the seduction of "hard to get"

i had an epiphany recently and it's been really fascinating because it's about a belief that i've had that i wasn't fully conscious of. the subconscious belief that i've carried almost my whole life is that people who are harder to get are better. people who are harder to get can provide more value in my life. this is a belief that if i had spoken it sooner, i would've demolished it sooner because i know in my conscious brain that it’s not true. but for some reason, i've always believed that.

[@genesisvargas1399]

This is so relatable. With friendships, relationships, with everything. But additional to low self esteem, I’ve felt it could also just be not knowing what you want or feeling lost. Like if all your other methods have left you feeling unfulfilled, then the excitement kinda fills in that void.

[@masonncronin]

thank you so much for still making podcasts and videos u mean so much to me snd so do these episodes

[@Spilltalks]

Proud how grown u r ❤

[@everythingtristan]

I'm so early here so I gotta plug my music sorry Emma I hope u like it keep poppin ur sht - everyone look up Some Kind of Way by Tristan

[@S.saal._444]

Podcast yessss

[@S.saal._444]

YAYYYYY

[@Spilltalks]

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