0:00 Pre show songs, 🎵 Mystery Song 🎵 2:26 🎵 Field Coffee, Pt. 6 by Fields for Coffee 🎵 4:09 🎵 Voyage by Chris Westlake 🎵 7:23 🎵 Mystery Song 2 🎵 8:53 🎵 Bossa Lisboa by Sonic Moon 🎵 10:31 🎵 Cuban Cigar (Reduced Mix) Peter Godfrey 🎵 13:42 🎵 Brazilian Amy by Dominik Hauser 🎵 15:51 🎵 O Além É Aquí by Clara Mendes 🎵1 19:40 🎵 Better Kind Of Bitter by Peachy Pavement, Jobii & L.M. Styles Feat. Milva 🎵 20:36 🎵 Your Good Lies by Vividry 🎵 23:36 🎬 Show starts, Candle of the evening Le Lebo Laurier 62 , Fragrances of the day Tom Ford Oud Wood and Tom Ford Tuscan Leather Monologue, Quit Fighting High Value Men 1:25:15 📱 1st Caller Enitan age 34, 2nd Caller Halley age 18, 3rd Callers Eliza age 21, 4th Caller Cece age 22 1:44:10 5th Caller Lana age 35, 6th Caller Saxy age 30, 7th Caller Ms. Moe 1:57:50 Closing words 2:03:00 Outro
Thanks. However, does anyone really need the timestamps for the individual songs? My suggestion would be for 3 time stamps; songs, monologue, callers. Keep up the good work!
My husband asked me not to go back to my job after maternity leave...and I trusted him to take care of our family financially. Best decision ever. Now I work with him in running our million dollar business for OUR family/children...and not working for others to make them rich.
When he leaves you, what will you do, how much will you claim? 50% of marriages end in divorce. Never disregard the workings of the ancestors to please your man. They suffered through the sh!t for a reason. I'm not saying don't believe, just prepare.
When it comes to the husband store concept i stopped on level one, met my henry when I was 18 and decided i aint going anywhere else. Ofcourse friends thought i should explore the other levels, men of different calibers came and tried but i knew i am not going anywhere and my man has progressed so much in the 4 years I’ve been with him and continues to succeed. I get alot of things wrong in life but i did the best thing by loving the man Im with.
I stopped working after having my husband’s baby. He decided he wants to be more than an Amazon delivery driver and get his license as a mortgage broker. I started working again to help with bills and be able to pay for the course. I wouldn’t sacrifice giving my baby to my mom to watch her while I work unless it was for this reason in helping my husband wanting to reach his goal. I told his sister and her friend. They said “wouldn’t you want to work regardless instead of staying home?” I said of course not id choose being with my daughter all day over working any day, but I’m gladly sacrificing the time to help my husband’s dreams. They both looked at me like I was crazy. I’ve been avoiding them since 👍🏼
Andrea Keep Doing What U Think & Feel Is Right For Your Family. Standing By Your Husband's Side Is One Of The Reasons He Married U. Stay Bless & Prosperous Andera
@@shawnbrown9336 is it bad if the woman want to work outside the house? What if it’s her dream job and dream pay? Is it so bad for woman to work? Also, this is just a honest question for a different perspective and conversation. I don’t mean no disrespect.
Kevin is spot on once again, the hesitancy and fear they have with “giving it all up” doesn’t match the faith and fearlessness they have in their degree and job! I love the concept, I just wish more Men could do it but the concept makes ample sense.
@@paulbunyan9436 I mean I don’t see myself leaving this country anytime soon but I’m a religious and spiritually led man and I believe Father God will guide me to my wife and it won’t fail IF I continue to follow Him throughout it step by step. The DR is cool and I know they got some baddies WITH COOPERATION but we’ll see, I trust Him plus I love Black Women FIRST although about 40% of the DR is Black/African anyways 🤷🏾♂️💯.
@@erictoomer5665 U BETTER OFF GETTING A BUSINESS LICENSE PARTNERSHIP WITH HER…..THEN U WONT PAY ALIMONY OR IF U GET MARRIED….. BUY HER A TAVERN OR BRICK AND MORTAR BUSINESS IN HER NAME
This is crazy to listen to because I’ve been doing all of these “high value men” tasks without having ever heard this term it’s just how I was raised. My wife is 30 &im 32 and I employed her. And quit my 9-5 moved us back to her home town in Europe she’s never had to work a day in her life since she met me and she fits the description Beautiful friendly submissive cooperative We have 3 kids and her student loan debt is something we are paying off 100k for an associates having paid tuition as an immigrant From school in the US. This podcast really got me acknowledging the success in my life Thank you God
10 Things for Women To Do Who Aspire To Marry Only High Value Men: 1. Be fit, exercise regularly, do whatever it takes to maintain your beauty and physique. 2. Be feminine. 3. Be cooperative and submissive. 4. If your less than a 7 in looks, marry the guy who is going to Med or Law School, or the STEM or accounting/finance student. Or the college football, basketball, hockey or baseball player that has potential to turn professional. Or someone who is an aspiring entrepreneur that is very business savvy. 5. Don't be a single mother. 6. If you're over 35, unless you've managed to retain your beauty, focus on dating average joes. Especially if you have had more than one child out of wedlock. 7. Study that high value man's lifestyle, understand his needs and wants. Add value to his life, if he's too busy to cook and clean his house. Cook and clean for him. If he's disorganised, plan his weekly calendar. 8. Maintain and display a virtuous and wholesome image on your social media platforms. 9. Refrain from having too many sexual partners, if you're high value man finds out that you have a high body count. Then he's unlikely to take you seriously as a potential wife. 10. Be supportive of his needs and wants. don't be argumentative, make his home a pleasant and peaceful place to come back to after a tough day at work.
#4 on your list needs work. Trying to target potential pro athletes is like trying to win the lottery. Even the best player on a college's (much less a high school's) team is unlikely to come close to going pro in a top-tier league. Then, even if a woman wins that lottery, so many pro athletes blow all their money and/or cheat on their wives. In the high likelihood that you lose the lottery, then the woman is stuck with a failed athlete, many of whom have no other skills to fall back on because they didn't go to college to get an education. Kevin often stresses that pro athletes and entertainers are not automatically considered high value. It's far more than just the money. The rest of your list is pretty solid though. :)
@@t-salt3737 the issue with what you said is that it had nothing to do with giving the child their best life. Thanks for proving that children don’t matter to you.
@The Esquire of Sports ® Not having a man doesn't make you lonely, people have family & friends you know. Y'all act like peen is the last thing on earth to women.
My husband selected me at 21..Called me the No.1 draft pick,lol🙌!! 31 years later and we love each other too smithereens...No children...1 dog of 18 years that got hit by a car ...He and I...and I value him...He also values me
你好 Kevin, im a black guy who studied Mandarin Chinese for almost 10 years. I got to Chinatown almost everything weekend here and people are always so amazed that I speak it. Conversing in a language other than your own is the best feeling in the world. Wouldn't trade it for a damn thing
This was a very insightful segment . Masulinas (Masculine woman ) heal your femininity cause it’s a costly debt to pay. Never mind the student loans… the debt in losing out on a successful hypergamous marriage is one you’ll never live down.
Honestly a woman who is willing to drop everything she's doing to work with her man is one worth keeping. And as a possible bonus effect, the women who leave their jobs open new opportunities for other potential men trying to earn an income so they can either better take care of their family or start their own families.
I never thought about it like that, but one best friend quit her job, moved and used her savings into buying into his business. I am mine's real estate agent and that conversation was intense. He wanted another agent to do it. I thought he didn't care about me. He thought it would cause a problem by us irritating each other and that l was gold digging. I still cant believe that is what we thought. l was ready to work harder for him then anyone. And he works me. Lol
I agree with this one. I was chasing success but I took a break from social media and met a high value black man who is 52. I want to cook and clean so my man doesn’t feel tired or overwhelmed. I won’t let another girl come near him. I’m getting my ring 💍😌🙏🏾
Be careful. Don't ferk around with him tOO long before DEMANDING MARRIAGE. Yeah, I said it.....DEMAND or LEAVE. If he loves you, he'll want to put you on LOCKDOWN by marriage. That means all other men stay away. ~~GoOd Luck~~
@@GoofyFlan Is 2 months too soon to ask about marriage. I explained that I don’t like to waste time and that I don’t believe in kids out of wedlock. He wants to settle down and he wants a wife because he gets exhausted from working at the hospital because of COVID. He is busy but I like to give plenty of attention once he is done with work. How may I get the ring sooner?
@@miraclechildnyc A man at 52 has been around and has baggage. You need to go on a cruise for at least 3 days to find if you can really deal with being married to him. ~~TRUST ME~~ By the end of the cruise, you'll know if he's the one or not. Naah. Two months is too soon. If he hasn't asked you by the 6th month, you guys need to have a heart-to-heart. Be firm and be prepared to move on too if you have to. Again, at 52, he knows what he wants. That's far too old for games.
@@GoofyFlan I haven’t given him any 🐱 yet and I haven’t been vaccinated yet. He asked if I would get vaccinated so I could travel with him. I don’t want to have sex with him yet. I want to secure my position. He is divorced with a daughter
@@miraclechildnyc So you don't expect him to not have sEx while waiting, huh? Get vaxxed, ERYBODY should get tested for STDs, go on a cruise, and don't go past 6 months waiting. Men like him want to see the look of appreciation on your face when they do nice things for you. Women his age are hard AF to have fun with. They've done everything, so there's no fun in taking them ANYWHERE. Sex ain't shEEit. Just don't get caught up in accepting BS. Give him 6 months of your best and move on after that if he doesn't want marriage.
You can absolutely open a business & hire your nurse spouse. My brother have a business paying CNA’s at $35 hr & RN’s I’m not sure, but I know it’s a substantial amount. His wife run all the back office work & she’s an RN. The business doing damn good, over $2 million in revenue. I watched him build that thing up & put his wife in position to not have to punch a clock for nobody else.
Hello sir, I'm going to pharmacy school for my doctorate in pharmacy this fall do you think that is a profession that can be transferable to a man? or would it be better to just get a lab job. I would be a compounding pharmacist projected to make between 150k- 177k
He’s absolutely correct. I’m an insurance premium auditor and a Notary Public. I see financial statements and contracts on a daily. I see the payroll and quarterly wage reports. I see who the stockholders are. The women are on payroll, wives and girlfriends. I deal with high value men and H.E.N.R.Y.s. I’m telling y’all, Ladies, Listen to this Brother!!! I have been blessed to snatch me one and we’re both excited. Based on my skills, he told me that I’m just the type of woman he needs. Our first date was a business dinner date, where he was recruiting me to do some free lance administrative assistant work for his company. You can have more than you can imagine, if you change YOU!!! To be continued, cause he’s already taking about marrying me 😊
Think about how idiotic the concept of the modern woman respecting and obeying her male manager rather than her own husband. Think about this... A male stranger at her job gets more respect and submission than the man who married her. Great stream 👍
@@LetGoStressFree Regardless of the sex of the manager, they’re paying more respect to their manager than the person they chose to marry and spend the rest of their life with. That’s problematic af
I see the evolution of Kevin and his interactions with his callers. He's getting better outcomes and tonight's show was on point. Oh btw... Lana do you have any friends? Lol
He’s not wrong about this , I remember when my business teacher told us years ago to go to a community college or try to get free tuition to pay for college because, he knows a couple who is in 300,000.00 in debt for a degree in psychology from UCLA. The debt is a real issue, I see why 70% of men are pursuing blue collar jobs more then ever!
A stark and crippling issue spreading like a wild fire in todays society is the amount of consumer debt modern women are taking on just to “prove a point”.
@The Esquire of Sports ® instead of admitting they don’t perform at the man’s level and ending this pointless competition, they demand we lower the standards so they meet them,.. instead of admitting their performance contributed to their salaries, they claim men pay each other more simply because they’re men. It’s laughable.
@@DangleSan too many women are taking on all this buy now pay later debt just to flex for the gram about how they don’t need men, flights not feelings and all that other bs. This has major repercussions. They make less then men yet live more grand lifestyles with borrowed money. This inflation and rate hike will wipe out so many of these women that it will look like a third world country in a few years .
@@TheDCGuitar13 how many women come on here talking about traveling when they make less than 50k? Women don't need money as much as a man since for men, our social status is tied to money far more. So for women, doing poorly with money isn't as bad. For men? We NEED to manage money well to attract a mate. It's just incentives.
Today’s single women remind me of old punch-drunk boxers who refuse to retire. You stay in the game too long it’s inevitable that you will lose… and lose badly. 💔🥊
@@THX5000 Cracked engine block, with a rusted out undercarriage..........and a odometer that's been ROLLED WAAAAAAAAAAAAAYBACK, with a "Runs Like New" sign on it.....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Kevin you hit it exactly! My wife does work for me, She is primarily a housewife, and I do bring in over quarter million per year. I can verify you know what you’re talking about. Shout out to the dapper 6 figure men out there.
I met my fiance while working as a cashier.. I'm now a stay at home mom. I never thought but always dreamed of being taken care of. When he gets home.. Plate on the table legs in the air!! Whatever he wants he gets.. He deserves it! (I come with 3 kids and a guinea pig)
Simply put, women today are selfish. My ex use to run away like a scared rat whenever she wasn't happy. I blame Disney, telling young girls they can live happily ever after with their prince charming and then when things get rough they can't handle it and run away. Sadly, women today can't hold a candle to women of the past
@@blackbutterfly233ify negative again if you dont like males opinions don't watch it's very simple but don't listen to ur girl friends cos they don't have a clue what men want
This video is priceless! Young Men 18-28 years old (especially African American Men) from major metropolitan cities. Use this video as a prime example for the professional women you should stay away from while progressing with your careers and building wealth. KS TheGodFather thank you💯
I tried to do this with my ex about 3 years ago . I started a whole new business , put her on payroll also gave her position over all employees but she was not comfortable with me being her boss and her boyfriend at the same time , her words were "i don't like doing things on your time" clearly she wasn't ready to be a wife yet , very useful information thank you !!!
Pat yourself on the back, because you dodged a bullet. From the streets she came and to the streets she shall return. They rather work for the enemy and volunteer to smile no problem.
The dynamic is completely different when you're dating someone. Having your gf on payroll is ridiculous and inappropriate...do you understand that? She doesn't owe you anything yet as a gf. A wife is different.
@@janelleg597 you only become a wife when you start preforming like one. Men decide when you become a wife.. Why would you work for anyone else other than your family/ *PARTNER*?
@@squeezdge9087 first thing first I'm not putting no girlfriend on payroll playa lol. Yll niggas crazy as hell. I'll still open my business while she still the girlfriend. Now once I try to make her my wife and she still don't want to partner up her ass have to go.
It's crazy that you talked about this because this is what I'm going through. My ole lady is stressed at work and it's affecting her mood so I told her to work for me. She makes 6 figures so she's use to having her own money. I can't pay her 6 figures but she'll be able to live a comfortable lifestyle because I pay the bills. She's very resistant. I feel disrespected because I'm willing to take the stress off of her and she isn't willing to submit herself to me to that extent. Thinking about letting her go.
I’ve been in business, full-time, since 2014 and I’ve made over seven figures in revenue and make multiple six figures a year. My soon to be husband moved me into his home and said I have no bills to pay and that he wanted me to reduce my hours. Guess what? I did it without any hesitation. I now work part time and maxed out my 401(k) and use my money to help us win in anyway I can. If she can’t be in your program, you may want to reconsider your options.
@@SPARKWISDOM kudos and congrats to you. Please don't be shy to share your experience with other women because they need to hear it. I've worked my ass off and I plan on retiring in 4 years at the age of 39 and build a house in Namibia, Jamaica, and keep the houses I have here in the states. It'll be play time for us. But, I am not going to share that with a woman who's unappreciative. I'll give her a week to come to me talking like she got some sense and if it takes longer than that I'll find a replacement.
@@SPARKWISDOM you maxed out ur 401k to do what exactly? Cuz why didn’t y’all come up with a plan for you to continue to work for a year or so! Save money and invest into something to keep that money flowing when you did leave!
@@Go-Getter does she watch the show? Introduce her if not. I already feel sad at the opportunity she will miss and regret as you are most definitely the prize.
You will not survive that transition. As long as you understand the reality of what her brain is telling her and you also must realize drama and stress is important for some people. they NEED something to complain about or you will be hit with the BORED talk. better to go back out with a fishing rod.. find something ready to leave her 30K job and be built. You cannot lead a 6figure woman unless you are a millionaire. She cannot brag to her friends that you told her to quit her job, it will be " girl i cant do x,y,z.. you know this guy is paying me half of what i was making". add to that if she ever decides to break up you can still be on the hook to pay her bills
Thank you Kevin for validating my decision to leave my 9-5 and refocus that energy into my husband's business. Wives, you do yourselves a disservice (and unnecessary stress) when you are spending a min., 12 hours of your day trying to get to, and work at a job that only takes your best years. It does not work.
Salute to all you women who figure out early on your purpose & are smart enough to follow your man's lead as head of the family. There is so much value in elevating a King. So many overcomplicate things & set themselves up for failure in order to be "right" all while losing. Don't apologize or allow these lost women to guilt trip you or whatever tactic they use. Enjoy winning & don't apologize to those who chose foolishly.
What’s really crazy is that there are millions of women working in mostly assisting and clerical roles making other men rich when there are a bunch of middle class men who could benefit off of those same skills having to look elsewhere because they’re ridiculed for not being wealthy by their mid twenties. These assisting skills learned in college could benefit the man and woman to the point of growing to have their own business where she gets much more benefits due to having a man sharing or outright paying all the bills. Much better circumstances than than being alone getting ripped off by a society that gets them into endless debt loops and depression from realizing what they saw on tv was a lie. The reason blk people thrived during Jim Crow was because those blk women understood that if they learned any type of skills, it had to benefit the family in some sort of way. They had jobs too. They just didn’t feel the need to destroy their men to feed their own egos. A job wasn’t some self serving competition trying to prove men are beneath them. It was just a job…
Not true. The assistant jobs are already defined. Most men were not raised to be leaders. They would have to recruit their significant other to the role.
@@AskAW there is a large amount of single men and women today with side gigs they create or participate in on top of the more than likely middle class job (they probably took on debt on a degree to land ) that would exponential benefit from having a spouse with the skills they don’t have that would build their side gigs into full time ventures. That’s how most successful small businesses are born. Of course not everyone is fit to lead an entire company but there are millions of solitary minded people that could benefit from dropping their egos and putting their complimentary skill sets together. That’s what sets apart other communities from ours. They’re not in it to get wealthy or rich. They’re in it to survive and in the process, the more practice they get, the better their circumstances get over the years.
@The Esquire of Sports ® the simple principle of half the bills is better than all of them and getting ripped off by every contractor you have to call should be enough. But that involves having to admit they’re not happy getting ripped off by society
The clerical skills of office women are not making middle-class professional men rich. That was the plot to "9 to 5" starring Dolly Parton and whatever you might think of the film, or theme tune, it was not true. Not then. Not today.
Kevin brother you are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT about how they let their scallywag friend(s) influence their dating. When I did security at Planned Parenthood & at the courthouse EVERYTHING came down to the wire with their decisions (abort'ns & filing CS) & even made a whole day of it. They give them TOO MUCH say in their relationships & stay messed up in the process.
I am really astonished that everyone buys into the feminist lie of working your whole life. I have been working for over 40 years. While I have been blessed with success, what I do is based on money, not desire or fulfillment. The idea that the highest human achievement is to work for a company that doesn’t care about you for 40-50 years is laughable. Men do it because we want and need to support our families. Why women choose it remains a mystery to me.
Perhaps it's a validation or affirmation source which kind of "supports" their feminist theories about self-worth and independence. You know, making it "alone" in the world etc. For men...this is quite the norm and not too many men crow too loudly about being a fettered wage-slave their entire lives...UNLESS this has merely been the way they've supported their family (as you stated)...in which case, legitimately "supporting their family" was the more noble aspect of what they were trying to achieve. If a man works for a company for forty years, but does so purely to finance his own "independence"....(the feminine version)...then by and large, he'll have a much easier time of it, and will have much more disposable income to lavish on himself and his hobbies etc... The difference (I believe) is however, that men won't view their 40 years wage-slaving to some company as their big achievement. Their BIG achievement will have been avoiding marriage and children and actually knowing what to do with their "independence" in this regard. They certainly won't be expecting kudos or fanfare just because they've been able to feed, clothe and shelter themselves without a woman. THAT'S the difference really. Women are quite new to the independent lifestyle....but for men, it's always been an option, and even on a relatively modest wage, a life without a wife or children can be a very active and fulfilling life for any man who chooses that option.
@@donnietobasco9791 you are so right and we are experiencing the first generations of independent women who are learning this too late. This choice is not fulfilling for most women. My great grandfather and men of their time who were skilled made enough to finance their family and got the well deserved respect from their women. Western governments made the 2 household income for survival scenario and it crushed the family dynamics in many cultures but in our culture mostly. I spent weeks asking myself why would our women specifically in the majority choose government incentives over their men from child benefits to corporate jobs. I can’t put it all in a comment but I do believe the removing of black men from the home has been a documented government agenda that worked. One example is in the 90s I remember girls in my school getting pregnant for a guaranteed home and steady financial income. Despite the ignorance of this the incentive for many girls was real. We must tell young women the truth. Never have I been so direct with the young women in my family “all men will not hurt you, let you father and brothers help you choose, no you do not need to go out and live life after studying, you will only collect trauma and get dug out…, your best years for marriage and children is 18-35 so make it a focus, there is no generational wealth without a man and woman… marriage is not Disney it’s duty, legacy, security and a lot of work… etc”. I am not struggling to get this message across anymore but my generation (I’m 39) were giving a very different message from our mothers and the mainstream.
@@jasonBGI so much so even some men buy into it. I herd a man say somewhere recently my daughter won’t just be some housewife she will be a lawyer or something, I mean would he shame her if she wanted to support her man 🤯. I had a meeting recently and I expressed some of these views and 2 black men said to me “yeah but it’s because most our women were abused” as in this is why they are so independent and strong now 😳 like wottt!!! Seriously a real number has been done on us 😔
You'd be proud of me, Mr Samuel's. Last night, I met a woman who is a 3 or 4, at best. Shaped like the lamp from "the Christmas story," ranting and raving about men. I asked her what she's looking for, first thing out of her mouth was "must be at least 5'10"!!" I asked her, how much do you weigh? She got mad as hell, and then I saw the light bulb go off when I asked how weight is any different than height. These low value women are out of their minds.
When u ask, "What do u bring to the table?", it stops em dead in their tracks......they shut down like the Droid Army in "The Phantom Menace".........🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The delusion is absurd. Asking a woman to exercise and workout, is equivalent to trying to bathe a cat in water. You’ll get the same reaction, “Oh No No No No”.
Kevin is right. Woman need to pick their man according to how he can provide & his total commitment to you & his children. That is 100% excellent advice. Please listen to him & teach your children this concept too. Teach your sons how to be providers and expect his wife to be FBI - this could completely change the trajectory of your life & posterity.
Modern society, especially women “have elevated physicality (aka sex) to the highest level pursuit possible.” That’s why Pookie and Rayray can live as burdens to those women because all they know to do is have sex. When we as men start collectively holding women accountable and to a standard this nonsense will change. The problem is men think as individuals and women think as a group.
WOW! I make over 200K after taxes and I fit none of those categories and I consider myself more or less average. Oh, but I chose a woman outside of the US. I guess I am an Explorer!
Europe women is the same as USA 🇺🇸 … I’m from Portugal currently living in London early 30’s believe me if u want there’s no difference, man in here also want to try 🇺🇸 women …. African women is another choice I never explored the ones that was raise with morals and stuff …
I've heard a lot of women say they need a job and their own money for their independence so they aren't trapped in a marriage. How weird is that? Planning an exit strategy before a marriage strategy.
Those women are SMART, there are a lot of women stuck in toxic relationships right now because they don't have any fiances or education because they were soley depending on a man. We know how to survive stop trying to tell us we are wrong. My mom always told me it's cool to have a boyfriend but she always wanted me to have my own as well. Women are not wrong at all for wanting to protect themselves. We all are on different timelines & will need to protect ourselves especially if men are cheating, walking out, & not doing their part. Yall are ridiculous on this app & fail to look at everyones individual situation. Not every woman will come out of high school & find a magic prince to take care of them from 18 to 90 yrs old. We must live for ourselves first period.
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !* _Tappin' in from South Central LA_ 1:36:03 As a student of Black Phillip, I always appreciate the shout outs from the great KS. Thanks Unk. Rest easy Big Homie. We're listening. 🤜🏾💥🤛🏾
Having watched Kevin Sam’s content is now one of my prerequisites when choosing a partner. He seems to be the only thing giving women logic and common sense in the dating field. Thanks man
Lol you are right I have a high-value man. I love him because he has showed me that he really cares. He pays for my bills, he pays for my schooling because he told me he wants us to build together so I am going to school for business and finance to help run his business. When I tell my so-called friends that, don’t have a man. The first thing that they say is what is he doing? He’s working all the time you never get to see him and I’m like well it’s a difference from having a 9-to-5 man and having a corporate man and I know I have a corporate man they see when he comes to pick me up or he just comes to see me that he drives a Roy’s Royce and he has two of them and other nice sports vehicles to I am very blessed that I have this phenomenal man that takes care of me and we have a connection and I love it. When I called him he picks up the phone each time so I’m just loving it😊
Media is also to partly blame in the mess that women are in today...being a wife and mom has become something to look down on...a man who is a mechanic etc. making an honest living is not even in the consideration of an average woman..sad
I think Kevin has a point. However I realize I'm not his target audience. I'm 59 married raised kids. Shout to Kevin...I would love to let your female listens know what she gotta do to get to where your speaking off. Been married to my wonderful husband forever. We did the Thang. Our sons 28 and 30. Wonderful males. I encourage females to get it together.
I'm 45 and a home builder and already have a beautiful lake front home close to chicago almost paid for. I'm Black and educated. I decided to stop dating low class women and hold out until i meet my queen.
Why? How are you going to meet your queen if you're not taking swings? Also, you make too much money not to use a private match making service. Stop 🛑 being cheap and drop some money on finding your wife.
The Hip Hop generation breaks their archetypes down into Tupac, Jay Z, and Nas. Tupac- rogue outlaw Jay Z- ultimate Hustler and Nas- the smooth and clean cut type.
I loved the part of the show when Kevin enacted some Women conversations and their level of subterfuge that is often unbeknownst to some women and men. It is similar to what I speak about which is repeated behaviors. Those behaviors either become normalized or repeated because they 1. Satiate the ego or self or 2. Give the individual a benefit some of kind exhilarating benefit which ultimately reflects back to satiating the ego or self. I speak of the cult of self often not only because it’s been fully embraced as the pinnacle school of thought in most of the world currently to a detrimental degree but, also because we often overlook and mitigate how powerful and influential the ego really is. another name of the school of thought would be called individualism. As Anton Lavey, said in his book in 1969, “Self-preservation is the highest law.” And my updated version of this sentence is: People seldomly will change their behavior if it benefits them more by not changing at all.
You are right I did say that….I was attempting to adhere to Kevin’s definition. Single as in unmarried…dating because that’s in fact what we are doing however i consider this a relationship because we’ve been doing this for the last 9 months.
I’m a contractor and my girl answers the phone for the business and she’s also the finance department lol she’s good. I learned all this from high value men before KS ever came to be who he was. Everything he says is spot on.
Yes, this trial work is a good thing, now that the concept is evolving. The key is- women not buying into the self-pity shit, they do it to get their friends attention... 29 years ago I did this in a second marriage. The paradigm was different because we were both divorced with kids. The second marriage lasted 17 years due to her self-pity a problem with alcohol, which led her to drugs. The first marriage was an earlier form of Kevin's plan for life. First wife was 21 and I was 25 worked in corporate America in marketing ..... the marriage lasted 11 years, plus two kids. LISTEN TO KEVIN, he is RIGHT! Before you girls open your legs, consider the children you will screw up as well as your own life.... Today I work outside my business with men who are screwed-up from jail, screwed-up from their single moms, and can't form any relationship in the sewer of screwed-up single moms.... KEVIN is a man of great leadership skills
This brother right here, without doubt or reservation, knows what time it is. As a 40 year old professional, no kids/no ex-wives, finally starting to get my life together and seeing nice results…. I can say this man’s opinions are damn close to mine own. Alas, although I am a true romantic at heart, life has taught me that my sacrifices are worth just as much as the next persons and are to be valued accordingly. If you’ve spent the last 10-15 years partying, having a great time being flown out, jumping from guy to guy (so that your body count is higher than mine and shit) while I’ve spent the last 10-15 busting my ass and climbing the fifthly, grimy, dirty rungs up the ladder of life, then no, it’s likely not happening. In addition, after a certain age and number of sexual partners, women lose the ability to peer bond with their man - meaning, no matter how great the man is - you will never truly love him. Its not like men are being unreasonable; in fact, I think we’re being entirely too reasonable, as of late.
I AM A ER NURSE MY WIFE BECAME A NURSE BUT ONLY DOES PER DIEM 3 MONTHS A WEEK I SET HER UP TO DO HER OWN RN CONSULTING…..4 KIDS 3 HOMES AND DADDY GETS HIS FOOD COOKES AND PLATE MADE ALL DAY ERRYDAY
What type of RN consulting??? I’m a RN working from home doing prior authorizations for Blue Cross. I’m looking to start my own business (group homes, AFC homes for the elderly) My husband is ready to invest in the business to set me up but I’m also interested in all aspects of self employment in the field.
Young men......if the young woman doesn’t have a firm set of routine behaviors that propel her forward.....let her alone. She must have developed intrinsic values and ideals that she wants for her life ON HER OWN.....before she ever lets another individual into her life. I’m not speaking on just a career. I’m speaking on the kind of woman, wife, and mother she wants to be and is actively pursuing to become this woman. This is my advice for my three sons....and the training I’ve given my six daughters! They’ve been raised to be an ASSET to a man’s life....not a liability! I set out to raise high value young women that would be the finest in the land. I’ve been married 34 years and had a vision for my family that I shared with my husband before I married him. We’ve been a homeschooling family 31 years! Life is an adventure! But you cannot start the journey without a map! A woman must have an internal map. Stop worrying about her backside while not prioritizing her INSIDE!
I know 3 different couples that built thier own house. Living in a half built house spending all thier spare time working on it. Literally building thier own future. All through history that would be the norm this is something new.
Godfather bringing the 🔥 tonight!!! I know women who will work when: - tired - on weekends -sick -stressed -they just don't feel like it -they have other things to do....... If these women only brought half of that energy to building a relationship with a qualified man....🎆🎇🎆🎇
After 6 mo of dating my then boyfriend asked me to quit my skilled trade job and work him 6 mo after that we got engaged. Been married 5 years now. It was his version of a wife interview. So Kevin is stating facts right now ladies.
"Most people don't have careers, they've jobs" THANK F'N YOU !!!!! 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 Hate when they say "focus on my career" Trying their best to put out this fake glamorous life when reality they're miserable and basic.
Ladies. You can honestly waste an entire life-time trying to prove a point that nobody but "you and your own fragile self-esteem" actually cared about in the first place. If you're doing this, you're not really partnership or relationship material are you? What you're doing isn't serving or strengthening either the matrimonial or the familial bond....so what legitimate business have you got trying to find a man or raising a family with him? If you're not prepared to get "on task" with these goals, but instead, insist on ploughing your own furrow to try and prove "god knows what" to potential husbands who simply "do not care" about whatever itch it is you're trying to scratch...then not many men are going to see any value in partnering up with you. They'll pass you over and let you waste YOUR life on your pursuits...but they'll be damned if they're going to allow you to waste THEIR life for the same futile reasons!!
I was thinking the same thing. How many times has he said that about 10-20% of men are in a position to do this. So what are the average people supposed to do? The economic health of a nation is dependent on its middle class.
1:36:00 "it's like you're with another man..." This is so true. Even other things like always being busy with book clubs, church, charities, work etc. Even spending a lot of time to look good to go out with your girls but won't get dressed up for your man/husband... it says your husband is not that important to you or that you no longer need to impress or please him.
The funny thing about this whole topics I've seen so many women call in and say I agree with everything you say Kevin then as soon as the conversation progresses it goes left women 99% of the time move of their feelings it trumps everything you can be doing everything right I mean everything and if she feels differently she'll be planning her exit and you'll never know it
Would I quit my full-time job to work part-time for my man? I sure would...and I have. My husband is a disabled veteran. When we met, we were living two hours away from each other. I quit my job, left family and friends, and moved in with him. My only job was to take care of him--as well as cook, clean, laundry, etc. Eventually, the funding for that job was cut, and sadly, I had to find a job outside of the home. Three years later, I got a job where, due to Covid, I'm working from home. While I love this, I would love to be able to quit that to dedicate my life to taking care of him full time again. The job can get in the way of that.
Not every male is a husband or father! Not every female is a wife or mother, please choose wisely folks! Every time KS presents a scenario BW can only think of the negative aspect! They live their lives with the negative stereotype in mind and when the dream scenario shows up they're NOT prepared to deal with that level of man! Thats the situation for the marriage minded women they talk a good game until its time to leave those other single females holding her back!
Oh, hEEEeeeLL Naaaw! I have TWO exes that KS mentioned and let me tell you something.....Nope, nOpE, NOPE! I had an accountant that could manage money for everyone EXCEPT our household. Recklessly spent every damn thing! Then there's the nurse. God bless them all BUT ALL have serious mental problems due to the job. PTSD, at minimum, is what you'll be dealing with in a relationship with a nurse. WhOO! I cringed like hell starting at timestamp 57:16.
'Toxic Relationships' Read the story of Erin Prizzey English ex-feminist who set up the first domestic violence shelter in 1971. When she explained why women return to abusive relationships her family were threaten with murder.
I don't always agree with this guy but agree with this video. We tried too hard to prove to ourselves how independent we can be. I'm a single mom so I had to find a way to surrender and drop my so called career to make time for a successful man. Plenty of successful men need women to support them as a wife and life partner. Single moms need to aim higher so you can be home to raise your kids and nurture your family. Employment is overrated.
@MGTOW MattyLOL well im retired and probably more successful than you babe. My man is successful and i set my girlfriends up with successful white men and they treat us well so we cater to them. Asian and black usually are not serious about us. Not all, but most below average men are insecure and use us single moms to berate and look down to feel better about themselves.
When I was pregnant, I did my ex husband's paperwork while trucking together. I would be happy to work for my future partner especially if our goals and purpose are aligned.
Time stamps
0:00 Pre show songs, 🎵 Mystery Song 🎵
2:26 🎵 Field Coffee, Pt. 6 by Fields for Coffee 🎵
4:09 🎵 Voyage by Chris Westlake 🎵
7:23 🎵 Mystery Song 2 🎵
8:53 🎵 Bossa Lisboa by Sonic Moon 🎵
10:31 🎵 Cuban Cigar (Reduced Mix) Peter Godfrey 🎵
13:42 🎵 Brazilian Amy by Dominik Hauser 🎵
15:51 🎵 O Além É Aquí by Clara Mendes 🎵1
19:40 🎵 Better Kind Of Bitter by Peachy Pavement, Jobii & L.M. Styles Feat. Milva 🎵
20:36 🎵 Your Good Lies by Vividry 🎵
23:36 🎬 Show starts, Candle of the evening Le Lebo Laurier 62 , Fragrances of the day Tom Ford Oud Wood and Tom Ford Tuscan Leather
Monologue, Quit Fighting High Value Men
1:25:15 📱 1st Caller Enitan age 34, 2nd Caller Halley age 18, 3rd Callers Eliza age 21, 4th Caller Cece age 22
1:44:10 5th Caller Lana age 35, 6th Caller Saxy age 30, 7th Caller Ms. Moe
1:57:50 Closing words
2:03:00 Outro
I heard your talking points from somewhere...
Gratitude, brother!
Deshawn you bloody legend from the uk
Thanks. However, does anyone really need the timestamps for the individual songs? My suggestion would be for 3 time stamps; songs, monologue, callers. Keep up the good work!
Thanks bro
My husband asked me not to go back to my job after maternity leave...and I trusted him to take care of our family financially. Best decision ever. Now I work with him in running our million dollar business for OUR family/children...and not working for others to make them rich.
Yall hiring?
Lol
please hold him tight,the world is crazy out there
@@tgchikukwa6947 Spoken by a true hater.
When he leaves you, what will you do, how much will you claim? 50% of marriages end in divorce. Never disregard the workings of the ancestors to please your man. They suffered through the sh!t for a reason. I'm not saying don't believe, just prepare.
When it comes to the husband store concept i stopped on level one, met my henry when I was 18 and decided i aint going anywhere else. Ofcourse friends thought i should explore the other levels, men of different calibers came and tried but i knew i am not going anywhere and my man has progressed so much in the 4 years I’ve been with him and continues to succeed. I get alot of things wrong in life but i did the best thing by loving the man Im with.
Congrats sis your winning and don't let anyone else tell you different
Salute sis and tell my brother he’s lucky 💪🏾
You have a rare type of respect for yourself as a person and your partner. Good for you miss!
Ncoooo nkoshi! Qhubeka ngendlela owenza ngayo kuzokusiza
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I stopped working after having my husband’s baby. He decided he wants to be more than an Amazon delivery driver and get his license as a mortgage broker. I started working again to help with bills and be able to pay for the course. I wouldn’t sacrifice giving my baby to my mom to watch her while I work unless it was for this reason in helping my husband wanting to reach his goal. I told his sister and her friend. They said “wouldn’t you want to work regardless instead of staying home?” I said of course not id choose being with my daughter all day over working any day, but I’m gladly sacrificing the time to help my husband’s dreams. They both looked at me like I was crazy. I’ve been avoiding them since 👍🏼
Andrea Keep Doing What U Think & Feel Is Right For Your Family. Standing By Your Husband's Side Is One Of The Reasons He Married U. Stay Bless & Prosperous Andera
Let them continue to be spectators.
Stay focused...Professional players never stop the game to chat with the spectators!
@@shawnbrown9336 is it bad if the woman want to work outside the house? What if it’s her dream job and dream pay? Is it so bad for woman to work? Also, this is just a honest question for a different perspective and conversation. I don’t mean no disrespect.
Much rescue to you !
@@ajlive6419 there is no general answer. people choose what they want. what is best for you and what brings you the best outcomes.
The part where Kevin said if only women were to treat high value men as if they treat their job interviews= underrated advice.
KS is right, most people have JOBS not careers. Most people will be in deep trouble if they miss 2-3 paychecks, no matter the income level.
inflation @ 2% per month uffff
@@Thiiink accurate.
💯💯💯
Kevin is spot on once again, the hesitancy and fear they have with “giving it all up” doesn’t match the faith and fearlessness they have in their degree and job! I love the concept, I just wish more Men could do it but the concept makes ample sense.
@@paulbunyan9436 I mean I don’t see myself leaving this country anytime soon but I’m a religious and spiritually led man and I believe Father God will guide me to my wife and it won’t fail IF I continue to follow Him throughout it step by step. The DR is cool and I know they got some baddies WITH COOPERATION but we’ll see, I trust Him plus I love Black Women FIRST although about 40% of the DR is Black/African anyways 🤷🏾♂️💯.
@House of Guards Right, how a** backwards is that 🤨
@@paulbunyan9436 It’s deeper than your skepticism with me bro, I get it you don’t believe in it but I do.
@@paulbunyan9436 👍🏾
@@erictoomer5665 U BETTER OFF GETTING A BUSINESS LICENSE PARTNERSHIP WITH HER…..THEN U WONT PAY ALIMONY OR IF U GET MARRIED….. BUY HER A TAVERN OR BRICK AND MORTAR BUSINESS IN HER NAME
This is crazy to listen to because I’ve been doing all of these “high value men” tasks without having ever heard this term it’s just how I was raised.
My wife is 30 &im 32 and I employed her.
And quit my 9-5 moved us back to her home town in Europe she’s never had to work a day in her life since she met me and she fits the description
Beautiful friendly submissive cooperative
We have 3 kids and her student loan debt is something we are paying off
100k for an associates having paid tuition as an immigrant From school in the US.
This podcast really got me acknowledging the success in my life
Thank you God
10 Things for Women To Do Who Aspire To Marry Only High Value Men:
1. Be fit, exercise regularly, do whatever it takes to maintain your beauty and physique.
2. Be feminine.
3. Be cooperative and submissive.
4. If your less than a 7 in looks, marry the guy who is going to Med or Law School, or the STEM or accounting/finance student. Or the college football, basketball, hockey or baseball player that has potential to turn professional. Or someone who is an aspiring entrepreneur that is very business savvy.
5. Don't be a single mother.
6. If you're over 35, unless you've managed to retain your beauty, focus on dating average joes. Especially if you have had more than one child out of wedlock.
7. Study that high value man's lifestyle, understand his needs and wants. Add value to his life, if he's too busy to cook and clean his house. Cook and clean for him. If he's disorganised, plan his weekly calendar.
8. Maintain and display a virtuous and wholesome image on your social media platforms.
9. Refrain from having too many sexual partners, if you're high value man finds out that you have a high body count. Then he's unlikely to take you seriously as a potential wife.
10. Be supportive of his needs and wants. don't be argumentative, make his home a pleasant and peaceful place to come back to after a tough day at work.
@@t-salt3737 😂😂😂
#4 on your list needs work. Trying to target potential pro athletes is like trying to win the lottery. Even the best player on a college's (much less a high school's) team is unlikely to come close to going pro in a top-tier league. Then, even if a woman wins that lottery, so many pro athletes blow all their money and/or cheat on their wives. In the high likelihood that you lose the lottery, then the woman is stuck with a failed athlete, many of whom have no other skills to fall back on because they didn't go to college to get an education. Kevin often stresses that pro athletes and entertainers are not automatically considered high value. It's far more than just the money. The rest of your list is pretty solid though. :)
@@t-salt3737 the issue with what you said is that it had nothing to do with giving the child their best life. Thanks for proving that children don’t matter to you.
@The Esquire of Sports ® Not having a man doesn't make you lonely, people have family & friends you know. Y'all act like peen is the last thing on earth to women.
Age 21-25 is when women should pick. I found my guy at 23 and knew within 3 months that I was going to try to lock him down.
Man secured 🔒
🔒🤣🤣🤣👍
Nice one
😂.... I like that
My husband selected me at 21..Called me the No.1 draft pick,lol🙌!!
31 years later and we love each other too smithereens...No children...1 dog of 18 years that got hit by a car ...He and I...and I value him...He also values me
@@yahneyoung5505 why no kids?
She was never yours only your turn 🙏🏾 Keep preaching Kevin
Bungee gum has the properties of both rubber and gum
@@LeesaLilHop he fantasizing about Gon right now
Being at your channel for over 2 years now appreciate everything you doing
That’s amazing!
Has your lady accepted employment from you?
Are you married? Two years is too long not to have any results.
@@AskAW wtf is u talking about
@@mikeandmars2345 😂😂😂
@@Osunshoney409 😂 s.m.h
你好 Kevin, im a black guy who studied Mandarin Chinese for almost 10 years. I got to Chinatown almost everything weekend here and people are always so amazed that I speak it. Conversing in a language other than your own is the best feeling in the world. Wouldn't trade it for a damn thing
So true
This was a very insightful segment . Masulinas (Masculine woman ) heal your femininity cause it’s a costly debt to pay.
Never mind the student loans… the debt in losing out on a successful hypergamous marriage is one you’ll never live down.
Honestly a woman who is willing to drop everything she's doing to work with her man is one worth keeping. And as a possible bonus effect, the women who leave their jobs open new opportunities for other potential men trying to earn an income so they can either better take care of their family or start their own families.
I never thought about it like that, but one best friend quit her job, moved and used her savings into buying into his business. I am mine's real estate agent and that conversation was intense. He wanted another agent to do it. I thought he didn't care about me. He thought it would cause a problem by us irritating each other and that l was gold digging. I still cant believe that is what we thought. l was ready to work harder for him then anyone. And he works me. Lol
Isn't it the dream of many women? Well it sounds great to me....
I would quit my job in a heartbeat! I don’t even like my job!!! I such my husband would tell me to quit my job
I agree with this one. I was chasing success but I took a break from social media and met a high value black man who is 52. I want to cook and clean so my man doesn’t feel tired or overwhelmed. I won’t let another girl come near him. I’m getting my ring 💍😌🙏🏾
Be careful. Don't ferk around with him tOO long before DEMANDING MARRIAGE. Yeah, I said it.....DEMAND or LEAVE. If he loves you, he'll want to put you on LOCKDOWN by marriage. That means all other men stay away. ~~GoOd Luck~~
@@GoofyFlan Is 2 months too soon to ask about marriage. I explained that I don’t like to waste time and that I don’t believe in kids out of wedlock. He wants to settle down and he wants a wife because he gets exhausted from working at the hospital because of COVID. He is busy but I like to give plenty of attention once he is done with work. How may I get the ring sooner?
@@miraclechildnyc A man at 52 has been around and has baggage. You need to go on a cruise for at least 3 days to find if you can really deal with being married to him. ~~TRUST ME~~ By the end of the cruise, you'll know if he's the one or not.
Naah. Two months is too soon. If he hasn't asked you by the 6th month, you guys need to have a heart-to-heart. Be firm and be prepared to move on too if you have to. Again, at 52, he knows what he wants. That's far too old for games.
@@GoofyFlan I haven’t given him any 🐱 yet and I haven’t been vaccinated yet. He asked if I would get vaccinated so I could travel with him. I don’t want to have sex with him yet. I want to secure my position. He is divorced with a daughter
@@miraclechildnyc So you don't expect him to not have sEx while waiting, huh? Get vaxxed, ERYBODY should get tested for STDs, go on a cruise, and don't go past 6 months waiting. Men like him want to see the look of appreciation on your face when they do nice things for you. Women his age are hard AF to have fun with. They've done everything, so there's no fun in taking them ANYWHERE. Sex ain't shEEit. Just don't get caught up in accepting BS. Give him 6 months of your best and move on after that if he doesn't want marriage.
Men go where you’re appreciated regardless of race and culture
Say it again, say it again....in Pinky's voice!!
@@MisterE1976 HAHAHAHA good one
100%
@@hg1166 what does your husband have to say about that
Exactly! Bottom line.
You can absolutely open a business & hire your nurse spouse. My brother have a business paying CNA’s at $35 hr & RN’s I’m not sure, but I know it’s a substantial amount. His wife run all the back office work & she’s an RN. The business doing damn good, over $2 million in revenue. I watched him build that thing up & put his wife in position to not have to punch a clock for nobody else.
@The Esquire of Sports ® exactly 🤙🏾 Just takes some planning & foresight.
I’m a RN and my husband and i are working on a similar business concept. I know once it takes off we’re going to do well.
KS says nurses are the worse though 🙄 instead of seeing ppl as individuals… not all nurses are the same
Hello sir, I'm going to pharmacy school for my doctorate in pharmacy this fall do you think that is a profession that can be transferable to a man? or would it be better to just get a lab job. I would be a compounding pharmacist projected to make between 150k- 177k
@@MrsCookies343 I love that you asking that queen ❤️ I hopW a black queen see you
He’s absolutely correct. I’m an insurance premium auditor and a Notary Public. I see financial statements and contracts on a daily. I see the payroll and quarterly wage reports. I see who the stockholders are. The women are on payroll, wives and girlfriends. I deal with high value men and H.E.N.R.Y.s. I’m telling y’all, Ladies, Listen to this Brother!!! I have been blessed to snatch me one and we’re both excited. Based on my skills, he told me that I’m just the type of woman he needs. Our first date was a business dinner date, where he was recruiting me to do some free lance administrative assistant work for his company. You can have more than you can imagine, if you change YOU!!! To be continued, cause he’s already taking about marrying me 😊
bring that value and im sure its a no brainer...
That’s awesome 👏🏿
Get married though. Being a GF means nothing
You sound wonderful and so does he. Lock that shit down!! Best of luck for your future. I commented cause I want to know of updates :))
He propose yet?
Think about how idiotic the concept of the modern woman respecting and obeying her male manager rather than her own husband. Think about this... A male stranger at her job gets more respect and submission than the man who married her. Great stream 👍
Some managers are women lol.
@ashleyevett84 which is even worst😂
Yuss zurrr
@@Ruckerpark98 How?
@@LetGoStressFree Regardless of the sex of the manager, they’re paying more respect to their manager than the person they chose to marry and spend the rest of their life with. That’s problematic af
I see the evolution of Kevin and his interactions with his callers. He's getting better outcomes and tonight's show was on point. Oh btw... Lana do you have any friends? Lol
He’s not wrong about this , I remember when my business teacher told us years ago to go to a community college or try to get free tuition to pay for college because, he knows a couple who is in 300,000.00 in debt for a degree in psychology from UCLA. The debt is a real issue, I see why 70% of men are pursuing blue collar jobs more then ever!
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A stark and crippling issue spreading like a wild fire in todays society is the amount of consumer debt modern women are taking on just to “prove a point”.
@The Esquire of Sports ® instead of admitting they don’t perform at the man’s level and ending this pointless competition, they demand we lower the standards so they meet them,.. instead of admitting their performance contributed to their salaries, they claim men pay each other more simply because they’re men. It’s laughable.
Man you ain’t lyin I’ve dated girls from McDonald’s to County defense lawyers, majority of women just toss money into the wind
Correct
@@DangleSan too many women are taking on all this buy now pay later debt just to flex for the gram about how they don’t need men, flights not feelings and all that other bs. This has major repercussions. They make less then men yet live more grand lifestyles with borrowed money. This inflation and rate hike will wipe out so many of these women that it will look like a third world country in a few years .
@@TheDCGuitar13 how many women come on here talking about traveling when they make less than 50k?
Women don't need money as much as a man since for men, our social status is tied to money far more. So for women, doing poorly with money isn't as bad. For men? We NEED to manage money well to attract a mate. It's just incentives.
Today’s single women remind me of old punch-drunk boxers who refuse to retire. You stay in the game too long it’s inevitable that you will lose… and lose badly. 💔🥊
High mileage, clapped out rental cars with hail damage and a salvage title... low value.
Arturo Gotti comes to mind
Then in their later years they're walking around like Ali in his final years. A shell of themselves
@@THX5000
Cracked engine block, with a rusted out undercarriage..........and a odometer that's been ROLLED WAAAAAAAAAAAAAYBACK, with a "Runs Like New" sign on it.....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@mcole442 🤣
Kevin you hit it exactly! My wife does work for me, She is primarily a housewife, and I do bring in over quarter million per year. I can verify you know what you’re talking about. Shout out to the dapper 6 figure men out there.
Sorry, I don’t take investment advice from others, men like me do their own investments as a general rule.
I met my fiance while working as a cashier.. I'm now a stay at home mom. I never thought but always dreamed of being taken care of. When he gets home.. Plate on the table legs in the air!! Whatever he wants he gets.. He deserves it! (I come with 3 kids and a guinea pig)
Simply put, women today are selfish. My ex use to run away like a scared rat whenever she wasn't happy. I blame Disney, telling young girls they can live happily ever after with their prince charming and then when things get rough they can't handle it and run away. Sadly, women today can't hold a candle to women of the past
😂😂😂 you weren't even born back then so other than stories from the past, how would you know 🙄🙄
Women of the past were winning .. these ones today not even worth it
@@blackbutterfly233ify negative again if you dont like males opinions don't watch it's very simple but don't listen to ur girl friends cos they don't have a clue what men want
@@NoreLyne why watch him ?
@@seulb23 speaking the truth will be negative to ignorant people 🤷🏿♀️
This video is priceless! Young Men 18-28 years old (especially African American Men) from major metropolitan cities. Use this video as a prime example for the professional women you should stay away from while progressing with your careers and building wealth. KS TheGodFather thank you💯
Thanks for watching & comments really appreciated.
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Tell him I referred you..
I tried to do this with my ex about 3 years ago . I started a whole new business , put her on payroll also gave her position over all employees but she was not comfortable with me being her boss and her boyfriend at the same time , her words were "i don't like doing things on your time" clearly she wasn't ready to be a wife yet , very useful information thank you !!!
Pat yourself on the back, because you dodged a bullet. From the streets she came and to the streets she shall return. They rather work for the enemy and volunteer to smile no problem.
The dynamic is completely different when you're dating someone. Having your gf on payroll is ridiculous and inappropriate...do you understand that? She doesn't owe you anything yet as a gf. A wife is different.
@@janelleg597 you only become a wife when you start preforming like one. Men decide when you become a wife.. Why would you work for anyone else other than your family/ *PARTNER*?
@@squeezdge9087 first thing first I'm not putting no girlfriend on payroll playa lol. Yll niggas crazy as hell. I'll still open my business while she still the girlfriend. Now once I try to make her my wife and she still don't want to partner up her ass have to go.
Another classic episode! Get well soon. The content you produce is always top tier and needed in the community!!!
Agree sir, for all women
This man been sick for a month now? I call🧢 he acting like a drama queen lol
You need to look up the definition of, "classic".
@@oaktown6508 maybe he’s running out of things to talk about 🤷🏽♀️
I would say, the common theme with all modern women is that they do not respect black men.
It's crazy that you talked about this because this is what I'm going through. My ole lady is stressed at work and it's affecting her mood so I told her to work for me. She makes 6 figures so she's use to having her own money. I can't pay her 6 figures but she'll be able to live a comfortable lifestyle because I pay the bills. She's very resistant. I feel disrespected because I'm willing to take the stress off of her and she isn't willing to submit herself to me to that extent. Thinking about letting her go.
I’ve been in business, full-time, since 2014 and I’ve made over seven figures in revenue and make multiple six figures a year. My soon to be husband moved me into his home and said I have no bills to pay and that he wanted me to reduce my hours. Guess what? I did it without any hesitation. I now work part time and maxed out my 401(k) and use my money to help us win in anyway I can. If she can’t be in your program, you may want to reconsider your options.
@@SPARKWISDOM kudos and congrats to you. Please don't be shy to share your experience with other women because they need to hear it.
I've worked my ass off and I plan on retiring in 4 years at the age of 39 and build a house in Namibia, Jamaica, and keep the houses I have here in the states. It'll be play time for us. But, I am not going to share that with a woman who's unappreciative. I'll give her a week to come to me talking like she got some sense and if it takes longer than that I'll find a replacement.
@@SPARKWISDOM you maxed out ur 401k to do what exactly? Cuz why didn’t y’all come up with a plan for you to continue to work for a year or so! Save money and invest into something to keep that money flowing when you did leave!
@@Go-Getter does she watch the show? Introduce her if not. I already feel sad at the opportunity she will miss and regret as you are most definitely the prize.
You will not survive that transition. As long as you understand the reality of what her brain is telling her and you also must realize drama and stress is important for some people. they NEED something to complain about or you will be hit with the BORED talk. better to go back out with a fishing rod.. find something ready to leave her 30K job and be built. You cannot lead a 6figure woman unless you are a millionaire. She cannot brag to her friends that you told her to quit her job, it will be " girl i cant do x,y,z.. you know this guy is paying me half of what i was making". add to that if she ever decides to break up you can still be on the hook to pay her bills
Thank you Kevin for validating my decision to leave my 9-5 and refocus that energy into my husband's business. Wives, you do yourselves a disservice (and unnecessary stress) when you are spending a min., 12 hours of your day trying to get to, and work at a job that only takes your best years. It does not work.
+ 𝟷𝟽𝟷𝟸𝟻𝟼𝟼𝟻𝟸𝟷𝟶
Tell him I referred you.
Salute to all you women who figure out early on your purpose & are smart enough to follow your man's lead as head of the family. There is so much value in elevating a King. So many overcomplicate things & set themselves up for failure in order to be "right" all while losing. Don't apologize or allow these lost women to guilt trip you or whatever tactic they use. Enjoy winning & don't apologize to those who chose foolishly.
At this point .. these women were lied too for decades..
and
I’ll grab a wife overseas ..
and men don’t settle for Overuse women
@@NoreLyne comment is stupid .. please make more sense ..
What’s really crazy is that there are millions of women working in mostly assisting and clerical roles making other men rich when there are a bunch of middle class men who could benefit off of those same skills having to look elsewhere because they’re ridiculed for not being wealthy by their mid twenties. These assisting skills learned in college could benefit the man and woman to the point of growing to have their own business where she gets much more benefits due to having a man sharing or outright paying all the bills. Much better circumstances than than being alone getting ripped off by a society that gets them into endless debt loops and depression from realizing what they saw on tv was a lie. The reason blk people thrived during Jim Crow was because those blk women understood that if they learned any type of skills, it had to benefit the family in some sort of way. They had jobs too. They just didn’t feel the need to destroy their men to feed their own egos. A job wasn’t some self serving competition trying to prove men are beneath them. It was just a job…
Not true. The assistant jobs are already defined. Most men were not raised to be leaders.
They would have to recruit their significant other to the role.
@@AskAW there is a large amount of single men and women today with side gigs they create or participate in on top of the more than likely middle class job (they probably took on debt on a degree to land ) that would exponential benefit from having a spouse with the skills they don’t have that would build their side gigs into full time ventures. That’s how most successful small businesses are born. Of course not everyone is fit to lead an entire company but there are millions of solitary minded people that could benefit from dropping their egos and putting their complimentary skill sets together. That’s what sets apart other communities from ours. They’re not in it to get wealthy or rich. They’re in it to survive and in the process, the more practice they get, the better their circumstances get over the years.
@The Esquire of Sports ® the simple principle of half the bills is better than all of them and getting ripped off by every contractor you have to call should be enough. But that involves having to admit they’re not happy getting ripped off by society
The clerical skills of office women are not making middle-class professional men rich. That was the plot to "9 to 5" starring Dolly Parton and whatever you might think of the film, or theme tune, it was not true. Not then. Not today.
@@darthkek1953 you making me wanna go and watch this movie
Kevin brother you are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT about how they let their scallywag friend(s) influence their dating. When I did security at Planned Parenthood & at the courthouse EVERYTHING came down to the wire with their decisions (abort'ns & filing CS) & even made a whole day of it. They give them TOO MUCH say in their relationships & stay messed up in the process.
🤣"scallywags"
I am really astonished that everyone buys into the feminist lie of working your whole life. I have been working for over 40 years. While I have been blessed with success, what I do is based on money, not desire or fulfillment. The idea that the highest human achievement is to work for a company that doesn’t care about you for 40-50 years is laughable. Men do it because we want and need to support our families. Why women choose it remains a mystery to me.
I think we underestimate the extent to which the government are responsible because we don’t want to be considered victims.
Perhaps it's a validation or affirmation source which kind of "supports" their feminist theories about self-worth and independence. You know, making it "alone" in the world etc. For men...this is quite the norm and not too many men crow too loudly about being a fettered wage-slave their entire lives...UNLESS this has merely been the way they've supported their family (as you stated)...in which case, legitimately "supporting their family" was the more noble aspect of what they were trying to achieve. If a man works for a company for forty years, but does so purely to finance his own "independence"....(the feminine version)...then by and large, he'll have a much easier time of it, and will have much more disposable income to lavish on himself and his hobbies etc...
The difference (I believe) is however, that men won't view their 40 years wage-slaving to some company as their big achievement. Their BIG achievement will have been avoiding marriage and children and actually knowing what to do with their "independence" in this regard. They certainly won't be expecting kudos or fanfare just because they've been able to feed, clothe and shelter themselves without a woman. THAT'S the difference really. Women are quite new to the independent lifestyle....but for men, it's always been an option, and even on a relatively modest wage, a life without a wife or children can be a very active and fulfilling life for any man who chooses that option.
Many women bought into the lie that their only value is their economic value. It made them resent being traditional women.
@@donnietobasco9791 you are so right and we are experiencing the first generations of independent women who are learning this too late. This choice is not fulfilling for most women. My great grandfather and men of their time who were skilled made enough to finance their family and got the well deserved respect from their women. Western governments made the 2 household income for survival scenario and it crushed the family dynamics in many cultures but in our culture mostly. I spent weeks asking myself why would our women specifically in the majority choose government incentives over their men from child benefits to corporate jobs. I can’t put it all in a comment but I do believe the removing of black men from the home has been a documented government agenda that worked. One example is in the 90s I remember girls in my school getting pregnant for a guaranteed home and steady financial income. Despite the ignorance of this the incentive for many girls was real.
We must tell young women the truth. Never have I been so direct with the young women in my family “all men will not hurt you, let you father and brothers help you choose, no you do not need to go out and live life after studying, you will only collect trauma and get dug out…, your best years for marriage and children is 18-35 so make it a focus, there is no generational wealth without a man and woman… marriage is not Disney it’s duty, legacy, security and a lot of work… etc”. I am not struggling to get this message across anymore but my generation (I’m 39) were giving a very different message from our mothers and the mainstream.
@@jasonBGI so much so even some men buy into it. I herd a man say somewhere recently my daughter won’t just be some housewife she will be a lawyer or something, I mean would he shame her if she wanted to support her man 🤯. I had a meeting recently and I expressed some of these views and 2 black men said to me “yeah but it’s because most our women were abused” as in this is why they are so independent and strong now 😳 like wottt!!! Seriously a real number has been done on us 😔
You'd be proud of me, Mr Samuel's. Last night, I met a woman who is a 3 or 4, at best. Shaped like the lamp from "the Christmas story," ranting and raving about men. I asked her what she's looking for, first thing out of her mouth was "must be at least 5'10"!!" I asked her, how much do you weigh? She got mad as hell, and then I saw the light bulb go off when I asked how weight is any different than height. These low value women are out of their minds.
Actually weight is something you can control. Height is something you can't.
When u ask, "What do u bring to the table?", it stops em dead in their tracks......they shut down like the Droid Army in "The Phantom Menace".........🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The delusion is absurd. Asking a woman to exercise and workout, is equivalent to trying to bathe a cat in water. You’ll get the same reaction, “Oh No No No No”.
Lol how long have you been waiting to say that to someone? Lol
@@AriMayweather lmao!!! It just kinda jumped out of my mouth 🤣 it was fun
Speak that truth KEVIN! ♥️ thank you for these gems as usual. Opening eyes DAILY.
-Sincerely a unwed dog mom 😂
Kevin is right. Woman need to pick their man according to how he can provide & his total commitment to you & his children. That is 100% excellent advice. Please listen to him & teach your children this concept too. Teach your sons how to be providers and expect his wife to be FBI - this could completely change the trajectory of your life & posterity.
I missed the call in shows! Glad they're back. Great content as usual Godfather!
Modern society, especially women “have elevated physicality (aka sex) to the highest level pursuit possible.”
That’s why Pookie and Rayray can live as burdens to those women because all they know to do is have sex.
When we as men start collectively holding women accountable and to a standard this nonsense will change. The problem is men think as individuals and women think as a group.
WOW! I make over 200K after taxes and I fit none of those categories and I consider myself more or less average. Oh, but I chose a woman outside of the US. I guess I am an Explorer!
Europe women is the same as USA 🇺🇸 … I’m from Portugal currently living in London early 30’s believe me if u want there’s no difference, man in here also want to try 🇺🇸 women …. African women is another choice I never explored the ones that was raise with morals and stuff …
This is one of the most sensible and practical approaches to relationships I’ve ever heard.
I've heard a lot of women say they need a job and their own money for their independence so they aren't trapped in a marriage. How weird is that? Planning an exit strategy before a marriage strategy.
Man, they''ll still have their girlfriends around getting in their heads bout, "what if he cheats?" "Gurllll, what you gone do?"
Those women are SMART, there are a lot of women stuck in toxic relationships right now because they don't have any fiances or education because they were soley depending on a man. We know how to survive stop trying to tell us we are wrong. My mom always told me it's cool to have a boyfriend but she always wanted me to have my own as well. Women are not wrong at all for wanting to protect themselves. We all are on different timelines & will need to protect ourselves especially if men are cheating, walking out, & not doing their part. Yall are ridiculous on this app & fail to look at everyones individual situation. Not every woman will come out of high school & find a magic prince to take care of them from 18 to 90 yrs old. We must live for ourselves first period.
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !*
_Tappin' in from South Central LA_
1:36:03
As a student of Black Phillip, I always appreciate the shout outs from the great KS. Thanks Unk.
Rest easy Big Homie. We're listening.
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This hit on point! I’m in the process of motivating my wife give me the same effort in our family business that she was giving to her schooling!!
+ 𝟷𝟽𝟷𝟸𝟻𝟼𝟼𝟻𝟸𝟷𝟶
Tell him I referred you
I came from the hood and grew into an amazing Man & father who strives so fellas give yourself praise 👏🏾💯.
Having watched Kevin Sam’s content is now one of my prerequisites when choosing a partner. He seems to be the only thing giving women logic and common sense in the dating field.
Thanks man
Lol you are right I have a high-value man. I love him because he has showed me that he really cares. He pays for my bills, he pays for my schooling because he told me he wants us to build together so I am going to school for business and finance to help run his business. When I tell my so-called friends that, don’t have a man. The first thing that they say is what is he doing? He’s working all the time you never get to see him and I’m like well it’s a difference from having a 9-to-5 man and having a corporate man and I know I have a corporate man they see when he comes to pick me up or he just comes to see me that he drives a Roy’s Royce and he has two of them and other nice sports vehicles to I am very blessed that I have this phenomenal man that takes care of me and we have a connection and I love it. When I called him he picks up the phone each time so I’m just loving it😊
I felt that one! “If she treated me like she treated that damn job she hates we’d both be happy!”
Kevin is right again. Great show tonight.
Kitten heels ?
@@rashad3396?
Media is also to partly blame in the mess that women are in today...being a wife and mom has become something to look down on...a man who is a mechanic etc. making an honest living is not even in the consideration of an average woman..sad
Kevin is the man! I can watch his videos all day!! Funny stuff!
I think Kevin has a point. However I realize I'm not his target audience. I'm 59 married raised kids. Shout to Kevin...I would love to let your female listens know what she gotta do to get to where your speaking off. Been married to my wonderful husband forever. We did the Thang. Our sons 28 and 30. Wonderful males. I encourage females to get it together.
100% I'll take respect over love. Men need respect like an eagle need to soar
Say it again, say it again....in Pinky's voice!!
LOVED IT!!!!!! THIS is my favorite one so far. Kevin your the truth and I'm following everything you say. Truth !!
Women Want What OTHER Women Have!
Women Often COMPARE Their Lives To Other Women and wht other women have/don't have in their lives...
Truthfully, I'm an average earning man. However, I'm blessed to be married to a loving woman who is willing to build with but, KS is on point.
You aren’t average, you are a man✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
@@freeindeed8416 respect, brother 🙏🏾
I'm 45 and a home builder and already have a beautiful lake front home close to chicago almost paid for. I'm Black and educated. I decided to stop dating low class women and hold out until i meet my queen.
Why? How are you going to meet your queen if you're not taking swings?
Also, you make too much money not to use a private match making service. Stop 🛑 being cheap and drop some money on finding your wife.
Your queen is most likely white, Asian or Latina. Step out, King!
@@MD-xb1qw statistics say that his bride is the same race as him.
@@MD-xb1qw Or in Africa.....
@@AskAW where are your racial statistics for 45+ year old black men getting married for the first time?
The Hip Hop generation breaks their archetypes down into Tupac, Jay Z, and Nas. Tupac- rogue outlaw Jay Z- ultimate Hustler and Nas- the smooth and clean cut type.
Lol facts
Excellent show and build for those who take heed. Thank you, for upping your game with this one
I loved the part of the show when Kevin enacted some Women conversations and their level of subterfuge that is often unbeknownst to some women and men. It is similar to what I speak about which is repeated behaviors.
Those behaviors either become normalized or repeated because they 1. Satiate the ego or self or 2. Give the individual a benefit some of kind exhilarating benefit which ultimately reflects back to satiating the ego or self.
I speak of the cult of self often not only because it’s been fully embraced as the pinnacle school of thought in most of the world currently to a detrimental degree but, also because we often overlook and mitigate how powerful and influential the ego really is. another name of the school of thought would be called individualism.
As Anton Lavey, said in his book in 1969, “Self-preservation is the highest law.”
And my updated version of this sentence is: People seldomly will change their behavior if it benefits them more by not changing at all.
1:44:44 ridiculous. She said she was single, dating, and in a relationship. Everyone missed it though. 🤷♂️
Who
You are right I did say that….I was attempting to adhere to Kevin’s definition. Single as in unmarried…dating because that’s in fact what we are doing however i consider this a relationship because we’ve been doing this for the last 9 months.
@@mcnealco You did very well.
@@mcnealco I put a thousand dollars you're not going to atlanta by april. I've stated before that NY/NJ women are not wifey material 😌
.......And on the creep for a HVM?😳
🚩🚩🚩's ALL OVER THE PLACE....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
100% Fact. I couldn't get the dedication my would be wife had for her job. 🤦🏾
Are you worth the risk? With her help, would you make enough to afford her?
@@AskAW what message are you trying to get across in this chat your all over the place cos your opinions contradict urself
I’m a contractor and my girl answers the phone for the business and she’s also the finance department lol she’s good. I learned all this from high value men before KS ever came to be who he was. Everything he says is spot on.
Shout out to Poor Man's Podcast, hit him with that HBO special, Help a Brother Out!
Yes, this trial work is a good thing, now that the concept is evolving. The key is- women not buying into the self-pity shit, they do it to get their friends attention...
29 years ago I did this in a second marriage. The paradigm was different because we were both divorced with kids. The second marriage lasted 17 years due to her self-pity a problem with alcohol, which led her to drugs.
The first marriage was an earlier form of Kevin's plan for life. First wife was 21 and I was 25 worked in corporate America in marketing ..... the marriage lasted 11 years, plus two kids. LISTEN TO KEVIN, he is RIGHT! Before you girls open your legs, consider the children you will screw up as well as your own life.... Today I work outside my business with men who are screwed-up from jail, screwed-up from their single moms, and can't form any relationship in the sewer of screwed-up single moms.... KEVIN is a man of great leadership skills
I will Quit my Full Time Job to Work Full Time for My Husband!!!! Yes Please!!!
Hi queen
This brother right here, without doubt or reservation, knows what time it is. As a 40 year old professional, no kids/no ex-wives, finally starting to get my life together and seeing nice results…. I can say this man’s opinions are damn close to mine own. Alas, although I am a true romantic at heart, life has taught me that my sacrifices are worth just as much as the next persons and are to be valued accordingly. If you’ve spent the last 10-15 years partying, having a great time being flown out, jumping from guy to guy (so that your body count is higher than mine and shit) while I’ve spent the last 10-15 busting my ass and climbing the fifthly, grimy, dirty rungs up the ladder of life, then no, it’s likely not happening. In addition, after a certain age and number of sexual partners, women lose the ability to peer bond with their man - meaning, no matter how great the man is - you will never truly love him. Its not like men are being unreasonable; in fact, I think we’re being entirely too reasonable, as of late.
Very interesting , eye opening, but I couldn't agree more. 👍 thanks!!!!
You are so good. LOVE YOUR SOUND EFFECTS AND KNOWLEGE
I AM A ER NURSE MY WIFE BECAME A NURSE BUT ONLY DOES PER DIEM 3 MONTHS A WEEK I SET HER UP TO DO HER OWN RN CONSULTING…..4 KIDS 3 HOMES AND DADDY GETS HIS FOOD COOKES AND PLATE MADE ALL DAY ERRYDAY
3DAYS MONTH I MEAN
What type of RN consulting??? I’m a RN working from home doing prior authorizations for Blue Cross. I’m looking to start my own business (group homes, AFC homes for the elderly) My husband is ready to invest in the business to set me up but I’m also interested in all aspects of self employment in the field.
@@candyc313 PRIVATE SCHOOLS GROUP HOMES….SMALL BUSINESSES…..HELL COVID HAS HER PRINTING HER OWN MONEY…..SHE GOT A OFFICE POOL HOUSE OUT OF IT
Young men......if the young woman doesn’t have a firm set of routine behaviors that propel her forward.....let her alone. She must have developed intrinsic values and ideals that she wants for her life ON HER OWN.....before she ever lets another individual into her life. I’m not speaking on just a career. I’m speaking on the kind of woman, wife, and mother she wants to be and is actively pursuing to become this woman. This is my advice for my three sons....and the training I’ve given my six daughters! They’ve been raised to be an ASSET to a man’s life....not a liability! I set out to raise high value young women that would be the finest in the land. I’ve been married 34 years and had a vision for my family that I shared with my husband before I married him. We’ve been a homeschooling family 31 years! Life is an adventure! But you cannot start the journey without a map! A woman must have an internal map. Stop worrying about her backside while not prioritizing her INSIDE!
37:03 when you hate your job...it affects you psychologically
Great show godfather!!!the first caller is definitely my type
I know 3 different couples that built thier own house. Living in a half built house spending all thier spare time working on it. Literally building thier own future. All through history that would be the norm this is something new.
The DEE DEE sound effect is my favorite one now. I love her voice. 😂😂😂😂
Lmao “Me & Keith had a argument! WHAT! they’ll turn off the TV” 😂😂😂😂😂
Godfather bringing the 🔥 tonight!!!
I know women who will work when:
- tired
- on weekends
-sick
-stressed
-they just don't feel like it
-they have other things to do.......
If these women only brought half of that energy to building a relationship with a qualified man....🎆🎇🎆🎇
After 6 mo of dating my then boyfriend asked me to quit my skilled trade job and work him 6 mo after that we got engaged. Been married 5 years now. It was his version of a wife interview. So Kevin is stating facts right now ladies.
"Most people don't have careers, they've jobs"
THANK F'N YOU !!!!! 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏
Hate when they say "focus on my career"
Trying their best to put out this fake glamorous life when reality they're miserable and basic.
Ladies. You can honestly waste an entire life-time trying to prove a point that nobody but "you and your own fragile self-esteem" actually cared about in the first place. If you're doing this, you're not really partnership or relationship material are you? What you're doing isn't serving or strengthening either the matrimonial or the familial bond....so what legitimate business have you got trying to find a man or raising a family with him? If you're not prepared to get "on task" with these goals, but instead, insist on ploughing your own furrow to try and prove "god knows what" to potential husbands who simply "do not care" about whatever itch it is you're trying to scratch...then not many men are going to see any value in partnering up with you. They'll pass you over and let you waste YOUR life on your pursuits...but they'll be damned if they're going to allow you to waste THEIR life for the same futile reasons!!
Underrated comment sir!!
Young and processing still working. Love advice tips and expectations.
He’s selling y’all women a dream on this one. Ain’t enough men out there with this option ladies. Get you a good man and be a good woman
Facts
Yea he trippin. His talking points be contradicting his other talking points.
I’m glad others have noticed this
@@daniellefennell3877 Yeah you eat the meat and spit out the bones on some of this info
I was thinking the same thing. How many times has he said that about 10-20% of men are in a position to do this. So what are the average people supposed to do? The economic health of a nation is dependent on its middle class.
1:36:00
"it's like you're with another man..."
This is so true.
Even other things like always being busy with book clubs, church, charities, work etc. Even spending a lot of time to look good to go out with your girls but won't get dressed up for your man/husband... it says your husband is not that important to you or that you no longer need to impress or please him.
😭😭😭😭”He look like he would have a homosexual relationship with a gerbil “ took me out 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The funny thing about this whole topics I've seen so many women call in and say I agree with everything you say Kevin then as soon as the conversation progresses it goes left women 99% of the time move of their feelings it trumps everything you can be doing everything right I mean everything and if she feels differently she'll be planning her exit and you'll never know it
Would I quit my full-time job to work part-time for my man? I sure would...and I have. My husband is a disabled veteran. When we met, we were living two hours away from each other. I quit my job, left family and friends, and moved in with him. My only job was to take care of him--as well as cook, clean, laundry, etc. Eventually, the funding for that job was cut, and sadly, I had to find a job outside of the home. Three years later, I got a job where, due to Covid, I'm working from home. While I love this, I would love to be able to quit that to dedicate my life to taking care of him full time again. The job can get in the way of that.
Thanks for watching & comments really appreciated.
Text/what'sapp my broker Robert for something big on BTC/Eth investment ideas.
💝 Nothing but love for this man.💝
Not every male is a husband or father! Not every female is a wife or mother, please choose wisely folks! Every time KS presents a scenario BW can only think of the negative aspect! They live their lives with the negative stereotype in mind and when the dream scenario shows up they're NOT prepared to deal with that level of man! Thats the situation for the marriage minded women they talk a good game until its time to leave those other single females holding her back!
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Tell him I referred you
Kevin, great point. My father retired my mom from corporate 20 years ago. She earns significantly more in the family office.
Oh, hEEEeeeLL Naaaw! I have TWO exes that KS mentioned and let me tell you something.....Nope, nOpE, NOPE! I had an accountant that could manage money for everyone EXCEPT our household. Recklessly spent every damn thing! Then there's the nurse. God bless them all BUT ALL have serious mental problems due to the job. PTSD, at minimum, is what you'll be dealing with in a relationship with a nurse. WhOO! I cringed like hell starting at timestamp 57:16.
'Toxic Relationships'
Read the story of Erin Prizzey English ex-feminist who set up the first domestic violence shelter in 1971.
When she explained why women return to abusive relationships her family were threaten with murder.
Modern Women winter is here!! For you old birds!!Truth speaking!!!
Let em broads freeze up...
@@mpumelelobeyers957 Agree with you!
I'm glad i found this channel.
I don't always agree with this guy but agree with this video. We tried too hard to prove to ourselves how independent we can be. I'm a single mom so I had to find a way to surrender and drop my so called career to make time for a successful man. Plenty of successful men need women to support them as a wife and life partner. Single moms need to aim higher so you can be home to raise your kids and nurture your family. Employment is overrated.
@MGTOW MattyLOL well im retired and probably more successful than you babe. My man is successful and i set my girlfriends up with successful white men and they treat us well so we cater to them. Asian and black usually are not serious about us. Not all, but most below average men are insecure and use us single moms to berate and look down to feel better about themselves.
When I was pregnant, I did my ex husband's paperwork while trucking together. I would be happy to work for my future partner especially if our goals and purpose are aligned.
Fresh Faded Godfather's shows just hit different
Thank you Kevin for your wisdom and knowledge.