FRIENDSHIP | SOME FRIENDS WILL RUIN YOU

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  • Опубліковано 1 кві 2016
  • Hey my beauties, I'm back with another video, talking about the importance of the friends that you keep around you. A lot of the time we forget that the friends we choose, not only reflect the time of people we truly are but also effect that type of person we will eventually become. So here's a few tips on what it is you should be looking for in the friends that you keep.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 117

  • @SarahDestiny_
    @SarahDestiny_ 8 років тому +117

    "Show me your friends and I will show you your character" That quote said it ALLLL for me, great video as usual Courtney. Beautiful words of wisdom x

    • @CourtneyDaniella
      @CourtneyDaniella  8 років тому +4

      Thank you so much girl, 💕. They're words to live by x

    • @craigmalcom6294
      @craigmalcom6294 7 років тому

      Sarah Destiny what if you don't have any friends

  • @67DrWatson
    @67DrWatson 7 років тому +8

    I can count my true friends on one hand and I'm proud of that fact. Too many people out there with their FB/Instagram 'friends' numbering in the hundreds. I can't be doing with that. My friends will take me from confusion straight to the door of the solution (to use your words). Everyone else is categorised as an acquaintance.

  • @zahralabutta5810
    @zahralabutta5810 7 років тому +62

    She's sooooo beautiful inside and out, love you Courtney!💕

  • @ImaniShola
    @ImaniShola 8 років тому +41

    LOOOL girlll I die every time you go into that accent 😂😂😂
    Sound advice as always. Friends who nourish what you've sewn; love that. Lots of love 💖

  • @demilola3799
    @demilola3799 7 років тому +4

    I've been having friendship issues and this has helped me beyond belief

  • @MissK233
    @MissK233 8 років тому +18

    YOU LOOK SO PRETTY!!!!

  • @ellona3645
    @ellona3645 5 років тому +2

    I only have 2 real friend who I cherish & that's all I need but I've been praying to hopefully meet more Christian friends. I just never felt like I fit in at youth groups sooo yeah sadly I got no Christian friends

  • @shiamberrandle5419
    @shiamberrandle5419 7 років тому +3

    You are truly a blessing. Im in a period of my life where I'm finding myself and it's wonderful. Im realizing who I am and the people around me haven't gotten there yet. Your videos really help me feel good about my growth. Change is incredible. I thank God for my change. I can not force the people in my circle to experience this change with me. Thank you!!! Keep doing what you do!! You will open eyes!! God Bless You!!!

  • @kathrynshannon5441
    @kathrynshannon5441 8 років тому +11

    This is great analysis, personally I really needed to hear this after cutting off toxic people in my life recently! Thank you gal ☄💖

  • @anniel9126
    @anniel9126 8 років тому

    soo happy to have finally found a brit youtuber that I really love, thank you soo much for your video linking others! and the fact that you not out here swearing up and down is so refreshing. thank you for these words 😙

  • @OddsEverInMyFavour
    @OddsEverInMyFavour 8 років тому

    Wow really needed this after going through some troubles recently. Thank you so much, you're so wise 👑

  • @nitaj2958
    @nitaj2958 4 роки тому +1

    Again .......Another great video Sweetie. Recently, I was in the middle of the street pleading with someone that accused me of something I did not do. Trying to remind them of our friendship and give supportive evidence that what they believe to be true was impossible. After viewing your video, I heard your words of wisdom in regard to people being unable to value and see the beauty in the friendship one can offer. I will no longer waste my time on the spiritually blind. Thanks again. Blessings Always !!! It’s amazing how a person on a Utube channel can wake you up from darkness. Thanks so very much again. Know that you are changing lives. Love Nita. Your Honorary Sister from NYC.

  • @sarahnicholas9218
    @sarahnicholas9218 4 роки тому

    This is so on time... this video has given me strength THANK YOU ! THANK YOU Courtney ! 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @kitty2894
    @kitty2894 7 років тому +24

    Although I find myself mostly surrounded by hard-working, smart and positive people who aspire me to become better, I do have a few that I have very complicated feelings about. This one girl who...considers me as one of her best friends, I do find her from time to time to be very annoying, in a sense that she makes me feel awkward and sometimes brought down when I'm with her (saying blunt things at inappropriate times; badmouthing me "unintentionally" in front of people). I also really hate how she's too optimistic in a way that it's simply dumb (e.g. "It's ok I'm happy I passed" "My best subjects are xxx!!! Even though I'm only getting a C in it; it's fine because it's cause of the teacher!")... but again she could be the sweetest thing and I just can't really be THAT mad about...
    Sorry for leaving such a long comment, but I would like some advice if you see this? Thank you!!
    P.S. You're beautiful and I'm so glad I found your channel :D

    • @mardiawomenor9974
      @mardiawomenor9974 4 роки тому

      it's very simply associate yourself with realist with ideals but they choose to work and achieve those ideas I hope u resolved it good luck.

  • @SumaH
    @SumaH 7 років тому +1

    I just love your aura it's so refreshing , you're beautiful. Thank you for this video!❤️

  • @ImThatGirlBeh
    @ImThatGirlBeh 6 років тому +2

    Girl, you are preaching! Speak on it! Thank you for sharing this very important message. Be blessed! 💜

  • @rakgadimakgatho4602
    @rakgadimakgatho4602 7 років тому +1

    You are honestly an amazing woman. Thank you for your wise words.😇💛

  • @chinazas.o9456
    @chinazas.o9456 6 років тому

    This was such an eye opener and makes be do some deep thinking. I've thought about it and I don't think people can really know me by my friends. I have friends who are complete opposites and do different things. But I feel like I have a big spectrum of friends for different purposes. Perhaps one to make me feel a certain way at a certain time or another who will enjoy the idea of a secret I need to tell. It may be difficult now to hand pick my friends and to remove friends. But I'll always be sure to remember your advice and write it down and keep it in my heart. And one day, I'll be courageous enough to "filter" my friendships. Life's a journey full of experiences. I love your message in this video and I love how passionate you are about what talk about. I also love how you know who you are, what your values are and what you stand for. I think I've found myself a new role model! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS COURTNEY! ❤❤❤

  • @mariarak2578
    @mariarak2578 7 років тому +1

    Some truly powerful words Daniella thank you very much for sharing with us words of such wisdom.

  • @unapologeticallyrox5414
    @unapologeticallyrox5414 6 років тому +1

    Loving your channel and your personality and your topics!!

  • @ZA-gt5kf
    @ZA-gt5kf 7 років тому

    Always making sense, Courtney I love youu

  • @laurahaydock8125
    @laurahaydock8125 7 років тому +5

    hey Courtney! could you make a video about how to be a good friend and inspire and help people achieve their goals, please? that would be amazing. thanks for the good vibes girl xx

  • @LexieWeekly
    @LexieWeekly 7 років тому

    ahhhh - i literally resonated with everything you said😩🙌🏾

  • @MyMjc123
    @MyMjc123 7 років тому +3

    Wow interesting, relatable and inspirational. You're amazing and wise a true blessing to this earth.

  • @ChichiOhio
    @ChichiOhio 7 років тому +11

    your hair slays everrryyytimee!

  • @Itshafsaaa
    @Itshafsaaa 7 років тому +1

    You're so wise and inspiring. I love your channel babe

  • @EvaSweetMichelle
    @EvaSweetMichelle 8 років тому +9

    This video !! Everything you said was on point. Great video once again. I actually believe those who you surround yourself with can define who you are tbh. Thats why finding like minded people is key xx

  • @EllaMak1
    @EllaMak1 8 років тому +5

    Talk your soul out hunnayy! Loved every single bit of it..✨STAY BLESSED🙌🏾

  • @i8anapplemac
    @i8anapplemac 8 років тому

    this is such an important message, too many times people do not value their friendships because they are searching for something else

  • @kenteyaa1697
    @kenteyaa1697 7 років тому +6

    You are so hilarious and bright! I am inspired!

  • @GorgeousVHair
    @GorgeousVHair 8 років тому +6

    Your hair is so lush! 😍Friends of purpose is what everyone should be praying for 🙌🏽

  • @gizanglyer5299
    @gizanglyer5299 7 років тому +2

    I really needed this video - thank you Courtney!

  • @nanettethompson7082
    @nanettethompson7082 8 років тому +1

    The way I always I watch this because my name is mentioned aha🙊 Love you girl keep it up❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Sarah-ze2uv
    @Sarah-ze2uv 7 років тому +1

    Double Amen

  • @AbiTiwo
    @AbiTiwo 8 років тому +4

    This video spoke to me! You don't even know. So glad I came across this. Wise wise words. x

  • @taii_chii6782
    @taii_chii6782 8 років тому +2

    Courtney thank youuuu soooo much I've been reading Matthew and that verse has been on I've never understood so I thank you so much for sharing. 💕💕Thank you for this video it's not everyday how to find bae sometimes learn how to strengthen friendships. Well done for uploading regularly #consistencyiskey

    • @CourtneyDaniella
      @CourtneyDaniella  8 років тому +1

      It's no problem. Im happy you got something from it. Thank you so much Chinenye ❤️

  • @munachiadindu6358
    @munachiadindu6358 7 років тому +16

    I legit love this girl!!!!!

  • @Drehgab
    @Drehgab 7 років тому +1

    Old but gold

  • @OutlinerVee
    @OutlinerVee 8 років тому +2

    [Look at me coming to type one long 35 mark essay Lool.] 1.I should've watched this sooner, 2nd of all, your perception of life is amazing, so inspiring and most of all comforting, and Thirdly, your banter iz rilly h'up d'yhere is really up there) Too funny, i love it. And honestly, I hope that even in all your success (in Jesus Name) that you will grow even more, so you can share more with us, and help us grow too! Keep it up Court xox

  • @mubitahellen9993
    @mubitahellen9993 3 роки тому

    I'll be here from time to time👊🏿

  • @Realtalknewyorkwithjanique
    @Realtalknewyorkwithjanique 6 років тому +1

    True sis ❤️

  • @missv3132
    @missv3132 8 років тому

    you are too correct

  • @Pinkolate
    @Pinkolate 8 років тому +4

    This hair😻😻😻👏🏾

  • @Sophiemarck
    @Sophiemarck 7 років тому

    Omg love your hair yassss

  • @ilasamokish3114
    @ilasamokish3114 7 років тому +1

    Loved this video!

  • @brittaniana8648
    @brittaniana8648 7 років тому +1

    Love your channel and how you incorporate God into your vlogs and daily life. New subbie

  • @IonaFrancis
    @IonaFrancis 7 років тому +1

    You always inspire me xx

  • @SalmaAli-gb4qp
    @SalmaAli-gb4qp 8 років тому +1

    This video speaks so many truths 😂❣❣

  • @EuniceMalia
    @EuniceMalia 7 років тому

    So Inspiring love your channel

  • @Marjoriesha
    @Marjoriesha 8 років тому

    Cool video with some really valid points, good luck at Cambridge :)

  • @gabdomingo5534
    @gabdomingo5534 7 років тому

    Waouh. ..wise words. Just subscribe to your chanel because of this video. May God continue to bless you and bring you higher. Greetings from Germany 😘😘😘

  • @emohyou
    @emohyou 8 років тому

    Literally laughing my head off at this! xxx

  • @bobieawuah5879
    @bobieawuah5879 7 років тому

    Great vid as always 👍🏾

  • @Ss-mr5pj
    @Ss-mr5pj 5 років тому

    Birds of the same feather flock together

  • @candysnow993
    @candysnow993 7 років тому

    Liking the glasses

  • @alice0900
    @alice0900 8 років тому +2

    Hey Courtney love your videos!x Do you think maybe you could do a video on your application to uni? Like preparation tips for interviews, entrance exams etc ... I'm really considering studying HSPS too and would love to hear some feedback on how you're finding your time so far. God bless!x

    • @CourtneyDaniella
      @CourtneyDaniella  8 років тому

      Hey lovely, I will definitely do a video on it for you once I finish first year and can give you a better all round look at it xx

  • @SimoneFancyBosslady
    @SimoneFancyBosslady 7 років тому +2

    love your accent!!! and you're so pretty! #tellthem

  • @ishaw500
    @ishaw500 7 років тому +2

    Matthew 7:6 👏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾

  • @StrawberryPie2470
    @StrawberryPie2470 8 років тому +4

    Another amazing video as usual, love you girl! Btw your hair is laaaiiiiid, I beg you do a video on it, or at least tell us where it's from x

    • @CourtneyDaniella
      @CourtneyDaniella  8 років тому +1

      Haha thank you so much girl. I will do it soon xx

  • @katsuamla
    @katsuamla 7 років тому

    So true !
    But here is the thing : how to actually let those people go all of a sudden ? I mean without being mean or even rude
    Thanks for the video
    xoxo

  • @jasu5142
    @jasu5142 5 років тому

    Love you and videos

  • @maryjo7108
    @maryjo7108 8 років тому

    Great video as always great advice

  • @afouri
    @afouri 7 років тому +2

    Thank you so much for this. I've had a real issue with friends recently because I feel as though I'm an old soul and the way I think about certain things is more mature than my friends. This has caused a friction because I feel as though the way they act and the way that the values that they have don't match up with mine. The thing is, Ik that we're all still young so I kind expect them to have certain mind sets because we are only 14/15 after all. I don't lose these people but due to the fact that I doubt them being true friends so often that cutting them off or distancing myself is the best option. Go with my instincts you know? I guess what I'm tryna to ask though is how do I end the friendship in the least destructive way because I'm going still be in school with these people for a couple years and they were literally the closest people to me. It hurts a lot cos I've known them for so long and I'm also so scared to start a fresh and meet new people.

    • @louvrefossil
      @louvrefossil 6 років тому +2

      Iylana James Iylana James sit down and have a conversation and tell them you feel like you’re not on the same page anymore. that you truly did value their friendship and appreciated all the times you had, but for yourself you don’t feel you’d be serving yourself or them well to continue the friendship from here on. it’s all about you and what you have to figure out about yourself.

  • @charlotteerika2455
    @charlotteerika2455 6 років тому +1

    I really needed to hear this X sort of lost my way

    • @Drehgab
      @Drehgab 6 років тому

      Boo Hope you feel better 😘

  • @newnatural445
    @newnatural445 6 років тому

  • @susannebaker3135
    @susannebaker3135 7 років тому +1

    CORRECT...I AGGREE**

  • @ayraikage8983
    @ayraikage8983 8 років тому

    ARDA TURAN IS MAGIC

  • @venussingh7783
    @venussingh7783 8 років тому +1

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾c'mon nowww🙌🏾✨💕

  • @iamcolton2815
    @iamcolton2815 8 років тому +1

    nice video! like your happy mood lol!

  • @MMC-fd3cy
    @MMC-fd3cy 8 років тому

    Courtney you are too beautiful girl💁🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I love your videos.💘

  • @justsimplyree6712
    @justsimplyree6712 7 років тому +1

    Spook want this hair style as a tutorial thanks bunny bun!

    • @justsimplyree6712
      @justsimplyree6712 7 років тому +1

      Sooooo I'm gna need you in to make* damn auto spell

  • @leanamonae
    @leanamonae 7 років тому

    👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌

  • @umarchowdhury7752
    @umarchowdhury7752 8 років тому

    I related.

  • @HairbyNardia
    @HairbyNardia 6 років тому

    U said 4 I met mine at 3 and 27 years later she just did me dirty not too long ago and we aren’t friends anymore more from her end #hurting just hearing you say 4 I almost clicked off hearing similar stories break my heart cause it reminds me of us 😔😞

  • @soraya1275
    @soraya1275 8 років тому +1

    Love your videos btw where did get your glasses from they look gorgeous on you x

    • @CourtneyDaniella
      @CourtneyDaniella  8 років тому +2

      Thank you so much, I actually got them from Specsavers x

  • @quinterayogam8908
    @quinterayogam8908 7 років тому

    👏👏👏👐👐👐😍😍

  • @amy-jomook2025
    @amy-jomook2025 7 років тому +1

    What do you do when these bad friends are all you have got? When these dreams are getting prevented but you would/do feel lonely because nobody has or cares about your dreams?

    • @notsomuchhere1387
      @notsomuchhere1387 6 років тому +1

      I'm going through this right now and I finally realized it's much better to be my own company than to waste my time and energy on toxic people.I'll just keep working on myself and succeeding with god as my rock and I know the right people will come at the right time.

    • @notsomuchhere1387
      @notsomuchhere1387 6 років тому

      Also,I heard this somewhere and it stuck with me.
      Achieving your dreams require energy,change requires energy.Energy is limited so you can't be wasting it on people who will literally drain you out.

    • @afiapomaa
      @afiapomaa 4 роки тому

      I have found that the loneliness will come no matter what. Even if you keep them around, eventually you will feel lonely anyway cause you will feel like you live in your own universe and they're just not on your level.
      When you get rid of old things, you have room for the new. If you part with your old friends, you will be pleasantly surprised with the new ones you will get.

  • @EpicAsian
    @EpicAsian 7 років тому +6

    Wow, wise words. On a less serious note, I made a comedy video about ruining friendship in my channel! Feel free to check it out!

  • @wink768
    @wink768 7 років тому

    What about when you have a hard time finding friends? When you are friendly to everyone but cannot get a squad, or a buddy.

  • @dreamzbrazilianhair
    @dreamzbrazilianhair 8 років тому

    Nice video, where are your glasses and phone case from?

    • @CourtneyDaniella
      @CourtneyDaniella  8 років тому

      Thanks, and my glasses are from Specsavers and the case is from eBay xx

  • @user-tr2qq6hh2t
    @user-tr2qq6hh2t 8 років тому

    what hair do you use pleasse, I'm looking for a reliable company

  • @MissTaylorRobertson
    @MissTaylorRobertson 7 років тому

  • @lisavandyck840
    @lisavandyck840 8 років тому

    where are ur glasses from please??

    • @lollypop3508
      @lollypop3508 7 років тому +1

      Lisa Vandyck she said prescribed from spec savers

  • @PatriciaFerreiraS3
    @PatriciaFerreiraS3 8 років тому

    how old are you babes?

  • @ragazzasolare77
    @ragazzasolare77 6 років тому

    The music is so distracting.

  • @Tyraakua
    @Tyraakua 8 років тому +2

    My love what is your snapchat ?❤️

  • @MissK233
    @MissK233 8 років тому

    YOU LOOK SO PRETTY!!!!

  • @user-tr2qq6hh2t
    @user-tr2qq6hh2t 8 років тому

    what hair do you use pleasse, I'm looking for a reliable company