Learn How to Deal With Your Parents as an Adult
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- Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
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As we become adults, our relationships with our parents should change, but many people are still in a child-parent dynamic well into adulthood. Dr. Cloud talks about why you might find yourself stuck in that situation and what you can do to make a change. If you are going to have the best relationship possible with your parents as an adult you must be an adult yourself. Most of our struggles with our parents deal with unresolved dependency. Whether emotionally, financially, or spiritually, we must be free to be our own person and not still seek a need for approval from our parents.
Ok I don't appreciate UA-cam listening to my conversation then providing me sound advice without asking lmao
😅 Exactly what happens to me
This video could not have come up at a more perfect time! It is exactly what I'm dealing with. ☺
Thank you God for guiding me to this extremely helpful guidance.
Why do parents get mad when you’re not independent but didn’t teach you those things while growing up ? I don’t get it. I’m not saying I don’t want to be independent but it sure would’ve helped.
Being an adult means making bad decisions. Decisions you and others are afraid of. My parents married young and there family of adults disapproval of them. My parents married anyways.
A deep inside secret of adults is, which extremely well never say, is. Being an adult means just doing what you want and not liking others for you doing it
My story
Husband's Narc parents - right nightmare - Homewreckers. Everything you have ... 'real...ated' here - is SOOOO ACCurAAATE !?!?! THANKYOU n BLESS YOU. X ;)
Thank you, this has been such a blessing.
Eyeopeninggg
Would you please do a video on how to recover from betrayal trauma?
How do I deal with siblings who disagree with my boundaries towards taking care of parents? IE - not wanting a parent living with me permanently but willing to contribute towards living arrangements etc?
Absolutely never move a parent in. They will stay there until they pass. It can be 40 years of being the parent in that arrangement.
Is there still a Dr. Cloud show to call in to? If so, would someone mind to share the number?
Got a sibling whose like mid 30s, depending on our parents, and an absolute nuisance to be around
Same except mine are 21 and can't get their shit together
This is usually a parenting problem, the parents spoil the child because of their own trauma of lacking in their childhood, so they try to live through their children which backfires
(FACTS OVA FEELINGS). Parents and Adults in hOUR Society Found a way to Preserve Their Own Self-concept and that was though feeding themselves a, well az eu with the belief it's for ur own good. Wee r fed this life from dey one even those of us who grow up in the most loving household r fed this Lie. Wee make hOUR children sit through hrs of lessons in the prison-like environment wee call school and tell them it's for their own good. Wee discipline them in ways that r Painful to their Minds and Bodies and tell them that it's for their own good
Give a teaching on how treat or respond to elderly parents
Sometimes I regret having children!
Try making muffins for them, that will help you bond with them
You don’t make sense
The question is how to be free? 🤦🏻♀️
We have devoted many years to our children to be dropped like a hot potato😢
were you emotionally neglectful?