Bhuvan Bam shares his father’s battle with alcohol addiction

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  • Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
  • “It goes straight down to the memory lane.” When Bhuvan Bam opened up about dealing with the emotional upheaval of losing his parents. ‪@WeAreYuvaa‬
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 75

  • @Jyotigautam52870
    @Jyotigautam52870 Місяць тому +436

    All I observed..if father is alcoholic ...then there are two types of sons found in that House hold....
    1-kid will end up becoming more alcoholic n violent than father....
    2-kid will never ever touch it..never befriend a person who drinks either...never gives in peer pressure...NEVERRR...
    Me nd my bro falls in second category...m happy inspiring people like bhuvan exist 👍

    • @musafirkoul
      @musafirkoul Місяць тому +4

      Psycology in hindi

    • @firstperspective9131
      @firstperspective9131 Місяць тому +2

      agreed

    • @saurabhchaudhary1820
      @saurabhchaudhary1820 Місяць тому +4

      I also fall in the second one

    • @Omkar77O_o
      @Omkar77O_o Місяць тому +5

      Me dusre me padta hu, but I have distanced myself from friends who were alcoholics because they gave me bad vibes which wasn't good for my mental health

    • @Vruts99
      @Vruts99 Місяць тому +3

      My father belongs to second category as well. Touchwood. May more and more youth get influenced by this second category people and may we stop glorifying alcohol and its addiction via films/series/reels.

  • @aquarianfighter5384
    @aquarianfighter5384 Місяць тому +161

    At the end of video bro couldn't even control his tears. Even I do the same when I get crying kinda feeling. Stretching my hands , looking away from the person and voice getting heavy and trying to smile.

  • @shahabazbagwan9776
    @shahabazbagwan9776 Місяць тому +36

    No one can reach his mindset, Bhuvan the most powerful human in the room, i know how hospitalisation is when your parents are going through that phase, no relatives help you, it's only you, you have to manage everything job business hospital tiffin everything.

  • @sarfaraz185
    @sarfaraz185 Місяць тому +38

    Recently met a schoolmate talked for a while asked how's his family he casually said my father passed yesterday (his father was alcoholic used to trouble his mother a lot even though he loved his father but deep inside glad that he's gone)

    • @saimabdullah6933
      @saimabdullah6933 Місяць тому +2

      The person who is not protective or being problematic for families, families doesn't even care about them even at the bed of death 💯

    • @harshal343
      @harshal343 Місяць тому +2

      Yeah aisa baap family ke liye kisi curse se kam nahi hota parents are also humans they can make mistakes problem tab aati jab hum unhe bhagwan bana dete hai forgetting they are just as humans as we all are can make mistakes it's important to talk to them politely about these problems

  • @harsh8462
    @harsh8462 Місяць тому +17

    i cant even imagine the pain he had felt when he lost his parents , i can see the pain even while talking about that , but he said one thing right , "Jis gully jana nhi uske bareme sochke kya fyda"

  • @mikemjlove4988
    @mikemjlove4988 Місяць тому +87

    This is a common problem in many indian families. Alcoholic farher and chaos in home. Oftentimes parents themselves don't understand how they murder their own children's future because of their disgusting traumatizing behaviour. I appeal to younger generation to not fall for alcohol and violence. I see a lot of gen-z clubbing and partying and somehow making it sound like "fun" nd like they're "not" like their father and they're in "control" of their alcohol addiction. But i call that a BS. Once you pick on the alcohol, its always downhill from there.. all your party friends will move on but you'll be stuck in the same rut , being depressed and victim blaming others just like our fathers did.. so don't be like that, be different. Go to gym, hit those PRs, love yourself, do yoga, meditate, hang out with people who inspire you to be a better human and not the other way around.

    • @AjayDaware09
      @AjayDaware09 Місяць тому +1

      Your father also alcoholic 😕

    • @zipzap1906
      @zipzap1906 Місяць тому +1

      As a gen Z, I hate this generation

  • @edgefanCWC
    @edgefanCWC Місяць тому +54

    Lesson for the elderly misusing alcohol dependency

  • @lostgirl4932
    @lostgirl4932 Місяць тому +34

    Ok I'm crying 😭

  • @ajaymali5248
    @ajaymali5248 Місяць тому +34

    Sab kuch mil Jane ke bad bhi bhagvan kuch na kuch chin leta hai. I think this is life 🥺🙁

    • @harshal343
      @harshal343 Місяць тому

      Life is a game of ups and downs those who accept this play this game of life easily while others struggle even to live

  • @sanketpaul8504
    @sanketpaul8504 Місяць тому +32

    Could not have seen more real video in 2024

  • @mukulmayankdubey3627
    @mukulmayankdubey3627 Місяць тому +6

    MEN ARE BRAVE...

  • @tangledworld
    @tangledworld Місяць тому +3

    3:17 this made me tear up! 🥺

  • @Khushie_singh
    @Khushie_singh Місяць тому +3

    Directly or indirectly when parents are involved in any kind of toxic things it can impact kids a lot .
    Not good for upbringing and the chain is also made like this mostly where I live (metro city) violence between husband wife is pretty common and their kids turns out to be more toxic , aggresive or opposite weak , anxious etc.
    I think on parenting there should be campaigns in india ho jaye to half of the youth will be more bright and intelligent.

  • @nousinswain
    @nousinswain Місяць тому +1

    Even i lost my father due to alcohol and its been two years still Cannot except the fact he's gone forever i was 16 when he passed and I'll be turning 19 this 15th aug it hurts a lot I can never be happy again every night I cry secretly cause I'm the only one living with my mom and if she see's me crying she'll break down I never get over my daddy's death i miss him every day I'll miss him till the day I die

  • @musafirkoul
    @musafirkoul Місяць тому +7

    Bhuvan bham true fighter ❤❤❤

  • @user-lt3wl6bb1b
    @user-lt3wl6bb1b Місяць тому +3

    Same with my father he was also alcoholic phir unhone wo achanak se bnd kr diya jisse unki body function Krna bnd kr di dhire dhire wo kisi aur cheez se addict ho gye then hum sabko chhod ke chale gye kisi ko kuch nhi milta yaar aise addiction se sirf zindagi bhar ka dukh milta h bas

  • @namanojha0001
    @namanojha0001 Місяць тому +5

    Bhuvan is srk of youtube ❤❤❤

  • @KanishkHoonMai
    @KanishkHoonMai Місяць тому +1

    Sang hoon tere is a phenomenal song❤

  • @sesidharbhavaraju4239
    @sesidharbhavaraju4239 Місяць тому +43

    Bhuvan trying to control a lot.

    • @soMEone-20n
      @soMEone-20n Місяць тому +1

      Still some people ask him about their parents like in interview it hurts yar 😢🥺

  • @rahulsarwari1807
    @rahulsarwari1807 Місяць тому +1

    You are a GEM bhuvan❤

  • @YashSingh-vp7ru
    @YashSingh-vp7ru Місяць тому +14

    Men
    Just men

  • @yahyaahmad7378
    @yahyaahmad7378 Місяць тому +32

    bros acting like his therapist

    • @JanKut
      @JanKut Місяць тому +9

      hes far from a therapist, the host instead seems so uncomfortable for some reason

    • @zipzap1906
      @zipzap1906 Місяць тому

      ​@@JanKuthost looks like a rich kid who haven't feltl 10 percent of buivan's pain

    • @JanKut
      @JanKut Місяць тому +2

      @@zipzap1906 well you dont know what the host has gone through, the host should have been a bit more empathetic

  • @chayadas9356
    @chayadas9356 Місяць тому

    God bless you bhuvan,,, ❤❤

  • @JasdeepSingh-dp8ns
    @JasdeepSingh-dp8ns Місяць тому +1

    Bhuvan is the real alpha male

  • @anujprazapaty
    @anujprazapaty Місяць тому

    Same here bro😢

  • @KshitijMantri-wp2wu
    @KshitijMantri-wp2wu Місяць тому +2

    why can't we have some interviewer who actually ask some good question rather than talking like a 🤡

  • @Mikewill67
    @Mikewill67 Місяць тому +7

    Soch te nahi h fida nahi h

  • @Hharshit01
    @Hharshit01 Місяць тому +2

    BB needs no introduction.

  • @AdityaKumar-in5bw
    @AdityaKumar-in5bw Місяць тому +3

    Bablu ji toh alcoholic nikle😢

  • @AndrewS-i3s
    @AndrewS-i3s 2 дні тому

    So many programs out there that promise you'll quit drinking from one day to the next and feel great for the rest of your life. Listen, Steffon Barkload's Quit Drinking Forever takes a lighter, safer approach which you decide to go with at your own pace. Best shortcut I go’ogled that only took days to rewire my brain to continually experience mental peace.

  • @viralsahil2
    @viralsahil2 Місяць тому

    He is next shahrukh khan❤

  • @nitish915
    @nitish915 Місяць тому +2

    Gujrat me daru??😊

  • @OnlyDeba96
    @OnlyDeba96 Місяць тому +1

    Anyone in 2024/2025/2026? 😕

  • @mohannadar8u873
    @mohannadar8u873 Місяць тому +3

    Alcohol destroy family. His father drink RS. SRK promote RS

    • @Seoyeaji921
      @Seoyeaji921 Місяць тому

      Ad har koi actors ad dete hai Ajay vimal as deta hai aur Akshay bhi deta hai none of you hold them accountable. You all just wanna blame and judge srk but you know what? everybody is responsible for their own actions you cant just criticize srk.damn haters.

  • @akash_agrawal
    @akash_agrawal Місяць тому +1

    Koi bhi mard jaan booj ke shauk me nahi peeta jawani ki baat alag hai magar family aane ke baad jab responsibility aa jaati hai stress aa jaata hai wo ho jaata hai magar pata hai isko jayada worse kuan banata hai ghar ke log biwi bacche baar baar us insaan ko koske galat bolke jhada karke.
    Jisse chodna toh door woh or jayada or jaati hai hai because he is too stuck in that hole and wants to get out of it
    As a family if you can't understand your father or better half you failed him as a member there are exceptions but most of the cases jab mard ko wo pyaar or support family ke side se mil jaata hai na toh wo apne aap chuth jaati hai
    Isliye to all the ones out there if you have something like this in your family go and talk to him sit with him, spend time with hum before it's too late.

    • @sramanadas5682
      @sramanadas5682 Місяць тому +2

      I agree with your point that stress causes addiction but not all people who have stress and responsibilities are addicts , they choose to be addicts.
      The biggest problem with addicts is that they themselves don't consider themselves as one and deny it causing trauma and harm to the entire family. Also another problem is Indians don't go to therapists and think " mental problems" as something dirty and secret .
      Only an addict can make themselves be free , nobody else. They are not the victims and themselves should want help from rehab if they want to better themselves.

  • @arnavrath2997
    @arnavrath2997 Місяць тому +4

    Bablu ji daaru pite hai?

  • @worthyCap17
    @worthyCap17 Місяць тому +1

    Bhai jivan ki masti mein doobe the...
    Parents k covid ko seriously nahi liya..
    Aur ab pata nahi kaun kaun sa sympathy wala dukhda ro rahe hain.
    Pure evils of 21st century..
    Like evil politicians.
    Angel from body,
    Soul of a devil.

  • @sasmitpal9283
    @sasmitpal9283 Місяць тому

    ....

  • @nandishhalemani4203
    @nandishhalemani4203 Місяць тому +1

    I have been in that situation it's too hard and it's come to me now and then

  • @SuperNikhil000
    @SuperNikhil000 20 днів тому

    Bhuvan ram threshold breach kar gya hai