Thank you. Tomorrow I will not wake up like a leaf. It's a wonderful metaphor for us projectors. Also the connection to anger...all of my life I erupt in anger simply because I needed to remove myself from the situation.
As a Splenic Projector 5/1 it took me 60 years to learn this and as Charlie said, Very Empowering!! Not having to 'fix' anything for someone else, not needing to make anything 'right', not listening to others on what you 'should do' is FREEDOM. I know I have healed my boundary issues because there is NO energy in what others are doing or saying, or how they are acting to me. I'm good with it and only feel peace... but I also made sure I don't allow toxic energy into my world. I can easily say, "no thanks'. Charlie is great and if you are new or old to Human Design he is wonderfully clear and balanced as a human being and therefore, worth listing to or working with!
I'm a 5/1 splenic projector as well. So very challenging, especially when it comes to insecurities, and needing to feel useful without feeling used. Fixing people is a very difficult habit to break, for me. I'm 43 and am just starting to value my automy. I don't even want to waste the energy being angry anymore, for feeling misunderstood.
I’m a 5/1 emotional projector. More conscious boundaries are truly supporting my well-being. I’m finding a new balance in my life now. Finally - after 59 years!
After listening to you I created a time Boundary with one of my students mom. The class is for an hour. I take tuitions at home and off late - the child is never on time. I hadn't honoured my time and space - I let the class start at whatever time the child came in so that she would get the full benifit of it. That changes now! I called her mom and gently informed her that we'd have to stick to the time and I wouldn't be able to cater to the child beyond a said time :) I felt strong, instead of guilty. I love it - Thank you Charlie
Thank you. I loved the analogy of the leaf being tossed around. I’ve felt that my whole life. The anger and boundaries being crossed so much but feeling bad about it because I feel the other so much! I’m a 2/4 emotional projector. A friend turned me onto this human design thing and it’s so very helpful! ❤
3/5 Projector didn’t learn positive boundaries until 50’s. Chiron came back into Aries like natal chart. Also a lot of therapy! Communication of EMOTIONS are a Huge part❣️LOVING myself means others must treat me with more respect!!! Sad how healing means eliminating alot of family & not having many friends. However such a more peaceful life❣️ Thank you💗
Thank you Charlie, i recently tested this in maybe the worst way, after a breakup of a 5 years relationship, i knew it was the time to move on, so i put some boundaries, and she broke them, and i allow it in the name of love but i finished devastated for not respecting my own boundaries. Now im learning what to do with my emotions. Im enjoying the journey in all its forms.
Oooooof I literally learned about my hd today which is projector obviously. I just yesterday had to tell my dear friend that I cannot handle talking on the phone everyday or even every other day. It sounds silly to say oh I don’t have enough energy for that. But I literally don’t and now I know why. Thank you for this important video ❤️
I have SUCH a hard time with boundaries in my life!! I didn’t learn what the word meant up until i was in my late 20’s….Why is it that even though I “know better” i still find myself doing the thing that I know I shouldn’t be doing? It’s like one part of me is wanting to do what I’m supposed to but then my actions prove completely different. Does that make sense to you? One half of me is almost always fighting with the other half and I get really angry and bitter about it. But then I project those emotions onto others in my attitude and its just a mess.
try to understand why the boundaries are so important for you and what happens when you don’t uphold them. In time by practicing this you’ll natural want to keep them in place because it feels better than not having them ✨
God I needed this today, I've hit a point of total burnout and realised in the last few days it's the lack of boundaries of all kinds that you discussed in this video. I just googled Projector Boundaries and this was the first hit, I'm already following you guys and have watched a lot of content so I knew this video would have what I needed to hear, and this was absolutely it, I think I'm going to rewatch this every month just as a reminder. Thank you so much for everything you do to help us find our alignment and come into balance with our energy, just thank you thank you thank you
Love the videos you put out, Charlie! I signed up for Projector Movement’s 4-part workshop on healthy boundaries and relationships and the first one was fantastic. Excited to continue! Cheers, thanks so much for the good work you’re doing. 🌟🙏🏼💜🙏🏼🌟
Thanks so much for this Charlie. We truly are responsible for our boundaries. I really like the way our emotions provide potent feedback, empowering us to create boundaries. Perfectly timed.
If you're wanting to go deeper into what it means to be a Projector and how to deconditioning then check out some of our offerings here: www.projectormovement.com/offerings
And I'm not treating anyone like they are an option I don't really no if one person is actually another. But hey if you want to remove yourself that's also fine. I felt the sun and it felt good.
I will chose my direction. You think you van trap me but you cannot. You are not my soul I was manipulated into chosing you and I am telling you no period. I'm speaking to Tupac.
Thank you. Tomorrow I will not wake up like a leaf. It's a wonderful metaphor for us projectors. Also the connection to anger...all of my life I erupt in anger simply because I needed to remove myself from the situation.
As a Splenic Projector 5/1 it took me 60 years to learn this and as Charlie said, Very Empowering!! Not having to 'fix' anything for someone else, not needing to make anything 'right', not listening to others on what you 'should do' is FREEDOM. I know I have healed my boundary issues because there is NO energy in what others are doing or saying, or how they are acting to me. I'm good with it and only feel peace... but I also made sure I don't allow toxic energy into my world. I can easily say, "no thanks'. Charlie is great and if you are new or old to Human Design he is wonderfully clear and balanced as a human being and therefore, worth listing to or working with!
I'm a 5/1 splenic projector as well. So very challenging, especially when it comes to insecurities, and needing to feel useful without feeling used. Fixing people is a very difficult habit to break, for me. I'm 43 and am just starting to value my automy. I don't even want to waste the energy being angry anymore, for feeling misunderstood.
Also a 5/1 splenic projector!
I’m a 5/1 emotional projector. More conscious boundaries are truly supporting my well-being.
I’m finding a new balance in my life now. Finally - after 59 years!
After listening to you I created a time Boundary with one of my students mom. The class is for an hour. I take tuitions at home and off late - the child is never on time. I hadn't honoured my time and space - I let the class start at whatever time the child came in so that she would get the full benifit of it.
That changes now! I called her mom and gently informed her that we'd have to stick to the time and I wouldn't be able to cater to the child beyond a said time :) I felt strong, instead of guilty. I love it - Thank you Charlie
Thank you. I loved the analogy of the leaf being tossed around. I’ve felt that my whole life. The anger and boundaries being crossed so much but feeling bad about it because I feel the other so much! I’m a 2/4 emotional projector. A friend turned me onto this human design thing and it’s so very helpful! ❤
3/5 Projector didn’t learn positive boundaries until 50’s. Chiron came back into Aries like natal chart.
Also a lot of therapy!
Communication of EMOTIONS are a Huge part❣️LOVING myself means others must treat me with more respect!!!
Sad how healing means eliminating alot of family & not having many friends. However such a more peaceful life❣️
Thank you💗
This couldn’t have come into my inbox at a more perfect time. Thank you, Charlie.
Thank you Charlie, i recently tested this in maybe the worst way, after a breakup of a 5 years relationship, i knew it was the time to move on, so i put some boundaries, and she broke them, and i allow it in the name of love but i finished devastated for not respecting my own boundaries. Now im learning what to do with my emotions. Im enjoying the journey in all its forms.
Oooooof I literally learned about my hd today which is projector obviously. I just yesterday had to tell my dear friend that I cannot handle talking on the phone everyday or even every other day. It sounds silly to say oh I don’t have enough energy for that. But I literally don’t and now I know why. Thank you for this important video ❤️
🙈🤣 same here!!! thanks for sharing🙏🏽✨
What a brilliant video! Thank you 😊
You teach soo well🖤
I have SUCH a hard time with boundaries in my life!! I didn’t learn what the word meant up until i was in my late 20’s….Why is it that even though I “know better” i still find myself doing the thing that I know I shouldn’t be doing? It’s like one part of me is wanting to do what I’m supposed to but then my actions prove completely different. Does that make sense to you? One half of me is almost always fighting with the other half and I get really angry and bitter about it. But then I project those emotions onto others in my attitude and its just a mess.
try to understand why the boundaries are so important for you and what happens when you don’t uphold them. In time by practicing this you’ll natural want to keep them in place because it feels better than not having them ✨
God I needed this today, I've hit a point of total burnout and realised in the last few days it's the lack of boundaries of all kinds that you discussed in this video. I just googled Projector Boundaries and this was the first hit, I'm already following you guys and have watched a lot of content so I knew this video would have what I needed to hear, and this was absolutely it, I think I'm going to rewatch this every month just as a reminder. Thank you so much for everything you do to help us find our alignment and come into balance with our energy, just thank you thank you thank you
Love the videos you put out, Charlie! I signed up for Projector Movement’s 4-part workshop on healthy boundaries and relationships and the first one was fantastic. Excited to continue! Cheers, thanks so much for the good work you’re doing. 🌟🙏🏼💜🙏🏼🌟
I feel the same as Nicole. This was a perfect time to pop into my inbox!! For sure needed this!! Thank you 💞
Superb, Valuable Info! 💋💋💋🙏🙏🙏
Thanks so much for this Charlie. We truly are responsible for our boundaries. I really like the way our emotions provide potent feedback, empowering us to create boundaries. Perfectly timed.
Thank you for posting this from this space as a Projector, any resources and books on boundaries from this perspective you’d recommend?
This is genius! ❤
Brilliant! I loved the image with the boat, that uses the wind in a constructive way. That will stick with me. Thank you.
thanks you man! 🙏🏽✨
really THANK YOU!!!🌞
this was sooo good to hear!! thank you for doing this…🍀🍀🍀
Great analogies Very helpful, Thank you!
So much value here, thank you!
If you're wanting to go deeper into what it means to be a Projector and how to deconditioning then check out some of our offerings here: www.projectormovement.com/offerings
Thank you so much🌹✨
Gratitude 💗🤍✨
I liked this video and I gave it a thumbs up 👍
Just what I needed today :) Thanks so much, Charlie.
Again perfect timing ..painful life long lessons here
Self projected projector. Just learning boundaries after a partner trying to kill me. Is it too late?
And I'm not treating anyone like they are an option I don't really no if one person is actually another. But hey if you want to remove yourself that's also fine. I felt the sun and it felt good.
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Do you have bots commenting here?
I will chose my direction. You think you van trap me but you cannot. You are not my soul I was manipulated into chosing you and I am telling you no period. I'm speaking to Tupac.
Tupac justin doewlow all the men. NO.
Thank you for posting this from this space as a Projector, any resources and books on boundaries from this perspective you’d recommend?
"boundary boss"