i turned 30 this year and she’s absolutely right. everything you are ignoring and avoiding within will eventually catch up to you. it’s never to late to start though, learn to love on yourself ❤
I believe every girl should watch this video. Makes me realize I’ve always put myself in the back burner and loving others, and respecting them more than my own self to feel good about myself. This time I’m finally choosing myself, and loving myself before others. Thank you 🥰❤️
This video was right on time because I just got triggered today and realized my younger self don’t trust my current self. I have to build that trust within myself ❤ thank you for this. I’m definitely subbing
I never feel people through their videos, but YOU?! I found myself crying feeling lonely and sad and I put your video on and turned up. You are truly inspiring and incredible & your transparency with us is golden. It shows you live what you speak!
Baby girl, you’re killing it with the mindset! I’m 10 years your senior and I wish I had this mindset at your age. You will get everything you ever wanted if you continue the growth! It’s great to see the younger generation improving at a quicker pace. Thank you for dropping the gems queen!
I turned 32 this month of November and ladies let me just say the sooner you do what she is saying on this video the better. And the fact that you watching this is a sign you moving in the right direction. Now after watching this to get the most value out of it, take action! Start small like she said “Do your bed “, consistently every morning! All the best to everyone on the journey of levelling up. May God bring to your obit things that will steer you in the right direction. Thanks for this content Chamia Tiarra here is your flowers 💐
I was just saying this to my brother yesterday about myself. I let go of certain anchors and failed forward, as I’m becoming the woman that I know through God, is beyond capable. Thank you Queen 💕
I’m 24 years old too and i have tried a lot of things when i was 18-19 like selling lashes , outfits , and cosmetic products I don’t want to do that anymore either
I want to give you your flowers now, first I want to say you are absolutely gorgeous and that is the main reason why I love watching your videos 😂❤ but also this video just hit every single point that needed to be hit. This is to genuinely encourage you to keep going when I tell you, I listen to this and feel so much relatability from starting multiple businesses to, just learning about life and becoming a better woman and we’re the same age so I definitely feel like I really understand what you’re talking about like to be the same exact age and being in this transitional period of life thank you for showing up. Please continue to make this type of content. ❤❤
I definitely use to be this way! I use to hate manipulators. Now my no means no! I don't owe anyone an explanation and I only hang around people who respect my boundaries.
I love how you gave the example of how you tried many things and know what you want compared to people who don’t know what they want and then they don’t try anything. People are scared to fail.
Thank you so much for this I thank God for you & giving this message! I needed it & it helped me I took so many notes from this & im moving forward thank you sweet soul ! God Bless🙏🏾🥰🥰🫶🏿🫶🏿
Girl chill😢😢😢 you came in hot😅🔥 ......but lowkey EXACTLY what i needed. Im not mad tho😂 I've been burnt out for years. Running family businesses when crisis hit in 2019. About 5yrs no breaks and no leave. Always in GO mode just rolling with the punches. I'm worn out and exhausted. Dealing with Business struggles, family drama, failed relationships, infidelity, unfair female friendships, PCOS, financial challenges, schooling, unmet expectations, hmmmm. And there seems to be no escaping. Now i don't even know who i am and what i want in life. Im 31, single, overweight and borderline depressed. I know it's not over. Im working my way to move out, hire my replacement, sell off some assets, resign and take things slow. This is not how to live. This video is timely. Bless you
your character shines thru in this video, i honestly don't know why there aren't more comments. this one video in itself is literally the fix to my life (tho ik it'll take time). seriously thank you for your wisdom even at such a young age i feel like u know life's lessons so well 🥺❤️❤️✨️✨️
Listened to you while I did the workout I was supposed to do this morning at the gym at home and I even found a weight. This is day two of me working out I’m 3 months postpartum and this was my second pregnancy you def talked some sense into because I was laying on my couch with Netflix on scrolling and your video popped up. You made me get up while my kids were sleep to get my workout done and baby IM TIRED BUT FEELING ACCOMPLISHED 💚
Yess I love that for you, also congratulations on the new baby🫶🏾 I love that even with everything going on you still found time for YOU💕 also thank you for the support
Hey your page is a game changer I needed this I have heard it before but I came across your page and it's like a veil been lifted or it came across at a certain time in my life I already thought what you speak on but I've never put it into a tion till now keep doing what you do ❤
Yes mamas! You hit every point and I appreciate the bluntness. This is a great way to hear it especially when no one currently around you is experiencing it in such a similar manner…if they even are at all. Thank you ! 💐💓
i genuinely love you, i needed this video. i take care of myself quite well but i had a baby and I'm only 21, so its easy for myself to put me in a box and think I'm not capable of changing my life. but I'm working on that
Yes girl you got this🤞🏾 my mom got pregnant with me at 19 and still went on to get a masters degree. I’m not going to say it will be easy because it won’t but it will be a lot harder if you quit‼️ we are always our biggest competition, doesn’t matter who did “it” before you or “faster” than you I want you to know you can literally do ANYTHING you want with your baby right beside you in this thing called life❤️
Saved to favorites ❤ You definitely hit the nail on the head. This video blessed me. I’ve had my business for years but haven’t treated it with the seriousness that I should. I get up everyday frustrated when it’s my fault because I’m not doing what I need to do to push myself forward. You’re right, we wouldn’t take the saying one thing and doing another disappointment from a friend! So stop doing it to yourself! 👏🏾
i turned 30 this year and she’s absolutely right. everything you are ignoring and avoiding within will eventually catch up to you. it’s never to late to start though, learn to love on yourself ❤
Same girl claiming this decade 👏🏼👏🏼
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
You have yelled at me for 35minutes and 38 seconds and I loved it. Thank you 😮💨💚💚💚💚
I thought I was the only one who felt that way
“you can’t even pick up the trash off your floor” wait you’re right😂❤
😂😂🫶🏾
I believe every girl should watch this video. Makes me realize I’ve always put myself in the back burner and loving others, and respecting them more than my own self to feel good about myself. This time I’m finally choosing myself, and loving myself before others. Thank you 🥰❤️
Thank youu❤️
Not suppress that bank account! girl, facts are spoken there!
She ate me right up
Anyone else struggling with this right now?
honestly yess,and you’re really helping alot 😊,thank you
For sure year 24 is literally episode 1 of who do I want me to be/ who am I?
@@trinitidavis6876 yes I feel exactly the same way, I’ve been learning so much about myself at 24
Yes, I'm working on it, though❤
Preach girl! WISE! I need to get my life together today.
Ure flesh will always protest your spirit! She’s spitting facts!
This video was right on time because I just got triggered today and realized my younger self don’t trust my current self. I have to build that trust within myself ❤ thank you for this. I’m definitely subbing
🤍🤍🤍
I never feel people through their videos, but YOU?! I found myself crying feeling lonely and sad and I put your video on and turned up. You are truly inspiring and incredible & your transparency with us is golden. It shows you live what you speak!
Wow that’s so beautiful I’m so happy that it could help you, thank youu❤️
Baby girl, you’re killing it with the mindset! I’m 10 years your senior and I wish I had this mindset at your age. You will get everything you ever wanted if you continue the growth! It’s great to see the younger generation improving at a quicker pace. Thank you for dropping the gems queen!
I turned 32 this month of November and ladies let me just say the sooner you do what she is saying on this video the better.
And the fact that you watching this is a sign you moving in the right direction.
Now after watching this to get the most value out of it, take action! Start small like she said “Do your bed “, consistently every morning!
All the best to everyone on the journey of levelling up. May God bring to your obit things that will steer you in the right direction.
Thanks for this content Chamia Tiarra here is your flowers 💐
Thank you so much❤️
I was just saying this to my brother yesterday about myself. I let go of certain anchors and failed forward, as I’m becoming the woman that I know through God, is beyond capable. Thank you Queen 💕
I’m 24 years old too and i have tried a lot of things when i was 18-19 like selling lashes , outfits , and cosmetic products I don’t want to do that anymore either
I am 16 years old watching most if tour vudeos and it makes me want to love myself even more, I needed this THANK YOU! I need to be my safe space.
Wheewww, it’s like God put this video on my suggestion feed with purpose!🙏🏾Thank you! 👏🏾🔥
How do I like this several times 😅 ❤ " you don't trust yourself enough" hit hard though
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Girl, you STAY on point. WOW. Thank you for following through for you and enabling others to do the same in the process. ❤
I want to give you your flowers now, first I want to say you are absolutely gorgeous and that is the main reason why I love watching your videos 😂❤ but also this video just hit every single point that needed to be hit. This is to genuinely encourage you to keep going when I tell you, I listen to this and feel so much relatability from starting multiple businesses to, just learning about life and becoming a better woman and we’re the same age so I definitely feel like I really understand what you’re talking about like to be the same exact age and being in this transitional period of life thank you for showing up. Please continue to make this type of content. ❤❤
I definitely use to be this way! I use to hate manipulators. Now my no means no! I don't owe anyone an explanation and I only hang around people who respect my boundaries.
this video is so enlightening bc i have been so mad at myself for the past few years for not having a real relationship with myself😄
I love how you gave the example of how you tried many things and know what you want compared to people who don’t know what they want and then they don’t try anything. People are scared to fail.
The wrapper been on the floor 3-4 days pick it up now 😭😭
I legit can’t stop watching this video it really woke me up !!!!! I’m making a chance is ME FOR ME
☺️
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
24?! I’m excited for you thank you for sharing your insight/ perspective 🫶🏾
Wow omg feels like you were speaking directly to me, love your videos!🙌🏾✍🏾
I felt the same way!!!!!!!!
Thank you so much for this I thank God for you & giving this message! I needed it & it helped me I took so many notes from this & im moving forward thank you sweet soul ! God Bless🙏🏾🥰🥰🫶🏿🫶🏿
girl you got a podcast?? i would LOVEE to listen while doing my daily routines u clocked me HARD ♥🥲
Agreed!!!
not she clocking my tea omg😭🤏🏾
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Girl, I am almost 30 years old and this video inspired me. Thank you so much. Keep doing your thing.
Thank youu🫶🏾
The gym/ bed one definitely resonates so much 😭
Girl chill😢😢😢 you came in hot😅🔥 ......but lowkey EXACTLY what i needed. Im not mad tho😂
I've been burnt out for years. Running family businesses when crisis hit in 2019. About 5yrs no breaks and no leave. Always in GO mode just rolling with the punches. I'm worn out and exhausted. Dealing with Business struggles, family drama, failed relationships, infidelity, unfair female friendships, PCOS, financial challenges, schooling, unmet expectations, hmmmm. And there seems to be no escaping. Now i don't even know who i am and what i want in life. Im 31, single, overweight and borderline depressed. I know it's not over. Im working my way to move out, hire my replacement, sell off some assets, resign and take things slow. This is not how to live.
This video is timely. Bless you
It’s gonna be okay! Take her advice and show up for you. It’s gonna fall in place perfectly. I’m in the same situation
@@Nurse2026 wishing you the best too
I don’t even know you 1st time watching but I’m proud of you! You’re so young but your mind is so ahead of its time! Wisdom is such a blessing💜🥰
Thank youu🫶🏾
Right out the gate, baby girl was reading me up and down 😭🙌🏾❤️
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
your character shines thru in this video, i honestly don't know why there aren't more comments. this one video in itself is literally the fix to my life (tho ik it'll take time). seriously thank you for your wisdom even at such a young age i feel like u know life's lessons so well 🥺❤️❤️✨️✨️
So glad my feed sent me ths! You have read me for filth and I love it! Instant subscrbe! I'm an older woman, but you've taught me alot!
Thank you for this ! Finally someone who gets it and doesn’t sound narcissistic but sounds genuine with care. Thank you!!!
All your videos feel like the FT call I needed thank you for this 😢❤
called me out so hard!! I. really do need to start showing up for myself.
Yes, you gotta put YOU first💕
I know you made this for the girls but this just great advice in general. Excellent self reflection and awareness. Thanks for sharing.
Yesssss!!!! My 34 year old self needed to hear this!!! I’m currently on a self love/ healing journey and this video definitely helped me. ❤🙌🏽
Thank youu🫶🏾
amen girl this i finally pulled myself out of a depression and it’s because i started treating myself like a friend instead of my own enemy
Yes I love that🫶🏾
7:44 you just taught me one of the most important things in life with a few words💕
So happy I could do that🫶🏾
You are literally the only person that actually talks and I can literally understand and act on it. Thank you love❤
Listened to you while I did the workout I was supposed to do this morning at the gym at home and I even found a weight. This is day two of me working out I’m 3 months postpartum and this was my second pregnancy you def talked some sense into because I was laying on my couch with Netflix on scrolling and your video popped up. You made me get up while my kids were sleep to get my workout done and baby IM TIRED BUT FEELING ACCOMPLISHED 💚
Yess I love that for you, also congratulations on the new baby🫶🏾 I love that even with everything going on you still found time for YOU💕 also thank you for the support
You have such an old soul! Keep thriving your doing great 🤍
You snapped ngl
loved this~ everything you said resonated with me, i'm bout to lock in 🤧
This spoke to my soul and I want to say thank you cause I’ll definitely start to build a relationship with myself
Hey your page is a game changer I needed this I have heard it before but I came across your page and it's like a veil been lifted or it came across at a certain time in my life I already thought what you speak on but I've never put it into a tion till now keep doing what you do ❤
This video was soo impactful I had to re watch it I feel like baby girl
was talking to me !!!

Aww thank you so much I really appreciate that🫶🏾🫶🏾
Girl you blowing me away your amazing, very happy to be here !
Aww thank youu🫶🏾
Yes mamas! You hit every point and I appreciate the bluntness. This is a great way to hear it especially when no one currently around you is experiencing it in such a similar manner…if they even are at all. Thank you ! 💐💓
This video is full of wisdom ! I’m so proud of you keep going girl ! ❤️
Thank youu❤️
I was just listening but then actual looked at the video and girl you are STUNNING 😍😍 talk that talk to me bookie 🕺🏾
Thank youu🫶🏾🫶🏾
I Can relate to this statement.
New subscriber !!! And sending this to my group chat because YASSSS GIIRL I NEEDED THIS!! And ima play it back until it STICKS!!!!
Aww thank you so much for the support and im happy the video could help🫶🏾💕
Thank you for making this video bbz I really needed this wake up call
You ate this from the beginning to the end! Needed all 35 mins
Girl you need to be preacher! Such an amazing video!
Thank youu🫶🏾
I Needed this!! My mindset has to change !
Happy I could help🫶🏾
Wow at 7:25, YOU completely clocked me! Thank you because I really needed it. And you definitely gained a new subscriber 💕
I needed this at this moment. Thank you.
I'm in love with your honesty mam. This is the second video I've watched on your channel and I already look up to you like my big sis 🤗
Aww thank youu, that’s so sweet! ❤️
So young yet so enlightened❤
It's so easy to fall short sometimes
Thank you so much for your wisdom.
This face me the confidence I needed to move to NY
first 10 seconds you clocked my tea😂 immediately subscribed!!❤️🩹
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
I love how real and authentic your videos are it’s so relatable
Sigh. Thank you! I needed to hear this
I’m glad you liked it!💕
A word! Thank you for this🩷
Of course🫶🏾🫶🏾
Also, as well as a motivational speaker that will sell out arenas, your the best selling author in your future.
i genuinely love you, i needed this video. i take care of myself quite well but i had a baby and I'm only 21, so its easy for myself to put me in a box and think I'm not capable of changing my life. but I'm working on that
Yes girl you got this🤞🏾 my mom got pregnant with me at 19 and still went on to get a masters degree. I’m not going to say it will be easy because it won’t but it will be a lot harder if you quit‼️ we are always our biggest competition, doesn’t matter who did “it” before you or “faster” than you I want you to know you can literally do ANYTHING you want with your baby right beside you in this thing called life❤️
You need to suppress that bank account 😳🙌🏽 Clock that tea
😂😂🫶🏾
I subbed I will let you know I’m happy your video came on my feed I’m starting to heal and it’s been a very helpful video thank you 🙏
I’m happy to hear that, keep going you got this 🫶🏾
Beautifully said
Girl thank u so much, you’re so inspiring ❤
Thank you❤️
New subie❣️you clocked so much tea 😭 & I’m here for it 🥰🙂↕️
You better preach sister
Hey sis just wanted to say, I like your channel, you’re smart and beautiful. Keep it up! ❤
Saved to favorites ❤
You definitely hit the nail on the head. This video blessed me. I’ve had my business for years but haven’t treated it with the seriousness that I should. I get up everyday frustrated when it’s my fault because I’m not doing what I need to do to push myself forward.
You’re right, we wouldn’t take the saying one thing and doing another disappointment from a friend! So stop doing it to yourself! 👏🏾
Thanks ❤for picking up this topic
I needed to have this conversation, thanks 😊
DAMN, might as well call Ms Chamia a vampire the way she just came at my NECK in the first 3 seconds lmao no hi nothing 😂
I love this video, never change Chamia. This is so relatable.
edit: 7:22 SHE SPITTING - oh mannnn let me subscribe okay Chamia really talk that talk
Tough Love 🙌🏾💕☺️😁 I love it. I needed to hear this. Right on time.
This video is such a gem! Thank you!
I love this whole video ❤ I’m 18 and I still don’t know what to do I have lots of things I want to do but I just don’t know the path
I really needed to hear this!
Whew chile, I needed this read!!!
called me out but i needed this!
It’s all love😂❤️
Thank you for this ! I needed to hear this today ! ❤
love this video ❤️🔥🙏🏿 everything said was a reminder to keep going
Exactly what I need ❤
Yeah l put it on the back burner l have been lacking going to the gym
Thank you
When u just said my name i got chills... my name is Shamiyah, message received😭.
You SNAPPED!!!💯
Watching from the UK🤍 so glad to found this channel !
This was so helpful, Thank you ❤
🫶🏾🫶🏾 thank you for watching
I currently lost my job like last week on Wednesday n that was the most painful n stressful and loveing career I been worked at it tough me a lot