DISCIPLINE THE MONTESSORI WAY
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- Опубліковано 3 лип 2021
- Too many parents struggle with disciplining children and tend to adopt a very strict and rigid approach.
In this video we talk to you about about disciplining thee Montessori way - with a positive attitude, respect and communication.
Jenny will guide you and give you tips on making your parenting journey a happy one with less struggles and tantrums.
02:00 - What exactly is discipline
02:30 - Positive Discipline
06:18 - What makes children follow rules happily
08:50 - Step 1 - Change Perspective
09:30 - Step 2 - Acknowledge
10:15 - Step 3 - Freedom within Limits
13:10 - What is self discipline
14:32 - Recapping the steps
Freedom within Limits
• FREEDOM in the Montess...
Time In or Time Out
• Time Out or Time In
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As single parent house biggest struggle is dividing my attention to the necessary situations affectively at the right time then getting frustrated and lecturing
Yes I know what you mean.
I struggle so much too I’m so done
That could have lots of reasons. But remember! Choose your battles. Sometimes we can talk to them later. I am from a household like that. 4 boys 1 mom. I was angry a lot. Because I didn't feel seen. And I felt my mom was just disciplining me all the time. I know it looks you don't have time, but eventually it will work in your favor. Because your connection gets better and they will listen Because you listen to them.
I love your videos.its really our moral duty as a teacher to give a best human beings to the society.
I love that thought
Thank you so much! I always love your videos! ❤️
Glad you like them!
Hello!
I love your videos; I have gone through many of your previous videos, and all are relevant and amazing. Thank you so much for sharing.
I just wanted to request if you could make a video for teachers on how to conduct open houses or educate new parents whose kids are new to the Montessori environment.
Glad you like them!
II will try and work on something like this for he future
I absolutely love this video!
I'm so glad!
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Such a wonderful video to understand what is positive discipline in actual.
Thanks for watching
I struggle facing my child’s anger issues, probably because I was shutdown as a child in my emotions, especially strong emotions. I realized a couple years ago that he is teaching me how to understand anger and help guide him, not get caught up in the emotions he’s having. I learned to talk him to help him understand his emotions when he’s not in the heat of the moment. I love how you ask questions of the kids and help them problem solve solutions and allow them options. I’m definitely going to continue my path around your advise. Thank you for all your videos. I watch them all!!!! ❤️❤️❤️ The more videos you can put out there with relationship aspects with your own child who continue to help me, especially since I’ll be his teacher too eventually.
Thank you for your kind words. We are so happy our videos help you
I like your videos. like the way how you present the idea!
Thanks for watching
Change perspective... acknowledge
And freedom in limits...🌹🌺🌹
Always remember this when you are faced with a challenging situation :)
Great presentation thanks
Very welcome
Thank you 💓
You're welcome 😊
Wow, you are amazing not only a great Montessori teacher but also a mom of Triplets!! I learn a lot from you. Thanks so much. I have few questions. What will I do in the Montessori way when my 5 & 7 years old start fooling around or not listening to mom? Or start fighting with siblings over a toy?
A great place to start when they don't listen is to change your approach in speaking to them. Instead of ordering them to do something try to explain why you need them to do something.
You are really good!
Thanks so much Sandra
Very nice sharing 👌 👍
Thank you so much 😊
Thanks.
You're welcome
You're a good Montessorian. kudos!
Thank you
Amazing ❤ love to hear your these vedios..
Thank you for your kind words
Wow! This is interesting. I think I really like it.
Thank you so much for your thoughtful and encouraging words! It's wonderful to hear that our series on Montessori education, including the aspects of discipline, is proving valuable to you as you navigate the rewarding path of home education. Your eagerness to embrace and understand the Montessori philosophy is inspiring. If there are any specific topics or challenges you encounter along the way, please feel free to share. Our community is here to support each other. Continued success on your educational journey, and remember, we're just a message away if you need any assistance or have questions. Looking forward to hearing about your progress and sharing more about the Montessori way with you!
I am really enjoying your videos :)
I want you to narrate some audio books, so soothing!😊
Thanks so much for your kind words. I would love this opportunity - let me know if you have ways to do this.
Thanks.
I am reading Motessori Madness, and I am struggling with the idea of so much freedom for (I don't know how many) children in a classroom.
Its a fabulous book. About 20-25 children in one room
This is really helpful
Thanks for watching
Wow! Mummy of Triplets 🥰. I love your videos so much
Thanks for watching
So well put. My years in PreK classroom confirm how effective positive discipline is. Thank you. p.s. your clock needs new batteries!
Yes it does! You are the first person to notice :) And thanks for watching.
Thank you for always sharing! 😊
You are so welcome! Thank you for watching.
The greatest challenge of mine is.sometimes there is very stubborn child in my class but I have to teach them in a very very polite way.but sometimes they don't do eye contact with us.thats make the situation very tough.
Thanks for sharing!! There are so many challenges... patience is. key
u could also say, what time do u want to eat dinner then they pick a time and if they didnt go remind them of the schedule they picked, so that they are in tune with time and what happens at what time each day
That is a brilliant suggestion. Thanks
My most challenging moment is waking up my kids on time and following time in every single work.
Ohhh I can imagine... I struggled with that too! But I found that when I really connected with them and helped them to understand why they needed to be up on time it worked well for me. Thanks for watching
My child is 26 months old and (i) throws food/water/milk on the floor. I try to take away the plate, politely telling him that "Looks like you're not hungry anymore"; Sometimes I ignore the behavior, if he thinks it is getting my attention, but all steps I take are a hit/miss. It works sometimes, but not the other times. I try to avoid the throwing scenario, but it is never predictable. (ii) brushing teeth and bathing: I offer him the brush-paste to brush himself after he is done, I offer to finish brushing and make sure he has brushed well. But he wants to eat paste and is not willing to come to bathroom. Getting him there and getting it done is a time consuming task.
I always tell him ahead of time what we are going to do, so he knows what to expect. But it dos not work all the time.
We have a great course on challenging behaviour. Please click on this link and our team will help you sunshineteacherstraining.id/contact/
He needs an outlet to do those things that are developmentally appropriate.
Assalamualaikum nice way to explain thank you and 💕 Love 💕 from Pakistan 🇵🇰
so happy it helps you
This is generally good advice, even when dealing with other adults *ahem* husbands! *ahem* I am far from having to use this on my baby, but I think it would be great to try, even on adults.
:) That is so true. Thanks for watching
Moreover I'm a Montessori directress too 💗 I revise my work and all things by listening to your vedios ♥️ moreover make a vedio on teaching jobs too for Montessori teachers
We have many more videos coming soon
Mam very nice...
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Yes i have share it with my freinds
What happens with a child that does not care or listens ignores what you ask. Screams. Is aggressive. I just started working in the aftercare of a Montessori school. Feel overwhelmed at times.
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How do you discipline junior high and high school students? A school that I worked with didn’t renew my contract because I couldn’t discipline classes full of junior high and high school students.
I do believe we have to take a similar approach. whereby we develop relationships with them and help them towards self-discipline. However, my area of expertise is early childhood
There are no montessori schools or groups in my area so, I have started many times with pod casts, reading material, zoom seminars, have even studied psychology and human developement, but it is difficult to get my family to stay consistent, or in the same routine. Which makes me feel like I am not doing my job or enough for their betterment. I have thought alot about homeschool but am afraid I would not be able to give each different age child the correct guidance without having a nervous breakdown. Any advice
Maybe you would like to try one of our short courses to give you the knowledge you need.
We would LOVE to work with you. If you click on the link below someone from our team will be able to assist you and guide you to the right course. Can’t wait to work with you :)
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my most challenging moment with a student was when they were talking over me which they do often. but this one time i got upset and yelled. it wasnt helpful and i felt bad afterwards but i do wish i knew how to teach them to not talk over me.
Maybe doing a role play with a co teacher may show them how it disturbs.
have students "play" teacher- by demonstrating a lesson, etc. when their classmates talk over them, they will understand
My child is two years old and he often does not play with toys. He tries to experiment with things like hammer and screw nails.I think he's a good kid because he's probably trying to figure out what he's doing and try it on.He has a little something in his mind and is very careful to activate the brain.How clever, his behavior is so stubborn that this is like a mental torment to me how can they get out of this situation
Our children are constantly amazing us. If you watch him closely you will learn so much about what he is good at and how you can challenge him
I work in a nursery with 4 yr olds who are vety unruly in behaviour pls help me this is a new school .....im.not exposed to kids like this before
Thank you so much for reaching out and sharing your situation. Working with 4-year-olds, especially in a new school environment, can indeed be a challenging yet rewarding experience. It's completely understandable to feel a bit overwhelmed, especially if this is your first time encountering such energetic behavior.
In the Montessori approach, we focus on guiding behavior through understanding and respect. A key aspect is to observe the children closely to understand their needs and interests. This helps in creating an environment that naturally encourages positive behavior. For instance, having a variety of engaging and age-appropriate activities can help channel their energy constructively.
Also, establishing a consistent routine is crucial. Children thrive on predictability, and a well-structured day can provide them with a sense of security and order. Clear and consistent boundaries, communicated in a gentle yet firm manner, are also important. Remember, it's about guiding rather than controlling.
Additionally, positive reinforcement can work wonders. Acknowledging and praising good behavior often encourages more of the same. Lastly, patience is key. Building a new classroom culture takes time, and your calm and persistent efforts will gradually shape the environment.
You're doing an important job, and it's okay to seek help and advice. Don't hesitate to reach out to more experienced colleagues or mentors for support. Remember, every educator has been in a similar position at some point, and it's through these challenges that we grow and learn the most.
Keep up the great work, and feel free to share your progress or any further questions you might have. Best of luck on your journey with these wonderful kids!
How can i do all this Montessori methods for different age group(1yr old,5yr old with little autistic, 6yr old and 8 yr old) children's and who are cousins living in a same family with different mindset of parents nd grandparents..I would love to introduce Montessori method with kids but I'm totally confused how to do and what to do?
Give me some suggestions plzz
Plz help me.
Your best bet is to take some sort of short course to give you the basic understanding - this way you will have some direction to follow. We have a number of short and long courses to suit anyones needs. Click on this link and tell our team what you are looking for and we will help you out. sunshineteacherstraining.id/contact/
As a Montessori I struggle with communicating with parents as they don't fully know about Montessori system.. so make some vedios for teachers how to convince the parents how to remove their traditional thinking of learning .
I will try my best
My most challenging moment is my son getting sent home from school everyday and I’m a single mom full time and can’t do my work
I know how that feels.... how old is your son? Is there anyway to teach some activities to use independently?
Hi mam I have a question
Do children who are learning through montessori method be able to become doctors or engineers if they are interested in those subjects
How a child who has never gone to conventional schools can make their way in such fields ?
Montessori schools help children to develop strength and interest in all subjects. They are not forced to learn in conventional ways through which they may not feel successful. In this way, they have the ability to venture into any field they choose.
@@SunshineTeachersTraining thanks for replying
Today I saw your vedios,they are very useful for my knowledge.what is your country mam
Thanks a lot
We are based in Indonesia
I am an English teacher. My challenge is how to discipline children who speak a different language (Vietnamese). Whenever I talk to them using these steps, they just don't care. Maybe because they don't understand me. please help 🥰
Thank you for sharing your experience as an English teacher working with Vietnamese-speaking children. The challenge of language barriers in classroom discipline is a common one, and it's commendable that you're seeking effective ways to address it.
One approach could be to incorporate visual aids and non-verbal cues into your discipline methods. Children often respond well to visual signals, which can transcend language barriers. Additionally, learning some key phrases in Vietnamese, especially those related to classroom management and positive reinforcement, could significantly improve your communication with them.
Another important aspect is building a connection with your students. When children feel understood and respected, they're more likely to respond positively. This can be achieved through patience, consistent behavior, and demonstrating genuine interest in their culture and language.
If possible, seeking the assistance of a bilingual assistant or using translation tools during key communication moments might also be beneficial. Remember, discipline in Montessori is as much about guidance and understanding as it is about setting boundaries.
Please keep in mind that this process takes time, and the effort you're putting into overcoming these challenges is making a positive impact. Your dedication to understanding and adapting to the needs of your students is truly admirable. 🥰
As single parent when my kids fight with one another
Dealing with sibling squabbles as a single parent can be tough, but there are ways to handle them in a Montessori-inspired manner that promotes harmony and teaches important life skills. One approach is to encourage open communication and problem-solving. Maybe you could gather your kids for a chat when things calm down, giving each one a chance to share how they feel. For example, if they're arguing over a toy, you might say, "Let's all take turns explaining why we want to play with the toy." This helps them learn to express themselves respectfully and understand each other's perspectives.
Then, you can guide them to brainstorm solutions together. Encourage them to come up with ideas like taking turns with the toy or finding a different activity they can enjoy together. You could suggest, "What do you think about playing a game together instead?" This empowers them to find solutions that work for everyone, teaching cooperation and problem-solving along the way.
Finally, remember to praise them when they handle conflicts peacefully. Acknowledge their efforts to communicate calmly and work together, like saying, "I'm proud of how you talked it out and found a solution together." Positive reinforcement helps reinforce good behavior and encourages them to continue using these skills in the future.
By approaching sibling conflicts in this way, you're not only addressing the immediate issue but also laying the foundation for strong communication, empathy, and cooperation in your family.
Tantrums and the child being physically aggressive towards myself and others
I always ask children to stop the wrong behaviours and sit down for observing others. I will ask them to tell me if they feel ready for working. If they are not ready they will keep going to sit down and observe. Is it good, sir? Please give me an advise
And If we give children 5 minutes for stopping working . What can children know about the time with 5 minutes? Will we set up a ring or ask them by the words?
That is a good approach
You can ask them to come to the circle.
How much is the hourly pay if I have my certification please
It depends on many different factors - location, country, abilities etc
@@SunshineTeachersTraining i am in kenya and i want to pursue diploma.. how much is it
Plz advise how to start montesor class
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Yes dear Master Trainner...i have share your all the vedios with my freinds
It's easier when your child is older and understands what you say. What happens when your child is barely 2years old and doesn't really understand what you say??? What approach do you use????
We try and keep instructions simple or even modelling and showing them is very helpful
To lower down anger
Model patience and kindness
What happens if the child choose to pack up the cars without you and then the child doesn’t do it??
Hi Jacinta... I am not sure I understand your question.
Hi
I am working in a montessori school India. Can anyone suggest me the paintings to draw inside the Montessori Environment😊
"Thank you for your inquiry! In our Montessori environment, we typically don't paint the walls directly. Instead, we focus on creating reproductions of famous artworks. This approach allows us to introduce children to the world of art through renowned masterpieces, fostering an appreciation for art history and diverse artistic styles. These reproductions often serve as visual aids and educational tools, inspiring creativity and discussion among the children. If you have any specific questions about the reproductions or would like more information on how we incorporate famous artworks into our Montessori environment, please feel free to ask. We're here to help!
@@SunshineTeachersTraining Thank you, mam. I searched for pictures related to art and there are so many of them. It would be very helpful if you could suggest a few names. We are following the Montessori methodology till the elementary level (3 years to 9 years) of the age group. So selecting pictures related to art form is getting confusing. Looking forward to your response. Thank you. 🙂
Temper tantrums from my 3 year old are the worst.
I will try. and share some videos about this. soon
ok. Now my 1.5 year old is at the table (mini table with chair), and they want to leave. They keep pushing the chair out and leaving. I can take the food away once they leave, but how do I teach them to stay at the table??
Was your child hungry at this point? Maybe make sure all snacks and meals are also eaten at the table. Try to help the child absorb that meal times are at the table
You can stay with them at the table.
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Thanks for watching.
I'm very upset of My eight year old son bcz he is totally against all my wish any suggestions plz
It can be so challenging and upsetting - I understand where you are coming from. perhaps start by allowing your child to make some decisions and giving him a chance to feel in control too.
When she tell her to do something and she refuses
This is a stage she is going through. We have a video coming out next Sunday that explains why. they do this.
throwing things away when she is angry
She's is 21 months
It would be a good idea to offer her activities that allow her to throw things because she enjoys doing this.
Yes children under 2 love to throw.
Excuse me, ...cofee? why?
I am sorry. I do not understand this question :)
@@SunshineTeachersTraining Hello 🤭 Sorry, you said that we should drink a coffe, I guess it was just a joke.
Thanks for your interesting videos. I'm really thankful.
Make my child to consume fruits
Give him some choices. Allow him tto help you prepare the fruit
He can not read,write or color is book
How old is he?
She is Soo stone hearted,she also disturbs me all times because she doesnt have any siblings she doesn't have any toys she scatters the house and she cries of no person to play with
I would like two suggest for you to observe and see what her interests are and try and give her activities that match this. Also... practical life activities give a lot of satisfaction to children... cleaning, cooking etc
As much as this approach is ethical and compassionate, it doesn't prepare the child for survival in this difficult world. There are rules and hierarchies for a reason.
Most definitely... I totally agree. And we all need to follow rules for sure... but we want wan our children to follow rules out of love... not fear
@@SunshineTeachersTraining exactly, children need to understand why do they have to submit to rules so in their future they would make a logical decision before they submit to an order or a rule, that remind me of hoax caller in McDonald's and what happened to poor girls who submitted to rules that trapped them to sexual assault (watch don't pick up the phone in Netflix)
We can prepare the child for survival through Love not Fear, approaching the difficult world with compassion.
@@bridgeskylive ...that not a real world.
The videos are too long. Information is at 0840 The video also makes you have to watch another video to complete the advice. That's unhelpful. Youa re clearly now, more interested in clicks and UA-cam rewards, than giving advice and guidance.
I am sorry you feel that way. Thanks for the feedback
The videos are too long. Information is at 08:40 The video also makes you have to watch another video to complete the advice. That's unhelpful. Youa re clearly now, more interested in clicks and UA-cam rewards, than giving advice and guidance.
I am sorry you feel that way. Thanks for the feedback
I disagree and think she is taking time to spell out the steps we need to know