Real Truth About Singlehood and Marriage | Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo

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  • Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
  • Join Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo as she shares 'The truth about singlehood and marriage'. Here, Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo, a Christian counselor, relationship coach, therapist, and infidelity recovery coach shares some deep truths about relationships and how to live a fulfilled married life.
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  • @bitrushafsat5427
    @bitrushafsat5427 6 місяців тому +23

    Ever since I started listening to PK, my love for the word increased, I’ve grown even financially following my dreams, I’ve escaped from an abusive relationship, gave myself time to heal and I’m now in a better place. God bless you both ❤

  • @gloriakelechi
    @gloriakelechi 7 місяців тому +59

    Marriage is deeper that we think... May God give us Grace

  • @uniqueifeomaglory
    @uniqueifeomaglory 7 місяців тому +154

    My love for this woman is out of this world! Only God knows what your sermons are doing for me ma’am and the wisdom I’ve learnt so far, how it’s shaping my destiny and building me into the woman God wants me to be… thank you so Pastor M 😘🩷💕❤❤

    • @Wonderealities
      @Wonderealities 7 місяців тому +1

      Same here ❤ Thanks so much ma'am

    • @euniceonu7794
      @euniceonu7794 7 місяців тому

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @lisanoah4622
      @lisanoah4622 7 місяців тому

      She has transformed my life soo much ❤ her wisdom is on another level 👏🙏

    • @BisolaOmojokun-n1v
      @BisolaOmojokun-n1v 6 місяців тому

      Woman of the word and wisdom ❤

    • @joyomorowa7470
      @joyomorowa7470 5 місяців тому

      I agree..pst Mildred is so grounded..

  • @russelllevers9513
    @russelllevers9513 7 місяців тому +93

    I found my wife in a different church.. i didn't see her as my type because she was slim. I don't like that. I love woman with body. Anyway we became friends and i feel in love love love love with her. When on fasting and prayers got confirmation. From God. Her family and friends some of them began to fight it. However she had fallen in love love love love with me. As well got confirmation from God that Russell levers my servant is chosen to be yours. We just married today. After talking for nine months. To God be the glory!!!!!

  • @IvyChigalau
    @IvyChigalau 7 місяців тому +55

    If u want to get married, first u have to be the right person

  • @ingridbirch8042
    @ingridbirch8042 7 місяців тому +30

    This lady never fails to encourage me in my marriage
    Love from Barbados

  • @CatherineKibandi
    @CatherineKibandi 7 місяців тому +30

    For you to find the right spouse(partner)
    1.Be the right person.(have the qualities that you want for your ideal future person) you will attract someone who has similar values like yours.
    2.Need to chose the right person.( It takes two Godly people to make a Godly marriage) It takes two people that have invested, have sacrificed to make marriage work.
    3.Need to do the right thing.
    Two can't walk together unless they have agreed. As a woman you need to be smart. Men are so transactional.
    NB:Marriage never change anyone. A lizard cannot change into a crocodile in marriage. Ask yourself whether you need to marry a prayer point or a prayer partner. Marriage develop your character. Marriage is about two forgivers.

    • @NamutebiSophia-ci1mh
      @NamutebiSophia-ci1mh 7 місяців тому

      Thank you sis for the summer, may God bless you 🙏

    • @TAIWO03058
      @TAIWO03058 7 місяців тому

      Thank you ma .
      Revealing to that no 3.
      my fiance always complain that am Too smart .

  • @soniabih6028
    @soniabih6028 7 місяців тому +19

    Interesting message to sleep and think of my future as a single girl 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @conciliaogambaephraim4124
    @conciliaogambaephraim4124 6 місяців тому +4

    The Person of the Holy Spirit is the best relationship that has helped me. God bless you Pastor.

  • @missgeepsalms7899
    @missgeepsalms7899 22 дні тому +2

    Pastor M for a reason 🔥💞💞

  • @sibongumusasinqobile5523
    @sibongumusasinqobile5523 7 місяців тому +11

    She is so wise.. Love her so much.. From South africa❤

  • @alliengoy2853
    @alliengoy2853 7 місяців тому +9

    Amen! "Your best advantage in life and in marriage is the Holy Spirit"!

  • @gloriamordi7737
    @gloriamordi7737 7 місяців тому +5

    You can either decide to marry a prayer partner or a prayer point! WORD! God bless you ma

  • @charitynelson2324
    @charitynelson2324 7 місяців тому +5

    The sermon cracked me up but at the same time full of lessons. I want to build a godly home. Oh holy Spirit of the lord please help me. 🙏

  • @CatherineKibandi
    @CatherineKibandi 7 місяців тому +10

    Your minds shut down when your emotions take over. ❤

  • @Born2Praise1
    @Born2Praise1 7 місяців тому +3

    This woman of God is too much.
    God has just through her, reshaped my life with this great sermon..... 🙏🙏🙏

  • @sihlenozintaba1632
    @sihlenozintaba1632 7 місяців тому +4

    You're a huge blessing to me Mighty woman of God ❤❤❤

  • @denricaaugustawilliams6285
    @denricaaugustawilliams6285 7 місяців тому +2

    I will Marry right IJN🙏🏿

  • @TreasureNkem-iu8mr
    @TreasureNkem-iu8mr 7 місяців тому +16

    Thank you ma for making me who I am today even if I haven't meetyou physically

  • @goodsuccessmoyo
    @goodsuccessmoyo 7 місяців тому +4

    Words can’t really describe how much I love you pastor Mildred❤❤❤

  • @CatherineKibandi
    @CatherineKibandi 7 місяців тому +6

    I mean God made a better version of a man and the better version was a woman ❤OH my goodness I just love this woman.

  • @ibemevictoria
    @ibemevictoria 4 місяці тому +2

    You cannot do MARRIAGE without the HOLY SPIRIT. Powerful 🔥🙌 God bless you Ma ❤

  • @towdahsfleet3278
    @towdahsfleet3278 7 місяців тому +8

    Hmmmm.. A soft answer turns away wrath....
    This message was for me sincerely... God bless PM

  • @towelajemimahchakulunta9324
    @towelajemimahchakulunta9324 7 місяців тому +7

    I have been listening to Pastor k and Pastor M messages on relationships since I was 21, and now I am 23.
    I have been blessed and never been the same.
    There are times I would want to compromise things, but I would still go back and listen to their teaching.
    Their words are like a seed which are planted and watered.
    Each time something happens, especially if my emotions take over me, I would still remember what Pastor k or Pastor M said.
    Maybe God bless you for me, and may he keep you and increase your wisdom
    Thank you so much
    With love from Zambia

    • @Chidinma-mq1lp
      @Chidinma-mq1lp 6 місяців тому

      I love this woman, God sent to me

    • @Chidinma-mq1lp
      @Chidinma-mq1lp 6 місяців тому

      God bless you and your home Ma

    • @GbemisolaOluwasina
      @GbemisolaOluwasina 5 місяців тому

      Hallelujah ❤

    • @MercyAnn-x7d
      @MercyAnn-x7d 28 днів тому

      I began listening to PM when I was 19, I'm turning 24 this year, in very interesting times, her words rang in my mind, I couldn't falter even if I wanted to. The wisdom of God has never left me, and when people complain about my generation, it's striking because some of us are different, trained well, waay wiser than our peers, we are getting it right and the devil can do nothing about it🎉🎉❤❤
      Thankyou PM and PK for accepting the assignment, a generation is aligned indeed
      From Kenya❤

  • @kelechinelson8907
    @kelechinelson8907 6 місяців тому +4

    I love you so much, Pastor Mildred. You've changed my ideology on marriage so much it stuns me. You're a gift to our generation ♥️.

    • @truetalkwithada
      @truetalkwithada 3 місяці тому

      So true,dat is our mum ooh in Nigeria (dcc) but we know she has to go world wide to teach u guys and thank you mama for all ur teaching❤

  • @BuhleSibisi-l8q
    @BuhleSibisi-l8q 7 місяців тому +2

    The wisdom in this woman...I'm telling you God is a proud Father ❤❤❤I love her so much..

  • @mukitebrenda1084
    @mukitebrenda1084 2 місяці тому +1

    I love you pastor Mildred

  • @patiencenamanyi9382
    @patiencenamanyi9382 Місяць тому +1

    I love you Pastor Mildred Okwonkwo

  • @sunmolaabiodun1952
    @sunmolaabiodun1952 7 місяців тому +2

    Your mind shut down when your emotion take over

  • @chikereolive8204
    @chikereolive8204 7 місяців тому +3

    Thank you Pastor Mildred... listening to you over the years have drastically changed my life.. I became a wise lady through your teaching...I pray our paths cross someday..love you ma

  • @masilelacalsile9056
    @masilelacalsile9056 7 місяців тому +17

    I've been an Orphan for 14 years and a born again Christian for some time.....I couldn't have been alive or remained a born again Christian for this long if not for The help of Holy Spirit. You can't live life without the Holy Spirit.

  • @estherkorkoramesimeku4520
    @estherkorkoramesimeku4520 7 місяців тому +10

    I love you pastor Mildred,thats all i get to say 😘 Thank you for accepting the call ! Thank you for loving jesus , thank you for being a believable reference ❤

  • @chiomasplace1620
    @chiomasplace1620 6 місяців тому +2

    Once I listen to this woman …I feel renewed

  • @paulzerina
    @paulzerina 16 днів тому

    Where you're going determines who you'll go with.
    Thank you Pastor Mildred.

  • @chipegomumpele9581
    @chipegomumpele9581 7 днів тому

    For me to hear and have a relationship with the Holy Spirit ❤️😭

  • @fille3991
    @fille3991 7 місяців тому +7

    It takes two Godly people to have a Godly marriage.

  • @GbemisolaOluwasina
    @GbemisolaOluwasina 5 місяців тому +1

    Gid loves systems!

  • @doraamoako2791
    @doraamoako2791 19 днів тому +1

    35:00 facts only but interesting

  • @foundationclemence2024
    @foundationclemence2024 6 місяців тому +1

    Woooow, I NEED HOLY SPIRIT

  • @gracelukusa6110
    @gracelukusa6110 7 місяців тому +1

    Great teachings. The holy spirit is the best helper at navigating life and marriage❤❤❤❤❤

  • @02luxury
    @02luxury 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for always uploading these videos .. these are what people pay huge money for THANK YOU SO MUCH

  • @MAVISANIWAAH
    @MAVISANIWAAH 7 місяців тому +1

    It's very true, ooo. Marriage doesn't change people from worst to good ooo it rather makes one to amplifiers ones bad character.

  • @fuenvanessa8261
    @fuenvanessa8261 7 місяців тому +7

    This message has blessed me richly. God bless you mama

  • @joycegitura7119
    @joycegitura7119 6 місяців тому +1

    I just love listening to Pst M, your teaching are really helping me on my journey of waiting on God for a life partner, I have to be the right person, I have to chose the right person.. God bless you

  • @pharmclare
    @pharmclare Місяць тому +1

    Great insights from this message. Thank you for sharing

  • @enochchichebem3406
    @enochchichebem3406 6 місяців тому +1

    I love you mama😂😂😂❤❤
    God bless you Pst Pk

  • @Adepaesther
    @Adepaesther Місяць тому +1

    I just saw a part or this video on Ticktok and i started yearning for more❤❤God Bless you mummy

  • @doraamoako2791
    @doraamoako2791 19 днів тому +1

    35:00 very true

  • @nazoa4870
    @nazoa4870 7 місяців тому +1

    Who is funnier- pastor M or PK😅😅😅 Powerful message

  • @KosisochukwuNwobbi
    @KosisochukwuNwobbi 4 місяці тому +1

    She is a vibe i love her❤❤❤

  • @jackie7025
    @jackie7025 6 місяців тому +1

    Absolutely excellent.
    Thank you Ma

  • @michaelaudioh4659
    @michaelaudioh4659 7 місяців тому +5

    Men responses continue to amuse me everytime, what is but I am not cheating disrespectfully😂😂😂

  • @stellaadimchinma2529
    @stellaadimchinma2529 7 місяців тому +2

    I love you Pastor M, you're amazing, I love your preaching, you and pastor K are doing an amazing work for God, thank you ❤.

  • @enochchichebem3406
    @enochchichebem3406 6 місяців тому +1

    God bless you Pst Pm🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @monicadiegboh9339
    @monicadiegboh9339 2 місяці тому +1

    This is deep father help me I will not be wrong join in marriage thank you pastor miledred

  • @igwechikodi8910
    @igwechikodi8910 4 місяці тому +1

    I love you mama. You are really doing a great job in my life.

  • @simplerecipeswithdee4052
    @simplerecipeswithdee4052 7 місяців тому +1

    So much wisdom woman of God. Thank you❤

  • @ngozichristopher6086
    @ngozichristopher6086 7 місяців тому +2

    I can't stop listening to you mama

  • @theWordallthetime
    @theWordallthetime 7 місяців тому +4

    We thank God for using our mama ❤️💯

  • @sarahgarba4759
    @sarahgarba4759 6 місяців тому +1

    This is amazing to listen to. Thanks, ma, for this great lesson.

  • @chi7610
    @chi7610 7 місяців тому +3

    The Holy Spirit is willing to help you in the tiniest things....God bless you ma🥰🥰🥰♥️♥️♥️

  • @rachaelmwale3333
    @rachaelmwale3333 6 місяців тому +1

    Am I the right person🥰🥰

  • @oliviangoma5802
    @oliviangoma5802 7 місяців тому +1

    Pastor M,I Love You❤

  • @user-xx8th5en7w
    @user-xx8th5en7w 7 місяців тому +1

    Hahaha, Yarsah and Barner!!! Wonderful 😊

  • @PreciousIfebuche-ku9nu
    @PreciousIfebuche-ku9nu 7 місяців тому +1

    God has so endowed you wisdom that I long to listen to your message. It always brings calmness to my soul

  • @kasubamulenga2041
    @kasubamulenga2041 7 місяців тому +1

    Wow to the best counselor in the world❤

  • @Debbydikeh
    @Debbydikeh 6 місяців тому +1

    I was blessed indeed❤

  • @MugishaMirella-wj3by
    @MugishaMirella-wj3by 6 місяців тому +1

    Amen 🙏🏽
    Bless you Pastor M❤️

  • @ClaretWanjiku
    @ClaretWanjiku 7 місяців тому +2

    God make me an offer❤ 9:39

    • @ClaretWanjiku
      @ClaretWanjiku 7 місяців тому +1

      The Rib : The most polished bone in the body

    • @ClaretWanjiku
      @ClaretWanjiku 7 місяців тому +1

      Be a Woman under authority 15:19

  • @FaithWawira-gy4wr
    @FaithWawira-gy4wr 7 місяців тому +1

    Amen 🙏 I embrace this wisdom in Jesus Mighty Name Amen 🙏

  • @blessingushie808
    @blessingushie808 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank you ma for all advice to us singles
    We love you ma'am 🥰❤

  • @BabalwaMusekwa-bm8oq
    @BabalwaMusekwa-bm8oq 7 місяців тому +1

    We truly blessed. Your love - genuinity and kindly is out of this world. May the good Lord continue to bless you💞🙏💞

  • @sypmlynaomi5603
    @sypmlynaomi5603 2 місяці тому +1

    I love you ma’am keep up the good work
    God bless and keep you ❤❤

  • @vuyisekambangi2605
    @vuyisekambangi2605 7 місяців тому +1

    Come on now... I love this😅❤️

  • @Karchie_talksalot
    @Karchie_talksalot 7 місяців тому

    Oh my God she preached at Dominon City 😮🥰

  • @GbemisolaOluwasina
    @GbemisolaOluwasina 5 місяців тому +1

    9:15

  • @kehinderebeccaadeshina9844
    @kehinderebeccaadeshina9844 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank you Ma for this, you said something about the things we have checked in our "what I want in a spouse list" . And my question is that what if as a lady I have concluded I won't date or marry someone younger than I am. I have done that in the past and it didn't work.

    • @Mr.Articulate146
      @Mr.Articulate146 7 місяців тому

      ....as mr.kingsley mentioned in his message that in the case of academics forexample,its not books one is looking 4 but intelligence &balanced understanding....so in yr case i think it's not age that matters most but resonance in mental orgasms btn you guys....so if you can find it from aperson that is abit younger than you,then look no further....probably the one you dated first lacked that reciprocity....thanks.

  • @pàrfaitfurnishing
    @pàrfaitfurnishing 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you, Holy Spirit.
    Thank you, Pastor M for the reminder. ❤❤❤

  • @ivyhammons6040
    @ivyhammons6040 Місяць тому +1

    This blessed me more than I expected. Thank you.❤

  • @ugochinyereijeoma3669
    @ugochinyereijeoma3669 5 місяців тому +1

    Very interesting teaching 🎉

  • @oquadeborah236
    @oquadeborah236 7 місяців тому +1

    God bless you ma

  • @samuelfavour5878
    @samuelfavour5878 7 місяців тому +1

    Ooohhh how i love PM

  • @peacenwokorie4061
    @peacenwokorie4061 7 місяців тому +1

    I love youuuuuuu ❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @ntombinakeli3327
    @ntombinakeli3327 7 місяців тому +3

    Love her
    Such a sweetheart 😘🥺❤️

  • @ukachukwuijeoma2873
    @ukachukwuijeoma2873 7 місяців тому +1

    I so love this

  • @NombongoNovember
    @NombongoNovember 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much Pastor M. From South Africa

  • @mercymuyumba5544
    @mercymuyumba5544 7 місяців тому +1

    Powerful 🙏

  • @thulanisoqaka9296
    @thulanisoqaka9296 Місяць тому +1

    Amazing sermon ❤️🇿🇦

  • @Auchanna
    @Auchanna 7 місяців тому +1

    I love this woman!!! Learning so much

  • @ahanotujovy1688
    @ahanotujovy1688 7 місяців тому +1

    I love you to the moon maa❤❤..
    U and ur husband hv really impacted positively on me.

  • @GRANTROYAKPOURIEME
    @GRANTROYAKPOURIEME 7 місяців тому +1

    This such a beautiful masterpiece of a Class God bless you richly Ma

  • @joyugbome
    @joyugbome 7 місяців тому +1

    Pastor M ma!Thank you ma!

  • @espoir3842
    @espoir3842 7 місяців тому +1

    This was so good!
    Thank you Pastor Mildred for allowing the Holy Spirit minister through you.
    You are always a blessing to the singles and married. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @russelllevers9513
    @russelllevers9513 7 місяців тому +1

    I love your advice it's very very awesome!!!! Keep up the great work doing

  • @richhy-zionfrancis910
    @richhy-zionfrancis910 6 місяців тому +1

    I was just laffing like one of the serafin's 😂😂,yeshua delights in my soul and to de bone of my bone & to the flesh of my flesh,Amen.

  • @joyceliaweah733
    @joyceliaweah733 7 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for teaching me mama🌹

  • @mercyolawore8689
    @mercyolawore8689 7 місяців тому +1

    I have been waiting for a new video for so long😌😌

  • @MAVISANIWAAH
    @MAVISANIWAAH 7 місяців тому +1

    The Holy Spirit.

  • @hamiltonilochi
    @hamiltonilochi 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank You Pastor M

  • @NinaAnthonyVlogs
    @NinaAnthonyVlogs 7 місяців тому

    Great message 😇