Take it from me, young man she’s very lovely. You guys look good together however do not keep insisting on getting closer with her. She keeps telling you she has a boyfriend for a reason. Take your time her friend I promise you it’ll turn the other way one thing you don’t wanna do is push her, OK just some advice from old school that understand what it takes patience is the key
I think it more attractive to a girl if you already have someone your seeing and not after you've broken up. It makes it look like you're making overtures to a girl based on the rebound.
Guy, she said she has a boyfriend and I think you should have respected it without pushing. Move on guy, when one road close, another opens. If you guys aren't acting, my advice to you is to stay away from that girl. Remember, Chinese men can be unpredictable when they are jealous.
She's seems like a really good friend. You should apologize and maintain her as a friend for life. She even gave you the way out by suggesting a girl for you. Don't push her away. She's gold as a good friend.dont ruin that by insisting. Respect her choice.
@@PrinceKwekuHeavensthis is a very bad look man. I get putting your cards in but daaaang she said no like 15 times and even said she had a boyfriend. You put her on the spot by asking this question on video. Actually that makes since that it would be fake and you guys agreed to do it just for a video.
Day by day, try not to rush her. She is a loyal person and a good example of what an honest person in a relationship should be. Things will happen Naturally in time. She is honest with her boyfriend should make you happy to have an honest friend.
Excellent title to this video " Worst Regret ". I can hardly believe that you would put yourself in this position. You have to know that even if you were able to persuade her away from her boyfriend to be with you, there's a good chance that some other guy could get her away from you down the road! That woman is a jewel and I can understand why you want her, she has may good qualities. She clearly told you 2 things: 1) she has a boyfriend 2) If she was single, then maybe yes! Just know the following bruh. The one who is for you isn't going to reject you, nor will you be in a position of having to lure her away from another guy, you really don't want that kinda thing on your conscience anyway. Continue in the path of self-developement towards being the best version of yourself (you can never go wrong with this) and guard your heart from such circumstances, best wishes bruh.
I really respect the lady but though it’s fine to make your intentions known but the push is not healthy. This girl genuinely likes you if not, she would have walk away. It’s naive to keep saying we can try something when she’s been very honest to you. You should show her respect for her decision and welcome it like loving but not just wanting what you want. SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND THAT SHE DOESN’T WANT TO DISAPPOINT.
@@PrinceKwekuHeavens that might be the case little bro, but you got to man the fuck up. You need to learn when there's the right situation to express yourself and the wrong. You say "feels better than keeping it inside", you got it all wrong. For one, if she is a bestie, you know she has a man, that's not new news to you. Secondly, why you building up feelings for something you outright know isn't available. Wouldn't it make more sense to invest your time and energy into another woman who isn't taken? And how can you get YOURSELF into a position where you're falling in love, when she is obviously not interested or giving off any flirty vibes? You are doing 101 all the things a simp does, and you're paying the price. That "it feels better out, than keeping inside", is the most simpesk line I have heard. Go read David DeAngelo "double your dating", or watch some videos on how to present yourself emotionally, and maturely to gain what you want. It will feel much better and much more powerful when you have control of your wants and desires.
@@PrinceKwekuHeavensYou are never going to be happy until you learn patience and respect. The girl at the gym was clearly interested but she wanted to take a long time in getting to merge your culture with her culture because issues will arise. You didn't respect that. Your friend has a boyfriend and you didn't respect that either. What is your rush with these women? Keep your 'feelings' to yourself. Women love a good mystery. Be a good friend and romance will come.
He's young and his testorone is raging..as long as she's pretty he's pretty much gaga!! He's confused and he's confusing me ..everytime I watch it's a diff girl ..lol
Actually, it's a good thing that he has actually disclosed his real feelings towards her and you can see that she's struggling with her emotions right now and is a definite test of her relationship with her bf. It's a no for now, but you can clearly see that she's contemplating at the back of her mind what a physical relationship is really like with an African guy, assuming her bf is not African so he shouldn't lose hope.
Bro i felt your pain. I was literally beating my chest after seeing you being rejected over and over again. it is painful, but she is right, she has to be faithful to her boyfriend. and that my friend, is who i called a super woman. But hey i bet you will find (the one), take this from me.
Man it's done you can't push someone to do what is not right. You want her to do wrong just for you to fill your wants. Stand in the background if not you might lose your friendship 💯💯💯💯💯💯👍🏾
This girl is great cause she is very committed to her BF. You are obviously too young, immature, if you can't wait for a girl who wants to take things slow.. You just proved to to the gym girl, Fan Fan that you are a player bro... you should have said "April Fools Joke" at the end!
@@PrinceKwekuHeavensbrother, that girl is fine! If you don't take that dream girl you met, then I'll go over there and snatch her up. 🤣🤣🤣 Ain't no shame in my game. That other girl that wanna take it slow is gorgeous!
Respect the woman. She said, she has a boyfriend. Are you asking her to cheat? Just be her friend. If things do not work outwith her friend, she knows how you feel about her. Have patience and think with your head, not your pants.
From my experiences with woman you have to let them decide when theyre ready to get closer to you. In the meantime you have to stay detached and just focus on having fun. Never take things personal if shes not interested or if shes taken, and dont be pushy.
Guys Listen up ". This is exactly why Steve Harvey said that men should not let their girlfriend have guy friends. Sooner or later that guy friend is watching hoping and gonna make a move when the time is right 👍
Aaah, so you want her to cheat on her boyfriend or what!. Would you be happy if another guy press on your girlfriend in this way !, aaah my guy this is so bad!. How would you feel if is your girlfriend and a guy keep persisting this way, this is so bad !!
@@PrinceKwekuHeavens , I understand bro, I have been in such situation before, but the moment she keeps saying no, you don’t persist by all means. Relationship leading to marriage ( maybe) is not joke, you know the Chinese society, if say things doesn’t work between both of you in the future and she had already left her boyfriend, you would know how difficult if not impossible to find another partner in China, not sure she can bear that and the pains she would go through forever, you wouldn’t be happy, sometimes if love a flower you don’t always pluck it, you water less it withers. Back in Uni, I saw a lady I admired so much even dreamt about her most times, a very noble woman, after telling her how I felt she told me she was in a serious relationship, I just let it be, not sure where she is now though but I moved on fine, I still remember her d.o.b and wish her sometimes, but such is life, some would be for you, others not for you, persisting on a lady to leave the partner for you to me is not an ideal situation, same way you feel for her, could be same way the partner also feels for her. Just let her go, and who knows what is ahead. As a man, you must know when to leave the table, the same could be pointed at you. Remember what goes around, comes around, and you may not like it should the table turns. Peace ✌️
A person must do things on his or her own volition. No pressures. One cannot force another to love him or her. The lady said no. She further stated that she has a boyfriend then accept her words and move on. Hurry birds do not build good nest. Please respect her decision.
Don't lose a best friend by trying to make things romantic. If you continue to push, she'll just pull away. The other girl really liked you, but you can't rush a relationship. If she wants to spend time with you and get to know you at her pace, go with the flow become friends first. Let things progress naturally and your friendship will blossom into something beautiful ( like a flower). I'd give it another shot with the girl you went on a date with. She's a keeper.
You are not a good person how would you like if you had a girlfriend and she cheat on you how would you feel? You don't love a girl for who they are Seems you don't want a true relationship otherwise you'd wait and work for what you want. Imagine you want your friend to leave her boyfriend and come to you no good. Shame on you and you are do damn persistent. Stop pressuring the girl. Good girl keep it up!!
He really feeling her in is heart ♥️ of love ❤️ but is not good to break up a person from her boyfriend just be her friend you never no what might happen down the road you might win her heart ♥️ one day just give it time my brother no rush in a relationship it takes time okay that is real love ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
She is committed my guy, you really tried. I think its best on your next proposal to a beautiful chinese girl, don't take the camera, you will make a video to announce to us when you managed. That's why your girl kept thinking that you are joking(prank). Also visit a Marriage market, plenty of beautiful chinese girls who will throw themselves at you without any effort bro. I think you are one of the best charmers out there, you delivered what you wanted to say gracefully
Brother, I felt myself in your shoes because your same situation kept happening with me time and time again years ago. It is such a pain in the ass, but we cannot always succeed sadly. But you gave it a nice try at least.
She is a great person and I think you should respect her. She is principled, guy you need to be principled also she is your partner and you know she has a boyfriend. Just back off and keep the respect between both of you
Its always difficult for an inexperienced young man who meets a beautiful girl. Its normally tough for him to keep the jitters away, but that can spoil the date and getting to know each other because he may have expectations, and he may just be disappointed if she doesn't share the same. Later on in life having experience may change that.
No no mu brother just move on and respect or answer 💯 she will be a goos friend to u okay wish u all the best u will find the right one for u there is millions of girl in China ❤❤❤❤❤
Don't "Ever tell a girl how you feel"!! The play is to have her begging just to be with you! THE MOST IMPORTANT THING WHEN EVALUATING A MATE IS THIS! . . . DOES IT MAKE HER HAPPY TO SEE YOU HAPPY! Believe me you don't want a woman who would just drop her boyfriend to be with you! That means that she would also dump you for another man! JUST PICK YOUR HEART UP OFF THE FLOOR AND MOVE ON!! 😭😭😢😢
Let's consider two things: 1) If she is a "bestie" he knew about the bf and went ahead anyway 2) She states she has a bf and he continues to push the subject I see from his response to comments down here that he even knows who the bf is. And I also see he keeps saying "best to tell than to hold the feelings". So this guy just lost a friend, because the bf for sure will learn about this video and not be comfortable. And, to finish off my comment, he has also probably alienised himself from other female friends, especially those too with bf's, in the hope he doesn't try this shit with them. Well done bro, 0 lack of control of your emotions, and 0 integrity. This video is a huge L for you. But you getting views so silver lining I guess.
That's the easiest way to get friendzoned. It's one of the biggest simp moves a guy can do. Never let your female friend know that you're in love with her. You have to give her less attention so that she can see that other women want you. Most women choose guys based on preselection. If she knows other women want to hook with you, then this will build curiosity. Now it becomes a competition for her. Think outside the box.
You know women.👍 they will probably ignore you on first glance, but once they see you talking or being around other women, they will come to you. And if you are a detached person, just focusing on yourself, they will come also.
Don't make it a big deal, and don't insist.You were brave to claim your feeling and your intention, you can still work together but you have to stay professional and never talk about this again with her or blame her even in a joke.That will create respect and admiration to you. Last thing, go find another girl.Keep going young brother
After I seen this video for the second time and I realized that I can’t blame you for having feelings for her she’s really cute and attractive in a addictive way that nearly no man can resist however like I stated before when Chinese girls in a existing relationship it’s better not to intervene unless she has issues with her boyfriend and things are not working out between them then that will be the moment you can step in to comfort her and help her emotionally therefore there might be a chance for you to chime in with her if she is willing to accept you as her new boyfriend
If you’re reading what everyone is saying , I can agree. My friend I think you should have waited and kept moving forward. You knew she was with someone and what if that would have happen to you and someone who was close to her tells her to leave you? Try to put yourself in the boyfriend’s shoes. How would you feel if she would have done it to you if you were with her. Don’t push the issue but instead improve on the friendship.
sorry my brother for what happened , we are supporting you , it better to let her know about your feelings , it is not easy but you did it But also i really appreciate your channel and what you share with us, since today i will always follow your channel. never give up brother she knows already your feelings so keep going on and i truest she will love you back cause her feelings might be there but the only problem is that you face someone who is in a couple
This tastes like planned to create content cuz it's weird. Chasing girls desperately to this extent. You're 25 and might be ruining chances of getting someone. But I understand you cuz I'm 35. Hormones are too high. And you don't understand peer pressure until you approach 30. You've tasted enough girls, you said 7, but let's make it 10. I can't tell you to stop looking for a girl for a year or two but I understand your age. For me at 35 I'm not looking for one but I need till I fix financial issues completely, which is going real well. That's shows seriousness, learning, or hurt or played around with or got time wasted. Good thing you're building yourself up. Seems you don't keep relationships which is something to work on and borrow advice from above your age, both sexes.
At this point I kinda do hope that it’s planned because it’s kinda weird to tell a girl that he knows has a boyfriend he likes her on camera. Makes him look a bit like a home wrecker.
Just watched two videos and from word go i had a feeling my bro was gonna fumble it, bro patience is not a strong forte to you so take your L as man am sure you will learn 😂
sometimes its just better to keep some stuff to yourself but its good to releaase it to but be carefull. we will learn by time to time. stuff like these can only makes you stronger brother dont you worry, you can get much more then you think.
Just give her that time of her life ❤❤❤❤❤❤you never no is a good thing you open up your heart ♥️ to her just give her time ❤❤❤❤stop pushing yourself to her okay 👍 time is the master okay ❤❤❤❤❤
Oh,boy this was an unexpected bombshell but I am not surprised,always thought that you're a great match up with her from day one apart from Shawnee. Your love life is worthy of an Amazon Prime series!😂 But I think it’s probably best to let her know your real feelings for her rather than just bottling it all up inside you. But I still wouldn't give up hope though,at least now she knows where she is with you,and she's only saying no for now because it was all so sudden and came as a shock to her plus she was on camera and didn’t want to appear like she's cheating on him! Trust me,she'll have a change of heart and reconsider her decision when she has had time to reflect on this. But at least,both of you can discuss this freely now! Don't lose hope bro,because trust me girls want to try out options as well and she's now aware that she's in an enviable position knowing that 2 guys are in love with her!😂 don't forget, persistence pays at the end of the day,you'll get your prize eventually!😂 Is her bf Chinese?
Damn, she has said to you FIVE TIMES that she has someone. Move on to another subject, or thank her for meeting with you and go home. You apparently don't understand the meaning of the word "NO".
Go find your own bro,this woman is sincere and very strong respect her decision and keep her friendship.Do you want someone pouncing on your girl?Hell No just drop it and be happy for her friendship and yeah her boyfriend trust her with you
I admire that you opened up to this beautiful lady. No one knows the future patience is key...but turn the tables, if you were her boyfriend and another girl approached YOU this way, what would your reaction be? just sharing a thought...
We men have all made this mistake before, and some in desperation like it seems on this video. Once we do this, the friendship is over. Girls will never see you as a "brother or friend" after that. If you have a female friend that you start to fall in love with and she has a boyfriend, you got to be very patient and wait until the opportunity comes. But, I strongly recommend to look for someone else and spend less time with your "friend". It's miserable to have feelings for a girl, while she has a boyfriend and you are in the friend-zone.
You are so extremely handsome 😍and why are you going to look at a woman with a boyfriend, if she is unfaithful to her boyfriend, rest assured that later she will be unfaithful to you with another person and also starting with someone Just out of a relationship is not good . because she still hasn't cleared his mind, her feelings, etc... you are beautifully handsome, keep going because someone has to be completely free to be able to have a relationship.
Here goes bro. A LITTLE LONG BUT IT'S WORTH IT! 11 Things. You are committing a lot of unforced errors and doing, saying, insisting, pushing in all the wrong directions. That's why you are striking out with the women you want most! Here are some things to do and not do. 1. Women are women, but you are in a foreign country that have different norms and values and cultures. You can win, but you can't treat it the same way like in your home country. 2. When a woman wants to be with you, she will let you know in direct, indirect, and in subtle ways. Listen to how she talks to you... as a friend or as someone she's interested in. Does she touch you when she talks to you? Does she seem excited to see you and does she open up her schedule to spend time with you? 3. Your Bestie was shocked to hear you say you had romantic feelings for her. She looked at you like you were her brother telling her you want to be with her. And a woman who's interested in you will NEVER refer you to one of her friends or associates. NEVER! So leave her alone from a romantic stand point. 4. Stop with the "I want to marry you" on first dates, second dates...etc. Just freaking stop it. You did this with Farfan and haven't you learned yet that for 90% of the women, it's just too darn fast. STOP IT BRO! You can tell a woman you're interested in her without telling her you're in love with her or want to marry her instantly. What's the rush? It's a turn off if the feeling isn't mutual. TRUST ME ON THIS ONE! 5. THIS IS A BIGGIE: You post everything online and you talk to much about your interest in other women. The women you're interested in see your videos bro. Do you even realize that? You act as though they don't. Come on man. You can't tell Farfan you want to marry her then post a video with another woman telling her you're interested in her too. And they ALL see it.🤦♂🤦♂🤦♂ 6. Separate you youtube video business from your personal dating life. Don't look like a man whore on youtube and be consistent and congruent. 7. Someone said in your Breakup video with Farfan that you told her you had sex 2 weeks earlier and you had been already seeing Farfan for a month already. That was dumbass bro. SHUT UP! STOP TALKING TOO MUCH. STOP EXPOSING ALL YOUR PERSONAL BUSINESS ONLINE. Farfan probably waited a few days or weeks to think over it and decided to cut you for it. 8. Control your emotions and let the women come to you. And be smart. Don't answer every question that is asked. Some things are personal and keep it that way even with your girl. It will save your butt. And don't post it online either. 9. The reason you move slow and not try to rush it is because pushing and rushing it makes you look desperate, lack confidence, controlling, and have no swag. Women like men who are confident and begging isn't a confident trait. 10. Every woman of the same and of a different culture must also meet your standard as a wife too. It can't just be her looks and her nice looking a$$ or just your body. What do you expect from her? She's looking to see if you're a man of booty only or of substance. A man of substance eventually gets the booty too. Just so you know. 11. Finally, make sure she can handle any heat your interracial relationship is going to take. Otherwise, she will quit on you when the goings get tough. That's why YOU should slow down and take your time and vet every woman you have a high interest in. I got all this just by watching about three of your videos. No one will take the time to tell you all these unforced errors you are constantly making. Do your videos and interviews, but don't express interest in a woman online and post it. Do it offline. This happened to another African brother with a Chinese lady he met at a Chinese marriage market and they hit it off. They both were publicly online posting great videos. She got highly criticized online by Chinese men in particular for being with him and she ended it. The Black/Chinese couples that make it, aren't online for the most part. Follow their lead.
Dude is down right ignorant. The other lady is family oriented but that is not what he is looking for because he wants to sleep with her and not build a life together with marriage after courting for sometime.
She said she has a boyfriend. Let it go. Stop pressuring her. If you keep this up, you're going to push her away, and she will have no choice but to end the friendship. Please be a gentleman and respect her and her relationship.
Take it from me, young man she’s very lovely. You guys look good together however do not keep insisting on getting closer with her. She keeps telling you she has a boyfriend for a reason. Take your time her friend I promise you it’ll turn the other way one thing you don’t wanna do is push her, OK just some advice from old school that understand what it takes patience is the key
Appreciate the advice OG
Wakiki😂 she has a boyfriend okay 😂
😬😂
I think it more attractive to a girl if you already have someone your seeing and not after you've broken up. It makes it look like you're making overtures to a girl based on the rebound.
That’s a point tho
Guy, she said she has a boyfriend and I think you should have respected it without pushing. Move on guy, when one road close, another opens. If you guys aren't acting, my advice to you is to stay away from that girl. Remember, Chinese men can be unpredictable when they are jealous.
Advice taken brother
She's seems like a really good friend. You should apologize and maintain her as a friend for life. She even gave you the way out by suggesting a girl for you. Don't push her away. She's gold as a good friend.dont ruin that by insisting. Respect her choice.
You r right,now she will not ever be comfortable around him anymore!
All because he kept pushing!😮😢
She is a strong woman by standing on principle…🔥
Right
Let it go bro , she is sincere to her boyfriend , you would want the same
Okay brother
Alright brother
You should have just tried to get the booty. She played your dumb butt
He’s a player 😮
He is a huge red flag lmao
She is so mature and firm. He has to let go. And respect her words of wisdom. I really admiere she did not just walk way. yet he persisted. Let it go.
Are you trying to tell her to dump her boyfriend and come to you? that so wrong for you to do that please stop don't pressure her
Amen!
She said no. Move on
She has a boyfriend. The end.
Right
If only it was that simple
The lady is all class.
That's the best comment on this matter so far!
She knows how to behave. The Prince has lessons to learn.
@dover121 definitely i will 👌🏾
And keeps saying he is still going to try??
Bro don’t ask her to cheat
I didn’t, was just throwing in my cards
Terrible conduct and dispicable in behaviour. Do better.
@@PrinceKwekuHeavensthis is a very bad look man. I get putting your cards in but daaaang she said no like 15 times and even said she had a boyfriend. You put her on the spot by asking this question on video. Actually that makes since that it would be fake and you guys agreed to do it just for a video.
Day by day, try not to rush her. She is a loyal person and a good example of what an honest person in a relationship should be.
Things will happen Naturally in time. She is honest with her boyfriend should make you happy to have an honest friend.
Sure thing
You are making a VERY BIG MISTAKE. Don’t rush a woman. Develop the chemistry and things will work out naturally.
Okay sure
There is no chemistry to develope here. If the man or woman explains with dignity that they are with someone. This should be respected and understood.
Never ever express how much you like her when you are dating.
Okay
Excellent title to this video " Worst Regret ". I can hardly believe that you would put yourself in this position. You have to know that even if you were able to persuade her away from her boyfriend to be with you, there's a good chance that some other guy could get her away from you down the road! That woman is a jewel and I can understand why you want her, she has may good qualities. She clearly told you 2 things: 1) she has a boyfriend 2) If she was single, then maybe yes! Just know the following bruh. The one who is for you isn't going to reject you, nor will you be in a position of having to lure her away from another guy, you really don't want that kinda thing on your conscience anyway. Continue in the path of self-developement towards being the best version of yourself (you can never go wrong with this) and guard your heart from such circumstances, best wishes bruh.
Appreciate the advice Clifford 🫶🏾
I really respect the lady but though it’s fine to make your intentions known but the push is not healthy. This girl genuinely likes you if not, she would have walk away.
It’s naive to keep saying we can try something when she’s been very honest to you.
You should show her respect for her decision and welcome it like loving but not just wanting what you want. SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND THAT SHE DOESN’T WANT TO DISAPPOINT.
Bro stop she has a boy friend that's disrespectful keep it moving
Bro, you have cleared the biggest obstacle, and yet you are so impatient.You should just allow the the friendship to develop naturally.💯❤️❤️🙏🙏
She is so so loyal and faithful to her boyfriend, some lucky guy he is...
I don't understand. If someone is telling you she has a boyfriend, why push it? What are you teaching the young ones????,
Wanted her to know how i feel about her, feels better than just keeping it inside me
@@PrinceKwekuHeavens that might be the case little bro, but you got to man the fuck up. You need to learn when there's the right situation to express yourself and the wrong. You say "feels better than keeping it inside", you got it all wrong. For one, if she is a bestie, you know she has a man, that's not new news to you. Secondly, why you building up feelings for something you outright know isn't available. Wouldn't it make more sense to invest your time and energy into another woman who isn't taken? And how can you get YOURSELF into a position where you're falling in love, when she is obviously not interested or giving off any flirty vibes?
You are doing 101 all the things a simp does, and you're paying the price. That "it feels better out, than keeping inside", is the most simpesk line I have heard.
Go read David DeAngelo "double your dating", or watch some videos on how to present yourself emotionally, and maturely to gain what you want. It will feel much better and much more powerful when you have control of your wants and desires.
This guy has ZERO chill and game. He couldn’t get ANY girl with his approach.
🤦🏾♂️
@@PrinceKwekuHeavensYou are never going to be happy until you learn patience and respect. The girl at the gym was clearly interested but she wanted to take a long time in getting to merge your culture with her culture because issues will arise. You didn't respect that. Your friend has a boyfriend and you didn't respect that either. What is your rush with these women? Keep your 'feelings' to yourself. Women love a good mystery. Be a good friend and romance will come.
He's young and his testorone is raging..as long as she's pretty he's pretty much gaga!! He's confused and he's confusing me ..everytime I watch it's a diff girl ..lol
Agreed!!!!
@@redformaze5968WELL SAID.HOPE HE READ YOUR COMMENT 👊
She’s just being kind when she says she is willing to consider it. She doesn’t want you to feel bad.
Yeah i guess so, but i misread it
She said no ... she said she has a boyfriend. Let it go ... move on
Okay brother
THAT'S A GOOD WOMAN RIGHT THERE
DON'T PUSH IT BRO.
Okay bro, i’ve moved on
She is considering her boyfriend and is a good thing.
Actually, it's a good thing that he has actually disclosed his real feelings towards her and you can see that she's struggling with her emotions right now and is a definite test of her relationship with her bf. It's a no for now, but you can clearly see that she's contemplating at the back of her mind what a physical relationship is really like with an African guy, assuming her bf is not African so he shouldn't lose hope.
Every man needs an honest woman in a relationship. Big up to the truth
My bro never falls in love with someone who's in relationship
Okay bro
Bro i felt your pain. I was literally beating my chest after seeing you being rejected over and over again. it is painful, but she is right, she has to be faithful to her boyfriend. and that my friend, is who i called a super woman. But hey i bet you will find (the one), take this from me.
Man it's done you can't push someone to do what is not right. You want her to do wrong just for you to fill your wants. Stand in the background if not you might lose your friendship 💯💯💯💯💯💯👍🏾
Okay man
This girl is great cause she is very committed to her BF. You are obviously too young, immature, if you can't wait for a girl who wants to take things slow.. You just proved to to the gym girl, Fan Fan that you are a player bro... you should have said "April Fools Joke" at the end!
I’m just real brother, I can’t lie about my feelings, we never know what tomorrow holds
That would have been his saving grace or said it wasva loyalty prank. He didn't and he messed up big time.
What happened to the last girl on the video titled "I finally met my soulmate in China after 5 years"?
I was wondering too I thought it was going to be successful relationship
I talked about it in the introduction, she wanna take things slow and currently that’s not working for me so wanna keep my options open
@@PrinceKwekuHeavensbrother, that girl is fine! If you don't take that dream girl you met, then I'll go over there and snatch her up. 🤣🤣🤣 Ain't no shame in my game. That other girl that wanna take it slow is gorgeous!
@@PrinceKwekuHeavens ok I understand
@floydmayweather2043 yeah she it brother, but can’t be waiting for so long 😂
Respect the woman.
She said, she has a boyfriend. Are you asking her to cheat?
Just be her friend.
If things do not work outwith her friend, she knows how you feel about her.
Have patience and think with your head, not your pants.
Okay 😌
She´s got a man, bro. Somebody´s gonna get hurt here. She´s lovely, she´s gorgeous, but she´s in a relationship.
From my experiences with woman you have to let them decide when theyre ready to get closer to you. In the meantime you have to stay detached and just focus on having fun. Never take things personal if shes not interested or if shes taken, and dont be pushy.
Repeatedly she said im sorry! And i have a boyfriend...it means you're not her type.
Hard pill to swallow bro
Lol yea
I disagree, that's not what it means at all. It means that she is loyal to who she's with and doesn't go where the wind blows.
@cliffordhill2365 point 💯
This is the debut to the phrase “sounding like a broken record”.
Guys Listen up ". This is exactly why Steve Harvey said that men should not let their girlfriend have guy friends. Sooner or later that guy friend is watching hoping and gonna make a move when the time is right 👍
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Dude,don't push it.give her time she will definitely be yours soon.
Alright bro
Clarity, consistency on the part of the lady is much appreciated.
Bro try keep up with the girl in your last video she is a keeper please don't lose her you guys are perfect match
Thx bro, trying my best
Dah;
👉🏾(Same Young Lady)
She's a friend. That is the most important thing. Don't force the situation. Wait, time will do its works.
Aaah, so you want her to cheat on her boyfriend or what!. Would you be happy if another guy press on your girlfriend in this way !, aaah my guy this is so bad!. How would you feel if is your girlfriend and a guy keep persisting this way, this is so bad !!
So u wanted me to die with my feelings? Better to let her know than just keep it to myself bro
@@PrinceKwekuHeavens , I understand bro, I have been in such situation before, but the moment she keeps saying no, you don’t persist by all means. Relationship leading to marriage ( maybe) is not joke, you know the Chinese society, if say things doesn’t work between both of you in the future and she had already left her boyfriend, you would know how difficult if not impossible to find another partner in China, not sure she can bear that and the pains she would go through forever, you wouldn’t be happy, sometimes if love a flower you don’t always pluck it, you water less it withers. Back in Uni, I saw a lady I admired so much even dreamt about her most times, a very noble woman, after telling her how I felt she told me she was in a serious relationship, I just let it be, not sure where she is now though but I moved on fine, I still remember her d.o.b and wish her sometimes, but such is life, some would be for you, others not for you, persisting on a lady to leave the partner for you to me is not an ideal situation, same way you feel for her, could be same way the partner also feels for her. Just let her go, and who knows what is ahead. As a man, you must know when to leave the table, the same could be pointed at you. Remember what goes around, comes around, and you may not like it should the table turns. Peace ✌️
@@PrinceKwekuHeavens the forbidden fruit always tastes the sweetest! 😂
A person must do things on his or her own volition. No pressures. One cannot force another to love him or her. The lady said no. She further stated that she has a boyfriend then accept her words and move on. Hurry birds do not build good nest. Please respect her decision.
Okay brother
Don't lose a best friend by trying to make things romantic. If you continue to push, she'll just pull away. The other girl really liked you, but you can't rush a relationship. If she wants to spend time with you and get to know you at her pace, go with the flow become friends first. Let things progress naturally and your friendship will blossom into something beautiful ( like a flower). I'd give it another shot with the girl you went on a date with. She's a keeper.
You are not a good person how would you like if you had a girlfriend and she cheat on you how would you feel? You don't love a girl for who they are Seems you don't want a true relationship otherwise you'd wait and work for what you want. Imagine you want your friend to leave her boyfriend and come to you no good. Shame on you and you are do damn persistent. Stop pressuring the girl. Good girl keep it up!!
He really feeling her in is heart ♥️ of love ❤️ but is not good to break up a person from her boyfriend just be her friend you never no what might happen down the road you might win her heart ♥️ one day just give it time my brother no rush in a relationship it takes time okay that is real love ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
She is so real man, move on bro, sending you positive energy from Freetown sierra leone west Africa
She is committed my guy, you really tried. I think its best on your next proposal to a beautiful chinese girl, don't take the camera, you will make a video to announce to us when you managed. That's why your girl kept thinking that you are joking(prank).
Also visit a Marriage market, plenty of beautiful chinese girls who will throw themselves at you without any effort bro.
I think you are one of the best charmers out there, you delivered what you wanted to say gracefully
Brother, I felt myself in your shoes because your same situation kept happening with me time and time again years ago. It is such a pain in the ass, but we cannot always succeed sadly. But you gave it a nice try at least.
She is real good lady she do not lie to you she is good lady stop pushing her away with your nonsense 😢😢😢❤❤😢😢just stop sir
When it's right, it simply flows. Seek 50/50!!!
Bro she clearly said no, respect her relationship and treasure your friendship with her, fair enough don't push her mayyynnnn😢
She is a great person and I think you should respect her. She is principled, guy you need to be principled also she is your partner and you know she has a boyfriend. Just back off and keep the respect between both of you
Its always difficult for an inexperienced young man who meets a beautiful girl. Its normally tough for him to keep the jitters away, but that can spoil the date and getting to know each other because he may have expectations, and he may just be disappointed if she doesn't share the same. Later on in life having experience may change that.
I hope so
Bro you got your answer, stop pushing, accept her answer, she has a boyfriend. Avoid forcing someone, it's not right, this is crazy.
Okay brother
Don’t worry son. She is not for you. Someone meant for you is out somewhere waiting for the right time
No no mu brother just move on and respect or answer 💯 she will be a goos friend to u okay wish u all the best u will find the right one for u there is millions of girl in China ❤❤❤❤❤
Don't "Ever tell a girl how you feel"!! The play is to have her begging just to be with you! THE MOST IMPORTANT THING WHEN EVALUATING A MATE IS THIS! . . . DOES IT MAKE HER HAPPY TO SEE YOU HAPPY! Believe me you don't want a woman who would just drop her boyfriend to be with you! That means that she would also dump you for another man! JUST PICK YOUR HEART UP OFF THE FLOOR AND MOVE ON!! 😭😭😢😢
Sure I’ve moved on
Let's consider two things:
1) If she is a "bestie" he knew about the bf and went ahead anyway
2) She states she has a bf and he continues to push the subject
I see from his response to comments down here that he even knows who the bf is. And I also see he keeps saying "best to tell than to hold the feelings". So this guy just lost a friend, because the bf for sure will learn about this video and not be comfortable. And, to finish off my comment, he has also probably alienised himself from other female friends, especially those too with bf's, in the hope he doesn't try this shit with them.
Well done bro, 0 lack of control of your emotions, and 0 integrity. This video is a huge L for you.
But you getting views so silver lining I guess.
That's the easiest way to get friendzoned. It's one of the biggest simp moves a guy can do. Never let your female friend know that you're in love with her. You have to give her less attention so that she can see that other women want you. Most women choose guys based on preselection. If she knows other women want to hook with you, then this will build curiosity. Now it becomes a competition for her. Think outside the box.
You know women.👍 they will probably ignore you on first glance, but once they see you talking or being around other women, they will come to you. And if you are a detached person, just focusing on yourself, they will come also.
Wow i have learnt so many things from this 😮
Don't make it a big deal, and don't insist.You were brave to claim your feeling and your intention, you can still work together but you have to stay professional and never talk about this again with her or blame her even in a joke.That will create respect and admiration to you.
Last thing, go find another girl.Keep going young brother
Advice taken brother
YOUNG MAN DONT STOP TRYING😊 SHE IS UR. JAMAICA 🇯🇲
After I seen this video for the second time and I realized that I can’t blame you for having feelings for her she’s really cute and attractive in a addictive way that nearly no man can resist however like I stated before when Chinese girls in a existing relationship it’s better not to intervene unless she has issues with her boyfriend and things are not working out between them then that will be the moment you can step in to comfort her and help her emotionally therefore there might be a chance for you to chime in with her if she is willing to accept you as her new boyfriend
Got it brother 🫶🏾
If you’re reading what everyone is saying , I can agree. My friend I think you should have waited and kept moving forward. You knew she was with someone and what if that would have happen to you and someone who was close to her tells her to leave you? Try to put yourself in the boyfriend’s shoes. How would you feel if she would have done it to you if you were with her.
Don’t push the issue but instead improve on the friendship.
Advice taken
sorry my brother for what happened , we are supporting you , it better to let her know about your feelings , it is not easy but you did it
But also i really appreciate your channel and what you share with us, since today i will always follow your channel. never give up brother she knows already your feelings so keep going on and i truest she will love you back cause her feelings might be there but the only problem is that you face someone who is in a couple
This tastes like planned to create content cuz it's weird. Chasing girls desperately to this extent. You're 25 and might be ruining chances of getting someone. But I understand you cuz I'm 35. Hormones are too high. And you don't understand peer pressure until you approach 30. You've tasted enough girls, you said 7, but let's make it 10.
I can't tell you to stop looking for a girl for a year or two but I understand your age. For me at 35 I'm not looking for one but I need till I fix financial issues completely, which is going real well. That's shows seriousness, learning, or hurt or played around with or got time wasted.
Good thing you're building yourself up. Seems you don't keep relationships which is something to work on and borrow advice from above your age, both sexes.
At this point I kinda do hope that it’s planned because it’s kinda weird to tell a girl that he knows has a boyfriend he likes her on camera. Makes him look a bit like a home wrecker.
He wants her to cheat, he does not get it, she is in a committed relationship!
If this is content you nailed it,if not you still nailed it
Either way there was a nail haha
Just watched two videos and from word go i had a feeling my bro was gonna fumble it, bro patience is not a strong forte to you so take your L as man am sure you will learn 😂
sometimes its just better to keep some stuff to yourself but its good to releaase it to but be carefull. we will learn by time to time. stuff like these can only makes you stronger brother dont you worry, you can get much more then you think.
Appreciate brother
Just give her that time of her life ❤❤❤❤❤❤you never no is a good thing you open up your heart ♥️ to her just give her time ❤❤❤❤stop pushing yourself to her okay 👍 time is the master okay ❤❤❤❤❤
Oh,boy this was an unexpected bombshell but I am not surprised,always thought that you're a great match up with her from day one apart from Shawnee. Your love life is worthy of an Amazon Prime series!😂 But I think it’s probably best to let her know your real feelings for her rather than just bottling it all up inside you. But I still wouldn't give up hope though,at least now she knows where she is with you,and she's only saying no for now because it was all so sudden and came as a shock to her plus she was on camera and didn’t want to appear like she's cheating on him! Trust me,she'll have a change of heart and reconsider her decision when she has had time to reflect on this. But at least,both of you can discuss this freely now! Don't lose hope bro,because trust me girls want to try out options as well and she's now aware that she's in an enviable position knowing that 2 guys are in love with her!😂 don't forget, persistence pays at the end of the day,you'll get your prize eventually!😂 Is her bf Chinese?
I always love your words brother 😂, anywhere you are bless up 🫶🏾
She is a real friend and doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. Stop trying to force her to love you!
Sure
He’s just on the rebound….disrespectful towards the bf! I hope this was a joke 😅
Damn, she has said to you FIVE TIMES that she has someone. Move on to another subject, or thank her for meeting with you and go home. You apparently don't understand the meaning of the word "NO".
Hard pill to swallow
When a girl has a bf just don’t even bother..
Nice one bo💯
Wulululu new couple in the city wow am new here much love from USA but I'm Ugandans 😊❤
Big up
I Hope she stays true to her Boyfriend! This guy here is just Playing the field ! She needs to de' friend him ASAP
It's a scripts, OGs our here offering advices, it's not real
You let her know how you feel, now let her think about it
Guy put ur self in order and b ur self. Don't push further if she is gonna b ur she would come around but for now b calm . What will b will.
He is a weirdo stop trying to force your self on her no means no
Go find your own bro,this woman is sincere and very strong respect her decision and keep her friendship.Do you want someone pouncing on your girl?Hell No just drop it and be happy for her friendship and yeah her boyfriend trust her with you
The lady is telling you, she has a boyfriend, don't force her, just give her time to think it.
No time is needed to think about this for it is unethical behaviour and low character. Character and thought are one and represents our TRUE self
I admire that you opened up to this beautiful lady. No one knows the future patience is key...but turn the tables, if you were her boyfriend and another girl approached YOU this way, what would your reaction be?
just sharing a thought...
Would’ve been proud of my gf
We men have all made this mistake before, and some in desperation like it seems on this video. Once we do this, the friendship is over. Girls will never see you as a "brother or friend" after that. If you have a female friend that you start to fall in love with and she has a boyfriend, you got to be very patient and wait until the opportunity comes. But, I strongly recommend to look for someone else and spend less time with your "friend". It's miserable to have feelings for a girl, while she has a boyfriend and you are in the friend-zone.
Its ok to tell her. U must be ready of what she decide and respekt her😊.
Sure thing
You are so extremely handsome 😍and why are you going to look at a woman with a boyfriend, if she is unfaithful to her boyfriend, rest assured that later she will be unfaithful to you with another person and also starting with someone Just out of a relationship is not good . because she still hasn't cleared his mind, her feelings, etc... you are beautifully handsome, keep going because someone has to be completely free to be able to have a relationship.
Was just her letting her know how i feel about her, feels better than just keeping it inside me
Good comments
Here goes bro. A LITTLE LONG BUT IT'S WORTH IT! 11 Things. You are committing a lot of unforced errors and doing, saying, insisting, pushing in all the wrong directions. That's why you are striking out with the women you want most! Here are some things to do and not do.
1. Women are women, but you are in a foreign country that have different norms and values and cultures. You can win, but you can't treat it the same way like in your home country.
2. When a woman wants to be with you, she will let you know in direct, indirect, and in subtle ways. Listen to how she talks to you... as a friend or as someone she's interested in. Does she touch you when she talks to you? Does she seem excited to see you and does she open up her schedule to spend time with you?
3. Your Bestie was shocked to hear you say you had romantic feelings for her. She looked at you like you were her brother telling her you want to be with her. And a woman who's interested in you will NEVER refer you to one of her friends or associates. NEVER! So leave her alone from a romantic stand point.
4. Stop with the "I want to marry you" on first dates, second dates...etc. Just freaking stop it. You did this with Farfan and haven't you learned yet that for 90% of the women, it's just too darn fast. STOP IT BRO! You can tell a woman you're interested in her without telling her you're in love with her or want to marry her instantly. What's the rush? It's a turn off if the feeling isn't mutual. TRUST ME ON THIS ONE!
5. THIS IS A BIGGIE: You post everything online and you talk to much about your interest in other women. The women you're interested in see your videos bro. Do you even realize that? You act as though they don't. Come on man. You can't tell Farfan you want to marry her then post a video with another woman telling her you're interested in her too. And they ALL see it.🤦♂🤦♂🤦♂
6. Separate you youtube video business from your personal dating life. Don't look like a man whore on youtube and be consistent and congruent.
7. Someone said in your Breakup video with Farfan that you told her you had sex 2 weeks earlier and you had been already seeing Farfan for a month already. That was dumbass bro. SHUT UP! STOP TALKING TOO MUCH. STOP EXPOSING ALL YOUR PERSONAL BUSINESS ONLINE. Farfan probably waited a few days or weeks to think over it and decided to cut you for it.
8. Control your emotions and let the women come to you. And be smart. Don't answer every question that is asked. Some things are personal and keep it that way even with your girl. It will save your butt. And don't post it online either.
9. The reason you move slow and not try to rush it is because pushing and rushing it makes you look desperate, lack confidence, controlling, and have no swag. Women like men who are confident and begging isn't a confident trait.
10. Every woman of the same and of a different culture must also meet your standard as a wife too. It can't just be her looks and her nice looking a$$ or just your body. What do you expect from her? She's looking to see if you're a man of booty only or of substance. A man of substance eventually gets the booty too. Just so you know.
11. Finally, make sure she can handle any heat your interracial relationship is going to take. Otherwise, she will quit on you when the goings get tough. That's why YOU should slow down and take your time and vet every woman you have a high interest in.
I got all this just by watching about three of your videos. No one will take the time to tell you all these unforced errors you are constantly making. Do your videos and interviews, but don't express interest in a woman online and post it. Do it offline. This happened to another African brother with a Chinese lady he met at a Chinese marriage market and they hit it off. They both were publicly online posting great videos. She got highly criticized online by Chinese men in particular for being with him and she ended it. The Black/Chinese couples that make it, aren't online for the most part. Follow their lead.
SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND BRO!!!! RESPECT THAT AND MOVE ON!
Prince my men you such a nice guy bro you can hear the lady she's already got a boyfriend you should respect that
Sure bro i will
She said no for the cameras. To save face for her boyfriend n family n honor
Off 📷 she will tell you the truth
#frewil
Hopefully brother
Bro you begging at this point... be patient you'll find the right one
Dude is down right ignorant. The other lady is family oriented but that is not what he is looking for because he wants to sleep with her and not build a life together with marriage after courting for sometime.
Hi bro , greetings from Atlanta, keep going bro, the are huge girls in China
Sure bro
She told him at first meet, Don’t have boyfriend.
bro bro brother. You never tell a woman this!….. plus you put her on camera….thats cringy bro. Privacy is a must in some cultures.
Yeah sure
She is wise and smart girl
Right
Is this the same girl u met at the gym @@PrinceKwekuHeavens
Brah don't be stupid; she said she has a boyfriend, Respect her wishes bro!😎
She said she has a boyfriend. Let it go. Stop pressuring her. If you keep this up, you're going to push her away, and she will have no choice but to end the friendship. Please be a gentleman and respect her and her relationship.
You will definitely lose her as a friend if you keep pressing the issue
Bruh u shouldve waited for her and her bf to break up n then shoot ur shot bruh🤦