The issue is, the guy would have made know his intention to the family and have their approval first before impregnating the his brothers wife. Notwithstanding, let him let the family know. It can not be hidden for ever
First of all , love is a beautiful thing, it's ok if they're comfortable with each other but when it comes to issues like this, he should call the both family to talk about it. As it is, the lady can be rejected by the man's family and she might loose at the end of the day
The young man has not sone anything out of order at least some tradition amd culture allow such union. If the wife love him and agree to get on with him then they should make it known to their family and not run away because for how long will they continue running so they should just call their family and make seek their consent to move on with their life.
You are just making a mountain out of an anthill... The Yoruba would say where they want to plant Kola nuts, a special species of it has germinated...! 1. You have done a very good thing. Nobody can take care of your brother's children far better than you and their mother! You are still a bachelor and the woman is well behaved enough to merit the family's pass mark. They actually gave her a nod, when they approved of her staying in her husband's house till she found another person. 2. Culture wise, you are the one who should naturally inherit the woman as the junior brother. More so, as you have been the natural person shouldering the tasks of becoming responsible for your brother's assets (children) and liability (the school fees etc). 3. She's already pregnant. This means that both of you are fruitful and productive. 4. You are Man enough to be financially (re)assuring... This is a very important factor. PLEASE, DO NOT FEEL ASHAMED OF ANYTHING. YOU HAVE DONE WHAT SOME MEMBERS OF THE FAMILY HAVE PRAYED FOR. HOWEVER, the above notwithstanding, Please pray and ask God, if you can truly marry her. Seek His Approval too. We need to know that your senior brother's death was a mere coincidence and not Spiritual or premeditated! Visit three Prophets and inquire. Otherwise, go to God, pray and ask Him to meet you in dreams. HE Will...! Good luck!
With full chest, the deed has been done. Life goes on!
Enjoy happiness with whom you've found while it lasts.
You are not wrong if you are doing this with a sincere heart. Its better to let the family know to avoid their wrath later
The issue is, the guy would have made know his intention to the family and have their approval first before impregnating the his brothers wife. Notwithstanding, let him let the family know. It can not be hidden for ever
First of all , love is a beautiful thing, it's ok if they're comfortable with each other but when it comes to issues like this, he should call the both family to talk about it. As it is, the lady can be rejected by the man's family and she might loose at the end of the day
The young man has not sone anything out of order at least some tradition amd culture allow such union. If the wife love him and agree to get on with him then they should make it known to their family and not run away because for how long will they continue running so they should just call their family and make seek their consent to move on with their life.
You are just making a mountain out of an anthill...
The Yoruba would say where they want to plant Kola nuts, a special species of it has germinated...!
1. You have done a very good thing. Nobody can take care of your brother's children far better than you and their mother!
You are still a bachelor and the woman is well behaved enough to merit the family's pass mark. They actually gave her a nod, when they approved of her staying in her husband's house till she found another person.
2. Culture wise, you are the one who should naturally inherit the woman as the junior brother. More so, as you have been the natural person shouldering the tasks of becoming responsible for your brother's assets (children) and liability (the school fees etc).
3. She's already pregnant. This means that both of you are fruitful and productive.
4. You are Man enough to be financially (re)assuring... This is a very important factor.
PLEASE, DO NOT FEEL ASHAMED OF ANYTHING. YOU HAVE DONE WHAT SOME MEMBERS OF THE FAMILY HAVE PRAYED FOR.
HOWEVER, the above notwithstanding, Please pray and ask God, if you can truly marry her. Seek His Approval too.
We need to know that your senior brother's death was a mere coincidence and not Spiritual or premeditated!
Visit three Prophets and inquire. Otherwise, go to God, pray and ask Him to meet you in dreams. HE Will...!
Good luck!