed. We've been married for 12 years now and still don't want rings. I'd like us to get ring tattooes, though, but my husband faints just at the sight of a needle.
My mom also went through a divorce when she was young. She sold her engagement ring and used the money to by another beautiful diamond ring. She wears it every day (on her right hand) as a reminder of the strength and resilience she had in one of the toughest times of her life. I still to this day have never seen her take it off and I have always admired the story behind it.
This is awesome!!
i LOVE this!
my ex came over and demanded my ring back… what a low life 🤣🤣🤣
I don't think there's anything wrong with selling the rings, he said he didn't want them back , so selling would be the best thing to do.
If you’re unable to sell your ring, I might suggest donating it to your church. The pastor can hopefully gift it to a couple who would like to get married but can’t afford a ring
Watching this video made me happy. Why? Because you have become so much more content and adventurous and just all around alive again. Your new season of life suits you so well! I am so happy to see that you have found a new normal. A new happiness. And I love to see it ❤️
Not me getting emotional at this comment 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
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I think you're going about your wedding ring situation perfectly, asking Brooke if he wanted it back and the idea you have about how to use the money, 100% love it, you could even turn the hotel idea into a mini series, like trying out a new hotel every month? Instead of subscription boxes you could do hotels or food places, might be fun
The advice I give for making friends as an adult, is to not over-analyse friendship. Friends and friendship can look a million different ways, don't worry about having the perfect, idea friendship. It doesn't matter how long you've known them, if you've hung out IRL before, what you have in common, there's no steadfast rule to friendship. A lot of the time, friendships are made subconsciously, just through chemistry and chatter. Depending on how you view friendship, you might have more friends than you realise 😊
Yes! And to add, not all friends have to be your go to- will know forever friends. You can have casual, hang out with sometimes friends as well! (This was a big realization for me)
SO WISE, I love this Ele!🤍
This is so helpful!!
This made me a little tearful, thank you
This took me 27 years (when I was 27) I am 30 now to realize friendships are those who you haven’t met or seen in a long time and when you get together it’s like you were never apart. No needs for a friend to be with you 24-7 or do things with you all the time.
I adore this advice for anyone who thinks is hard making friends. Thank you 🙏🏼
Anyone else get really excited every time Michel posts? 😅
I went to sell my rings as soon as I divorced my ex, and the guy only wanted to give me 150.00 at the pawn shop for diamonds. So I actually decided to keep it, and then I gave them to a homeless couple down by the Susquehanna river where I used to live.
Seriously the best thing I ever did was get rid of the constant reminder, I hope you find that comfort too!
I´m so proud of you for being brave and selling your wedding ring. I believe it´s going to hel in giving you the fresh start you´re looking for. Kuddos for doing the best you can every day to enjoy your life. xoxo
Thank you, Paulina 🥰
I don't think selling your rings is at all controversial! They were yours, and you can turn them into much happier adventures!❤
Hey Michel I recently found your channel out of nowhere. Let me tell you, we couldn’t be more different people haha.
One thing I want to say is how much your daily chats have reassured me, there is something so beautiful in mundane everyday life! I’m 22 and going through a divorce myself and it’s been really hard to readjust life.
Seeing you go through your day makes me happy to know that I am doing enough, even if it’s not anything spectacular (like finding a new Target.) I know you make it a point to share so other women to connect with but you managed to connect with this young LGBTQ guy and I think that’s special. 😊
This truly made my day. I’m so sorry you are going through a similar season of life but I can’t tell you how much it means to me that you are here with me. 🤍 here’s to healing together. Love you, friend!
I'm a new subscriber and let me just say that despite the difficulties that you have gone through in your past Michel, one word comes to mind when I see you in these vlogs. COURAGEOUS!! Michel, that is who you are. Seeing you get up, move on, and live life in your new normal gives me hope and encouragement. Go girl!
Freeze those soup leftovers! (: start saving glass jars for freezing things in - just leave a little room at the top
How do you thaw once frozen with a glass jar? Would freezer bag be ok too?
I like to use quart sized freezer bags for that
Would you believe I managed to eat it all this week?👀😂🤤
@@BePlushed thanks 😅 that make sense~
My most long-time friend admired my tea mugs so I sent her a set, and we meet regularly on videochat for tea! It's always such a nice visit and opportunity to connect, even across so many miles!
Im so glad you have Max. He is the sweetest boy. He reminds me so much of our sweet boy that we lost in a tragic accident a few years ago. I still miss him every single day. 😔
I think you’re doing the right thing by selling the rings.There are so many emotions attached to them so it just makes sense to let them go. You’re amazing girl.
Soup looks good!! Dumpling tip ( I love to cook) so place the dough in a ziplock bag. Snip the corner and gently squeeze small dumplings into the soup. ❤️
My Omi's soups were my favorite. They provided such comfort as a child. She and my Opa survived WWII in Austria and was an amazing woman. My Opa passed away before I was born but I can't wait to try yours!
I don't think you understand how much joy you bring to my life. Thank you 🥺♥️
Really enjoying your vlogs SO much! Thank you! ☺️💛
Loving your vlogs, and seeing you truly smile again. Blessings to you.
Love you Michel ❤️ wish you the best!
I really enjoy when you take us on errands or clothing shopping. I live in a snow covered area and I enjoy seeing something different.
The soup looks delicious 😋
Congrats on making it thru these couple of difficult days gracefully and beautifully
You inspire me so much ❤️❤️❤️
Woohoo love the vlogs dear! Just what I needed today! ❤️
That recipe looks amazing and love the minimal prep, definitely going to try this!
I just love you and your channel!!! You bring me so much joy 😊
Thank you so much for sharing that soup recipe! I'm excited to try it! 👏
You seem so much happier lately. Yay
Ahh makes me wanna cry!! 😭 I’ve been separated for about a year now and every time I think of selling my ring I just get super emotional!!! You are strong girl. I love watching your videos and I hope you had a good time at Bible study. It can be scary doing new things with different ppl but I know the one thing that’s getting me through this tough time is Jesus. ❤️ can’t wait for your next video.
I’m really proud of you that you are embracing this season of life. I’m glad to hear that you are letting go of the ring. Think of it as making space for something better. ❤️
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You are growing everyday. Be proud of yourself 💕
🐾 Thanks Max for sharing your toy with us 🐾 You both Stay Safe !!
Good for you, good decision!!! proud of you...going forward
You are handling the hard times of your life with so much grace 💖💖💖💖
I love being able to watch this new season of your life. I look forward to your videos every week. Sending you love ♥️✨
Thanks for showing the soup. It's really nice to see someone actually putting it together. Sounds like a well thought out plan for the rings
Max is just the sweetest boy - perfect daily companion for you! 💞 I am going to try that soup - looks delish! 👍🏼 Go you!
i am so proud of you
That was a great idea to sell your rings. Can't wait to see what you do with your cut of the proceeds ❤
I truly look forward to every one of your vlogs. This season has been hard beyond imagine for you, but thank you for showing up every week 💛
I'm a Pet Sitter in the UK and I looked after a dog that refused to use their garden for wees and poos. He even seemed scared to go in the back garden. He didn't even do what he needed to do until we got to the park which is a couple of blocks away up the hill. I tried all I knew to get him comfortable to go outside in the garden. Using treats, standing outside with, the dog, or letting him be outside alone while I was near the door inside. Giving him more time to sniff around on the walks. most walks he just used the park, then a couple of walks he did a wee during the walk before getting to the park. He seemed to relax at the park and not in his garden. I couldn't get him to use the garden though. Well done for getting Max to use your new garden.
I went to Greece a couple of years ago and it was amazing!!! Every island has a different vibe depending on what you’re into, so you can make the trip your own
You’re so Brave! I admire you.
This soup was so very good!! I shared it with friends cause like you I made more than I could possibly eat. I have now shared the recipe with them. BEST SOUP EVER!!!
Going with the flow and allowing myself to be spontaneous has given me the most cherished memories, the things I've experienced and friends I've made happened when I wasn't planning on it, I'm so glad you're getting to enjoy this season of your life 🙏❤️
Do whatever gives you joy!
Michel, you are thriving in your new life. I am so happy that you are exploring and experiencing new things that are out of your comfort zone!!!
You are a treasure and I’m so blessed to watch you everyday. As for your ring, do what helps you to heal.
My dream ring is from rosados box!!! Awesome to hear a shout out for them.
This vlog made me really happy I hope you keep up this beautiful attitude and being happy and being your wonderful true self ❤️
I am so excited for the Greece Trip possibly!!!! Something happy for you to look forward too! 💓
I cannot wait to start cooking on my own. Im nervous yet excited!
I am going to HAVE to try that soup recipe!! Thanks for sharing!! That's such a hard thing to do to sell your ring, but I love the way you are thinking about it and how you want to use the proceeds of it
Thank you so much for your vlogs! It is hard to get to hang out with my friends in person right now. So it is cool to be able to have you as a friend that is online. Thank you for sharing your journey. I love you.
I get excited every time I see you post! I’m currently out sick from work due to covid, but your videos give me all the cozy and warm vibes! I need to make that soup once I’m feeling better 😋
I sold mine as well. I felt exactly the same way...bad energy. You are doing great so far.
I enjoyed the cooking portion of this video so much Michel!! Thank you for sharing this special recipe. 🥰 I made this tonight and it was delicious. Please continue to post recipes/cooking (as long as that’s something that you enjoy as well)!
Honestly I love ur current content it’s giving me such good vibes
The recipe is so delicious! Thank you for sharing :) Also, totally support you stepping out of your comfort zone as it's not an easy thing to do.
you've been so inspiring to watch and have such a great personality!! 😊 and love your friendship advice! :))
Your plans sound great, I would so hang out with you and I'm 60 in two days! You seem like you would be a great friend! So very proud of you for getting on with your life girlie!! Your life had just begun!!
The soup looks sooo delicious!🥰
Hang in there.. good things happens to those who can wait.. it seems like you an honest, humble person, you will find the right person that would appreciate you in good times or in bad times. Hugs!
Good morning Michel I just wanted to say that your vlogs is sooo chilled and you are sweetheart and your editing is sooo good and you are amazing productive
Please show more cooking/recipes! Loved this part of the vlog. And I loved your first videos that were all cooking videos.
I wasn’t married but I did have an awful end to an engagement. Basically after the wedding was paid for he decided he can’t commit and left. He then demanded the ring back and I was too broken to argue. Fast forward 10 years I am happily married for 5 years, a stay at home mom of 2 little girls. It felt impossible in the moment to move on. I watch you and I wish I could have been as strong and positive at that time as you are. It’s inspiring how you have picked yourself up and created a new exciting life.
It's nobody's business but your own as to what you do with your rings!!! Enjoy whatever you decide.
Hey Michel 🌼
So happy to see another Vlog from you.
What a joy to see you flourishing.
Cooking is so relaxing and healing. Try Turning on some your fav tunes while you're cooking and dance in the kitchen... 🎶 🕺
It's so liberating 😁
On a personal note ~
I went to a new church, however meeting new people almost got the best of me....I drove around the church 3 times before finally parking...lol
Our new surroundings sometimes try to get the best of us.
Remember to "breathe"
Keep doing you girl 💞
I’m going to try your soup. It looks so yummy. I agree w/you about selling your wedding set. I actually did that myself. Hopefully, the next person to wear that ring, it will bring joy. You did what was right for you & your journey. Don’t let any negative comments (if there is any) ruin your happiness. 🥰
Thank you for being open to sharing where you stand with selling your ring. I wasn’t married but was engaged for three years, and this has motived me to go ahead and take this step as well. We haven’t been together for over two years, and the rings have just been collecting dust and taking up headspace. It’s going to feel good to purge this from my life and make more room for positive things🙂.
I have been a Butcher Box subscriber for several years now and I love them. The food is great, of course, but the customer service is what makes this company shine. Can't say enough about them. I'm happy to see you are doing so well.
I went on a 30 minute monologue to my mom yesterday about how incredible they are!😂🤍
Such a good vlog! You're such a comfort
I love your videos so much michel
That is a beautiful ring but I completely understand all the emotions you are going through with having it around. I think you made a good choice on disposing of it this way. It really warms my heart seeing you go out of your comfort zone and living life.
I have been watching for about a year …. And you have come such a long way. I want you to know you will be fine. And a comfort zone is meant to be pushed so you feel the change. Wow.. you are so strong. Happy New Year… 🎊 I wish you all the happiness and joy for the New Year🍷
Such a fun vlog! Can't wait to try the soup and see what you make in pottery class!
That’s so beautiful to do something for you and give to charity. I’m sorry it has to be under these circumstances
First of all, never worry about what others think. It’s your decision and your business.
I too sold my wedding ring and engage my ring that were absolutely beautiful and as much as I loved it, it felt better getting rid of them. You are doing great and it’s so fun to follow you thru all this, which I’ve been thru all of it myself. Makes you realize how strong you actually are for sure. Keep yo the good work 😊🙌💕
You’ve always been so pretty but since you’ve been on this new chapter of your life you are literally ✨ GLOWING ✨
Michel…I just wanted to thank you for being brave enough to share your journey with all of us. It’s truly inspiring and offers hope to me because like most humans we are going through something very challenging and it’s so nice to not feel alone. You are like a friend and your vlogs offer so much comfort. Also, you’re so lucky to have Max. It’s like he knew that you were going to have a hard time sharing how you felt about selling your wedding ring. Sweet boy. 🥰
Can never get enough of you girl 🤍 thank you for always being you! So excited to watch you grow into who you were always meant to be!
I hope you have a great day michel!☺ i just did laundry but i had run out of my truearth detergent strips i had to get something else for back up😂 i am currently waiting for my 2nd order to come in.
My 2 best friends live 3-6 hours away and back in 2020 we started having a weekly online game night and is been so nice to stay connected with being so far away.
Butter beans with a bit of olive oil & seasonings that you love & bake them on a cookie sheet at 350° until they are golden in color…….so delicious
Good plan with the rings.
I love that you have adjusted to single life and are so much happier these days. That recipe looks so good that I think I will make I but I not sure that I can that biscuit mix but I will try to find something similar.
I found you when I was off work recovering from surgery. You are such a blessing and bring happiness to so many including me. Your lighthearted and kind and you have a wonderful family and your pup is adorable. I got rid of my wedding ring too 👍🏻👍🏻 it’s just another way to move on
We've also got a family trip planned to China/Thailand at the end of the year, fingers crossed. Greece sounds amazing!
Hi Michel 😊Congrats on all you've done to move forward and make a happy life for yourself and Max.
*** If your rings don't sell...or sell for the amount you should get for them, consider doing what I did. Take them to the jeweler and have the center stone that you love so much and diamonds put into a pendant necklace. They can even melt down the bands to use to save on the cost for you and add more metal to it if they need to in order to make the setting. Or change the diamonds out for something else with color.....like sapphires, rubies, emeralds, etc. That's what I did...added blue sapphires. It turned out to be soooo beautiful in that new setting and no negative emotions were left lagging behind from the ring. That gave the stones new life away from that ring setting and brings me so much happiness every time I wear it.
Oh...and Max probably just needed some adjustment time too. His life has changed along with yours....moving, temp home and now a new home. *You'll Both Thrive there now that both of you are getting adjusted* ~Hugs ~
Oh my goodness I’m going to Greece and Turkey in August if everything is safe! ☺️💕 praying you get to go!
Cooking with Michel segments would be so fun! I love learning new recipes I’m not very creativity inclined when it comes to cooking 😂🥰 also wanted to add I’m so proud of you for getting out and exploring things you didn’t use to be comfortable with! ❤️❤️❤️
Will you do a get ready with me and share your makeup picks? Your skin and makeup always looks perfect.
I agree about returns! Feels like a waste of time but ya gotta do it sometimes!
I’m excited to try that soup it sounds and looks delicious
I've binge watched probably the last 6 months worth of your videos over the last few days and it's been so..inspiring and fun to watch this journey for you. Thanks for helping me get through my own little funks in this season. Much love ❤
It means so much that you’ve chosen to watch my journey!🖤🖤🖤
Same!