When I met my bf I was 33. I told him everything up front. Said I'm too old for games, this is how I am, take it or leave it. We're still together 7 years later.
this is how it works for Muslims. I believe that‘s way better than dating around and then wasting your time on someone who you might not even end up with.
Fr, this is literally the only way I would even entertain the thought of possibly dating someone lol Speed run the first date & lay all the facts on the table. If we are compatible let's give it a try, otherwise good day & goodbye.
I am 29 and already at this stage for last 2 yrs. I declined someone bcz we could not get on terms with talking hours. He said 3 days a week for 2-3 hrs, I said 2 days a week 1 hr for few years@@ebonyblack8109
That's the perfect date for me tbh, just straight to the point and if our values doesn't align, just good bye, no time wasted, no feelings broken, just perfect
@rajori111 it depends actually. If you want to see it from the country culture side, then you almost exactly right. Many (mostly) women dont have the right to say a lot about the arrangements. But if you see it from the actual islam as a religion side, the woman actually have the right to basically anything. And well, different countries has different culture and value, so even if we have the same religion our ways to practice our prayers might different. In my country the woman (mostly) has the upperhand in arranged marriage. Welp anyway, in several countries, there are also some arranged marriage agencies so interview like the videos are not weird, its actually pretty good. You gave your cv, the agency will choose you partner based on your cv and other people cv, if they found a match they will ask you and the person who might be you arranged partner to meet and are you okay with them, if yes they will arranged a meeting for both of you to meet each other, if no then the egency will choose someone else. Its actually so simple.
Honestly all dating should start like this and then go on an actual date. Getting all the facts out immediately to see if your compatible on a base level
It's so practical! It's seeing if you have a chance, before you get involved personally. It makes sense, in a shocking way. I think it's shocking b/c we're saturated with media that goes in a different direction! Too romantic.
My husband and i were exactly like this. Got engaged after 8 weeks because we'd asked each other every question in the universe and decided it was either compatible or negotible and that was that! Celebrating over a dozen years together now
Lyanna is so talented she will never run out of ideas. She could make a living for the next couple years with a series of these speed dating videos. Is the barrier to entry to developing a TV series high? 😂
@glitterfalls because the mothers for girls are too old-fashioned in their ways of doing and speaking and for boys the girls consider them to be mama's boys and that they listen more to what their mother says and not their partner/girlfriend/wife.
Because ppl can be afraid about having to take care of an elderly, not being able to get intimate anywhere anytime, feeling unease, and having to take to accommodate their lifestyle with the one of an older.
@bmike3000 it is pretty on the nose but the word adapted could also apply. Providing the source would have been better but difficult to do in a short. I wonder if the source is provided in the longer vid, if a longer vid even exists.
Honestly we need more dates like this. Get all the important stuff out of the way, and if you're either compatible or willing to adjust, you can move forward. If there's a dealbreaker, you move on with minimum time/energy lost.
I LOVED IT. I wish it was completely accurate cuz ive been mulling this over for a while now but this was great cuz it was accurately good if it was right! Dodged bullets, boundaries set, truth told. WELL DONE!✔️✔️✔️
Straight to the point, know what they’re looking for, simple negotiations and no hard feelings even with the deal breaker… Am I weird to say I like this style? lol
@tanitoluwaj.adedotun4960 Ha! I don't know about that, we were well off but not rich either. But I noticed neither one of them had a healthy relationship since still being home with our mama 😆
@@rodneysessoms8804 Maybe false correlation then, or lack of control. Leaving one family to start another is a ruse started by the upper echelon to control population, a ruse they themselves don't adhere to. I live with my parents, and we're average (not rich, but we get by), and I don't have a problem with healthy relationships. It's just a matter of control. The current worldwide economic decline is exposing the ruse; men can't afford to even live by themselves now. Not to talk of moving out just to have "healthy relationships" with women.
@tanitoluwaj.adedotun4960 or just too d@mn cottled and enabled behavior. I told our mother, You made the mees, they're too old and too late to clean up the mess she made now smh
@rodneysessoms8804 I disagree respectfully. Parents spend valuables years raising children, is it wrong to want the children to stick by them as they grow older? Or do we just consider raising the children as service to humanity. So they can go out and start families of their own, and then eventually place the parents in homes so that random people can take care of them? Maybe parents should just dump children in homes so random people can take care of them till their ready to go out into the world, then it'll make sense.
I told my now husband on one of our first dates that if he'd ever hit me, it would be over for good and he would never get a second chance. He was quiet for a long time. Then he said that he felt hurt that I thought it necessary to say that, but he understood that I needed to say it anyway. I asked why he felt hurt. He responded that he thought I'd say it because of his non-European background. After I explained that I had said it because he was a man and not because of his background, he felt somewhat relieved. But that incident told me so much about how he reacts to difficult situations and I felt safe with him ever since.
I saw a similar scene on the shorts here from a show, curious if this is inspired but that show. Regardless it’s absolutely funny and relatable, skip the small talk and straight to the point
Reminds me of that show NewsRadio that used to come on back in the 70s, I think? Still comes on air every now and then lol. They did this exact bit, just varied a little. This is a great recreation! :)
Interviewing for a date be like:
Need a whole damn resume with references
@@LyannaKea omg hi
@@LyannaKeayou're too good❤❤😂
@@LyannaKea lol ikr...can never be too cautious with these things
@@LyannaKeaThai point with dating it’s not wrong lol
"deceased"
"sorry to hear that"
"no need"
lmaooo
Bro 492 likes and no replies :/
Seungberry!
@@YoUR_BehAviOr_iS_sO_uGH I saw like 35 seungberrys today ㅋㅋㅋ the numbers are growing (I am also a stay) 😂❤
@@YoUR_BehAviOr_iS_sO_uGH
HI SEUNBERRYS AND THAT OTHER STAY
SEUNGBERRY!!
Why do I actually like this? Straight to the point, no time wasted no doubt just simple 😭
When I met my bf I was 33. I told him everything up front. Said I'm too old for games, this is how I am, take it or leave it. We're still together 7 years later.
this is how it works for Muslims. I believe that‘s way better than dating around and then wasting your time on someone who you might not even end up with.
I know, I'm like "This lowkey me though, and I'm in my 20s." 😅😂
Fr, this is literally the only way I would even entertain the thought of possibly dating someone lol
Speed run the first date & lay all the facts on the table. If we are compatible let's give it a try, otherwise good day & goodbye.
Same! I hate turning around the Rosie’s
The efficiency is immaculate. I'm jealous.
And no need to pay for dinner in luxury restaurant.😂😂
Quick, easy, efficient
That's what she said@@LyannaKea
I need this in real life
For real...My add maths teacher would be proud...😂
The calendar openings are *very* specific
Hi Google ✨
Google? Never saw them comment on something before
it's my first time seeing you comment bro
I use your calendar everyday of my life. I'd like to thank you for keeping me productive 😆
Dang google has 5 replies💀
When you get old enough, the conversations go more or less like this 😂
Can't wait for when it's this point blank😂
Everyone should be like this! It would be so much simpler.
Indeed. No games! 😅
I am 29 and already at this stage for last 2 yrs. I declined someone bcz we could not get on terms with talking hours. He said 3 days a week for 2-3 hrs, I said 2 days a week 1 hr for few years@@ebonyblack8109
"We're tried..."
And, over!😅
“Well, we tried!!!!” I KNOW THATS RIGHT!!!! Lol
That's the perfect date for me tbh, just straight to the point and if our values doesn't align, just good bye, no time wasted, no feelings broken, just perfect
I know right😂 i always wanted to do this
Arranged marriage might be the one for you! Recommend in Islam ❤
I WISH it was like this fr 😭
right? how do we something similar. 😂
@rajori111 it depends actually. If you want to see it from the country culture side, then you almost exactly right. Many (mostly) women dont have the right to say a lot about the arrangements. But if you see it from the actual islam as a religion side, the woman actually have the right to basically anything. And well, different countries has different culture and value, so even if we have the same religion our ways to practice our prayers might different. In my country the woman (mostly) has the upperhand in arranged marriage. Welp anyway, in several countries, there are also some arranged marriage agencies so interview like the videos are not weird, its actually pretty good. You gave your cv, the agency will choose you partner based on your cv and other people cv, if they found a match they will ask you and the person who might be you arranged partner to meet and are you okay with them, if yes they will arranged a meeting for both of you to meet each other, if no then the egency will choose someone else. Its actually so simple.
Honestly all dating should start like this and then go on an actual date. Getting all the facts out immediately to see if your compatible on a base level
It's so practical! It's seeing if you have a chance, before you get involved personally. It makes sense, in a shocking way. I think it's shocking b/c we're saturated with media that goes in a different direction! Too romantic.
“Children?”
“Just one”
“Are you wanting another”
“EYY nonono”
lol😭😭🤣🤣🤣
Hardly want the one already there
YOURE SUCH A GOOD ACTRESS!!!! From playing your “mom” to other characters it’s like they each have their own personality it’s awesome!
The fact that your mother lives with you is definitely something you start with. Too bad that this particular man didn’t end up a match.
Could have saved so much time!
Even with a Six Figure Income, I don't think i could ignore the fact his Mama lives with him! 🚫👵🏻🏡
How is it bad that his mim lives with him I want my mom to live with me
@@shannxly Not bad or good. He wants it, she doesn't. Deal breaker. Next!
@@shannxly It depends on the mom. Mine was awful and I couldn't wait to move out
"Imitation is the highest form of flattery"
It was about time I saw someone copy this scene. Good job.
Why is this sounding like the terms and conditions for a contract marriage like in the k dramas 😭😭😂😂
Fr!
Ooooooooooo good idea
tht is so true😂
lol.... they are just mature... k drama 's script and this lady
Isn't this all relationships boiled down to bare bone? 😅 Just hella straight forward without the twist and turns of getting to know each other.
I just adore every single character you do. Such a gifted woman. Bless you for bringing joy ❤
I love this. No unnecessary small talk. 😂
“Income”?
“Six figures”.. “Living arrangements “
Right they’re so old school it wasn’t even a question what her income was. 😂
@@ItsAulwaysMeyou must be fun at parties. Ever heard of parodies?
@@ItsAulwaysMe bro im sure News Radio would be jazzed to see it. Imitation is the most sincere form of flattery
@@NAT20Ashes Yeah, idk what the mom had to offer in this one 😂
@@Udontknowmi "3 days a week for 5 hours" is what she brings
Love the NewsRadio reference! 😁 This fits your characters so well!
“Im single, your single, let’s begin” love it 🤣
Noticed how now it's never you male I female, let's begin...
I appreciate the efficiency and politeness. Very nice.
"Eyy no no no!" got me dying😂
Am saying 😹😹🙌I laughed so harrrrrd
@@ItsAulwaysMe I know it and already did
@@ItsAulwaysMethe beauty of this one is that it is adapted to her culture...😊
If only it were that honest and straightforward a process. This is refreshing.
This reminded me of an old sitcom scene where negotiations went well except the deal breaker was their holiday location lol
Same! Between the vineyard or hawaii was it? 🤣 Mustve been the inspiration
News radio
I wish I could recall what show this bit came from, but it is a *classic* and works even better with Auntie Kea~
Seinfeld no?
That scene was amazing.
My husband and i were exactly like this. Got engaged after 8 weeks because we'd asked each other every question in the universe and decided it was either compatible or negotible and that was that! Celebrating over a dozen years together now
Ohhh
We need this Speed dating show 😂
Agreed, I need a whole episode 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Lyanna is so talented she will never run out of ideas. She could make a living for the next couple years with a series of these speed dating videos. Is the barrier to entry to developing a TV series high? 😂
Man, you're the best. @@mattbarnett6902
@@LyannaKea random question Lyanna : He Lei Poh Tan Part 3? WHEN?
@@LukeGameZzYESS WE NEED HIM BACKK
" I am single you are single Let's begin "
Had me dying 😂😂😂
I'm a mother and neurodivergent and this would be my ideal dating scenario.
Agreed
@@LyannaKea ❤️
Not a mother and not neurodiverse. Still the ideal Setting for me.
Save this clip as a reference and send it to potential dates as a kinda-serious-joke. The right person will respond with a sigh of relief. 😆
@@twhimsy😂😂 good tip!
Appreciate the considerate approach they both have, willing to accept the other person has valid opinions
*"MY MOM LIVE WITH ME" hell in Europe hearing this make everyone run away😅😂😂*
Why is that not considered a good thing?
@glitterfalls because the mothers for girls are too old-fashioned in their ways of doing and speaking and for boys the girls consider them to be mama's boys and that they listen more to what their mother says and not their partner/girlfriend/wife.
@@glitterfalls
Can't speak for Europe, but here in the states: the whole "evil mother-in-law" stereotype and the lack of true privacy
Because ppl can be afraid about having to take care of an elderly, not being able to get intimate anywhere anytime, feeling unease, and having to take to accommodate their lifestyle with the one of an older.
Except if the mom is the queen of a whole country, I guess 😜
Straight to the point and polite at the same time! No time wasted, all parties seem pleased with the process. Sounds good!
This is no nonsense, time saving conversation! 😂 straight to the point!
for real, I'd still wanna go out to dinner after, whether it's gettin wings with a new friend or wings with a new lover
I wish we could more have this conversations. Straight to the point and not time wasted
This was literally the scene from NewsRadio with the Speed Marriage Negotiations lol .. never knew Auntie Kea was cultured like that
THANK YOU this was driving me nuts that i couldn’t remember what it was from
Season 2 Episode 8
so is this considered “stealing” content or no? Haha
@@comedienne_historianYou FIRST need to prove it was stolen....don't speculate and assume
I like in the show, the deal breaker was where they would summer vacation. That show was great.
"Are you wanting another?"
"Eyyyy no no no."
My kind of woman 😂
That is the most confident "Six figures" I've ever heard
This is perfect straight forward to the point, no wasting time, no hurt feelings etc.
"Do you wany another one?" Eh No no no 😂 I feel yah😢
“I’m single ur single; let’s begin” is beautiful ✨✨
They r negotiating terms 😭
Know thyself! Honestly not sure I know myself enough to have such an efficient and clear breakdown like this
Marriage is a legal contract, so makes sense.
😅😅😅😅😅 Auntie never fails to crack me up, and I need a part two. The "no need" is so brilliant 😅
This is the best dating show I have ever seen😂 we need more!!
Normalize dating resumes. I want to see your dating history, a list of references, and a list of skills
It would be awesome if dating went this way, it would be more straightforward and finding your match would be much easier.
I'm single. You're single. Let's begin, is wild fr😂😂
I know exactly what TV scene inspired this skit - you are a woman of culture I see!
Haha also saw that video. Old but still good. 👌👌😊
I thought the same thing, I think that this is an amazing interpretation of it though, and I dare say even stands on its own
Newsradio. Rip Phil Hartman
If by inspired you mean stolen
@bmike3000 it is pretty on the nose but the word adapted could also apply. Providing the source would have been better but difficult to do in a short. I wonder if the source is provided in the longer vid, if a longer vid even exists.
Honestly we need more dates like this. Get all the important stuff out of the way, and if you're either compatible or willing to adjust, you can move forward. If there's a dealbreaker, you move on with minimum time/energy lost.
As an introvert I wish dating was this easy 😭
Or are you simply being shy?
@@winleerasanthanah4716 Introverts can be social and straight forward, we just don't get out enough to meet people 😂
You are more than what is inside your own head. You are also what is inside their head.
Zen dating tip.
Love itttt! Everything would be so much simpler if was like this with actual no hard feelings
At this point in my life I'm going to start being practical like this woman
"I'm single, you're single. Let's go."
I love this take on this skit concept. It’s so good!
The fact you both are rapping while talking 😭😭😭
Spitting bars while snatching dates
I LOVED IT. I wish it was completely accurate cuz ive been mulling this over for a while now but this was great cuz it was accurately good if it was right! Dodged bullets, boundaries set, truth told. WELL DONE!✔️✔️✔️
Excellent adaptation of the NewsRadio marriage proposal sketch
Yep, I noticed that.
OMG THE NEWSRADIO REFERENCEEEEE ❤❤❤😂😂😂😂😂 one of the most iconic back and forths in TV history!! Well done on the recreation!!
I could swear this is a captain holt bit in Brooklyn 99
I can totally see that
it's a bit in another show, i can't remember which
edit: it's NewsRadio
@@delwynmarcoux1523Season 2 Episode 8 of NewsRadio to be exact.
I had already gone to the next short when I realized what I had just read and I had to come back to like lmfao
the ending part is literally stolen one for one from brooklyn 99
This is like that negotiation clip on NewsRadio where they compromised on kids but not to vacation. Honest it seems healthy to be so up front.
“Are you wanting another?”
“Ey no no no” 😂😂
I mean, did she stutter?
@@LyannaKea nope, she did not!
I wish all dates went this way. Just a interview to see if you would be compatible. 100% honesty with no lies It would save people a lot of time.
This is what I wish dating was like. Straight to the point, no bs. 😂
Straight to the point, know what they’re looking for, simple negotiations and no hard feelings even with the deal breaker…
Am I weird to say I like this style? lol
This...this would be amazing.
The fastest yet most efficient dating ever. No need to waste the time.
It's truly an art form.😂
Girl, you're too good❤❤
I like the second guy’s vibe waaay more than the first!
Good one Lyanna! All business straight to the point !!😂
YES I NEED THIS KIND OF NEGOTIATIONS 😅
I love this new version of the SNL sketch 👌😂 If only all the people were so honest about themselves ☝️😅
I respect the efficiency and honesty.
Auntie knows her stuff - better luck next time!
“Eyyyy no no no!” 😂😂😂😂 Thats me when I get that question
“ 👏🏽 DEAL” lmao
That was the only scene from news radio i even remember, and it was funny as hell. Good take on it
I want a part 2 😂
Why can't it be like this though? Seems far less of a hassle. Especially once the deal breaker is established, its just the end. I love that.
I keep trying to tell my younger brothers you won't be any relationships clinging to our mother 😅
This only applies to poor people. Rich folks stick together, and it's up to random females to decide if they want to join the family or not.
@tanitoluwaj.adedotun4960 Ha! I don't know about that, we were well off but not rich either. But I noticed neither one of them had a healthy relationship since still being home with our mama 😆
@@rodneysessoms8804 Maybe false correlation then, or lack of control. Leaving one family to start another is a ruse started by the upper echelon to control population, a ruse they themselves don't adhere to.
I live with my parents, and we're average (not rich, but we get by), and I don't have a problem with healthy relationships. It's just a matter of control. The current worldwide economic decline is exposing the ruse; men can't afford to even live by themselves now. Not to talk of moving out just to have "healthy relationships" with women.
@tanitoluwaj.adedotun4960 or just too d@mn cottled and enabled behavior. I told our mother, You made the mees, they're too old and too late to clean up the mess she made now smh
@rodneysessoms8804 I disagree respectfully. Parents spend valuables years raising children, is it wrong to want the children to stick by them as they grow older?
Or do we just consider raising the children as service to humanity. So they can go out and start families of their own, and then eventually place the parents in homes so that random people can take care of them?
Maybe parents should just dump children in homes so random people can take care of them till their ready to go out into the world, then it'll make sense.
I told my now husband on one of our first dates that if he'd ever hit me, it would be over for good and he would never get a second chance. He was quiet for a long time. Then he said that he felt hurt that I thought it necessary to say that, but he understood that I needed to say it anyway. I asked why he felt hurt. He responded that he thought I'd say it because of his non-European background. After I explained that I had said it because he was a man and not because of his background, he felt somewhat relieved. But that incident told me so much about how he reacts to difficult situations and I felt safe with him ever since.
My brain honestly was surprised how fast this went and how they compromised so quickly
Would be good if more people had a conversation like that before starting something
That’s why he’s still single because he lives with his mom 😅😅
We need MORE of these, honestly would watch this for a whole 10 minutes straight, gold
I saw a similar scene on the shorts here from a show, curious if this is inspired but that show. Regardless it’s absolutely funny and relatable, skip the small talk and straight to the point
Straight to the point. Feelings can grow
More of this please
this is such a wonderful take on that skit 🤩
If only job interview were like this.
I love that everyone of her characters has a perfect eyeliner
This is hilarious! If only!
This is the respect and maturity that all relationships should be approached with
Holy crap, my brain doesn't work that fast
Right down to business.. Lmao 🤣😂
We've been there done that priorities are different now.. lololol🤣
"Well... We tried"😂😂😂
That's more than I can claim in the matters of dating 😂
This is the most Asian first date I have ever seen!
I thought she was trying to get a date for Lyanna
The repetition of 'I'm single You are single Let's begin' at the end feels like the icing of the cake!
need this a series fr.
This is the way to go! Expectations clear from the start. No gray areas.
Very mature. Uber practical. Excellent!
This is not a negotiation, this is a strategy game on who's not available or is
This is PERFECT. If only more people are this efficient and have the emotional maturity to do this nowadays 😂😂
Reminds me of that show NewsRadio that used to come on back in the 70s, I think? Still comes on air every now and then lol. They did this exact bit, just varied a little. This is a great recreation! :)
Omg we need another part😊😂