MRS. NYANG'AYA AND MAMA KENDI. A MASTER CLASS IN SELF ESTEEM. MUM AND ME Segment 14
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- Опубліковано 16 вер 2024
- We are proud to be mothers and wives. AND we know that we were complete people, even before we were those things.
Hi, I'm Kitt Nyang'aya Kiarie. 35 years old, professional infant and toddler sleep coach. Married to my high school sweetheart, Martin with 2 children- Kendi (6) and Keyo (3) My life is crazy hectic, full of love, family and fun, fun, FUN.
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Afriend of mine opened my eyes to the reality of children knowing everyone's names beyond the uncle titles she says incase of abuse a child is able to say which specific uncle did it
You probably dont give a damn but does anyone know of a way to log back into an Instagram account..?
I was dumb lost my login password. I would appreciate any help you can give me
When mum is in the channel joined by beautiful Kitt, its a PhD class 😍
...hear! hear!...couldn't agree more. Nice to know am not in 'my' own world..I have identified a lot with this topic.
Masterclass per excellence!
I agree😍😍
Ikr
Agreed!
'marriage is not an achievement!' Iwish the older generation would understand that so that they STOP pressuring younger women
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This reminds me of "THE RIVER AND THE SOURCE" Akoko was always known by her name
I totally agree with you
I agree...
Yeees
This book helped me name my now 5 years old I felt she was a phenomenal source AORA and for sure she is, my river and mr source
Can we have am AMEN 🤩❤️🥰😍😍🥰 I have this conversation countless times everywhere I go! In the UK where I live, it is the obsession with Mrs so, and so 🙃 🙄🙄 Then when I came to Kenya, it is Mama so and so..... I had had so many debates with my peers in Kenya when they dared to question my reasoning and alluded that I am not proud of my marriage/ child!!! Having a child and being married is not AN ACHIEVEMENT!! We can be proud wives and mothers and still stay true to our individual identity! Thank you, Kitt and Apondi, for making this clear..... Hope everyone watches this video, I will certainly save it and share it 🤗❤️❤️❤️❤️
Apondi came to serve wisdom in Fendi sunglasses! Love it!!
She came to serve us wisdom..l like
The written version of this is a whole book, a real masters thesis
I love how aware emotionally and mentally your family is✨
I truly believe your lineage was born before it's time.
We're ahead eh? 😅
Far ahead...
I TRULY feel the same way too.🙌🏾
😃😂😅
Sure, you are complete just the way you are! Your identity is not measured by your marital status, motherhood, job title or social status! Thanks for this topic Kitt! I truly admire your entire family!
Apondi: So Mama Kendi
Kitt: Yes Mama Kitt
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Its your mum's smile for me kwanza when looking at you. Dont we all love this gem
Wow!wow!Apondi is looking dope.Pass my regards to her.👌👌👏👏👏👏
One would give a pass on your mom for Lupita’s mom 😋😉
I was thinking the same....but she is the Auntie so it's okay
Exactly
This is exactly what I was thinking while watching the episode 😀
@Grace Gathu ☺️😊
@k. k. Jey 😊☺️
I love listening to Apondi speak. She's that one person you want to listen to all the time. She also says those words I have always wanted to say but lacked courage.
Bless her!
Apondi is literally Kendi's twin. I love it when she's here. Much love mum❤️
A great convo. Another thing...... as a mother of son with dual citizenship, i have just bestowed my son Kenyan status with a Kenyan ID with details from village yes!
💕💕! Love love and appreciate this conversation. I remember requesting my parents and siblings to continue calling me by my name after I became a mum. For some reason I felt like that mama.... was creating a distance between us and forcing an unexplained expectation on me. I am a proud mum, but I am first Me. ( I hope I don’t sound crazy 🙈)
You sound real. Please do keep it up.
You sound perfect 🥰
Ata mimi nikikataa. Don’t forget me.
Especially when your siblings call you mama so and so the distance steps in and the pain is strange and unexplainable
@@apondinyangaya6610 yes! Yes! Yes! Oh how happy I am to hear someone echo my feelings precisely. So I wasn’t hormonal or losing it. Thank you 🙏🏾.
This is so true. Even the Samias called people by their name. We called our grandmothers , Kukhu Perus, Kukhu Jessica. She also did not like her children to call her mama they called her by her name Perus.
I am khayo, and we do too call our grandmas and grandpas and aunties with their names
Oh Gosh! I love your mom. She is kind of the woman I grew up wanting to be like.
The loving and respectiful relationship between you two is what keeps me glued on top of everything else.
The number of finger snaps, number of yes’, moments of ‘aha’, on this master class, Wauuuu. Mum and me segment changing mindsets one generation at a time. Yaaaaas!
Love the discussion. I remember being admonished for calling family members by their name. Apparently Africans see it as disrespectful and yet the same people will admonish you when your children don't know your name!
Better late than never!
I can never miss such wisdom.
It's so interesting listening to this contrary to how I was brought up, that a grown up would be addressed not with their own name..as they are not your age mates, (we were told
Kitt you're such an inspiration to our generation...Good work
I never miss uploads especially with Apondi on the thumbnail 🥰🥰she speaks so much wisdom💕🥰 My cup of coffee ☕️ is ready
I need my own Apondi...witty,funny,with it,brilliant!!;
I can't miss the wisdom that comes from apondi, much love mum
Awesome, when Mrs Apondi is on channel we know it's gonna be lit and there is no holding back when she is here
love this!! totally.
I once introduced myself in a ruracio in my middle and surname(my father's name). I dnt believe in taking a husband name.
After the function one of my uncle's called me aside and told me (jokingly) it is important to introduce myself in my husband's name. I was like is this guy serious. 😂😂😂. I just agreed with him and moved on cs I am never doing that.
Never thought of calling myself Mrs. So n so but Mama Jael, guilty as charged! What an eye opener
I dnt like being called Mrs as much as I am married. I really hate it. I really hate titles. Even on job application I dnt indicate it. Kwanza za gava always insisting on indicating titles. I cant stand it.
Amazing and enlightening video 👏
The word née is from the French word naitre (to be born). In your case it would be Kitt Kiarie née Kitt N. "Whats in a name?" would also be a good title for this video 😀 Loved every bit of it.
Kate you are blessed to have Mama Apondi as your mum.She is our mum too.Her wisdom overflows.I learn alot from the two of you.
Thanks
*Kitt (not Kate)
Mommy must bottle the African butter that she moisturizes with because WOW ma'am ❤️🇿🇦
It is already bottled. Buy Ka'an by Tawi shea butter 🥰
I love this discussion. Older women don't even remember their names sometimes. Hope we can all stop adding men's names to our names also. We are enough! Men never add our names to theirs after marriage.
This 2 women together make my day.. they say as it is
It’s crazy how I click soooo fast when I see Apondi. This was such a necessary conversation!
How can this video reach ALL women? So much wisdom!am glad i introduce myself appropriately....
Did anyone see Apondi's skin?the glow!
I love the deliberate titlling of Mrs.. and Mama..
The conversations that I enjoy, thank you for changing the UA-cam space...
African culture is very interesting 🥰
Happy to be back here...Apondi is full of wisdom and Kitt you are a power house...just realised Keyo really resembles you esp the side view..ofcourse Apondi and Kendi identical twinsies
Master class 👏 🙌 👌 💪
Wonderful content, Kitt! Also Kendi is Apondi’s twin, surely.
Me when i see kitt mum ....yieeey .Thank you mama kitt you really make us better people.
A Much needed conversation. Its ABSOLUTELY ridiculous and i have always said so. Thanks for raising this because I am sure it will stimulate similar conversations in women circles.
Great to be here...didn't know that like is important too..good stuff
Packing my bags apondi wisdom is worth every day on my way,this wat we call content kitt ur a good changer
Speaking of not knowing elder people in the family names, I get so shocked when I find out my cucu's names and realize I never knew the name, and you only learn it sadly on those obituaries that name names. Daamn!the erasure though
THE MASTERCLASS!I love it!❤👑👑
You make my Monday mornings Kitt. Keep the fire burning.
I love your vlogs.Your mum is a sweetheart and I know we will meet in this lifetime☺
I really appreciate ur channel because there's something to learn in every session...bless you!
Kitt looks extra beautiful one more thing before niende, we are watching all the ads😀
Thaaaannnkkksss. On both fronts
Apondi is full of Wisdom.❤
I enjoy the conversations you bring on here.
Am in class already 🖐👍with a notebook and a pen . Love you
Wow wow so relevant...sometimes I find it difficult introducing myself especially when people expect me to have changed my last name after marriage
I really like the title of this video 😍😍😍😍
Getting me a snack for this
This is a very interesting discussion. Some years back I found out I did not know some of my Auntys’ names because they were ‘mama so and so’. I made a decision never to be mama so and so. I am proud to be a mum but that is just one out of many identities I have and I didn’t want it to take over all other identities. I can’t imagine introducing myself as mama so and so. Lol!
I love how you ALWAYS introduce your mum as Apondi.
Preach! I refuse to be called mama so and so. Or bibi ya so and so, and I have had a few people correct me and I tell them eva came before this two.
I am so happy to be here..got here through Caroline Mutuko's page from a program Mummy's Rice. You guys r amazingly. Great ur doing this with ur mum Kit..such a blessing 🤗
Finally found my tribe of people. Am Kikuyu but still introduce myself as Nyambura not mama... or Mrs...... Actually I don't wear my wedding ring 6yrs down the line, cause I just don't like jewelry and people still remind me that I 'need' my "marker" so they know where to place me😏😏
Every girl must listen to this. Great content Kitt
Was wondering when someone will share my exact sentiments. Waaah I just introduce myself as me. Even when asked who I am I proceed and describe me and not staying everywhere am a mother and a wife. Unless it's really needed. I believe I am who I am with or without husband and children.
I really respect that. I have realised that the greater majority of those who introduce themselves of such things want to use them as an excuse
You are both so right! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@@diannaachando9160 can you please explain, excuse for what?
@@SM-th6cm in my experience it’s an excuse to be late, to snap at people, to get special favours (leave earlier than everyone else though they should not), encourage bad/disrespectful behaviour in marriages, ignore heir work obligations, lie...things along those lines.
@@diannaachando9160 ooh OK..looking at it from your explanation, yes it's right.and I have seen that alot
A dose of sarcasm from Apondi to balance things out 🤣🤭
I loooove this topic. Could we talk about the truth which is that most ladies introduce themselves as mama xyz, or Mrs abc or Dr/teacher... because that is where our value is. Most of us aren't addressing ourselves by our names because we're not proud of who we are or don't want to face who we really are because we're not happy with who we are (yet?). Sometimes you want to hide behind the title because the alternative is 😭😭😭😭😭😭.
🥂 to embracing being enough as I am. I am me😍
thank you for demystifying that calling someone by their name is
not disrespect
I once got beaten up by my aunt for calling her auntie blabla. ati mentioning her name is very disrespectful. she even told my mom. and my mon was like..' But that is your name and that is how it is supposed to be..)
Kitt your skin is liiiiife
Thank you 😊
My Monday routine
great,, great,,i cants stretch enough..good job our lovely women.
I'm 3:40mins in and I can already see where this is going...
Mrs. Nyangaya and Mama Kendi 🤣🤣😁👌🏾
May we all age like Apondi...fine wine they say 😍😍😍😍
Radical..."borrows Kitt's words...Warrawau!!!"
Hey kitt.
Ms. Monday mood uplifter😊😊
I love that title 😍
Amazing, Refreshing! I look forward to more talks🥰
Your Mum's sunglasses 🔥🔥🔥and Kitt's hat🔥🔥 love this topic
Videos with madam Apondi in them are the videos I have loved watching
How can I like twice❤️❤️ ..rich content 💯💯
I liked on Monday. Im watching right now. And im prepared to learn something great. Thank you.
Wow this is great. From the mijikenda tradition especially Giriama our grandmas change their names immediately the first grandchild is born and everyone starts calling her ‘Hawe ...’ I knew my grandma’s name in my 20’s
I wish I would give these video 10 like love the Apondi
Interesting topic. That is the value placed on women. If you are someone's wife, someone's mother you are valued more. Women even embrace this to a large extent and tend to dis- enfranchise those who don't fall in these groups. Hence the pressure placed on women by society to stay in bad marriages because they would rather hold on to that perceived value and acceptance.
A word!
This is pure wisdom. I love your content Kitt and Apondi.
Very sobering discussion
Your mum is such a vibe n ave learnt something new today 💕💕
Your videos are always such an eye-opener. Thank God for the day I discovered you!!
As a child I knew the names my Grandmas from both sides of the family, Zilpa and Penina.
But we addressed them as Dani and if we needed to specify which Dan in their absence, it would be Dani Penina or Dani Zilpa.
We also had Dani’s sisters who we referred to by name and Kwaru’s sisters who were referred to by Waya so and so, so we has Waya Sheri etc.
I always introduce myself as 'my name' not my father’s name unless it is a government office that needs all my three names.
I love you and your mother, you are so blessed. Kitt make more video with Apondi ❤️
The topic is so relevant. When I got married just hyphenated my surname with my husband name but I still use my surname as is despite being quote and quote a Mrs being a lawyer where the change would be so evident.
Kitt, you are one of the youtubers I look upto. Especially as a woman and an upcoming youtuber, you inspire me. I love this video.
❤❤❤❤❤
I like Apondi❤
Conversations like this🙌👏 Thanks Kitt I've enjoyed and learnt alot.💝
@Kitt the „nee“ is so popular in the Western world. If you look at most prominent women‘s wikipedia profiles they most have nee 🙈 e.g Beyoncé‘s Wikipedia lists her full name, then adds née „Knowles“
Anne Misere everywhere....
I grew up calling my aunties & uncles by names-and my mom taught us this..i.e - uncle Nick, Aunty Terry.
The first question has been a pet pee of mine. I was around Nigerians a lot and realised that many women who had kids had lost their identity to becoming someone’s mum by name. Until today, I challenge that notion.